Live an Intentional Life

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By: Dr Natalie Barre

This is the Live an Intentional Life podcast, where you'll learn everything you need to know to help take back control of your days and craft the life of your dreams. Hosted by Dr Natalie Barre, former neuropsychologist turned time management coach, this podcast will help you to move from busy and burnt out to feeling at ease and accomplished.I cover time management, cognition, procrastination, rest, planning, and so much more, so that you can get rid of the hustle and spend time doing what you want to be doing.  

33: Easy Mid-Year Goals Review, and How I’m Applying It
#33
Yesterday at 7:00 PM

It’s time for a mid-year goal review! And it’s going to be easy. Here are two questions that you can ask yourself when reviewing your goals - at ANY time of year in fact. Reviewing your goals is so important to help you stay on track, and decide if you even want to keep pursuing them in the first place.

In this episode, I also talk about how I applied these two questions to my own personal goals, and what my plan is going forward.

Need to work out exactly how to set goal...


32: 6 Helpful Beliefs I Choose to Think
#32
06/01/2025

Did you know that you don’t have to believe everything your brain says to you?

You can examine your thoughts, and decide if you want to change it to a more helpful one.

In this episode, I’m sharing with you 6 helpful beliefs that I am saying to myself at the moment, so I can feel more supported during challenging times. 

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31: Rewiring Your Thoughts with The Mindset Nutritionist Caroline Silk
#31
05/25/2025

Today I’m speaking with The Mindset Nutritionist Caroline Silk.

We had a powerful conversation today about mindset, subconscious beliefs, identity, and how to actually change your thoughts so that you can stop living on autopilot and start becoming the beautiful person that you are.

Caroline gave a lot of great examples about weightloss, but she also talked about how these concepts relate to any area of your life, so I know you’ll take away some important messages about the way that your thinking influences your life.

You can find Caroline at the...


30: Timeblocking vs Timeboxing, and Which One I Do For Efficiency and Ease
#30
05/11/2025

If you’re confused about different time management techniques, like timeblocking and timeboxing, then it’s time to get some clarity. Time management should not be overwhelming!

In this episode, I explain what these terms mean, and which simple technique I like to use to make sure I get my tasks done with the most ease.

References:

Francis‐Smythe, J. A., & Robertson, I. T. (1999). On the relationship between time management and time estimation. British Journal of Psychology, 90(3), 333-347.

Buehler, R., Griffin, D., & Ross, M. (1994). Exploring the" planning fallacy": Why people underestimate their...


29: Stop Using the Pomodoro Technique: Try This Instead
#29
05/04/2025

Ever used the Pomodoro technique? It might not be the best way to get things done, so in this episode I explain why it’s problematic, and exactly what you can do instead to work with your brain.

Further reading and references:

Francesco Cirillo’s Pomodoro Technique publication from 2006 can be downloaded here: https://friend.ucsd.edu/reasonableexpectations/downloads/Cirillo%20--%20Pomodoro%20Technique.pdf

Chang, Y. K., Labban, J. D., Gapin, J. I., & Etnier, J. L. (2012). The effects of acute exercise on cognitive performance: a meta-analysis. Brain research, 1453, 87-101.

Harris, D. J...


28: When life feels busy, how do you decide what to do with your time?
#28
04/27/2025

How do you allocate your time when things feel really busy? What about when something is completed and you have more time?

The short answer is that you just do what needs to be done, but what if there was more to this idea?

In this episode I share my thoughts about how exactly we can decide on how we allocate the fixed time we have in any given week.

You’ll hear about…

✨My take on work-life balance

✨How the ‘commitment conundrum’ can make you feel spread too thin

✨...


27: Quarter 1 Goals Review and When Things Go Wrong
#27
03/30/2025

I had intended to do a Q1 review for this episode - and I have, but with a twist.

This year has probably been my most challenging year so far. I’ve had some things really knock me off course, and so in this episode I take you through how I navigated that - what my original plans for the first 3 months of 2025 were, and what I actually did instead.

Get your own list of current goals (even if you’re not listening to this in real time), and answer the review questions I have for...


26: Meaningful Goals, Implementing Habits, and the Power of Dreaming: I’m Interviewed by Dr Bree Hurn!
#26
03/23/2025

You are going to get a whole range of tips from this rich conversation, where Dr Bree Hurn interviews me for her own podcast Habit Nerd. This episode was so inspiring, that I wanted to replay it for you here.

In this episode, you’ll hear us talk about…

Drivers of habits like identity and feelingsHabit stackingMental decision making and preparation that goes into habit formationTriggers of bad habitsHow to set meaningful goalsCourage to make big changes to your lifeUsing a planner to find the time you needThe power of self-efficacy and dreamingAnd so much more!

If...


25: Improve Your Happiness Using Your Thinking Skills: Happiness Part 2
#25
03/16/2025

The science of happiness is an important topic, because we all want to be happy - but we don’t always know how to get there.

In the second part of the episodes on happiness, I dive into the relationship between happiness and cognition - how your thinking influences your happiness.

This is a powerful topic, and one that you don’t hear much about in personal development!

Understanding happiness and cognition is really going to have a strong influence on your own wellbeing so that you can further enhance the quality of your...


24: Want to Feel Happier? Understand What it is and What You Can Do: Happiness Part 1
#24
03/09/2025

Wanting to feel happier is a worthwhile goal - we want to feel good and improve our wellbeing in this one wild and precious life of ours.

“Feeling happier” can be elusive, so understanding what happiness is, why it’s important, and what you can do to change it will really alter the experience of your life.

Listen to this episode for evidence-based strategies on feeling happy.

Check out the following episode for part 2!


References mentioned in this article:

Alexander, R., Aragón, O. R., Bookwala, J., Che...


23: How to Stop Procrastinating: Evidence-Based Strategies to Beat This Problematic Behaviour
#23
03/02/2025

If you have ever procrastinated (hello, everyone!) then you will know that it can lead you feeling even worse than if you had just done the task in the first place! Why do we do this to ourselves?! 

You are not a procrastinator, and you are not lazy. In this episode, I explain that procrastination is a behaviour, and that this behaviour can be changed. 

I’m going to take you through evidence-based tips so you can really understand why you procrastinate on a certain task, and what you can do about it. 

Kick...


22: The Power to Design Your Own Destiny with Sharne Perrett
#22
02/23/2025

Sharne Perrett is on the show sharing her story of being a working mum, and wow does she have some wisdom for you!

We had a wonderful chat and covered…

✨Working smarter not harder

✨Presence and the little moments

✨How she plans her week and balances all the facets of her life

✨Hitting big goals

✨Her amazing health transformation

✨Giving hard things a go

✨Time mindset

✨Empowerment and designing your own destiny

I know you will take a lot from this episode...


21: An Evening With Elizabeth Gilbert: Reflections on this Inspiring Event
#21
02/16/2025

Seeing Elizabeth Gilbert on her speaking tour (on my birthday!) was inspiring and thought-provoking. She is the author of Eat Pray Love, and Big Magic (my favourite book!), and in this episode I reflect on what Elizabeth said, and offer my own interpretations and extensions of the ideas. This is truly an inspiring episode where you’ll hear all about curiosity, purpose, calm, and presence.

Get Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert with my Amazon Affiliate link: https://amzn.to/3BErYxk

Also mentioned in the episode, the book Resilient by Dr Rick Hanson with Forrest Hanson wh...


20: Equity, the Mental Load, and Time Management with Samantha Sutherland
#20
02/09/2025

Samantha Sutherland wants to create a world that works for working women, and in this episode she talks all about mental load, work-life balance, quality leisure time, priorities, and setting goals.

You’ll be enlightened by her systemic perspective and her own personal experiences, I can’t wait for you to hear it!

Samantha’s links:

Website: https://samanthasutherland.com.au/

Book Samantha for an IWD speaking event: https://samanthasutherland.com.au/wp-content/uploads/2025/01/IWD25-Samantha-Sutherland.pdf

The Women at Work Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/women-at-work/id1315...


19: Celebrate Your Wins to Combat the Negativity Bias
#19
02/02/2025

Do you ever stop to celebrate your wins? In this episode I explain the three things to focus on when celebrating your wins, so you can combat the brain’s natural negativity bias and improve your overall wellbeing.

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18: Unlock Free Time by Using Your Evenings Wisely
#18
01/26/2025

If you want more time to do the things that are meaningful to you, this episode will cover how you can use your evenings to do exactly that.

Even if you are a busy working parent who is exhausted by the end of the day, you will soon be looking at your evenings very differently!

Don’t believe you have enough free time? Check out Laura Vanderkam’s book 168 hours, and use my amazon affiliate link: https://amzn.to/4fFDAxT

📚 Prefer to read? Check out this episode on the blog! https://liveanintentionallife.com.au/blog...


17: Vision Boards: The Powerful Process of Getting Your Brain to Work on Your Dreams
#17
01/19/2025

Let me show you exactly how powerful vision boards can be to craft the life of your dreams.

If you’ve been reluctant to create a vision board, maybe because you don’t believe in the power of the universe, or because you thought they were just for crafty people, think again. In this episode I’m going to explain how the vast power of your brain works to match the dreams on your vision board to your future experiences.

Listen to the episode, and you’ll be creating a potent vision board in no time.


16: How Identity Shapes Your Habits: Dr Bree Hurn
#16
01/12/2025

Dr Bree Hurn is the Habit Nerd, and in this episode we have an insightful chat about how habits can move you closer to the person you want to be.

Dr Hurn explains how habits are aligned with your identity, and what you can do to create healthy habits and move towards the best version of you.

Guided by her values and how she wants to feel, Dr Hurn discusses how she plans her week in advance to make sure she is prioritising the right things, and even how colour-coding can help her avoid resentment...


15: One Goal or Many? Learn How Many Goals is the Best Number to Set.
#15
01/05/2025

How many goals should you set? Hint: It’s not what you think.

So many sources online tell you to set “One to Three goals”, but I have two problems with this. First, they don’t specify a time period - one to three per day? Per year? Second, no one seems to cite a reputable source when listing this recommendation.

In this episode, you’ll learn some fascinating information from the goal-setting research, and that the idea of the number of goals to set is more nuanced that you realise.

You’ll walk away wi...


14: Setting Goals Will Change Your Life
#14
12/29/2024

If you have ever felt like setting goals or New Year’s resolutions were futile, or tokenistic, then let me tell you that you can learn a better way and live your most meaningful and fulfilling life.

In this episode I’ll explain why setting goals will absolutely change your life.

📚 Prefer to read? Check out this episode on the blog! https://liveanintentionallife.com.au/blog/setting-goals-will-change-your-life

➡️Access to the free goal-setting workshop, Setting GLORIOUS GOALS, is closed.  Be sure to keep an ear out in case I hold it again!  

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13: Four Questions to Help You Plan Your Most Meaningful New Year's Resolutions
#13
11/10/2024

It’s the final episode for 2024! And I want to plant the seed for your most meaningful new years resolutions or goals for 2025. I’m asking you four questions to get you thinking about goals in a new way, so that you can consider where you’re at, and what you really want to be doing.

Be sure to also stay tuned for the return episode very early in 2025, so that we can continue the conversation about setting goals that you can actually achieve.

Here’s my Amazon Affiliate link (where I get a small commissi...


12: Use Visualisation for Ultimate Success
#12
11/03/2024

You have probably heard that athletes visualise winning moments in their minds to help prepare them for a big game - it helps calm their nerves, they know clearly what to do, and it can increase success.

But did you know that you can use visualisation in other areas of your life as well, to do things like improve confidence and reduce the effect of anxiety?

If you want to take your personal development to the next level, then visualisation is the tool you need in your toolbox. In this episode, I’m explaining all th...


11: Stuck? You Need to Hear This. Start Where You’re at and Make the Smallest of Changes.
#11
10/27/2024

I felt compelled this week to give you a short episode on how to start where you’re at.

If you are stuck with your time management, and know there’s more to life but it all feels just too much - just start where you’re at.

In this episode I give you permission to take the smallest of steps, and I explain what those steps might be for you.

📚 Prefer to read? Check out this episode on the blog! https://liveanintentionallife.com.au/blog/feeling-stuck

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10: A Week-in-the-Life of This Busy Working Parent: A Behind-the-Scenes Look at How I Plan My Days
#10
10/20/2024

Ever wanted to know EXACTLY how I plan my days? I have two businesses, a big family, and lots of other elements of my life, and it’s a juggle! Listen to this week-in-the-life episode to get an in-depth look at how I schedule everything in, and what happens when things don’t go to plan!

In this episode I cover:

How I plan my weeks and daysWhat planners I useMy mindset around timeFlexible planning and interruptionsWhite space and sleep

Plus the whole behind-the-scenes look at my life!

Links I mention:

My A...


9: Get Better Sleep With These Tips Your Brain Will Love
#9
10/13/2024

Not getting enough sleep? Lying awake thinking too much, and wondering if you’ll ever sleep again?

Sleep is SO IMPORTANT, and so I cover my favourite sleep tips in this episode, and what can happen to your cognition and mood when you don’t get enough sleep.

📚 Prefer to read? Check out this episode on the blog! https://liveanintentionallife.com.au/blog/get-better-sleep-with-these-tips-your-brain-will-love

References:

Quote from Prof David Dinges came from: Worley, S. L. (2018). The extraordinary importance of sleep: the detrimental effects of inadequate sleep on health and public safety drive a...


8. Feeling Overwhelmed? Stuck? Too Busy? Unproductive? Take a Peek Inside My Time Management Course TIMEWISE
#8
10/06/2024

Have ever felt overwhelmed, stuck, too busy, or unproductive? I think we all have. You can learn how to prioritise what’s meaningful to you, structure your day, and create a holistic and sustainable plan for your life. Time management is so much more than setting timers and putting your phone on silent - it’s a holistic look at the way in which you allocate time during this one wild and precious life.

I hit a pretty difficult point a few years ago, and it was from these challenges and my expertise in cognition that I deve...


7: Your Dream Life: 3 Questions to Inspire You to See What’s Possible
#7
09/29/2024

Do you know what it is you want from your life? Maybe you’re feeling stuck, or disillusioned, or maybe you know that your good life can be even more amazing and you want some help exploring that.

In this episode, I’m going to take you through a dreaming exercise, asking you three powerful questions to help take a look at your life, open your mind, and consider what else might be possible for you.

If you’ve ever thought that things can’t change for the better, then you have to listen. Grab somethin...


6: Plan Your Day so You Can do Meaningful Work and Deal Effectively with Interruptions
#6
09/22/2024

How are you using your time? Are you someone who often says “I don’t have time?” I like to change my phrasing around this and instead say “I’m not prioritising that right now,” because we all in fact have the same 24 hours in a day.

Whether you consider yourself a “planner,” or have never planned your days before, this episode will help you move towards the life of your dreams.

I’m going to show you that taking time to plan your day is going to help you achieve what you want to get done, and that...


5: How to Meditate to Become More Focused, More in Control of Your Emotions, and Less Stressed
#5
09/15/2024

Did you know that there is a way to train your attention, feel more emotionally regulated, and generally feel less stressed? And it only takes a few minutes a day. It costs nothing, and it’s something you can do with your kids too. It’s meditation, and it’s something that you can easily learn even if you are not a spiritual person.

In this episode I’m going to cover how to meditate, so that if you’re a beginner you can feel comfortable getting started, and what actually happens when you meditate. Listen out for the am...


4: How to Focus, Do Deep Work, and Make the Most of Your Time
#4
09/08/2024

Struggling to focus? There are so many distractions these days, and it’s hard to know how to sit down and do deep work. Without an intentional plan, you may get to the end of the day and realise you didn’t actually do what you should have done, and you end up feeling frustrated and defeated.

Doing meaningful work is satisfying and important, and in this episode you’ll learn exactly how to focus your attention so that you can work at your best. I explain a two-part framework of how the attention system actually works, and th...


3: 5 Ways You Can Use Your Working Memory to Reduce Stress
#3
08/31/2024

Have you ever felt so overwhelmed, like your brain is totally full and you just can’t think straight?! In this episode, I’m going to show you five tips on how to support your brain so that you can kick stress to the curb.

Your working memory is a really important cognitive skill, and I explain what it is, how it works, and exactly what you can do today to start reducing the load on your mind so that you can feel more at ease.

📚 Prefer to read? Check out this episode on the blog! h...


2: Living My Dream Life: My Personal Story of Career Change and Life Upheaval
#2
08/30/2024

I have had some pretty major changes in my life, and it’s only been in the last 7 years or so that I’ve really intentionally decided what I want from my life, and took small regular actions to get there.

This is my story on what I went through when my marriage ended, and how I changed my career from neuropsychologist to graphic designer and life coach.

I also discuss four lessons that I’m working on at the moment in my personal development.

Listen to this episode to be inspired to dream...


1: Live an Intentional Life: 12 Principles to Crafting the Life of Your Dreams
#1
08/27/2024

In this very first episode I share 12 principles to living an intentional life, which is what my business is all about. My focus in the personal development space is on learning about your cognition and how your brain works, so that you can find that elusive balance between meaningful work, quality play, and restful sleep.

This podcast is for you if you are a working parent who is burning the candle at both ends, but want to spend your days doing the stuff that lights you up - but you don’t know where to start! You’re o...