Brandon The Dom

Tired of unfulfilling situationships? Learn the simple (but sometimes hard to do) practice to build a more fulfilling relationship.

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Today's video offers guidance on incorporating face slapping into rough play, focusing on safety and technique. Learn how to ensure a positive experience with these sex education tips. This step-by-step guide to face slapping provides crucial safety tips.

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Cumming to quickly? Want to increase the amount of time you have intercourse? This video will breakdown everything you need to know about lasting longer during in the bedroom including the one must know concept of PNR and 7 techniques that will take from ejaculating in mere minutes to lasting as long as you'd like.

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Can BDSM be healing for those who have experienced their consent being abused?   @Andy_Wells and I discuss navigating consent, helping women through bad past experiences, speaking up for needs, and how men can be judged and shamed in the bedroom too.

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Today we're diving into the world of hair pulling and sex, but we're focusing on proper techniques. Learn how to make hair pulling a pleasurable experience, not a painful one. Explore the best way to achieve mutual pleasure with these sex education tips.

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Feeling down after a scene? You might be experiencing sub drop, a common occurrence in the BDSM world. This video helps you understand the feelings associated with sub drop and offers simple tips on how to navigate it with your dominant and submissive partner.

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Learn how to manhandle your submissive in the bedroom so she can feel your Dominance and intensify her pleasure in sex and BDSM play.

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Learn the secret to taming brats, misconceptions about brats, different brats you might run into, effective strategies and mindsets for being a brat tamer, and example punishments for brats.

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Daygame & Dating Coach, Thomas Crown reviews my recent book, Enter the Dom: The No BS Book on Dominance. He gave Mario and I some in depth feedback about the book. The book is part self-help, part-BDSM introduction, and aims to help men discover their dominance and explore their sexual fantasies.

We had a great idea for me to give my feedback and discuss the book as a podcast. I hope you enjoy the discussion.

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Want to become a better Dominant? In this powerful and candid interview, three experienced Doms share real talk on what it truly means to lead in the bedroom—and beyond.

We dive into:
- The true essence of dominance
- Common mistakes new Doms make
- What to do your first time with a new submissive
- How to step into a dominant mindset
- Proven tools, tips, and techniques
- Plus, some hilarious and eye-opening stories from the field

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Learn 5 techniques, risks and considerations for engaging in erotic choking (erotic asphyxiation) and how to safely incorporate it into sex and BDSM play with your submissive.

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Want to start getting into the kink scene and community? Try a munch, a social gathering for kinky people. In this video, learn what happens at munches, what to talk about, how to act, and where to find them.

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Learn the best techniques and positions for delivering an unforgettable spanking experience for your submissive.

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If you think being a Pleasure Dom is just about giving orgasms, you're mistaken. In this video, I will reveal to you what a Pleasure Dom is, their psychology, nine sexy tools to use as a Pleasure Dom, how to be submissive for one, and an example scene for you to try.

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In this episode, Brandon the Dom will explain seven powerful tactics to help you overcome sexual shame and embrace your sexuality. If you struggle with feelings of shame around sex, this video is for you.

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Are you craving more dominance from your man in the bedroom? In this episode, Brandon the Dom reveals 5 psychology-based steps to naturally encourage and draw out his dominant masculine energy. Perfect for women who love their partner's caring nature but want him to take more control intimately. Learn how to create the right environment for his dominance to flourish without nagging or criticism.

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In this video, Brandon the Dom explains the concept of subspace in the BDSM scene, detailing its euphoric and trance-like nature. He discusses why subspace occurs, the risks involved, and how to achieve and safely transition out of it to avoid subdrop. Brandon also shares his personal updates and provides insights into related research studies, the complementary state of 'Domspace', and aftercare practices.

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In this episode, Brandon the Dom introduces the concept of a 'sex menu' as a powerful communication tool for couples to express their desires effectively. This framework involves creating a comprehensive list of sexual acts and using a rating system to indicate preference levels, alongside detailed notes to enhance clarity. It aims to foster open communication, consent, and exploration of new experiences in intimate relationships. Whether in monogamous or non-monogamous settings, the sex menu helps couples share and update their evolving desires and boundaries, while respecting each other's needs and fostering a non-judgmental environment. Viewers are encouraged to download...

In this episode, Brandon the Dom shares what to do if you're struggling in a sexually incompatible relationship. He explains why this occurring based on libidos being mismatched or having different sex drives, desires, or relationship structures you wish to pursue. He also shares questions to ask yourself and signs to look out for. Finally, he gives you three options so you can fix your sexual incompatibility and return to a thriving sex life.

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In this episode, Brandon the Dom shares how to assign sex homework or BDSM tasks to your submissive in order to improve your Dom sub dynamic and helping your submissive grow. He explains how to give tasks using systems, set deadlines, and creating the appropriate rewards and punishments for the homework tasks. Then he shares example task, rules, and rituals that can be done for sex homework for vanilla goals, sexual training, her self awareness, her self care, foreplay, getting her into submissive headspace, and making your life easier as a Dom.

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In this episode, Brandon the Dom addresses the common issue of sexual performance anxiety, explaining what it is, why it occurs, and providing effective strategies to overcome it. He discusses the psychological and physiological factors behind erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation, and emphasizes the importance of reframing beliefs and focusing on pleasure rather than performance. Brandon also shares his personal experiences and offers practical techniques, including mindfulness meditation, communication with partners, and Sensate Focus exercises, to help men get out of their heads and back into their bodies for a more satisfying sex life.

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In this episode, Brandon the Dom explores the concept of attachment styles and their impact on relationships and intimate life. He explains the four types of attachment styles—secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized—detailing how each one is formed and its effects on adult behavior. Brandon also provides practical tools and strategies for developing a more secure attachment style, offering valuable insights for anyone looking to improve their emotional health and relationship dynamics.

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In this video, Brandon the Dom addresses the common fears of sharing intimate fantasies and desires with a partner, fearing judgment or rejection. He offers five practical tools to effectively communicate these turn-ons in a non-judgmental and open environment. These tools include desire statements, pillow talk, sexual bucket lists, sex menus, and sexual disclosure, each designed to foster trust, understanding, and vulnerability in the relationship. Brandon also emphasizes the importance of practicing these methods to build a strong, accepting container where both partners can openly share and explore their desires.

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In this episode, Brandon the Dom delves into the importance of understanding one's own desires and turn-ons. He introduces three tools to explore the erotic mind: an erotic journal, erotic quizzes, and a sexual disclosure with a trusted partner. Brandon covers the significance of Jack Morin's concept of the core erotic theme and explains how to use these tools to gain a deeper understanding of your turn-ons, which in turn allows better communication with your partner.

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In this episode, Brandon the Dom provides a comprehensive roadmap to developing sexual dominance in the bedroom. He explains why your partner may desire dominance and outlines specific acts you can perform, from low to extreme dominance, ensuring healthy communication and consent. Brandon covers how to start with basic acts like kissing and dirty talk, progressing to more skill-intensive acts, and the importance of sequencing, maintaining tension, and building confidence. Learn how to make your partner feel desired, safe, and loved while mastering the art of dominance.

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Join Brandon the Dom as he presents a comprehensive guide to Tantra, including its spiritual roots and practical applications for enhanced sex life and personal growth. Learn the key differences between traditional Tantra and Neo Tantra, explore the philosophies behind Tantra's practices, and discover the three essential pillars: eye contact, touch, and breath. Gain insights on integrating these principles into your intimate moments to deepen emotional connections, achieve heightened pleasure, and possibly reach a sense of divinity. Brandon also provides resources for further learning and offers free coaching sessions for personalized guidance.

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In this episode, Brandon the Dom delves into evaluating long-term life partners. Drawing from his personal experiences, Brandon explores how to assess your partner's alignment with your life purpose. He outlines five stages of relationships—need fulfillment, mutual benefit, romantic trial period, engagement/resource trial period, and full commitment—highlighting the importance of aligning purposes for a successful partnership. Brandon also provides practical advice for both monogamous and non-monogamous relationships.

In this episode, Brandon the Dom discusses seven crucial behaviors that make a good submissive in a dominant-submissive (DS) relationship. These behaviors, which complement those required of a good Dom, include service towards the Dom's vision, respect and trust, challenging the structure when necessary, effective communication, play and servicing pleasure, openness to learning, and serving with intention and love. These practices aim to create a stronger, more cohesive dynamic between Dom and submissive, emphasizing teamwork and mutual growth. For more insights, visit brandonthedom.com.

In this episode, Brandon the Dom discusses seven crucial behaviors that make a good dominant in BDSM. Moving beyond basic consent and research, these behaviors delve into deeper concepts like leadership, responsibility, order, communication, awareness, education, and love. Brandon explains the importance of each behavior, offering insights and practical examples for both dominants and submissives to enhance their dynamics. He emphasizes creating trust, clear communication, and fostering growth while maintaining a healthy, safe, and consensual environment.