That Other Lifestyle

Good morning, good afternoon, good evening.  Jason connects Charles Dickens’ A Christmas Carol (via the Muppet version) to the lifestyle world, using the ghosts of past, present, and future as metaphors for memories, party energy, and long-term consequences. He shares personal holiday stories about raves, parties, shame, joy, boundaries, and community, urging listeners to come in, connect, and care for each other as the year turns.   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.comhttps://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyleSingle Men's Guide to the Lifestyle CourseRisque Lifestyle PartiesSDC.comSTDHero.comHellowisp.com

Jason uses a map-and-sea metaphor to unpack sexual dynamics in the lifestyle: desire, power, connection, and risk. He stresses clear communication, consent, and rejecting shame while exploring examples like FFM vs FMF, full swap nuances, and bisexuality. Practical takeaways include naming preferences, setting boundaries with partners, avoiding escalatory pressure, and choosing whether to keep exploring or anchor in a dynamic that fits you.   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.comhttps://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyleSingle Men's Guide to the Lifestyle CourseRisque Lifestyle PartiesSDC.comSTDHero.comHellowisp.com

Jason walks through everything you need to know to plan and host a lifestyle meetup, from choosing a venue and talking to managers to promotion, vetting, and managing the crowd. He covers public vs. private events, budgeting and ticketing, safety and discretion, dealing with problem attendees, and tips for welcoming newbies and building lasting events. This episode is a practical, honest, and inclusive how‑to for anyone who wants to start a meetup or make their next event better.   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.comhttps://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyleSingle Men's Guide to the Lifestyle CourseRisque Lifestyle PartiesSDC.comSTDHero.comHellowisp.com

Host Jason sits down with Bella, a retired sex therapist, and her husband Prescott to share their origin story in the lifestyle, how they worked through jealousy, and the tools that strengthened their relationship. The episode covers practical advice for dating app profiles, privacy and validation tips, speed dates and travel strategies, and communication exercises like the “what if” game and jealousy workbooks. Listeners will get candid, adult-focused conversations about consent, building trust, navigating emotions, and resources and courses from the guests to help newcomers and experienced lifestyle participants alike. www.instagram.com/TheFlirtyPineapples/   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.comhttps://benable.com/T...

Host Jason returns from a spontaneous hiatus and shares a personal, candid journey through the lifestyle, using elevators and a stolen sailboat as metaphors for transitions, uncertainty, and self-discovery. The episode also serves as a primer on the lifestyle: foundational principles like consent, body positivity, and sexual freedom; practical advice on testing, communication, labels, and finding your tribe; and an invitation to explore the community on your own terms.   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.comhttps://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyleSingle Men's Guide to the Lifestyle CourseRisque Lifestyle PartiesSDC.comSTDHero.comHellowisp.com

Jason shares a candid, adult story from the lifestyle scene as he watches his wife shine at a rave, reflects on love, compersion, and growth in their relationship, and connects with a new friend. Between vivid moments of desire, vulnerability, and devotion, he announces a brief podcast break to recharge and promises to return with fresh stories and energy.   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.comhttps://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyleSingle Men's Guide to the Lifestyle CourseRisque Lifestyle PartiesSDC.comSTDHero.comHellowisp.com

Jason reflects on the transformative friendship with a woman he calls Lotus, sharing lessons about emotional space, setting boundaries, protecting your mental health, and navigating the complexities of the non-monogamous lifestyle. This episode blends personal confession, spiritual insight, and practical advice on asking for help, honoring feelings, and choosing where to invest your time and energy.   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.comhttps://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyleSingle Men's Guide to the Lifestyle CourseRisque Lifestyle PartiesSDC.comSTDHero.comHellowisp.com

Good morning, good afternoon, good evening. Wherever you are, this episode breaks down why your physical spot at lifestyle events matters and gives blunt, practical advice for meeting people: accept harsh truths (no one’s watching you), become memorable, use the Rule of Five, read groups, and—most importantly—change your spot to put yourself in the mix. Short, direct, and aimed at helping you feel less anxious and more effective in social settings.   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.comhttps://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyleSingle Men's Guide to the Lifestyle CourseRisque Lifestyle PartiesSDC.comSTDHero.comHellowisp.com

Jason recounts his weekend at the Pulsify takeover and shares the origin story of how he and his wife found the lifestyle, not for sex, but to build friendships and a social tribe after years of loneliness. He reflects on the emotional moment at the beach that started it all, the awkward early experiences, and lessons learned about communication and safety. This episode mixes candid vulnerability with humor, advice on navigating swinger culture (including testing and boundaries), and a reminder that the lifestyle can be a meaningful way to find community and connection. My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.comhttps://benable.com...

Host Jason reflects on late-night memories from the lifestyle, celebrating quiet, mundane moments—coffee, slow dances, shared jokes—that often mean more than the wild sexual adventures. Through personal stories, he explores how attention, friendship, and simple human connection deepen relationships in ethical non-monogamy and invites listeners to make new memories together.   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.comhttps://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyleSingle Men's Guide to the Lifestyle CourseRisque Lifestyle PartiesSDC.comSTDHero.comHellowisp.com

Jason celebrates his birthday by sharing playful, practical gift ideas for friends in the lifestyle, from discreet sex toys, robes, and squirt blankets to themed pineapple keepsakes and thoughtful non-sex gifts. He also stresses STI testing with a recommendation for discreet at-home kits and offers do's and don'ts for giving without pressure or expectations.   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.comhttps://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyleSingle Men's Guide to the Lifestyle CourseRisque Lifestyle PartiesSDC.comSTDHero.comHellowisp.com

In this raw, unfiltered episode, Jason shares a personal breakdown and recovery from mental health struggles within the lifestyle community. He explores themes of anxiety, disordered attachment, therapy, the challenges unique to the lifestyle, and the importance of honest communication and support.   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.comhttps://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyleSingle Men's Guide to the Lifestyle CourseRisque Lifestyle PartiesSDC.comSTDHero.comHellowisp.com

(Reupload) Host Jason explores what happens when the swinger/lifestyle scene stops being fun — why couples consider breaks or endings, how to have honest conversations, and the toll of burnout, drama, and mental health. He shares practical steps for stepping back or leaving gracefully, what life can look like afterward, and reassurance that questioning or changing your participation is normal and okay.   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.comhttps://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyleSingle Men's Guide to the Lifestyle CourseRisque Lifestyle PartiesSDC.comSTDHero.comHellowisp.com

Host Jason shares laughable and cringe-worthy stories of bad dates from the lifestyle scene, from awkward dinner conversations and red flags to dealing with flaky or arrogant couples. He offers practical tips on what to watch for, how to exit a bad date, and why these misadventures can become campfire stories.   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.comhttps://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyleSingle Men's Guide to the Lifestyle CourseRisque Lifestyle PartiesSDC.comSTDHero.comHellowisp.com

Host Jason explores the moment the lifestyle stops being enjoyable — from bad experiences, burnout, and mental health concerns to the differences between taking a break and ending participation. He offers practical steps for stepping back, communicating with your partner, and handling social fallout. This episode reassures listeners they are not alone, discusses rebuilding life after leaving the lifestyle, and emphasizes boundaries, self-care, and the option to return on your own terms.   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.comhttps://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyleSingle Men's Guide to the Lifestyle CourseRisque Lifestyle PartiesSDC.comSTDHero.comHellowisp.com

Welcome to the Other Lifestyle Podcast, hosted by Jason, where we venture beyond the vanilla world into the vibrant sphere of ethical non-monogamy. This episode dives deep into the exciting Splash Houston event, detailing the allure of lifestyle parties and the liberating feeling of self-expression among like-minded individuals. Jason reflects on the transformative experiences within this unique community, shedding light on the freedom and joy that comes from connecting with others and exploring sensual desires. Listeners are introduced to the thrills of hotel takeovers, clothing-optional pool parties, and the organized, secure atmosphere of Splash events. The podcast also touches on...

In this episode of the Other Lifestyle Podcast, host Jason takes us on a journey to Splash Houston, a dynamic event celebrating the lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy. With vivid recounts of the event's unique ambiance, Jason reflects on the broader appeal of lifestyle gatherings. Discover the reasons behind leaving the vanilla world behind for a weekend of freedom, expression, and community in a safe and inclusive environment. Dive into discussions of personal revelations, facing questions of identity, and the joys found in new experiences. Jason also sheds light on the challenge of maintaining balance, both in personal life and mental...

Welcome to That Other Lifestyle Podcast, where Jason delves into the world of one-night stands. This adult-only episode is not just about the thrills of no-strings-attached encounters but also a guide to navigating these experiences responsibly. Whether you're a part of the lifestyle community or simply curious, Jason offers insights on how to approach one-night stands with honesty, communication, and safety in mind. From choosing the right setting to clear conversations with partners, dive into an in-depth exploration of short-term connections and their place in the lifestyle. Join the conversation and step beyond vanilla into a world of open-minded adventures.   M...

Join Jason, host of That Other Lifestyle Podcast, for an adventurous dive into 'Naughty in New Orleans,' the granddaddy of swinger lifestyle events. This episode isn't just about recounting personal escapades at this legendary event but focuses on exploring various lifestyle events that cater to adult and sexual topics. Jason shares his experiences navigating through different vibes and styles of swinging culture while offering insights into making the most out of such events. Discover the importance of setting expectations, understanding social boundaries, and finding the right kind of events for you and your partner. Tune in to learn about...

Welcome to the Other Lifestyle Podcast, hosted by the ever-curious Jason. In this episode, we explore the realms of ethical non-monogamy, where the essence of connection extends beyond mere physical intimacy. Jason dives deep into the intrinsic emotions and complex realities that the lifestyle entails, sharing profound insights gained from his own journey and the myriad of voices he's encountered along the way. From the unexpected challenges of erectile dysfunction and the whimsical intensity of 'hoe phases' to the unique, unfiltered stories that define this vibrant community, join us as we embrace the kaleidoscopic world where inhibitions are left at...

Join us for a wild ride through a night at a swinger convention, where chaos meets charisma and boundaries blur in a swirl of lights and music. The episode takes you on a vivid journey, exploring the intersection of morality and freedom, the allure of the unknown, and the eternal question of what it means to truly let go. Between candid humor and surreal experiences, uncover the essence of a lifestyle party and the human condition, all wrapped in an unapologetic narrative.   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.comhttps://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyleSingle Men's Guide to the Lifestyle CourseRisque Lifestyle PartiesSDC.comSTDHero.comHellowisp.c...

In this episode of "That Other Lifestyle Podcast," host Jason takes listeners on a deep dive into the complex yet crucial topic of consent within the realm of ethical non-monogamy. Aimed at adults, this episode centers around the acronym FRIES, which stands for Freely given, Reversible, Informed, Enthusiastic, and Specific — essential components in practicing safe and respectful interactions. Jason candidly shares personal stories and scenarios to highlight what consent looks and feels like in the lifestyle scene, emphasizing the importance of direct, clear, and respectful communication. While sharing his insights on consent, Jason encourages listeners to pause and discuss, inviting th...

Welcome to this candid episode of That Other Lifestyle Podcast, where your host Jason delves into the dynamic world of ethical non-monogamy.  Filled with raw and unedited musings, this episode takes a deep dive into the experiences of both newbies and seasoned veterans in the lifestyle community. Jason sheds light on awkward encounters and the pressures newcomers face, advocating for a more inclusive approach from veteran members. Join Jason as he emphasizes the importance of community, patience, and understanding, reminding us that the lifestyle is about more than just physical connections; it's about human connections. Whether you're a curious newcomer o...

Welcome to another episode of That Other Lifestyle Podcast. Today's guest is Lucas, a seasoned single guy in the lifestyle for over a decade. He shares his intriguing journey and unique perspective as a single man navigating couples' dynamics within the community. Discover how Lucas stands out in the lifestyle, builds respectful relationships, and what makes him successful. We discuss the nuances of interaction, the importance of understanding couple dynamics, and the misconceptions surrounding single men in the scene. Lucas offers valuable advice to single men entering the lifestyle, emphasizing the need for respect, patience, and clear communication. Join us a...

Welcome to "That Other Lifestyle Podcast," where host Jason invites you to leave behind the conventional and explore the dynamic world of lifestyle businesses. This episode delves into adult themes and ethical non-monogamy, making it suitable for an adult audience ready to engage with colorful language and open discussions. Dive deep into the complex, often chaotic industry of lifestyle events, compared to the frenzied orchestration of a sailboat ride, where calm exteriors mask the frantic energy below. Discover how lifestyle businesses operate in the shadows of mainstream society, navigating challenges like credit card processing and event management, while striving to...

Join host Jason as he invites listeners to explore the thrilling world of lifestyle events through the eyes of a "vanilla" couple, Rob and Diane. In this episode, Jason recounts the duo's enlightening experience attending a Risqué Lifestyle Glow Party, highlighting the openness and inclusivity of the lifestyle community. With humor and candor, Jason narrates how this eye-opening weekend redefined expectations and revealed the liberating essence of lifestyle gatherings. He shares valuable insights into the importance of communication, mutual respect, and the safety offered in these spaces. Discover how Rob and Diane immersed themselves in this vibrant, judgment-free environment, all w...

Welcome to a bold exploration of the lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy, where host Jason dives into the art and science of connecting physically with new partners. This adults-only episode tackles the unique challenge of having good sex with new people, providing actionable guidance for understanding and enhancing pleasure in the lifestyle. Jason discusses the importance of communication, listening to bodily feedback, and the nuances of providing and receiving consent. Explore the dynamics of first-time intimate encounters, where communication becomes key to delivering memorable experiences. Discover how to read and interpret non-verbal signals and the role of verbal feedback in navigating...

Join host Jason on an exciting journey into the world of ethical non-monogamy and lifestyle parties. In this episode, we delve into the art of organization, sexual spontaneity, and gearing up for epic lifestyle events. Discover tips and tricks for packing efficiently, maintaining pleasure without interruptions, and exploring the benefits of planning ahead for adult-themed parties. Be prepared to embark on fun and adventurous adult activities with expert packing advice, from the importance of having hoe bags to the brilliance of travel bags. Learn how to maximize enjoyment at themed events like the Risqué Lifestyle Glow Party, with creative costume t...

Welcome to another episode of 'That Other Lifestyle Podcast,' where host Jason dives into an important topic—safety and security in the lifestyle. This episode is designed for adults engaging in ethical non-monogamy, focusing on personal, relationship, and mental safety. Jason shares valuable insights and advice, breaking down essential safety measures, both physical and mental, for newcomers and seasoned lifestylers alike. Whether you are exploring adult relationships for the first time or an experienced participant, this episode guides you through managing risks smartly while enjoying the fun this lifestyle has to offer. By recognizing red flags, practicing situational awareness, an...

Welcome to our latest episode of that other lifestyle podcast!  In this episode, Jason passionately debunks common myths and assumptions that society often holds about swingers and those in open relationships. Whether you're curious, a part of the lifestyle, or identifying as vanilla, there's something for everyone. Jason tackles what it truly means to be part of this inclusive community, discussing everything from ethical non-monogamy to the mistaken identity of swingers. Expect humorous anecdotes, a lot of myth-busting, and an open invitation for listeners to explore beyond societal norms.   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.comhttps://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyleNational Lifestyle Weekend TicketsNaughty in...

Welcome to That Other Lifestyle Podcast, hosted by Jason. In this episode, we delve into the captivating concept of compersion, a unique emotion resonating joy when your partner finds happiness. Journey with Jason as he explores how this intriguing emotion can be fostered and put into action within the lifestyle community. Discover the essence of compersion through relatable stories, thoughtful insights, and practical advice, designed to enhance connection and understanding among partners. Whether you're new to the lifestyle or a seasoned participant, this episode offers valuable perspectives on moving beyond jealousy, reframing emotions, and genuinely celebrating your partner’s joy.   My...

Join Jason as he takes a deep dive into the nuances of entering the swinger lifestyle, offering invaluable insights for newcomers. With audio from a live stream on SDC.com, Jason addresses common questions and concerns newbies might have, providing honest and candid advice that he wishes he had when starting out. From the importance of STI testing and consent to tackling jealousy and communication in relationships, this episode is packed with essential advice for anyone curious about or new to ethical non-monogamy. Whether you're interested in full swaps, soft swaps, or exploring this world in your unique way, Jason...

Join Jason, the host of That Other Lifestyle Podcast, as he delves into the vibrant world of ethical non-monogamy. Featuring a compelling conversation with erotic novel author Jay Mohas, this episode offers insights into the lifestyle community, highlighting its core values of body positivity, sex positivity, and consent. Discover the inclusivity of the lifestyle, catering to diverse groups and backgrounds, and the challenges posed by those who don't share the community's ethical standards. Learn about the difference between lifestyle participants and those who merely share the space for different reasons. Whether you're a seasoned lifestyler or simply curious, this episode...

In this episode of That Other Lifestyle, host Jason delves into the often overlooked topic of preferences within the lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy. While some might find the subject awkward, Jason brings a blend of humor and realness to exploring why preferences are a natural part of human connection. From discussing the allure of physical attraction to the importance of personality in sexual encounters, this episode provides listeners with an enlightening and honest look at how preferences shape our choices in relationships.  Jason encourages listeners to understand and embrace their own preferences while respecting those of others. The conversation touches u...

Join host Jason in this intriguing episode of That Other Lifestyle Podcast as he welcomes Xiggy, an experienced California attorney and lifestyle enthusiast. Dive into a captivating discussion that uncovers the complexities of ethical non-monogamy the lifestyle. Xiggy provides an insightful perspective on the legal aspects of the lifestyle, emphasizing the importance of consent, privacy, and agency within the lifestyle. Together, Jason and Xiggy explore the stereotypes surrounding the LS and the need for rebranding, proposing "PolySocial" as a new term. They also delve into the intricacies of consent, the potential consequences of violating it, and the vital role of...

Welcome to "That Other Lifestyle Podcast," where host Jason leads you through a candid exploration of the lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy. In this episode, dive into the humorous and awkward realities of sex, from unexpected ab cramps during intense sessions to the normality of sweating it out in the heat of passion. Join Jason on his quest to uncover the shared laughter and surprising camaraderie that come from discussing these intimate and often unspoken topics. Learn about the quirks of human sexuality, the awkwardness of removing lingerie, and the silly struggles with modern technology that everyone can relate to. This...

Join host Jason on an exhilarating journey into the world of ethical non-monogamy in this adults-only podcast episode. Jason sits down with Pharaoh, a professional in the realm of adult fantasies, to uncover the intricacies of black dominance and the unique realm of BBC-induced fantasies. Dive deep into the art of orchestrating safe and consensual adult experiences, where inclusivity meets erotic exploration. Understand the dynamics of lifestyle parties, the etiquette of communication, and the nuances of diverse sexual expressions. Learn about the detailed process of selecting suitable participants, the importance of communication, and the focus on creating a positive and...

Welcome to "That Other Lifestyle Podcast," where host Jason invites adults to explore the profound concept of Ichigo ichie—embracing each encounter as a unique, unrepeatable experience. Celebrate the show's one-year anniversary as Jason reflects on memorable moments by the bonfire, revealing the beauty and temporality of life and non-monogamous connections. Delving into personal memories and philosophical musings, this episode explores the Japanese tea ceremony's influence on understanding and appreciating fleeting moments. Jason challenges listeners to let go of expectations, freeing themselves to fully embrace new experiences, whether in lifestyle adventures or everyday interactions. My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.comhttps://benable.co...

Join host Jason in this eye-opening episode of "That Other Lifestyle Podcast," as he navigates the complexities of STI testing within the world of ethical non-monogamy. This discussion, not safe for work and intended for adults, dives deep into the uncomfortable but vital topic of sexual health, challenging outdated sex education and confronting the awkwardness around STI conversations. Jason draws from his personal experiences, recounting a flawed, fear-based education and emphasizing the importance of regular testing. He offers practical advice on the mechanics of STI testing and how to handle your results, aiming to normalize these essential health discussions within...

Join Jason on 'That Other Lifestyle Podcast' for a refreshingly open discussion about STI testing within the non-monogamous community. This episode tackles the stigma head-on, emphasizing the importance of communication, responsibility, and regular testing as fundamental parts of the lifestyle. With humor and frankness, Jason shares his take on sexual health and clears misconceptions, aiming to replace fear with knowledge and proactive measures. Although focusing on adults, the episode delivers an inclusive message, encouraging listeners from all backgrounds to understand that education and transparency form the bedrock of healthy lifestyle practices. Don't miss this pivotal conversation about protecting yourself and...