The Midlife Awakening

In this inspiring episode of The Midlife Awakening, I sit down with Tessa Grint — leadership coach, business consultant, and founder of Light Me Up.

After spending 17 years in the corporate world, Tessa found herself completely burnt out and chasing a promotion she didn’t even want. That breakdown became her breakthrough — the moment she realised success isn’t about job titles or LinkedIn updates, but about alignment.

Now, Tessa helps women reconnect with who they truly are, discover their zone of genius, and redesign their working lives so they can thrive — not just survive.<...

 Shadow Work in Midlife: Becoming Whole Through Inner Healing 

 Discover how shadow work helps you heal, grow, and reconnect with your authentic self during midlife. With Jungian wisdom, synchronicities, and self-awareness. 

Midlife has a way of bringing everything to the surface — old patterns, unhealed wounds, and parts of ourselves we’ve long ignored. But it’s not a breakdown — it’s an awakening.

In this episode of The Midlife Awakening, Odilia explores what shadow work in midlife really means and how it can help you become whole again. Drawing from the teachings of <...

Reconnecting with your feminine energy and finding real love after healing.

In this heartfelt episode of The Midlife Awakening, we dive into the world of love, healing, and dating after 40 with Lilli Bewley — a Dating Coach and creator of The Feminine Dating Archetype Quiz.

Lilli’s story is one of profound transformation. After years of following all the “rules” of success — the career, the relationship, the life that looked perfect on paper — she found herself feeling disconnected, unseen, and unfulfilled. Hitting rock bottom became the moment that cracked her open to healing, self-love, and a whole...

In this week’s Monday Motivations episode, I’m sharing a deeply moving story sent in by one of our listeners — Sam — whose midlife awakening began through pain, loss, and ultimately, profound transformation.

Sam’s story is about learning to listen to her body after years of struggling with endometriosis, navigating grief after a hysterectomy, and rediscovering purpose through healing and coaching other women.

Through her journey, she reminds us that midlife isn’t a breakdown — it’s a breaking open.
 That our bodies are not our enemies.
 And that the cracks in our stor...

Heartbreak changes us—but it doesn’t mean we’re broken.

In this powerful episode of The Midlife Awakening, I sit down with Miranda Roos, a South African–born lawyer turned award-winning photographer, writer, and emotional alchemist. Miranda is the author of The Empty Drawer, a raw and honest breakup survival guide born from her own lived experience of loss, love, and rediscovery.

We talk about what it really means to rebuild yourself after heartbreak—not from a pedestal, but from the messy middle. Miranda shares openly about:

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Libra Season (September 22 – October 22) is here, bringing its Venus-ruled focus on love, harmony, and connection. This is the time of year when relationships take center stage — and often, so do the patterns that make them feel complicated.

In this episode of The Midlife Awakening, I’m breaking down attachment styles — secure, anxious, avoidant, and fearful-avoidant — and explaining how each one shapes the way we love, connect, and handle conflict. You’ll hear real-life examples of how attachment styles show up in relationships, and why Libra Sea...

In this Monday Motivations episode, I share the powerful midlife story of Davina McCall — a woman who has lived through addiction, fame, heartbreak, and a near-death health crisis, only to rise again and again with courage and clarity.

From her turbulent childhood and struggle with heroin, to becoming one of Britain’s most recognisable TV presenters, to her recent advocacy for women’s health and her recovery from brain surgery — Davina’s journey is proof that it’s never too late to begin again.

Her story reminds us that:

What happens when your body forces you to stop—and your mind demands a new way forward?

In this episode of The Midlife Awakening, I’m joined by health and nutrition coach Arianna Morgan, whose story of resilience and reinvention will speak to so many of us navigating midlife.

Arianna’s journey began with a diagnosis of rheumatoid arthritis at 33, followed by corporate burnout and, later, an ADHD and autism diagnosis in her 40s. Through these challenges, she discovered the profound connection between lifestyle, nutrition, and emotional wellbeing—and learned how to rebuild her life...

In this Monday Motivations episode, we explore the powerful midlife transformation of Melinda Messenger — a woman once known for her fame and television career, who walked away from it all after reaching breaking point.

Behind the glamour, Melinda faced burnout, the collapse of her marriage, and financial struggles that forced her to completely rethink her life. Through courage and inner work, she retrained as a psychotherapist and dream guide, choosing authenticity, healing, and alignment over public expectation.

Her story is a reminder that collapse is not the end — it can be the doorway to y...

In this powerful episode of The Midlife Awakening, Odelia sits down with child therapist and trauma specialist Mia Von Scha to explore how unresolved childhood trauma resurfaces in midlife — especially during perimenopause — and how we can begin to heal.

Mia shares her expertise on attachment theory, EMDR, and the importance of rupture and repair in parenting. Together, we discuss why it’s not only okay to mess up as a parent, but how those moments of repair actually teach our children resilience and emotional regulation.

Key insights from this episode:

✨ In this Monday Motivations episode, we explore the extraordinary midlife transformation of Louise Hay — a woman who went from a childhood of trauma and hardship to becoming one of the most influential figures in the self-help movement. Louise didn’t publish her first book until she was 50, and in her 60s she founded Hay House Publishing, building a global legacy of healing and empowerment. From her cancer recovery to the creation of The Hayride support groups and the Hay Foundation, her story reminds us that it’s never too late to begin again, to heal, and to create a life fil...

If you’ve been feeling the urge to get organised, reset your routines, or finally shift some habits that just aren’t working anymore — it’s not random. That’s the energy of Virgo season calling you back to balance.

In this episode of The Midlife Awakening, I’m exploring how daily routines and rituals can support us in midlife. We’ll talk about:

 💫 In this first Monday Motivations episode, Athena opens up about her journey of resilience — from a childhood marked by challenges, to surviving a traumatic brain injury that doctors believed she wouldn’t recover from. She shares how her fight to walk again, her struggles with mental health, and her search for purpose ultimately led her to become a trauma-informed coach. Athena’s story is a reminder that setbacks don’t define us — it’s how we choose to rise that shapes the next chapter.

 ✨ Do you have a story of resilience, healing, or transformation that could inspire others? I’d love to...

Summary

In this conversation, Odelia explores the multifaceted nature of trauma, emphasizing that it is not solely defined by significant events but also by the absence of support and love. She discusses how trauma manifests in the body and mind, the different types of trauma, including generational trauma, and the importance of healing through understanding and compassion. Odelia highlights the role of the brain's amygdala in trauma responses and the necessity of rewiring these patterns for true healing. The conversation concludes with a call to self-love and reflection on personal healing journeys.

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healing journey, self-care, emotional support, journaling, therapy, self-compassion, healing modalities, personal growth, mental health, emotional wellness

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In this conversation, Odelia discusses the essential steps in embarking on a healing journey, emphasizing the importance of acknowledging pain, setting intentions, seeking support, and exploring various healing modalities. She highlights the significance of self-care, self-compassion, and the need to process emotions healthily. Odelia also addresses common setbacks in healing and reassures listeners that healing is not a linear process, encouraging patience and persistence throughout the journey.

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Acknowledge and accept...

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inner child healing, grief recovery, emotional suffering, attachment theory, hypnosis, self-healing, mindfulness, grief counseling, emotional recovery, personal transformation

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In this conversation, Odelia and Anna Parfa delve into the profound topic of inner child healing and grief recovery. Anna, a grief counselor and author, shares her insights on the expansive nature of grief, which encompasses not only the loss of loved ones but also emotional suffering from various life experiences. They explore the concept of the inner child, its manifestations in adulthood, and the importance of addressing these wounds for emotional well-being...

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midlife, self-discovery, healing, relationships, career transitions, emotional wellness, personal growth, astrology, subconscious mind, women empowerment

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In this conversation, Odelia shares her personal journey through midlife, exploring themes of self-discovery, healing, and the challenges of navigating career transitions and physical changes. She discusses the importance of emotional wellness, setting boundaries in relationships, and the transformative power of healing experiences. Odelia also highlights her rediscovery of passions, such as astrology, and outlines the structure of her podcast, which aims to create a supportive community for others on similar journeys.

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midlife awakening, self-discovery, emotional changes, family dynamics, career transitions, physical health, personal growth, relationships, community engagement, self-care

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In this episode, Odelia explores the concept of midlife awakening, emphasizing the journey of self-discovery and the emotional, physical, and relational changes that occur during this transformative phase. She encourages listeners to embrace their true selves, reassess their relationships, and find purpose in their lives. The conversation highlights the importance of self-care, community engagement, and the potential for personal growth amidst the challenges of midlife.

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Midlife is a time...

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inner child, grief, healing, emotional recovery, attachment theory, hypnosis, self-help, mental health, emotional suffering, personal growth

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In this episode of the Heal Your Life podcast, host Odelia speaks with grief counselor Anna Parfa about the importance of inner child healing and the broader definitions of grief. They discuss how grief extends beyond the loss of loved ones to include emotional suffering from various life experiences. Anna explains the concept of the inner child, its manifestations in adulthood, and the significance of addressing these wounds. The conversation also covers healing modalities, including...

In today's episode, the Astrologer in me has come out as I would like to share how we can harness the current Venus Retrograde energy to help us on our healing journey. So, have a listen, share and like the episode if it resonates with you.

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In todays episode, I am talking about the Ancient Art of Reiki and my own personal expeirence with it to help me heal some of my past trauma. It is a great healing modality to add to your tool box of healing trauma. It has been an important part of my spiritual journey as well as having helped me connect not only to my divine feminine energy but to get more connected to my intuition.

Also I have announced the new book for the month, for our book club, and it is Atomic Habits by James Clear...

In today's episode I will talking a bit about Self-care - what it is, why we need it and give you some examples of what I do for my Self-care. I also announce what the book of the month will be for November. 

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In this episode, I have decided to take a pause and introduce myself as I have not done this yet. I have also been hard at work changing the format and look of the show - so I hope that you will enjoy the new format that I will be creating going forward.

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In today's episode I will be talking about self limiting beliefs (again), breath-work as a healing modality and implementing boundaries in your life as an act of self love.

If you would like to get access to the books that I have mentioned in this episode, here is a link to a free audible trial for you to get started https://www.amazon.co.uk/hz/audible/mlp/mfpdp/ASIN?actionCode=AMN30DFT1Bk06604291990WX&tag=spiritualjunk-21

Also the link to the Youtube interview as mentioned : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iTefkqYQz8g
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In today's episode I will be talking about self limiting beliefs (again), breath-work as a healing modality and implementing boundaries in your life as an act of self love.

If you would like to get access to the books that I have mentioned in this episode, here is a link to a free audible trial for you to get started https://www.amazon.co.uk/hz/audible/mlp/mfpdp/ASIN?actionCode=AMN30DFT1Bk06604291990WX&tag=spiritualjunk-21

Also the link to the Youtube interview as mentioned : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iTefkqYQz8g
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In today's episode I will be chatting about a few methods that I have been trying out to not only identify my self limiting beliefs but also what I have tried to flip them into positive ones. These beliefs are usually a product of the trauma and can keep us stuck in a loop of negative patterns. Have a listen and give it a try! Let me know you thoughts or if you have discovered any amazing ways that we can try.

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In today's episode I will be doing a brief intro to what the show is about, who am I and what we will be doing on this journey. I will be discussing what Trauma is, how it manifests and why we need to heal it. I will also be using my astrology experience and my birth chart as a guiding tool on my journey BUT this is not an astrology podcast. If however you would like to use astrology on your own journey then please reach out to me on my social media or my website and I would...

This is my new Podcast and it is all about the healing journey that I am about to embark on over the next 365 days.  I am hoping that this will transform my life and maybe inspire others to do the same. Each week I will be sharing my journey with you including what books I have read and what methods I am using to heal past Trauma. So if you are into topics like EFT tapping, meditation, shadow work, and detoxifying your home and body then this is the place for you. I am no Guru, I am just a...