Exposing the Holes: An Annual Pride Show

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Exposing the logical holes in myths about the 2SLGBTQIA+ community since 2024. The show is hosted by Pittsburgh’s own Suzy while they search for answers about everything queer from music to relationships to video games to science and movies. Get answers to questions like do toilets gender? Who is JK Rowling and what’s his problem? What is a unicorn and why are they more than an interest on Tinder? New season coming June 2025.

Historical Media: Urania (1925)
#15
Today at 9:00 AM

Today, another issue from the feminist journal Urania (wiki link, published from 1919-1940). I am so glad the Women’s Library at the London School of Economics published Urania online in 2023 so that a journal with a small circulation (aroud 250 copies) could reach new audiences in 2025.

This week I am reading the double issue Nos. 51 & 52 , May-August 1925 (pdf). It includes "Why We Marry," "Motor Psychology," and "Population Growth."

All events mentioned are pulled directly from the QBurgh calendar.

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The Ghost, Sabriel, and Victoria Ratliff
#14
Yesterday at 9:00 AM

This episode is for goth people without gender. Today I talked to friend of the show Mike about the book Sabriel and I also spoke to Victoria Ratliff from The White Lotus. Huge shout out to Xaz as the Ghost of Xmas Past. We have made it halfway through pride month. This episode resembles the inside of my mind. #society

To find a No Kings Protest near you, you can visit https://www.nokings.org/

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Movie Review: I Saw the TV Glow (2024)
#13
Last Friday at 9:00 AM

🚨SPOILERS WITHIN🚨 Today I am talking to myself in a quiet room about the instant trans classic I Saw The TV Glow (2024) by Jane Schoenbrun. The other movies I plan to cover this month also have spoilers in-episode but since this one JUST came out, I want to make everyone is aware of their risk of engaging here.

Here's the trailer for the movie, which tbh gives more info than I would personally want beforehand: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kymDzCgPwj0 

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half-bug-half-snack with Kestrel
#12
Last Thursday at 9:00 AM

This episode is all about the whimsical video game Bugsnax (all about creatures who are half-bug half-snack) from Kestrel, an expert in Bugsnaxes. Heads up, this episode contains spoilers for the game.

Here is the trailer for Bugsnax! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p_RaA25SD80

Pittsburgh pride events can be found on the QBurgh calendar.

If you're listening to this show, you should consider making a donation to SisTers PGH, a BLACK and TRANS-led nonprofit organization that serves the Transgender community of Southwestern Pennsylvania.
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Considering the 1998 Book 𝘾𝙪𝙣𝙩 with Mona Wiley
#11
Last Wednesday at 9:00 AM

Today I got to speak to Mona Wiley of Buzz Me In about Inga Muscio's 1998 book Cunt. It is available through Buzz Me In at https://buzzmeinstore.com/products/cunt-a-declaration-of-independence

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(っ◔◡◔)っ ♥ serious music ♥ (by v.v.itch)
#10
Last Tuesday at 9:00 AM

It's album release day and Serious is here to talk about their serious music, seriously. Get excited because the album is premiering RIGHT HERE on Exposing the Holes. You should also check out v.v.itch's other music on Spotify and check out the roleplaying game podcast Goodberry Pie, hosted by v.v.itch and her friend Shea.

𝕷𝖎𝖘𝖙𝖊𝖓 𝖙𝖔 𝖙𝖍𝖊 𝖓𝖊𝖜 𝖆𝖑𝖇𝖚𝖒: https://open.spotify.com/album/3NyCKbKAbICB6cDQNOfSGX?si=iSIP60E_Q1aqaAiHxTG2OQ

Track List:
1. 𝙄’𝙢 𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙡𝙡𝙮 𝙩𝙞𝙧𝙚𝙙  
2. 𝕀 𝕞𝕚𝕤𝕤𝕖𝕕 𝕥𝕙𝕖 𝕓𝕦𝕤
3. 𝜤 𝑫𝜽𝜼'𝝉 𝑾𝜶𝜼𝝉 𝜯𝜽 𝑫𝜽 𝑱𝜽𝜷
4. ᴛʜɪꜱ ᴄᴀᴘɪᴛᴀʟɪꜱᴛ ʜᴇʟʟꜱᴄᴀᴘᴇ ɪꜱ ɴᴏᴛ ᴍʏ ꜰᴀᴠᴏʀɪᴛᴇ ᴘʟᴀᴄᴇ ᴛᴏ ʟɪᴠᴇ
5. ③-Ⓓ

Serious Influences:

-Pepper Ann theme https://youtu.be/2KmxQz3AbbI

-Sum 41 https://youtu.be/CMX2lPum_pg

-Eurythmics https://youtu.be/6KR52lEWLEM 

-Tchaikovsky https://youtu.be/1dsbkhTkD7s 


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Losing Followers with Carl the Cum King of Comedy
#9
Last Monday at 9:00 AM

Happy 6/9 to everyone who celebrates. I had a great catch-up with Carl the Cum King of Comedy, played by Erin Ross. If you want to watch a recording of Carl's show on the Hudson, you can watch it on YouTube: https://youtu.be/n17AZkUXy58?si=76n7Fx71H6DEDQA0

Please consider making a donation to SisTers PGH, a BLACK and TRANS-led nonprofit organization that serves the Transgender community of Southwestern Pennsylvania.
Electronic donations can be sent to:
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Historical Media: Urania (1920)
#8
06/08/2025

I am very pleased to share an issue of Urania (wiki link, published from 1919-1940), a feminist journal aimed at abolishing the gender binary. It is composed of poems, pieces of news, letters, and opinions about the importance (or non importance) of a person's assigned sex to their personalities and their lives.

This week I am reading Issue No. 19, January-February 1920 (pdf). It includes "Morality of Draft" and "Pioneers in Suffrage Cause."

All events mentioned are pulled directly from the QBurgh calendar.

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None More Supportive Than A 🄱🅁🄸🄳🄶🄴
#7
06/07/2025

The Andy Warhol bridge? Her name is actually Debra and she's here with some pride month messaging. She was graciously portrayed by Sara Kantner. Fuck the Allegheny River.

Please consider making a donation to SisTers PGH, a BLACK and TRANS-led nonprofit organization that serves the Transgender community of Southwestern Pennsylvania.
Electronic donations can be sent to:
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If you are a young LGBTQ+ person in crisis, you can contact the Trevor Project for support by texting START to 678-678. The Trans Lifeline phone number is (877)565...


Movie Review: Tangerine (2015)
#6
06/06/2025

Today it's just me, Suzy, speaking from the heart about the 2015 film Tangerine. Forgive me for jerking off Sean Baker for so long in this episode. I have a solo movie review coming every Friday in June so we can all make sure we're doing the required reading.

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“I am weed” -Brother Comrade Delta-8 THCP
#5
06/05/2025

420? Weed? Marijuana? Spencer's Gifts? Bong rip sound effect? Thanks a million to Gao Rowan for chatting with me as Comrade Delta THC Et Cetera today. You may or may not be able to find them at Curated Flame in Millvale.

Today's anthem: Too High for the Supermarket https://youtu.be/fPYf7hcZ740 

The one hit song by Iron Butterfly: https://youtu.be/UIVe-rZBcm4

The dollar trick for rolling a joint: https://youtu.be/N6in4T3URus?si=024vNDR4BHMGGpF3 


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L Has Queer 𝓵𝓲𝓽𝓮𝓻𝓪𝓽𝓾𝓻𝓮 Recommendations
#4
06/04/2025

Today I am talking to the first of four Wednesday book experts, L! If you have any feedback about this epsiode, including if you have read or are going to read any of the books discussed, consider dropping a line using the Jotform set up for the 2025 Exposing the Holes year. You can read L's published stories at https://scholar.uwindsor.ca/etd/8607

L had so many amazing book recommendations and I have taken the opportunity to link as many as possible here today. They said that if you are young and new to queer lit, start...


A Friend of Dorothy: Asher O'Briant
#3
06/03/2025

Asher O'Briant disrupts the airwaves with history, trivia, and jokes and invites you all to join Wanda B. Meighnaybor on June 27th and June 28th at Carnegie Stage! And the book Suzy kept mentioning is Before We Were Trans by Kit Heyam.

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Here's the link for Asher's Mr. Rogers themed drag show, mentioned above: https://www...


A Chance Meeting with Nosfagatu
#2
06/02/2025

Today I am joined by the first guest of the season, legendary night life personality and Pittsburgh vampyre Nosfagatu. Thanks to Connor McCanlus for dropping him off at the studio and picking him up when we were done.

For no reason at all, here is a link to the trailer for Nosferatu (2024): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nulvWqYUM8k

All events mentioned are pulled directly from the QBurgh calendar EXCEPT THE CAT OPERA happening this weekend in Bellevue. Tickets for that can be found at https://www.thousandbridgesopera.com/upcoming-events/pride-double-bill 😽

Please con...


Is it June ᴀʟʀᴇᴀᴅʏ……….?
#1
06/01/2025

WELCOME to the audio pride event you've been waiting for. This is Pittsburgh's own 2SLGBTQIA+ podcast, exposing the holes in stereotypes about the 2SLGBTQIA+ community since 2024. It is by and for the queer people of Pittsburgh. This month has 30 episodes in the queue, one for every day of the month for maximum gay. Every episode is hosted by local comedian Suzy and many of the episodes have a special guest, people with information to share through a queer lens or characters thriving in a gay world. 

The opening soundscape is by Aemyn and I found it on f...


1,000 Packets of Lube
04/20/2025

Season 2 of Exposing the Holes is dropping for Pride Month 2025! A new episode is being released EVERY DAY IN JUNE. Except, there's a catch. The podcast won't be complete until Pittsburgh... uses... 1,000 packets of lube? There's gotta be more information in this trailer.


Pizza Party with Suzy
#10
06/27/2024

To participate with Operation Olive Branch with assisting families in Palestine, visit their LinkTree https://linktr.ee/opolivebranch

It's just me and you today, friend! Follow me on Instagram @nermernermer. I had a really great time recording and publishing these episodes for you all and today I am pulling back the curtain on the show a bit to talk about how it's done, the joy of it all, and other podcast hopes and dreams for the Nermer Nermer Network. If you liked the show, please follow or subscribe and know that we have a Patreon at patreon...


The Ace of Spades with Nick Razum
#9
06/26/2024

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Last but not least, today's episode is all about 💜🖤🤍ASEXUALITY🤍🖤💜 with Nick Razum (@spazum720 on IG!)

For information about other podcasts on Nermer Nermer Network, visit https://linktr.ee/nermernermer & if you like it, consider nominating "The Ole Switcheroo" for Best of PGH.

Information about asexuality comes from https://www.asexuality-handbook.com/
Today’s tarot card comes from https://labyrinthos.co/blogs/tarot-card-meanings-list/the-wheel-of-fortune-meaning-major-arcana-tarot-card-meanings 
Tarot resources by the Living Altar https://linktr.ee/Thelivingaltar https...


The Buzz on Bisexuality with Cass
#8
06/25/2024

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It's the last week of pride and we still have new episodes of Exposing the Holes. Today Suzy speaks with Cass about the secret truth about bisexuality.

For information about other podcasts on Nermer Nermer Network, visit https://linktr.ee/nermernermer & if you like it, consider nominating "The Ole Switcheroo" for Best of PGH.

Information about the history of the rainbow flag is from History.com
More about bees at Bisexual Resource Center
...


Drinking Milk with Xazrianna Walker
#7
06/20/2024

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Thanks for listening, non-lesbian women! Today I talked to Xazrianna Walker (@xazrianna_mind on IG) about opposite-sex attraction and lesbian stereotypes.

You can see Xazrianna perform with the improv group Grandpa TONIGHT at the BYOT Jam in the Unitarian Church Basement.

For information about other podcasts on Nermer Nermer Network, visit https://linktr.ee/nermernermer

Find Pittsburgh pride events at https://qburgh.com/events/

Information about today’s tarot card comes fr...


Juneteenth! Queer Black Podcast Recommendations
06/19/2024

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Amber Ruffin Answers Frequently Asked Juneteenth Questions with Seth Meyers https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Uif9B_xOxos

Podcasts to listen to:

The Pleasure’s All Yours {Apple | Spotify} is hosted by Courtney and Lex and they focus on the intersectionality of sexuality. They have a huge backlog of episodes to get into. Dear Black Gay Men Podcast {Apple | Spotify} is hosted by Jai the Gentleman and he talks about being Black and gay for a B...


Wrestling in Full Drag with Kayla Fabe (fka Tricky Dick)
#6
06/18/2024

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What's up sports fans, it's really great to see you on this episode of Exposing the Holes. Today's guest is comedian and improvisor Jim Kappas (aka Kayla Fabe, fka Tricky Dick).

Here's a clip of Kayla Fabe's first performance of Chapel Roan's "Red Wine Supernova." In another clip of Kayla Fabe, we can see her lip sync "Gag On It" by Kim Petras.

For information about other podcasts on Nermer Nermer Network, visit https://linktr...


The Best Yet to Come with Leftover Lunch
#5
06/13/2024

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Good morning, dreamers ✨ Today's guest is Leftover Lunch (@leftoverllunch on IG!)

For information about other podcasts on Nermer Nermer Network, visit https://linktr.ee/nermernermer AND consider nominating "The Ole Switcheroo" for Best of PGH.

Recommendations from Leftover Lunch:
Kimya Dawson - "Utopian Futures"
Narcissister
Capitalist Realism by Mark

Recommendations from Suzy:
The Matrix
Lucy Sparrow

Find Pittsburgh pride events at https://qburgh.com/events/

...


The Pulse Nightclub 8th Anniversary
06/12/2024

Today’s bonus episode is a memorial for the lives lost at the Pulse nightclub shooting on June 12th, 2016. 

The 49 victims were:

Edward Sotomayor Jr., 34.
Stanley Almodovar III, 23
Luis Omar Ocasio-Capo, 20
Juan Ramon Guerrero, 22
Eric Ivan Ortiz-Rivera, 36
Peter O. Gonzalez-Cruz, 22
Luis S. Vielma, 22
Kimberly Morris, 37
Eddie Jamoldroy Justice, 30
Darryl Roman Burt II, 29
Deonka Deidra Drayton, 32
Alejandro Barrios Martinez, 21
Anthony Luis Laureanodisla, 25
Jean Carlos Mendez Perez, 35
Franky Jimmy Dejesus Velazquez, 50
Amanda Alvear, 25
Martin Benitez Torres, 33
Luis Daniel Wilson-Leon, 37
Mer...


Dressing the Part with Timothée Chalamet
#4
06/11/2024

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Timmy fans, our special guest today was portrayed by José Queervo, @queervoqueen on IG!

José Queervo is performing on Friday at Arcade Comedy Theater! For information about the show visit https://www.arcadecomedytheater.com/event/fondue-for-two-0624/

For information about other podcasts on Nermer Nermer Network, visit https://linktr.ee/nermernermer AND consider nominating "The Ole Switcheroo" for Best of PGH.

Find Pittsburgh pride events at https://qburgh.com/events/

Information about to...


Rainbows and Unicorns with Dig
#3
06/06/2024

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Howdy y'all, today is Thursday! And that means I'm talking to Dig about unicorns. @dirt_dyke_ on IG

Recommendations from Dig:
Kinky, Nerdy, and Poly podcast {Apple | Spotify}
This zine about relationship anarchy!

For information about other podcasts on Nermer Nermer Network, visit https://linktr.ee/nermernermer

Find Pittsburgh pride events at https://qburgh.com/events/

Information about today’s tarot card comes from https://labyrinthos.co/blogs/tarot-card-meanings-list/th...


No Labels with Carl the Cum King of Comedy
#2
06/05/2024

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Apologies in advance for today's guest, portrayed by Erin Ross. In the episode, I promised to share Carl's phone number to meet ladies. If you'd like to call Carl, you can reach him at (850) 717-9337.

For tickets to Carl's open mic night on Tuesdays at Poundtown https://tinyurl.com/yv7dr4bt

For information about other podcasts on Nermer Nermer Network, visit https://linktr.ee/nermernermer

Find Pittsburgh pride events at https://qburgh...


Peeking Through Gloryholes with Asher O’Briant
#1
06/04/2024

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Hey people, it's really great to see you on this first episode of Exposing the Holes. Today's guest is comedian Asher O'Briant!

Asher is performing on Friday at Arcade Comedy Theater! For information about the show visit https://www.arcadecomedytheater.com/event/one-man-no-woman-show-2024-06-07-700pm/

For information about other podcasts on Nermer Nermer Network, visit https://linktr.ee/nermernermer

Find Pittsburgh pride events at https://qburgh.com/events/

Information a...


Lube: The Pre-show
05/27/2024

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Hey queers! This is the pre-show episode to get you excited for the Exposing the Holes podcast and for Pittsburgh Pride. If you have any interest in the Pittsburgh events mentioned, please visit the QBurgh events page for more information at https://qburgh.com/events/

For information about other podcasts on Nermer Nermer Network, visit https://linktr.ee/nermernermer

Information about today’s tarot card comes from https://labyrinthos.co/blogs/tarot-card-meanings-list/eight-of-wands-meaning-tarot-card-meanings
Tarot re...


Season 1 Trailer
05/20/2024

Welcome, queer people of the world, to the only Pittsburgh-based podcast dedicated to debunking the myths about the 2SLGBTQIA+ community. My name is Ed Suzy and I am the Ellen Degeneres of this show. Deep underground, below the Titty Sphinx in Allegheny Cemetery, I have a lab full of gay scientists dedicated to manufacturing statistics and misinformation strong enough to turn the freakin frogs gay. My guests this pride month are calling in from all around the globe to rant and rave about the happenings of the incredibly gay world we live in. From genderless toilets to sharing a...