Healing Our Grieving Hearts Podcast
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I’m Kay Fontana, and have faced profound loss throughout my life, giving me a deep understanding of the pain it brings. My journey began with the loss of my brother to cancer when I was just nine, altering the dynamics of our family as my parents grappled with grief. Later, I experienced the anguish of losing my mother to Alzheimer’s and my father to cancer shortly after his diagnosis. The most heartbreaking of all was the death of my husband and soul mate of 40 years in January 2023 due to multiple health challenges. These losses, including many others - from...
When Grief Awakens Intuition: Listening to Your Inner Guide
#87
Last Saturday at 5:00 PM
Introduction
Topic Introduction [00:56]Main Topics
Intuition Becomes Stronger During the Holidays [Emotion and Intuition [Four Ways that Grief Awakens Intuition [Moving Through Emotional Waves [Gentle Practices to Reconnect with Your Intuition During the Holidays [Closing [Additional Resources
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#86
11/22/2025
Introduction
Topic Introduction [00:56]Main Topics
What is a Safe Haven? [03:47]The Emotional Foundation of Your Safe Haven [05:19]The Spiritual Foundation of Your Safe Haven [07:04]Creating the Physical Space[08:42]How Your Safe Haven Holds You During the Holidays [09:51]Closing Reflections [11:27]Additional Resources
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#85
11/15/2025
Introduction
Topic Introduction [00:56]Main Topics
The Language of Energy [02:05]Signs and Synchronicities [03:29]The Heart as a Receiver [05:04]Presence in the Everyday [06:16]Trusting What You Feel [07:17]Creating Sacred Space for Connection [08:06]Living with the Connection [09:09]Closing [09:54]Additional Resources
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#84
11/08/2025
Introduction
Topic Introduction [00:56]Main Topics
The Reality of Loss and Pain [02:00]What It Means to Hold Both [03:33]Why Holding Both is Necessary [05:01]Practices for Living in Both Worlds [06:22]Closing Reflections [08:13]Additional Resources
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#83
11/01/2025
Introduction
Topic Introduction [00:56]Main Topics
The Weight We Carry [The Spiritual Nature of Release [The Illusion of "Should" [Rewriting the Story [The Body's Memory and Forgiveness [The Divine Perspective [Moving Forward with Grace [Closing [Additional Resources
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#82
10/25/2025
Introduction
Topic Introduction [00:56]Main Topics
Nature and Healing [02:31]Engaging the Wind as Practice [04:15]Reflection and Integration [06:03]Closing Thoughts [08:19]Additional Resources
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#81
10/18/2025
Introduction
Topic Introduction [00:56]Main Topics
Understanding Grief-Related Anxiety [02:05]Returning to the Present Moment [03:33]Gentle Grounding Practices [05:07]The Spiritual Dimension of Anchoring [08:32]Integrating Calm into Daily Life [11:09]Closing [13:45]Additional Resources
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#80
10/11/2025
Introduction
Topic Introduction [00:56]Main Topics
My Personal Reflection [01:47]The Spiritual Meaning of Living Fully [04:03]Practical Ways to Live Fully After Loss [06:50]Sound, Breath, and Presence [10:47]Living Fully as Your Sacred Yes [14:22]Closing [17:04]Additional Resources
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#79
10/04/2025
Introduction
Topic Introduction [00:56]Main Topics
What are Sacred Signs? [02:37]How Signs Speak Through Nature [06:07]The Role of Dreams and Intuition [08:00]Everyday Coincidences and Synchronicities [09:40]How to Open to Sacred Signs [12:05]Closing [14:00]Additional Resources
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#78
09/27/2025
Introduction
Topic Introduction [00:56]Main Topics
Why Dreams Matter [01:04]Common Dream Themes [03:01]The Whisper vs. the Shout [05:16]How to Work with Dreams [07:15]Dreams in Times of Grief [09:15]Closing Reflection [10:55]Additional Resources
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#77
09/20/2025
Introduction
Topic Introduction [00:56]Main Topics
Why Breath Matters in Grief [02:06]The Calming Power of Breath [03:41]Simple Practices for Calming the Heart [04:39]Breathing with Spirit in Daily Life [07:02]Personal Reflection [08:01]Guided Breathing Practice [09:52]Closing [11:12]Additional Resources
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#76
09/13/2025
Introduction
Topic Introduction [00:56]Main Topics
The Questions We Carry [02:00]The Invitations of the Unknown [03:30]Finding Anchors in Uncertainty [05:00]A Personal Reflection [06:40]An Invitation [08:03]Closing [09:40]Additional Resources
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#75
09/06/2025
Introduction
Topic Introduction [00:56]Main Topics
The Lost Path [ 02:50]The Soul's Compass [04:57]Finding Bearings in Daily Life [07:00]My Story [08:54]Invitation to Reflect [10:10]Closing [12:25]Additional Resources
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#74
08/30/2025
Introduction
Topic Introduction [00:56]Main Topics
Understanding Numbness in Grief [02:25]Why Reconnecting with the Senses Matters [03:50]Gentle Ways to Reawaken the Senses [05:15]Personal Reflection [07:26]Integrating Sensory Practices into Daily Life [09:32]Closing [10:54]Additional Resources
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#73
08/23/2025
Introduction
Topic Introduction [00:56]Main Topics
Understanding the Shadows of Grief [01:18]Daily Life as a Balancing Act [03:09]Finding Light in Small Ways [05:18]Practical Tools for Balancing [07:21]The Light Within [09:31]Closing [11:32]Additional Resources
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#72
08/16/2025
Introduction
Topic Introduction [00:56]Main Topics
Grief and joy can flow together [02:16]Simple acts of self-care [03:51]Caring for your spiritual and emotional well-being [04:41]Loving act you can do today [05:58]Turning acts of self-care into gentle rituals [06:46]Journaling prompts to support you [07:50]Affirmation [09:32]Conclusion [10:02]Additional Resources
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#71
08/09/2025
Introduction
Topic Introduction [00:56]Main Topics
Beauty and Grace [01:23]How beauty shows up [03:22]How beauty helps with grief [03:54]Soft practices to tune into grace [04:49]Sometimes beauty feels far away [08:28]Moment of stillness [09:08]Conclusion [09:40]Additional Resources
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#70
08/02/2025
Introduction
Topic Introduction [00:56]Main Topics
What it means to begin again. [01:49]Tender barriers to renewal [03:44]Six gentle steps to guide you in beginning again [06:11]Brief meditation [10:52]Conclusion [12:15]Additional Resources
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#69
07/26/2025
Introduction
Topic Introduction [00:56]Main Topics
Spiritual metaphors of the seasons [01:42)Autumn and the sacred art of letting go [02:22]Winter as a sacred pause [04:15]Spring arrives with a whisper [06:28]Summer when the earth is alive [08:12]Invitations to connect with nature and grief [10:17]Conclusion {11:05]Additional Resources
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#68
07/19/2025
Introduction
Topic Introduction [00:57]Main Topics
The truth about sacred conversations [01:22]My story [02:03]Trust your intuition [04:46]Prepare the space [05:08]Questions to ask when the time is right [05:57]Dealing with emotions [07:48]Practices to support your energy, clarity, and resilience [09:21]Closing [10:52]Additional Resources
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#67
07/12/2025
03:2803:2Introduction
Topic Introduction [01:01]Main Topics
How our bodies are triggered by scent [01:41]Personal experiences with scent after a loss [02:27]How to use scent to support healing [03:49]Creating your own healing rituals with scent [05:35]Journaling prompt for today [07:27]Today's affirmation [08:24]Today's poem [08:39]Closing [09:25]Additional Resources
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#66
07/05/2025
Introduction
Topic Introduction [01:01]Main Topics
Earth [02:01]Water [03:35]Fire [05:13]Air [06:54]Which element resonates with you? [08:28]Closing blessing [10:56]Conclusion [11:21]Additional Resources
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#65
06/28/2025
Introduction
Topic Introduction [01:01]Main Topics
My personal story after loss [01:27]Sacred gifts found in solitude [03:01]The fears in solitude [05:50]Simple practices to easy into the space [06:30]A moment to pause [07:20]Recap [08:40]Conclusion [09:49]Additional Resources
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#64
06/21/2025
Introduction
Topic Introduction [01:01]Main Topics
The difference between therapy, grief coaching, and spiritual supportOur responses to griefThe role of the therapistThe role of the grief coachThe role of the spiritual guideChoosing the right kind of supportRecapConclusionAdditional Resources
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#63
06/14/2025
Introduction
Topic Introduction [01:01]Main Topics
My story [ 01:52]The teaching of Religious Science [05:00]How grief heightens our intuitive awareness [06:09]Grief opens the heart [09:38]Conclusion [11:40]Additional Resources
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#62
06/07/2025
Introduction
Topic Introduction [01:01]Main Topics
My story of letting go [02:12]What minimalism means when grieving [03:54]A few sacred practices for release personal belongings [06:03]Recap [09:01]Additional Resources
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#61
05/31/2025
Introduction
Topic Introduction [01:01]Main Topics
Emotional bonds between humans and animals [01:32]The healing power of animals [02:41]Characteristics of different animals to contribute to healing [04:49]How to benefit from animals without owning a pet [06:20]Conclusion [09:56]Additional Resources
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#60
05/24/2025
Introduction
Topic Introduction [01:01]Main Topics
Jamie's story of 20 years ago [01:20]Being honest with children [04:24]Hiding our emotions [07:51]The need to handle death in our society [09:58]Handling anniversaries [12:21]Waiting to discard his belongings [14:50]Finding support communities [18:35]Conclusion [21:34]Additional Resources
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#59
05/17/2025
Introduction
Topic Introduction [01:01]Main Topics
How writing can help process grief [01:38]Different types of writing for grief [03:16]Developing a regular habit of writing [05:42]Notable writers who have written about grief [08:32]Summary and Conclusion [09:30]Additional Resources
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#58
05/10/2025
Introduction
Topic Introduction [01:01]Main Topics
Pain x Resistance = Suffering [01:43]Pain [02:39]Resistance [03:31]Suffering [04:20]Acceptance and mindfulness [07:57]Cognitive-behavioral strategies [08:45]Conclusion [10:40]Additional Resources
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#57
05/03/2025
Introduction
Topic Introduction [01:01]Main Topics
Personal grief vs. ancestral grief [01:50]Historical trauma [02:32]Transgenerational trauma [03:19]Emotional symptoms of ancestral grief [04:05]Family dynamics [05:20]Cultural symbols and rituals [06:10]Questions to ask yourself [06:50]Therapeutic practices for healing ancestral grief [07:24]The Emotion Code [08:47Summary and conclusion [11:04]Additional Resources
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#56
04/26/2025
Introduction
Topic Introduction [01:01]Main Topics
Research study about complicated grief, COVID-19, and connection to nature [02:06]Nature's positive effects on physical health [03:52]Biophilia [04:34]Getting actively involved in nature [05:23]Enjoying nature passively [06:10]Practicing mindfulness in nature [06:44]Ecotherapy [07:22]Challenges to experiencing the healing benefits of nature [08:14]Incorporating nature into your home [08:46]Accessibility issues [9:40]Conclusion [10:16]Additional Resources
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#55
04/19/2025
Introduction
Topic Introduction [01:01]Main Topics
The significance of rituals [01:40]Personal rituals [03:05]Community rituals [03:47]Cultural traditions [04:26]Virtual rituals [05:08]Intentions behind rituals [06:17]Symbols in rituals [06:50]Timing and frequency [07:43]Finding new meaning after loss [09:28]Conclusion [10:46]Additional Resources
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#54
04/12/2025
Introduction
Topic Introduction [01:01]Main Topics
The role of food during times of loss and grief [01:48]Cooking or baking as an outlet when grieving [03:23]Comfort foods [04:45]Cooking as a way of expressing emotions [05:31]Childhood memories [07:28]Emotional eating [08:12]The dangers of children thinking food is a fix for feelings [09:26]Mindful eating [10:11]Being mindful when trying to be helpful [11:11]Conclusion [12:12]Additional Resources
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#53
04/05/2025
Introduction
Topic Introduction [01:01]Main Topics
What is forgiveness? [02:31]What forgiveness is not [03:39]How to begin the forgiveness process [06:18]Forgiveness as a journey [08:50]The benefits of forgiving others [09:23]Recap of today's episode [10:06]Conclusion [10:48]Additional Resources
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#52
03/29/2025
Introduction
Topic Introduction [01:01]Main Topics
Caregiver types and their roles[01:54]Grief and how it can affect caregivers [05:06]Establishing self-care routines among caregivers [06:35]Practicing mindfulness and stress-reduction techniques [07:26]My experience as a caregiver [08:06]Resources available [09:45]Conclusion [11:27]Additional Resources
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#51
03/22/2025
Introduction
Topic Introduction [01:01]Main Topics
The loss of a loved one [01:36]Divorce [03:40]Job changes [05:52]Relocation [07:55]Health changes [09:54]Coping Strategies [11:51]Conclusion [15:02]Additional Resources
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#50
03/15/2025
Introduction
Topic Introduction [01:01]Main Topics
Film as a powerful medium to explore emotions like grief [01:27]Cinematography's role in shaping emotions [02:19]"Dead Poets Society" [03:57]"What Dreams May Come" [04:58]"The Fault in Our Stars" [05:57]"Remember Me" [06:46]"All My Life" [07:30]Other films about grief [08:17]Movies as a powerful means for healing [09:16]Selecting movies to watch [10:03]Conclusion [10:55]Additional Resources
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#49
03/08/2025
Introduction
Topic Introduction [01:01]Main Topics
Spirituality and how people interpret their life experiences [01:56]Incorporating spiritual practices [04:08]The search for meaning [05:50]The concept of mysticism and the connection to grief and spirituality[10:51]Summary and conclusion [13:35]Additional Resources
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#48
03/01/2025
Introduction
Topic Introduction [01:01]Main Topics
How children perceive death at different ages [01:19]When my brother died [02:35]Tips for initiating conversation with children about death [05:19]Experience with a grief group for children [08:48]Considerations around conversations with children [09:32]Resources available [12:32]Conclusion [13:28]Additional Resources
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