The Driven Introvert Podcast
The Driven Introvert is a faith-inspired podcast designed for purposeful introverts. It's the place to be for dreamers, doers, and entrepreneurs ready to bring to life the dreams, callings, and ideas God has placed in their hearts.Are you holding onto an idea that you've been thinking about for a while but are unsure how to start?Do you sense that God is calling you to step out and do something new, but fear, uncertainty, or lack of clarity is holding you back?Our goal is to help you Get Unstuck, make progress on your God-inspired ideas, and find a...
How to Make Good Decisions When You’re Starting Over: For the Introspective Introvert
Let's talk about Starting Over.
Making decisions is hard enough. But what happens when you're making decisions in a season where you feel completely unqualified? When you're a beginner literally feel like you're starting over again.Â
In this episode of The Driven Introvert Podcast, we continue reading through The Next Right Thing by Emily P. Freeman, and today we’re sitting with a simple but powerful truth: It’s okay to be a beginner.
I share what it looked like for me when I was starting over — from moving to a new cou...
Navigating Uncertainties in Life? Here’s How to Get Unstuck and Move Forward with Making Decisions
When we're navigating uncertainties in life, why do we expect ourselves to always know what to do?
In this episode, I’m sharing honest reflections on how to make decisions, especially when the stakes feel high and clarity feels far away.Â
If you’re navigating uncertainties in life and are afraid of making the wrong move, if you’re overthinking every step, or if you’ve ever wondered whether you’ll miss what God is trying to say… this one’s for you.
We’ll talk about:
Why practice matters when making decisionsWhat to...How to Trust God with Your Hard Decisions. For the Faith Driven Entrepreneur
Let's talk about how to trust God with hard decisions.Â
How do you make decisions when you’re scared of getting it wrong?
In this episode, we’re digging deep into the quiet truths we believe about God and how those beliefs shape every decision we make. You’ll hear a personal story about fear, faith, and missed opportunities, and why it's not just about what you believe, but how you live it out. This is about how to trust God with difficult decisions.Â
Plus, we’ll explore one simple yet powerful pr...
How to Make Decisions Without Rushing or Hesitating. (For the Introspective Introvert.)
Are you making decisions too quickly or not at all because fear is secretly in the driver’s seat?
Let's talk about how to make decisions with grace.
In this episode, I share a personal story about building my business and how a conversation with my husband helped me realize I was moving fast… out of fear. I talk about how to make decisions and what it means to pause, listen, and name the feelings we often bury.
Inspired by Chapter 3 of The Next Right Thing by Emily Freeman, this is an honest refl...
How to Make Big Decisions Without Calling a Committee (For Introvert Leaders)
Let's talk about how to make decisions. Unmade decisions create a heavy kind of chaos. We carry them everywhere, into our work, our families, even our prayers. In this episode, I reflect on Emily P. Freeman’s book The Next Right Thing (on How to Make Decisions) and what it means to become a “soul minimalist.”
Instead of calling a committee every time we’re at a crossroads, what if we cleared the clutter, leaned into silence, and made space to hear God?
I share:
The kinds of big decisions that often leave us stuckWhy...How to Make Decisions Even When You're Uncertain
Let's talk about how to make decisions.
What do you do when you’re faced with a decision so big, it steals your peace?
This episode kicks off a brand new series on decision-making, because I’m in it too.
From job changes to big life moves, we all face decisions that make our hearts race. In this intro episode, I talk about how to make decisions, and I share how I’m navigating my own path (including starting a new company!) with insight from The Next Right Thing by Emily Freeman...
You Need to Rewire Your Brain for Success. Here’s Why. (Introvert Success Strategies)
What if the very thing you're avoiding is the key to your next breakthrough?
Let's talk about Introvert Success Strategies.
In this episode, I read an excerpt from Uncomfortably Pivot by Sunkanmi Agbomeji, a must-read for anyone navigating career pivots, unconventional transitions, or feeling called to something more. This book is basically career development for introverts or anyone who wants to go from dreamer to doer.
As an introvert, I also share my journey with risk aversion and the mindset shift I’m working through. I've needed Introvert Success Strategies in my own jo...
How to Become Who You're Meant to Be. Lessons from John Maxwell.
Ever feel like there’s a version of you waiting to emerge but fear, doubt, or comfort is holding you back?
In this episode, I read a powerful excerpt from Today Matters by John C. Maxwell and share a deeply personal story about how a simple mindset shift began a major transformation in my life.
We talk about:
Why change starts in the mindThe tension between comfort and callingAnd the one question that can shift everything: Are you ready to close the gap between who you are and who you want to be?Yo...
Have Disappointments Stopped You from Dreaming? Do This!
Have you forgotten how to dream?
In this episode, I read an excerpt from Women Act Now by Anna McCoy and reflect on why we stop dreaming and how to start again. Life gets hard. Disappointments pile up. It’s easier to sit in the comfort of the known. But there is a place, within you yet beyond you, where purpose and possibility live.
It's called Dreamland.
If you’ve felt stuck or jaded, this is your invitation to imagine again, believe again, and reach for more, guided by faith, not fear.
Su...
Struggling with Finding Your Purpose? Lessons from Barack Obama
Ever feel like your life is made up of random pieces that don’t quite fit?
In this episode, I read an excerpt from A Promised Land by Barack Obama that beautifully captures the feeling of not belonging. Of being everywhere and nowhere at once.
I reflect on what it means to "tinker" with our lives, gather the pieces, and trust that even if we don’t have all the answers now, they’ll make sense in time.
If you’ve ever wrestled with uncertainty about your purpose or your path, this one’s for you.<...
What If Your Job Is Draining You Because It’s the Wrong Fit?
What happens when you’re great at your job but miserable in it?
In this episode, I read an excerpt from Stand Out 2.0 by Marcus Buckingham and share the story of Michael, a capable, kind professional who got promoted out of alignment with his strengths, and ultimately burned out.
We explore:
Why knowing your strengths isn’t optionalThe emotional toll of the “wrong fit”What to do when your work no longer feels like “you”This one’s for anyone who’s ever asked, “Why does this job drain me?”
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You’re Not Lazy. You’re Facing Resistance. Here’s Why.
What if the real reason you’re not writing the book, building the thing, or pursuing your next step... is resistance?
In this episode, I share powerful excerpts from The War of Art by Steven Pressfield, a book that’s helped me recognize and push through the invisible force that holds so many of us back.
If you’ve been struggling to stay consistent, show up, or move forward on something that really matters to you, listen in. You’re not alone. This episode is your reminder to fight back and do your work.
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How to Get Clarity When You Feel Lost. Time to Get Unstuck.
Feeling confused, stuck, or like you're stumbling around in the dark?Â
Want to get unstuck and find true clarity as you move forward in life?
In this episode, I share why clarity, even if it's not complete, is one of the most powerful gifts you can pursue.
I talk about:
Why a little clarity can bring big peaceWhat to do when anxiety is driven by the unknownThree simple steps to get unstuckThis is for the person who’s been asking, “What now?” and is ready to take the next step, even if...
3 Signs You're Not Ready to Grow
You say you're ready to grow, but are you really?
In this honest and practical episode, we’re diving into the three clearest signs that you might not be as ready for growth as you think. If you’ve been praying for more, dreaming about the next level, or setting goals that never seem to stick, this conversation will help you pause, reflect, and realign.
We talk through:
Why self-awareness is the foundation of growthHow avoiding feedback could be holding you backWhat it means when you keep running from hard thingsThis episode isn’...
When 9-5 Is Not for You. Owning Your Nontraditional Career Path.
You’ve tried the 9–5. Maybe you’ve even tried a few different versions of it. And still, something’s off.
Do you ever feel like the path everyone else is walking… just isn’t meant for you?
You’re not alone. In this episode, I’m sharing my journey of choosing a nontraditional career path and how to stay grounded when the road is unclear.
We’ll talk about:
Why feeling “out of place” at work might be a clue, not a curseHow to stop fighting for approval and start building your pathWhat to do when your dream...How to Cope with Job Loss, Unemployment, or Underemployment
If you’ve lost a job, feel stuck in underemployment, or are questioning where your next paycheck will come from, I want to speak directly to your heart in this episode.Â
Job loss, unemployment, or underemployment can feel like a punch to the gut.
It shakes your confidence, makes you question your worth, and often leaves you isolated in your thoughts.Â
In this episode, I share my personal story of facing rejection, uncertainty, and financial hardship after finishing my master’s program—and how God met me in that dark place.
We tal...
3 Ways to Motivate Yourself in a Slow Season
Are you feeling stuck or uninspired? Like life has slowed to a halt, and nothing’s moving forward?
In this episode, I share three heartfelt, practical ways to stay motivated in a slow season, when your energy is low, your progress feels stalled, and your faith is being tested.
Whether you’re wrestling with discouragement, waiting for a breakthrough, or just feeling off, this episode will offer a warm reminder that you are not alone, and you’re not without options.
We cover:
Why reflecting on your past blessings can reignite your joyThe...How to Find Your Voice as an Introvert
Are you still searching for your purpose? Do you feel disconnected or unfulfilled? This episode is your reminder that your voice starts with what excites you, and it grows when you share it with others. I challenge the narrow view of what it means to “use your voice” and guide you through a simple question that could unlock your purpose, joy, and confidence, especially as an introvert.
Listen in for a fresh way to think about purpose, community, and the power of small steps.
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Are You Feeling Invisible and Lonely? Listen to This.
Have you ever walked into a room and felt invisible? Like everyone else, had the script and you somehow missed the rehearsal? Do you feel lonely and overlooked in your social spaces or friend groups?Â
In this episode of Introvert Problems, Faith Solutions, I’m sharing a personal story from my early days in the U.S. — culture shock, social struggles, and the unexpected kindness of one new friend. If you're an introvert who has ever felt like the odd one out, this is for you.
This one’s close to my heart. I hope it encou...
You Can Lead at the Highest Level as an Introvert. Here’s How.
Are you an introvert navigating the corporate world and wondering how to thrive without pretending to be someone you’re not?
In this episode, we dive into what it really means to embrace your introversion at work. From impostor syndrome to leadership potential, we discuss practical strategies to stand out without burning out.
Whether you're early in your career or building your leadership voice, this one will encourage and equip you.
Know an introvert with a desire to succeed at work? Please share this episode with them.
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How to Thrive at Your Corporate Job as an Introvert Leader
Are you an introvert leader navigating the corporate world and wondering how to thrive without pretending to be someone you’re not?
In this episode, I’m joined by three incredible women each bringing their own insight and experience on what it looks like to truly succeed as an introvert leader in the workplace. It's time to get unstuck, friend.
Ogochukwu Adesina is a Human Resources expert in one of the world's top consumer goods companies.
Krystle Barrington is an author, writer, content creator, and IT program anal...
80% of Your Thoughts Today Are Holding You Back—Let’s Fix That
Did you know you have over 60,000 thoughts a day? And more than 80% of them are probably negative? That means most of what we’re thinking today is the same stuff we thought yesterday—and a lot of it isn’t even helpful.
In this episode, I’m talking about something we all deal with but don’t always realize—limiting thoughts.
I’ll be honest, I’ve had seasons where my thoughts were running the show in the worst way. I was talking to myself crazy, doubting everything God had put on my he...
How to Know You’re Growing from Year to Year by Being Introspective. For Introvert Leaders.
Are you introspective?
What if you had KPIs (Key Performance Indicators) for your personal life? What if you could measure who you are now against some past version of you? Would it help you know for sure that you’re growing and getting better?
In this episode, I share my perspective on being introspective and why reflection and journaling are great ways to measure your personal growth and development.Â
Whether you're a faith-driven entrepreneur, looking for career development for introverts, making big decisions or working to get unstuck and go from dreamer to doe...
How to Master Networking for Introverts. For the Faith Driven Entrepreneur.
Let's talk about networking for introverts. Are you an introvert who struggles with the overwhelm and expectations of traditional networking events?Â
Do you find it difficult to make genuine connections and grow your personal or professional network?
I know exactly how that feels. In this episode, I’m sharing my perspective on how to network intentionally by focusing on your strengths and natural abilities. We’ll talk about how to lean into your love of one-on-one connections and lead with generosity when you're considering networking for introverts.
I invite you to consider these strat...
How to Rest, Recharge, and Build Your Inner World. For Introverts.
Are you an introvert who loves and needs alone time but struggles with asking for it? Do you find it hard to rest and recharge even when you do have time alone?
I know exactly how that feels. In this episode, I’m sharing my perspective on how to deal with the guilt that sometimes comes with wanting solitude and alone time, and also strategies for making your rest time actually rejuvenating for you.Â
I invite you to consider these strategies as you build inner strength and confidence for the life you want to live.
<...How to Speak up for Yourself. Assertiveness Strategies for Introverts.
Are you an introvert who struggles with speaking up for yourself? Do you find it hard to ask for what you need or challenge others when you’re being taken advantage of?
I know exactly how that feels. In this episode, I’m sharing my perspective on how to deal with a lack of assertiveness that many introverts experience while also learning to build confidence and strength in your voice.
I invite you to consider these strategies as you build inner strength and confidence for the life you want to live.
I’d love t...
3 Strategies for Navigating New and Unfamiliar Spaces. For the Introspective Introvert
Are you an introvert who struggles with navigating new and unfamiliar environments? Do you find it hard to enjoy loud or crowded spaces because you’re overwhelmed or concerned for your physical safety?
I know exactly how that feels. In this episode, I’m sharing my perspective on how to deal with exhausting, unfamiliar situations while challenging ourselves to become more confident and capable. This is personal growth for introverts.
I invite you to consider these strategies as you build inner strength and confidence for the life you want to live.
I’d love t...
How to Master Small Talk in 3 Easy Steps. For the Driven Introvert.
Do you struggle with small talk? Do you find it hard to meet new people and strike up light and easy conversations at parties, conferences, or networking events? Then this episode is for you.
I know what it feels like to feel tongue-tied, unsure of what to say and how to engage when you meet new people or in unfamiliar situations. Many introverts experience this, but it doesn't have to be a deterrent to being the intentional leader God has called you to be.
In this episode, I share my perspective and offer tips and...
3 Life-Giving Strategies for the Socially Exhausted Introvert
Are you an introvert who struggles with social exhaustion? Do you find it hard to engage in social situations at work or otherwise because you’re drained by conversations and being around people?
I know exactly how that feels. In this episode, I’m sharing my perspective on how to deal with exhausting social situations by leaning on our faith in God.
I invite you to consider these strategies as you build inner strength and confidence for the life you want to live.
I’d love to hear your takeaways.
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How to Uncover Your Hidden Motivations Using the Enneagram
Do you know why you do the things you do, the way you do them? Are you interested in uncovering your motivations so you can be self-aware and pursue growth and development wth intention?
In this episode, Jackie Brewster, Enneagram Coach and Host of the podcast Enneagaram with JB, dives into the power of the Enneagram for growth and transformation. She was also kind enough to coach me through the Enneagram and help me understand what it means for me to be a Type 1 with wings 2 and 9.Â
If you’re interested in personal growth or cur...
Are You Ready to Get up on the Inside? Stop Playing Small!
Welcome to Season 3!
Thanks for sticking with me. We’re keeping the inspiration and encouragement going as I challenge you to face your limiting beliefs and get up on the inside!
Listen for insights on what to expect this season. A new series, conversations with guests, and behind the scenes of a new project I’m working on.Â
Thanks for being here.
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Ask a question or leave a comment, visit shepact.com/voicemail Follow me on Instagram at in...Introducing: The Fertility Freak Podcast
Introducing the Fertility Freak podcast.
Trying to conceive and feeling overwhelmed by conflicting advice? The Fertility Freak Podcast is your go-to source for faith-based fertility insights, expert strategies, and real success stories. Hosted by Michelle Tillman, a fertility strategist with a proven track record of helping women get pregnant naturally, this podcast goes beyond generic TTC tips to help you optimize your fertility—whether you're trying to conceive naturally or preparing for IVF.
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Each bi-weekly episode breaks down:
The science behind natural conception – hormones, cycles, and...How ChildFund Helped Make My Dream Come True
This episode is my participation in the 3rd edition of Podcasthon! For one week, more than a thousand podcasts will highlight a charity of their choice. In this episode I have the pleasure of talking about my commitment to ChildFund, a nonprofit that serves children in need around the world.Â
Thanks for listening.
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And here to check out other charities highlighted as part of Podcasthon.
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Ask a question or leave a comment, v...How to Overcome the Fears That Come with Changing Your Life
Do you feel a deep desire to change your life, but are afraid of the unknown? What if it doesn't work? What if you don't have what it takes to succeed? What if everyone was right and you’re not cut out for this?
In this episode Stella Agwor shares her story of making a major career pivot as a busy mom of three and how she had to silence the fears and limiting beliefs in order to do it.
Learn more about Stella’s work here
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Are You Determined to Pursue the Life You Want? + Echoes from My First Plane Ride Ever.
How far would you go to follow a dream? How determined are you to pursue the life you want?
In this episode I share a story I wrote many years ago that reminds me of the power of determination and what is possible (or not :)) when we find the strength to keep going despite adversity.
Click here to read my story, Life is not a fairy tale.Â
P.S. The story has terms you may not be familiar with. Hence the glossary at the bottom of the page. Thanks for reading! :)
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Are You Afraid of Trying Something New? Here's Your Sign. Do It Anyway!
Have you ever done something difficult that you felt was going to be an epic fail but turned out to be one of the best things that ever happened to you? That’s what happened when I attended a big industry conference by myself.Â
As an introvert, it felt like my worst nightmare but this conversation I’m sharing with you was one beautiful thing that came out of that experience.
If you're looking for a sign to step out of your comfort zone and do something new, this is it!
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Want to Become a Trier? Here’s How + Celebrating One Year of the Show!
Are you a trier? Are you constantly taking shots, doing the best you can or are you waiting for life to happen to you?Â
In this bonus episode, I’m joined by my special person as we talk about my journey to becoming a trier and we also celebrate one year of The Driven Introvert podcast! How time flies!Â
We chat about podcasting, some of my dream guests, myths about introverts, and more.
Thanks for listening. I appreciate you!
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Ask a qu...Want to Build Confidence as You Pursue Your Purpose? Here’s How.
In today's episode, I chat with Coach Anna McCoy, a speaker, coach, personal development specialist, entrepreneur, and creative genius.Â
We discuss what it means to develop and walk in your inner confidence and the power of empathy and practice in showing up as a self-assured woman. We delve into the power of AI and how it can drastically improve your workflow and output as a woman in business and why the exercise of envisioning your ideal scene is crucial to achieving your goals and big ideas.Â
You guys, this is the conversation where I get co...
From Nigeria to Silicon Valley: Diary of an Impostor
Ever felt like you don’t belong at work or in professional spaces despite your achievements and successes? Fehintolu’s story will definitely resonate with you!
A huge thank you Sarah for her email and to Fehintolu Adebanjo for her story on Impostor Syndrome.Â
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When Life Gets in the Way of Your Dreams... | Bonus Ep. 5
I started a new business!
And I'm documenting the process.
And sharing it on the podcast.
Follow along and let me know what you think.
Disclaimer: These BTS episodes are not in real-time. It takes time to record the moments, edit, and release them in between regular episodes.
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The business website is up at selahville.com.
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