The Driven Introvert Podcast

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By: Remi Roy

The Driven Introvert is a faith-inspired podcast designed for purposeful introverts. It's the place to be for dreamers, doers, and entrepreneurs ready to bring to life the dreams, callings, and ideas God has placed in their hearts.Are you holding onto an idea that you've been thinking about for a while but are unsure how to start?Do you sense that God is calling you to step out and do something new, but fear, uncertainty, or lack of clarity is holding you back?Our goal is to help you Get Unstuck, make progress on your God-inspired ideas, and find a...

You Can Lead at the Highest Level as an Introvert. Here’s How.
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Today at 5:00 AM

Are you an introvert navigating the corporate world and wondering how to thrive without pretending to be someone you’re not?

In this episode, we dive into what it really means to embrace your introversion at work. From impostor syndrome to leadership potential, we discuss practical strategies to stand out without burning out.

Whether you're early in your career or building your leadership voice, this one will encourage and equip you.

Know an introvert with a desire to succeed at work? Please share this episode with them.

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How to Thrive at Your Corporate Job as an Introvert
#11
06/08/2025

Are you an introvert navigating the corporate world and wondering how to thrive without pretending to be someone you’re not?

In this episode, I’m joined by three incredible women—each bringing their own insight and experience on what it looks like to truly succeed as an introvert in the workplace.

Ogochukwu Adesina is a Human Resources expert in one of the world's top consumer goods companies.

Krystle Barrington is an author, writer, content creator, and IT program analyst

Fehintolu Adebanjo is a tech...


80% of Your Thoughts Today Are Holding You Back—Let’s Fix That
#10
06/01/2025

Did you know you have over 60,000 thoughts a day? And more than 80% of them are probably negative? That means most of what we’re thinking today is the same stuff we thought yesterday—and a lot of it isn’t even helpful.

In this episode, I’m talking about something we all deal with but don’t always realize—limiting thoughts.

I’ll be honest, I’ve had seasons where my thoughts were running the show in the worst way. I was talking to myself crazy, doubting everything God had put on my he...


How to Know You’re Growing from Year to Year
#9
05/25/2025

What if you had KPIs (Key Performance Indicators) for your personal life? What if you could measure who you are now against some past version of you? Would it help you know for sure that you’re growing and getting better?

In this episode, I share my perspective on why reflection and journaling are great ways to measure your personal growth and development. I read from my past journal and challenge you to do a reflection exercise that you’ll evaluate a year from now. Let’s grow together!

I’d love to hear your takeaway...


How to Network like an Introvert
#8
05/18/2025

Are you an introvert who struggles with the overwhelm and expectations of traditional networking events? Do you find it difficult to make genuine connections and grow your personal or professional network?

I know exactly how that feels. In this episode, I’m sharing my perspective on how to network intentionally by focusing on your strengths and natural abilities. We’ll talk about how to lean into your love of one-on-one connections and lead with generosity.

I invite you to consider these strategies as you build your network and develop confidence for the life you want to l...


How to Rest, Recharge, and Build Your Inner World. For Introverts.
#7
05/11/2025

Are you an introvert who loves and needs alone time but struggles with asking for it? Do you find it hard to rest and recharge even when you do have time alone?

I know exactly how that feels. In this episode, I’m sharing my perspective on how to deal with the guilt that sometimes comes with wanting solitude and alone time, and also strategies for making your rest time actually rejuvenating for you. 

I invite you to consider these strategies as you build inner strength and confidence for the life you want to live.

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How to Speak up for Yourself. Assertiveness Strategies for Introverts.
#6
05/04/2025

Are you an introvert who struggles with speaking up for yourself? Do you find it hard to ask for what you need or challenge others when you’re being taken advantage of?

I know exactly how that feels. In this episode, I’m sharing my perspective on how to deal with a lack of assertiveness that many introverts experience while also learning to build confidence and strength in your voice.

I invite you to consider these strategies as you build inner strength and confidence for the life you want to live.

I’d love t...


3 Strategies for Navigating New and Unfamiliar Spaces. For Introverts.
#5
04/27/2025

Are you an introvert who struggles with navigating new and unfamiliar environments? Do you find it hard to enjoy loud or crowded spaces because you’re overwhelmed or concerned for your physical safety?

I know exactly how that feels. In this episode, I’m sharing my perspective on how to deal with exhausting, unfamiliar situations while challenging ourselves to become more confident and capable.

I invite you to consider these strategies as you build inner strength and confidence for the life you want to live.

I’d love to hear your takeaways.

C...


How to Master Small Talk in 3 Easy Steps. For the Driven Introvert.
#4
04/20/2025

Do you struggle with small talk? Do you find it hard to meet new people and strike up light and easy conversations at parties, conferences, or networking events? Then this episode is for you.

I know what it feels like to feel tongue-tied, unsure of what to say and how to engage when you meet new people or in unfamiliar situations. Many introverts experience this, but it doesn't have to be a deterrent to being the intentional leader God has called you to be.

In this episode, I share my perspective and offer tips and...


3 Life-Giving Strategies for the Socially Exhausted Introvert
#3
04/13/2025

Are you an introvert who struggles with social exhaustion? Do you find it hard to engage in social situations at work or otherwise because you’re drained by conversations and being around people?

I know exactly how that feels. In this episode, I’m sharing my perspective on how to deal with exhausting social situations by leaning on our faith in God.

I invite you to consider these strategies as you build inner strength and confidence for the life you want to live.

I’d love to hear your takeaways.

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How to Uncover Your Hidden Motivations Using the Enneagram
#2
04/06/2025

Do you know why you do the things you do, the way you do them? Are you interested in uncovering your motivations so you can be self-aware and pursue growth and development wth intention?

In this episode, Jackie Brewster, Enneagram Coach and Host of the podcast Enneagaram with JB, dives into the power of the Enneagram for growth and transformation. She was also kind enough to coach me through the Enneagram and help me understand what it means for me to be a Type 1 with wings 2 and 9. 

If you’re interested in personal growth or cur...


Are You Ready to Get up on the Inside? Stop Playing Small!
#1
03/30/2025

Welcome to Season 3!

Thanks for sticking with me. We’re keeping the inspiration and encouragement going as I challenge you to face your limiting beliefs and get up on the inside!

Listen for insights on what to expect this season. A new series, conversations with guests, and behind the scenes of a new project I’m working on. 

Thanks for being here.

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Introducing: The Fertility Freak Podcast
#24
03/23/2025

Introducing the Fertility Freak podcast.

Trying to conceive and feeling overwhelmed by conflicting advice? The Fertility Freak Podcast is your go-to source for faith-based fertility insights, expert strategies, and real success stories. Hosted by Michelle Tillman, a fertility strategist with a proven track record of helping women get pregnant naturally, this podcast goes beyond generic TTC tips to help you optimize your fertility—whether you're trying to conceive naturally or preparing for IVF.

Click here to listen to the show

Each bi-weekly episode breaks down:

The science behind natural conception – hormones, cycles, and...


How ChildFund Helped Make My Dream Come True
#23
03/16/2025

This episode is my participation in the 3rd edition of Podcasthon! For one week, more than a thousand podcasts will highlight a charity of their choice. In this episode I have the pleasure of talking about my commitment to ChildFund, a nonprofit that serves children in need around the world. 

Thanks for listening.

Click here to learn more about ChildFund

And here to check out other charities highlighted as part of Podcasthon.

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How to Overcome the Fears That Come with Changing Your Life
#22
03/09/2025

Do you feel a deep desire to change your life, but are afraid of the unknown? What if it doesn't work? What if you don't have what it takes to succeed? What if everyone was right and you’re not cut out for this?

In this episode Stella Agwor shares her story of making a major career pivot as a busy mom of three and how she had to silence the fears and limiting beliefs in order to do it.

Learn more about Stella’s work here

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Are You Determined to Pursue the Life You Want? + Echoes from My First Plane Ride Ever.
#21
03/02/2025

How far would you go to follow a dream? How determined are you to pursue the life you want?

In this episode I share a story I wrote many years ago that reminds me of the power of determination and what is possible (or not :)) when we find the strength to keep going despite adversity.

Click here to read my story, Life is not a fairy tale. 

P.S. The story has terms you may not be familiar with. Hence the glossary at the bottom of the page. Thanks for reading! :)


Are You Afraid of Trying Something New? Here's Your Sign. Do It Anyway!
#20
02/23/2025

Have you ever done something difficult that you felt was going to be an epic fail but turned out to be one of the best things that ever happened to you? That’s what happened when I attended a big industry conference by myself. 

As an introvert, it felt like my worst nightmare but this conversation I’m sharing with you was one beautiful thing that came out of that experience.

If you're looking for a sign to step out of your comfort zone and do something new, this is it!

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Want to Become a Trier? Here’s How + Celebrating One Year of the Show!
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02/16/2025

Are you a trier? Are you constantly taking shots, doing the best you can or are you waiting for life to happen to you? 

In this bonus episode, I’m joined by my special person as we talk about my journey to becoming a trier and we also celebrate one year of The Driven Introvert podcast! How time flies! 

We chat about podcasting, some of my dream guests, myths about introverts, and more.

Thanks for listening. I appreciate you!

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Want to Build Confidence as You Pursue Your Purpose? Here’s How.
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02/09/2025

In today's episode, I chat with Coach Anna McCoy, a speaker, coach, personal development specialist, entrepreneur, and creative genius. 

We discuss what it means to develop and walk in your inner confidence and the power of empathy and practice in showing up as a self-assured woman. We delve into the power of AI and how it can drastically improve your workflow and output as a woman in business and why the exercise of envisioning your ideal scene is crucial to achieving your goals and big ideas. 

You guys, this is the conversation where I get co...


From Nigeria to Silicon Valley: Diary of an Impostor
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02/02/2025

Ever felt like you don’t belong at work or in professional spaces despite your achievements and successes? Fehintolu’s story will definitely resonate with you!

A huge thank you Sarah for her email and to Fehintolu Adebanjo for her story on Impostor Syndrome. 

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When Life Gets in the Way of Your Dreams... | Bonus Ep. 5
#16
01/26/2025

I started a new business!
And I'm documenting the process.
And sharing it on the podcast.
Follow along and let me know what you think.

Disclaimer: These BTS episodes are not in real-time. It takes time to record the moments, edit, and release them in between regular episodes.
Thanks!

The business website is up at selahville.com.

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How to Prioritize Your Next Step. Let Go of the Good to Make Space for the Great.
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01/19/2025

Do you feel pulled in different directions? Are you unsure what you should be focusing on right now? Do you have many unfinished ideas and projects? You’re not alone.

In this episode, I share the simple framework that helps me prioritize my good ideas so I can focus on the ones with immense potential and give myself the chance to succeed by reaching the finish line. 

If you’re a creative person with many good ideas, you will find this episode helpful in navigating your next steps.

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How to Thrive at Work in 2025. Tips and Strategies from a Career Coach.
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01/12/2025

Do you feel overwhelmed and confused about your career path? Are you looking for some direction on how to thrive at work or grow in your career? The New Year is a great time to reset and refocus with fresh strategies to move you forward.

In this episode, my guest Jennifer Bouley shares some practical tips and strategies to help you do a career pivot, grow in your current job, or stay relevant in your industry.

Whatever your career looks like right now, this episode has insights you can use.

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How to Start the New Year Without Overwhelm: An Introvert's Guide
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01/05/2025

Have you been feeling overwhelmed? Did the holiday season feel like a lot and you find yourself bringing that same energy into the New Year? 

In this episode, I share some practical tips and strategies to help you reclaim your peace, set expectations, and focus on what matters most.

If you’re an introvert who is prone to worry, doing too much, or feeling overwhelmed, this is for you. Share this episode with a friend so we can all thrive as we step fully into 2025.

Congratulations to Charlyn Styles and Tracia Holland for win...


Want to Make Rapid Progress in 2025? Do This One Thing!
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12/29/2024

Do you want 2025 to be your best year yet? The year you make big strides, move forward in your goals, and experience fulfillment? Then I invite you to “Fear Set” with me.

Your career, health, and family life [insert whatever else you care about here] might depend on it. Listen for details on the one exercise that could change everything.

Click here to download the fear-setting worksheet

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Sharing my Story, Copywriting, Lead Generation, Updates on My New Business | Bonus Ep. 4
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12/22/2024

I'm starting a new business!
And documenting the process.
And sharing it on the podcast.
Follow along and let me know what you think.

Disclaimer: These BTS episodes are not in real-time. It takes time to record the moments, edit, and release them in between regular episodes.
Thanks!

The business website is now up at selahville.com.

Check out my Today's Purpose Woman magazine feature here.

If you need a website or branding for your business, my friend Cynthia Akita is awesome! Check out her work here. 


What Made You Feel Most Defeated in 2024? | Pep Talk
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12/15/2024

What area of your life made you feel most defeated in 2024? 

Your relationships? Something with your kids? Your career or business?

In this episode, I share my own experiences and encourage you to step into 2025 determined to move one step closer to the life you truly want.

There’s so much more good ahead than there is behind you. Lean into hope with me.

You can do this!

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My Limiting Beliefs, Oursourcing Tasks, Updates on My New Business | Bonus Ep 3
#9
12/08/2024

I'm starting a new business!
And documenting the process.
And sharing it on the podcast.
Follow along and let me know what you think.

The business website is now up at selahville.com

Check out Simon Squibb's video on 30 years of business knowledge here

Will be sharing bits on Instagram too.
Follow me here.

Disclaimer: These BTS episodes are not in real-time. It takes time to record the moments, edit, and release them in between regular episodes.
Thanks!

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What Was the Point? | Reflections on 2024
#8
12/01/2024

How was 2024 for you? Are you experiencing a general feeling of contentment or is it mixed with regret and frustration?

Are you excited to leave 2024 behind or maybe a little anxious about the New Year?

Whatever you’re feeling, I invite you to take a breather with me as we reflect on 2024.

I pose three crucial reflection questions that I hope will help you step into the new season with purpose and intention.

I’d love to hear your takeaways.

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Watch Me Build A New Business | Bonus Ep 2
#7
11/24/2024

I'm starting a new business!
And documenting the process.
And sharing it on the podcast.
Follow along and let me know what you think.

Will be sharing bits on Instagram too.
Follow me here.

Disclaimer: These BTS episodes are not in real time. It takes time to record the moments, edit, and release them in between regular episodes.
Thanks!

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How to Beat Shyness and Pursue Your Passions
#6
11/17/2024

Are you a shy introvert who’s ready to embrace your God-given confidence? Are you tired of letting fear, anxiety, and shyness rob you of opportunities, relationships, and fulfillment? Are you ready to beat shyness and pursue your passions?

In this episode, I share five practical steps you can begin to take today to break out of the limiting mindset that comes with extreme shyness and go after the dreams, goals, and life God created for you to live.

I’d love to hear your perspective on this topic.

Thanks to Jenniphs Ricks for...


Watch Me Build A New Business | Bonus Ep 1
#5
11/10/2024

I'm starting a new business!
And documenting the process.
And sharing it on the podcast.
Follow along and let me know what you think.

Will be sharing bits on Instagram too.
Follow me here

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What It's Like to Be a NYT Best-Selling Author Ft. Abi Dare
#4
11/03/2024

Ever wonder what it takes to be at the top of your creative game? A best-selling author? An award-winning artist, editor, entrepreneur [insert your skills here]? Abi Dare breaks it down with humor and relatability as she shares her insights on creativity, success, and being a best-selling author.

She is the author of The Girl with the Louding Voice, winner of The British Book Award for Best Book of The Year, The Nigeria Prize for Literature, and many others. She’s a sought-after speaker, teacher, and writing coach.

We talk about her journey to mainstream su...


Here’s What Shyness Is Costing You
#3
10/20/2024

Do you consider yourself a shy person? Generally shy or maybe only shy in certain situations? Have you considered what you might be missing out on by letting shyness and fear of judgment affect how you move through life?

In this episode, I share four crucial things I believe we miss out on when we shrink back in fear instead of engaging with boldness and godly confidence.

I’d love to hear your perspective on this topic.

Thanks to Jenniphs Ricks for her expert contribution to this episode.

Connect with Jennipha he...


How Introverts Can Become Powerful Public Speakers Ft. Nicole Smithee
#2
10/06/2024

Are you an introvert who struggles to see yourself as a capable leader? Do you desire to be a better communicator and public speaker? Then this episode is for you!

In this episode, I chat with Nicole Smithee, a coach, Bible teacher, and author. Nicole is passionate about helping leaders thrive in their calling and providing personal and practical coaching and community for Christian female leaders.

We discuss what it means to be a leader, how to grow and improve your communication skills, and why your desire for growth should be driven by vision and...


For Those Who Feel Left Behind in Life
#1
09/22/2024

Do you feel stuck or left behind in life? Are you in a difficult season where things don't seem to be working the way you expected? I totally understand, friend. And you are not alone.

In this episode, I share my journey and provide some insight into how to reframe your perspective and take definite steps forward even if you feel overwhelmed right now. 

I pray that this episode encourages you to dream and feel alive again.

Download the free Get Unstuck guide at shepact.com/getunstuck

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Do You Need to Make a Pivot into Purpose?
#16
09/08/2024

Do you feel unfulfilled at work? Are you constantly wondering if you are in the right career or doing what you were meant to do?

In this episode, you’ll hear from Amesha McElveen, content creator, and voiceover artist.  Amesha shares her journey to finding fulfillment at work by accepting and focusing on her creative gifts and God-given passions.

You can read a text version of Amesha’s story at shepact.com/Amesha

Download the free Get Unstuck guide at shepact.com/getunstuck

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From Darkness and Depression to Shining with Purpose
#15
08/25/2024

Are you going through a difficult time trusting God? 
Are you recovering from adversity, experiencing depression or pain that no one else understands?

In this episode, you’ll hear from Sandra Rodriguez, author, entrepreneur, and mom of two.  Sandra shares her experience going from being a good little church girl to experiencing a medical crisis, discovering the true love of God, and now using her creative gifts to inspire others.

You can read a text version of Sandra’s story at shepact.com/sandra
Check out Sandra's new prayer journal here https://www.sandra...


Let Go of Your Fear of Failure
#14
08/11/2024

Are you afraid of going after your dream because you might fail?
Do you hold back from pursuing your God idea because you're uncertain how it might turn out? Let Stacey's story encourage you. 

In this episode, you’ll be hearing from Stacey Moore, a Christian Abstract Artist from New Zealand. Stacey shares her story of how fear of failure held her back from living fully and how her decision to trust God set her free to live the life he planned for her.

You can read a text version of Stacey’s story at sh...


Here’s Why You Need a Mentor + 7 Lessons From Podcasting
#13
07/21/2024

Do you have an idea you've been thinking about for a while but you’re unsure how to start?

Do you have a sense that God is calling you to step out and do something new but you’re held back by fear, uncertainty, or lack of clarity?

Do you have a sense that there's something you should be doing or creating but you’re not even sure what that thing is?

You’re not alone.

In this episode, 

I share about the new Shepact Mentorship program where I help you get u...