Spicy Spectrum
I’m Pepper Kat, host of Spicy Spectrum, an award-nominated podcast where I explore the complexities of sexuality, connection, and the inner world of male desire—especially through the unique perspective of an adult entertainer. From discussing sexuality and fantasy to addressing the deeper, often overlooked aspects of our hidden desires, I aim to open honest conversations that we all need but sometimes hesitate to have. With guests including experts and creators, we challenge misconceptions and explore what truly makes us human. I’m also the founder of Design Your Dreamgirl™, an acclaimed fantasy fulfillment experience.Step Into Your Experience with Des...
Outrageous Misconceptions About Adult Work
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On this episode, we're tackling the most outrageous misconceptions about sex work / adult industry, debunking myths and sharing interesting, some humorous anecdotes. Gain a clearer, more informed perspective on sex work and the adult industry through these entertaining stories.
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Friday Features: Big Big Cherry Gets Real, Raw, and Unfiltered
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She’s bold, beautiful, and unforgettable. In this Friday Features episode, Big Big Cherry spills on her wildest scenes, how she picks the right collabs, and what turns her on and off, both on camera and in public. From BBW confidence to how she wants to be approached at conventions, this interview is as juicy as her name.
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Spicy Special: Rose Leopold on Breaking Masculine Myths and Reclaiming Emotional Intimacy
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In this episode, intimacy coach Rose Leopold tackles the epidemic of male loneliness, breaking down misconceptions around masculinity and emotional intimacy. With a unique background in therapy and sex work, Rose offers powerful insights into how men can reclaim their emotional and sexual confidence.
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Before You Knew My Name...
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Before I was Pepper Kat, your Dreamgirl™ I was just a voice.
No face. No name. Just words and the power to make a man forget where he was.
In this episode, I’m telling you how it all began. The masked calls. The late-night cam sessions. The moment I realized that seduction starts long before you're seen. This isn’t a story about work it’s a story about fantasy.
And how I became the voice in your head you didn...
Friday Features: Turned On by a Sneeze? Leas Explains It All
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In this Friday Features episode of Spicy Spectrum, we're chatting with Leas, a UK-based sneeze fetish content creator with over 10 years of experience in the fetish space. Leas shares how she began creating SFW sneeze videos on YouTube in 2014 and later transitioned to platforms like OnlyFans and ManyVids. The conversation dives into the misconceptions around sneeze fetishes, the complexity of custom requests, and the importance of authenticity in...
Spicy Special: Exploring Safety, Sex, and Connection with Aubrey Aust
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In this Spicy Special, Aubrey Aust — a researcher, writer, and master's candidate at NYU — shares her insights into how we build safety, trust, and connection in intimate relationships. She explores the role of attachment theory, polyvagal theory, and neuroception in helping us feel truly secure with a partner. Aubrey also unpacks how attachment styles shape intimacy and why men's vulnerabilities around sexuality are often over...
Healing Through Kinks: Diving Deep into Fantasy's Emotional Playground
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The podcast episode explores the concept of using fantasy as a therapeutic outlet, particularly within the realm of adult entertainment. We're discussing how engaging in fantasy can help individuals, especially men, process complex emotions and desires in a safe and judgment-free environment. The episode delves into the therapeutic value of fantasy, supported by psychological research, highlighting how safely exploring desires can reduce shame and foster self-acceptance. The importance of distinguishing between fantasy and reality is emphasized, ensuring that fantasies remain consensual and enriching without disrupting real life.
<...Friday Features: Big Love Country Daddy Milo Cyrus on Authenticity, Uncut Hardwood, & Gay Acres
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In this episode of Friday Features on Spicy Spectrum, we're talking to Milo Cyrus, an adult content creator who blends country charm with a spicy twist. Milo discusses his journey, creating content at ‘Gay Acres’ – a picturesque rural setting in Tennessee. He elaborates on his persona, 'Big Love Country Daddy', and shares his philosophy on authenticity and quality content.
Milo talks about engaging with social media platforms, na...
Spicy Special: Sex, Kinks, Taboos & No Shame with Amanda Dames
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This Friday Features episode dives into the real, raw, and often misunderstood world of kink with Amanda Dames — a Certified Sex & Relationship Coach, Sexologist, and former professional dominatrix. From ABDL to degradation, humiliation, and other forms of roleplay, Amanda helps us unpack how our most taboo desires are often rooted in personal psychology and unspoken needs.
We talk about the shame many people feel around their kinks, how society an...
Sensuality vs. Sexuality: Exploring the Differences
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The podcast episode explores the differences between sensuality and sexuality in adult content, highlighting how these elements cater to deeper emotional and physical needs. We're sharing personal observations and experiences, underscoring the importance of intimacy and emotional connection in adult entertainment. The episode delves into the significance of sensual content in providing a safe space for consumers to explore their hidden desires and the growing preference for platforms like OnlyFans for more personal and interactive experiences. The discussion emphasizes the role of blending sensuality with sexuality to enhance...
Friday Features: Ruby Mae Reveals the Truths of High-End Companionship
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In this candid conversation, Ruby Mae, a New York-based independent companion, lifts the veil on the realities of the high-end companionship industry. She debunks common myths—from unrealistic beauty standards to the misconception that providers lack education—and sheds light on the emotional labor and business acumen required to thrive. Ruby opens up about the glamorization of sex work, and the risks involved. She also shares personal stories of growth, confidence, and how she has navigated the complexities of th...
Spicy Special: Healing, Kink, and the Secret World of Mommy Dommy with Tamara Driskell
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In this Spicy Special, psychotherapist and coach Tamara Driskell, LMHC shares powerful insights into the world of sexual healing, kink, and emotional safety. With years of experience working across the spectrum of non-monogamy, BDSM, trauma recovery, and sex work advocacy, Tamara explains how power exchange can be a deeply therapeutic experience.
She breaks down what the term BDSM really means, how cultural shame impacts...
Life Lessons Learned
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In this episode of Spicy Spectrum, we explore the profound journey of personal growth and reflection within online sex work. Pepper shares personal anecdotes, lessons learned, and the evolution of perspectives, highlighting resilience, empowerment, and authenticity in the adult entertainment industry.
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Friday Features: From Homemade to Hardcore — Nina Nova’s Journey
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In this intimate and revealing conversation, AVN-nominated Hottest Newcomer ‘25 and adult content takes us inside her decade-long journey through the adult industry, from making her own clips to starring in full-scale films. We dive into her passion for human sexuality, the rise of platforms like OnlyFans, and how she carved out a bold niche in fetish and dominatrix work. From Ball Busting to Golden Showers, Nina opens up about navigating fan relationships, dating and th...
Spicy Special: Cuffs & Kinks - A Cop’s Rare Look Inside Extreme Sex Crimes
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In light of the Diddy trial, we're diving in deep. In this eye-opening Spicy Special, I’m joined by retired police officer Doug Pfeifer, who spent 25 years investigating Alaska’s most extreme sex crimes. From shocking paraphilias to the psychology of power and taboo, Doug shares real cases that will make you rethink everything you thought you knew about “deviant” desire.
We talk kink, crime, and how his unique career inspired his new book, 50 Shades of True Crime, <...
Exclusive: I Interned for Diddy. Now I’m a Sex Worker. Let’s Talk About Power, Fame, and Agency
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I interned for Diddy.
Now I’m a sex worker with a lot to say about fame, power, and control.
In this episode, I reflect on my time inside the orbit of a music empire, what I saw, what I felt, and what shaped me. I was surrounded by celebrities, executives, and influence, and now, as someone who works in a different part of desire and visibility, I see things with new eyes.
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Dealing with Feelings: Emotional Labor
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In this episode of Spicy Spectrum, we delve into the emotional labor of online adult entertainment, exploring empathy, connection, and the management of client expectations. Through candid discussions, listeners gain a deeper understanding of the complexities involved in providing emotional support and intimacy in digital interactions. This episode aims to foster empathy, promote respectful engagements, and highlight the value of respecting an adult entertainer's time in building meaningful and sustainable client-provider relationships.
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Bisexual, But Not Bi-Standard
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In this special birthday episode of Spicy Spectrum, I’m opening up about something deeply personal as I turn 30. From my earliest crushes to my experiences in sex work, I’ve spent a long time trying to make sense of my sexuality and I’m finally ready to talk about it. I share how I’ve come to understand my bisexuality, what emotionally draws me to women, why men still sexually arouse me, and how my porn preferences and customer interactions reflect it all.<...
Friday Features: Under Her Spell — Exploring Femdom with Goddess Siriana
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This week on Friday Features, we're diving deep into the world of Divine Female Domination with Goddess Siriana—a spiritual powerhouse and pro dominatrix with over a decade of experience in kink, performance, and erotic education. We explore what it really means to surrender, why Femdom is more than just play, and how power exchange can be healing, transformative, and deeply erotic.
We even briefly touch on raceplay—but not in the way you've like...
Spicy Special: Unpacking Age Play with Princess Rara: It’s Not What You Think
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This Spicy Special dives into the world of age play with Princess Rara, co-host of the Pink Kink Podcast. Often misunderstood and heavily stigmatized—both in and outside of kink spaces—age play is a form of consensual roleplay that goes far beyond the common misconceptions.
Rara breaks down the different dynamics, including "littles" and "middles," and clarifies the emotional, therapeutic, and even joyful aspects of this roleplay. She unpacks why it’s not about...
Why Are Men Spending Thousands on OnlyFans... Even in Relationships?
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This week on Pepper’s Perspectives, I’m unpacking the deeper emotional reasons why some men are spending thousands on OnlyFans—even while in committed relationships. Instead of shaming men for turning to adult content, I explore what their behavior reveals about modern loneliness, unmet needs, and the desire to feel seen.
Inspired by this article: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-14581273/tragic-reason-men-spend-thousands-bankrupt-onlyfans-committed-relationships.html
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Friday Features: Exploring Race Play & Taboo with Savannah Sapphire
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This Friday Features dives headfirst into one of the most taboo topics in sex work: race play. I'm joined by Savannah Sapphire (aka Bay XX 69 XX), a veteran sex worker with over 15 years in the industry, who shares her insight into the psychology, politics, and boundaries of creating white cock worship content. We explore consent, fantasy vs. rea...
Spicy Special: Cody Glover on BDSM’s Secret Power
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In this episode, licensed professional counselor Cody Glover shares his journey and extensive experience in kink and polyamorous communities. The conversation delves into myths about BDSM, the importance of setting and respecting boundaries, and the therapeutic aspects of kink. Cody also touches on the significance of aftercare for both submissives and dominants, and the impact of shame on mental health.
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Unexpected Naughty Lessons
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This episode explores the humorous and unexpected lessons learned by an adult entertainer, emphasizing that the industry is more than allure, revealing unique human behaviors. Key lessons include expecting the unexpected, mastering improvisation, and finding humor in awkward situations. These insights help foster deeper connections and encourage embracing one's sexuality without shame.
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Spicy Special: The Truth About Raceplay & Interracial Kink
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In this Spicy Special of Spicy Spectrum, I’m finally talking about something I’ve teased before: raceplay and interracial kink. This is a topic that’s layered, uncomfortable for some, and definitely taboo, but it’s also one that needs real, nuanced conversation.
I share my personal experience as someone who creates interracial fantasy content, and open up about the surprising number of Black men who have confided in me that they enjoy racepl...
Spicy Special: Dr. G. Rex Kruhly on Uncovering the Hidden Roots of Male Loneliness
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This episode dives deep into the hidden emotional and societal patterns behind male loneliness with Dr. G. Rex Kruhly. From societal pressure to suppress emotions to the disconnect many men experience, the conversation explores how cultural conditioning and past experiences contribute to feelings of isolation. Dr. Kruhly shares insights on how men can begin the journey toward healing.
A must-listen for anyone curious about the inner world of <...
Redefining 'Normal': Exploring the Wild Side of Sexuality
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This episode explores the concept of what's considered 'normal' in terms of sexuality, focusing on how adult entertainment challenges traditional societal norms. The discussion emphasizes the importance of recognizing and accepting the wide range of sexual desires and activities that people engage in, both in fantasy and reality. By understanding that sexuality exists on a spectrum and is not fixed or binary, individuals can foster greater self-confidence and healthier relationships. The podcast encourages a non-judgmental approach to exploring one's unique desires and promotes open, meaningful conversations about sexual...
Friday Features: Thick a Belle Talks DailyMail, AVN Awards & Her Unapologetic Sexy Side
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In this episode, Thick a Belle—a mixed BBW model and solo content creator—opens up about her journey from traditional modeling to carving out her own sensual space in the adult industry. She shares how embracing her curves and leaning into body positivity became a powerful act of self-expression through boudoir photography and video content.
We dive into her recent DailyMail feature, her experience at the AVN Awards, and the bold confidence it takes to thrive in the spotlight whil...
Spicy Special: Tantra and Healing for Men with Andreas Anthony
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On this Spicy Special episode of Spicy Spectrum, I sit down with Andreas Anthony, a psychic channeller and LGBTQ+ men’s tantric practitioner, to explore the intersection of sexuality, spirituality, and healing. Andreas shares his personal journey—from growing up in a conservative town to embracing his psychic abilities and guiding men through tantric healing.
We break down what tantra really is, how it helps release sexual shame, and why integrating sexuality into spirituality is key to p...
Kink Confessions: Hilarious Misunderstandings
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In this episode, we explore the misunderstood world of kinks and fetishes, sharing personal stories from our experiences in the adult entertainment industry. We discuss the importance of humor, open communication, and clear language in navigating misunderstandings and building connections. By embracing awkwardness and stepping out of our comfort zones, we learn and grow in understanding human sexuality. We emphasize the need for safe spaces for individuals to explore their fantasies without judgment.
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Friday Features: Human Connection & The Heart of Sex Work with Lily StarrHeart
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In this episode of Spicy Spectrum, Lily StarrHeart, a private ministry worker in the adult industry, shares her transformative journey from viewing her work as a transactional exchange to embracing a spiritually and compassionately driven approach. She emphasizes the importance of authenticity and building genuine relationships with her guests, discussing her plans to create a private members club to diversify her interactions. Lily also reflects on the lessons she's learned, particularly gaining a deeper compassion for men, and...
Spicy Special: Erik Everhard on Male Sexuality, Confidence & Performance Myths
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Mitch Hartwell, who performed under the name Erik Everhard, was a top adult male performer for over 20 years. He now helps men achieve peak performance in the bedroom. In this interview, he discusses common misconceptions about men’s sexual desires, the impact of societal views on male sexuality, and the rise of dependence on performance-enhancing drugs like Viagra. He emphasizes the importance of mental strength, confidence, and understanding one’s sexual values. Hartwell also addresses generational differences in male conf...
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Friday Features: Platinum Puzzy - Queen of BBW
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This episode of Spicy Spectrum explores the fascinating 20-year career of Kari “Platinum Puzzy” Anthony. A retired porn star, body-positive advocate, and FemDom, Carrie shares her journey in the BBW niche of the adult industry—from starting as a phone sex operator to becoming a content creator, mentor, and CEO of iHeartBBW.
She highlights the importance of self-sufficiency, boundary-setting, and leveraging technology in the industry while reflecting on personal growth, public perception, and balancing family relationships. The di...
Spicy Special: From News Producer to Adult Industry on The Not So Bad Bachelor Pad
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In this special episode, I’m sharing my guest appearance on The Not So Bad Bachelor Pad podcast with host Joshua Jones. We dive into my journey from news producer to adult content creator, the misconceptions around sex work, and how societal shifts impact intimacy and loneliness. It’s a candid and insightful conversation you won’t want to miss!
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The Most Outrageous Requests I've Received
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In the adult entertainment industry, not all requests are straightforward, with some being creative and others more challenging. Navigating these can be difficult, as there's pressure to satisfy fans while maintaining personal boundaries. After years of experience in the adult online industry, I recognize the challenges of responding to bizarre requests but have learned to handle them with humor and grace without crossing personal limits.
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Friday Features: Clay, Kinks, and One Gassy Introduction with Alice Funker
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In this Friday Features episode, I sit down with Alice Funker, a cam model, content creator, and potter who’s great with her hands in more ways than one. Alice primarily streams on MyFreeCams (MFC) but also explores platforms like ManyVids and SexPanther, where she brings fantasies to life through creative roleplay, BDSM, and even some delightfully messy fun.
We dive into the wild world of custom content—think farting videos that require meal planning—along with t...
Spicy Special: Vic Lagina Talks Porn, Production, and Life Behind the Scenes
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In this episode, we dive deep into the life and career of Vic Lagina, a prolific pornographer from Las Vegas with nearly 4,000 scenes to his name. Vic shares how his background in TV and film production led him to the adult entertainment industry, detailing his first shoot and his transition into becoming a key producer for major companies like Brazzers.
His new book, 'Filthy!', provides a brutally...
Awkward Moments in Adult Entertainment
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In this episode of Spicy Spectrum, I delve into the humorous and awkward stories behind the scenes of online adult entertainment. Sharing personal experiences, I highlight moments of vulnerability, like wardrobe malfunctions and unexpected interruptions, illustrating how humor and authenticity can turn cringe-worthy situations into memorable connections. I emphasize the importance of embracing awkwardness, fostering deeper connections with our audience, and being unapologetically ourselves without fear of judgment. Through our stories, I encourage listeners to find humor and humanity in their own embarrassing moments.
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Friday Features: Kendra Allure – The Amazonian Goddess Who Dominates
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In this episode of Friday Features, Kendra Allure, a 6'1" Amazonian goddess, shares her journey from athlete to dominatrix and fetish model. Known for her expertise in BDSM, wrestling, and tickling fetishes, Kendra opens up about how she stumbled into the industry in Florida and quickly gained popularity. She breaks down the world of fetish content creation, discussing the balance between fulfilling fantasies and maintaining personal boundaries.
Despite being introverted...
