Whole Again: A Fresh Approach to Mindfulness and Resilience Through Kintsugi Wisdom

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By: Michael OBrien | Mindfulness & Resilience Coach

What if I told you that healing isn’t about returning to who you were? Whole Again: A Fresh Approach to Mindfulness and Resilience Through Kintsugi Wisdom gives you the support you need to heal, develop a personal growth mindset, and embrace who you are becoming. Inspired by the Japanese art of “Golden Repair,” Kintsugi teaches us that even when life breaks us, we can rebuild—stronger, wiser, and more beautiful than before. Listen to discover how to: Overcome self-doubt, imposter syndrome, and perfectionism by shifting your mindset. Build emotional résilience and manage stress through microdose meditation, mindfulness, breathwork, and grati...

#300 | How to Create Change (Mindfulness and Resilience)
#300
Today at 1:00 PM

Feeling stuck? Here’s a simple truth: nothing changes if nothing changes.

We often wait for the perfect conditions to make a shift—less stress, more time, someone else to go first. But meaningful change rarely arrives without discomfort. In this episode, Michael explores how leaning into healthy tension, even in small ways, can create powerful ripple effects in your life, work, and well-being.

Understand why discomfort doesn’t mean you’re off track—it often means you’re growing.Learn how micro moments of tension can disrupt patterns and lead to real transformation.Discover how one small st...


#299 | Before the Holiday Rush: A Thanksgiving Reflection of Mindfulness and Resilience
#299
Last Wednesday at 12:11 PM

Before the holiday rush takes over, have you paused to check in with yourself?

The end-of-year busyness can be overwhelming—full of pressure, noise, and nonstop motion. In this short yet meaningful Thanksgiving reflection, Michael invites you to hit pause, breathe deeply, and reflect on your emotional, physical, and relational well-being before heading into the final stretch of the year.

Receive a heartfelt reminder of your strength and resilience throughout a challenging year.Explore three thoughtful reflection prompts to help you reconnect with what truly matters.Learn how a few minutes of stillness can reveal joy, com...


#298 | Letting Go, One Breath at a Time - A Microdose Meditation for Mindfulness and Resilience
#298
Last Monday at 12:11 PM

What would your life feel like if you gave yourself permission to let go—one breath at a time?

In a world that constantly pushes us to hold on—to stress, to self-judgment, to control—learning to release can feel like a radical act of self-care. This microdose meditation gently guides you into a mindful practice of letting go, creating space for calm, clarity, and emotional reset.

Experience a short, grounding breath practice that helps you release what no longer serves you.Learn how each exhale can be a moment of transformation and self-liberation.Discover how to use...


#297 | Mind Wandering: How it Can Lead to More Mindfulness and Resilience
#297
11/21/2025

What if letting your mind wander was actually a powerful form of mindfulness?

We’re constantly told to focus more and eliminate distractions—but science shows that letting your mind roam may actually boost your creativity, insight, and self-connection. In this short, reflective episode, Michael challenges the myth that mindfulness is only about focus and introduces a refreshing take on mental space.

Learn why your brain’s “default mode” of mind wandering isn’t a flaw—it’s a feature.Discover how to create gentle, judgment-free space to spark creativity and clarity.Try a simple weekend practice that bl...


#296 | The Epstein Files: The Scars They Carry and the Transparency for Healing and Resilience
#296
11/18/2025

What if the most powerful thing you can do today is simply speak up for someone who can’t?

In a world overwhelmed by noise, it’s easy to let heartbreaking stories fade into the background—especially when they feel political or too painful to confront. But some stories demand our attention not because they’re political, but because they’re human. This episode centers on one such story: the voices of the victims in the Jeffrey Epstein case, and the urgent need for transparency, healing, and justice.

Hear a heartfelt reflection on the impact of this story...


#295 | Reset with 3D Microdose Meditation for More Mindfulness and Resilience
#295
11/17/2025

Feeling overwhelmed or scattered? Try this 3D breath practice to reset in just minutes.

When life feels uncertain or stress tightens your chest, your breath can become shallow and reactive. This short, guided practice helps you reconnect with your body and calm your nervous system through a simple yet powerful approach to breathing that brings you back to the present.

Learn the "3D breathing" method that expands your breath in all directions for deeper calm.Experience a microdose of meditation that grounds your body and mind in just a few minutes.Discover how a small breath...


#294 | How to Heal from the Mistakes That Haunt You with Mindfulness and Resilience
#294
11/14/2025

What if your biggest regrets weren’t mistakes—but missed opportunities for wisdom?

Regret has a way of clinging to us—quietly, persistently, and often with crushing emotional weight. In this episode, we explore how to shift your relationship with regret so it no longer drags you down but instead becomes a powerful part of your personal growth and ripple effect.

Discover the surprising origin of the word “regret” and how it reveals a deeper emotional pattern.Learn how to release the heavy rocks of shame and guilt from your mental backpack.Gain a new perspective on past mi...


#293 | Social Media’s Hidden Costs on Your Mindfulness and Resilience and How to Beat Them
#293
11/12/2025

Did you know you're paying a hidden "scroll tax" every day and it’s costing you more than money?

In an age where social media is always within arm's reach, many of us unknowingly trade our attention, emotional well-being, and identity for endless scrolling. If you've ever felt drained, distracted, or disconnected after time on your phone, this episode offers eye-opening insight into why—and what you can do about it.

Learn the three hidden ways the "scroll tax" affects your attention, emotions, and sense of self.Discover small, actionable steps to reset your relationship with your...


#292 | Expressing Gratitude for Life's Small Moments - A Microdose Meditation for Mindfulness and Resilience
#292
11/10/2025

What if the most meaningful parts of your life aren’t the big moments — but the small, quiet ones happening right now?

In this gentle Monday meditation, Michael guides you to pause and practice gratitude for the small, real moments that make up a life — the sunlight through a window, the courage that carried you here, the presence of someone (or something) you love.

This is a short, heartfelt practice to remind you that gratitude isn’t about pretending everything’s perfect — it’s about remembering what’s still beautiful, even when life feels messy.

Learn how to c...


#291 | Slow Down to Feel Whole: A Mindfulness, Mindset, and Resilience Practice
#291
11/07/2025

Feeling rushed and stretched thin? What if the medicine you need is hidden in life’s quiet, ordinary moments?

In this short Friday reset, Michael invites you to slow down and savor the small things—first-chill mornings, sunlight through the window, a favorite song, a handwritten note, a pet curling up beside you. These simple, human moments nourish your nervous system, ground you, and bring you back to your unfiltered self.

Notice how tiny joys (warm socks, slow meals, shared laughter) restore calm and presence.Learn to value being over performing—no productivity required.Reclaim gentle ritual...


#290 | Stronger Feet, Stronger Mindset: Dr. Jen Perez on Building a Resilient Foundation Feet First
#290
11/05/2025

What if stronger, smarter feet could lower injury risk, improve balance, and even support your mental well-being?

Michael talks with Dr. Jen Perez from Gait Happens about why foot health is foundational for overall health—whether you’re rehabbing, training, or just trying to feel steadier day to day. They unpack how footwear choices, toe mobility, and the nervous system (hello, breath!) influence balance, pain, and resilience—plus simple ways to start strengthening from the ground up.

Understand the “neuro-musculoskeletal” connection: how stress, breath, and feet interact.Learn the 5-4-3: Lift–Spread–Reach toe drill, calf raises, baref...


#289 | Thank You, Body: A Microdose Meditation for Gratitude, Mindfulness and Resilience
#289
11/03/2025

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When was the last time you paused to thank your body — not for how it looks, but simply for how it shows up for you every single day?

In this short, grounding meditation, Michael guides you through a simple gratitude practice for your body. You’ll take a few mindful breaths, connect with your feet, legs, hands, and heart, and express appreciation for the quiet ways your body carries, holds, heals, and breathes for...


#288 | Finding Joy in the Ordinary: A Mindset Pause for Resilience and Grace
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10/31/2025

When was the last time you slowed down enough to notice the small, quiet moments that make life feel whole?

In a world that moves at lightning speed, it’s easy to miss the simple joys that nourish the soul — the first chill of fall, a deep breath in the morning, a favorite song, a kind word, or a shared laugh. In this short Friday reflection, Michael invites you to pause, breathe, and savor the beauty in the ordinary. These are the moments that remind us who we really are: messy, human, and enough.

Learn how to r...


#287 | From Judgment to Grace: The Mindful Power of the Invisible Backpack (Resilience)
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10/29/2025

What if the person who snapped at you today wasn’t rude—but just carrying a heavy backpack you can’t see?

From a high-rise lobby on Park Ave to everyday life, we’re all walking around with invisible backpacks filled with stress, stories, grief, hopes, and old “rocks” we never processed. In this short reflection, Michael shares a powerful metaphor for empathy—how noticing others’ unseen loads (and our own) helps us pause, breathe, and respond with more grace.

Learn the “backpack” mindset to stop taking behavior personally and start leading with curiosity.Spot the hidden weight beneat...


#286 | How to Feel Centered and Resilient with the 5-4-3-2-1 Mindfulness Technique
#286
10/27/2025

Feeling stuck in your head or overwhelmed by constant thoughts?

When life feels chaotic, coming back to your senses—literally—can help calm your nervous system and bring you back to the present moment. In this short guided practice, Michael shares one of his favorite grounding meditations: a simple “five senses” exercise that helps you reconnect with your body, your environment, and your sense of calm. Whether you’re walking, sitting, or just taking a mindful break, this microdose of mindfulness will help you reset and recenter.

Learn the “5-4-3-2-1” grounding practice to calm anxiety a...


#285 | How to Stop Taking Things Personally with Grace and Mindfulness
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10/24/2025

What if that sharp comment, cold attitude, or bad mood you encountered today wasn’t really about you?

It’s easy to assume that other people’s behavior is personal—but most of what drives others lies beneath the surface, hidden like the largest part of an iceberg. In this short, powerful Friday reflection, Michael invites you to pause, breathe, and see others (and yourself) with more compassion. You’ll learn how to reframe frustration into empathy and navigate daily interactions with greater calm and understanding.

Discover the “iceberg” metaphor and how it reveals what’s really behind pe...


#284 | What We Look Like Without Our Phones: What the ‘Removed’ Photo Series Reveals About Us with Eric Pickersgill
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10/22/2025

Have you ever wondered what you really look like when you’re lost in your phone?

In this thought-provoking conversation, Michael sits down with photographer Eric Pickersgill, creator of the viral photo series Removed, which shows everyday people holding invisible phones — a haunting reflection of our relationship with technology. Eric shares the story behind his work, how it began with a single moment in a café, and what it reveals about connection, awareness, and the cost of constant distraction. Together, they explore how mindfulness, intention, and small acts of awareness can help us reclaim presence in a screen...


#283 | Autumn Reflection: A Microdose Meditation on Gratitude and Resilience
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10/20/2025

When was the last time you paused to appreciate how far you’ve come this year?

As the seasons shift and autumn arrives, it’s the perfect moment to slow down, reflect, and recognize your personal harvest—the growth, gratitude, and accomplishments you’ve gathered along the way. In this calming microdose meditation, Michael guides you through a mindful reflection on the seeds you’ve planted, what has blossomed, and what you can celebrate before the year closes.

Reconnect with gratitude and recognize the progress you’ve made this year.Experience a short grounding meditation to bring peace...


#282 | You’re Allowed to Change Your Mind: A Pathway toward Mindfulness and Resilience
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10/17/2025

When was the last time you gave yourself permission to change your mind?

In a world that celebrates certainty and punishes flexibility, changing your mind can feel like failure. But the truth is, it’s one of the clearest signs of growth, mindfulness, and emotional maturity. In this short Friday reflection, Michael explores why letting go of old beliefs or plans isn’t weakness—it’s wisdom.

Discover why changing your mind is a powerful act of self-awareness and courage.Learn how holding your opinions loosely opens space for empathy, understanding, and evolution.Understand that personal growth o...


#281 | How Small Pauses Can Help You Recover from Burnout and Become More Resilient
#281
10/15/2025

What if the most productive thing you could do today… is nothing at all?

In a world that glorifies hustle, constant noise, and doing more, it’s easy to forget that rest and stillness aren’t signs of weakness—they’re powerful strategies for clarity, resilience, and recovery. In this episode, Michael explores the art of doing nothing as a radical act of mindfulness, showing how creating space in your day can help you calm your nervous system, restore focus, and reconnect with what truly matters.

Discover why “doing nothing” is actually one of the most productive thi...


#280 | How to Practice Mindfulness and Build Resilience with a Mircodose Meditation
#280
10/13/2025

Feeling overwhelmed by the pace of life and wishing you could just pause for a moment to breathe and reset?

In a world that constantly pushes us to do more, buy more, and be more, it’s easy to lose our sense of calm and connection. In this episode, Michael explores how mindfulness and microdose meditations can help you create space in your day—no yoga mat, incense, or hour-long retreat required. Discover how just a few minutes of intentional presence can reduce stress, calm your nervous system, and help you show up with more grace and resili...


#279 | Remembering Dr. Jane Goodall's Mindfulness and Resilience
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10/08/2025

Welcome back to Whole Again—a podcast about embracing life after physical trauma through mindfulness, resilience, and the wisdom of Kintsugi.

In this special, heartfelt episode, Michael reflects on the extraordinary legacy of Dr. Jane Goodall, who recently passed at the age of 91. A quiet force of compassion, curiosity, and radical hope, Jane’s life reminds us that healing ourselves and healing the earth are deeply connected.

What started as an episode about mindset shifts transformed—just as healing often does—into a tribute to a woman who changed the world by whispering to chimps and shoutin...


#278 | A Microdose of Joy: Laughter Meditation for Healing & Resilience
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10/06/2025

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In this short, uplifting episode of Whole Again, Michael O’Brien guides you through a laughter meditation, a microdose of mindfulness inspired by ancient Stoic, Buddhist, and yogic practices.

Laughter can do more than lighten your mood. It improves cardiovascular health, boosts emotional resilience, and helps you reconnect with your body after physical injury or trauma. This guided practice takes just a couple of minutes and can be done anywhere—sitting at your desk, on a walk, or during a midday reset.

W...


#277 | If You Had an Extra Hour a Day, What Would You Do? | A Mindfulness Reframe
#277
10/03/2025

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Welcome to a short and actionable Friday episode of Whole Again, where we help survivors of physical trauma heal, grow, and thrive through the wisdom of mindfulness, resilience, and Kintsugi.

Today’s reflection starts with one simple but powerful question:

If you had an extra hour in your day, how would you use it?

In this episode, Michael O’Brien explores this question—a favorite in the Pause Breathe Reflect app—and offers a grounded, compassionate reframe that helps you a...


#276 | How to Stay Resilient and Mindful in Hard Seasons | The Power of Prudence After Setbacks
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10/01/2025

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In this episode of Whole Again, Michael returns after a transformative and challenging summer—including a serious bike accident and caregiving responsibilities—to explore one of the most overlooked yet essential virtues for healing and resilience: prudence.

Whether you're recovering from physical trauma, navigating burnout, or simply feeling overwhelmed by the pressure to "finish the year strong," this episode offers a breath of fresh air. Michael invites us to slow down, get intentional, and explore:

🔸 What prudence really means—and why it's...


#275 | How to Appreciate Everyday Moments with Resilience Through a Microdose Mindfulness-Meditation
#275
09/29/2025

What if the most powerful moments of healing aren’t the dramatic ones—but the quiet ones in between?

This microdose meditation invites you to pause and recognize the subtle beauty of everyday moments. Instead of searching for peace in big changes, you’ll learn to notice it in the breath, the body, and the here and now.

Learn how to ground yourself in small, ordinary momentsReconnect to your breath as a doorway to presence and calmDiscover the overlooked power of being—not doing—in your healing journey

Take a breath and let this gentle med...


#274 | What Western Medicine Doesn’t Teach You About Recovering From TBI (Traumatic Brain Injury) and Resilience with Adam Pearce
#274
09/26/2025

Is “getting back to normal” after trauma really the goal—or is it time to rethink what healing actually means?

In this episode, you’ll meet Adam Pearce, co-founder of LoveYourBrain, whose deeply personal story began when his brother sustained a traumatic brain injury just before the Olympics. What followed wasn’t just physical recovery—it was a profound exploration of acceptance, resilience, and the power of connection. Whether you're navigating recovery yourself or supporting someone who is, this conversation redefines what healing looks like.

Discover why healing isn’t about going back—it's about who you're becoming...


#273 | Living by Your Values: A Compass for Mindfulness Resilience in Hard Times
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09/24/2025

What if true strength isn’t something you wait to feel—but something you practice in the very moments life feels hardest?

When challenges strike, it’s easy to feel disconnected, overwhelmed, or like you’ve lost your footing. But strength doesn’t come from pretending you’re okay—it comes from grounding yourself in what matters most. This episode explores how your personal values can serve as a compass, guiding you through uncertainty and helping you stay resilient, even in the darkest moments.

Learn why strength is not about “pushing through” but about aligning with your deepest value...


#272 | Build Resilience with a Body Scan Microdose Mindfulness-Meditaiton
#272
09/22/2025

When was the last time you truly checked in with your body—without trying to fix, push, or ignore it?

This microdose meditation offers a simple, compassionate body scan to help you reconnect with the wisdom your body already holds. Whether you're recovering from physical trauma or just feeling disconnected, this practice invites you to tune in, breathe, and notice.

Experience a grounding breath and full-body awareness practiceLearn how to listen to your body without judgment or urgencyRebuild your relationship with your body through gratitude and gentle attention

Take a deep breathe and rediscover wh...


#271 | How “Fitting Out” Became the Secret to Inspiring Others Build Resilience and Heal with Kirra Michel
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09/19/2025

Ever felt like you’ve spent your whole life trying to fit in — only to realize it’s draining your spirit?

In this conversation, yoga and meditation teacher Kira Michelle shares why “fitting out” can be the most liberating move you’ll ever make. She opens up about her own journey through anxiety, depression, and self-discovery, and how embracing scars — both physical and emotional — can become your gold-filled superpower.

You’ll discover:

How to take your yoga or meditation practice off the mat and into your everyday life.Ways to turn your most uncomfortable traits into your g...


#270 | How Humming, Movement, and Simple Sensory Tools Can Help You Heal and Build Resilience
#270
09/17/2025

Think meditation is the only way to find calm? What if your nervous system actually needs something completely different?

In this episode of Whole Again, Michael O’Brien shares five simple, practical ways to bring more ease into your body without ever sitting in lotus position. From humming to ice cubes to gentle movement, these tools help you shift from stress to steadiness in just a few minutes — no apps, retreats, or fancy techniques required.

Learn a grounding sensory exercise you can use anywhere to get out of your head and into your bodyDiscover how humming can s...


#269 | Transformation Vulnerability into Resilience Through a Microdose-Mindfulness Meditation
#269
09/15/2025

Do you ever feel exposed or emotionally raw while healing—and wonder if that means you’re not strong enough?

This microdose meditation offers a compassionate space to honor your vulnerability and reframe it as one of the deepest expressions of strength. When you're healing from trauma or injury, feeling tender doesn’t mean you’re failing—it means you’re human.

Reconnect with your inner strength through the power of breath and presenceLearn a gentle self-talk mantra to support yourself in difficult emotional momentsDiscover why vulnerability is a doorway to authentic healing and connection

Take a dee...


#268 | Why Messy Conversations Matter More Than Polished Ones for Real Connection, Resilience, and Trauma Healing with Kristen Graham
#268
09/12/2025

Are your conversations too polished to be real? What if embracing a little mess is the key to deeper connection and healing?

In today’s fast-paced world where text bubbles, AI prompts, and meetings replace meaningful moments, it's easy to forget how much small, intentional words matter. Whether you're a leader, parent, or friend, this episode will help you re-learn how to really connect—even when life is messy.

Discover seven short phrases that strengthen bonds and leave lasting emotional fingerprints.Learn why saying “I’m sorry” or “I hear you” can rebuild bridges—personally and professionally.Gai...


#267 | 5 Simple Words That Can Rewire Your Self-Talk for Recovery and Resilience
#267
09/10/2025

What if five tiny words could shift your mindset, calm your nervous system, and keep you moving forward — even on the hardest recovery days?

In this episode of Whole Again, Michael O’Brien shares five short, powerful words that can change the conversation you have with yourself when no one else is listening. By swapping self-criticism for curiosity and grace, you’ll discover how small language tweaks can help your brain believe in possibility and keep you engaged in your healing journey.

Learn how “yet” opens the door to possibility instead of closing itReplace invalidating “but” statements with...


#266 | Reclaim Your Morning and Build Resilience with a Microdose Mindfulness-Medtation
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09/08/2025

Do your mornings start in a rush, leaving you scattered, reactive, and already behind?

This microdose meditation helps you begin the day grounded, intentional, and connected to gratitude—without even getting out of bed. Whether you're recovering, healing, or simply seeking more presence, this is the pause your morning needs.

Connect to your breath and body before the day pulls your focusPractice gratitude to create emotional clarity and grounded energySet meaningful intentions that ripple through the rest of your day

Take a deep breath and reclaim your morning with breath, gratitude, and intention—before your...


#265 | Why Community Is Your Earthquake-Proof Foundation for Resilience Building and Mindfulness with Brad Stulberg
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09/05/2025

What if the one thing that makes you feel “broken” is actually the beginning of becoming whole again?

In this deeply honest conversation, Michael revisits a timeless episode with bestselling author and grounded performance coach Brad Stulberg. They dive into the myth of stability, the power of small disruptions, and how change doesn’t just happen in crisis—it unfolds every day, moment by moment. Brad also reveals how real growth comes not from perfection, but from learning to respond—rather than react—through mindful practice and community.

Discover the real science behind personal change and why we’re wired...


#264 | The Algorithm Inside You: A Better Guide Than Any Influencer For Resilience and Mindfulness
#264
09/03/2025

Tired of one-size-fits-all health advice that leaves you feeling like you’re doing something wrong?

In this episode of Whole Again, Michael O’Brien reveals how to build your own personal “algorithm” — one that’s powered by your body’s signals, not by social media trends or influencers who don’t know you. Through the practice of interoception, you’ll learn how to collect and interpret your own data so you can make choices that actually fit your needs, energy, and healing journey.

Learn how to tune out digital noise and listen to your body’s real messagesDiscover...


#263 | Be Still, Build Resilience and Heal Trauma Through a Microdose Mindfulness-Meditation
#263
09/01/2025

Are you always trying to fix, improve, or achieve—even when your body and mind are asking for rest?

This short meditation offers a healing pause from the pressure to constantly do. It invites you to return to presence, stillness, and the gentle truth that you are not broken—you are simply here.

Learn how to sit with your thoughts without judgmentPractice returning to your breath when the mind wandersRediscover the healing power of doing nothing at all

Play this episode now to reset, breathe, and remember that being—without fixing—is more than enough.<...


#262 | Building Resilience and Mindfulness in Mid-Life with Chip Conley
#262
08/29/2025

Is midlife really a crisis—or have we just been telling ourselves the wrong story?

In this inspiring episode, Michael O’Brien sits down with Chip Conley, founder of the Modern Elder Academy and author of Learning to Love Midlife, to reframe everything we’ve been taught about aging, identity, and what it means to thrive in our 40s, 50s, and beyond. From surviving near-death to building a purpose-driven second half, Chip shares how embracing vulnerability, awe, and emotional intelligence leads to deeper fulfillment in midlife.

Discover why midlife is actually a powerful chrysalis stage—not a crisis—a...


#261 | Why Belief Can Be as Powerful as Medicine: The Science of Placebos and Nocebos, Resilience and Mindfulness
#261
08/27/2025

What if the most powerful drug you could take didn’t come from a prescription — and you already had access to it right now?

In this episode of Whole Again, Michael O’Brien explores the fascinating science and personal impact of placebos and nocebos — how our beliefs, expectations, and even lucky socks can change the way our bodies respond to challenges. You’ll learn why mindset isn’t just “positive thinking,” but a measurable force that shapes recovery, resilience, and well-being.

Understand how the placebo effect works — and how to harness it for your healingSpot the “nocebo” patterns that...