AuthenticallyMoms
Welcome to AuthenticallyMoms, a weekly podcast hosted by Sujata Thomas and Jaclyn Cahn. Indian and Mexican moms in their 40’s empowering women to take control of their bodies, boost self-esteem, and live as their best selves. We're breaking down barriers by normalizing body consciousness, embracing self-care, prioritizing ourselves, and having open, honest conversations about sexuality. It's real talk for real women-because you deserve to thrive.New Episodes drop every Thursday!Send any questions/comments/topics you'd like us to answer or address on the podcast!Follow us: @authenticallymomsEmail: authenticallymoms@gmail.com
Midlife Glow-up: Doing What Makes You Feel Good
From embracing the aging process to choosing cosmetic procedures, in this episode we get honest about what confidence really looks like in midlife. This is a judgment-free conversation about feeling good in your own skin. Because self-love isn’t about perfection; it’s about doing what truly makes you happy.
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Questions We Didn't See Coming Pt. 2
Round 2! No prep. No warning. Just real answers...In this episode, we take turns asking each other questions we haven’t heard ahead of time. Some are playful, most are deep, and all of them lead to honest, thought-provoking conversations. How would you respond?
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Questions We Didn’t See Coming Pt. 1
No prep. No warning. Just real answers...In this episode, we take turns asking each other questions we haven’t heard ahead of time. Some are playful, most are deep, and all of them lead to honest, thought-provoking conversations. How would you respond?
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Is Technology Killing Connection?
In this episode of Authentically Moms, we dive into how the evolution of technology is reshaping dating and everyday social interaction. When you can order food, groceries, entertainment from your phone, it’s possible to meet every need without ever leaving the house. Is this making the next generation more efficient but less relational, more connected but less present? What do you think?
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The Flu, Guilt, and Learning to Rest
Jaclyn gets real about the physical and emotional toll of the flu when motherhood doesn’t pause. From relentless fevers to the humbling reminder to slow down, we reflect on listening to your body, releasing guilt, and allowing yourself the rest needed to heal. Because sometimes, life’s most exhausting seasons bring the lessons we need most.
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Stepping Back So Kids Can Step Up
As kids grow and friendships change, us parents face the challenge of knowing when to step in and when to step back. We discuss the balance of how letting kids advocate for themselves and handle conflict builds confidence and essential life skills. Growing pains for Everyone!
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Toxic Mom Groups and Learning to Let Go
Jaclyn and Sujata discuss the realities of mom friendships, toxic relationships, and why protecting your mental well-being matters. An honest conversation about choosing authentic, supportive connections and letting go of what no longer serves you.
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IVF and Midlife Motherhood
Jaclyn and Sujata unpack their Thanksgiving highlights—from family traditions to a few unexpected ghostly moments. They open up about midlife pregnancies, Jaclyn’s IVF journey, and the challenges of having kids later in life in an honest, relatable conversation.
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GLP-1 & Married at First Sight Madness
Jaclyn and Sujata open up about the popularity of GLP-1's, authenticity, and staying real in a world full of influencers. Plus, they dive into Married at First Sight and ask the ultimate question: could we actually sleep with someone on the day we meet our “husband”? A candid, fun, and honest conversation about showing up as your true self.
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The Holidays...No Guilt, No Pressure, Just Peace
The holidays hit different in this season of life. Between juggling family traditions, in-laws, and everyone’s expectations, it’s easy to lose sight of what actually matters. We get real about setting boundaries, putting your own family first, and creating new traditions that bring more peace than pressure.
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Real Talk: When Life Doesn't Go as Planned w/ Whitney Welch
Jaclyn and Sujata sit down with entrepreneur Whitney Welch to talk about her journey from corporate success to rebuilding after a career setback. Whitney opens up about mental health, the loneliness of entrepreneurship, and redefining balance as a mom and businesswoman. An honest, inspiring chat about growth, grace, and finding your people when life takes an unexpected turn.
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Stripping the Stigma
We’re taking on the taboos around girls who work at Hooters and strip clubs—no filters, no judgment. It’s time to talk empowerment, body confidence, and raising kids who respect women no matter what they wear or where they work.
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The Landline Comeback
Jaclyn and Sujata take a nostalgic trip back to the days of busy signals, shared family lines, and actually having conversations. Join us for laughs as we talk about the surprising comeback of landlines and why a little retro connection might be just what we need.
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Love Isn't Blind, Tacos and Curry
Jaclyn and Sajata unpack the latest Love is Blind episodes, swap scary movie night stories, and explore the fun (and funny) side of cultural quirks. From Kim Kardashian’s fashion choices to the "spicy" flavors of Mexican and Indian cuisine, it’s a vibrant mix of humor, insight, and honest mom talk. Join us for some laughs!
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Why we Talk and Finding your Person
In this episode, we reintroduce ourselves and share our journeys through intercultural, interfaith marriages and motherhood—including raising a child with special needs. We discuss our “be true to yourself” approach to life in our 40s and dive into how reality dating shows often test your natural approach to dating and finding your person. Join us for an honest, heartfelt conversation about love, family, and authenticity.
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Minors Getting Plastic Surgery
Jaclyn and Sajata recap a wild Bar Mitzvah, both the fun and the unexpected chaos. We explore the topic of today's youth and plastic surgery, diving into beauty standards, social media pressure, and cultural views on body image.
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Finding your Happiness
In this episode, Jaclyn and Sujata discuss changing divorce trends, especially why more women are choosing to leave marriages. They talk about the pursuit of happiness, the impact on kids, and the importance of knowing your worth and growing through big life changes.
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Friendships in our 40's
This week we discuss balancing motherhood, friendships, and personal well-being. From high school to adulthood, friendships evolve and as you get older authenticity and vulnerability are key to meaningful relationships. Whether you’re a parent, a friend, or simply navigating the chaos of life, this episode is a reminder of the power of support, community, and celebrating each other’s wins.
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Threats, Lessons and Learning
This week, we dive into the art of “threatening” our kids just to get them to listen. Jaclyn shares the terrifying tales she grew up with — from La Llorona to El Cucuy — the kind of threats that still haunt her dreams! These days, we’re a lot gentler with our kids, but let’s be real: go too soft, and it will backfire. So where’s the balance? Tune in for laughs, memories, and maybe a few parenting truths we’re all too familiar with.
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Perimenopause, Puberty and Parenthood
In this episode, we dive into the emotional rollercoaster of back-to-school season—not just for the kids, but for parents too. We discuss hormonal shifts of perimenopause and puberty and how they can create parenting challenges. Plus, we explore how schools and social media have shifted the expectations of parenthood.
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Jet Lag and Back to School Shopping
Summer break is almost over which means back to school shopping is in full swing. While this can be fun for kids, for us adults we are torn between being realistic about the cost while getting the things they really want. How do we teach kids gratitude and appreciation versus them feeling entitled? If you are feeling the struggle you are not alone.
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Latchkey Kids vs Today's Kids
In this episode, we reminisce about the carefree days of college and the empowerment that comes with financial independence. We share childhood memories and discuss the evolving dynamics of family life. The conversation turns to parenting in today’s world—teaching kids about money, practicing gratitude and staying safe. The world is VERY different than our latchkey childhood.
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Anxiety, Triggers and Meds
In this episode, we open up about the reality that most of us deal with anxiety—and how it often intensifies with age. From trauma and health scares to loss and life changes, triggers seem to pile up as we grow older. We explore the ways we’ve personally coped—therapy, meditation, medication—and ask: how do you deal with it? We've both faced intense, even debilitating anxiety, and though we’ve come a long way, it still finds its way back in. If you can relate, this one’s for you.
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The Mid-life Glow Up
This week, we’re diving into the mid-life glow up—a powerful shift that happens when you hit your 40s and start living for yourself. After years of putting others first, it’s time to focus on your own physical health, mental clarity, and emotional well-being. We’re talking about transformation, mindset, and what it really means to thrive in this chapter of life. It's time to live your best life!
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Summertime Crazy
Is it just us, or is summer sprinting by? This week, we’re talking about why it’s actually good for kids to be bored and how this is the perfect time to sneak in some life skills—like laundry and self-entertainment (not screen time). We also get into how kids staying up way too late is absolutely killing the vibe in the bedroom. Summer heat? Yes. Sexy time? Not so much. Plus, Sujata spills the tea on her Cancun trip—sun, fun, and… COVID. Yep. She brought back more than just a tan.
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Do You Boo: Body, Mind, Soul
This week, Jaclyn and Chas get real about doing whatever the hell makes you feel good. Whether it’s lashes, nails, Botox, fillers, weight loss shots, or full-blown plastic surgery — they’re here for it. They break down how physical confidence can boost emotional well-being and how that confidence spreads to your partner, family, and friends. Bottom line? If you want it and can do it, do it now. Life’s short. The haters will hate either way, so you do you.
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Music, Mushrooms and Turn-Offs
This week, Jaclyn recaps her magical weekend at Bottleneck—sunny skies, great music, good vibes, and a little help from some mushrooms. We dive into why shrooms feel so good and the mindset shift they bring. Plus, we get real about how our turn-offs—or “icks”—have evolved from our younger days to our 40s. Are your dealbreakers still the same, or have they grown with you? Tune in and find out.
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School's Out and Couple's Trips
In this episode, we reflect on the whirlwind that is the end of the school year — from nonstop activities to school events that parents now regularly attend, something that wasn’t nearly as common when we were growing up. We also dive into the importance of making time for your relationship amidst the chaos of family life. As much as we love our kids, we believe prioritizing your partner is key. What do you think — should your relationship come first?
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It's a Vibe
This week, we’re diving deep into the big O—orgasms, that is! Jaclyn shares her bold Mother's Day gift to herself: a set of vibrators. We unpack (literally) her order and explore the many types of vibrators out there, why they matter, and how they can be powerful tools for self-care. We also get real about the importance of the female orgasm and why it’s time we normalize the conversation around pleasure, wellness, and owning your body. Don't settle for anything less than fireworks!
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Mother's Day...What We Really Want
Happy Mother’s Day to all the amazing moms out there! Today, we’re diving into what moms really want on this special day. Some moms want quality time with their kids, while others are craving a little peace, quiet, and a break from “mom mode.” Does it depend on how old your kids are? Probably! We all love our children, no doubt—but let’s be real, sometimes the best gift is just a moment to breathe. So, how do you want to spend your Mother’s Day? Let us know!
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Explaining Death to Younger Children
In this heartfelt episode, we explore the difficult topic of how to talk to children about death. From personal experiences—Jaclyn’s father’s passing and the sudden loss of someone close to Laurel—we reflect on whether to tell kids the truth or shield them with softer stories, and how to approach these sensitive conversations with care and honesty.
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Influencing our Kids and Street Smarts
In this episode, we dive into the impact of showing affection in front of our kids and how it may influence the way they approach relationships—whether with friends, romantic partners, parents, or even their future children. We reflect on how our own upbringings and our parents’ displays of love/parenting influenced us. We also discuss the growing concern around kids today lacking street smarts and situational awareness, discussing the roles of technology, helicopter parenting, and limited independence in this shift.
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Lots of Questions, No Judgement
This week we are joined by a special guest. We take turns asking each other questions ranging from stuff you may not want to admit to things that make you go hmmm. Like would you encourage your kids to save themselves for marriage or not. Guess you will have to listen to find out.
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Tough 2 Weeks
Jaclyn and Sujata return after a break to share some heavy life updates, including the recent loss of Jaclyn's father and Breslin's surgery. She opens up about the emotions - and the absence of them - as well as the guilt that can come with it. Special guest appearance by Laurel.
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Tough 2 Weeks
Jaclyn and Sujata return after a break to share some heavy life updates, including the recent loss of her Jaclyn's father and Breslin's surgery. She opens up about the emotions — and the absence of them — as well as the guilt that can come with it. Special guest appearance by Laurel.
Cheating, Telling and Keeping it Spicy
Chas gives us a guy's perspective on what he would do if he caught someone he knew cheating and it isn't black and white. Being married for almost 17 years, Jaclyn and Chas talk about keeping it spicy. Let's just say communication is key.
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Cheating...to tell or not to tell
This week we explore various scenarios and perspectives about cheating. What would do if you caught someone cheating—whether it’s someone cheating on your friend or your friend cheating on their spouse. Does it matter how close you are to someone to speak up about it. Would you want to know if you were being cheated on? We also question the differences between men and women in how they approach or react to cheating.
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10K, Self-worth and Women vs. Men
We celebrate 10,000 Instagram followers and the amazing 2025 we are having. Sujata expresses some nervousness about returning to work, but emphasizes that self-worth isn't defined by a paycheck, whether working or staying at home. We discuss how women are able to emotionally and physically show how much we love each other but it’s different for men. Whether it’s because they don’t need to or society says it isn’t “normal” doesn’t feel fair.
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Dinner, Belly Laughs and Supplements
We share details of our celebration dinner we had with our husbands, talk about moving so slow the morning after. Why can't we recover like we used to? Jaclyn talks about finding out she actually wasn't perimenopausal even though all the symptoms were there. Gotta love getting older amirite.
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Trauma, Therapy and Microdosing
Breslin is 10! Jaclyn talks about how having a special needs daughter has completely changed her. We discuss how trauma can be a positive thing and how therapy can help you overcome anxiety and live in the moment. What it has done is allow us to put ourselves and our family first, nothing else matters. We don't put up with the bullshit.
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