Red Ledger Podcast

Have you ever wondered if it’s time to leave your church? In this episode of The Red Ledger Podcast, we expose the red flags of spiritual abuse in the church and the difference between healthy, biblical leadership and toxic control.

We are not here to bash pastors, but to encourage our listeners to find HEALTHY biblical leadership.

We talk about:
How churches misuse “grace” to protect leaders while silencing victims
Why authoritarian, cult-like leadership thrives in secrecy
The dangers of gaslighting, manipulation, and spiritual theatrics

How to recognize if your c...

In this episode of Red Ledger, Denalee Bell and Tyler Bell share their powerful testimonies of being practicing Christians who were deceived by New Age beliefs. Tyler reveals his journey from childhood faith, through a dark period marked by New Age practices, drug use, and depression, to ultimately finding peace and joy in a true relationship with Jesus. They discuss topics including the nature of salvation, the sanctification process, and the deceptive allure of New Age practices, offering a message of hope and encouragement for those seeking truth and freedom in Christ.

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In this episode of The Red Ledger, we’re getting raw about something many believers feel but rarely admit: wondering if God really loves us.

Even when you're doing all the right things—praying, serving, studying Scripture—it’s possible to feel distant from God. We’ve both been there. From burnout in ministry to missing intimacy with God, we talk about what it looks like to rediscover His love in the “secret place.”

This conversation is for anyone who's felt overwhelmed, spiritually dry, or just unsure of how God really sees them. We cover:

Why relig...

The Power of Wise and Godly Counsel

In this episode of the Red Ledger Podcast, hosts Lissa Frassure and Rebecca Holbrook delve into the importance of seeking wise counsel. They discuss how to differentiate between godly and worldly advice, the dangers of not seeking guidance, and the Biblical basis for seeking counsel. The conversation includes personal anecdotes, insights from scripture, and the role of the Holy Spirit as a counselor. They stress the necessity of surrounding oneself with a community of believers who can provide wisdom and support in life's decisions. The episode underscores...

The Power and Controversy of the Gift of Knowledge: Testimonies and Biblical Perspectives

In this episode of the Red Ledger, host Lisa Frazier and guest Rebecca Holbrook delve into the controversial topic of the 'word of knowledge.' The discussion revolves around whether this gift is from God or merely a tool for manipulation and abuse. Rebecca shares her personal testimony from a mission trip to Uganda that solidified her understanding and experience of this spiritual gift. The conversation covers scriptural backing from First Corinthians and Timothy, the character and operation of spiritual gifts, personal experiences of...

Celebrating Life and Navigating Life's Challenges with Faith

In this heartfelt episode of Red Ledger, hosts Denalee and Lisa Frazier discuss the sanctity of life and the importance of celebrating birthdays as victories in life's journey with God. They delve into topics such as overcoming hesitation to be celebrated, the impact of upbringing on celebrating life events, and the spiritual significance of birthdays. Lisa recounts her struggle with the traditional hospice care approach to end-of-life choices and the importance of advocating for loved ones' dignity in their final moments. The hosts also touch on the contentious topics...

🎙️ When Life Isn’t Fair: A Christian Response to Injustice | The Red Ledger Podcast

What should Christians do when life feels unfair? How do we respond when justice is denied, and pain is personal?

In this powerful episode of The Red Ledger, host Denalee Bell is joined by Lissa Frasure to explore how believers can navigate injustice, disappointment, and unfair treatment with grace, humility, and a kingdom mindset.

👉 From corrupt systems to personal heartbreak, injustice is all around us. But as followers of Jesus, we're called to respond differently—through faith, forgiveness, and trust in God...

In this powerful episode of The Red Ledger podcast, hosts Denalee Bell and Lissa Frasure dive deep into the emotional and spiritual cost of hiding pain, avoiding forgiveness, and delaying obedience to God's calling.

Through raw personal stories and biblical insight, they explore how unresolved emotional wounds, unforgiveness, and fear of inadequacy can block spiritual growth and healing. Denalee shares a personal revelation sparked by her husband's emotional struggle to deliver a eulogy, leading to her own confrontation with buried pain and delayed obedience in completing a Bible study on identity in Christ.

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God's Timing and Trusting His Plan

In this episode of 'The Red Ledger,' hosts Denalee Bell and Lissa Frasure explore the perception of God's timing and how it aligns with our expectations. Using John 11 as a focal point, they discuss the story of Lazarus, Mary, and Martha, highlighting the complexity and nuances of faith, obedience, and trust in God's greater plan. They delve into personal experiences of waiting, disappointment, and faith-building, while also emphasizing the importance of community, relationships, and obedience. The conversation touches on themes like love without judgment, the importance of...

The Power of Connection: Overcoming Isolation and Building Community

In this episode of the Red Ledger podcast, Denalee and Lissa, from Third Strand coaching discuss the dangers of living in isolation. They explore the adverse effects of isolation on spiritual, mental, and biological health, particularly intensified during the COVID-19 pandemic. Personal experiences of isolation and the struggles of re-engaging with social life post-pandemic are shared. The discussion emphasizes the importance of connection for well-being, supported by biblical scriptures and real-life testimonies. They highlight the value of community, companionship, and the benefits of having more than one friend...

Navigating Faith, Relationships, and God's Plan with Pastor Dan

In this episode of 'The Red Ledger,' host [Name] is joined by Pastor Dan Ro to explore the complexities of faith, relationships, and following God's plan. The conversation covers a wide range of topics including the importance of being equally yoked in relationships, balancing life and ministry, and understanding God's purpose even when it doesn't seem to align with personal desires. Pastor Dan shares personal anecdotes about his journey in faith, touching upon the significance of community, the necessity of embracing seasons of rest, and the importance...

Navigating Marriage’s Challenges: Faith, Leadership, and Redemption

In this episode of the Red Ledger podcast, host Denalee Bell is joined by Lisa and Scott Frazier to discuss the trials and transformations within their marriage. The conversation covers issues such as the cultural shift in marital roles, the importance of faith, and the challenges of submission and leadership. Lisa and Scott share their personal journeys of growing closer to God and each other, highlighting the impact of faith on their relationship. They offer practical advice on prayer, trust, and the importance of mutual respect in achieving a ha...

In this episode of Red Ledger, Denalee and Tyler Bell discuss the various cultural misconceptions and distorted versions of Jesus often presented in modern society. They address the pitfalls of progressive, legalistic, hyper-grace, and partisan 'Jesuses' and emphasize the importance of returning to the true Jesus of the Bible. They also explore the consequences of legalism, subjective morality, and political entanglements within the church. Through personal anecdotes and scriptural references, the Bells highlight the necessity of deepening one's understanding of biblical truth, fostering genuine transformation, and maintaining a balanced perspective of grace and truth in the Christian faith.
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Finding Peace and Purpose Through a Disciplined Mind: A Christian's Guide

In this episode of The Red Ledger, Denalee Bell addresses the overwhelming chaos that many people experience due to an undisciplined mind. Sharing personal anecdotes and biblical teachings, she emphasizes the importance of mental clarity, emotional stability, and spiritual discipline to achieve a life of peace and fulfillment. Denalee discusses the impact of fear, lies we believe, and the temptation to control and judge others. Offering practical advice and scripture references, she encourages listeners to align their thoughts with God's truth, renew their minds daily, and...

Understanding True Discipleship and Following Jesus

In this episode of The Red Ledger, Denalee discusses the significance of truly following Jesus, emphasizing that being saved by grace is just the beginning of the journey. She shares personal anecdotes of her own spiritual growth, including the impact of a family crisis on deepening his relationship with Jesus. He highlights the importance of understanding and living out Jesus' expectations, such as self-denial, daily cross-bearing, and embodying love through actions. Denalee also touches on the necessity of spending time with Jesus through Bible study and prayer to...

Finding True Hope in Jesus: A Journey from New Age to Christianity

In this episode of 'The Red Ledger,' hosts delve into personal experiences of transitioning from New Age beliefs to finding true hope in Jesus Christ. The discussion highlights the emptiness of seeking spiritual experiences outside of biblical truth, the importance of knowing God's character through scripture, and placing hope in Jesus rather than worldly pursuits. They also touch upon common challenges Christians face, such as fear, pride, and the temptation to rely on self-effort or worldly validation. The episode concludes with reflections on trusting...

Kaira Munoz discusses how to get free from strongholds for good. Kaira shares great insights on how to over some strongholds in our life, the self imposed prisons.
In this Red Ledger podcast, Denalee and Kaira discuss spiritual growth and overcoming strongholds. Cara shares personal stories of overcoming challenges, the importance of relying on the Holy Spirit, and practical steps to dismantle mental and spiritual strongholds. They also discuss the power of accountability, the significance of community and the church, and how to incorporate the Holy Spirit into everyday life. This episode is filled with heartfelt insights and...

Transforming Finances and Marriages through Faith-Based Financial Coaching

In this episode of The Red Ledger podcast, Denalee speaks with Amberlee and James Rich from Rich Living Coaching. They discuss the often-stressful topic of finances within marriage, emphasizing the positive impact of proactive financial discussions. The Riches share insights on aligning spending with values, building sustainable financial plans, and overcoming financial struggles by shifting perspectives. They also address the struggles pastors face regarding financial stability and the importance of generosity within the Christian community. The episode underscores the importance of clarity, teamwork, and intentionality when managing finances and...

Overcoming Fear through Godly Identity | Life Mastery with Pastor Mark Collins
In this episode of The Red Ledger, Denalee hosts Pastor Mark Collins, an author and coach who discusses the profound impact of fear on our lives. Pastor Mark shares insights from his book, 'Life Mastery: Living Life by Design, Not by Default,' emphasizing the importance of knowing one's identity in Christ to overcome fear and achieve true life mastery. They explore topics like the source of fear, the importance of self-worth, and actionable steps to recognize and live out one's God-given identity. Denalee and Pastor Mark...

Understanding Salvation: Are You Truly Saved?
In this episode of Red Ledger, hosts Denalee and Tyler Bell, delve deeply into the essence of salvation, faith, and grace within Christianity. They discuss the importance of understanding true salvation, the dangers of a works-based theology, and the transformative power of accepting Jesus Christ. The duo addresses common misconceptions, the significance of Ephesians 2:8-9, and share personal experiences about their spiritual journey. They emphasize the assurance of salvation through faith and the importance of continuous growth in one’s relationship with God. Join them as they explore how to walk confidently in...

Denalee shares a personal journey of faith and reflection in the face of modern societal and political challenges. She reflects on the spiritual battle Christians face today by discussing the influence of celebrity endorsements, the erosion of Christian values, and the importance of prayer and compassion. She encourages viewers to seek God's guidance, intercede for leaders, strive for peace, and critically assess who influences their beliefs and actions. She emphasizes healing, love, and the power of prayer in transforming hearts and communities, encouraging a return to foundational Christian values.

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Navigating Addiction and Faith: Personal Stories and Societal Impacts
In this engaging episode of The Red Ledger,  Denalee, Ehren and Tyler delve into the complexities of addiction, particularly related to pornography, and the societal and personal repercussions it entails. They explore the influences of fantasy-based content on relationship expectations and gender dynamics, sharing candid stories and highlighting the importance of proper sex education. The discussion extends to overcoming addiction through faith, accountability, and personal growth, reflecting on daily struggles with sobriety and the power of divine healing. Additionally, the conversation covers significant theological perspectives on suffering, the impact o...

Finding Freedom: Josh Henson's Story of Deliverance and Faith

This episode of 'The Red Ledger' invites Josh Henson, a digital Christian content creator, to share his inspiring journey from alcohol addiction to redemption through faith in Jesus Christ. Josh discusses overcoming generational curses, personal trauma, and the stigmas around addiction in the Christian community. The episode emphasizes the transformative power of faith, spiritual warfare, and the role of prayer, while highlighting the importance of a supportive faith community. It explores themes of grace, daily repentance, and genuine heart transformation, offering encouragement and hope to...

Learn how to stop oversharing and form true friendships by avoiding trauma bonding.
In this podcast of Red Ledger, we discuss the complexities of trauma bonding and the tendency to overshare in conversations. Joined by Erin Dorsey from the Red Circle Project and Tyler Bell, they explore why trauma bonding can be both a bonding and limiting experience in friendships. The discussion delves into the cultural differences in sharing personal information, especially comparing American norms with other cultures. Erin shares her insightful experiences on why oversharing is unhealthy and how it can make one vulnerable to manipulation. The...

How to Increase Your Credibility and Build Trust in Your Relationships
In this podcast episode, Denalee from 'The Red Ledger' discusses the importance of truly listening to others, focusing on showing love, respect, and genuine care through our interactions. Denalee shares personal struggles and insights about why those closest to us, like her husband, don't always heed her advice despite her expertise. She explains how underlying feelings of anger and frustration can stifle effective communication and highlights the need for humility, patience, and inviting God's guidance into our relationships. Denalee hopes to foster more meaningful and productive conversations...

Ehren Dorsey's Journey from Digital Trafficking to Overcoming Advocate
In this compelling episode of the Red Ledger, Denalee sits down with Erin Dorsey from the Red Circle Project to discuss her harrowing experiences of digital trafficking and assault, and the path to healing and redemption. Erin shares intimate details about her troubled family dynamics, the profound impact of religion, and her challenging relationship with her mother. The conversation further explores the traumatic encounter with her predator, the legal battle that ensued, and her rediscovery of faith and resilience. Additionally, this episode delves into modern-day grooming, the impact of...

In this episode of our podcast, Denalee and Tyler discuss the importance of saying no, even to good things, when it aligns with God's will. Tyler and his Denalee share personal stories about their struggles with people-pleasing and validation, how they learned to set boundaries, and the transformative impact it had on their lives. They explore how setting Godly priorities can help us run the race set before us, ultimately leading to a more focused and fulfilling life. Tune in for insights on discerning God's will, practical tips for saying no, and ways to deepen your relationship with God.<...

In this provocative podcast, Lisa bravely shares her story of facing harsh judgment and the profound psychological impact it had on her mental health. Through her journey of overcoming adversity and dealing with judgmental behavior, she sheds light on the importance of resilience and self-compassion. Watch as Lisa's story serves as a powerful reminder of the effects of harsh criticism and the strength it takes to rise above it.

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In this podcast episode, Denalee and Tyler discuss the topic of Christian hypocrisy and why people may hate Christians as a result. They explore the reasons behind this hatred, including the perception of Christians as judgmental and hypocritical. Denalee shares her own experiences of encountering hypocrisy and reflects on the importance of showing the love of Jesus and avoiding judgmental behavior. They also discuss the dangers of hypocrisy, such as pushing people away from God and damaging the reputation of Christianity. The episode concludes with a prayer for salvation and an invitation to join the Red Ledger community.

Melissa shares her journey from addiction to recovery. She discusses her testimony of her redemption. God showed up for her and delivered her step by step from her suffering. She met Jesus in jail, and her life has been forever changed. 

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Welcome to our Podcast on Tipping Culture in America. In this episode, we discuss tip culture and explore its underlying problems. Join us as we uncover the reasons behind tipping, examine its impact on workers and society, and discover potential solutions. ✨ Throughout history, tipping has been a customary practice in various industries, but does it seem like it has become out of control? We navigate the origins of tipping and how it has evolved into an almost obligatory act in today's society.   🤝 Engage in the discussion by sharing your thoughts, experiences, and questions in the comments below. Don't forget to lik...

On today's podcast, we discuss our opinions about the true crime story of Gypsy Rose Blanchard. We discuss our thoughts on the abuse she endured at the hands of her mother, Dee Dee Blanchard, and others through their negligence.  We share opinions on the tragedies in her life.
 
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Are you struggling with an identity crisis? In this video, music artist Havii joins Tyler and Denalee to discuss unraveling your identity in a world that tries to define you. We'll discuss how to find your true identity in Christ and overcome the confusion and struggles that come with it. Havii and Tyler discuss struggles and expectations in the music industry when trying to maintain their identity. Discover the peace and fulfillment of knowing who you are in Him. We share our journey to finding our identities, where we fell short, and where we are going. 

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Is doomscrolling ruining your life? This trap happens when you view the world through negative lenses, and it's a habit that can sap your energy and lead to negative thinking. There is no shortage of doom, apocalyptic, or end-of-the-world media for you to scroll. How good is it for you? We discuss the different types of doom culture, how it affects our minds and spirits, and how to stop this destructive behavior that steals time and energy from your life you can't get back. 

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This is part 2 of our podcast series chronicling Josh's journey that led him to spend most of his adult life in prison and how he managed to survive in prison. He describes the details of his incarceration, the politics of life behind bars, and the dangers lurking around the corners.

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On this podcast episode about modern dating, Denalee interviews one of her favorite people of all time (I may be a little biased), Courtney Chissus, a 31-year-old Christian conservative woman who’s staying busy navigating the craziness of the modern dating life and being in a relationship.

Not only does being a millennial make it challenging enough, but being what feels like a minority amidst our current social climate in her faith, traditional values, and longtime dream of finding a spiritual leader of the family and being a stay-at-home mom someday all contribute to the difficultly she re...

Part 2 of Toxic Femininity Conversation

In part 2, we discuss lies toxic femininity sells us. We have bought into many of them only to learn our lives were damaged. We discuss issues we have come across because of faulty beliefs, and Jean helps address how to let go of toxic behavior and soften our interiors.

In our day and age, the toxicity of feminism is an extremely controversial subject. The empowerment of women is not only constantly celebrated but pushed as a societal agenda, and as women, we’re not saying we shouldn’t be… but there’...

Toxic femininity is a problem in our society. It's a destructive force that harms both men and women and needs to be discussed.

In this podcast series, Jean Schilling and Denalee Bell discuss toxic femininity. Is toxic femininity real? What Is toxic femininity and how it affects both men and women. We'll look at examples of toxic femininity and discuss how we stop the toxic behavior.... or should we? We also discuss how toxic femininity compares to toxic masculinity.

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Part 1 - Josh, a man whose life took a tragic turn due to addiction, is vulnerable and authentic. Join us as we unravel the heartbreaking choices that led him down a treacherous path, ultimately resulting in incarceration. In this raw and unfiltered narrative, Josh opens up about his struggle with addiction and how it spiraled out of control, leading him to make decisions he never thought possible. As we peel back the layers of his life, you'll discover the stark realities of substance abuse and its devastating consequences.

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Twiss discusses his story as a Christian in the tumultuous music business on this podcast. He examines how he is navigating the music industry on his terms as a Christian. He tells us about how his music has changed and evolved as his faith and relationship with God has grown and why he is making what some decisions on releasing music during his dark times.