Digital Dating with Anonymous Andrew

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By: Andrew J. Polizzo

Welcome to The Digital Dating Podcast where modern romance gets unpacked, unfiltered, and understood. Hosted by Anonymous Andrew, a curious and candid voice navigating the highs, lows, and WTFs of dating in the digital era.From swipes and ghosting to algorithm-based matching and relationship red flags, Andrew dives deep into what really connects us — and what doesn’t. Whether you’re app-fatigued, freshly heartbroken, or just trying to decode the dating chaos, this show is for you.After leaving a three year relationship that I endured deception, infidelity, gaslighting, co-dependency and more, I find myself wandering alone in the desert of emp...

Exploring Fantasies: A Path to Intimacy w/ Dr. Bruce Chalmer
#6
Last Wednesday at 10:00 AM

S4 Ep#6

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Summary

In this episode, Dr. Bruce Chalmer, a psychiatrist and couples therapist, discusses the complexities of modern relationships, focusing on themes of trust, betrayal, and communication. He shares insights from his experience in therapy, emphasizing the importance of understanding the underlying issues in relationships, such as infidelity and emotional connection. The conversation explores...


Understanding Deal Breakers in Modern Love
#5
04/30/2025

S4 Ep#5

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In this episode of the Digital Dating Podcast, host Anonymous Andrew welcomes mental health counselor and author Philip Quinones. They discuss the complexities of modern dating, including the challenges couples face, the impact of social movements on relationships, and the rise of polyamory. Philip shares his insights on dating as an exchange of goods and...


Navigating Relationships Through Better Communication
#4
04/23/2025

S4 Ep#4

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In this enlightening conversation, Mario Wissa, a communication expert, shares his journey from Egypt to becoming a renowned author and speaker on communication. He discusses the critical role of communication in relationships, emphasizing the importance of vulnerability, self-awareness, and understanding cultural influences. The dialogue explores the dynamics of interpersonal and intrapersonal communication...


Dating Profiles: What Women Really Want w/ Annie Temple
#3
04/16/2025

S4 Ep#3

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Summary Annie Temple returns to discuss her new book title, 'Healing in Stilettos,' and shares insights on dating profiles, the impact of health conditions on dating, and the importance of authenticity in online dating. The discussion covers practical tips for creating appealing dating profiles, the significance of smiling in photos, and the red flags...


Female Privilege: Men's Disadvantages in Society
#2
04/09/2025

S4 Ep#2

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Summary

In this episode, Jack Kammer discusses his advocacy for men and boys, exploring the complexities of privilege, particularly white and female privilege. He shares insights from his experiences with the cancelation of his book 'Goodwill Toward Men' and highlights the disadvantages faced by men in society, especially in the context of divorce...


Paul Bauer from the Come on, man Podcast!
#1
04/02/2025

S4 Ep#1

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Summary

In this episode, Andrew and Paul discuss the evolution of modern dating, the role of neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) in personal development, and share personal experiences in navigating relationships. They explore the dynamics of attraction, the impact of online dating, and practical approaches to meeting potential partners in real life. The conversation emphasizes...


New Dating App! Splash Match Launching in 2 Days
#58
03/26/2025

S3 Ep#58

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In this episode, Andrew discusses the launch of a new dating app called Splash Match with co-founders Nick and Anukul. They delve into the app's unique features, including a transparent algorithm, gamification, and a focus on user experience. The conversation also covers marketing strategies, safety measures, and the importance of community engagement in the dating...


Weekend Rant is Back! (with exciting news!)
#57
03/22/2025

S3 Ep#57

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So I couldn't stay away! Even more so I am giving you a whole new podcast called The Weekend Rant with Anonymous Andrew. Furthermore, I am rebranding this podcast. New name and new imagery and new format. Folks subscribe, follow and like and refer please!

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Navigating Modern Masculinity
#56
03/19/2025

S3 Ep#56

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Summary

In this episode, A.D. The King Maker discusses the complexities of modern masculinity and dating. He emphasizes the importance of self-respect and accountability for men, while also exploring the dynamics of attraction and the impact of societal movements on relationships. A.D. shares insights on how men can navigate the dating...


The Journey of Love: Jason and Tina Marie
#55
03/12/2025

S3 Ep#55

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In this episode of the Anonymous Andrew podcast, hosts Jason and Tina Marie share their journey of love, authenticity, and the importance of communication in relationships. They discuss how they met, the challenges of navigating the friend zone, and the significance of being genuine in dating. The couple emphasizes the need for...


Weekend Rant-Breadcrumbed then Ghosted!
#54
03/09/2025

S3 Ep#54

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So I am going to give the weekend rant a rest for a while, With he warmer weather around the corner and my other podcast doing very well, I need to focus on 2 episodes a week instead of 3. With the warmer weather I am going to want to be outdoors meeting the ladies in the...


Kelly Bonanno-Matchmaker-Dating Coach
#53
03/05/2025

S3 Ep#53

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Summary

In this episode, Kelly Bonanno, a matchmaker and dating coach, discusses the complexities of modern dating, emphasizing the importance of personal growth and wellness in finding love. The conversation explores the challenges posed by dating apps, the significance of crafting an appealing dating profile, and the benefits of matchmaking services. Additionally, they...


Weekend Rant-Duolingo, my dating life and more!
#52
03/02/2025

S3 Ep#52

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I rant amount about a change Duolingo made in their app. Skip ahead to get to my dating if you dont want to hear this. I have good news about my dating life! I also rant about what I am seeing on the dating apps! Thank you for listening!

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The Badboy Syndrome w/ Dr Cook
#51
02/26/2025

S3 Ep#51

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Summary

In this episode of the Anonymous Andrew Modern Dating Podcast, therapist and author Mary Crocker Cook discusses the complexities of relationships, particularly focusing on why individuals often choose partners who are emotionally unavailable. She explores the impact of early attachment styles on adult relationships, the patterns of behavior that lead to unhealthy...


Character AI Weekend Rant
#50
02/24/2025

S3 Ep#50

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So I continue my investigation into AI and dating. New AI dating app. Character AI chat bots to practice your dating game, either in the real world or on dating apps!

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Exploring Different Attachment Styles with Bev Mitelman
#49
02/19/2025

S3 Ep#49

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In this episode of the Anonymous Andrew Modern Dating Podcast, host Andrew engages with Bev Mitelman, a certified relationship attachment and trauma practitioner, to explore the intricacies of attachment theory and its impact on relationships. Bev shares her personal journey of discovering attachment styles and how they shape our emotional connections. The...


Character AI & Dating Apps-Weekend Rant
#48
02/16/2025

S3 EP#48

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Summary

In this episode, Anonymous Andrew discusses the evolution of dating apps, the impact of AI on dating and podcasting, and the challenges faced by modern daters. He explores the emergence of character AI as a potential substitute for real relationships, the burnout associated with dating apps, and the transactional nature of modern...


He took a stool sample on his 1st date with her! Dating with Author Charity Sinclair!
#47
02/11/2025

S3 EP#47

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Summary of this episode:

I’ve been on a lot of shit dates. No, really—literally shit dates. There was the guy with a stool sample in his chest pocket. Then the man who found an old bag of dog poop in his jacket. And the time a bird pooped on my head as w...


Weekend Rant-Dating apps continued!
#46
02/09/2025

S3 EP#46

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My weekend rant about dating and meeting women in the wild. Why don't women wear their wedding band? It is getting worse not better!

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Everything You Want To Know About Pornography but are afraid to ask! w/ Vic Lagina
#45
02/05/2025

S3 EP#45

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"WARNING": this episode is very explicit! If have an issue with pornography, and or are sensitive to explicit scenarios in poor scenes, I caution you to be discretionary.

Summary

In this episode, Andrew interviews Vic Legina, a prominent figure in the porn industry, discussing his journey, the ethical considerations of adult...


Why is Modern Dating So Hard! -Weekend Rant!
#44
02/02/2025

S3 EP#44

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Part 4 of my series on dating apps vs the real world! Why haven't the dating apps changed. Is finding someone in real life really easier?

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Creating Your Ideal Relationship w/Rebeccah Silence
#43
01/29/2025

S3 ep#43

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In this episode, Rebeccah Silence shares her transformative journey from trauma to healing, emphasizing the importance of self-discovery and understanding love. She discusses her experiences with domestic violence, the impact of her upbringing, and how she broke the cycle of abuse. Rebecca highlights the significance of creating a relationship wishlist and the...


Dating Apps -Weekend Rant -Part 3
#42
01/28/2025

S3 ep#42

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Part 3 of my weekend rant of dating apps. More of a perspective on what I found online through surveys. My opnions

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Dating Apps Part 3-Weekend Rant
#42
01/26/2025

S3 ep#42

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Part 3 of my deep dive into the dating apps, the problems, the issues, do's and Don'ts-my picks for favorites and much more. Oh and don't waste your time with Gladiator 2!

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Building a Relationship with Meredith & Craig
#41
01/22/2025

S3 ep#41

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In this episode of the Anonymous Andrew podcast, hosts Meredith and Craig share their unique love story, detailing their journey from corporate employees to relationship coaches. They discuss the challenges they faced during significant life changes, including the impact of family dynamics and the importance of timing in relationships. The couple emphasizes...


Dating Profile-Part 2- Weekend RANT
#40
01/19/2025

S3 ep#40

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Part 2 of my dating profile rant and do's and dont's on what to write in your dating profile.

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Sex, Dating, Sex & Did I mention sex with with Matt Cook
#39
01/15/2025

S3 Ep#39

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In this episode of the Anonymous Andrew podcast, host Andrew engages in a deep conversation with sex and health researcher Matt Cook. They explore the challenges of modern dating, the impact of health on sex life, and the importance of intimacy over mere physical connection. Matt shares insights on navigating online dating...


Do's & Dont's of a Dating Profile Part-1-Weekend Rant
#38
01/12/2025

S3 EP#38

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In this weekend rant I talk about what I see wrong with people dating profiles.

I decided to tackle the dating profiles of women. Pictures are the most important aspect of a dating profile. Ladies if you haven't heard men are visual, we are going to look at your pictures first. I am...


Finding Authenticity in Relationships w/Yvonne Trost
#37
01/08/2025

S3 Ep37

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In this episode of the Anonymous Andrew podcast, Yvonne Trost, a happiness coach and hypnotherapist, shares her transformative journey from a 25-year corporate career to helping others find fulfillment and happiness. She discusses the importance of overcoming limiting beliefs, the role of hypnotherapy in personal growth, and the impact of childhood conditioning...


What women do to push men away!-New Year Weekend Rant
#36
01/05/2025

S3 Ep36

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From Episode#9

Ethical Non-Monogamy w/Lauren Hayes her new book is now out!

For Better or Even Better: 7 Lessons on Love & Life from a Non-Monogamist! Available on Amazon. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DRDNCQWQ

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Understanding Boundaries w/Barb Nangle
#35
01/01/2025

S3 Ep# 35

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In this episode of the Anonymous Andrew Modern Dating Podcast, host Andrew speaks with Barb Nangle, a boundaries coach and recovery advocate. Barb shares her personal journey through addiction, co-dependency, and the transformative power of the 12-step recovery process. She discusses her evolution into a boundaries coach, emphasizing the importance of establishing...


Things Men Do to Make Women Feel Unsafe-Weekend Rant
#34
12/29/2024

S3 Ep#34

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Here is the article I was reading from

https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/women-sharing-things-guys-think-101603482.html?guccounter=1

My take on what women say men do to make them feel unsafe. Read the article!

Happy New Year!

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Debunking Myths About Kink with Max Carey
#33
12/25/2024

S3 Ep#33

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In this episode of the Anonymous Andrew podcast, host Andrew engages with Max Carey, director of the documentary 'Touch Kink', to explore the world of kink and BDSM. They discuss the normalization of kink, the misconceptions surrounding it, and the importance of consent and communication in these practices. Max emphasizes that kink is a common human interest and not necessarily...


Weekend Rant-Christmas 2024
#32
12/22/2024

S3 Ep#32

Gorilla Article

I found an article about a gorilla caged for 41 years in Thailand all by itself. Read the article above. It broke my heart! I am rebranding the podcast. It is now called The anonymous Andrew Modern Dating Podcast. Same theme and concept, Just now with a name that refers to dating

Happy Holidays and be safe!

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Navigating Modern Dating w/Jonathan Aslay
#31
12/18/2024

S3 Ep#31

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In this episode, dating coach Jonathan Aslay shares his journey into the world of dating and relationships, emphasizing the importance of self-love, emotional maturity, and understanding the dynamics of modern dating. He discusses the challenges faced by individuals over 40 in the dating scene, the significance of grieving after a relationship, and the purpose of dating as a vetting process for potential long-term partnerships...


Big Brother is Watching! Weekend Rant
#30
12/15/2024

S3 Ep#30

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Red Lights cameras, speed camera, drones? We are being watched in everything we do. Insurance companies CEO assassinated in broad daylight? I dont know about you but what is happening out there! Dating culture? I think I just stay home!

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Romance Scams w/ Patsy the PINK Lady
#29
12/11/2024

S3 EP#29

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I am joined again by Patsy the Pink Lady Against Scammers. As many of you know I am looking to become a scam baiter. (one who does a reverse scam on the scammers) Patsy does her own version of scam baiting and has for years called out romance scammers, wasted their time (which keeps them from actually scamming people) and as serious as...


Weekend Rant- Heart Procedure-Dating Update
#28
12/08/2024

S3 EP#28

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A quick update on my dating and health. I am going in for ablation for Atrial Fib. Some dating updates and ran into my ex-ex girlfriend today! Awkward!!!!! Pretty short this week! Wish me luck on my cardiac procedure!

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Andy Paige-Actress from General Hospital/QVC and more! A chat about dating!
#27
12/04/2024

S3 EP#27

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In this engaging conversation, Andy Paige shares her journey as a beauty expert and actress on General Hospital, discussing the evolution of soap operas, the impact of reality TV on beauty standards, and the innovative marketing strategies being employed in the industry. The discussion shifts to modern dating challenges, the importance of chivalry, and the dynamics of gender roles today...


Dating Apps-Pickleball-Yellowstone-Weekend Rant
#26
12/01/2024

S3 EP#26

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Happy Thanksgiving Weekend Rant

So I have off the 4 days of Thanksgiving weekend. So lots of time to swipe and watch TV. Oh boy was that a mistake! But I did play pickleball, my take on that! I go off on whats wrong with the dating apps. Hint: it is not the apps (well maybe Bumble)! Are you watching Yellowstone? My...