Going Somewhere

We made it to Episode 100 — and this one is truly special.

This episode isn’t just a recap… it’s a celebration, a thank you, and a handing-off of the journey.

In this final episode of the Going Somewhere Podcast, Stephen and Megan look back on 100 episodes of conversations, stories, laughter, hard moments, and faithful steps. Together, they reflect on the moments that shaped the show, the people who made it meaningful, and the lessons learned along the way.

In this episode, you’ll hear:

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This week, Stephen and Megan pull back the curtain on what’s ahead as we approach the final episode of the Going Somewhere Podcast. Episode 100 is coming next week, and it’s going to be a full-on celebration—favorite moments, impactful conversations, behind-the-scenes stories, fun facts, and a few surprises as we wrap up an incredible journey together.

In today’s conversation, we explore why the GS Podcast is coming to an end, how Stephen’s role and audience have shifted over time, and why this transition feels both right and timely. Then we look ahead to what’s nex...

In this episode, Stephen and Megan sit down with Dave Leedahl, Lead Pastor at Northview Church — and someone who has been part of the Going Somewhere story from the very beginning. Together, they revisit the early conversations that sparked the birth of this podcast years ago, emerging from a shared desire to meet a need and invest deeply in the young adults of our community.

The three of them talk about what God has been doing in young adults, the hunger and ownership they’re seeing, the leadership and maturity emerging, and the unique obstacles and threats this...

In today’s episode, Stephen and Megan dive into one of their favorite rhythms of the entire year: creating space for year-end reflection. Stephen shares the story of his very first reflection retreat back in 2016 (complete with the original journal), and Megan opens up about how reflection has shaped her life and spiritual journey.

Together, they offer a flyover of a few core practices—People of the Year, Life Lessons, and Word of the Year—while inviting you to slow down long enough to notice what God has been doing in your own story.

They also t...

Pastor Brad Lewis is back—and if you’ve been around the podcast, you know he’s a fan favorite. Brad has made a huge impact on my life, and this conversation felt like a gift as we near the end of this season.

In this episode, Brad reflects on last year’s celebration event where hundreds of alumni returned to honor 36+ years of campus ministry. He shares what it was like to look out on a room full of people whose lives had been shaped during those decades.

We talk about the transition of a minist...

Every good thing must come to an end.

From our favorite TV shows to the seasons of our own lives, endings are a natural part of the journey — but knowing when and how to end well takes wisdom, humility, and faith.

In this episode, Stephen and Megan talk about the importance of recognizing when a season is complete, how to process endings in a healthy way, and what it looks like to move forward with peace and purpose. They share personal stories of transition — from college to career, ministry changes, and learning to say goodbye to g...

Stephen and Megan dive into the ideas behind Jonathan Haidt’s bestselling book, The Anxious Generation: How the Great Rewiring of Childhood Is Causing an Epidemic of Mental Illness. Together, they unpack how the rise of smartphones and the decline of play-based childhood have shaped an entire generation.

In this conversation, Stephen explains Haidt’s core argument that childhood was “rewired” around 2012 — trading outdoor play, social learning, and healthy risk for screen-based connection, comparison, and constant distraction. They explore how this great rewiring has uniquely impacted both boys and girls, why young adults today are more anxious and lonely...

In this episode, Stephen and Taylor pull back the curtain on their marriage and family life for a conversation that’s equal parts laughter, chaos, and real talk. Together with Megan, they revisit their first date, share stories about parenting three very different kids, and reflect on the rhythms that have kept them grounded in a season of change. From marriage meetings to viral videos, it’s an honest look at what it means to dream big while building a healthy family culture in the everyday moments.

You’ll laugh, you’ll relate, and you might even hear a l...

Confession isn’t about guilt—it’s about healing, growth, and connection. In this episode, Stephen and Megan talk about how confession can transform your faith, deepen your relationships, and help you live more honestly before God and others. Together, they explore what Scripture teaches, why the early church practiced confession in community, and how we can reclaim that rhythm today.

Here’s what they cover:

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Dan Schuster is a financial advisor, musician, and partner at Fjell, a financial agency based in Fargo. His journey to partnership began humbly—handing out over 25 résumés to local companies before one opportunity opened the door. Years later, his story is one marked by faithfulness, perseverance, and purpose.

In this episode, Stephen and Megan sit down with Dan to talk about the lessons he wishes he knew in his 20s—about life, money, and faith. Together they explore how to view money through a biblical lens, focus on adding value over chasing success, and develop rhythm...

In this episode, Stephen reflects on a season when God reshaped how he viewed work, calling, and everyday life. Together with Megan, he explores what it means to see all of life as worship, break the myth of sacred vs. secular, and embrace your ordinary with purpose.

Key Takeaways:

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Recently, I had the surreal experience of watching my friend Carson Wentz run out of the tunnel as the starting quarterback for the Minnesota Vikings — the very team he grew up cheering for as a kid in North Dakota. It was a full-circle moment that sparked something in me about dreams, detours, and God’s greater purpose.

In this episode, I share that story, reflect on Proverbs 19:21, and Megan and I invite you to consider the dreams or plans in your life that haven’t turned out the way you hoped. What if God is still at work...

Bill and Kristi Gaultiere have spent over 30 years counseling and ministering to people as a psychologist–therapist duo. They are the founders of Soul Shepherding, co-hosts of the Soul Talks podcast, and authors of several books including Journey of the Soul and Healthy Feelings, Thriving Faith. Kristi also joined us back on Episode 40, and today she and Bill return to share insights from their brand-new book Deeply Loved.

In this conversation, we dive into the power of empathy — why empathy is like oxygen for the soul, how to receive God’s empathy for us, and what it looks...

Prayer isn’t always polished — and it was never meant to be. David, called a man after God’s own heart, showed us what raw, honest prayer looks like in the Psalms. He brought every emotion to God — fear, joy, guilt, shame, anger, hope, and more. (If you want an example, read the story of David hiding in a cave in 1 Samuel 22 alongside Psalm 142.)

In this episode, Stephen and Megan explore what Christian counselor Chip Dodd calls the Voice of the Heart — 8 core emotions that every one of us experiences. Each emotion signals something deeper, and when we bring t...

Some of the most important lessons we learn in college don’t come from textbooks—they come from life. In Part 2 of this two-part conversation, Stephen and Megan continue reflecting on their own college years and share more truths that still matter today. Whether you’re a student heading back to campus or years removed from dorm life, these lessons will help you live with purpose in every season.

Here’s the full list of 10 lessons we cover across both episodes:

College is full of experiences, challenges, and lessons that stick with us long after graduation. In this episode, Stephen and Megan look back on their own college years and share the life-shaping truths they learned then that still matter today. Whether you’re a student heading into a new semester or years removed from campus, these lessons will help you live with purpose right where you are.

Here are the first five lessons we unpack in Part 1:

An...

Pausing to reflect may be the most important rhythm you can build into your life. In this episode, Stephen and Megan talk about why creating space for reflection matters and share three key benefits you’ll experience when you make it part of your month: clarity, growth, and peace. Together, they cast vision for the power of the pause and encourage you to slow down long enough to notice where you’ve been and where you’re going.

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A new season demands a new rhythm. In this episode, Stephen and Megan sit down to revisit their Growth Plans and talk about what it looks like to reset as summer turns into fall. Stephen shares from his perspective of stepping into a new job and new season of writing, speaking, and resource development, while Megan reflects on the natural seasonal shift that makes this the perfect time to pause and reevaluate. Together, they walk through their own Growth Plans — covering current realities, envisioned futures, and priorities for the months ahead—while encouraging you to do the same.

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In this episode, Stephen and Megan get real about discipline — why it’s so hard, why it’s worth it, and how to keep going when every part of you wants to quit. From Stephen’s unexpected running journey (inspired by a roast from Paul Hurckman and the birth of the I Hate Running Club) to Megan’s honest reflections on her 2024 goals, they unpack the struggles, victories, and lessons learned along the way.

You’ll be reminded that every action you take is a vote for the type of person you want to become — and those votes add up...

In this episode, we’re joined by Hannah Aberle, the Kids Ministry Assistant at Northview Church. She previously interned with Megan under Stephen’s leadership and completed a second-year ministry internship as well. With a dual degree in early childhood education and art, Hannah brings creativity and depth to everything she does.

Hannah shares openly about the pain of her parents’ divorce and the difficult years that followed — including a pivotal moment when her dad didn’t show up for their final meeting before she and her mom moved from Minot to Valley City. But this isn’t just a sto...

In this deeply personal episode, Stephen shares a major life update: after four years on staff at Northview Church, he's stepping into a new season — working alongside Valley Christian Counseling and Wellness to oversee marketing, social media, and church partnerships, while also pursuing writing, speaking, and resource development.

Stephen and Megan unpack the process of discernment, how long-term dreams from years ago (including conversations from 2021) began to align with God’s timing, and what it looks like to hold dreams in tension with present faithfulness. From Abraham’s "Going Somewhere" journey to the challenge of “leaving tomorrow while st...

Anthony Russo is the creator and comedian behind The Bible is Funny—a wildly popular Instagram account and card game that mixes the unexpected hilarity of obscure Bible verses with modern-day scenarios. Known for his quick wit, deep love for Scripture, and improv chops, Anthony has carved out a unique space at the intersection of faith and funny. And exciting news—Volume 2 of The Bible is Funny game is officially out TODAY!

In this episode, Anthony joins Stephen and Megan for a conversation full of laughs, stories, and spiritual insights. They explore the origin of the game, his...

Ellie Buringa serves as the Creative Director at Northview Church in Fargo, ND -- which makes her Stephen and Megan's co-worker and dear friend. Ellie is more than a teammate -- she has become family, and her story iis one marked by deep faith, raw honesty, and unwavering courage.

In this episode, we explore Ellie’s journey of discovering Jesus in college, moving from a place of seeking validation from others to spending hours in God’s Word, fully captivated by His presence. We also dive into the complexity of faith as it evolves through young adulthood —e spec...

Zach Windahl is an author and content creator focused on helping his audience grow in their faith. He is the founder and former CEO of The Brand Sunday, a company that creates tools and resources to hold your hand as you read through the Bible for yourself. Marrying his passion for entrepreneurship and making faith simple and attainable has landed Zach in a unique place in the Christian landscape, where he reaches hundreds of thousands of followers on social media every day. He wrote his latest book, “The Bible, Simplified” (coming July 1, 2025), to help others be less overwhelmed by the...

In this episode, we’re joined by our friend Abby Newkirk, a Chi Alpha missionary serving at Rowan University in Glassboro, New Jersey. Abby shares her journey of following God's call—one that includes a cross-country move, deep relational roots, and a few surprising connections (including her college roommate Megan and a pivotal conversation with Stephen that helped point her toward Rowan!). Her story is a beautiful reminder that God's plans often unfold through a series of faithful, everyday yeses.

Together, we talk about what it means to say “yes” to God—not just in the big, dramatic m...

This week we’re joined by special guest Heidi Cottingham. Heidi brings experience as a mom, counselor, pastor’s kid, and as someone involved in ministry for decades. She shares her perspective on how her parents’ lives influenced who she is today and the power of speaking life over someone. We dive into the conversation of mental health and ask the question, do we ever arrive in life? We address failure, hard conversations, starting over, reconciliation, and the power of empathy. Enjoy the episode!

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In a world that often feels hostile to faith, how do we stay strong and stand out? In this episode of The Going Somewhere Podcast, Stephen and Megan unpack 1 Peter 4 and explore what it means to live with courage, conviction, and compassion in the face of pressure. This powerful chapter gives us a framework for following Jesus boldly—no matter the cost. Whether you're navigating cultural tension or personal struggle, these 9 qualities will equip you to live with purpose, love deeply, and endure faithfully.

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If you haven’t listened to Episode 72 (Developing Core Values), start there first! In this follow-up conversation, Stephen and Megan dive into why living out your core values is essential for an intentional, purpose-driven life. Core values aren’t just words on paper—they’re meant to shape your daily habits, relationships, and decisions. In this episode, Stephen and Megan discuss how businesses like. Nike, Patagonia, and Five Guys live out their values. We also break down the benefits of value-based living, why rhythms and routines matter, and how to regularly revisit and realign your life. Plus, we share our own...

What truly drives you? In this episode, we explore the power of core values—those guiding principles that shape your decisions, relationships, and spiritual life. From biblical examples like love, humility, and integrity, to practical steps for identifying your own, this conversation will help you build a life aligned with God’s purpose. You’ll also walk through a hands-on activity to define your values and start living them out. Whether you're leading others or seeking clarity in your own journey, this episode will inspire you to live with conviction, purpose, and Christ at the center.

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Sara Dangerfield and her husband, Dan, lead Journey Church in Minot, ND. Fun fact: Sara's sister is married to Stephen's brother -- so Sara and Stephen are basically in-law...in-laws (or something like that). Sara recently published her first book -- Leading Spiritual Hoarders. 

In this episode, we talk about the importance of being a disciple who makes disciples. We talk about how people become spiritual hoarders by keeping the good news about Jesus to themselves instead of sharing it with others. Sara shares practical advice, like creating a list of 100 people you see throughout a typical w...

Matt Peikert is an NDSU graduate, currently working in Fargo, ND as an architect. Not only that -- but Matt is also Megan's twin brother! In this episode, Matt and Megan share their unique perspectives of how God grabbed ahold of each of them during their college years. We also talk about having a posture of prayer, developing discipline, and surrounding yourself with people who make you more like Jesus! 

Also, stick around for the end of the episode where we see just how in sync Matt and Megan are as twins. Is twin telepathy a real t...

Spending time with God is one of the most important aspects of a Christian's life. But it looks different for everyone. There are times it comes easy and times it comes hard. Here's the question, How do you spend time with God?

In this episode, Stephen and Megan give a glimpse into their own spiritual lives, talking about how they spend time with God on a daily basis. They share some of the breakthroughs and challenges they've had along the way. They also talk about WHY we spend time with God -- which is the first place...

Caleb David is a recent college grad with a construction management background, but his life has been flipped upside down over the last few years. He recently stepped into a role as Connections Pastor at Northview Church in Fargo, overseeing a variety of ministry areas including new believer follow-up, community outreach, and more. Caleb is passionate about Jesus and leading others into relationship with Him.

In this episode, Caleb shares his story and talks about how God grabbed ahold of his heart in a new way during a summer internship in Texas. In returning, he felt God...

Setareh Campion serves as the Director of Programs for Fargo Moorhead West Fargo Chamber of Commerce. She is married and has four children. Setareh is driven, fun-loving, passionate, and wise. 

In this episode, Setareh shares about her young adult journey and many of the joys and challenges along the way. We talk about the various transitions young adults face, including the ways our personalities are expressed. She also talks about being right on time, developing an ability to recognize the blessings of each season and moment. You are not behind -- you are right on time. We a...

Finding a new church home can be a daunting experience. It's common to deal with comparison or simply the feeling of being overwhelmed. Whether you are moving to a small town or a big city, it is important to find a church to be a part of! In this episode, Stephen and Megan share their personal experiences and share some things to look for in a church as well as some practical tips to assist you in the hunt! 

We'd love to hear your experiences or if you have any advice you would add! Enjoy the episode!

This episode was recorded LIVE during Rhythm Conference 2025! Stephen and Megan are joined by three of our guest speakers: Kirk Graham as well as Josiah & Micah Kennealy. Kirk serves as the Executive Pastor at River Valley Church in Minnesota. Over the years he has served in a variety of roles, as well as initially launching a young adult ministry several years ago in the greater Twin Cities area. Josiah and Micah co-founded and lead YoungAdultsToday, a non-profit that creates events and resources for young adults and trains and equips young adult leaders all over the country!

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This episode was recorded LIVE during Rhythm Conference 2025! Stephen and Megan are joined by three young adults who are making a big difference in the world: Liv Abraham, Lucas Sjule, and Abby Schoeneck. All three of them are embracing the season they are in by using their unique platforms, careers, and networks to positively impact those around them. Liv co-founded The Invitation, which creates community and opportunities for young adult women in multiple states! Lucas is a content creator and a business owner, who co-founded the Hey Friend Podcast  which advocates for real friendships. Abby is a nurse who h...

In this episode, Stephen and Megan are joined by coworker and friend, Amanda Boe. Amanda currently serves as the Ministry and Project Administrator at Northview Church. Amanda brings a ton of wisdom, experience, and perspective into all that she does.

In this episode, we talk with Amanda about her young adult journey through her faith, unexpected career setbacks and opportunities, and her ability to trust through it all. Amanda has a degree in interior design at NDSU, started her own nutrition shop, and now is on staff at NVC. Amanda’s story is a source of encouragement fo...

Ryan Blotsky has been listening to the Going Somewhere Podcast since DAY ONE and it is a privilege to have him on as a guest. Ryan serves as a firefighter with the Fargo Fire Department. He serves in the community and in the church in a variety of ways. If you know Ryan, you know he is known for his joy, positivity, and enthusiasm for life. If you don't know him yet, today is going to be a treat!

In this episode, we talk about Ryan's faith journey and his unconventional young adult journey. He has a...

Many of us have a picture of the kind of person we want to be but struggle to know how to get there. Living the life we want takes intentionality. A new year provides a natural beginning to set goals, kick poor habits, and pursue passions. It can feel overwhelming and therefore seem easier to quit two weeks in. As we step into 2025 and look to the year ahead, we want to help you put your best foot forward. Instead of new year resolutions, try new rhythms.

In this week’s episode we get practical in providing re...