Sorry For Asking with Adam Ramzi and Cole Connor

Make yourself decent and get the sling ready, folks, we’ve got company. This week, Adam and Cole are paid a visit by their good friend James, known to the gay adult film world as the Inked Pig (sometimes as Jimmy Ink). James gives us a deep download of his upbringing in the Bronx growing up with macho Italian values and breaking free from them his own unique way.

Sometimes being shamed is a perfect recipe for becoming an uninhibited sex god, and James is proof. After making his way to LA and becoming a tattoo artist, a tr...

Welcome back, y’all! Just the boys again this time. Adam and Cole have a little catch up about what they’re up to as summer comes to a close, including creative endeavors, recent shoots, and upcoming travels, plans, and hopes for the fall. They also speak on some moments of folly that we all could learn from (you’re welcome!)

Also, before resuming having guests, Adam and Cole try another hand at last episode’s format of reviewing each other’s scenes, except this time they speak on some recent uploads to their spicy pages, this time with the s...

In this episode, Adam and Cole go deep into their memory banks to give you the full experience by reliving the first time either of them did a studio scene. The assignment: Each of them will watch the other's scene, comment and review, and ask questions. What it was like, what happened, how it happened, and all surrounding circumstances. Simple, right? Of course, nothing is ever simple on set, especially when you've never done it before! First, Cole gives us a run down of Adam's debut in Hole 2, Adam completes the picture, and then Adam returns the favor by getting...

Welcome back, listeners. We have a guest this week, so get ready for some chaos because Adam and Cole are paid a visit by none other than Michael Boston! He’s won multiple awards, including the XBiz Gay Performer of the Year, and the Grabby for Best Butt, and Michael reminisces with the boys about winning the latter in the presence of his mother. He grew up Mormon in Utah, and shares what it was like growing up very much himself while also grappling with the rules of the church. Learning to break those rules slowly but surely is what le...

Harrumph! Welcome to the summer grumps! In this episode, Adam and Cole do their best Waldorf and Statler as they catch up about recent things they’ve been up to in the heat of these summer days. Adam shares about his wild experience in Germany, from the techno stages of Whole Festival to Pride weekend at the legendary Berlin nightclub scene. Cole tells stories of a recent visitor at his home that didn’t go quite according to plan. Just shooting the breeze on a hot summer day. Sorry about it!

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We love a multi-hyphenate in the industry. And boy, do we have a good one today. Adam and Cole welcome Taylor Stilson to the show, who has so many qualifications under his belt that it’s hard to keep track. Having worked with Taylor on respective collabs, using his adult content moniker Jameson Taylor, Adam and Cole have seen Taylor around town at the parties rocking some fierce looks blending all sorts of fashion trends that play with the masculine ideal. Slowly getting to know him over time, the boys realized there’s a lot more to this fella than we g...

Right on the heels of a busy 4th of July weekend, Adam and Cole dive head first into a brand new studio set up for the podcast! It’s summer 2025, things are changing everywhere, and the boys have a one on one catch up about the various things this season that are keeping them on their toes. From improv shows to party venue pivots, upcoming trips and festivals, recent Pride festivities to reasons for nostalgia, the boys even have time to share about some recent intimate experiences that got them thinking about some potential moral dilemmas. Sorryyyyyy.

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Summer is here officially, and to ring it in, Adam and Cole are paid a visit by LA nightlife fixture and sexy content creator, Judas King. Having made a connection while working the Hot Dog Sunday parties in LA together, Adam invited Judas to share his origin story of growing up in Northern California with an adoptive Mormon family, and the bumpy road that lead to his unique place in the queer zeitgeist. From the early days of Guys in Sweatpants, to stripping, to go-go dancing, to the delicate dance of handling sugar daddies, Judas has paved his way in...

On the eve of Cole’s birthday, Adam and Cole get together in this episode to chat about some shoots that didn’t go quite according to plan and what it takes to pivot when things get a little shaky. Especially if we are having problems with the money shot. Studios and performers all have their tricks to get a climax on camera, and the boys have some stories to tell, with surprisingly overlapping details. Cole also tells of his recent exploits in Puerto Vallarta for a content creator awards ceremony, while Adam shares his experience at a yearly retreat to r...

Icon Alert! Adam and Cole are paid an in-studio visit by none other than the multiple award-winning Landon Conrad, for many of us, a blueprint of post-Y2K gay adult fantasies. With his Viking build, blue eyes, and always with the perfect hair, Landon made his mark in the industry effortlessly and tells us some stories of how he got there. We also get into what it’s like to have been part of the DVD era of adult films, only to take a break and re-enter the limelight during a time when everyone is making their own content, and wh...

Feast your eyes and ears on this week’s guest, the very sexy and sultry Heath Halo! Heath joins Adam and Cole via Zoom to talk about his intention to make a quick mark in the industry, starting with a podcast that ended up turning into a profitably spicy social media presence, to becoming one of Falcon’s biggest stars. Having grown up around a heap of Texan masculinity and participating in a unique family set up as a sometimes stay-at-home dad, Heath used social media to cultivate a brand all his own. With the mischievous smirk, the bedroom eyes, the...

Welcome back, folks. This time, it’s just our boys, Adam and Cole, and this time, they have some stories to tell. As spring continues to bring out our spicy sides, the boys decide to take some turns sharing about some recent fun they’ve had with gentlemen, on as well as off camera. First, some stories about cats, because why not? Then Cole tells of an upcoming shoot that is Severance-themed, while Adam reminisces about a stepbrother and stepson scene. Then the stories begin, including a couple of recent massage clients for Cole, as well as a very fun thre...

We have another last minute guest addition this week, in the form of the very handsome Daniel Gainsbrook! Daniel joins Adam and Cole in the studio to share stories and perspectives on what it’s like to be an adult content creator with a Punjabi background, having grown up in Pakistan and even having been at one point married, with children. Daniel moved to Canada and took the reins of his life and pivoted into the gay adult film landscape, looking for a place to belong. Every journey into the gay adult content stratosphere is unique, and Daniel’s story is p...

He’s back, folks! Two years after his first visit to the studio, Derek Kage returns to chat with Adam and Cole for a very well earned catch up. In the two years since his appearance, he’s risen in stardom, and in wisdom and experience in the industry, and tells us a lot of what’s happened. With several awards and starring vehicles under his belt, Derek shares about how success in the industry isn’t slowing him down at all. In fact, he’s got some new passions and projects, his foray into the straight porn industry turning heads all...

This week, Adam and Cole get paid a visit by the very sexy and smart Logan Stevens, a true “multi-hyphenate” in the industry! Logan shares candidly about his path from being an only child in Wisconsin more concerned with nature documentaries than cartoons, and hanging out with trees instead of people, to getting an education in anthropology that led to international jobs and internships in government. Feeling unfulfilled by this call, he followed his more creative side by going to New York and flexing his musical skills and costume designing muscles, all while also understanding the privilege and lucrative potential of b...

Season 4 gets its first guest in the form of the beautiful, talented, and incredibly smart Emil Jameson! Emil visits Cole and Adam in the studio to talk about his past and present, and his three-year journey as an adult content creator. Emil details his beginnings as a midwestern kid who moved around all over the world from childhood to graduate school as a linguistics master's degree holder. He also shares with the boys how his very conservative Christian upbringing affected his coming of age as a young, closeted bookworm to his slow coming out process, and eventually coming into his...

Aaaaand we’re back! Season 4 of Sorry For Asking begins with Adam Ramzi and Cole Connor catching up over the best things about the holidays, how they navigated the week of the LA fires, Adam’s trip to Costa Rica, Cole’s multiple trips to Florida, some recent shoots, upcoming opportunities, and the hopes they share for the upcoming year. Adam has entered his reading glasses era while he continues headfirst into his relationship, as well as the growing business of party planning, and Cole tells tales of how massage has become more of a career while his content has had an...

And that’s a wrap on season 3, folks! To close out the chaotic and crazy year that was 2024, eavesdrop on Adam and Cole as they catch up at the beginning of this holiday season, sharing about holiday plans, some scene work, recent creative endeavors, competition in their fields… What kind of energy do we wish to bring in to the new year? Adam’s new home and Cole’s upcoming creative redirect are two examples of how switching things up in the new year can bring some inspiration to their lives, in order to kick some old habits and jumpstart new ones...

Lube up more than your nethers this time, folks. Your brain, heart, and soul could each use a good yank, as evidenced by today’s conversation with OG YouTube sensation turned holistic adult content producer, Davey Wavey. Adam and Cole dive deep into Davey’s history, growing up Catholic in Rhode Island, and falling into the early days of YouTube video diaries going viral and making coin, ultimately leading him to creating his own porn studio. After cultivating a community of followers and inviting them into the ongoing conversation of our collective queer sexual awakening and authenticity, Davey created Himeros.TV...

After gushing about him at the end of our last episode, Adam and Cole give a warm in-studio welcome to the iconic emperor of trans masculine adult content and sexual healing, Viktor Belmont! In this hilarious and heady conversation, Viktor shares about his exceptionally unique experience of self-actualization, not only as a sexual healer and formidable adult content presence, but also as a trans man. Growing up in rural Oregon as a young punk rock lesbian, Viktor came to learn some things about himself before taking the transition plunge and relocating to San Francisco, where he lived modestly while developing...

Hey folks, let’s catch up! Cole and Adam get together this week to discuss a busy end of summer schedule, including some recent scene work and seasonally-themed collaborations. They also get into some of their younger scene partners and ask questions about whether or not the younger generation of queer men may be desensitized to sex, given its overwhelming availability compared to twenty years ago. Adam tells stories of his excursion to this year’s Folsom Street Fair weekend in San Francisco, including a new romantic entanglement he’s been mostly quiet about. The boys also discuss how the fall s...

After a couple false starts, Adam and Cole finally get the chance to sit down with the legendary Reese Rideout to hear his tale. What false starts, you ask? Tune in to hear the wild story about what took so long to get Reese on the pod. Reese shares vividly about his path to gay adult film legend status, in the early days of Randy Blue all the way to his current blend of sexy and funny easily seen in his internet presence. Sexuality is a spectrum, and Reese has learned so much as he’s carved out a spot fo...

Happy spooky season, listeners. To kick off the final stretch of season 3, Adam and Cole bring to the table just the dose of infectiously joyful, confident femme-dom energy in the form of iconic performer and producer, Siouxsie Q! Siouxsie is a captivating storyteller, sharing about growing up in the Bay Area and being drawn to the abundance of freak flags in San Francisco before starting out as a peep show performer. This led to many kinds of work within the adult work arena, securing on-camera appearances and eventually becoming a creator behind the scenes for a variety of studios. Grab...

Just Adam and Cole today, folks. After a last minute cancellation, the boys decide to hide from the insanity-inducing heat wave and get together to hang out and talk shop, starting with a little run down of how they feel about the upcoming elections. Then as they each catch up about their end of summer shenanigans, they begin a fun little discussion about some sexy beach stories they’ve experienced in the past. Adam busts Cole’s chops a bit about a recent favorite co-collaborator in his group scenes, which leads to Cole discussing his latest foray into the world of m...

All hail our first ever returning guest performer: this week the boys are joined again by Drew Valentino! Drew visits Adam and Cole this time to discuss what a difference two years make in the gay adult content industry, since the last time he was on the podcast. No longer an exclusive with the Falcon group, and seemingly less interested in making content, Drew goes in depth about what’s changed in the industry since he first joined as a wide eyed and bushy tailed performer, collecting awards and cornering the market as a scruffy, tatted, pit-loving adult film star. He...

Lots of stories to tell today, folks. Adam and Cole get together for a catch up after Cole’s exciting time in Chicago for the yearly Market Days summer festival. They then take turns telling some stories, including a fun birthday pool party that led to some mischief, on as well as offline, leading to a run in with an influencer who has joined the content creation world. This leads to Adam’s observation of Cole as a "sex witch," giving way to a very funny discussion about general game play in the queer social space. What is the difference betw...

We’ve got daddy fever again this week, and this time it’s because Adam and Cole are paid a visit by none other than one of the most prolific, hardworking, and evolved elders of the gay adult industry of our time, Mr Adam Russo! Adam tells stories of what it was like coming into his young gay adulthood in the 80s, during the rise and eventual height of the AIDS crisis, despite having rather supportive parents for the time. This led to a reserved sex life for a while, before he experienced his blossoming while moving across many locations in t...

Welcome back, listeners, and happy summer! Today, Adam and Cole are paid a visit in the studio by their dear friend, Brogan! The boys have a very fun chat about Brogan’s rise in the industry, starting as a young man in Minnesota undergoing a very unconventional bout with conversion therapy. Obviously, it didn’t work as intended, and Brogan found himself in New York meeting drag queens and becoming a sexy fixture of NYC nightlife as well as a formidable social media presence before delving into content creation of his own. At the beginning of the pandemic era, he pivo...

As promised, Adam and Cole are here to deliver a follow up to the previous episode, The Taboo Twirl, to speak a little more seriously and directly on some subjects, specifically after the news broke about charges brought last month against prominent gay adult film star, Austin Wolf. They address some concerns and comments brought forth by friends, fellow creators, and listeners of the podcast after the airing of Part One, namely the fact that much of the adult content we consume is foundationally rooted in “taboo.” What is it about these scenarios that is enticing to consumers? What blurs the...

Summer is underway folks, and Adam and Cole are feeling the heat in all kinds of ways. First off, the boys recap their first time shooting together for a studio scene in Palm Springs, where they got to flex their professional muscles together. Then Adam shares his summer bucket list of performers to shoot with, leading to a discussion about some of the ins and outs of creating adult content. Finally, the boys have an open-ended conversation about some recent trends in the world of gay adult films that skew on the taboo side of things. We’d like to ex...

Dear listeners, get your ears prepped because we’ve got Sir Peter calling in to talk to Adam and Cole, all the way from Madrid! He stayed up late just to hop on Zoom in his boxers and share with us his quick rise to gay adult star status. Growing up in Portugal, working for years as a flight attendant, and then landing eventually in Madrid, Sir Peter pitched himself to Tim Kruger of TimTales, convincing him that he had the goods to stand alongside the industry great. But as soon as his first scene released, the pandemic hit and he...

Happy pride month, folks! This time our guest is an exciting combination of many things, for example, a native Californian visiting all the way from Berlin! Adam and Cole welcome tatted muscle stud Troy Daniels to the studio, who shares his lengthy path to current status as a queer adult icon. Troy came out at 14 in 1990s Los Angeles, moved to San Francisco where he dabbled in studio work as well as in drag before relocating to Berlin. The boys ask questions about his journey, his very specific style of performance, and how he chooses collaborators in order to capture...

We are gearing up for pride season, and Cole and Adam get together in this catch-up episode to banter about the many goings on in their lives currently, as well as recent and upcoming happenings, in just the adorable way they always do. Cole discusses recent shoots in Florida, Adam talks about the ethics of canceling shoots, and the boys bashfully bring up their first-ever upcoming one-on-one scene! Also, Adam shares some fantasies he’d like to fulfill with a recent beau, as well as some outdoor fun he had during a camping trip, despite some hardships due to a re...

We know sequels can be hard, but with a guest like the Dick Doctor, we are pretty sure we pulled it off. You may remember last season, when urologist, sexual health specialist, and purveyor of the Popstar sexual health supplement, Dr Joshua Gonzalez joined us to discuss all things in regards to penile health. This time he returns to talk about another one of his specialties - male hormonal optimization! The science of testosterone replacement therapy has become way more popular in recent years among discussions of health and wellness for men, but there are a host of details and...

Brace yourselves, folks, we are back in daddy territory. This time, Adam and Cole are paid a visit by the very sexy Christian Wilde, and this conversation goes deep into all of our sexual psyches on multiple levels! First, we get to know Christian a bit, as he details his sexual identity journey (and why he refuses these days to commit to labels) as well as how he got to be the adult industry powerhouse he is today. Then as the boys ask questions about his shift into the director's chair at Kink.com, we get some philosophical takes on...

And here we are bringing you some more behind the scenes stories, folks, sorry in advance! This time, Adam and Cole are paid a visit by long-time adult film director Jasun Mark, who is responsible for bringing you some of the hottest gay scenes over the last nearly two decades. You may know his work best from his many years as the lead director of the studio giant Titan Men, but he’s also brought to the world scenes from Fratmen back in the day, to more recent studios like Hot House, Nasty Daddy, Say Uncle, and Trailer Trash Boys. Ja...

Welcome back, folks - just the boys this time. In this episode, Adam and Cole catch up about some recent travels, shoots, and play dates, including Adam’s first time ever hooking up via the Sniffies website, prompting an important discussion relevant to the queer experience… are we hookup people? Do we like the anonymous situation, or prefer vibing someone out first? The boys also get into it in response to a listener’s question - what is a day in the life of an adult content creator like? What’s a studio shoot like? Adam and Cole each share what a s...

We are super excited about this one, folks, sorry in advance. Adam and Cole welcome gay adult superstar, Sharok, this time, who shares very openly about the journey that has led him to the upper stratosphere of the world of gay adult content. Growing up in an Iranian American household on the west side of Los Angeles, Sharok started out with an escort agency in and around West Hollywood at the age of 18, only slightly dabbling in the world of adult films, took a break to explore his love of animals and birds, and then jumped back into filming as...

Our first guest of the new season is here! We give you Rocky Unleashed - fairly new to the adult film industry, Rocky has rocketed into the stratosphere in a matter of nine months, and shares with us his very thoughtful approach to the art of adult content. Having grown up near the Bay Area of California a theater kid who grew into a busy guy in the worlds of teaching yoga and making his own music after moving to San Francisco, Rocky discovered that he was called to channel sexual expression as an artistic contribution to share with the...

The wait is over! We are back, beautiful listeners, and we have got quite a season in store, sorry in advance! In this episode, Adam and Cole catch up about the trouble they got into over the holidays, including the sexy men they’ve been making content with lately and the events that have been keeping them busy off-camera. We also get some stories about Cole’s experience at the recent GayVN Awards, where he took the stage to accept his win for Fan Favorite Cam Guy. Adam also tells us about some visits to our favorite dick doctor, Popstar co-f...