Girls Gone Deep
Two sex-positive ladies in the ethically non-monogamous lifestyle chatting about how we use dating and sex as a space for personal development and growth, and creating the most joyous life possible. A podcast for the open-minded, curious and naughty. @girlsgonedeeppod www.girlsgonedeep.com
164: Would You Rather Kink Edition: Fantasies, BDSM, Sex Toys & What Really Turns Us On feat. Tash Doherty
This week, Elle and Vee chat with Tash Doherty about all the random sexy, kinky things that come up during a game of WHOREible Life (think: never have I ever, but unhinged). Playing Would You Rather with WHOREible Life cards opens the door to a wildly honest, funny, and surprisingly deep conversation about fantasies, exhibitionism, impact play, submission, and the psychology behind what turns us on. From sex toys to self-awareness to craving attention in all the right (and wrong) ways, nothing is off-limits.Â
Would You Rather: be a webcam girl or have a celebrity hookup?
163: Confessions of a Porn Star: Robococks, On-Set Secrets & the Truth About the Adult Industry with Jade Greene
This week, Jade Greene shares her unconventional journey from beauty queen and professional cheerleader to erotica author and porn performer. Jade pulls back the curtain on what really happens behind the scenes of porn, from consent talks and filming mishaps to the hilarious realities of sex on camera. Between laugh-out-loud stories and honest truth bombs, this episode is a playful, unfiltered peek into sex, creativity, and living boldly.Â
Chapter
Beauty Pageants To Pole Dancing To Accountant To Porn Star (00:00)
Writing Erotica, her book series Disorderly Conduct (09:28)
What A P...
162: Blow Jobs, Baby! Make It Your Sexual Superpower & Feel More Confident Giving and Receiving: Talk Sex With Annette x GGD
This week Elle and Vee join Annette Benedetti of the Talk Sex with Annette podcast for a crossover episode all about blowjobs. The girls share their top tips for giving incredible oral, from rhythm and enthusiasm to reading a partner’s reactions, and the surprisingly important etiquette of being on the receiving end. They get into the little things that make oral sex unforgettable, and the habits that can quietly ruin the vibe.Â
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Goals for the Episode: Skills and Confidence
06:19
Confidence Through Experience and Enthusiasm
08:32
Showing Enthusiasm: No Performance Needed
161: Turned On by Watching: Cuckolding, Hot Wifing, and Tips for Bulls, Stags & Vixens
This week Elle and Vee chat with JJ of Sexie Show podcast about all things cuckolding. From the thrill of watching, to the juicy tension of jealousy, ego, and control, the girls ask the questions on everyone's minds: why do it? What does a cuck get out of it? They get into the real difference between cuckolding and hot wifing, why so many couples are secretly curious, and how this “taboo” dynamic can actually unlock deeper trust, better communication, and unexpected emotional intimacy. JJ shares personal stories, practical tips, and the messy, vulnerable truth behind navigating power, desire, and afte...
160: Sexie Show x GGD: Sex Games, Hot Takes, Soaking, and Turn-Ons
This is a crossover episode in which Elle and Vee join Sexie Show host JJ as guests for a completely chaotic conversation packed with sex games, hot takes, and the kinds of questions that expose how well (or how poorly) you actually know your co-host.
They cover everything from memorable moments from the playful dynamics of their friendship, GGD and sexual memories, breast milk play, golden showers, and soaking (yes, like the Mormons do). The conversation is filled with laughter, insights, and a candid look at their lives in the sex-positive community.Â
How Elle and V...
159: No More Bullsh*t: Radical Honesty, Emotional Affairs & Modern Marriage feat. JC Wilde
This week Elle and Vee have a deep, free-flowing and wide-ranging chat with JC Wilde, writer and director of the film Wild Fire. They speak about emotional affairs and the radical honesty that nearly burned her marriage down, and then what happens when you stop performing “perfect partner” and start saying the thing that scares you most. Inspired by real-life truth-or-dare confessions, Wild Fire sparks a raw conversation about open relationships, people-pleasing, projection, and the freedom of a no-more-bullsh*t kind of love.Â
This is a conversation that will stick with you long after it's finished, from how y...
158: “Fuck First”, “Eat Pussy”, and “Sex Ends When You’re Satisfied”: Hot Group Sex & Unicorn Etiquette feat. Alexa Andre
This week, Elle and Vee play Whoreible Life with sexologist, relationship coach, and host of In Bed with Alexa podcast, Alexa Andre. As usual, a few cards turn into larger conversations about being a unicorn, OnlyFans, orgies, the best kind of dildo, latex fantasies, receiving pleasure, and why couple privilege can make or break group sex. Messy, honest, hilarious, and very on-brand.
What is Whoreible Life?
Whoreible Life is a sex-positive card game designed to spark honest, funny, and sometimes unhinged conversations about sex and kink. Each card presents a...
157: 365 Days of Orgasms: Clitoral, G-Spot, A-Spot, Blended & the Power of Daily Pleasure feat. Annette Benedetti
This week Elle and Vee chat with Annette Benedetti, badass sex educator, pleasure expert, and host of Talk Sex with Annette, known for her no-bullshit approach to sex, orgasms, and sexual health. They dive into her 365 Days of Pleasure experiment, daily masturbation, favorite sex toys, and why the intermittent setting actually exists on the Magic Wand (do people really use that?!). If you want the real talk on clitoral, G-spot, cervical, blended, rolling, A-spot, P-spot, and anal orgasms, don’t miss this conversation.
365 Days of Pleasure: taking the pressure off the orgasm and reframing pleasure from work to...
156: Going Deep with a Dominatrix: Pussy Power, Impact Play & Where Tantra Meets Kink feat. Mistress Chi
This week, Vee and Elle chat with Mistress Chi, a tantric dominatrix and erotic facilitator who blends sacred sexuality with BDSM and ritual. They explore discovering your inner switch, blending tantra and kink, and how power exchange can become a portal for emotional and erotic transformation. From impact play to pussy-led creativity, this episode is full of insights for anyone curious about kink, tantra, and embodiment.
Discover your inner switch: how Mistress Chi tapped in to both sides of herself. (00:00)
What is tantra? (06:30)
Why...
155: Hottest Sexual Fantasies, Intimacy & Narcissistic Partners: A Sex Coach Breaks It Down feat. Leandra Petroff
This Week, Elle and Vee chat with Leandra Petroff, Somatica-certified sexologist and sex & intimacy coach, and pick her brain about everything from narcissism in relationships, the perspective of a switch, and building real intimacy in modern relationships. They break down what “somatic” actually means and how to radically deepen connection. From the psychology of dominance and submission to core desires, hottest sexual movies, and spotting narcissism in ENM and polyamory, this episode is packed with sex education and relationship insight.
Somatic Work vs. Talk Therapy: overcoming religious guilt to become a sex educator, and What...
154: Fisting 101: Techniques, Pro Tips, & Double Fisting Orgasms feat. Jamie Joy and Riley Ocean
Fisting isn’t about going hard — it’s about going slowly, intentionally, and deeply connected.
In this episode Elle and Vee sit down with Jamie Joy and Riley Ocean to take the shame, fear, and mystery out of fisting and talk about what actually makes it powerful, pleasurable, and safe. Together, they explore anal and vaginal prep, communication, pacing, and aftercare, breaking down what it really takes to explore deep penetration — emotionally, mentally, and physically.
Fisting: first fisting experiences and why we love it! (00:41)
Leaving something to look forward to: anal, DP...
153: You Asked, We Answered: How to Find a Third, First Girl-on-Girl Experiences, 24-Person Orgies, & What Makes Our ENM Partnerships Work?
In this episode, Vee and Elle answer listener questions from the @girlsgonedeeppod instagram.Â
Chapters
How Do You Find a Unicorn or a 3rd? (See Episode 81 for more tips) (00:00)
What Was Your First Girl on Girl Experience? Was It a Friend or Random?Â
What’s the Largest Orgy You’ve Been In? Defining Two Types of Orgies. (31:00)
Condoms in Mouths and Ureaplasma.(37:06)
What Do You Do To Make Your ENM Partnership Work? (43:45)
152: Naughty Snowball Replay! Prostate Play, Fisting Tips & Other Reasons We're Forever On The Naughty List
In this episode, Elle and Vee recap their Joy Family holiday party, aka the Naughty Snowball, at which LOTS of naughty fun was had! This is a revisit from January 2025, and still holds up as one of the naughtiest most exploratory parties they've been at together.Â
Themes/dressing for body confidence (especially after having a baby). (2:23)
Prostate play with Daddy: Elle gets a lesson in best practices for milking the prostate, and snowballing cum between five people. (5:22)
Rope 101: Vee uses her beginner rope tying skills on Elle! F...
151: When Pleasure Gets Weird (and Hot): Knife Play, Cervical Orgasms, Cock Warming & Pain/Pleasure Cycling
This week Elle and Vee discuss all the ways they've been exploring pleasure recently: including BDSM scenes with vibrators, flogging and five orgasms, achieving sub space, mushroom-fueled connection, cervical orgasms while pregnant, knife play, cock warming, and that very specific moment when you yawn on a dick and keep going anyway.Â
Halloween Night BDSM Scene Gone Wrong: Vee and Mister A are stranded in a spooky AirBnB. (1:37)
Pain/Pleasure Cycling: Vee has five orgasms during a BDSM scene with Mister A. (4:32)
Sub Space: Vee f...
150: Guys Gone Deep: Sex Party Wisdom, Sobriety & Being a Dad in the ENM Party Scene with Magnum of Naughty Disco
In this Guys Gone Deep episode, Elle and Vee chat with Magnum of Naughty Disco to talk about being a parent in the lifestyle, navigating non-monogamy, and finding genuine community in sex-positive spaces. This convo meanders from the vibe of Naughty Disco, to the truth about sex party etiquette, how to approach people without being creepy to handling rejection with maturity, and what men and women really need to know about each other in the lifestyle.
Getting into non-monogamy: divorce, Feeld, and sex parties. (1:30)
Naughty Disco! "NYC's sexiest curated dance party." (9:15)
<...149: Shamelessly Sexy: Unattached Sex, Feeder Porn & Why Writing About Sex Makes You Better in Bed: Inside The Intimacy Journal with Tash Doherty
This week, Vee and Elle sit down with Tash Doherty — a British-Irish-American writer, creator of Misseducated (the blog and podcast helping the world become shamelessly sexy), and author of These Perfectly Careless Things, her spicy coming-of-age debut novel. She is a bold, candid, and deeply reflective sexuality writer who holds nothing back. We discuss Tash’s latest project, The Intimacy Journal, which invites readers into deeper erotic self-reflection through writing.
They also wander into taboo territory like:
vibrators in one-night standsthe shame around “needing” toysfatp...148: Kinky Christmas Gift Guide: Our Favorite Toys on our Wishlist This HO-liday Season!
Have you been naughty or nice? Either way, Vee and Elle are serving up the ultimate sexy gift guide to help you heat up your season.
We’re sharing the toys, experiences, and books we actually love… and several come with special discount codes just for GGD listeners. Happy HOlidays, naughty snowballs!
Vee is bedridden from a sex injury, and Elle has pelvic girdle pain.Â
Our fave toys - why are we doing this? (Answer: because we helpful, good girls :) (5:55)
Best Coupl...
147: Our Most Unhinged Confessions: Rim Jobs, The Butt Plug Debate, Sex in Public & More feat. WHOREible Life Card Game
This week, Elle and Vee play time Fuck-Marry-Kill version of the card game WHOREible Life with Athena. This episode is pure chaotic pleasure — the kind where nostalgia, food, kink, and butt-stuff all swirl into one ridiculous open conversation. We go from childhood games to double-ended vegetables, from grooming disasters to pegging wins, from lingerie-in-public confessions to pee-play experimentation, from CNC fantasies to explicit photo close calls. Strap in (or strap on)… this one gets naughty.
What is Whoreible Life? Playing the Fuck, Marry, Kill version. (00:00)
Fuck, Marry, Kill: Rim Job...
146: Anal Prep & Training: The Exact Cleansing Routine for Better Comfort, Pleasure & Confidence
This week, it’s Guys Gone Deep! Elle and Vee are joined by Ricky — their resident anal expert — for an honest, hilarious, and educational chat about what it really takes to feel comfortable exploring the backdoor.
From understanding how to prepare your body, to learning the right tools, techniques, and hygiene tips, this episode dives into the practical side of exploration — and the mindset that makes it enjoyable. We cover topics like body awareness, relaxation, communication, common myths, and how to let go of shame or stereotypes around who “should” or “shouldn’t” enjoy this kind of play.
Whethe...
145: From a 25-Year Sexless Marriage to Sex Goddess: Breaking the Rut with Dr. Alisa Kriegel
What happens when a psychologist in a 25-year sexless marriage decides she’s done living without desire?
This week,Dr. Alisa Kriegel joins Elle and Vee to share her raw, transformative journey from disconnection to deep erotic empowerment — the story behind her upcoming memoir From Sexless Marriage to Sex Goddess.
We talk about:
How up to 40% of marriages are sexless — and why no one wants to admit itThe power of communication, curiosity, and skin-to-skin contact in rekindling intimacyThe truth about genital fit and why “one size fits all” is a mythThe healing that comes...144: Rough Oral Sex: Face Fucking Tips for Topping, Bottoming, and Keeping it Safe
This week Elle and Vee chat about rough oral play: aka face fucking.
What is face fucking? What is the difference between fellatio and erumatio? (00:34)
Do you like rough oral sex? How our relationship with it has evolved. (4:11)
Running mascara as marks. (11:04)
CNC. (12:24)
Roman showers: throat sex to the point of throwing up. (14:25)
Things to think about for the giver/top. (17:52)
Tricks and tips for the receiver...
143: Inside the Temple of Eden: All-Femme Play Parties and Sexuality Beyond the Male Gaze feat. Eden
This week, Vee and Elle chat with Eden, a tantra facilitator and intimacy coach, discussing the importance of creating safe spaces for women to explore their sexuality and intimacy without the male gaze. They talk what actually happens inside femme-only temples — no boys, no judgment, just sacred play, deep connection, and maybe a little glitter lube. They unpack queerness, non-monogamy, and the power of women’s spaces that feel safe and sexy. From overcoming mean-girl energy to feeling fully seen in our desires, this convo pulls back the curtain on tantra, sisterhood, and the kind of turn-on that heals.Â
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142: RDBSM: The Conversation Every Couple Needs to Have Before Their First Play Party, plus Collars, Limerence & Cum Boundaries
This week, Vee and Elle unpack everything couples should talk about before stepping into a shared play space—from emotional boundaries to desires, jealousy, and how to reconnect afterward, using a conversation framework they learned on an ISTA retreat. From collars and rituals to new relationship energy (NRE), aka limerence, and the messy middle between fantasy and reality—Vee goes deep on her experience. Whether you're new to the lifestyle, playing with a new partner, or redefining your relationship agreements, this episode is packed with real talk, practical tools, and deeply personal moments.
RDBSM (Relat...
141: Sex and Psychedelics: Can MDMA Ruin Sober Sex? Do Orgasms Release DMT? ...and More with Nicolle Double L
This week, Vee and Elle sit down with journalist and sexual freedom philosopher Nicolle Double L to explore the intersection of BDSM, psychedelics, and sexuality as tools for self-discovery and healing. The conversation dives into cervical orgasms, DMT release, altered states, and how sex can mirror a psychedelic journey, especially when paired with presence and aftercare. The discussion delves into the neurochemistry of orgasms, the therapeutic aspects of BDSM, and the significance of set and setting in both sexual and psychedelic experiences.
Chapters:Â
Introduction and Connection To W...
140: Cock Worship, Sexting, & Sexual Experiences We’d Pay For: Playing Esther Perel’s Game Where Should We Begin?
In this episode, Vee and Elle play only the NSFW cards from Esther Perel’s card game Where Should We Begin.
Where Should We Begin: Esther Perel’s card game.
“A text message you fantasize about recieving…”: domming your husband from afar, cock cages, and naughty sexts. (6:06)
“A sexual experience I’d pay for…” From sex workers in Amsterdam to strippers to dominatrixes. (10:30)
Somatica visualization/fantasy: Vee guides Elle to figure out what she would want in a fantasy situation. (14:56...
139: Vee’s ISTA Retreat Experience: Embodiment, Boundaries, and Letting Go
In this episode, Vee shares her transformational ISTA experience— what is ISTA like (International School of Temple Arts)? What can you expect going to an ISTA retreat? The ladies dive into how Vee FINALLY found the tools to get out of her head and into her body, how to communicate boundaries lovingly, and awakening eros AKA life force. Get ready to hear about emotional release, using tantric exercises to let go of an ex, and the conversation to have before hooking up with a new person.Â
What is ISTA? Deep dive into self. What drew Vee to go...
138: NRE or Just a Good Dom? Navigating New Relationship Energy and Dom/Sub Dynamics
In this meandering conversation, Elle and Vee blend kink, parenting, and intimacy into one candid, sex-positive chat. They dive into everything from pregnancy porn and the risks of recording intimate videos to the awkwardness of moms finding sexy photos. They explore sex-positive parenting, New Relationship Energy (NRE), and the intensity of Dominant/submissive dynamics—discussing what makes a good Dom, what subs and tops truly get out of play, and why negotiation is key.Â
Seasons of life: Have Vee and Elle switched places sexually?! (00:35)
Pregnancy gang bang video. (3:19)
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137: Golden Showers & Scat Play: How to Explore Toilet Kinks with Priestess Francesca
Disclaimer: This podcast is intended for informational and educational purposes only. The content shared here should not be taken as medical or mental health advice. Discussions may include topics related to sexual health and practices, but they are not a substitute for guidance from a qualified healthcare provider. Please consult with a licensed professional regarding any personal questions or concerns about your health, relationships, or sexual well-being, especially when it involves excrement.
You asked, we provided! After Priestess Francesca's first episode with us on taboo kinks, we got so many questions about the scat scene...
136: Threesomes with Best Friends, Changing Dynamics in an ENM Relationship, Naughty Sex Dreams and ISTA Tips
This week, the girls catch up on whats been going on for them, from threesomes to new partners. Vee reveals something big going on in her life: a change in her relationship dynamic, and how it seems to be affecting her ability to orgasm. Elle shares updates on how her pregnancy is affecting her dreams.Â
“Cumming and running”: Elle sets boundaries during play weekends. (00:47)
The orgasm happens in the brain: not being able to cum when you’re going through something stressful. Vee makes an announcement. (4:22)
Old...
135: Sex Mishaps: Anal Oopsies, Lost Tampons and Condoms, Blow Job Gag Reflexes, and Near-Arrests
This week, Elle, Vee and repeat guest Athena spill all the messy, hilarious, and downright disastrous sex stories you never hear about. From sneezing out cum and fishing out lost condoms to broken furniture, tampon mishaps, and anal surprises, nothing is off-limits. We share our own awkward moments along with wild tales from the community that prove sex fails are equal parts mortifying and funny. Because at the end of the day, sex is messy, bodies are human, and sometimes the best aftercare is just laughing it off.
Cum In Your Nose, Snorting and...
134: Unpacking Submission, “I Can’t Get Over My Ex”, and How To Push New Boundaries Healthily With Briana Cribeyer
In this episode, Vee and Elle chat with Briana Cribeyer, a sacred sexuality facilitator, guide, and founder of Sacred Sexuality Rising. They explore various relationship dynamics and the challenges that can arise while navigating an ENM (ethically non-monogamous) journey. Briana answers listener questions and shares tips and tools for handling difficult situations, balancing masculine and feminine energies, doing inner child work, and using thoughtful questions to open communication around how to successfully push a new boundary.Â
Intro: The Balance Of Masculine And Feminine Energy: Releasing The End Goal (00:00)
Practices Fo...
133: Girls Gone Shallow and Other Ice Breakers with JJ of The Sexie Show
This week, Elle and Vee chat with JJ of The Sexie Show podcast, and play Girls Gone Shallow, a sex-themed game testing how well they know each other. Play along with your partner, and we invite you to make the stakes interesting ;)
Battlestrip: what is it? (1:57)
What is the role of games in a sexy environment? Pushing our growth edges, getting silly and reducing anxiety. How can we carry the energy over from the icebreaker games to sexual scenes? (8:01)
Exxotica: porn convention. (17:10)
132: Bite Marks, Next Level Anal Play and Role Play vs Fantasy…What’s the Difference?
This week, Elle and Vee catch up on all their latest play, from Elle’s long weekend with lifestyle friends to the reason underlying Vee’s horniness, kinky date night takeaways and why some fantasies you don’t want to role play.
Ass play/vegetable play, caving, and Elle learns what a bussy is.
Fears, Desires, Boundaries with old friends; ebbing and flowing playing with others in your ENM partnership.
Craving touch: asking for what you want (spanking) but being ok if your dom isnt i...
131: So You Got Cheated On… Now What? Can You Rebuild Trust? With Britton & Carolee of Magical Story of Us
In this episode, Britton and Carolee Beckham crack open the raw truth of what it really takes to heal after infidelity. From betrayal to breakthrough, they share the messy, brave journey of rebuilding trust, rediscovering themselves, and confronting the emotional landmines of marriage, family, and faith. With vulnerability at the center, they unpack the weight of growing up Mormon, why they chose to leave, and how that choice became part of their transformation. This isn’t just about cheating—it’s about what happens when your entire belief system gets flipped, and you choose to fight for something deeper.
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130: “The Blowjob That Earned Me a Reward Fuck”, Visions During Orgasm & Core Desires That Get Us Off feat. Athena
This week, Elle and Vee catch up with Athena talking all things NSFW and soul-deep: blowjob glory, gift kink, doctor role play, surrender vs submission, orgasmic visuals and more.
Unexpected First-Time Hookup Sex And Taking Sexy Selfies (00:00)
Cock Worship Blowjob That Earned a Reward Fuck, Spit or Swallow & Taste of Cum (05:17)
10:05
Orgasming from Oral and Typical Â
11:26
Visuals and Sensations During Orgasms
18:33
Getting off from buying gifts fo...
129: Back to the Body: Elongated Pleasure and Erotic Personas with Pamela Madsen
This week, Elle and Vee chat with OG sexual wellness icon Pamela Madsen on all things erotic. From extended orgasmic states to the joy of adult play, and how cultivating your erotic persona can transform your sex life. Plus, hear about the Oprah-featured Lotus Lift Meditation and what men can do to truly empower the women in their lives. Pulling from so much experience, Pamela had some serious wisdom to share!
Climax isn’t the point: orgasmic states and elongated pleasure. (3:20)
Back to the Body Method vs Sexological Body Wor...
128: Beyond Bondage: Exploring Submission through Ropes with Rina Trevi
How can ropes and shibari be used in different ways? At play parties to understand a new partner quickly, as a mode for a transformational or transcendental experience, as a method for submission or dominance... In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Rina Trevi about her journey from dominatrix to tantrika and vulnerability coach, the spiritual side of shibari, and how rope play at parties can be a path to pleasure, presence, and a whole lot of surrender.
From dominatrix to tantrika: What pulled Rina into the world of tantra/ropes/embodiment? (2:36)
<...128: Our Pussies Are Wet (and Not in a Good Way)
It's hot. It's steamy and we need to cool off from the 100-degree chaos. In this mini break episode, we honor our bodies and busy lives, and remind you that sometimes the deepest thing you can do… is take a damn break.
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127: Gemini Bach Bash Gets Wild: Slut Olympics, Sweaty Sex, and Blow Job Train
Elle and Vee recap their weekend at a mansion airbnb with 45 of their friends, celebrating several birthdays and a bachelor bachelorette!
Gemini Bach Bash (00:00)
Theme nights (04:54)
Seal team slut olympics (06:32)
Intentions and elle’s announcement! (19:12)
Thursday Night Highlights (28:01)
Before Kiss Someone New, Do You Get Consent From Their Partner? (32:37)
Sensual Loving and Sweaty Sex  (35:02)
Cumming at Play Parties: Priority or...
126: Sounding, Soulgasms, and New Ways to Get Turned On feat. Olivia Dydyna
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Olivia Dydyna about her journey from being inorgasmic to fully awakened through sound, breath, and deep self-connection. The girls explore Soulgasm, light language, sounding for pleasure, and how to unlock turn-on even when trauma lives in the body. If you've ever wondered what it means to center yourself, speak your truth, and experience desire beyond outcome—this one’s for you.
Olivia’s Story: From inorgasmic to orgasmic. (2:10)
How do we achieve ultimate turn on? Mentally, physically, emotionally. (5:16)
Breath work t...