The Pet Parent Hotline | Pet Parent Advice & Support for Overwhelmed Pet Parents

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By: Amy Castro, MA, CSP

You thought a pet would be the perfect addition to your life. Instead, your bank account’s drained, your dog won’t stop barking, your cat’s peeing everywhere, and your house is such a disaster you can’t have friends over. You’ve shelled out for trainers and followed your vet’s advice, and you’re still up at 2 a.m. scrolling for answers and wondering how long you can keep trying to meet your pet’s needs while ignoring your own.Many pet podcasts dish out advice like you’ve got endless time, money, and a perfectly behaved golden retriever s...

Hiring a Dog Trainer? Don’t Make These Mistakes
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Are you at the end of your rope with your dog’s behavior, but not sure if it’s time to hire a professional dog trainer, or worried about picking the wrong one?

You’re not alone. The dog training world can feel like the Wild West. With no regulations, conflicting advice, and plenty of flashy websites, it’s hard to know who’s truly qualified to help. Choosing the wrong dog trainer can waste your money, make your dog’s behavior worse, and damage the trust between you and your pet.

That’s why in this...


Bringing Home a New Cat? Build Trust Fast With the CATS Method
08/24/2025

That friendly, purring shelter cat you fell in love with can sometimes turn into a ghost or even a hissy ball of nerves the moment you get them home. It’s not rejection. It’s survival mode. And how you handle those first few days sets the tone for your entire relationship. Even if you don't have a cat, many aspects of these steps toward acclimating a new pet to your home would apply to dogs, birds, and other species of pets to reduce stress and make their transition easier on them. 

In this episode, I sha...


How I Keep My Home Fresh and Fur-Free… Even With 8 Pets
08/17/2025

Do you feel like no matter how much you clean, your home still smells like pets and looks like a fur factory? You’re not alone!

In this episode, I’m joined by Tracy Fosterling, pet foster mom and social media favorite, to break down simple, realistic cleaning habits that actually work when you live with pets. Forget the overwhelming deep-clean weekends and the guilt over what your home “should” look like—we’re getting practical.

BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL DISCOVER:
• How to stop pet odors before they star...


6 Hacks to Save Money on Pet Food Without Guilt
08/10/2025

Are you tired of feeling like you need a second job just to buy pet food? 

You're not alone. Prices keep climbing, and if you’ve ever stood in the pet food aisle at the pet store doing mental math and wondering what bill to skip this week, this episode is for you.

I’m breaking down six smart, realistic ways to save money on pet food without cutting corners on quality. These are the exact strategies I’ve used with my own pets, my foster pets, and shared with adopters who want to feed...


Dreading the Vet Bill? 5 Ways to Afford It Without Stress
08/10/2025

Does a single vet visit feel like it could wipe out your bank account?

You're not alone and you're not doing anything wrong. Too many pet parents walk into the clinic hoping for a quick checkup and walk out hundreds of dollars poorer, without knowing how it happened or how to avoid it next time.

In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on the real cost of veterinary care and giving you a smarter way to plan ahead, so you’re not caught off guard, financially drained, or forced to choose betw...


Do Pets Really Need Year‑Round Flea, Tick & Heartworm Meds?
08/10/2025

You’re staring at another $200 vet bill and wondering if skipping a month of flea, tick, or heartworm meds will really matter.

Your dog barely goes outside. Your cat’s never seen a flea. And those preventatives are not cheap.

But what if that one skipped dose turns into a $3,000 emergency—or worse?

In this episode, I’m joined by veterinarian Dr. Linda Atkins to cut through the fear, guilt, and confusing pet care advice about parasite prevention. We’re talking flea meds, tick risks, heartworm horror stories, and how to protect your...


Benadryl, Tylenol, Pepto: What’s Safe for Your Pet?
08/10/2025

When your dog’s limping or your cat won’t stop scratching, it’s tempting to reach into your medicine cabinet, but should you?

In this episode, I’m joined by returning guest Dr. Zoo, my vet and the veterinarian for Starlight Outreach and Rescue, to tackle one of the most Googled questions in pet parenting: “Can I give my pet human over-the-counter meds?”

We’re breaking down what’s safe, what’s dangerous, and what might help when the vet is closed and your pet needs relief now.

BY THE TIME YOU FINIS...


Are You Rewarding Your Dog’s Bad Behavior Without Realizing It?
08/10/2025

Feel like the more you try to fix your dog’s behavior, the worse it gets?

If you’re dealing with barking, leash pulling, jumping, or flat-out ignoring commands, the problem might not be your dog: it might be what you’re accidentally reinforcing without realizing it.

In this episode, I’m joined by professional dog trainer and behavior consultant Bradley Phifer, CBCC-KA, CPDT-KSA, Executive Director, CCPDT to unpack the everyday mistakes that teach dogs to keep misbehaving, even when you're trying your best to stop it.

BY THE TIME...


Before You Say Yes: 4 Gut Checks for Adding Another Pet
08/10/2025

Thinking about adding another pet to your family? Before you give in to those puppy-dog eyes or kitten purrs, hit pause. Because while one more pet can be wonderful, it can also turn your home upside down if the timing or reason isn’t right.

In this episode, I’m sharing 4 essential gut checks to help you decide if it’s truly the right time to expand your pack. After adopting out pets to thousands of families and taking in hundreds of owner surrenders, I’ll give you the honest questions no one else asks, but ever...


New Here? Start With Real Pet Parenting Solutions: The Pet Parent Hotline Trailer
08/10/2025

Think getting a pet would make life better? Instead, you’re staring at sky-high vet bills, a dog that won’t stop barking, a cat refusing the litter box, and endless late-night searches for solutions.

That’s why I created The Pet Parent Hotline, your lifeline for real pet parenting advice. This isn’t another fluffy pet podcast. Each week we tackle the problems that keep you up at night, like how to afford vet care, stop common behavior mistakes, save money on pet food, and keep your home clean and livable with pets.

If you’...


Why You're Still Doing All the Pet Care (and How to Get Your Family to Step Up)
06/29/2025

Ever feel like you're the only one who remembers to feed the dog, clean the litter box, or refill the water bowls? You’re not alone, and you don’t have to keep doing all the pet care yourself.

This bonus summer episode gives you a complete system to get your household to step up and share the pet care load, without nagging, yelling, or turning into the resentful pet parent you swore you’d never be.

BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL DISCOVER:

• The communication traps that keep...


Why the “No Kill” Movement Hurts More Than It Helps
04/27/2025

What if the no-kill movement isn’t saving animals but failing them?

It promised to end unnecessary euthanasia and revolutionize sheltering. But behind the glowing stats and feel-good slogans lies a much messier reality, one most people don’t want to talk about.

In this episode, I sit down with animal welfare expert Daniel Ettinger to expose the unintended consequences of chasing a 90 percent live release rate. From shelters closing their doors to avoid euthanasia to animals being warehoused for years, the system is cracking and those of us on the ground are feel...


When Rescue Breaks You: The Cost of Saying Yes Too Much
04/15/2025

When Saving Animals Almost Broke Me

What happens when the thing you love the most is the very thing that pushes you past your breaking point?

I found out in the middle of a hurricane—soaked, sobbing, and clinging to my barn while sick kittens cried in a barely secured shed. That was the moment I realized something had to change.

In this raw, unfiltered solo episode, I’m sharing the story I’ve kept quiet for too long. After fostering more than 4,000 animals, turning my property into a sanctu...


Heartworm Prevention Myths That Could Cost Your Pet’s Life
04/08/2025

Heartworm Truths Every Pet Owner Needs to Hear with Dr. Zoo

Think skipping heartworm prevention just this once is no big deal? It only takes one mosquito bite to change your pet’s life forever.

Heartworm disease is slow, painful, and completely preventable—yet pets still die from it every year. In this episode, Dr. Zoo shares two cases that prove why you can’t take the risk: a two-year-old German Shepherd in kidney failure after his owners stopped prevention, and a rescue terrier whose heart was so overrun with worms that euthanasia was th...


Turn Pet Hunger Into Hope for Families in Need
04/01/2025

What if feeding your pet meant you had to skip dinner yourself?

For thousands of families, that’s not a hypothetical—it’s a heartbreaking daily decision. And when the bills pile up, surrendering a beloved pet can feel like the only option left.

In this episode, I talk with Stacey LeBaron, founder of PAWSitive Pantry and host of The Community Cats Podcast, about how her team is tackling pet food insecurity and keeping pets in the homes where they’re loved. From distributing more than 140,000 pounds of food each year to partnering with she...


Still Feeling Guilty After Losing a Pet? Here’s Why
03/25/2025

Did I wait too long? Did I do the right thing? What if I failed them?
If you’ve lost a beloved pet, you’ve probably asked yourself these same painful questions. Grief is hard enough, but guilt can make healing feel impossible.
I’ve been there too. When I had to say goodbye to our 34-year-old rescue horse, Cherokee, I was overwhelmed with guilt, even with decades of rescue experience behind me. If you’ve ever struggled with that same inner dialogue, you’re not alone.
In this episode, I sit down with grief expe...


Are Hairballs Normal? What Most Cat Parents Get Wrong
03/18/2025

Think hairballs are just a normal part of life with cats? Think again.
If your cat is coughing up hairballs weekly or even monthly, it’s not just gross—it’s a red flag. Frequent hairballs can point to stress, food allergies, digestive issues, or even chronic illness.
In this episode, I talk with veterinarian Dr. Linda Atkins about what really causes hairballs, when to be concerned, and how to help your cat stay healthy from the inside out.

BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL DISCOVER:

Why healthy cats sho...


Make Your Pet Happier by Meeting Their Real Needs
03/11/2025

Is calling your pet your “fur baby” harmless fun or actually harmful to your pet’s well-being?
If you’ve ever wondered whether treating your pet like a child is helping or hurting them, you’re not alone. The truth is, humanizing pets isn’t the issue. Misunderstanding their needs is.
In this episode, I talk with veterinary psychiatrist Dr. Rachel Malamed about what it really means to build a healthy emotional bond with your pet. Together, we explore how to strike the right balance between love and leadership, and how to avoid unintentionally stressing your pet by...


Thinking About Getting a Dog? Listen to This First
03/04/2025

Thinking about getting a dog? Hold that thought.
Too many rescue dog adoptions fail because people fall for a face or a story without understanding what they’re signing up for. Choosing the wrong dog, whether it's a rescue dog or not, can lead to frustration, heartbreak, and sometimes surrender.


In this episode, I talk with Pete Campione about how to avoid the biggest mistakes people make when bringing a dog into their lives. Whether you’re adopting a rescue dog, fostering, or buying from a breeder, this conversation will help you make the...


Is Your Dog Getting Too Much Exercise or Not Enough?
02/25/2025

Is your dog getting the right amount of exercise, or are they overdoing it without you realizing?
Whether your pup is high-energy, low-key, or somewhere in between, knowing how to safely meet their physical needs is crucial to keeping them healthy and pain-free. But most pet parents don’t know when to push their dog or when to let them rest.

In this episode, I talk with Dr. Kelly Fishman, a veterinary sports medicine expert, about how to customize exercise for your dog’s breed, age, and lifestyle and how to spot the signs of o...


Want Goats? What You Need to Know Before You Regret It
02/18/2025

Thinking about getting goats? Don’t let Instagram fool you.
Goat ownership isn’t just cute photos and fresh milk. It’s daily work, specific care, and a long-term commitment that catches a lot of new owners off guard.
In this episode, I talk with goat expert and homesteader Deborah Niemann, host of the For the Love of Goats podcast,  who pulls back the curtain on what it really takes to raise goats the right way. From fencing to vet care to the emotional lives of goats, she covers it all with honesty and experience.


Pet Emergencies Happen Fast. Will You Know What to Do?
02/11/2025

Would you know how to save your pet if they started choking or collapsed from heatstroke?
Pet emergencies can happen in seconds, and knowing what to do could be the difference between life and death. Most pet parents aren’t prepared—and that’s exactly what this episode aims to change.
I’m joined by Arden Moore, a master-certified pet first aid and CPR instructor, award-winning author, and host of Oh Behave and Four-Legged Life. She shares the lifesaving skills every pet owner needs to know.

BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL D...


Traveling With Cats? Here’s How to Make It Stress-Free
02/04/2025

Worried your cat will freak out in the car? You’re not alone.
Whether you’re planning a move or just need to get your cat to the vet without a meltdown, cat travel can feel overwhelming. But with the right preparation, it doesn’t have to be.
In this episode, I talk with Certified Feline Training and Behavior Specialist LeeAnna Buis about how to reduce anxiety and set your cat up for success before, during, and after the ride.

BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL DISCOVER:

How to help...


From the Vault: Pet Vaccination 101: Expert Insights from Dr. Jeff Grognet
01/28/2025

Bonus Episode From the Vault: The #1 Most Downloaded Episode of 2024!
While we’re on a break until Feb 4, we’re bringing back one of your all-time favorite episodes from 2024!

In this episode, holistic veterinarian Dr. Jeff Grognet emphasizes the critical importance of understanding pet vaccinations, including core and non-core vaccines, potential risks of over-vaccination, and tailored vaccination schedules based on pet age and lifestyle. This episode empowers pet owners to have informed discussions with veterinarians and advocate effectively for their pets' health and well-being.


From the Vault: Solve the Five Biggest Dog Behavior Problems with Expert Trainer Ruth Hegarty
01/21/2025

Bonus Episode From the Vault: The #2 Most Downloaded Episode of 2024!
While we’re on a break until Feb 4, we’re bringing back one of your all-time favorite episodes of 2024 from the vault!

This episode focuses on addressing the top five dog behaviors that frustrate pet owners and providing actionable strategies to manage them effectively. Through insightful discussions with dog training expert Ruth Hegarty, listeners gain tools to:

Improve their dog’s leash manners using positive reinforcementReduce nuisance barking with effective management strategiesTrain reliab...


From the Vault: Save on Vet Bills! Expert Advice with Jonathan Wainberg
01/14/2025

Bonus Episode From the Vault: The #3 Most Downloaded Episode of 2024!
While we’re on a break until Feb 4, we’re bringing back one of your all-time favorite episodes of 2024 from the vault!

This episode dives into the financial options available for pet healthcare, providing actionable insights to help pet parents prepare for unexpected expenses. Join Amy and Jonathan Wainberg, Senior VP of Synchrony Financial Service’s Pet Business, as they discuss strategies like budgeting, CareCredit, and pet insurance, while emphasizing the importance of ope...


From the Vault: Responsible Rabbit Care Explained: with Marcy Berman, Save-a-Bunny Rescue
01/07/2025

Bonus Episode From the Vault: The #4 Most Downloaded Episode of 2024!
While we’re on a break until Feb 4, we’re bringing back one of our listeners' all-time favorite episodes of 2024 from the vault!

Understanding responsible rabbit care is essential for anyone considering adding a bunny to their family. Join Amy as she interviews Marcy Berman, founder of Save a Bunny Rabbit Rescue, to discuss the complexities of rabbit care, the importance of spaying and neutering, and the misconceptions surrounding bunny ownership.

You...


From the Vault: Dr. Marlene Siegel on Extending Your Pet’s Life
12/31/2024

Bonus Episode From the Vault: The #5 Most Downloaded Episode of 2024!
While we’re on a break until Feb 4, we’re bringing back one of your all-time favorite episodes of 2024 from the vault!

In this episode, Dr. Marlene Siegel joins us to explore how integrative veterinary care can transform your pet’s health and longevity. Forget masking symptoms—Dr. Siegel focuses on addressing root causes of disease and shares practical tips to help your pet thrive. From nutrition to detoxing and emotional care...


Farewell Starlight Pet Talk: Celebrating Our Journey and What's Next for 2025
12/24/2024

As we wrap up Starlight Pet Talk, we’re taking a moment to celebrate everything this podcast has meant over the past two years. This episode is all about gratitude, reflection, and a little bit of fun as we look back on the episodes that resonated most with you – our incredible listeners.

In this episode, we’re:
 • Reflecting on the core mission of Starlight Pet Talk – connecting with and educating pet parents with honesty and heart.
• Sharing memorable stories and moments that capture the ups and downs of pet owners...


Exciting Changes Ahead: A New Chapter for Our Pet Podcast
12/17/2024

Big news is in the air, pet lovers! This week’s episode is all about transformation, as we prepare to reveal a bold new direction for the podcast. Join me, Amy Castro, alongside guest host Bev Brooks, as we dive into the why, how, and what’s next for your favorite pet-loving show.

What’s changing? More than you might think! From the podcast name to the vibe and format, this evolution is designed to better reflect the messy, magical, and meaningful realities of life with pets. We’re talking about going beyond formulaic interviews to real, relatabl...


What’s Broken in Animal Rescue and How to Fix It
12/10/2024

Hey there!
In this episode, you’ll hear us refer to the show as Starlight Pet Talk—that’s what we called it before we decided to embrace the fur, mess, and mayhem. Don’t worry, you’re in the right place for Muddy Paws and Hairballs—same great content, just with a name that fits! - Amy

Join us for an inspiring and eye-opening conversation with Daio Floyd, a seasoned dog trainer and rescuer, as she shares her journey from competing in dog sports as a young enthusiast to founding and...


Ants as Pets? What You Need to Know Before Starting
12/03/2024

Think keeping ants as pets sounds strange? You might be surprised.
Ant keeping is one of the fastest-growing pet hobbies in the world, and it’s easy to see why. These tiny creatures are incredibly social, surprisingly low maintenance, and full of behaviors that will blow your mind.
In this episode, I talk with Zachary Liu, a myrmecologist from McGill University and founder of Canada Ant Colony. We explore what makes ants such fascinating animals and how to get started if you’re curious about adding a colony to your home.

BY THE...


Want to Improve Your Pet’s Diet? Start Here
11/26/2024

Not sure what’s actually healthy for your pet to eat? You’re not alone.
With so many confusing labels, trends, and conflicting advice, knowing what to feed your dog or cat can feel overwhelming.
In this episode, I’m joined by certified pet nutritionist and holistic health coach Elizabeth Casas, who breaks down how to create a balanced, healthier diet for your pets—without spending a fortune or falling for marketing hype.

BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL DISCOVER:

How to decode pet food labels and spot ingredient...


Stop Wasting Money on Bad Gifts for Pet Parents: Here’s What They’ll Love
11/19/2024

Looking for the perfect gift for the pet lover in your life?
Before you grab another generic toy or novelty mug, let’s talk about gifts that actually get used, appreciated, and remembered.
In this episode, I’m sharing the best holiday gift ideas for pet lovers—whether you’re shopping for a senior dog parent, a cat-obsessed coworker, or that friend who has everything. From personalized surprises to practical picks, you’ll find something for every budget and personality.

BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL DISCOVER:

Creative gift ideas t...


Thinking About Adopting a Rescue Dog? Listen to This First
11/12/2024

Love is important—but it’s not always enough.
If you’re thinking about adopting a rescue dog, especially one with a traumatic past or behavioral challenges, this episode will help you go in with eyes wide open.

I’m joined by canine behavior consultant Kate LaSala, who has worked with over 2,600 clients and knows what it really takes to help fearful or reactive rescue dogs thrive. Together, we talk about what rescue dogs need beyond love, like structure, patience, and clear expectations.

BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL DISCOVER:<...


Holiday Grooming Tips Every Pet Parent Needs to Know
11/05/2024

Holiday photos, family visits, colder weather—your pet’s grooming routine matters more than ever this season.
In this episode, I sit down with Julia Benning, Lead Grooming Advisor for Well Groomed Pets and a Fear-Free Certified Groomer, to talk about how grooming impacts not just your pet’s appearance but their overall health and comfort.
Whether you’re prepping for your pet’s first grooming appointment or managing a high-maintenance doodle coat, this episode is your go-to guide for stress-free holiday grooming.

BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL DISCOVER:

How to...


The Dog Park That’s Redefining Pet Community and Safety
10/29/2024

What if your local dog park wasn’t just a place to play—but a thriving community built for both pets and people?
In this episode, I talk with Ramy Saleh, CEO of Zoomies Dog Park, about how he’s reshaping the dog park experience from the ground up. From behavior assessments and vaccination requirements to play zones and social events, Zoomies is setting a new standard for safe, enriching spaces where dogs and humans connect.
Ramy shares his personal journey from Cairo to Houston and explains how his love for dogs inspired a bigger missio...


How Rescue Dog Wines Is Saving Lives One Bottle at a Time
10/22/2024

What if every bottle of wine you opened also helped save a rescue dog’s life?
In this episode, I talk with Blair Lott, co-founder of Rescue Dog Wines, about how he and his wife Laura turned their passion for wine into a mission-driven business that gives back to animal rescue efforts nationwide.
From a successful music career to a new life in Northern California’s wine country, Blair shares how they built a brand that blends quality winemaking with deep purpose—and how each bottle sold supports shelters and rescue groups across the U.S.

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Why ‘Don’t Train Your Dog’ Might Be the Best Advice Yet
10/15/2024

What if the way you’ve been taught to train your dog is creating more problems?
In this episode, I speak with Angie Winters, author of "Don't Train Your Dog," about why traditional training methods often fall short and what to do instead. Drawing from over 20 years of experience in dog rehabilitation and parenting, Angie shares how forming an emotional bond and setting clear expectations can lead to better behavior than fear or bribery ever could.

BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL DISCOVER:

Why understanding your dog’s emotional needs...


What It’s Really Like to Be an Animal Rescuer
10/08/2024

Ever wondered what it’s really like to dedicate your life to saving animals?
In this special episode, I’m the guest on The Story of My Pet podcast, hosted by Julie Marty-Pearson. I share my journey from a childhood encounter with a feral cat named Snippy to founding Starlight Outreach and Rescue and committing my life to animal rescue.
This conversation offers a raw, honest look at the emotional weight, daily chaos, and deep joy that come with being an animal rescuer.

BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL DISCOVER:

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