Masocast

A conversation with filmmaker Hilton Ariel Ruiz about his documentary series on erotic art, highlighting its evolution over the past 20 years. We discuss his first documentary, “Art of Erotica: The Outsider,” his collaboration with artist Barbara Nitke, the shift from male to female creators, the impact of digital technology, and the changes in societal attitudes towards eroticism. Hilton shares insights on his upcoming sequel, emphasizing how contemporary artists, influenced by platforms like OnlyFans, express themselves with greater freedom and openness.

Where to watch and follow Hilton:
Watch “Art of Erotica: The Outsiders”:

A conversation with Mistress Sato takes us on their personal journey through the world of kink and BDSM. From doodling erotic art as a child to exploring the early internet, Sato shares how they developed their dominant personality long before understanding what BDSM even was. We dig into Purgatory, the revolutionary collective Sato co-founded with Mistress Kiki, created specifically to uplift BIPOC, queer, and trans people. Rather than following the traditional dungeon model, Purgatory operates as a supportive community where members share skills, resources, and political values. We dig into consensual non-consent to the economics of male dominants in...

A chat with Foxie Lou about their early experiences with kink, the appeal of degradation from both the top and bottom, primal play and letting go safely, the fun part of adding to your kinky toolbox, clowns, mannequins, face flogging, positive and negative changes in the bdsm community pre and post pandemic, being a kinky coach to help people discover and accept areas of themselves, the difference between coaching and therapy, expressing ones desires and a whole lot more.

Learn more about their coaching at foxieloucoaching.com and find them on IG at https://www.instagram.com...

A conversaton with SheMagick about SheMagickEvents, how she went from erotica to her first munch to making her own kink space, the wrong way to approach a dominant if you’re interested, her ideal service scene, d/s and lots more.

Find SheMagickEvents on fetlife here
IG here
Sign up for the mailing list here and if you’d like to be vetted for events fill out this handy form

A chat with Emilie P Bush author of Fables in the Key of Kink: An Inappropriate Picture Book. We talk about her experience in non-monogamy, the kink community, her experience as a parent of an LGBTQIA+ child while living in a traditionally conservative part of the world, the organization she started to support families like hers (LILBURNPride.com) and of course her book Fables in the Key of Kink, her life experiences behind the book and more. You can buy book now here

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A chat with Goddess Ashley about growing up and discovering kink in singapore, what it’s like exploring for the first time as a sub and her evolution into domination. Kinks from around the world and what it’s like when she’s on tour.

Learn more on her website Singapore-BDSM.com
Twitter http://www.twitter.com/_GoddessAshley
and IG http://www.instagram.com/bygoddessashley

Our first conversation was in 2009 so we have a lot of catching up to do. We talk about the changes in the NYC scene pre and post pandemic, inclusive spaces, dealing with health issues, submissive men and so much more.

Find Coko on Fetlife here

TES (She’s back on the board of TES since this recording can be found here )

SheMagick Events here

A great conversation with Madam Director where we talk about her process of making kink videos, what she looks for in play parnters depending on her mood, trends in the NYC kink scene post pandemic and so much more.

Find her at madamdirector.net

Her amazing and insightful blog at madamdirectorlola.wordpress.com

Her kink videos available at www.clips4sale.com/studio/129395/madam-director

Membership Streaming: www.manyvids.com/Profile/1001983878/Madam_Director/Store/Videos

Live weekly shows every Friday at 4 pm EST: onlyfans.com/that_lola

Wishlist...

Peaches jumps on the show (been way too long since a fellow submissive guy was on the show) to talk about how he got his nickname, spaking and impact play, humiliation, chastity and a lot more.

Find peaches online at
https://www.clips4sale.com/studio/188875/simply-discipline
https://fetlife.com/users/172906
https://twitter.com/Peaches1NYC

Mistress Kayla and Sorceress Bebe jump on the podcast to talk about their early kink experiences, the kink scene in California, walking the fine line of having a personal sub to something more romantic, their experiences during covid and their new female run multipurpose kink space Venus In Bells.

Find Kayla at Mistresskaylabdsm.com
Bebe at SorceressBebe.com
and learn more about Venus in Bells at Twitter.com/venusinbells

If you or someone you know would like to jump on for a conversation on the podcast drop me an email masocasot@gmail.com

In this episode a conversation with a service-oriented sub who decided to dive into exploring decades into his marriage. We talk about therapy, seeking a pro domme, communication and the nature of service-oriented submission and how it look for him.

The conversation continues

Part 1 of a conversation with Bruce and Shermie, two people who have been in the kink community in NYC for decades.   They talk about how they met in the scene, the changes they’ve seen over the years, how the internet changed things and more

Stephen Elliott is back and we talk about covid, motivations for working out and getting in shape for kink reasons, poly relationships, lessons learned from getting older, being objectified and more

Ferns (who currently ranks among the top ten of all australians to appear on the podcast) is back to talk about her experiences during the pandemic, why saying “just communicate” is silly, dating kinky, her popular femdom group on fetlife, her writing, patreon, pushing limiits, fear of femdom fantasies and more.

Support Ferns and get early audiobook chapters here https://www.patreon.com/DommeChronicles and of course read and listen to Ferns here https://www.domme-chronicles.com

This episode was recorded several months ago after Miss Mae Ling reached out to volunteer for an interview. We talk about working during covid, Vegas, exploring new kinks, how she first discovered her interests, the process of recording kink videos and 3D printing sex art. Find her online at missmaeling.com and buy a dildo dino at playmaterials.net

A casual chat with Mistress Veronica where we cover Covid, her porn preferences, why she’d make a good porn director, the kink scene after covid, music videos that influenced our kinky selves and more

Ha, made you look! Mistress Alex now goes by Dr. Dulcinea Alex Pitagora aka Kink Doctor. As you may have heard on the grapevine, Alex retired from professional domination to become a psychotherapist and sex therapist, and they now have a private practice in NYC.

We talk dealing with COVID, the process of changing careers and a lot more

Ferns is back for another triumphant episode. She talks about vanilla dating, how she can get 80% of what she wants from a vanilla man (and what that 20% is), how she brings the subject of her popular blog and podcast (or doesn’t bring it up), her writing and a whole lot more.
Find Ferns on twitter at https://twitter.com/ferns__

Her blog https://www.domme-chronicles.com/

Find her books here

And her podcast https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/domme-chronicles/id1028948882

Megan McCord and Elena De Luca are on to talk about hiring male sex workers, becoming kinky, twitter questions and a lot more

A conversation with Princess Marx on her origin story, anti-capitalism, sexworkers rights and a whole lot more.

Find her at https://princessmarx.ch and on twitter @princessmarxxx

Kali is back and we catch up after years to discuss what she’s been up to, her latest projects, many areas of kink education and of course her work on erotic humiliation. Find her at http://www.enoughtomakeyoublush.com/ and on twitter @@ThePrincessKali

A conversation with Justine Cross where we talk about her persona history, how she got into kink personally and professionally, parties, FOSTA-SESTA and a whole lot more.

You can find her website at losangelesdominatrix.com

Twitter @Justineplays
IG: @thejustinecross

A conversation with Papa Tony about being in the military, his expereince in the gay leather community before and during the AIDS crisis, building community and more

You can find his amazing writing http://tribalvibept.blogspot.com/

It’s been a long long time but the podcast is back.

I recorded a few interviews over the summer and the first person I talked to was one of the first people I had on the show. Sinclair from sugarbutch.net. We catch up and have a casual conversation about D/s, writing, the sex blogging world and more.

Orion Stephanie Johnstone jumps on to talk about KinkedIn, a new social platform for the kinky.  We talk about their early explorations in kink, how the inspiration for a new social site came to be and a whole lot more.

Find out more at

TryKinkedIn.com

Sexandrelationshipscoaching.com

Orionjohnstone.com

Sheefchah emailed me over a year ago and volunteered to come on the show to talk about Gor, how it has helped her grow, how she incorporates it in religion, the Gor community in Chicago and a lot more.
You can find her on fetlife at here

You can find the event details for the next Chicago Gorean Gathering here

A conversation with Hilton from Purple Passion, one of the longest running kink stores in NYC.  We talk about the history of the kink scene in New York and how it’s changed over the years, how he got started selling fetish wear and sex toys, what   the difference is between a good and bad quality sex toy and a lot more.

Find out more at purplepassion.com

It’s been a long time but we’re back for a conversation with Maid Rosie. We talk about crossdressing, maids, coming out to a partner, play parties, acts of service and a lot more.

Kali is back to talk about her new book Enough To Make You Blush about Erotic Humiliation, what it is about humiliation that gets people off, how to explore it safely and things both dominants and submissives should consider when exploring it.

You can find her book on Amazon here and you can find Kali on Twitter @Princess_Kali

We’ve had Lolita on the show, we’ve had Nayland on the show, but now we’ve got two for the price of one.

They talk about their relationship, how they started it, the rules they put in place to keep communication open, how they rally for one another and their partners.

Troy Orleans returns to talk about taking a break, her brand new space, bondage and a whole lot more.

You can find Troy at troyorleans.com

This episode it’s Sermie and Leatherwings. It’s always great to have such good friends on the show together, they feed and riff off each other in a way that makes you want to just sit back and let them roll.

We talk about their friendship, how each of them found BDSM. Shermie talks about how he negotiates before playing, Leatherwings talks about being blind in the scene.  We talk about switching,  how events can better cater to the disabled and a ton more.

You can find Shermie on fetlife here and Leather...

Jeff Mach jumps on the show to talk about planning kink events. Geeky Kink thegeekykinkevent.com is a hugely successful kink event that’s really taken off.

We discuss the brilliant idea of combining a sex event and things that are nerdy, why there are so many of us who would identify as geeks in the kink community, his early experience with events, the secret to a good event and a whole lot more.

You can also read his book on submission, Give, for free here.

Casey Calvert jumps on the show to talk about her start in kink, BDSM porn, her new documentary about the best porn stars of all time and much more.

Find her on her website caseycalvert.com and on twitter @caseycalvertxxx.

Sinclair Sexmith returns and we’re talking about inspriation for writing, becoming a better sex citizen, Sinclair’s tatoo, our love for New York Toy Collective, Submissive Playground and more.

You can find Sinclair at MrSexmith.com, blogging at SugarButch.net and SubmissivePlayground.com

dizzydemonette and Melody jump on to talk about Hypnosis and how they use it in kink.  How they got started, creative uses for hypnosis in pet play, types of fear play, pain how not to get hung up on things that don’t work, using their imagination to expore and a whole bunch more.

Cunning Minx jumps on the show to talk polyamory, her podcast Polyamory Weekly, her genesis in kink, jealousy, drama, having a user manual and her new book.

You can find her and her podcast online at Polyweekly.com

A conversation with Mistress Saskia of Denver about supporting a community, how her family feels about her career, the Denver scene, what it’s like to be accused of being something you’re not, community service,  how things like Fetlife change a community for good and for bad, politics, how legal marijuana changes things and a whole lot more.

You can find her on her website at http://www.mistresssaskia.com

It’s a mini episode of the podcast.
Sade and I talk about TesFest coming up 4th of July weekend in NJ and we’ll be there, Sade will be giving a talk about how to wear..really wear a strap-on and we go over some listener reviews.