The Mindset Diet
If you want to start losing weight, you need a new diet. The Mindset Diet. In this show, host Iman Whyte, a personal trainer, nutrition coach, and the founder of Built by Balance Fitness teaches you tips, tricks, and tools to fix your mindset and set yourself up for success on your weight loss journey.Â
How to Get Toned
Most women are chasing “tone” with the wrong plan. In this episode, I break down what toned actually means, the workouts and diet habits that are wasting your time, and the clear path to visible muscle definition you can sustain.
Episode highlights
Defining “tone” and common myths that keep women stuckThe hidden cost of chronic dieting and constant cardioWhy protein, calories, and recovery are non-negotiable for a toned lookThe workouts that suck for toning and the ones that actually build shape👉 Apply for Coaching Here
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The Balance Phase - How to Keep the Weight Off Forever
Most women don’t struggle to lose weight. They struggle to keep it off. In this episode of The Mindset Diet, I break down the Balance phase of my 3-phase method (Build → Burn → Balance) so you can maintain your results within 3–5 lbs without living on a diet. You’ll learn how to transition off tracking, navigate events and vacations, and build the identity and habits that make maintenance feel normal.
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The Burn Phase — How to Lose Fat Without Feeling Like You’re on a Diet
Most women think fat loss means cutting out carbs, skipping meals, or eating 1,200 calories a day. Those approaches don’t work long-term — they leave you hungry, frustrated, and stuck in the same cycle of losing and regaining weight.
In this episode of The Mindset Diet, I’m breaking down how to set up a Burn Phase the right way — a structured fat loss phase that actually gets results without feeling miserable or restricted. You’ll learn step by step how to eat in a way that supports your metabolism, preserves muscle, and still leaves room for flexib...
How to Set Up Your Body for Sustainable Fat Loss
If you have lost weight and gained it back, it is not a willpower problem. It is a setup problem. In this episode, I explain Phase 1 of our program, the Build phase, and why skipping it makes results short-lived. You will learn how to prime your metabolism, dial in habits, and know exactly when you are ready to enter a fat loss phase with confidence.
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Why Stress, Trauma, and Energy Work Might Be the Missing Link in Your Fat Loss with Coach Megan Abbott
You are doing the workouts. You eat pretty well. Yet the scale stays stuck and your body feels like it is fighting you. In this conversation with Coach Megan, we dig into why high-achieving women often plateau even when the strategy looks “perfect,” and how nervous system regulation, trauma healing, and learning to soften can unlock fat loss, better sleep, and a calmer mind.
What we cover
Why “doing more” stops working when your stress bucket is overflowingHow trauma and chronic stress show up physically through thyroid issues, gut symptoms, insomnia, and migrainesThe difference between being in your...From a Life of Strict Diets to Losing Weight Sustainably - Jordan's Journey
In this episode of The Mindset Diet, I sit down with my client Jordan to share her full journey — from where she started to where she is now. We go beyond the quick wins and talk about what it really takes to lose weight and keep it off, even when life throws curveballs.
Jordan opens up about her struggles with food, consistency, and motivation, and how she was able to push through those challenges with the right structure, coaching, and mindset shifts. Together, we break down the phases of her journey and highlight the exact habits that ma...
Psychological Flexibility — The Secret to Lasting Weight Loss
You probably think you need more willpower, discipline, or motivation to finally lose weight and keep it off. But the truth is, what you actually need is psychological flexibility.
In this episode of The Mindset Diet, I break down what psychological flexibility is, why it’s the missing link for so many women, and how a rigid “all-or-nothing” mindset is keeping you stuck in the same start-over-Monday cycle. You’ll learn how to stop letting perfect be the enemy of good, and how to start making flexible choices that move you forward even on your busiest days.
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How My Neighbor Lost 20 lbs through Menopause
Most women overcomplicate weight loss during menopause. This episode is your reminder that the most powerful changes are often the simplest. I’m sharing the story of my neighbor who lost 20 pounds through menopause without extreme diets, hours of cardio, or expensive supplements—just two smart, consistent habits that worked with her hormonal shifts instead of against them.
If you’ve been spinning your wheels with cardio, restrictive eating, or inconsistent habits, this episode will help you get back to the basics that actually move the needle.
Who Should Listen:
Women in perime...
The 5-Minute Exercise that Will Change Everything
If you’ve ever felt stuck, like you know what to do but still can’t seem to follow through, this episode is your reset button. I’m sharing a 5-minute mindset exercise that has completely transformed the lives of my clients—and I don’t say that lightly. This isn’t about motivation or willpower. It’s about identity. And when you shift how you see yourself, your habits follow.
One of my clients did this and immediately made a bold decision she’d been avoiding. Why? Because she finally stopped waiting to feel empowered and started acting l...
Why You’re Not Losing Weight, Even Though You Know What to Do
If you’ve ever said, “I know what to do, I’m just not doing it,” this episode is going to hit hard. In today’s episode of The Mindset Diet, I unpack a powerful psychological trap called the GI Joe Fallacy: the idea that knowing is “half the battle.”
Spoiler alert: it’s not.
You’ll learn why simply collecting more information (another guide, podcast, or challenge) isn’t helping you make progress, and what to focus on instead. I walk you through relatable real-life examples, the science behind why your brain defaults to comfort...
5 Reasons Your Calorie Deficit Isn't Working
You’re eating clean. You’re working out. You’re tracking (most of the time). And still… the scale won’t budge. So naturally, you start wondering if your metabolism is broken or if your body is just “resistant” to weight loss.
In this episode, I break down the real reasons why your deficit might not be working, even though it looks good on paper. These are the blind spots that sabotage so many women on their fat loss journey, especially if they’ve been dieting for years and feel like they’re doing “everything right.”
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Why...Your Body Isn’t Broken: A Peak into Pain with Dr. Brandon Parker
If you’ve ever skipped a workout because your back hurt...
 Or told yourself you “just have a bad knee”…
 Or felt like your body is falling apart after 35...
This episode is for you.
Dr. Brandon Parker is a chiropractor and strength coach who’s changing the conversation around pain, posture, and movement. In this episode, he breaks down what’s actually going on when you experience pain, and how to work with your body instead of against it.
We cover:
What causes sciatica, and what actually helps it get betterWhy plan...How to Enjoy the Summer Without Losing Progress — with Coach Brian Parana
In this episode of The Mindset Diet, I sit down with Coach Brian Parana—a seasoned nutrition coach and father of four who has traveled to all 50 states and multiple continents—to talk about how to stay on track with your health goals while traveling or celebrating holidays.
With over 20 years of coaching experience, Brian knows exactly how to balance real life with real results. Together, we explore:
Whether fat loss while traveling is realistic—or if maintenance is the smarter moveHow to set expectations so you stop feeling disappointed or defeated post-tripStrategic ways to enj...What's REALLY Holding You Back from Fat Loss with coach Sarah Krieger
In this raw and honest episode of The Mindset Diet, I sit down with Sarah Krieger—coach, speaker, and the unapologetic voice behind Consistency Over Perfection Fitness. Sarah brings the heat as we dive deep into what’s really keeping women stuck on their weight loss journey, especially those who feel like they’re doing everything right… but still not seeing results.
We talk about:
Why the basics are non-negotiable for fat loss (and what they actually are)How Sarah lost 80 pounds and kept it off without extremes or fadsThe emotional weight that so many women carry—an...How to Balance Your Hormones Naturally to Finally Lose Weight
If you feel like your body is working against you—like what used to work for weight loss no longer does—this episode is for you. I’m breaking down what’s actually happening to your hormones after age 35, the most common mistakes women make that make it worse, and five evidence-based ways to naturally support your body so fat loss becomes possible again. No detoxes. No gimmicks. Just straight-up science and sustainable habits that actually work.
This is one of the most valuable episodes I’ve ever recorded, especially if you’re a high-achieving woman who feels stuck...
5 Reasons You're Not Losing Fat (Fix Your Fat Loss)
In this episode, Iman breaks down the five biggest reasons women struggle to lose fat, even when it feels like they’re giving it their all.
These five reasons are pulled directly from Iman’s brand new Fix Your Fat Loss Quiz, designed to help you figure out what’s really blocking your progress, so you can stop spinning your wheels and start seeing results.
What You’ll Learn:
🔹 Why pushing harder might actually be backfiring
 🔹 The metabolic “must-haves” your body needs before it will drop fat
 🔹 How to know if you’ve been die...
3 Mistakes Women Over 35 Are Making
If you’re over 35 and feeling frustrated with your lack of progress, even though you’re eating healthy, working out consistently, and doing everything right, this episode is for you.
Today, I’m breaking down the three most common mistakes I see women making in their 30s, 40s, and 50s that keep them stuck in a cycle of effort with no results.
We’ll talk about:
 • Why your workouts might be hurting your results
• How “eating healthy” is different from eating strategically
• The reason your body isn’t changing (even when you feel like yo...
Are You Letting Silly Sh*t Keep You Stuck?
You might think it's your metabolism, your crazy schedule, or your unsupportive family holding you back from losing weight… but what if it’s actually something as small as forgetting your gym shoes?
In this episode, I’m walking you through the real reason your progress is stalled ( spoiler alert—it’s not because you’re lazy). It's because you're letting tiny, avoidable things pile up and derail your momentum. We're calling out the small, seemingly innocent excuses that secretly keep you stuck, and more importantly, I’m teaching you how to work around them instead of letting them w...
Why Better Questions Lead to Better Results
Most women who struggle with consistency on their weight loss journey are not unmotivated or broken, they’re just asking the wrong questions.
In this episode, I share a concept inspired by something I heard on a business podcast that I immediately knew I needed to bring to you. It’s the idea that your stuckness — your “I always fall off,” or “I just can’t stay consistent” — is often just a statement standing in the way of a better question.
Because when you ask better questions, you get better results.
If you've been making defini...
Faster Weight Loss Starts With This (It’s Not What You Think)
You’re uncomfortable in your body. Tired. Frustrated. Maybe even in pain.
 And yet… you keep putting off the very things that would actually move the needle.
In this episode, I’m giving you the honest truth about what’s really slowing you down. It’s not a broken metabolism. It’s not a lack of time. It’s a mindset.
This episode is for the woman who:
Is sick of feeling stuck but keeps delaying her goalsWants to lose 20+ lbs sustainablyHas a busy life and doesn’t know how to “fit...How to Tell if a Food is Actually Healthy
Let’s clear something up once and for all…
That protein bar?
 That “keto-friendly” cookie?
 That $13 green juice?
Are those things actually healthy?
In today’s episode of The Mindset Diet, I break down the confusion around what makes a food “healthy”, and why so many women are stressed, bloated, and stuck in all-or-nothing thinking because of what wellness culture has taught them to fear.
You’ll walk away with a better understanding of how to define healthy food for your body, plus learn how to spot sneaky marketing tactics designed t...
Is Working Out Therapy?
If working out is the way you know how to manage stress... this episode is for you!Â
In this episode, I discuss whether or not working out is a good way to manage stress. I share my own story of learning the truth the hard way, plus I walk you through:
Why rest feels so hard for high-achieving womenWhat actually happens in your body when you’re always “go go go”The difference between nervous system regulation and emotional regulationWhat stress management actually looks likeWho Should Listen:
This episode is a must...
Why I've Gained Weight this Year, What You Can Learn from It, and What I am Doing About it
In this raw and honest episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on what the first few months of 2025 have looked like for me, and how they’ve led to weight gain. From sleep struggles to travel to unexpected family emergencies, it’s been a season of curveballs. But instead of panicking or overcorrecting, I’m choosing a different path, and I want to help you do the same.
Whether you’re currently in a stressful season, coming out of one, or know one is on the horizon, this episode will help you navigate it with more self-compa...
The Truth About Motivation and How to Actually Stay Consistent with Your Health Goals w/ Coach Bryce Hamilton
In today’s episode, I’m joined by fitness coach Bryce Hamilton for a deep dive into one of the biggest struggles my clients face—motivation. We’ve all been there—waiting for that spark of inspiration to get us moving, only for it to fizzle out a few days later. But what if motivation isn’t the real problem? And what if chasing it is actually holding you back?
Bryce shares his personal journey into the fitness industry and why he believes motivation is overrated when it comes to long-term success. Together, we discuss:<...
Why Changing Your Identity is the Key to Lasting Weight Loss with Chase and Chris of Conquer Fitness
Episode Summary:
In this episode of The Mindset Diet podcast, Iman is joined by Chase Smith and Chris Bealhen for an eye-opening discussion on how identity shapes your weight loss success. They break down why so many people stay stuck in cycles of dieting and self-sabotage: they haven’t shifted their identity to align with their goals. If you’ve ever labeled yourself as an “all-or-nothing person” or felt like you were destined to fail at weight loss because of past experiences, this episode is a must-listen.
Who Should Listen:
Women...How Rudy Lost 60 Pounds: The Mindset & Nutrition Shifts That Changed Everything
This week’s episode of The Mindset Diet is a little different—it's the recording of an Instagram Live I did with my friend and fellow coach, Rudy. We had an open, no-BS conversation about what it really takes to lose weight and keep it off. If you're tired of the noise in the fitness industry and want straight talk on what actually works, this episode is for you.
Who Should Listen:
Women who feel like they’ve “tried everything” but still struggle to lose weight.Anyone who finds themselves constantly starting over and wants to b...The ’90s Diet Lies You Still Believe—And How to Break Free
If you’ve ever thought that eating less and doing endless cardio is the only way to lose weight, this episode is going to be a game-changer for you. Erin McDonald joins me to break down exactly how she went from years of yo-yo dieting, under-eating, and over-exercising to fueling her body properly, building muscle, and finally achieving the toned, strong look she always wanted—without feeling miserable.
We talk about how the ’90s diet culture still haunts women today, the shift from obsessing over being "thin" to getting strong, and why most women accidentally sabotage their...
Why Some Women Succeed at Weight Loss (And Others Stay Stuck)
In this episode, Iman shares two real-life conversations that perfectly illustrate why some women successfully lose weight and keep it off, while others stay stuck in the cycle of yo-yo dieting. Through the contrasting experiences of “Rachel” and “Mandy,” you’ll learn the key mindset shift that separates those who struggle from those who succeed.
If you’ve ever felt like you’re spinning your wheels with weight loss—jumping from diet to diet, searching for the magic fix—this episode will give you the clarity and practical steps you need to finally break free and start seeing real, lasti...
Should You Track Calories? The Truth About Food Tracking
Ever feel like you're eating "healthy" but still not losing weight? You're not alone. In this episode, Iman dives into whether or not you really need to track your food to see results. Is it necessary? Does it lead to obsession? Is it the key to breaking through a plateau? She's breaking it all down today, including the biggest misconceptions about tracking, who should (and shouldn’t) track, and how to make food tracking easier if you decide to try it.
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The Silent Fat Loss Killer – How Stress is Keeping You Stuck
If you feel like you’re doing everything right—tracking your food, working out, staying on track—but still not seeing results, stress might be the reason why. Most people think weight loss is just about calories and workouts, but chronic stress can sabotage your progress in ways you don’t even realize.
In this episode, I’m breaking down:
What stress actually is (and why not all stress is bad)The difference between acute stress and chronic stress (and why chronic stress is the real issue)How stress affects your hormones...4 Behaviors Stopping You from Losing Weight
Are you focusing on all the wrong things in your weight loss journey? You might be fixating on diets, workouts, and routines, but there's a good chance these four sneaky behaviors are the real reason you're stuck. In this episode of The Mindset Diet, Iman breaks down the four common self-sabotaging behaviors that hold women back from achieving their weight loss goals and offers actionable strategies to overcome them.
Whether you're struggling with people-pleasing, battling perfectionism, staying disorganized, or fearing failure, this episode will empower you to shift your mindset, stop getting in your own way, and...
Nutritional Therapist Reveals the Keys to Lasting Weight Loss Success
In this episode of The Mindset Diet, Iman sits down with Justin Nault, founder of Clovis and a leader in the movement to dismantle toxic diet culture. Justin shares his personal journey from body dysmorphia and extreme fitness routines to discovering the freedom of holistic health and self-love. Together, we explore the myths of diet culture, the true root causes of obesity, and practical steps to reclaim your health through nourishment, self-acceptance, and emotional healing.
Whether you’re a recovering dieter or someone looking to build a healthier relationship with your body, this episode is packed with ac...
3 Simple Steps to Take Control of Your Life This Year
In this episode of The Mindset Diet, Iman dives deep into the power you have to change your life and make 2025 your best year yet. Inspired by a Facebook post saying, “I hope 2025 is better,” Iman challenges the passive mindset that relies on hope alone. She shares actionable steps and mindset shifts to help you take control, make meaningful changes, and create a life you’re proud of. If you’ve ever felt stuck or unsure of how to turn things around, this episode is for you.
This episode is perfect for women who:
You Must Address THIS to Make Lasting Change
In this episode, Iman explores the key to making sustainable changes in your weight loss journey: identifying and addressing emotional triggers or "hooks" behind unhealthy habits. Drawing inspiration from conversations with Dr. Rangan Chatterjee and Dr. Adi Jaffe on The Genius Life podcast, Iman simplifies the science behind why habits form and how to break free from them.
This episode is perfect for women who:
Why You Don’t Do What You Know You Should
In this powerful episode of The Mindset Diet, Iman dives into the tough-love truth: your life is a reflection of what you tolerate from yourself. Inspired by a client’s recent question and a thought-provoking Instagram quote, this episode explores how the standards you set for yourself—or lack thereof—shape your results in health, fitness, and life. If you’re ready to break free from excuses, self-sabotage, and low standards, this episode is for you.
Iman offers actionable strategies to help you identify what’s holding you back, redefine your standards, and build the accountability needed to create...
3 Psychological Hacks to Make Weight Loss Easier
In this episode of The Mindset Diet, Iman dives into the fascinating world of psychology and how it can transform your weight loss journey. Weight loss isn’t just about diet and exercise—it’s about learning how to work with your mindset, not against it. Backed by research, Iman shares three powerful psychological hacks to help you stay consistent, motivated, and in control of your goals.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
Why mindset plays a critical role in long-term weight loss success.Three research-backed psychological strategies to make weight loss easier:Practica...How Gut Health, Minerals, and Stress Affect Your Weight Loss with Coach Lindsey Walker
In this episode of The Mindset Diet, Iman chats with Lindsey Walker, a holistic health practitioner and certified personal trainer, about the often-overlooked connections between stress, gut health, and overall wellness. Lindsey shares her personal health journey—from being dismissed by traditional healthcare to discovering the transformative power of functional medicine. Together, they discuss how women can take control of their health by addressing nutrient deficiencies, gut health imbalances, and the physical effects of chronic stress.
If you’ve ever felt stuck in a cycle of fatigue, weight gain, or digestive discomfort, this episode will provide actionable insi...
Why People-Pleasing Is Sabotaging Your Weight Loss Goals (And How to Stop)
In this empowering episode of The Mindset Diet, Iman dives deep into a behavior that might be keeping you stuck on your weight loss journey—people-pleasing. Listen to learn how prioritizing others over yourself impacts your health, energy, and progress, and learn actionable strategies to break free from this cycle. Whether you're a busy mom, professional, or someone struggling to set boundaries, this episode will show you how to reclaim your time, energy, and focus to achieve your goals sustainably.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
Balancing Parenthood, Marriage, Work, and Weight Loss with Coach Lindsay
In this episode of The Mindset Diet, Iman sits down with fellow Built by Balance coach and fitness expert Lindsay Vitek to dive deep into her incredible journey of navigating the complexities of life, family, and personal wellness. From marrying her high school sweetheart to raising kids and managing emotional struggles, Lindsay shares how fitness became her anchor and transformed her life. Whether you’re a busy parent or someone seeking inspiration to overcome life’s obstacles, this episode is packed with practical advice and heartfelt wisdom.
What You'll Learn in This Episode:
Mindset Expert Mike Millner Reveals Top Tips for Sustainable Weight Loss Success
In this episode, Iman sits down with fitness and mindset expert Mike Millner to uncover why mindset is the secret sauce behind lasting weight loss success. As two coaches who believe that weight loss is “99% mindset,” they dive into what it truly takes to reach your goals. Mike shares his personal journey, from growing up surrounded by diet culture to becoming a successful coach who helps clients rewire their habits, behaviors, and identities.
Together, they explore why a strong mental foundation is essential to any physical transformation. You’ll learn practical strategies for shifting your mindset, the key to...