The Feeling Lighter Podcast

In this episode of Feeling Lighter, Coach Tyler and Dr. Lisa discuss the role of community in fitness and how social movement can both support and challenge your relationship with exercise.

They explore how group classes, run clubs, and online communities can increase motivation and consistency, while also acknowledging potential downsides like competition, comparison, distraction, and diet culture messaging in some fitness spaces.

The conversation highlights the importance of self-awareness and choosing environments that support your well-being. Whether you prefer working out alone or with others, the goal is finding a balance that helps you...

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Coach Tyler and Dr. Lisa tackle the inner dialogue that quietly shapes how we see ourselves, especially when it comes to our bodies, movement, and self-care. They walk through a list of common thoughts that keep people stuck and offer compassionate, practical reframes for each one. At the heart of it all is a simple reminder: your value isn’t tied to performance, perfection, or productivity.

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In this special Valentine’s Day themed episode, Coach Tyler and Dr. Lisa explore what self-love really looks like when it comes to your health, wellness, and movement without shame, pressure, or punishment.

Using the framework of the five commonly known love languages, they walk through practical, real-life ways to give yourself the love you’re often waiting to receive from others. From words of affirmation and acts of service to gifts, quality time, and physical touch, this conversation reframes fitness as an expression of care rather than control.

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In this lighthearted and hilariously insightful episode of The Feeling Lighter Podcast, Coach Tyler and Dr. Lisa ditch rigid rules and dive into a series of “favorites” that reveal how movement, self-care, and joy actually show up in real life. From comfort foods and go-to stretches to love-to-hate workouts, breath-work, and the small daily practices that help them feel grounded, the conversation blends humor, honesty, and lived experience.

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In this powerful episode, Coach Tyler and Dr. Lisa are joined by belly dance teacher and embodied healing guide Nurjahan Boulden, who shares her journey of surviving gun violence and finding her way back to joy through movement.

Nurjahan opens up about years of fear, shame, and disconnection from her body, and how somatic practices—especially dance—helped her heal in ways talk therapy alone could not. Together, they explore trauma, embodiment, cultural narratives around movement, and why play, compassion, and meeting your body where it is can be deeply transformative.

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Coach Tyler and Dr. Lisa Folden dive into why your body may start to feel unfamiliar in your 40s and beyond and why that’s completely normal. They explore how aging, past fitness habits, and diet culture contribute to pain, disconnection, and frustration with movement. Rather than chasing fixes, they offer a powerful reframe: what if the goal wasn’t to change your body, but to feel good in it? This episode invites listeners to trade shame for curiosity and to rebuild a relationship with movement rooted in respect, compassion, and ease.

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Coach Tyler and Dr. Lisa sit down with Béa Albina, nurse practitioner, somatic coach, author, and host of the Feminist Wellness Podcast, for a deep and laughter filled conversation about emotional outsourcing, self-worth, and the power of somatic healing. Béa unpacks how perfectionism, people-pleasing, and codependency are survival habits rooted in the nervous system, not personal failures. Together, they explore how breath work, self-talk, and embodied awareness can help us break free from patterns that keep us stuck in resentment, burnout, and self-abandonment. This episode is both a loving wake-up call and a practical guide to reconnecting wi...

Coach Tyler and Dr. Lisa walk through the four pillars of WeShape: movement, community, intention, and beliefs. They challenge toxic fitness trends and appearance based goals and guide you through the different levels of WeShape's Feel Good Challenges. This episode offers a new path to wellness rooted in self-trust, connection, and how you feel, not how you look.

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Coach Tyler and Dr. Lisa Folden take a critical look at the most popular fitness trends dominating social media. Rather than shaming any particular trend, Tyler and Lisa have an open mind and offer thoughtful reflections on why these approaches might or might not serve everyone. This episode invites listeners to reconnect with what actually feels good and sustainable in their own bodies.

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In this heartfelt episode of the Feeling Lighter podcast, Tyler and Dr. Lisa reflect on the gifts of community, gratitude, and personal growth. They discuss the importance of serving others from a loving heart, the validation received from community members, and the journey of overcoming shame and guilt. The conversation emphasizes the significance of connection, feedback, and celebrating small wins in fitness, all while embracing imperfection and learning from experiences. The episode culminates in reflections on the WeShape Wellness Weekend, highlighting the power of in-person connections and the impact of shared stories.

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In this episode of the Feeling Lighter podcast, Coach Tyler and Dr. Lisa discuss the 12 lessons of fitness, focusing on a holistic approach that emphasizes self-love, mindfulness, and community support. They explore the importance of listening to one's body, redefining exercise, building trust in oneself, navigating injuries, and overcoming mental blocks. The conversation encourages listeners to shift their focus from external validation to intrinsic motivation and to understand the societal pressures surrounding fitness. Ultimately, the episode promotes a sustainable fitness journey rooted in consistency and patience.

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In this episode, Tyler and Dr. Lisa delve into the complex relationship between aging, self-worth, and societal beauty standards. They discuss how unrealistic expectations can lead to self-abandonment and the importance of recognizing intrinsic value beyond physical appearance. The conversation emphasizes the need to cultivate self-acceptance and appreciate the wisdom that comes with age, while also critiquing the superficial nature of beauty standards and the dangers of seeking external validation. Ultimately, the episode encourages listeners to embrace their authentic selves and recognize their worth regardless of societal pressures.

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Coach Tyler and Dr. Lisa Folden sit down with Aleta Storch, a registered dietitian and therapist known for her work on eating with ADHD, to explore how ADHD impacts our relationship with food, movement, and self-care. Together, they unpack the difference between intentional and unintentional restriction, how diet culture amplifies guilt and burnout, and why accessibility, not perfection, is key to nourishing your body. The conversation covers everything from over-exercise as emotional regulation to practical tips for planning meals, reducing shame, and finding compassion in the chaos. This empowering episode reminds listeners that awareness, curiosity, and kindness are the...

Coach Tyler and Dr. Lisa Folden sit down for a heartfelt Thanksgiving episode all about gratitude. What gratitude really means, how it helps us heal, and why it’s deeper than positive thinking. They explore how gratitude isn’t about ignoring pain or pretending everything’s fine, but about finding meaning and peace through life’s hardest experiences. From grief and anger to forgiveness and joy, Tyler and Lisa unpack the emotional layers that transform hardship into wisdom. They share stories of resilience, self-love, and the power of perspective, reminding listeners that gratitude doesn’t erase struggle, it gives it purpose...

Coach Tyler and Dr. Lisa discuss strategies for navigating the complexities of family dynamics during the holiday season. They emphasize the importance of setting boundaries, practicing self-care, and letting go of guilt and shame associated with food choices. The conversation also highlights the significance of prioritizing oneself and the benefits of intuitive eating, encouraging listeners to embrace their autonomy and make choices that serve their well-being. Ultimately, the episode serves as a guide for approaching the holidays with mindfulness and self-compassion.

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In this special birthday episode of The Feeling Lighter Podcast, we celebrate Tyler's 40th birthday by reflecting on the lessons learned over the years. The conversation delves into themes of patience, personal growth and self-love. Tyler shares his journey with WeShape, emphasizing the importance of community and movement in fostering well-being. The discussion also touches on forgiveness, compassion, and the impact of personal growth on relationships and parenting. Ultimately, the episode highlights the significance of living with purpose.

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Coach Tyler and Dr. Lisa Folden sit down with Reba Parker, a professor at the College of Charleston. Reba teaches sociology through a peace studies lens to explore the true meaning of peace and how to actually cultivate it in daily life. Reba shares insights from her book The Peaceability Mindset, explaining that peace isn’t passive or idealistic, but practical, measurable, and rooted in safety, well-being, and interconnectedness. Together, they unpack why society often views peace as “soft,” how to shift that perception, and how simple tools like pausing, listening, and nonviolent communication can transform relationships, homes, and communi...

Coach Tyler and Dr. Lisa Folden dive into one of the most pervasive topics in wellness: why the number on the scale should never define your worth. They unpack how diet culture, fitness marketing, and societal conditioning have convinced people to equate body size with value, health, and discipline. Together, they explore how to recognize weight bias, release shame, and measure real progress through joy, peace, and self-care instead of numbers. With warmth and humor, they highlight why the most meaningful transformations happen when we stop chasing perfection and start showing up for ourselves with compassion, consistency, and authenticity.<...

Coach Tyler and Dr. Lisa Folden continue their reflection on the WeShape Wellness Weekend, diving deeper into the curriculum that helped attendees reconnect with their values, bodies, and authentic selves. They explore how uncovering core values, rewriting limiting beliefs, and confronting the inner critic can create lasting transformation. Through movement, mindfulness, and meaningful conversation, they show how embodiment helps bridge the gap between emotional and physical healing. The episode also touches on community, courage, and the power of presence, reminding listeners that true wellness begins when we align our actions with what matters most and give ourselves permission to...

In this heartfelt episode, Coach Tyler and Dr. Lisa Folden reflect on the first WeShape Wellness Weekend and the powerful transformations that unfolded. They share behind-the-scenes moments, lessons learned, and the emotional breakthroughs that made the WeShape Wellness Weekend retreat unforgettable. From deep healing and vulnerability to laughter, movement, and connection, Tyler and Lisa discuss how creating space for honesty and self-discovery helped the participants release emotional weight and reconnect with joy. This conversation is a moving reminder that healing happens through community, courage, and giving ourselves permission to feel it all.

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Coach Tyler sits down with WeShape Meditation Coach, Divya Darshani, for a deeply grounding conversation on mindfulness, presence, and learning to let love in. Together, they explore how awareness and acceptance create true peace and why you don’t need to quiet your thoughts to find stillness. The two discuss practical tools to stay present as well as how mindfulness can free the body from emotional tension and reconnect us to joy, patience, and self-trust. This episode reminds listeners that peace isn’t something to earn, it’s something already within reach when we pause and notice the present moment

Coach Tyler is joined by WeShape Body Image Coach Taylor Ashley (RP, CCTP-II) for a powerful conversation on self-talk, comparison, and the journey toward body neutrality. Together they explore how cultural conditioning shapes our inner dialogue, why awareness of automatic thoughts matters, and how shifting from comparison to compassion can transform self-worth. Taylor shares tools like the “first thought, second thought” practice, building a self-care menu, and celebrating small wins to create lasting change. They also discuss the importance of sustainability in movement, showing up for yourself without shame, and finding freedom through awareness and choice. Want to get to k...

Coach Tyler and Dr. Lisa Folden dive into their personal experiments with movement and mindset, exploring how trying new activities can reshape the way we connect with our bodies. They discuss the importance of bone density, fascia, and grip strength, as well as the benefits of mindful movement and impact training for longevity. Along the way, they highlight the balance between safety and challenge, the role of playful exploration, and how listening to your body creates space for both joy and resilience in movement.

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Coach Tyler and Dr. Lisa Folden sit down with health coach Ali Elman to talk about shifting from punishment to self-compassion in wellness. Ali shares her journey of moving from perfectionism and overachievement to embracing a simpler, more sustainable approach to health after a major health crisis. Together, they explore how slowing down, listening to your body, and letting go of rigid expectations can transform the way you care for yourself. This conversation covers the trap of tying worth to productivity, the importance of balancing medical and holistic care, and how small, accessible changes like hydration, rest, and daily...

Coach Tyler and Dr. Lisa Folden explore what it really means to love yourself just as you are. This episode dives into the tension between striving for growth and accepting yourself in the present moment. They unpack how honesty and kindness must go hand in hand, why chasing perfection or external validation only fuels burnout, and how true self-worth comes from being rather than doing. Through reflections on shadow work, expectations, and the myths of self-criticism as motivation, they highlight how embracing all parts of ourselves opens the door to deeper compassion, presence, and joy. At its core, this...

Coach Tyler and Dr. Lisa Folden sit down with writer and educator Margeaux Feldman to explore how healing begins when we reclaim the parts of ourselves we were taught to hide. Together, they unpack how systems of oppression shape the way we view our bodies, why rest is resistance, and what it looks like to build a relationship with yourself outside of societal expectations. This powerful conversation invites listeners to slow down, honor their lived experiences, and find strength in vulnerability. It’s an inspiring reminder that healing isn’t about fixing yourself, it’s about coming home to who yo...

Coach Tyler and Dr. Lisa Folden sit down to discuss the rise of “soft health” and why it may be the future of true well-being. Instead of chasing rigid routines, extreme discipline, and “no days off” hustle culture, this episode explores a gentler, more sustainable approach to health rooted in compassion, intuition, and daily joy. Tyler and Lisa break down why so many people are burned out on traditional wellness models, how soft health actually improves consistency, and what it looks like to shift from forcing your body to supporting it. Listeners will walk away with practical strategies to embrace ea...

In this candid conversation, Coach Tyler and Dr. Lisa Folden sit down with WeShape co-founder Katie Bramlett to unpack how redefining success, letting go of perfectionism, and embracing authenticity can lead to a lighter, more fulfilling life. Katie shares her personal journey of stepping back from hustle culture, reevaluating what truly matters, and creating space for rest and presence. They explore the pressures of societal expectations, the emotional weight of “doing it all,” and the power of choosing alignment over approval. With heartfelt honesty and practical insights, this episode encourages listeners to slow down, listen inward, and build a life...

In this empowering conversation, Coach Tyler and Dr. Lisa Folden sit down with Erin Holt, a functional nutritionist, Stanford-trained compassion teacher and founder of The Funk'tional Nutritionist, an online clinic and education platform that specializes in Intuitive Functional Medicine. Erin shares how hormones, stress, mindset, and self-awareness all play a vital role in overall well-being. She discusses the limitations of a one-size-fits-all approach to health, the impact of nervous system regulation, and why tuning into your body’s unique signals is key. Packed with practical insights and permission to let go of perfection, this episode will inspire you to cr...

Coach Tyler and Dr. Lisa Folden sit down to share 10 powerful questions every woman over 50 has asked herself. This thought-provoking episode invites listeners to reflect on what they truly want, need, and deserve in this stage of life. With compassion and curiosity, Tyler and Lisa explore topics like self-worth, boundaries, joy, relationships, and body wisdom, encouraging women to redefine success and step into a more authentic, aligned version of themselves. Whether you're 50 or just thinking ahead, this conversation is a meaningful guide for reconnecting with who you are and how you want to live.

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Coach Tyler and Dr. Lisa Folden sit down to challenge everything you thought you knew about exercise. In this energizing episode, they unpack why traditional fitness culture often leads to burnout, guilt, and shame—and how shifting the focus from "exercise" to joyful, intuitive movement can transform your relationship with your body. Through personal stories, honest reflections, and practical tips, they explore how movement can be playful, healing, and rooted in self-respect rather than punishment. If you're ready to let go of rigid rules and start moving in a way that actually feels good, this episode is for you.

This heartfelt conversation unpacks how to let go of people-pleasing, perfectionism, and external expectations in order to reconnect with your values, body, and inner voice. Rachel recounts her moving personal story of how her mothers declining health inspired her to make big changes, highlighting the power of self-trust, slowing down, and doing less to live life more fully, authentically, and on your own terms.

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In this deeply personal and vulnerable episode of The Feeling Lighter Podcast, Dr. Lisa Folden shares her story of transformation and together, with Coach Tyler, they explore how personal growth often requires letting go of who you thought you were supposed to be in order to become who you truly are. The conversation dives into the emotional toll of staying in spaces where you aren’t seen or valued, and how cultivating self-worth, support systems, and spiritual practices can guide you through even the hardest seasons of life.

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Why do so many of us struggle to move our bodies, even when we know it's good for us? In this inspiring and eye-opening episode of The Feeling Lighter Podcast, Coach Tyler and Dr. Lisa Folden sit down with biomechanist Katy Bowman and clinical psychologist Dr. Diana Hill, co-authors of I Know I Should Exercise, But…, to explore the inner barriers that get in the way of joyful, consistent movement.

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In this heartfelt episode of The Feeling Lighter Podcast, Coach Tyler and Dr. Lisa Folden dive deep into why so many people, especially women, struggle to receive love, kindness, and compliments. They unpack the societal and cultural conditioning that teaches self-sacrifice while discouraging self-worth, and they explore how religion, upbringing, and internalized beliefs about worthiness all play a role in our resistance to receiving.

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Coach Tyler and Dr. Lisa reflect on the powerful themes from this season of Feeling Lighter—from redefining health to reclaiming joy. They dive into the systemic challenges of weight stigma in healthcare, the lasting effects of trauma, and why healing starts with awareness and self-acceptance. This episode highlights the role of community, the importance of aligning with your values, and how self-care and service to others can help us live fuller, more meaningful lives.

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Coach Tyler and Dr. Lisa sit down with Silvy Khoucasian to discuss the emotional intricacies of relationships—from navigating conflict to building deeper, more secure connections. Together, they unpack how attachment styles show up in everyday dynamics, why setting and honoring boundaries is essential, and how validating your own emotions can transform how you relate to others. The conversation dives into anxious and avoidant behaviors, the value of clear agreements between partners, and the importance of leading with vulnerability and self-awareness to foster meaningful, authentic relationships.

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This episode is all about WeShape's Feel Good Challenges! Hosts Coach Tyler and Dr. Lisa Folden break down how these challenges flip the script on traditional fitness programs. Instead of punishing workouts and rigid goals, they talk about embracing movement that actually feels good, fostering real community support, and shifting from self-criticism to self-compassion. If you’ve ever felt like fitness challenges left you burned out or disconnected from your body, this refreshing take might be exactly what you need.

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