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In episode 199, Andrea Atherton takes you on an intimate and enlightening journey through the evolving landscape of love, dating, and emotional connection across the decades. From the experimental and often chaotic energy of our 20s to the soulful discernment of our 50s and beyond, Andrea explores how our search for partnership changes as we grow — not just chronologically, but emotionally and spiritually. Grounded in psychology, attachment theory, and real-world stories, she brings wisdom and compassion to the often vulnerable path of seeking love at any age.

Andrea unpacks how attachment styles — secu...

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In this deeply affirming episode, host Andrea Atherton welcomes Marnie—author, guide, and midlife muse—to share her personal and transformative story of rising after divorce in her late 40s and choosing to live intentionally, joyfully, and unapologetically. As a single, middle-aged woman who now thrives in her own company, Marnie speaks directly to the hearts of women in the sandwich generation—those balancing the care of both children and aging parents—who may feel like they’ve lost themselves in the chaos. Her message is clear: midlife isn’t a crisis; it’s a sacred thr...

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In this eye-opening conversation, host Andrea Atherton welcomes special guest Anthony Damachino—author of The Empty Nest Blueprint for Couples and Singles. Together, they explore a topic that is often overlooked and yet deeply impactful: the emotional and relational journey of the empty nest phase. As children leave home and familiar rhythms fade, many find themselves caught off guard by the wave of unexpected grief, identity shifts, and the quiet ache of change that touches every corner of life.

Anthony and Andrea speak candidly about the shock that can come when a...

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In this heart-opening episode, Andrea Atherton is joined by the soulful and intuitive guide, Saranam Mark Greenberg, for a transformative conversation on choosing love with clarity, intention, and inner wisdom. Together, they explore how subtle energies, dream messages, and conscious self-awareness can serve as guiding lights in the realm of romantic connection. Listeners are invited into a deeper understanding of how to attune to their body’s intuitive language—learning to feel safety, regulation, and resonance before the mind begins to shape a narrative. Andrea opens with a personal reflection of intuitive clarity in l...

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In a world where “drive-by dating” has become the norm—where relationships ignite and fizzle out just as fast—what if the secret to lasting love is slowing things down? In this solo episode of The Love Anarchy Podcast, host Andrea Atherton explores the transformative power of the slow-burn relationship. She unpacks why pacing intimacy, fostering deep emotional trust, and allowing love to unfold naturally can create a foundation that stands the test of time. Rather than rushing into passion-fueled connections that lack emotional depth, Andrea shares how a more intentional approach can lead to...

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In this episode, host Andrea Atherton sits down with psychic medium Cara Faith to explore the unique gifts of highly sensitive people and empaths. They discuss how heightened sensitivity can be both a challenge and a strength, offering deeper connections, intuitive insights, and emotional depth. Cara shares her experiences growing up as a "sensitive" as she learned to navigate the overwhelming energy of others while embracing the very real psychic guidance.

Cara explains the different types of psychic gifts, from clairvoyance to clairsentience, and how people can recognize and develop their...

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Welcome to another raw and real episode of Love Anarchy with your host, Andrea Atherton. Today, we’re stripping away the myths and pressure around sex with special guest Leighanna Nordstrom, a renowned sex therapist. We’re diving into the all-too-common struggle of performance anxiety—why so many people feel like sex is something to be judged on rather than enjoyed. When did intimacy turn into a test we feel we have to pass? And more importantly, how do we unlearn the societal conditioning that tells us that great sex is all ab...

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In this solo episode, Andrea Atherton explores the powerful link between self-confidence, self-trust, and the way we show up in relationships. She dives deep into the subconscious stories and limiting patterns that keep us stuck in cycles of self-doubt—whether it’s second-guessing our choices, overanalyzing our partner’s actions, or struggling to trust our own feelings. Andrea unpacks how these hidden narratives shape our love lives and how we can begin rewriting them to cultivate healthier, more fulfilling connections. Instead of seeing past relationships as failures, she encourages a shift in perspective—viewing...

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In this episode, host Andrea Atherton welcomes guest Jessica Langley to explore the transformative power of platonic touch, with a special focus on the cuddle puddle—a communal, heart-centered space for safe, nurturing, and non-sexual touch. In a world where physical connection is often limited to romantic relationships, the cuddle puddle offers a radical alternative: a space where people can relax, be held, and experience the deep healing that comes from simply being in gentle, consensual contact with others. Jessica shares how these experiences help regulate the nervous system, release stress, and foster a...

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In this episode, Host Andrea Atherton sits down with therapist and relationship coach Christie Bemis to explore the hidden forces shaping our love lives—our childhood experiences and unconscious patterns. So much of what we struggle with in relationships—conflict, emotional distance, unmet needs—often traces back to the attachment wounds and learned behaviors we absorbed in our earliest years. Christie sheds light on how these patterns play out in our partnerships and, most importantly, how to break free from the cycles that keep us stuck. Awareness is the first step, but what does r...