With Self Respect Comes Self Love

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By: Goddess Asha Mariama

This Podcast is all about the importance of respecting yourself in order to love yourself. How self respect leads to the love of self through how you feel about yourself. How you don't allow anyone to treat you in a kind of way because of your flaws, imperfections, or mistakes? How we need to stop putting other people's wants and needs before? How we need to stop trying to bring other people to our levels? Why we need to stop trying to lower our standards in order to be in the in crowd? How negative people should not get us...

Episode 34 - With Self Respect Comes Self Love When Comes To No Longer Taking Responsibility For Other People’s Problems.
Last Thursday at 2:22 AM

In this episode, I’m gonna be discussing the fact that a lot of people are people pleasers, seat fillers, captain save a hoe, and build a bears, and builder dolls when it comes to your family, friends, romancing, relationships, your siblings, and your job. It’s a lot of people that every time they get successful they end up taking care of their family. This episode is also about breaking down what each one of these things mean when it comes to people who are people pleasers. People that sit up here and will do anything to make other peop...


Episode 33 - With Self Respect Comes Self Love You Putting Youself First No Matter What
07/02/2025

In this episode, I’m gonna be discussing why you should never lower yourself, allow people to disrespect you, or put yourself last just to make everybody else happy. It’s time for you to be able to put yourself first, and still be able to help people without dimming your light, disrespecting yourself, and allowing people to treat and do you any type of way. It’s time to stop allowing people to dim your lights. People keeping you from being successful. Being ashamed for doing the right thing even if a lot of people call you square, or goody...


Episode 32 - Why Do You Base Yourself On What Other People Think, Feel And Say About You?
06/24/2025

In this episode, I’m gonna be discussing why it’s important for you to mind your own business and focus on yourself versus focusing on everybody else. Why you need to stop worrying about what everybody has to say, and think about you based self-esteem, self-worth, self values, self-respect, self-confidence, and you believe in yourself based upon you and how you feel about yourself? Why you are lowering yourself to build other people that will never do the same for you? And why the same people that you’re lowering yourself and trying to build up, and is gonna end up...


Episode 31 - Should You Based Who You Are Based On Yourself or What Others Think About You?
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06/12/2025

In this episode, I will be talking about should You Base Who You Are Based On You Or What Others Think Of You. there are a lot of people that based themselves on what other people think about them. A lot of people no matter how positively you think about themselves, will end up questioning and doubting themselves because of what other people say and think about them. there are a lot of people that are judged just for their looks as far as their imperfections and flaws, disabilities, and mistakes they’ve made in their past that makes them th...


Episode 30 - The Benefits of Being Alone With Yourself To Heal and Recover.
05/22/2025

In this episode, I’m gonna be discussing the benefits of being alone in order for you to heal and recover properly. There are many benefits of being alone that people may not think would be benefits. As somebody who has been by myself for almost about seven years, I have learned that sometimes you need to be alone for multiple different reasons that’s going to help you with your healing and recovery. So I really hope this episode makes some of you feel better as far as not, being chosen, not being in relationships, not getting that job, or e...


Episode 29- When God Tells You To Sit Still And Heal And Recover From The World’s Treatment?
05/08/2025

In this episode, we’re gonna be discussing the importance of sitting still and being one with God. Sometimes God will pull you from the world because the world is destroying you. How the world is taking you down a path that is slowly destroying and causing chaos in your life due to the consequences, repercussions, and karma of your actions, behavior, choices, and decisions that you’ve made based on other peoples influences? How the path that God puts us on is not easy. It’s not about doing whatever everybody else is doing, or feeding into the distractions, it’s a...


Episode 28 - Why You Shouldn’t Love Or Base Yourself On What Other’s Think, Feel, Want, Or Need From You?
04/30/2025

In this episode, I’m gonna be discussing why respecting yourself is so important when it comes to how you feel, think, wanna be treated, and what you allow other people to do to you. If you really respect yourself as well as love yourself the way you claim that you do, you would never allow what other people say, think, or feel about you impact or ever break, self-esteem, self-worth, self value, self-confidence, and how you believe in yourself. You wouldn’t think that other people are better than you because they look better than you, successful or have more...


Episode 27 - How You Feel About Yourself Determines Your Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Value,Self-Respect,& Self-Confidence.
03/26/2025

In this episode, I’m gonna be discussing how you feel about yourself, the things that you consume as far as the five senses present to you, your decisions, choices, behavior, and decisions, critical thinking,common sense, judgment, weighing the pros and cons, and consequences, repercussions, and karma of your actions, choices, decisions, and behavior. Why we don’t never do the could have should have, and would have when it comes to the things that we should’ve done could have done and would have done differently if we made the right decisions?

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Episode 26 - You Minding Your Own Business When It Comes To Not Worrying About What Other People Have, Do, And Think.
03/20/2025


Episode 25 - How to Maintain Your Self Esteem In a Negative World?
03/14/2025

On this episode, I’m discussing how to maintain your self-esteem in a world where everybody wants to tear down your self-esteem, self-worth, self value, self-respect, self-confidence, and you believe in yourself. How negative people want to make you feel less than what you are, to break,traumatized, make you suffer, destroy, and cause chaos in your life? It’s really hard to believe in yourself, when everybody that’s close to you as far as family, friends, romantic, relationships, and people that you don’t even know or constantly telling you all the negative things about you.

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Episode 24 - With Self Respect Comes Self Love When It Comes To No Longer Being A People Pleaser.
02/27/2025

In this episode, I’m disgusting why in order to feel and recover you’re going to have to stop being a people pleaser, seat, filler, captain save a hoe, and a build a bear and doll person. It is too many people that are lowering themselves to build other people up based on what and how they see and think of that person. Versus them seeing the person for what they really are. How lowering yourself for other people, makes you miss out on opportunities, and your blessings that are meant for you that basically you give to other peop...


Episode 23 - With Self Respect Comes Self Love When it Comes To Not Basinf Yourself On What Others Think Of You.
02/20/2025

In this episode, I am discussing why I’ve been gone so long when it came to not doing my podcast. I’ve been dealing with a bunch of medical issues since I’ve been gone, which kept me from doing my podcast? How I had to learn to start putting myself first, and excepting things for what they are? How I had to accept the fact that there will be people that are not gonna like you, that will reject you, and never accept you no matter what? You are going to have people that’s gonna try to make you...


Episode 22 - Why People Do People Lower Their Standards, And Self Respect?
11/28/2024

In this episode, I’m gonna be discussing why do people lower their standards and their self-respect for people that are not worth them. So many people lower themselves in order to be in relationships with other people. They’ll go against everything that’s right just to do something wrong to prove something to people. It’s crazy how people don’t understand that they don’t have to do all of these things in order to make friends, get a job, family, and romantic relationship as far as proving things to people, cause God would never ask you to have to d...


Episode 21 - With Self Respect Comes Self Love When Comes To Loving Yourself.
11/21/2024

In this episode, I’m gonna talk about how to respect yourself through loving yourself, despite your flaws, imperfections, disabilities, and mistakes that you’ve made in your past. There are so many people that lower their selves in order to be associated with people that really don’t want them in the first place. There are a lot of people chasing behind people that don’t really want anything to do with them at all. The only reason these people want them is because they enjoy the fact that these people are chasing behind them. And what these people are will...


Episode 20 - With Self Respect Comes Self Love When It Comes To Finding Yourself.
10/29/2024

This episode is about you taking care of yourself before you bring someone in your life. You should be focusing on working on yourself as far as recovery and healing from past trauma, abuse, sexual assault, abuse, mom and daddy issues, past relationships that cause you pain, and more. Take your time when it comes to learning, growing,, evolving, elevating, and maturing from your past relationships to become the new version of yourself. How do you have to go through the journey alone with God to find yourself? How this society has broken so many people based on lies, manipulation...


Episode 19 - Self Respect Leads To The Love Of Self When It Comes To Finding Yourself.
10/24/2024

This episode is about you taking care of yourself before you bring someone in your life. You should be focusing on working on yourself as far as recovery and healing from past trauma, abuse, sexual assault, abuse, mom and daddy issues, past relationships that cause you pain, and more. Take your time when it comes to learning, growing,, evolving, elevating, and maturing from your past relationships to become the new version of yourself. How do you have to go through the journey alone with God to find yourself? How this society has broken so many people based on lies, manipulation...


Episode 18 - With Self Respect Comes Self Love: Loving Yourself At Your Best And Worst.
10/16/2024

And this episode, I’m gonna be discussing how to love yourself at your best and at your worst. A lot of people just want to always be at their best, and they never wanna show the worst part of themselves due to worrying about what other people think. They’re worried about if people see the worst part of themselves that they’re going to walk away. Never mind you there are people that people absolutely need to walk away from because of the worst version of themselves when it comes to their behavior, and actions. But when it comes...


Basing yourself on how you feel and think about yourself.
09/25/2024

This episode is all about the importance of you basing yourself based on how you feel, and think about yourself versus what other people think, and feel about you. People are too busy worrying about other peoples opinions as far as how they think and feel about them. Versus you not worrying about what other people think and feel about you as well as their opinions of you. I get the fact that society makes you believe that it is about other peoples thoughts, opinions, and what they have to say about you, but the truth is it should be...


Episode 16- With Self Respect Leads To Self Love When It Comes To How You Feel About Yourself.
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09/23/2024

And his episode, we’re gonna be discussing how in order to love yourself, you have to respect yourself. because how you feel about yourself is very important when it comes to how you demand respect when it comes to how people treat you, act towards you, and etc. A lot of people based themselves on what other people think about them. What these people say about them? So this podcast is all about recovery when it comes to you building self-esteem, self-worth, and self value in order for you to figure out how you feel about yourself. And once yo...


Episode 15 - With Self Respect Comes Self Love When It Comes To What You Choose To Deal With When You Heal And Recover.
09/19/2024

In this episode, I’m gonna talk about how with self-respect leads to love of self when it comes to what you choose to deal with when you recover and heal from your past trauma, anxieties, depression, past situationthat have impacted, and affected your life, based upon the consequences, repercussions, and karma they have the damage to your life. a lot of people have lost themselves because they have become what everybody else wants them to be, except themselves. A lot of people have went through a lot of things they probably would’ve never went through. If they would’ve nev...


Episode 14 - With Self Respect Comes Self Love When it Comes To Acepting Yourself
09/11/2024

And this episode, we’re gonna talk about how self-respect leaves self love through finding yourself. This is when you get away from everybody, and you are just by yourself in order for you to find out who you are, and what you wanna be. Sometimes you got to get away from everybody to figure out who you are, what you wanna do, and where you wanna be. Sometimes it’s not always about other peoples approval, or thoughts about you. It’s about what you think about yourself, and how you feel about yourself? Sometimes you got a deep progra...


Episode 13 - With Self Respect Comes Self Love When It Comes To Focusing On Yourself Instead Of Others.
09/04/2024

In this episode, I’m gonna be discussing how to find self-respect through focusing on yourself instead of focusing on other people personally. A lot of people are so busy on focusing on everyone else instead of focusing on yourself. A lot of people are lowering themselves in order to build other people up. Just like the situation would Ice Spice and Cleo when it comes to her, asking her to go on tour, and what happened when she accepted. Cleo went on social media to talk about her experience of going on tour with Ice Spice, and how she wa...


Episode 11- With Self Respect Leads To Self Love When It Comes To How You Feel About Yourself.
08/28/2024

This episode is about you recovering, and healing from low self-esteem, self-worth, self-value, self-confidence, and self-respect. The benefits of being alone to find yourself as far as who you are, what you want to do with your life, what you are going to learn while you are alone, and how you will grow, evolve, elevate, and improve while you are alone, how the new you is going to look like, and being able to heal and move in silence. The recovery journey when it comes to you going to be up and down that you deal with in the healing...


Episode 11- With Self Respect Leads To Self Love When It Comes To How You Feel About Yourself.
08/27/2024

This episode is about you recovering, and healing from low self-esteem, self-worth, self-value, self-confidence, and self-respect. The benefits of being alone to find yourself as far as who you are, what you want to do with your life, what you are going to learn while you are alone, and how you will grow, evolve, elevate, and improve while you are alone, how the new you is going to look like, and being able to heal and move in silence. The recovery journey when it comes to you going to be up and down that you deal with in the healing...


Episode 10 - With Self Respect Comes Self Love When It To Being Alone.
08/20/2024

In this episode, I’m gonna to talk about how to find self-respect and self-love through being alone, and being one with yourself and the higher power. A lot of people say that being alone is a bad thing, and that is more important to have friends, family, romantic relationships. The truth is being alone is not as bad as you think it is. There are benefits to being alone. And in this episode, I’m gonna talk about the benefits of being by yourself to figure things out on your own with the assistance of Jesus Christ, and God, as w...


Episode 9 - How being alone can lead to loving yourself?
08/14/2024

And this episode, I wanted to discuss how being alone can actually lead to loving yourself. Being alone gives you a chance to really reflect on your past experiences as far as learning from them, growing, elevating, evolving, immuring From the experiences that you went through, and also healing from those past negative situations that you went through. Being alone gives you a chance to see what you can do on your own without anybody’s help. Being alone gives you the chance to be one with the higher power in building a relationship with the higher power. It gives yo...


Episode 8 - With Self Respect Comes Self Love When It Comes To Removing Yourself From Society’s Standards And Negativity.
08/07/2024

In this episode, I’m gonna be discussing how With Self Respect Comes Self Love when it comes to removing yourself away from society, standards, and negativity, and finding your way to the higher power standards. I’m currently on a spiritual sabbatical, and I have learned so much since being on this spiritual sabbatical. There comes a time when you come to the realization therefore, some of us we don’t fit society standards, and we never will. And we decide to go into a completely different direction. Or God decides to pull us in a different direction away from s...


Episode 7 - With Self Respect Comes Self Love Through Getting Away From Society’s Standards.
07/24/2024

In this episode, I’m gonna be discussing how to find self-respect and self-love of yourself through getting away from society standards. This one is probably going to hit a lot of people like a ton of bricks when I go into this particular podcast. Because there’s a lot of people that have tried to be a part of society standards that don’t belong there in the first place. Right now I’m currently in a spiritual sabbatical, where I am isolated from the world. I am currently in an isolation, hibernation, and cocoon stage of recovery where it’s jus...


Episode 6 -Gods love of you Vs humanity love of you.
07/03/2024

In this episode, I’m going to be talking about God love you versus humanity love of you. There are a lot of people that are more focused on humanities love of them versus God’s love of you. A lot of people will do anything to get people to love, like, appreciate, value, want them, to need them, to be a part of something, to be validated, to be approved, to be accepted, know your worth, and to prove something to people that really aren’t even worth proving something to. A lot of people don’t understand that being al...


Episode 5 - Why We Let People Disrespect Us?
06/26/2024

And this episode, I’m gonna be discussing why we allow people to disrespect us that are are nowhere near on the level that we’re on. Why do we allow people to tell us who we are, make you feel less than what you are, bending over backwards to prove something to people that really you shouldn’t care about the first place and lower your standards to be with people that are not even on the same level as you. I have never understood why people are particular low with themselves to go against their standards, morals, values, princi...


Episode 4 - Why Is Self Respect So Important?
06/19/2024

And this episode, we’re gonna talk about why self-respect is so important. A lot of people don’t wanna talk about self-respect and the importance of having respect for yourself. Because the way you respect your self,Determines the way other people are going to respect you. There are a lot of people that are lowering themselves in order to be around people that are not on the same level as you when it comes to being a godly person, well educated, successful, and doing what’s right just to name a few. A lot of people are always tellin...


Episode 3 - With Self Respect Comes Self Love Through Accepting Everything About Yourself.
06/12/2024

In this episode, I’m going to be discussing how to go about respecting yourself through accepting yourself flaws, imperfections, disabilities, illnesses, diseases, and the mistakes that you made in your past. It is a time for people to start getting away from society standards when it comes to anything concerning people. A lot of people are miserable because of society standards. And trying to live up to people’s expectations, that are no better than you. you’re trying to get people to like you that never liked you in the first place. Staying in relationships with people that are ne...


Episode 2 - With Self Respect Comes Self Love When It Come To Society Standards.
06/05/2024

In this episode, I’m gonna be discussing how to keep self-respect despite society standards. There are a lot of people that lose their self-respect because they’re trying to be like everybody else. As well as trying to live up to society standards when you become a part of society standards, you lose yourself, as a person.You do things that go against everything that is right in order to do something wrong. you be amazed how many people go against God standards in order to be a part of side standards for the best way I can put it i...


Episode 1 - How With Self Respect Comes Self Love.
05/14/2024

I want to first thank everybody who’s been supporting me when it comes to my hiatus as far as listening to the podcast while I’ve been on medical leave. This episode is all about how a lot of people do not understand the importance of self-respect, and what self-respect truly means. people don’t understand that self-respect determines how you allow people to treat you, act towards you, behave towards you, things they say about and do to you. i’m also gonna be talking about what this podcast is about as far as this new chapter of this pod...