Depraved and Debaucherous

According to an article from *Cosmopolitan*, doomscrolling—endlessly consuming negative content on social media—can erode hope in dating by amplifying fears of rejection, betrayal, or failure. This behavior fosters a pessimistic outlook, making women feel more guarded and less open to authentic connections. Social media platforms and dating apps, while designed to connect people, often exacerbate these challenges.

For instance, a 2021 *Guardian* article notes that online dating can leave women feeling less happy, less likely to find long-term partners, and more vulnerable to negative experiences, such as sexual violence.

Similarly, a 2023 *New York Post* study high...

Tattoos have long been intertwined with culture, identity, and rebellion—but in recent years, they've also become the subject of deeper psychological inquiry, especially in relation to trauma. While initial reports highlighted that many trauma survivors turn to tattoos as a "coping mechanism" or "form of expression," feedback has made it clear: we need to go deeper.

Rather than settling on surface-level generalizations, we should explore the psychological mechanisms that may drive tattoo acquisition post-trauma. One plausible hypothesis is that tattoos serve as a form of self-verification—a way to regain a sense of coherence and control over iden...

The New Orleans City Council unanimously passed an ordinance on May 8, 2025, to protect sex workers from arrest and prosecution for prostitution if they are reporting crimes committed against them. This new law codifies an existing New Orleans Police Department policy that discourages arresting sex workers who are victims or witnesses to crimes, aiming to encourage their cooperation with investigations without fear of their own arrest.

A key component, the "Right to Safe Sex" provision, prevents law enforcement from using the possession of condoms as evidence of prostitution.

The Trans Income Project, a Louisiana-based support group for...

Dating apps are leaving people depressed, lonely, and desperate for real connection. Despite the rise of so-called "offline dating" alternatives, the core problem remains: online, physical attractiveness still trumps all.

Dating today is broken. Online platforms dominate modern romance, but instead of creating meaningful connections, they’re fueling loneliness, anxiety, and even suicidal thoughts. One study finds that in the world of dating apps, physical attractiveness outweighs all other traits, leaving users to feel disposable and dehumanized.

While some turn to “offline dating” apps that promise organic encounters, these often feel clunky, elitist, or just as emotio...

The landscape of dating and relationships in 2025 appears increasingly complex, marked by a distinct paradox. On one hand, there's a reported desire among singles to move away from rigid rules and embrace more authentic, spontaneous connections, focusing on the "real unscripted moments" (Independent). The fundamental skills of flirting – building rapport, showing genuine interest, and playful engagement – remain crucial for sparking these initial connections (Art of Manliness).

However, this desire for authenticity often clashes with the realities of modern dating, particularly in the digital realm. Expectations can be incredibly high, sometimes bordering on transactional, as highlighted by instances like indi...

Bonnie Blue has officially blown the lid off spring break decorum with a 41-minute documentary that’s being called “vile,” “reckless,” and “career-ending”—depending who you ask. The Tab released the full spectacle, chronicling her “Spring Break Challenge,” but the backlash came fast and furious after it emerged that the stunt involved a “barely legal girl” thrown into the middle of what’s been described as a “group sex spectacle.”

Blue, already infamous for her outrageous antics and unfiltered lifestyle, seems to be locked in a self-destructive game of one-upmanship with fellow provocateur Lily Phillips. The two are deep into what LA Weekly dubbe...

The interaction between the two individuals presents a nuanced picture regarding potential avoidance or the establishment of a "friend zone" dynamic.

On one hand, the recipient's initial terse responses and their emphasis on their current stable housing situation could suggest a desire to maintain some emotional distance or boundaries. Their direct questioning of the initiator's motives for inquiring about their housing might also indicate a degree of guardedness.

From the initiator's perspective, sharing a Facebook group related to the recipient's interests and expressing empathetic concern about their well-being, while caring, might be interpreted as leaning towards...

In a scandal that sounds more like a Netflix drama than real life, internationally known DJ and model Rebeka "Beka" Episcopo has traded festival stages for courtrooms. Authorities allege she was the mastermind behind a lavish prostitution ring, busted as part of an undercover police operation dubbed “Last Massage.” But the plot thickens — Episcopo is also being investigated for social security fraud, suggesting the operation may have exploited more than just the nightlife scene.

Known for her high-profile persona and business ventures, Beka’s arrest is shaking both the entertainment and influencer worlds. As details emerge, this case spotligh...

Tinder has just turbocharged the dating experience with The Game Game, an AI-powered flirting simulator designed to make cringeworthy encounters feel like a victory lap. Created in collaboration with OpenAI and strategically launched on April Fool’s Day, this interactive chat adventure thrusts users into absurd, over-the-top scenarios, training them to navigate real-world romantic disasters with ease.

According to Tinder’s 2023 Future of Dating Report, 64% of young singles embrace awkwardness in the name of authenticity—so why not let AI turn your flirty fumbles into a well-practiced art form?

MWhether it’s sweet-talking a robot, seducing a vampir...

Shianne Foxx is an OnlyFans model who gained widespread attention for her unconventional and direct approach to finding a sugar daddy.

In a bold move, she erected billboards in affluent areas, most notably in Mosman, a wealthy suburb of Sydney, Australia. These billboards featured a photo of Foxx along with a clear message stating she was seeking a sugar daddy.

This audacious marketing strategy was designed to cut through the noise of online dating and directly target successful individuals who might be interested in a mutually beneficial arrangement. The billboards immediately sparked significant media coverage and...

The Academy Award-winning film *Anora* masterfully explores the chaotic relationship between a depraved and debaucherous stripper-turned-escort and the gullible son of a powerful mob boss. Their whirlwind marriage unravels with tragicomic absurdity, exposing the dangerous consequences of unchecked desire and manipulation.

Meanwhile, in the real world of modern romance, the troubling dating trend of **Floodlighting** is taking center stage. This phenomenon, where one partner overshares emotionally charged details early in a relationship, creates a false sense of intimacy that can destabilize connections. Relationship experts warn that pacing vulnerability and setting boundaries are essential to avoid emotional burnout and...

Bonnie Blue, the provocative OnlyFans creator known for her controversial adult content, has once again ignited public debate after making a headline-grabbing appearance at Spring Break in Cancún, Mexico. Embracing the party atmosphere at the Grand Oasis resort, Blue openly documented her interactions with young male college students, boasting about her mission to "take so many virginities" during the trip. Videos and photos shared on social media show the 25-year-old engaging with "barely legal" revelers, further fueling backlash over her self-proclaimed focus on inexperienced young men. The stunt has sparked outrage, with critics accusing Blue of predatory behavior, while o...

A new VICE documentary series, "Follow the Leader," explores the phenomenon of "Passport Bros"—men migrating to countries like Colombia and Jamaica in search of relationships and experiences they feel are lacking in their home countries.

Host Jamali Maddix investigates this trend, focusing on the men's motivations and the cultural dynamics at play, highlighting their pursuit of what they perceive as "king treatment."

The "passport bros" phenomenon is a contemporary social trend characterized by primarily Western men seeking romantic relationships with women in foreign countries, particularly in regions like Latin America and Southeast Asia.

Dr...

In the age of social media, the rise of online harassment has become a growing concern. For many women, this includes receiving unwanted messages from men on various platforms. While the act of blocking is often seen as the go-to solution, some women have taken a more drastic approach: reporting these messages to get the accounts banned.
This trend has been dubbed "triggered to ban," and it's gaining traction among women who are fed up with the constant barrage of unwanted attention. By reporting these messages, they hope to create a safer online environment for themselves and others.
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KOP dissects a poignant and often unsettling exchange between two individuals whose paths once intertwined romantically. Their conversation, pieced together from fragmented messages spanning several years, paints a vivid picture of a relationship grappling with the weight of its past. One participant, clearly still captivated by the echoes of their intimacy, yearns for a rekindling of their flame. They express their longing openly, reminiscing about shared moments, physical attributes, and the emotional connection they once shared. This yearning manifests not only in heartfelt words but also in concrete actions, including repeated requests for personalized videos, often with specific and suggestive...

A girl I refer to as K put me in a friend zone entangled in a whirlwind of emotions, ranging from tender confessions and playful banter to frustration, accusations, and ultimately, a sense of resignation. Let's break down the emotional roller coaster and how this dialogue played out.

Initial Honesty and Yearning:
The dialogue starts with your heartfelt confession of loyalty and longing for K. You express your desire to be with her and acknowledge her need for space, but also your own desire to reconnect. This vulnerability is met with a cold response from K...

Bonnie Blue has never been one to shy away from the extreme, but her latest stunt—a jaw-dropping 1,000-man gangbang—just got her permanently banned from OnlyFans. The platform, known for allowing risqué content, apparently found this record-breaking attempt a step too far, sparking debates across the industry.

What Went Wrong?
Insiders say the mass-participation event raised serious red flags, from identity verification issues to pushing OnlyFans into regulatory hot water. While Bonnie’s devoted fanbase saw it as a bold move, the platform saw a policy nightmare.

Industry Fallout & Future Moves
Despite losing a repor...

OnlyFans stars Bonnie Blue and Lily Phillips found themselves embroiled in a highly publicized and controversial rivalry centered around their competing sex-related stunts.

Bonnie Blue first gained attention for her claim of sleeping with 1,057 men in a mere 12 hours, a feat she allegedly documented with "fingerprint" bruises as evidence.

This audacious claim immediately sparked skepticism and debate, with many questioning its plausibility and raising concerns about the potential health risks involved. Enter Lily Phillips, another OnlyFans creator who had planned a similar, albeit slightly less ambitious, stunt to sleep with 1,000 men.

However, Phillips's plans...

In today's digital age, dating apps have become the primary avenue for finding love and companionship. While offering convenience and a vast pool of potential partners, these platforms often lead to a frustrating phenomenon known as "carouseling." This involves engaging in superficial conversations with multiple matches, prioritizing quantity over quality, and ultimately hindering the formation of genuine connections.

Carouseling is characterized by a lack of intentionality. Users swipe endlessly, engaging in shallow banter with numerous matches without making an effort to truly get to know anyone. Conversations often fizzle out quickly, leading to a cycle of fleeting interactions...

Sex-crazed OnlyFans star Bonnie Blue claims she bedded over a THOUSAND men in a single day, smashing the previous record.

The insatiable 25-year-old bragged about her marathon sex session on TikTok, thanking 'barely legal' lads and even married men for their stamina. Critics slam her as 'embarrassing' and 'predatory', but Bonnie insists it's all educational and empowering.

Sex-crazed OnlyFans star Bonnie Blue claims she bedded over a THOUSAND men in a single day, smashing the previous record! The insatiable 25-year-old bragged about her marathon sex session on TikTok, thanking "barely legal" lads and even married men...

Social media is a whirlwind of relationship advice, and the latest trend taking over is the "Let Them Theory." But should you really just "let them" behave badly in your relationship?

This theory, condensed into catchy soundbites and shared across platforms like TikTok and Instagram, encourages people to detach from their partner's problematic behaviors and "let them" act out their issues without consequence or confrontation. Sounds simple, right? But is it really that easy, and more importantly, is it healthy?

We're diving deep into the "Let Them Theory" to uncover the truth behind the trend. We'll...

2024 was quite the year for dating and relationships, wouldn't you say? It was a whirlwind of depravity and debauchery, with trends and tribulations that left many scratching their heads. From the rise of the "nice guy" and the demise of traditional dating to the explosion of sugar daddies and the anxieties of a generation, it was a year that challenged the very foundations of how we connect with one another.

Social media continued its reign as a breeding ground for unrealistic expectations and delusions of grandeur. Filtered photos, shallow connections, and the dreaded friend zone became the norm...

The facade of Justin Baldoni, the pious filmmaker known for his family-friendly image, shattered as shocking allegations surfaced. Blake Lively, his co-star in the film adaptation of Colleen Hoover's "It Ends With Us," accused him of fostering a toxic work environment rife with sexual harassment and misconduct.  

Lively's lawsuit painted a disturbing picture of Baldoni's behavior. It detailed incidents of him sharing explicit content with her, making lewd comments about her body, and even discussing his past struggles with pornography addiction. The director's alleged fixation on sexual themes extended to the film itself, as Lively claimed he insisted o...

OnlyFans model Lily Phillips has certainly captured the internet's attention with her future attempt of sleeping with 1,000 men in a single day. While the logistics of such a feat seem like a Herculean task (pun intended!), the implications of her "sex quest" are no laughing matter.

Phillips' pursuit of viral fame sends a dangerous message to young women who may believe that success in the adult industry hinges solely on extreme sexual acts. It's like saying the only way to win a baking competition is to set yourself on fire while presenting your cake – shocking, maybe, but ultimately ha...

We revisit the ongoing 2024 topic on "The Psychology of Sugar Daddies, Sugar Babies, and Sugar Dating" from February 7, 2024. This episode dives into a study published in The Journal of Sex Research that examined the motivations, dynamics, and stigmas associated with sugar dating relationships. Key topics include:

Motivations: Financial compensation is the primary driver for sugar babies, alongside companionship, emotional connection, and access to a luxurious lifestyle. Sugar daddies are primarily motivated by companionship, intimacy, and the thrill of relationships with younger partners.

Demographics: The study highlighted a significant age gap, with sugar babies averaging 28 years old...

In the world of sugar dating, two recent stories reveal the extreme highs and devastating lows of this controversial lifestyle. While one woman flaunts her luxurious rewards, another faces the horrifying consequences of a toxic relationship.

On the glamorous side, Kick streamer and Instagram/OnlyFans model Ivy Wren recently live-streamed a Black Friday shopping spree inside a high-end jewelry store. Accompanied by her older, gray-haired sugar daddy, identified only as “Terry” in the stream, IvyWren showcased the perks of her relationship. Followers watched as she picked out extravagant pieces, with Terry footing the bill. Her stream garnered thousands of v...

Meet Aine, the 22-year-old 'Sugar Baby Sensation' from the quiet streets of Cavite in the Philippines, whose life took a dramatic U-turn when she stumbled upon the secret world of sugar daddies and their golden handshakes. With the Philippines now a hotbed for this lucrative love market, boasting over a quarter million sugar babies raking in an average of P52,000 a month, according to SPOT.ph, it's no wonder young women like Aine are signing up in droves for a taste of the high life!

But hold onto your hat, because this isn't your typical love story with...

Amidst the rise of "throning" and "situationships," the new generation's approach to relationships is questioned by dating experts and feminists alike.

The digital age has transformed the way we interact and communicate, leaving no stone unturned in the realm of romance and sexual relationships. Generation Z, known for their unique approach to intimacy and commitment, is facing a backlash for their unconventional methods of dating and involvement in sex work, which some argue is a stark departure from feminist ideals.

According to a recent article by Fortune, the dating world is seeing a new trend called "...

The "4B" movement, born in South Korea, has begun capturing attention across the U.S., sparking heated debates on social media.

(We reported on this back in May!)

The movement is an acronym for four tenets that reject what members see as societal pressures on women: "No dating, no sex, no marriage, and no childbirth." Rooted in disillusionment with traditional expectations, 4B's followers, largely young women, seek autonomy in a male-dominated society. Amid the U.S. election climate, the movement has tapped into broader discussions on gender roles, sparking interest from individuals across political and ideological...

As holiday season approaches, dating apps see a surge in usage, with singles turning to platforms like Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge for potential romantic matches. Yet, beneath the allure of festive flings, there’s a darker side to the dating app world: an addiction cycle akin to gambling, with platforms designed to keep users constantly swiping in search of “the one.” This setup, critics say, often leaves users trapped in a cycle of temporary highs, frequent disappointments, and, for some young men, a growing fatigue that’s driving them to take dangerous risks abroad.

Dating apps have been describe...

In today's economy, many women are turning to side hustles to make ends meet. Some are driving for Uber, others are selling their crafts on Etsy. But a growing number of women are finding a more unconventional way to supplement their income: sugar daddies.
A recent article in Refinery29 tells the story of a 32-year-old freelance journalist who has been using a sugar daddy to help her pay the bills. She's not alone. According to a recent survey, more than 1 million women in the United States are currently using sugar daddy websites.
For many women, the appeal of...

Move over, compatibility quizzes and love languages! TikTok has unleashed a new wave of "dating tests" designed to reveal hidden truths about your relationship. But are these viral trends harmless fun or a recipe for disaster?
One popular example, the "Orange Peel Theory," suggests that a partner's willingness to peel an orange for you signifies their true level of affection. Another, the "Bird Test," involves observing your partner's reaction to a distressed bird to gauge their empathy.
These tests, often presented with a playful tone, have taken the platform by storm, racking up millions of views and sparking...

In the realm of modern dating, where complexities and anxieties often prevail, a fascinating concept has emerged, offering a unique perspective on relationship dynamics. The "bucket theory" of dating, popularized by TikTok personality Courtney Shields, provides a framework for understanding how individuals navigate the search for a fulfilling partnership. This theory, which divides potential partners into three distinct categories or "buckets," sheds light on why some people may find themselves entangled in toxic relationships despite their best intentions.

At the heart of the bucket theory lies the idea that individuals subconsciously categorize potential partners based on their perceived...

This discussion offers a candid and insightful look into the modern dating landscape, exploring the pitfalls of dating apps and the challenges individuals face in finding genuine connections. The speakers delve into the frustrations of navigating paywalls and superficial interactions on dating apps, which often prioritize profit over meaningful matches. This can lead to a sense of disillusionment and fatigue, prompting some to explore alternative avenues like sugar daddy websites in their search for companionship and a sense of importance.

However, the conversation goes beyond simply criticizing dating apps. It emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and respect for...

As societal expectations continue to evolve, one question increasingly haunts many women: Can I afford to be single? It’s not just a financial burden, but an emotional and existential one, exacerbated by a modern culture that celebrates independence and casual relationships while often leaving women unfulfilled.

For decades, the feminist movement has championed the notion that women do not need men for financial or emotional support, promoting autonomy and independence. This ideology, while empowering in many ways, has also fostered a new kind of challenge for the modern woman. In the pursuit of careers, financial independence, and se...

In a world obsessed with youth and perfection, the new film "The Substance" explores the dark side of beauty culture and the immense pressure women face to conform to unrealistic standards. The movie follows the story of an aging TV star, played by Demi Moore, who discovers a mysterious potion that can restore her youth and beauty. However, this seemingly miraculous solution comes at a terrifying cost.

"The Substance" serves as a chilling metaphor for the lengths women go to in pursuit of unattainable beauty ideals. It highlights the toxic impact of social media, where curated images of...

Yanina and Viktoriya Strylets, the founders of the dating app company SCiMatch, discusses their groundbreaking app, highlighting its unique features and how it utilizes AI to enhance compatibility.

They emphasized the importance of looking beyond physical appearance for a successful relationship and addressed the issue of dating app fatigue. The conversation then shifted towards the concept of personality-based matchmaking, which utilizes AI to identify personality traits. SCiMatch differentiates itself by focusing on fostering genuine connections and not on hookups or superficial relationships.

The AI technology, SCiMatch, predicts personality traits and matches individuals based on compatibility, also...

"Simps, Sugar Babies, and the Sticky Situation of Online 'Love' - Just in Time for Cuffing Season!" As the leaves start to fall and the pumpkin spice lattes flow, so too does the annual phenomenon known as "cuffing season." It's that time of year when singletons scramble to find a warm body to snuggle up with during the chilly winter months. And in the digital age, where love is just a swipe away, the "simp" is ready and waiting to offer their heart (and wallet) on a silver platter.
But hold on tight, folks, because this cuffing season is...

The DiCaprio Effect: More Than Just Feeling Young. A relationship expert weighs in on how the A-lister is dating someone outside of his typical dating trend.

The whispers began long before it became a meme. Leonardo DiCaprio, Hollywood's golden boy, seemed to have an unspoken rule: no girlfriend over the age of 25. A string of high-profile relationships with models and actresses - Gisele Bundchen, Bar Refaeli, Blake Lively, Camila Morrone - all ended as they approached their mid-twenties.

The internet dubbed it the "DeCaprio Effect," spawning countless jokes and think pieces. Some defended his right to...

Pop artist Chappell Roan recently addressed escalating concerns over toxic fan behavior after a series of incidents where fans allegedly overstepped personal boundaries.

The controversy gained traction when videos on TikTok revealed fans stalking Roan outside her home, prompting her to issue a statement condemning such actions.

While some fans criticized her response as dismissive, others supported Roan's stance, emphasizing the importance of respecting artists' privacy. The situation has sparked broader discussions on the nature of fandom and the pressures artists face in maintaining boundaries with their audiences.

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