Happy Growing

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By: Verena Berndt

Thank you for being here. Happy Growing is a personal podcast for you and with you. It shares knowledge and stories about life challenges, dealing with change, loving yourself, finding joy, building healthy relationships, finding your passion and following your intuition. Verena talks about her life in her 20s as a German living in London and travelling as much as possible. In addition, Happy Growing hosts guests who are professionals in mental health and wellbeing, business owners, experts in spirituality and coaching and much more. It is also a space for you to share your story. Your engagement is encouraged...

#138 - I am changing & so is the Podcast
03/06/2024

Since August 2021, Happy Growing has been a big part of my life and there hasnā€™t been one week without a new episode. I have taken you on travels, recorded in closets in AirBnBs and somehow always had ideas and time that I wanted to share with you. Not to mention all the incredible guests & stories I got to learn about & share on Happy Growing.

I have been saying for a while how my life has been changing. In a way, itā€™s been changing drastically since Iā€™ve started this podcast. But since last summer, more things...


#137 - Grieving a life you could've had
02/28/2024

Sometimes, your life turns out differently than planned. And that can be for many reasons. It might be that something unexpected happened, that you realised you actually want your life to be different, that your plans were dependent on another person and your relationship with them ended, or so much more.

No matter if your life changes for the positive or negative, you deserve to grieve the life you thought you might live. You deserve time to let go, say goodbye, or sometimes out your plans on hold and knowing that what you want will happen eventually...


#136 - Going against society's norms
02/21/2024

I donā€™t know about you, but for me, not following my dreams and fitting into societyā€™s expectations and ideals instead, means living a life of unfulfillment.

This week, I talk about the internal conflict of following a life you want to life or doing it the way you should be. And the confusion of finding out what dreams and goals are really yours, and which you have been made to believe by others.
You learn how to find your right path in life and how you can embrace your freedom as an act of self...


#135 - Valentine's Special: How I learnt to love myself again
02/14/2024

Happy Valentineā€™s Day, lovely people. If you celebrate it or not, today and the past few weeks have been all about love.

As we know, the most important love in your life is the one you have for yourself. Itā€™s about the connection and relationship with yourself. As Iā€™ve shared with you before, I went through a journey of finding back to myself and learning to love myself again last year. So, I put together all the amazing things that helped me along my journey of finding back to myself and that I know can su...


#134 - Is Fairytale-Love real?
02/07/2024

The love-at-first-sight-happy-ever-after-loves, donā€™t we know them all? Or at least from film and books? Or maybe even from our grandparents, the older generation? But what is the reality of a love like this now?

Our fast-paced modern society seems to be applying all-present overconsumption, capitalism and an unrealistic want for a perfect life driven my social media to the reality of modern love. Modern love is seeing too many options, ghosting, being indecisive, unclear about who we are and what we want and about ending things as soon as they appear slightly inconvenient.

But ca...


#133 - Opening up
01/31/2024

Opening up is one of the strongest and bravest things you can do. Itā€™s something that you can be incredibly proud of.

Though, many of us are finding it difficult to open up, and that can be for many different reasons. Maybe you havenā€™t learnt how to, maybe you were told not to talk about feelings or maybe you have had a negative experience being vulnerable with someone. No matter your reasons, itā€™s all human, normal and something thatā€™s part of your journey.

This weekā€™s episode is about vulnerability in our societ...


#132 - It's about the small things yet to happen
01/24/2024

Itā€™s always about the next big move in life. Itā€™s about the career progress, getting married, having babies, travelling to certain places and all the materialistic wishes becoming reality. But none of this is ever something on its own. There is so much more.

If you think back in time, how many first kisses, great meals, good conversation, laughs and cries and even smiles come to your mind? Iā€™m sure there are many. And weirdly, sometimes we donā€™t even know why something has stuck with us and grown into such a special memory.


#131 - Advice to my younger self
01/17/2024

With a lot of personal growth thatā€™s been happening over the past couple of months, Iā€™ve had a lot of understandings and insights surrounding myself that I felt I wanted to share with my past-self. And with you.

Iā€™ve done an episode giving myself advice before, in December 2021 (Ep. 20). A lot has changed since then and at the same time, I feel like Iā€™m getting closer to a version of me I used to be.

This episode is full of personal talk, emotional support, important reminders and proof that we are in this...


#130 - Romanticising January
01/10/2024

Many of us see January as a rather depressing month. Itā€™s still dark and cold, but the holidays have just passed and there isnā€™t much to look forward to. We have to adjust to the new year and there might even be pressures put on us by the capitalistic stream of ways to ā€˜betterā€™ ourselves for the new year.

But there are many ways of making this month, and the following colder months, much more enjoyable, fun and a beautiful start to creating a year with many things you have never done before. Itā€™s all about...


#129 - Your most important goals for 2024
01/03/2024

At the beginning of a new year we are always bombarded with new ways and products and subscriptions and plans to make ourselves ā€˜betterā€™. But most of it creates stress and pressure and is far off from actually improving our lives.

There are really only very few things that make your life better, and non have anything to do with trying to make you ā€˜betterā€™ - because you are already amazing and unique just the way you are.

In this first episode of 2024, I talke about your most important goals to work on this year and all...