Strictly Anonymous Confessions

Lee’s wife is hooking up solo with the guys and he called in to take all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how he met his current wife, both of their relationships prior to meeting each other, his experience with a guy  he had early on, how he told his wife about everything he has done, what they then both copped to being into, w they got into hotwifing and the first black guy they hooked up with and what went down, the white guy they both played wit and why it wasn’t that...

Mrs. P is now in a Stag/Vixen marriage and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and when she met her current husband and what both of their past relationships were like, how her hubby coached her into getting in touch with her fantasies, their first visit to swinger club and exactly what went down including her hooking up with a woman and attempting a couple swap, how and why she wasn’t into couple swapping at all but why she did it anyway, how and when both he...

BONUS EP: Tune in to this bonus episode to hear Kathy and Luna answer one more listener’s question. How to feel good about your body both in and out of the bedroom? Tune in to find out plus hear all the details including talk all about how to rebuild body confidence when you don’t believe compliments yet, why self-esteem really does have to come from yourself, why no amount of reassurance from a partner will fix how you feel if you don’t feel good in your own body, and why women are way more critical of their...

Sex therapist Carrie Morris called in to discuss kinks and fetishes. shame, polyamory and so much more. Tune in to hear all the details including how she defines herself sexually, why she became a sex therapist, what is the root of shame, are people born with a fetish or are they developed over time, how and why controlling your fetish is important, how fetishes and kinks can help people with through trauma as opposed to making someones trauma worse, how she helps people come to terms with their fetish, purging and why it doesn’t work, why acceptance of yo...

Sissy Madeline is a gender fluid crossdresser who hooks up with men and women and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including when he started wearing feminine clothing, when he realized he was into guys, when he started buying clothing and what he bought, how and why he came out to people about everything he was into, how and why he now identifies as now as queer, what he went through to get to the point to accept himself, how his parents were very conservative and how and when he...

Mike was an accidental cuck who loved being cucked and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how he was highly sexual when he was younger and why, the threesome he had with his wife early on in their relationship and exactly what went down, how she copped to being into black guys and the first black guy she guy she hooked up with solo, the next guy she hooks up with and what went down, the three guy situation she surprised him with and how he felt about it...

What is it like to be in a non-monogamous relationship and did Doc Chocolate and Fun Charlie take part in a foursome on their first date??? Tune in to find out and hear all the details including why they were both single but looking for a partner while in the lifestyle, how both their first lifestyle relationships didn’t work out and why they didn’t work out, how and why they both didn’t like being single in lifestyle, what they were both looking for in a partner and why non-monogamy was a must have for the both of the...

Angelica and her husband just hooked up with a bull with a bbc and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and when she met her husband, the first guy she was with who wanted her to f- his best friend, when her husband first brought up his interest in another guy joining them and how she felt about it, the tools they bought into the bedroom to start simulating a threesome, when and how that led to them going on the apps to look for a guy, the...

Ava started hooking up with couples, having mmf threesomes and more after her divorce and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including the first guy after her divorce that she started dating and the kinky this they did that opened her up to trying more,  the app she went on to start having NSA hook-ups, the first couple she met up with and exactly what went down, the first time she went down on a woman how she felt about it, the second couple she met up with and what w...

BONUS EP! Tune in to this bonus episode to hear Kathy and Luna answer more listeners questions. How can a guy open up to his girl about wanting to be pegged? An, how can someone have a meaningful booty call?? Tune in to find out plus hear all the details including how being into pegging isn’t “gay,” how a lot of women are surprised they dig it, why a girl might be not be into it, how to get your partner into anal, the knuckle move that always works, do intimate booty calls even exist, how Luna likes her bo...

Ricky and Lucy both got into hardcore softs waping after they both got onto hrt and they both called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how his penile implant is 3 years later and how and why advocates for implants, how being able to customizing the implant works for Lucy, how they are both on hormones and how it has made them horny, when they decided to start soft swapping, how they wound up at their first sex party, the rule they had going in and exactly what went down, the first...

Fern is into sex toys, domming women, subbing for men and more and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including the Motorbunny and Pika sex toys and why both she and Kathy love them so much, when she realized she was into kink, how and why she enjoys donning women but wants to submit to men, how she educated herself in badsm and kink, the kinks she’s into and why including eye contact, sensory play, shibari, wartenberg wheel and more, the gold star lesbian she dated and how she fi...

Riley is a bisexual cuckquean into creampies, squirting and more and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how she always knew she was bisexual and how she was honest about that with her boyfriend, how they wound up in a foursome with his best friend and his girlfriend and exactly what went down, how she continued to hook up with the girl and how and why the other girls boyfriend was a little jealous, how they continued to have threesomes with her and how that ended badly, how and...

Lexi Sylver, called in to discuss swinger club orgy and hook up etiquette, how to swing with a partner and more. Tune in to hear her discuss the typical newbie questions she hears all the time, how she got into the swinger world solo, her first solo experience and exactly what went down and how and why she realized she was an exhibitionsit, newbie meet-ups and what goes down at them, how to navigate your first time in club, the prep a couple should do prior to going to your firt swingers club, group sex etiquette in sex clubs...

John turned his hotwifing fantasy into a reality and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and when he realized he was into hotwifing, when he realized his wife was into it too, how they started out fantasizing about it and how they turned it into a reality, the first guy they met up with and exactly was went down with him, the boundaries they had going in and what wound up happening, the next guy they met up with online and exactly what went down including how he...

Matt and Marie recently started hotwiging and they both called in to talk all about it.  Tune in to hear all the details including what his wife did that made him realize he was into hotwifing, how and when he let her know about his kink and what they did about it at first, how and when he got her into meeting a guy in person, the first guy they met up with, what went down and how and why Matt didn't feel right about their first few encounters, the first time Marie did fully hook up with the g...

Ally Iseman, Modern Relationship coach called in to talk all about jealousy, mistakes in relationships, cheating definitions and more. Tune in to find out how and why she prefers "modern relationships" vs non-monogamous, monogamous, poly etc., how and why she sees jealousy as a tool in a relationship, what to do with jealousy when it does comes up, how “mistakes” in relationships can actually help the relationship, boundaries and rules and agreements and how they differ, how and why asking your partner what cheating means to them is important to know, her open relationship and her cuckquean gone wrong stor...

Tune in to this bonus episode ate hear Kathy and Luna answer listeners questions. How can a gy find a woman who would be down to got to sex parties with him? How can a guy who has been in a sexless relationship get back his confidence in the bedroom and how can a couple avoid awkward role playing scenarios??? Tune in to find out plus hear all about the apps and places where people will most likely find likeminded partners, greta advice for inexperienced guys, how to approach sex with a new partner, big balls and how and...

Alex is Into pantyhose and crossdressing and his wife now know and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including when he realized he was first  into hose and high heels, how he got caught wearing and how his parents reacted, where he’s stole his hose

from at first, how and when he started hooking up while wearing hose with his guy friend and what would go down, when and how he got his first gf into wearing hose for him and how she felt about him having the...

Lena got pregnant by her married boss and had an affair with her high school teacher and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how she wound up having g an affair with her teacher in high school, and exactly what went down between them, how and why that affair wired her into liking older guys, the older married guys she started sleeping with at her job and how and why they’re would pay her to hang out with them, how she met her husband and how and why sh...

Mr. Mocha was a stud for couples and now he's swinging with Mrs. Mocha and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how he wound up banging his co-workers wife in his twenties and exactly what went down, the next guy who asked him to bang his wife and what went down including exactly how he cucked the guy, the swinger club experiences he had early on and what would go down while he was there, the first adult website he went on and how and why he wound up...

Layla came on to interview me about my brand-new book and we wound up talking about so much more. Tune in to hear all the details including the unexpected way I started my show and how Craigslist became the gift that kept on giving, how and why non-monogamy can work out and why it’s important it is that people know that, how and why revealing your fantasies is the key to good sex, the hotwife fantasy and why a lot of guys lie about it, how and why some MILFs wind up totally changing the game in the be...

Lizzie and her wife are having threesomes with her wife and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how she met her wife and how they both label themselves sexually, how they were both in other relationships and cheating at first and how they fell in love and wound up together, their first hook up with each other and exactly what went down, how and when they started talking about having threesomes with guys, how and where they started ooking for guys and the boundaries they set up ahead of...

Jamal on getting busted, going to prison, prison sex and a wholeeeeee lot more. Tune in to hear all the details including the early trauma he encountered including his father’s total disapproval of his sexuality, how and why he started taking crystal meth, how and when he started going to adult bookstores and sex parties, how and why he lost his virginity, how he got busted by the feds and what exactly went down, the difference between state and federal prisons, the “booty bandit” in jail and what that’s code for, how he hooked up with one of his f...

Layla and Kathy discuss horny women in their forties, HRT, slow fucking, dry humping and more. Tune in to hear all the details including how women in their forties are hornier than ever and why, how and why pellets are a game changer when it comes to sex drive, how peri-menopause is a woman’s ovaries hurrah and how that plays into why women are so horny during that time, how and why you don’t need to lose your sex drive after menopause, HRT and sex drive after menopause, how to get your sex drive back without hormones, the O...

Tucker is into adult arcades, gloryholes, gangbangs and more and he called in to talk all about it. When did he first realize he was into guys? When did he go to his first adult arcade? What exactly does he like to do when he’s there? Tune in for all the details including the first time he saw a guy showering when he was younger and how that effected him, the bathhouses and arcades he frequented while in college, the first time he went into a gloryhole and exactly what went down, how his ex wife caught him ch...

Tune in to hear a bunch of anonymous cheating confessions plus get Kathy’s take on them. Why do men cheat on women? Why do women cheat on men? And once someone cheats will they always be a cheater? Tune in to find out plus hear from a guy who can’t stop secretly groping his wife’s best friend under the table when the wife is sitting right there, Morgan (ep. #479) who had a free pass to start hotwifing but instead wound up cheating on her husband Jay (ep #52), a guy who thinks he might have a porn and se...

Halle (ep #956) hotwifes solo now and tapes it for her husband and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the detials including how she got her sex drive back after losing it after menopause, how and why they decided she should start playing solo with guys vs. the MFM threesomes they normally enjoy, the rules they have for solo play, her first solo play and what went down, the three guys she hooked up with in one week and how and why she enjoyed it, the guy they met up with on vacation...

Natalie's Husband Cheated and then they started swinging and now they’re poly and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and when her husband had an affair and how she found out, how and why she stayed with him and how that led to them going to their first swingers club, their first swinger club experience and what went down, their first couple swap and what went down and how she felt about it, how and why she wasn’t jealous seeing her husband with another woman, how husb...

Cate (ep. #1238) is now into women, swinger resorts and clubs, being an exhibitionist and more and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the detials including when her and her husband decided to open things up, the app they went on and what they went looking for, the first unicorn they met up it’s and exactly what went down including the woman using a strap with her, the nudist sex resort they went to next and exactly what went down with their hook ups there, the second time they went and exactly wh...

Kathy decided to answer a whole list of questions guys are always dying to ask women. Tune in to hear her answer all the questions plus discuss what women really think about body count, whether we actually like dick pics, how often girls masturbate, if waking us up for sex is hot or annoying, whether nice guys really finish last, why women go to the bathroom together, if a wedding ring stops flirting, the most excitable spots on a woman’s body, how to ask for a blowjob without being a dick, and a whole lot more.

Dr. Elliot called in to talk all about penis pumps, tech cock rings, nocturnal erections and a whole lot more. Tune in to hear all the details including how and why a man’s nocturnal erections are a leading indicator of cardiovascular disease, why blood-flow data is key to men’s sexual health, why just taking a “pill” isn’t enough,  how and why he’s now selling a penis pump along with his tech cock ring, the study that showed what a penis pump can actually do for erections, the study comparing his cock ring to Cialis and Viagra and wh...

Lilith is into domming and pegging guys and more and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including when and why she decided to join Fetlife and what she was looking for at first, when she realized she was into domming guys, the first munch she went to and how the guys there treated her, the first hook up she had domming a guy and exactly what went down, her experience with “ sounding” with him and what exactly it is, how and why she enjoys pegging the guys she meets up with...

Bethenny  is dating and sleeping with four guys all at once and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how her first threesome led her to dating two guys at once, how she fell for and started hooking up with the other two guys, how she felt when’s she started copping feelings for all of them, how all the guys are friends and the rules they have set in place, how three of the live with her and how she enjoys having sex with all of them in front of...

Dr. Zhana, PhD, NYU professor of Sexuality, called in to talk all about sex and science and how and why some people are actually wired for non-monogamy and kinky sex. Tune in to hear all the details including the fair amount of evidence out there that shows there’s a strong genetic component to some people being way more open sexually than others, how and why non-monogamy should be an option for certain people, her early curiosity toward sex and sexual exploration and how that led her to study sexuality in college, the stigma she faced and how and wh...

Socrates was a swinger, then a bull  and now he’s in a stag/vixen relationship and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how he got into the lifestyle with his first QOS wife and what they started doing, the Vegas swinging party that he went to and how and why he realized then he was a stag and also wanted to be a bull one day. what went down between the bull and his wife, how and why his first wife had negative feelings about lifestyle, how he bec...

Jen cheated on Corey and he got turned on by it and now she's a hotwife and they both called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including when Corey realized he was into sharing his partner, Jens poly relationship when she was younger and the group sex it led to, how and why she was cheating on him galore, how he found out and how he felt about it, how they used her cheating to get into hotwifing, how Corey turned his jealousy into a turn on, why she was afraid to...

Here's a quick entertaining, bonus episode featuring Adam and Kathy discussing the Strictly Anonymous, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers book pre-orders, X rated Discord access and more. Tune in to hear what's coming up on the remaining Sundays in 2026 and why, sex book writing and how hard it was for Kathy to actually write her book, how annoying Kathy was when writing her book,  how and why she's NOT doing the audio book version that will be coming out, why the book date was pushed out, what you will still get if you pre-order book before 12/3 plus a b...

Annie called in to talk all about her experience with the Oshot, female viagra and oxytocin and testosterone cream and how it all led to her taking in seven guys in one night!!! Tune in to hear all the details including her first Oshot experience, what it was like and what it did for her, the guy she banged afterwards and what went down with him, how and why she got a second Oshot experience and how that one turned out, the functional doctor she saw and how and why she then went on viagra cream and then testosterone...

Bran is into dommes, being humiliated, sph and more and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including what led to him being into humiliation, the super hot domme he met, the online humiliation experiences he had before he met up with her, exactly what went down during their sessions, how he would try to get vanilla girls into dominating him, how he got into sph and how small his dick really is, what his domme would say and do to humiliate his size,   how and when he got Into being c...