Strictly Anonymous Confessions

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By: Kathy Kay

Strictly Anonymous Confessions is a raw, unfiltered podcast where real people call in to share their most personal, intimate, naughty, and sometimes shocking stories, while remaining completely anonymous. Nothing is off limits. Kathy dives deep with callers, asking the questions everyone is thinking but rarely says, creating honest, judgment-free conversations you won’t hear anywhere else. If you’ve ever wondered what people are really doing, thinking, and hiding behind closed doors, this is the podcast for you. For advertising opportunities please email strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com THE BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total...

1375 - Colin had Herpes, Then Didn’t Have it, Then Had it Again but Now Doesn’t Have It???
Today at 11:30 AM

Colin had herpes and then didn’t have it and then had it again but now doesn’t have it and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the crazy details including when he found out he had herpes and what he was prescribed, when he met his wife and how she reacted when he told her he had herpes, the herpes study he took part in that led to him finding out he didn’t have it, the two different tests they use to diagnose it and what indeterminate means for the patien...


1371 - Derrick is a Pleasure Dom who Gives Erotic Massages to Women and Couples
Yesterday at 11:30 AM

Derrick loves giving erotic massages to women and couples and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how he realized he was into giving erotic massages, when he decided to post online looking for women he could massage, how and why he cals himself a pleasure dom and why he prefers his sessions to be non-reciprocal, the type of women who responded to his posts, the questionnaire that he created and the questions he has on it,, the average time he spends on an erotic massage, exactly what does down...


1373 - NAUGHTY CONFESSIONS: She's a Cuckquean, Her Girlfriend Just Dumped her, She has the Hottest Cheating Confession and More w/Kathy
Last Thursday at 11:30 AM

Tune in to hear a whole bunch of naughty confessions then hear what I think about them. First you’ll hear from a girl who happens to be a cuckquean, then you’ll hear from a male cuck, then you’ll hear all about a couple who lost a ton of weight and then opened up their marriage and you’ll hear all about what they’ve done, then from a true stag who called to vent about finding a bull, then former guest Ashley (ep 740) calls in with a major update, and then you’ll hear from a woman who ha...


1372 -How to Turn a Hotwifing Fantasy Into Reality w/ Zach
Last Wednesday at 11:30 AM

Zach wants his wife’s hotwifing fantasy to become a reality and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including when he started thinking his wife was into the thought of being with other guys, how and when he realized he was into her thinking about other guys and realized he was into cuckolding and hotwifing, the toys he bought to introduce hotwifing to her in the bedroom, the app he bought that had her answering questions about her fantasies and the ones they matched on, how and when he told he...


1371 - Josie is Into Pegging her Guy, Threesomes, Fisting and More
Last Tuesday at 11:30 AM

Josie is into pegging her guy, fisting, threesomes and more and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including when she met her husband (ep #1350) and how she knew he was open minced in the bedroom, how she feels about anal herself, the threesomes and couple swaps that they had when they were first married, the unicorn they shared for awhile and what went down, the naughty massage massage they recently had overseas and exactly what went down, when they got into pegging and what went down, how she felt about...


1370 - Sara is a Hotwife who Recently Attended Splash Mocha
Last Monday at 11:30 AM

Sara is a hotwife who recently attended Splash Mocha with her husband Matt (ep. #1363) and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and why her husband loved hearing about her promiscuous past, what she actually did in her past, the dom/sub dynamic  she had and what she enjoys most about it, how she felt about her husband being into guys and how it got them into looking for guys for her to hook up with, the first guy she hooked up with and what went down and why i...


1369 - Fave Sex Position, Naughty Fantasy Hook-ups, Threesome Sex? and More Q&A w/Kathy
Last Sunday at 11:30 AM

In this episode, Kathy asks herself a bunch of sexy questions she thinks every couple should be asking each other. How old was she when she first had sex and what was her first time like? What’s her favorite sex position? Where does she most like to be touched? Has she ever had a threesome? Sent naked pics? Been caught having sex? Fantasized about someone inappropriate? Tried BDSM? Had sex in public? Regretted sleeping with someone? Plus, she answers and talks about soo much more. 


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1368 - What do Women Need in the Bedroom w//Kevin
02/14/2026

What women need in the bedroom? Kevin Anthony calls in to discuss the eight specific things that women need in the bedroom before they can relax and have a really good time. Tune in to hear all the details including how safety ad trust are different but are both important in the bedroom, how and why safety is number one and what that means in the bedroom, trust and now not having it can hurt a women’s orgasm, connection and how and why its different for women compared to men, what women considered great sex, why non-monogamous couples ar...


1038 - BONUS EPISODE: BJs for VD! A Valentine's Day PSA
02/13/2026

This is an important Valentine's Day PSA. What should you give and NOT give your partner on Valentine's Day?? Whether your partner is a guy or girl or even if you're single, tune in for all the details including why it doesn't matter if you're single on Valentine's Day and how to make it work for you, why you should swallow even if you never have on this day, why deep throating isn't really necessary when competing for the best bj, why balloons are not an appropriate gift for any guy, why flowers at work for any girl rule...


1367 - Crystal is a CD, into Guys, Hoods and Latex and More
02/13/2026

Crystal is a crossdresser into guys, specific kinks and more and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including when he realized he was into wearing feminine clothing, when he realize the was into guys and how he labels himself, the style of dress he enjoys, when he got into pegging and who got him into it, how he would dress up on the DL and how no one ever found out, the hood and mask and latex he likes to wear, the dominatrix he saw and what would go down...


1365 - Vanessa & Her Husband are Into Couple Swapping, Threesomes, Water Sports and More
02/12/2026

Vanessa and her husband are into ffm threesomes, couple swapping, water sports and more and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including her first experience with a girl and how far they went, when her husband first copped to being into water sports, their first water sport experience and what went down, the first woman she met who she went all the way with and exactly what went down, how her husband felt when she told him she had hooked up with her without him knowing, how and when they...


1364 - Will Cheated on his Now Ex-Wife & Got Caught two Times
02/11/2026

Will cheated on his now ex-wife and got caught two separate times and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and why he was lways looking for validation from women early on, when the cheating started with his wife, the first person he cheated on his wife with and the weird kink she had,  how and why he confessed to his cheating on his wife the first time and how she reacted, what he used to justify his cheating, the cam girl he cheated on his wife with and wh...


1363 - Matt Recently Got his Wife Into Hotwifing
02/10/2026

Matt recently got his wife into hotwifing and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear how and when and why they recently decided to open up their marriage, his one time hook up with a guy when he was younger and how his wife felt about it, what they went looking for when they went online, the first guy they met up with and why it didn’t work out, the nest three guys they met up with and exactly what went down and why those experiences weren’t ideal either,  the rules they had g...


1362 - Dove is a Cuckquean who is Very Into Women
02/09/2026

Dove recently realized she’s a cuckquean and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including why she started an Onlyfans awhile back, how she became successful and why she stopped, how and when she realized she was into women, the first girl she hooked up with, exactly what went down and how she felt about going all the way with her, how and why she proposed a threesome between with the girl and her husband, exactly what went down and how he filmed it, how that experience made her realize sh...


1361 - What Women Think About During Sex, How Long Do Women Want to be Pounded, How Can you Tell When She’s Faking it and More w/Adam
02/08/2026

Adam called in to ask Kathy a few questions including what women are thinking about during sex that might surprise guys, how long is too long when it comes to the actual intercourse part of the act, how do girls typically let you know they’ve had enough, how common is it for women to fake their orgasms, does condom sex feel different then sex without one as well as what some are really looking at when they go to your house first time. Tune in to find out plus hear all about what guys are thinking about sex, ho...


1360 - Steve’s ED Led to him Finding Out he Had a Prolactinoma
02/07/2026

Steve’s erectile dysfunction issues led to him finding out he had a prolactinoma and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all he details including the issues he was having that sent him to the doctor, how he was diagnosed with low testosterone and why his doctor ordered more tests, how he then earned he had a prolactinoma, why he wasn’t able to surgiclly remove it, the doctor who gave him a grim diagnosis, the first drug he took and the side effects he experienced, how the side effects led to him chea...


1359 - Ted is Into Guys, Gloryholes, Hooking up with Couples & Dressing-up
02/06/2026

Ted is into guys, gloryholes, hooking up with couples and dressing up and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including when he realized he was fluid, the first guy he hooked up with and what went down, how he wound up at his first sex party and hooked up with a couple and what went down, how he got into going to gloryholes and what went down during his first experience, the types of guys he would see while there, the time he went to the glory hole fully dressed...


1358 - NAUGHTY CONFESSIONS: A Lesbian Affair in Vegas, A Guy into GILFS, A Guy who Gets Off on Sharing his Girl’s Naughty Pics and More!
02/05/2026

Tune in to hear a bunch of anonymous, super naughty confessions plus get Kathy’s take on them. You’ll hear from a girl who had a last minute lesbian hook up in Vegas, a guy who gets off on showing his girl’s sexy photos to everyone he knows, a guy who digs really older women, a woman who just became a unicorn to a couple and finally feels liberated and a guy who’s girl wants to f*** other men and he’s having reservations. Plus hear Kathy discuss why Arnold wound up banging his maid, her experience...


1357 - Ryan is into Prostate Massage and Couple Swapping with his Wife
02/04/2026

Ryan is into prostate massage and couple swapping with his wife and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and when he got into prostate massaging, exactly how he had his first prostate orgasm, how even just playing with his taint increases the strength of his orgasms, how him and his wife wound up in their first hook up with their neighbors and exactly what went down, why his wife shut it down and how and when they started things up again, the first couple they hooked up with...


1356 - Brian is a Bull Who's in a Throuple with a Couple
02/03/2026

Brian is a bull in a throuple with & he’s in a throuple with a couple and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and why considers himself a sigma male, how and when and where he got into he lifestyle, the first hotwife event he attended and what went down, how he evolved from being a bull to being the stag with his new girl, how he got into banging couples when he came back to the states and where he’d find them, tips on how guy’s shou...


1335 - Al and Phoebe are Into Sex Parties, Threesome with Men and Women & More
02/02/2026

Al and Phoebe are into sex parties, threesomes with men and women and more and they both called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how they met and how big their age gap is, what they bonded over at first and how and why they both were just looking to hook-up, when they decided to have their first threesome with his guy friend and what went down, their first sex party and what went down, the hotel sex party they went to and what went down, how they felt seeing each...


1354 - Deep Throating, How to Bang a MILF, What Women Really Want in Bed and More w/Adam
02/01/2026

Adam called in o ask Kathy a few questions including what makes sex bad and what can a guy do to make sex great with a woman, how to complimenting works during sex, what is number one thing all women like in the bedroom, how can a guy find out what turns a girl on, how to get your girl into deep throating and anal, what to do and what not to do to bang a MILF, and do age gap relationships work. Tune in to hear Kathy’s answers plus hear them both discuss how and why complimenting wo...


1353 - How to Last Longer & Maximize Your Pleasure in the Bedroom & More w/Jeff Abraham
01/31/2026

Jeff Abraham, CEO of Promescent called in to talk all about premature ejaculation, maximizing pleasure in the bedroom and more. Tune in to hear him discuss how and why guys are embarrassed by premature ejaculation and why they shouldn’t be, the physical reasons for PE vs the mental ones, how long it takes the average male and female to have an orgasm and the gap that exists between the two, the “layering effect” that can happen due to lack of communication about the orgasm gap, how many guys have chronic PE vs. acute PE, the typical age premature ejacul...


1352 - Angelica’s Crossdressing Might Be Ruining Another One of his Relationships
01/30/2026

Angelica’s crossdressing might be ruining his relationship and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including the first time he realized he was into crossdressing, how he felt when he first fully dressed up, when and how he got caught and how they reacted, how he and when he started going out to a drag bar dressed up and what he’d do while he was there, the first girl who asked him to dress up an wear make up and how she reacted when she found out he was into...


1351 - Amy is Hardcore and Hotwifing, Threesomes, Multiple Men and More
01/29/2026

Amy is hardcore and is into hotwifing, threesomes, gangbangs, and more and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and why she brought up wanting to hook up with women to her husband and what went down, their first experiences at swingers clubs and what went down, their first couple swap and the rules they had going in, why they started having threesome with guys and hotwifing instead, her husband ong term female partner and how that all works out,how many guys she currently has in her stable...


1350 - Ethan Got his Wife Into Pegging Him
01/28/2026

Ethan got his wife into pegging and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including when he realized he was into anal, when he told his wife about being into anal and how she felt about it, how and when he brought up her pegging him and how she responded, his first time getting pegged and what went down, how his wife reacted when he told her he was into guys and how she reacted, their threesome in Amsterdam and what went down, their soft swap with their friends and what...


1349 - Chris Came out as Bi to his Wife and Now they Have an Open Marriage
01/27/2026

Chris came out as bi to his wife and now they have an open marriage and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how he was raised and what happened to him when he was younger and how it all made him hide his interest in guys as well as his interest in sex in general, how and why he wound up cheating and why he decided to tell his wife everything including him being bi, how his wife felt about it, how he eventually copped to also being into...


1348 - Tina is a Hotwife
01/26/2026

Tina is a hotwife and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including when her husband told her he was into hotwifing and how she felt, how he started posting naughty pics of her online and how she felt about it and how it led to them attending a gangbang at an adult theater, what went down there including her hooking up with 4 guys, the young guy she was with later that same night and what went down, how and why her hubby never joins in and what he enjoys doing...


1347 - How to Have a Successful Booty Call, Should Guys Pay, Do Girls Like Men who Chase and More Q&A w/Layla
01/25/2026

Layla called in to answer a few questions with me, including who should pay, how women feel about guys who chase, and then Kathy discusses how to have a successful booty call. Tune in to hear all the details including how women feel about men paying for everything,  why manners are key and why they still matter, Kathys date who didn’t pay and how she felt about it, the one guy who paid for everything and how she felt about him, how expensive it is to be woman and why that matters when dating, who should do the cha...


1347 - Dave Totally Improved his Erectile Dysfunction with a Cock Ring and Pump
01/24/2026

Dave totally improved his ED with cock rings and pumps and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details, including what age he started having ED issues, how and why his doctors were unhelpful, the solutions he found while researching ED on his own, how and why nocturnal erections are tied to cardiovascular health, why he chose the Bathmate pump and FirmTech cock ring to address his ED, how he used both devices and the benefits he saw with each one including improved orgasm strength/intensity,  how long it took for him t...


1345 - Mike Is Into Bathhouses, Masochism, Humiliation and a Lot More
01/23/2026

Mike is into bathhouses, masochism, humiliation, and a lot more, and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in the hear all the details including how he labels himself and how he really feels about dating guys, how he met his FTM bestie and their most recent glory hole experience and what went down there, the crossdresser night at the bathhouse that he attends and what goes down there, when and how he recently realized he was a masochist and how far he takes it, how he’s also a sissy and into humiliation, when he developed hi...


1344 - NAUGHTY CONFESSIONS : She Jerked Off Where?!, He Got Pegged by a Lesbian, He's Hooking Up with a Naughty Couple from Vegas and More w/Layla
01/22/2026

Tune in to hear a bunch of naughty confessions and then hear Kathy and Layla's critique of them. First, you’ll hear from a guy who got a naughty massage that led to something he’d never experienced before, then from a guy who accidentally hooked up with a guy and now considers himself pansexual, then you’ll hear from a guy who got pegged by a random lesbian he met, then you’ll hear from a guy who has been hooking up with a very naughty couple for years and then you’ll hear Layla’s confession about the naughtie...


1343 - The Manosphere vs.Having Real Game with Women w/Socrates
01/21/2026

Socrates (ep. #1279) called in to talk all about the Mansophere vs. the real game men should use to pick up women. Tune in to hear al the details including what the Manosphere actually is and how he got turned on t it the he was younger, red pill vs. blue pill and what each one stands for, the popular red pill speakers out there and what they preach and how they get it wrong, how and why guys should be listening to black bulls when it comes to picking up women, how and why most men have dominance all...


1342 - Mr. P & Wife Into Swinging, Hooking up with Other Guys and More
01/20/2026

Mr. P got his wife into singing, hooking-up with other guys and more and he called in to talk all about it. Tune into hear all the details including his previous experience in the Lifestyle and when e decided to bring it up to Mrs. P (ep #1313) and how she reacted, their first swinger club experiences and what went down, their experience at Trapeze and Mrs. P first experience with a woman and her first threesome with a couple and why it stopped, one of their first bull they experiences and what went down, how and why he enjoys...


1441 - Beau & Serena are Into Swinging, MFM Threesomes, Hotwifing and More
01/19/2026

Beau and Serena are into swinging, mfm threesomes, hotwifing and more and they both called in to talk about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how Beau got Serena talking more about and opening up to sex, the role playing scenarios they started to do and what it evolved into, how HRT changed the game in the bedroom, how and why they both enjoyed posting naughty pics online, theer first swinger resort experience and what went down, Serena’s first hook up with another guy and her husband and exactly what went down, their first mfm th...


1340 - Sexting and Sending Nudes, Cuckqueaning, Hotwife Fantasies and More w/Layla
01/18/2026

Tune in to this quick bonus ep featuring Kathy and Layla answering questions and talking all aboout sexting and sending nudes and more. Tune in to hear all the details including how girls feel about sexting and sending nudes to guys, what to do and not to do one sending nudes, how and why guys sometimes share their girls nudes with their friends the time Kathy’s naughty pics were shared, how Kathy found out she was a cuckquean, how Layla rolls in the bedroom, how to bring up fantasies with your partner and why it’s important, how so m...


1339 - Emotional Intelligence in the Bedroom w/Heather Shannon
01/17/2026

Heather Shannon called in to talk all about emotional intelligence in the bedroom. Tune in to hear her explain all the details including how emotional intelligence directly impacts desire, why you don’t get emotional security without taking risks, how men and women experience emotions very differently. the common emotional patterns that can ruin things in the bedroom, the five emotional patterns that negatively affect libido, why holding space for someone else’s emotions matters even if you don’t agree with them, and how and why Heather decided to become a sex therapist plus a whole lot more.

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1338 - Jake is Into Panties
01/16/2026

Jake is into wearing panties and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including when he first realized he was into panties and what led to him wearing them, when and how he stated stealing panties and how he got caught, how and why he was sent to therapy and why it didn’t help him, his thoughts on his gender and sexual identity early on, his attraction to men and how he identifies with it, his first gf and how he old her about his panty fetish and how she re...


1337 - Cinnamon & Florence are Into Threesomes, Cuckqueaning & More
01/15/2026

Cinnamon and Florence are Into cuckqueaning, mff threesomes, and more and they called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and why they decided to open their relationship, how and when they both copped to what they were into and how they both reacted, the free pass she gave him to hook up with guys, and his first hook up with one and what went down, how they got into pegging, their first time at a swingers club and what went down, how and why they went looking for women to...


1336 - From Naked News to Super Exclusive Sex Parties at SNCTM and More w/Laura Desiree
01/14/2026

Laura Desiree, Chief Intimacy Coordinator at SNCTM exclusive members-only sex party called in to talk all about her journey in the sex business, her gig at SNCTM an exclusive sex party and so much more. Tune in to hear all the details including how she got into the adult business and how she wound up at Naked News and the at SNCTM and what she was hired to do there, exactly what SNCTM is, when it started and how the exclusive sex party has evolved over time, how many peoples show up and what exactly goes down at SNCTM...