Strictly Anonymous Confessions

Luci (episode #659) called in to answer sex question from a married woman’s perspective. Tue in to hear her discuss how many times a week she masturbates, where she does it and what kind of porn she watches or what she thinks about, whether she ever thinks about other people while having sex with her husband, her body count for both men and women, the most people she's slept with in one day, how long she's down to be pounded, why she rarely orgasms from oral sex, what she needs to have an orgasm, why rubbing her clit doesn't do...

Dr. Pash co-founder of Upsize, one of the country's largest networks of physician-led penile enhancement clinics, called in to talk all about penile enhancement. Tune in to hear all the details including how and why he went from being an anesthesiologist to specializing in penis enlargement, when hyaluronic acid filler started being used to increase girth, exactly what filler can and can't do for both length and thickness, how much bigger he can realistically make a penis, the different penile enhancement options available and how they compare, the risks involved, the pain level, how long the procedure takes, what...

On this bonus episode, Kathy breaks down this week's episodes, reveals behind-the-scenes stories, explains the good stuff you might've missed, and tells you what's worth listening to and why. Tune in for all the details.

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Joelle is into crossdressing, facesitting pegging and more and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in toto hear all the details including when and where he started noticing  women’s undergarments, the first time he put on a pair of panties and what he enjoyed about wearing them and when he continued to wear them,  first wife and what he did and didn’t do secretly while married to her, the “whore phase” he went through after his divorce and the random women he would hook up with and what would go down, the couple he hooked up...

Alexis aka Sindywife is a hotwife and a cuckquean and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how her husband started setting up guys for her to hook up with by surprise and exactly what went down, how she set up her first guy as a surprise for him, what turns her on about the hotwife scenario, how and why her husband typically doesn’t get involved, the kinds of guys her husband likes to see her with, how they started going to swingers clubs and what would go down wh...

Daniel massively cheated on his wife with men, women and couples and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including why he believes he was addicted to sex, what happened to him as a child that shaped his relationship with sex, how he lost his virginity in a threesome and how it wired him into hooking up with multiple people at same time, when he first hooked up with a guy, where it happened and exactly what went down, how he started cheating on his wife while he was deployed and...

Sex in the News: Brandi Hammond recently went viral on TikTok after finding out after her husband unexpectedly died, that he had been secretly hooking up with guys and Adam called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details, including how Brandi started reading her late husband's emails on TikTok and the crazy shit that was in the emails, how and why guys needs better hiding spots for their secret “stuff,” Kathy”’s cleanup service" for people with secret lives and what it entails, what Adam’s friend found in her dying father’s basement, an...

Ana went on HRT, left religion and started hotwifing and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and when Ana went on to HRT and gave up religion, how horny she got on pellets, the tantric massage that led to her husband copping to being into hotwifing, the first bull they met and exactly what went down, the next guy she hooked up with and what went down with him, their reclaiming sex and why she enjoys it so much, the third guy they hooked up with from my...

Xavier and Cassie are in a dom/sib relationship and love swinging, adult theaters public sex and more and they called n to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how Xavier went from a very religious, vanilla marriage to secretly joining Ashley Madison and cheating at swinger clubs, how his wife eventually found out and how it led to their divorce, why he continued exploring the lifestyle afterward, how and when he met and told Cassie about his non-monogamous lifestyle, why she agreed to his rules before she even knew what they meant...

Billy from the Manwhore Podcast called in to answer a bunch of sex questions. Tune in to hear all the details including how long he likes penetration to last, whether he'd choose oral, anal or vaginal sex if he could only pick one, his all-time favorite sex position (and why you might want to try it), how often he masturbates and what he actually uses, whether he thinks about other people while having sex, what the bases are according to him, what "having sex" actually means, whether he'll sleep with someone on the first date, whether he prefers hand...

Mr. Jones from the We Got A Thing podcast called in to talk all about having prostate cancer, losing his erections and then swinging again years later. Tune in to hear how he found out he had prostate cancer despite having zero symptoms, why routine bloodwork and PSA testing probably saved his life, what his MRI, biopsy and Gleason score revealed, why he decided on surgery vs. radiation, what recovery was really like, how long he had to wear a catheter, when he regained bladder control, how and why he lost penis length after surgery, why he could no...

Ivan has a pantyhose fetish and he’s always been very open about it and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including the first vision of pantyhose that he remembers and what it was about pantyhose that he was drawn to, how he would bring up his interest in hose right from the get go and how the girls reacted, his one girlfriend who wold wear who got really into it, how he started wearing pantyhose when he was much older for the first time, the type of hose he pr...

Ariel and Eddie are into throwing orgies and couple swapping and more and they called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how they lost weight and how they both got super horny afterward and how that led them to enter into the lifestyle, their first meet and greet and the couple they met, their first swap with the couple and exactly what went down plus the couple swaps that followed, the first orgy they wound up in and how and why that led to them hosting their own orgies, how they...

Patrick and his wife had a threesome with their daughter’s best friend Ashley (ep #1517) and it didn’t end well and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how him and his wife at the time wound up in a full fledged threesome with Ashley and exactly what went down, how it continued and progressed to becoming a throuple, how and why he wound up seeing Ashley solo with his wife’s permission at first and what went down between them, how it wound up that they then started hookin...

Ed is super young and in a very open relationship with his fiancé and called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how he met his girl and when they both copped to being bi to each other, when they got into pegging, the app they used to open up about their kinks with each other, their first hook up with anther guy and what went down, their first full threesome they had and exactly what went down, the rules they had going in, the emotions they both had afterwards, the two c...

Nicole and John are into hotwifing, threesomes, pregnant gangbangs and more and they called in to talk all about nit. Tune in to hear all the deals including how they met, how and why Nicole wants to a super “high body count,” their first couple of trips to a sex club and what went down, when she got pregnant and how and they started hotwifing, her pregnant gangbang she had, how many guys showed up and what wet down, when Nicole got into fisting, the threesome they had with a crossdresser and what went down between the three of them...

This episode inspired one of my FAVE chapters in my book, Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. Be sure to listen to my new intro for behind-the-scenes details about this story and an update on my upcoming audiobook before the episode.  Ashley had threesomes with her best friends mom and stepdad and it ended badly and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how she found out her best friend's mom was a swinger early on and how she confronted her about it, the first threesomes she h...

NP Ingrid called in to talk all about how she reclaimed her sex life after breast cancer and now helps other men and women do the same. Tune in to hear how and when she found out she had breast cancer, why she chose to have a double mastectomy and chemotherapy even though doctors told her she didnt have to, how it affected her sex drive and threw her into menopause, how and when she decided to go on pellets and the positive changes she experienced, why she started creating content with her younger boyfriend, the hormone pellets she...

Emma is a bisexual kinkster who makes a living studying kink and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including when she realized she was bi and why she repressed it when she was younger, when she started exploring kink and BDSM, how kink helped her reconnect with the dom side of herself and become a switch, why men have sought out dominatrixes throughout history and why so many are drawn to dominant women, how and why she enjoys dominating both men and women, the three kinks she's most into, the...

Tune in to hear a whole bunch of naughty confessions then hear what I think about them. First you’ll hear from a girl who happens to be a cuckquean, then you’ll hear from a male cuck, then you’ll hear all about a couple who lost a ton of weight and then opened up their marriage and you’ll hear all about what they’ve done, then from a true stag who called to vent about finding a bull, then former guest Ashley (ep 740) calls in with a major update, and then you’ll hear from a woman who ha...

Jen & Rob called in to talk all about Voluptas, their exclusive invitation-only society and events they created for happily married couples looking to elevate their sex lives. Tune in to hear how and why they wound up at Desire for Jen's 40th birthday and what they did and didn’t do there, how the experience opened up conversations about their fantasies, boundaries, and what they were and weren’t looking for, why they kept exploring the lifestyle but never found the right fit and how that led them to create Voluptas, the elevated vibe of their events, where they're held...

Hunter was secretly hooking up with guys and now his girl joins him and he called in the talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and when he started cheating on his wife with guys, what went down during his first hook up with a guy, how and why he wound up divorced from his wife, how he wound up dating one of his booty class when he was younger and how she found out he was secretly hooking up with guys and how she reacted, how she wound up getting involved and...

Rob and Marie started hotwifing right from the get go and they both called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how they wound up being open right from the get go, how and why they started looking for a couple to hook up with, the first couple they hooked up with and what went down when they hooked up with them and why it went south, how Rob revealed he was into hotwifing and how Marie reacted at first, where they went to find guys and how he felt before she...

Adam is back and this time him and Kathy take the ultimate sex trivia quiz and debate who's right all along the way. Tune in to hear all the details including the real average penis size and what percentage of guys are actually over 7 inches, whether shoe size predicts penis size, what qualifies as a micropenis, what teabagging, snowballing, docking, frotting and gooning really mean, how many nerve endings are in the clitoris and why most of it is actually inside the body, what percentage of women orgasm from penetration alone, what DDLG stands for, how many sperm are...

Jenn Pinkerton called in to discuss how and why people cheat on people they love. Tune in to hear all the details including why people who are in love will still cheat on their partners and what is lacking within them, the two things every relationship needs to help prevent infidelity, why cheating doesn't always have to be a deal breaker and how couples can work through it, the process of healing after infidelity, how long recovery can take and why it can be worth it, the many reasons people cheat, how and why people repeat what they haven't...

Miranda is a flight attendant who loves pantyhose, bdsm, being and being an exhibitionist and more and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including when she first started wearing tights and pantyhose and why she loves wearing them, when she realized guys were really into pantyhose, the type of hose she wears as a flight attendant and the attention she gets from male passengers because of the hose, her Hoser boyfriend who got her into wearing hose while being intimate and what she enjoys wearing while intimate now, how she...

Casey and Jason are hotwifing professionals and now deep throating professionals and they both called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear when Jason realized he was a stag and when Casey realized she was into hotwifing,  Casey's recent solo hook up with a guy she brought home to Jason and what went down, how and why Jason digs when a bull is flirtatious with out in public and how and why most aren't, how he can love his wife and still love seeing her with other guys, how Casey recently learned to deep throat, exactly w...

James turned his wife into a hotwife and now he's become her cuck, and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and why he decided to reveal all his fantasies to his wife and how she reacted, his wife's first hook-up with a guy and how and why she didn't tell him at first and how he felt about it, her hook-up with her ex at their house and the rule she broke that time, their first MMF threesome and what happened, how his free pass to hook up...

Adonis is a super young guy who lost his virginity to a a girl in a glory hole and now hooks up with couples at their gangbangs and more and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including the girl he met on Whisper who set up a makeshift glory hole and exactly what went down while he was there, if and how he knew she was actually female, the toys she used on him and how far they went, the MILF he met on Reddit who he says he lost...

Tony and Francesca are in a throuple with Tony’s ex girlfriend and they both called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how they met, Francesca’s first open marriage and why it didn’t work for her, how Tony reconnected with his ex and how Francesca wound up meeting her, when she realized she was attracted his ex and the ex was also attracted to her, how they all wound up in a threesome and what went down, how Francesca felt seeing him connect with his ex at first, the next h...

Adam called in to answer a whole bunch of questions for guys and discuss whether deep throating really makes a blowjob better and what’s the difference between a good deep throat vs. a bad one, what most women are doing wrong during oral, how sensitive guys' balls really are, whether men can tell when a woman is faking an orgasm and if guys can fake it too, whether most guys suffer from a little "dick morphia," whether anal sex actually feels better than vaginal sex, the time Kathy's boyfriend had no clue they were having anal sex, the bi...

Susan Morgan Taylor called in to talk all about how women can get back their sex drive without hormones. Tune in to hear all the details including why women encounter dryness and what they can do to increase blood flow, a woman’s pleasure core and what it includes, how women can get int touch with their pleasure core and relax into it, why some women become disconnected from their their body and what’s the first step to getting reconnected, how working on muscles and then energy comes next, how and why even women on hrt can use her...

Michael is into pantyhose, crossdressing, guys and more and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and when he realized he was into pantyhose, when he started wearing them, how and when he started dressing in feminine clothing as well, when it all became a sexual thing to him, when he realized he was into men and what wired him into older guys, his first hook up with a guy while dressed up and what went down, all the other guys he hooked up with and what would go...

Layla, from The Curious Girl Diaries podcast called in to talk all about blowjobs, open relationships, sending/taking naked pics , p**** tricks and more. Tune in to hear the results on our recent Jizz quiz ad find out how much men really masturbate, how and why looking a guy on the face while blowing him is hot, how dirty talk in between is also hot, deep throating and why Layla loves it, her recent snowballing experience and how the guy felt about the taste of his own jizz, period sex and why the denial of it can be a...

Jason is very into anal action and wants to hook up with a guy but he’s not into guys and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including when he realized he was into anal action, the first relationship he had and what the girl did to him that got him totally into anal sex, the type of porn he went looking for afterwards, the different toys he bought and what he did with them, the toys he enjoyed and the ones he didn’t enjoy and why, the one big...

Elizabeth started having foursomes with her boyfriend and now she’s swinging solo and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in the hear all the details including her first foursome with her boyfriend and exactly what went down, their first trip to a swingers club with him and the full swap foursome they had with another couple, her first solo swinger event she went to and how it was set up, exactly what went down including the guy she played with and the two separate couples she hooked up with, the dom she met up with an...

Brandi went from super vanilla to a hotwife xxx star and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to ear all the details including her very religious, vanilla past including her conservative first marriage, her second husband and how he got her into opening up their marriage, what he did for a living and how that played a part in their journey, their first trip to a lifestyle resort and what she wound up doing including taking part in her first orgy, when and how she realized she was into being watched, how her husband loves...

Adam called in to ask Kathy a bunch of fun sexy questions including how hosting her podcast has changed her sex life, what listeners would be shocked to learn about her, whether she’s dominant or submissive in the bedroom, how long she likes oral sex to last, whether she enjoys spanking, roleplay, pegging, porn, sex toys and a whole lot more. Tune in to hear Kathy answer all the questions plus discuss her new found interest in hotwifing and cuckquean fantasies, how and why she prefers big burly men and loves tease-and-denial in the bedroom, why she would ch...

Perimenopause aka peri-f*cking menopause was making Zoe crazy and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in the hear all the details including the first perimenopause symptoms she experienced including mood changes night sweats as well as vaginal dryness skin changes period changes and more, Kathys crazy period changes during peri, how the symptoms come and go and how crazy that made her, how peri effected her sex drive, how she wound up going on hormones and the ones she went on, how and why getting perfect dose of hrt during peri isn’t easy, the ty...

John  lost his virginity at 23 and hasn't had sex again in fourteen years and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear how he lost his virginity to a woman nearly 20 years older than him, why their brief relationship ended and why he hasn't had sex with anyone else since, ow his upbringing may have contributed to his commitment issues, why he's convinced the worst-case scenario will always happen, how his overthinking and avoidance have held him back for over a decade, the women he's dated since and why none of those relationships ever progressed, w...