Strictly Anonymous Confessions

Trevor and his wife started swinging a few years ago and they love being in the Lifestyle and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear hims discuss all the details including how they wound up at their first swingers club and how and why they decided not to play with anyone, the second club they went to and what went down that time, when they got involved in their local swinger scene and what kind of events they attended, their first soft swap at a lifestyle resort and how far they went, their first...

Siren is into gangbangs, Splash Mocha parties, being a cuck sitter and more and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including her first sexless marriage and how and why she eventually got divorced, how and why she use to get hit on by a lot of couples,how she met her current husband Socrates (ep 1279) and how she found he was in the lifestyle, the first sex club she went to  with her husband and all the hardcore things they did that first night, how and why they communicate with e...

Tune in to this quick bonus ep featuring Kathy and Layla answering questions and talking all about rim jobs, anal prep, being degraded and more. Tune in to hear al the details on whether girls dig giving rim jobs and whether guys dig receiving them, how both Kathy and Layla feel about giving and receiving them, is anal action and how and if both Kathy and Layla prep, activating the anal region and why it’s important, a good bklowjob vs.a bad one and why girls sometimes get lazy when giving them, whether being into being into degraded co...

Diane Mueller called in to talk all about the physical causes of low libido, boredom in the bedroom and more. Tune in to hear her discuss all the details including the myths surrounding low libido, how and what you can do to advocate for yourself while at your doctors office, the tests you should add on to your blood work to get more info on what might be going on, why you need cholesterol for libido, estrogen for men and testosterone for women and why they both need it for libido, symptoms of a tight pelvic floor and how...

Sissy is into dressing up and being sissified and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including when he started hooking up with his male high school friend and how he felt about it at first, when the whole being a sissy and dressing up started for him, what he started wearing first and how progressed, when he got caught hooking up with his guy friend while dressed up when he was younger, when he started fully dressing up and why he didnt tell his girlfriend, when he got caught hooking...

Layla calls in to talk all about girl on girl action, pegging, the best sex toys out there and more. Tune in for all the details including an update on whether Layla has gone down on a woman yet, Kathy explains her experiences with woman and what kind of female she’d be into now, how great scissoring can be and how and why Layla is going to try it, how and why Layla is very into pegging and how she plans to peg her new sub, how and why pegging can be a super turn on for women, ho...

Samia is a queer and poly and has a husband and another guy she’s in love with and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including when she realized she was queer and why she is more shy with women then men, the first girl she hooked up with and what went dow with her, the first time she found herself in love with two guys at the same time and realized she was poly, when she started going to sex parties ad why she didn’t really dig them, the...

Mark’s wife is hotwifing for him now and he couldn’t be happier and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and when him and his wife started having issues in the bedroom and how they resolved them, when he shared his hotwifing fantasy with his wife and what she decided to do about it, how role play progressed from them talking about it to doing it in real life, the first time his wife hooked up with a guy solo, what went down and how they both felt...

Mr. And Mrs. Dirty are into threesomes with both men and women and they both called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how his wife copped to being into women and when they started fantasizing about bringing one into their bedroom, their first hook up with a female and what went down, the unicorn they wound up in a throuple with and how that was set up, how and why Mrs. Dirty decided to start an Onlyfans, the lesbian train they taped and exactly what went down, the sex club they...

Sandra called in to talk all about swinging with her husband and how she became an adult travel promoter. Tune in to hear all the details including how and why she brought up the idea having a FFM threesome early on in her relationship with her husband, the couple they wound up meeting and what exactly went down between her and the wife, how and why they started swinging while traveling, the rules they had when starting out and why they worked for them, how and why she started sleeping with guys in front of her husband, their first...

Celeste called in to discuss Virgin Island UK, the roots of your desire, sexual healing and more. Tune in to hear her discuss all the details including how and why she became a sex therapist, how she rolled sexually when she was younger and when she was married, how she got on UK Virgin Island and what she did on the show, the ages of the virgins who participated, why there are more virgins lately, what the roots of desires are and why it's important to know what yours are, how to figure out what yours are and how...

Marc is a Hoser (guy who has a pantyhose fetish) who used to think he was a crossdresser and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including when he realized he was into wearing hose and what was appealing about them to him, when he started looking at heels as well and started wondering if he was also into crossdressing, how he would bring up his interest in pantyhose to women and why he decided to be very blunt about it, how and why his one wife wound up resenting his...

Aries cheating on his wife with a dominatrix and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including the background on his relationship with his wife, how and why his wife isn’t interested in seeing him be submissive, how she ultimately agreed to him seeing a dominatrix, the ground rules they had, how and why he’s totally into being a submissive, his first experience at a dungeon, how and why he’s into being physically degraded but not into mental humiliation, how his wife felt after his first experience and how an...

Raven is a dominatrix who is married to a cuck and now she’s in love with one of her clients and she called in to talk all about it.Tune in to hear all the details including how and why she then started going to sex clubs and started performing at fetish balls, how she met her husband and when he asked her to start sleeping with other men, how his cuckold fetish evolved over time and became super hardcore, the humiliation he was into and how and why she was so good at it, the pressure that co...

Andy's wife hooks up with other guys including his co-worker but the co-worker doesn't know he knows and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including when they decided to enter into the lifestyle, the first couple swap they had and what went down, when their rules went out the window and why, how and why he sets up all her hook-ups, what he enjoys most when seeing his wife with other guys, how and why he doesn’t really get involved with his wife when they have a threesome, how an...

Mandy went from never having zero orgasms to getting into kink, squirting, hooking up with guys online and more and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and why she never had great sex and never had an orgasm, how and why she recently decided to change the game in her sex life, how and why she had never masturbated in her whole life, who suggested she start jerking off and playing with toys and the friend who helped her learn, the adult site she went on to find...

This is another new, short Q&A bonus ep where I answer following questions submitted by a listener; which fave guest/guests would I be most interested in getting an update from, which guest's story turned me on the most and what have I learned about sex from my show that I wished I had learned earlier?? Tune in to hear my specific answer plus hear all the details including why many guests leave me wanting to know more and which guests are the ones I'm still thinking about long after we speak, the shame I used to have...

Nadege called in to talk all about becoming a dominatrix, flirt styles, crazy sex facts and more. Tune in to hear all the details including how and why she studied sex in college, how her sex life was less then ideal and what changed the game for her, how and why she decided to become a dominatrix and how that journey changed her sex life, how and why she labels herself ambi-amorous and what that means, how to flirt properly and  why knowing your flirt style is important, the different flirt styles that exist, her flirt quiz, a few c...

John is into cat suits leotards and more and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in t hear all the details including his first memory of him being into cat suits, when he started wearing leotards, how his girlfriends felt about him wearing spandex leotards, how and why he decided to start a class to help people deal with their kink shame, the issue he had with his wife and why they got divorced, why connections and moments are better than sex for him, how and when he started going to kink clubs and groups, how<...

Tune in to hear a bunch of naughty FEMALE confessions plus get Kathy’s take on them. What kinds of naughty things are grown ups doing in their cars? Why blindfolded sex can be so super charged? And, can you get addicted to big d**** once you’ve had one? Tune in to find out pus hear from Angel (ep #399) a woman who had a naughty jerk off session in her car while she facetimed her secret lover, a woman who had a threesome that didn’t go well and she’s setting up another one, Casey (ep. #527) a woman wh...

Kenya K Stevens has two husbands plus many other partners plus a Phd in polyamory and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear alll thee details including how ad why they have been out and proud with their lifestyle since the get go, the first time she felt attracted to someone else and how she told her husband and how he reacted, how and when her husband brought up being attracted to someone else and how she then felt about it, how her husband thought an open marriage should be one sided and why...

Lee’s wife is hooking up solo with the guys and he called in to take all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how he met his current wife, both of their relationships prior to meeting each other, his experience with a guy  he had early on, how he told his wife about everything he has done, what they then both copped to being into, w they got into hotwifing and the first black guy they hooked up with and what went down, the white guy they both played wit and why it wasn’t that...

Mrs. P is now in a Stag/Vixen marriage and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and when she met her current husband and what both of their past relationships were like, how her hubby coached her into getting in touch with her fantasies, their first visit to swinger club and exactly what went down including her hooking up with a woman and attempting a couple swap, how and why she wasn’t into couple swapping at all but why she did it anyway, how and when both he...

BONUS EP: Tune in to this bonus episode to hear Kathy and Luna answer one more listener’s question. How to feel good about your body both in and out of the bedroom? Tune in to find out plus hear all the details including talk all about how to rebuild body confidence when you don’t believe compliments yet, why self-esteem really does have to come from yourself, why no amount of reassurance from a partner will fix how you feel if you don’t feel good in your own body, and why women are way more critical of their...

Sex therapist Carrie Morris called in to discuss kinks and fetishes. shame, polyamory and so much more. Tune in to hear all the details including how she defines herself sexually, why she became a sex therapist, what is the root of shame, are people born with a fetish or are they developed over time, how and why controlling your fetish is important, how fetishes and kinks can help people with through trauma as opposed to making someones trauma worse, how she helps people come to terms with their fetish, purging and why it doesn’t work, why acceptance of yo...

Sissy Madeline is a gender fluid crossdresser who hooks up with men and women and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including when he started wearing feminine clothing, when he realized he was into guys, when he started buying clothing and what he bought, how and why he came out to people about everything he was into, how and why he now identifies as now as queer, what he went through to get to the point to accept himself, how his parents were very conservative and how and when he...

Mike was an accidental cuck who loved being cucked and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how he was highly sexual when he was younger and why, the threesome he had with his wife early on in their relationship and exactly what went down, how she copped to being into black guys and the first black guy she guy she hooked up with solo, the next guy she hooks up with and what went down, the three guy situation she surprised him with and how he felt about it...

What is it like to be in a non-monogamous relationship and did Doc Chocolate and Fun Charlie take part in a foursome on their first date??? Tune in to find out and hear all the details including why they were both single but looking for a partner while in the lifestyle, how both their first lifestyle relationships didn’t work out and why they didn’t work out, how and why they both didn’t like being single in lifestyle, what they were both looking for in a partner and why non-monogamy was a must have for the both of the...

Angelica and her husband just hooked up with a bull with a bbc and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and when she met her husband, the first guy she was with who wanted her to f- his best friend, when her husband first brought up his interest in another guy joining them and how she felt about it, the tools they bought into the bedroom to start simulating a threesome, when and how that led to them going on the apps to look for a guy, the...

Ava started hooking up with couples, having mmf threesomes and more after her divorce and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including the first guy after her divorce that she started dating and the kinky this they did that opened her up to trying more,  the app she went on to start having NSA hook-ups, the first couple she met up with and exactly what went down, the first time she went down on a woman how she felt about it, the second couple she met up with and what w...

BONUS EP! Tune in to this bonus episode to hear Kathy and Luna answer more listeners questions. How can a guy open up to his girl about wanting to be pegged? An, how can someone have a meaningful booty call?? Tune in to find out plus hear all the details including how being into pegging isn’t “gay,” how a lot of women are surprised they dig it, why a girl might be not be into it, how to get your partner into anal, the knuckle move that always works, do intimate booty calls even exist, how Luna likes her bo...

Ricky and Lucy both got into hardcore softs waping after they both got onto hrt and they both called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how his penile implant is 3 years later and how and why advocates for implants, how being able to customizing the implant works for Lucy, how they are both on hormones and how it has made them horny, when they decided to start soft swapping, how they wound up at their first sex party, the rule they had going in and exactly what went down, the first...

Fern is into sex toys, domming women, subbing for men and more and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including the Motorbunny and Pika sex toys and why both she and Kathy love them so much, when she realized she was into kink, how and why she enjoys donning women but wants to submit to men, how she educated herself in badsm and kink, the kinks she’s into and why including eye contact, sensory play, shibari, wartenberg wheel and more, the gold star lesbian she dated and how she fi...

Riley is a bisexual cuckquean into creampies, squirting and more and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how she always knew she was bisexual and how she was honest about that with her boyfriend, how they wound up in a foursome with his best friend and his girlfriend and exactly what went down, how she continued to hook up with the girl and how and why the other girls boyfriend was a little jealous, how they continued to have threesomes with her and how that ended badly, how and...

Lexi Sylver, called in to discuss swinger club orgy and hook up etiquette, how to swing with a partner and more. Tune in to hear her discuss the typical newbie questions she hears all the time, how she got into the swinger world solo, her first solo experience and exactly what went down and how and why she realized she was an exhibitionsit, newbie meet-ups and what goes down at them, how to navigate your first time in club, the prep a couple should do prior to going to your firt swingers club, group sex etiquette in sex clubs...

John turned his hotwifing fantasy into a reality and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and when he realized he was into hotwifing, when he realized his wife was into it too, how they started out fantasizing about it and how they turned it into a reality, the first guy they met up with and exactly was went down with him, the boundaries they had going in and what wound up happening, the next guy they met up with online and exactly what went down including how he...

Matt and Marie recently started hotwiging and they both called in to talk all about it.  Tune in to hear all the details including what his wife did that made him realize he was into hotwifing, how and when he let her know about his kink and what they did about it at first, how and when he got her into meeting a guy in person, the first guy they met up with, what went down and how and why Matt didn't feel right about their first few encounters, the first time Marie did fully hook up with the g...

Ally Iseman, Modern Relationship coach called in to talk all about jealousy, mistakes in relationships, cheating definitions and more. Tune in to find out how and why she prefers "modern relationships" vs non-monogamous, monogamous, poly etc., how and why she sees jealousy as a tool in a relationship, what to do with jealousy when it does comes up, how “mistakes” in relationships can actually help the relationship, boundaries and rules and agreements and how they differ, how and why asking your partner what cheating means to them is important to know, her open relationship and her cuckquean gone wrong stor...

Tune in to this bonus episode ate hear Kathy and Luna answer listeners questions. How can a gy find a woman who would be down to got to sex parties with him? How can a guy who has been in a sexless relationship get back his confidence in the bedroom and how can a couple avoid awkward role playing scenarios??? Tune in to find out plus hear all about the apps and places where people will most likely find likeminded partners, greta advice for inexperienced guys, how to approach sex with a new partner, big balls and how and...

Alex is Into pantyhose and crossdressing and his wife now know and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including when he realized he was first  into hose and high heels, how he got caught wearing and how his parents reacted, where he’s stole his hose

from at first, how and when he started hooking up while wearing hose with his guy friend and what would go down, when and how he got his first gf into wearing hose for him and how she felt about him having the...