Strictly Anonymous Confessions

Marni called in to talk all about what women really want from guys and how to give it to them. Tune in to hear all the details including how and why “nice guys finish last” isn’t necessarily true and what kind of guys actually finish last, how guys become like that and what women really want instead, the three things women dig most about guys, how men can get past their fear of rejection and approach anxiety, how she got into the Pickup Artist community and became one of the first women in the space, the good and bad of...

Kathy breaks down this week's episodes, reveals behind-the-scenes stories, explains what you might've missed, and tells you what's worth listening to and why. Tune in to hear all the details including hear all about Amber cheating on her husband even though they were already hotwifing and how he reacted when he found out, why listeners loved Brian's story about full swaps, adult resorts and how and why he went from homophobic to hooking up with guys, how Patty went from failed relationships and cheating to sex parties and the lifestyle, why Christine's post-gangbang update reveals way more about the...

FETISH FRIDAY John Smith loves legs in pantyhose and loves wearing them too and he called in totally all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how he has always been a leg guy and how pantyhose are tied his attraction to women’s legs, why he thinks his fetish is in his DNA and the similarities he sees in the men in his family, how and why he thinks guys develop a pantyhose fetish, why he can’t understand why more women don’t realize how much guys love seeing them in hose, his fave colors...

What happened to Christine (ep 1544) after having a gangbang with five Black guys and connecting with one of them?? Tune in to hear all the details including how and why she continued seeing the guy and how their relationship has evolved, how her husband feels about it and his own attempts to find another woman, the date he went on and why it didn’t work out, the sexual issues he has been dealing with and how they have affected their marriage, what happened when she started going away for weekends with the gangbang guy and how involved they ha...

Patty got cheated on, cheated herself and now she’s going to sexclubs and parties and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including her irst boyfriend and why she hated blowing him, her baby daddy and  what he was addicted to and why that relationship ended, the next guy she met and why she started cheating on him and how she found out he was cheating too, the next very abusive guy she dated and the issues he had, how and why she decided to start watching lesbian porn, her fir...

Brian and his second wife are into full swaps, adult vacations, bi play and more and they called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how he met his new wife after getting out of a sexless marriage, his new wife’s first shook up with a guy up and how he felt afterwards and why, how long it took before they started full swapping, the rules and boundaries they had at first, their trip to Desire and what went down including a full swap that included a little guy-on-guy play and ho...

Amber cuckolded her husband and wound up having an affair and they’re still together and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including when her husband first copped to being into hotwifing and how she felt about it, the first guy she hooked up and what went down and how she felt afterwards, how they started videotaping stuff early on and posting it on reddit and what she enjoyed about posting, when her husband started asking her to humiliate hm and how she felt about it at first, exactly what he...

Ana and Robert called in to answer tons of questions about female orgasms. Tune in to hear them discuss why so many women struggle to orgasm and what really gets them there, why penetration alone isn't enough for most women, the orgasm gap and the biggest misconceptions about female orgasms, why some women can have multiple orgasms and others can't, the full list of all the different kinds of female orgasms, whether every woman has a G-spot, the biggest orgasm killers, why women lose libido during menopause and what hormones have to do with it, what men can do...

Steve mastered hands-free orgasms and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear when he first became interested in having a hands-free orgasm, what finally motivated him to seriously pursue it, how isolating and strengthening his pelvic floor muscles changed everything, what happened the first time he accidentally had a full-body hands-free orgasm, how it felt and why it lasted for hours, how he accidentally learned to separate orgasm from ejaculation and why he's now trying to reverse that, how mastering hands-free orgasms completely changed sex with his wife and led to the best sex...

On this bonus episode, Kathy breaks down this week's episodes, reveals behind-the-scenes stories, explains what you might've missed, and tells you what's worth listening to and why. Hear more about the gangbang-filled AVN adventures, Harry's journey from a sexless marriage to pegging, BDSM and couple swaps, why Christine's legendary gangbang episode helped put the podcast on the map, plus Kathy answers a Fuck, Marry, Kill female podcaster edition, announces the newest Discord contest plus a whole lot more. Tune in for all the details.

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Brian is into pantyhose, crossdressing, humiliation, and more and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including the first time he realized he was into pantyhose as well as other feminine clothing, how he got caught by his mom wearing pantyhose and then caught him dressing up in a lot more and how she reacted, how he felt about his fetishes when he was younger, his fantasies of humiliation when he was younger and why he remembers them, how and why his mom eventually allowed him to dress up at home...

Christine got gang banged by a bunch of black guys, with her husband’s permission and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including what led to them opening up their marriage, the black married coworker she almost had an affair with and why it never happened, how she finally confessed everything to her husband and how and why he agreed to give her a permanent free pass, where she found the gang bang coordinator and exactly how the organizer screened her, how involved her husband was in the gangbang set up...

Harry went from a sexless marriage full of infidelity to pegging, BDSM, couple swaps and more and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including when he married his first wife and what was going down in their bedroom before he realized she was cheating, how he caught her cheating and exactly where she was hooking up with the other guy, how and why his ex-wife wound up having a nervous breakdown, why he stayed and tried to save the marriage, how he eventually started cheating on multiple women over many...

Mike (ep #980) recently took part in three gangbnags and hooked up with a porn star at the AVN awards and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in the hear all the details including his recent trip to the AVN awards and all what went down, the first gangbang with a hotwife couple he got invited to and exactly what went down, how he stays safe at these events, the cream pie gangbang he went to next and what went down while he was there, the porn star he hooked up with and what went down with...

Carrie is now throwing sex parties, participating in orgies, hooking up with multiple women and more and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including the way she verifies guys on FetLife before she hooks up with them, the first sex party she threw at her apt and exactly what went down including the group sex experience she took part in and her dp experience and more, the sex party she went to with her girlfriend and the huge orgy she took part in and what went down, the difference being...

Venus called in to answer Kathy's questions about everything from her weekly oral sex appointment that sometimes includes fisting, how long she likes to be pounded, how many guys she's fucked and why some of them were turned on by her body count, how and why her Motorbunny has surpassed her wand as her favorite sex toy and why the orgasms are so much better, why porn thumbnails are enough for her, why she's suddenly hornier than ever, what she thinks about and even talks about during sex, how she realized she was a cuckoldress, the most guys she's...

Dr. Stacy Friedman called in to discuss how to navigate opening up your relationship or marraige. Tune in to hear all the details including the three different types of couples she helps when it comes to ethical non-monogamy, how to bring up your fantasies without making your partner feel threatened, creative ways to start the conversation, how and why going to a swingers club as voyeurs can be the perfect first step, why she was in an open marriage for 15 years but isn't in one now, how her current husband reacted to her swinger past and why they still...

On this bonus episode, Kathy breaks down this week's episodes, reveals behind-the-scenes stories, explains what you might've missed, and tells you what's worth listening to and why. PLUS, answers a F*ck, Marry, Kill former co-host edition. Tune in for all the details.

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Rob Speedking is a Hoser who wears pantyhose out in public and he called in to talk all about itt. Tune in to hear all the details including when he fIrst wore pantyhose and how he felt about them at first, when his feelings about them changed when and how he was open about his love of them on women with both his mother and his girlfriends, what he loved about wearing them, how he told his wife he was into hose and how she got him into wearing them in front of her, how and why he wound...

Beverly is into adult breastfeeding and she’s having an affair with a guy online and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and when she got into “adult breast feeding, when she brought it up to her husband and how he felt about it, the problems the hardcore process she had to go through to get milk in her breasts again, how he had to learn how to “latch on” and what that entailed, how long it took before she started producing milk, what went down when she first st...

Natalie’s marriage went from cheating, to polyamory to living in a resident v and more and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how discovering polyamory gave her a choice she never knew existed and why she's so happy she found it, how and why she was able to work through her husband's cheating and not only stay together but wind up happier because of it, how she lives in a Resident V with her husbands metamor and what that all means and exactly how it's all set up, ho...

Jed’s wife loves playing solo with random guys ad he loves reclaiming her afterwards and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including their “bare all” convo they had and why they had it, how and when he realized he was into hotwifing and how his wife felt about it at first, the first guy his wife picked up out of the blue and exactly what went down and what he enjoyed about it, their trip to a casino and the next guy his wife met and hooked up with and wh...

Mrs. Maverick and her husband went from hotwifing to couple swapping and couldn’t be happier. Tune in to hear all the details including how she reacted when her husband first brought up hotwifing, their first trip to Exotic Dreams Resort and what went down there, how she found out he had secretly been sharing sexy pics of her online and how she reacted, the first bull they met on Kasidie and how a boudoir photo shoot turned into their first threesome, the local bull they hooked up with on their boat and wha went down, her first solo ho...

Luci (episode #659) called in to answer sex question from a married woman’s perspective. Tue in to hear her discuss how many times a week she masturbates, where she does it and what kind of porn she watches or what she thinks about, whether she ever thinks about other people while having sex with her husband, her body count for both men and women, the most people she's slept with in one day, how long she's down to be pounded, why she rarely orgasms from oral sex, what she needs to have an orgasm, why rubbing her clit doesn't do...

Dr. Pash co-founder of Upsize, one of the country's largest networks of physician-led penile enhancement clinics, called in to talk all about penile enhancement. Tune in to hear all the details including how and why he went from being an anesthesiologist to specializing in penis enlargement, when hyaluronic acid filler started being used to increase girth, exactly what filler can and can't do for both length and thickness, how much bigger he can realistically make a penis, the different penile enhancement options available and how they compare, the risks involved, the pain level, how long the procedure takes, what...

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Joelle is into crossdressing, facesitting pegging and more and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in toto hear all the details including when and where he started noticing  women’s undergarments, the first time he put on a pair of panties and what he enjoyed about wearing them and when he continued to wear them,  first wife and what he did and didn’t do secretly while married to her, the “whore phase” he went through after his divorce and the random women he would hook up with and what would go down, the couple he hooked up...

Alexis aka Sindywife is a hotwife and a cuckquean and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how her husband started setting up guys for her to hook up with by surprise and exactly what went down, how she set up her first guy as a surprise for him, what turns her on about the hotwife scenario, how and why her husband typically doesn’t get involved, the kinds of guys her husband likes to see her with, how they started going to swingers clubs and what would go down wh...

Daniel massively cheated on his wife with men, women and couples and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including why he believes he was addicted to sex, what happened to him as a child that shaped his relationship with sex, how he lost his virginity in a threesome and how it wired him into hooking up with multiple people at same time, when he first hooked up with a guy, where it happened and exactly what went down, how he started cheating on his wife while he was deployed and...

Sex in the News: Brandi Hammond recently went viral on TikTok after finding out after her husband unexpectedly died, that he had been secretly hooking up with guys and Adam called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details, including how Brandi started reading her late husband's emails on TikTok and the crazy shit that was in the emails, how and why guys needs better hiding spots for their secret “stuff,” Kathy”’s cleanup service" for people with secret lives and what it entails, what Adam’s friend found in her dying father’s basement, an...

Ana went on HRT, left religion and started hotwifing and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and when Ana went on to HRT and gave up religion, how horny she got on pellets, the tantric massage that led to her husband copping to being into hotwifing, the first bull they met and exactly what went down, the next guy she hooked up with and what went down with him, their reclaiming sex and why she enjoys it so much, the third guy they hooked up with from my...

Xavier and Cassie are in a dom/sib relationship and love swinging, adult theaters public sex and more and they called n to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how Xavier went from a very religious, vanilla marriage to secretly joining Ashley Madison and cheating at swinger clubs, how his wife eventually found out and how it led to their divorce, why he continued exploring the lifestyle afterward, how and when he met and told Cassie about his non-monogamous lifestyle, why she agreed to his rules before she even knew what they meant...

Billy from the Manwhore Podcast called in to answer a bunch of sex questions. Tune in to hear all the details including how long he likes penetration to last, whether he'd choose oral, anal or vaginal sex if he could only pick one, his all-time favorite sex position (and why you might want to try it), how often he masturbates and what he actually uses, whether he thinks about other people while having sex, what the bases are according to him, what "having sex" actually means, whether he'll sleep with someone on the first date, whether he prefers hand...

Mr. Jones from the We Got A Thing podcast called in to talk all about having prostate cancer, losing his erections and then swinging again years later. Tune in to hear how he found out he had prostate cancer despite having zero symptoms, why routine bloodwork and PSA testing probably saved his life, what his MRI, biopsy and Gleason score revealed, why he decided on surgery vs. radiation, what recovery was really like, how long he had to wear a catheter, when he regained bladder control, how and why he lost penis length after surgery, why he could no...

Ivan has a pantyhose fetish and he’s always been very open about it and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including the first vision of pantyhose that he remembers and what it was about pantyhose that he was drawn to, how he would bring up his interest in hose right from the get go and how the girls reacted, his one girlfriend who wold wear who got really into it, how he started wearing pantyhose when he was much older for the first time, the type of hose he pr...

Ariel and Eddie are into throwing orgies and couple swapping and more and they called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how they lost weight and how they both got super horny afterward and how that led them to enter into the lifestyle, their first meet and greet and the couple they met, their first swap with the couple and exactly what went down plus the couple swaps that followed, the first orgy they wound up in and how and why that led to them hosting their own orgies, how they...

Patrick and his wife had a threesome with their daughter’s best friend Ashley (ep #1517) and it didn’t end well and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how him and his wife at the time wound up in a full fledged threesome with Ashley and exactly what went down, how it continued and progressed to becoming a throuple, how and why he wound up seeing Ashley solo with his wife’s permission at first and what went down between them, how it wound up that they then started hookin...

Ed is super young and in a very open relationship with his fiancé and called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how he met his girl and when they both copped to being bi to each other, when they got into pegging, the app they used to open up about their kinks with each other, their first hook up with anther guy and what went down, their first full threesome they had and exactly what went down, the rules they had going in, the emotions they both had afterwards, the two c...

Nicole and John are into hotwifing, threesomes, pregnant gangbangs and more and they called in to talk all about nit. Tune in to hear all the deals including how they met, how and why Nicole wants to a super “high body count,” their first couple of trips to a sex club and what went down, when she got pregnant and how and they started hotwifing, her pregnant gangbang she had, how many guys showed up and what wet down, when Nicole got into fisting, the threesome they had with a crossdresser and what went down between the three of them...

This episode inspired one of my FAVE chapters in my book, Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. Be sure to listen to my new intro for behind-the-scenes details about this story and an update on my upcoming audiobook before the episode.  Ashley had threesomes with her best friends mom and stepdad and it ended badly and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how she found out her best friend's mom was a swinger early on and how she confronted her about it, the first threesomes she h...