Strictly Anonymous Confessions

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By: Kathy Kay

Strictly Anonymous Confessions is a raw, real podcast where people call in anonymously to share their most personal and intimate stories. From relationships and dating to sex, secrets, and everything in between, nothing is scripted and every conversation is honest. Kathy dives deep with callers, asking the questions everyone is thinking but rarely says, creating open, judgment-free conversations you won’t hear anywhere else. If you’ve ever wondered what people are really doing, thinking, and hiding behind closed doors, this is the podcast for you. For advertising opportunities, please email [email protected] THE BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-O...

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1636 - Prostate Orgasms, Killer Male Sex Toys, Kathy's Fave Sex Toy & More w/Fern
Yesterday at 10:30 AM

Fern (ep. #1303) from MyGiddi and PikaVibe called in to talk all about prostate orgasms, killer male and femal sex toys and more. Tune in to hear all the details including how prostate orgasms differ from regular male orgasms and why some guys prefer them, how the stigma around anal play and pegging is changing, the masculine vibe of MyGiddi and the different toys they offer, where the prostate is located and how to find and stimulate it, the best positions for prostate play and why using the right lube is so important, the best beginner toy and how the...


1635 - 40 Tips for Better Sex, Health & Longevity After 40 w/Dr. Kyle
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Last Saturday at 10:30 AM

Dr. Kyle Hulsebus is a chiropractor who specializes in health, longevity and human performance, and he called in to talk all about his 40 Over 40 longevity series and how to live a happier, healthier life. Tune in to hear all the details including how and why he believes repressing yourself sexually can be detrimental to your physical and emotional health, why your libido and sexual desire can be important signals of your overall health, how being intimate and truly connecting with another person can contribute to your well-being, why being present in the moment is so important and how intimacy...


1634 - Glory Holes, Hotwifing, Free Passes That Led to Cheating & Hook-ups With Men, & More...ICYMI
Last Friday at 11:30 AM

In this week's In Case You Missed It, Kathy recaps all the episodes from the week and shares behind-the-scenes details, her unfiltered opinions, and more. Tune in to hear all the details including Billy from The Manwhore Podcast's recent glory hole experience and blowjob gangbang, why Skyler's open marriage went terribly wrong and what Kathy really thinks about her husband, Matt's hotwifing adventures and the strange reactions to his sexy Patreon pics, the unexpected turn in Samantha Day's interview and why Kathy gave her some brutally honest advice, Bambi's shocking cheating story involving her husband and secret lover, Erick's...


1633 - Eric is a Hoser Crossdresser who Has a Free Pass From his Wife
Last Friday at 10:30 AM

Eric is a hoser and crossdresser who has a free pass from his wife to hook up with guys, and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including when he first realized he was into pantyhose and how he started wearing them, when he realized he was sexually attracted to guys and how he felt about it, how and when he told his wife about his pantyhose fetish and how she reacted, the conversations they had that eventually led to him exploring crossdressing and his submissive side, how giving each other...


1632 - Bambi’s a Swinger who had a Threesome w/her Husband & the Guy she's Cheating on Him With?!
Last Thursday at 10:30 AM

Bambi is a swinger who had a threesome with her husband and the guy she is cheating on him with and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including when she started having threesomes with both men and women early on and what went down, when she met her husband and what prompted them to open up their marriage, their first full swap and what went down, their first few threesomes with men and women and what went down during them, how and why they preferred going to swinger parties over...


1631 - Samantha Went From a Sexless Marriage to Threesomes & Selling Used Panties?!
Last Wednesday at 10:30 AM

Samantha left her unhappy, sexless marriage and started hooking up with guys, having threesomes and selling her used panties online, and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and why she was so unhappy in her marriage and how she proposed a temporary separation, how she went on Tinder and started hooking up with guys, the first guy she met and exactly what went down between them, the threesome she had with him and another guy and what went down, how and why she hated her job and wound...


1631 - Matt & His Wife Are Into Swinging, Hotwifing, Solo Play & More
Last Tuesday at 10:30 AM

Matt and his wife are into swinging, hotwifing, couple swaps, solo play and a whole lot more, and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and when he started asking his wife about her past sexual experiences with other guys, how he initially felt jealous and how that jealousy eventually turned into a huge turn-on, how they wound up at their first swinger club and exactly what went down, what happened the second time they went and the couple they swapped with, how and why they didn't really have...


1629 -Skyler and Her Husband Started Swinging, Playing Solo & Then Things Went Wrong
10/19/2026

Skyler and her husband opened up their marriage but things went very wrong, and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and when her husband told her he wanted to see her with another guy and how that led to them visiting a sex dungeon, the guy she met online and why she started a "relationship" with him,  the first couple they swapped with and exactly what went down, how and why she started meeting up with another guy solo and what went down, the unicorn she passed along t...


1628 - BJ Gangbangs, DYI Glory Holes, Squirting Tips, Porn Star Hookups & More w/Billy
10/18/2026

Billy Procida from The Manwhore Podcast is back for a fun Sunday Q&A answering Kathy's questions about sex, hookups, porn stars and more! Tune in to hear all the details including what he thinks  about deep throating and ball touching, his blow job tips, how big his dick is, how he can tell when a woman is faking an orgasm, his recent glory hole experience as well as his past experiences, why and when he's faked orgasms himself, how he gets women to squirt, what he considers a swinger haircut, the people he hooked up with at a r...


1627 - Ana Went From Faking Orgasms Her Whole Life to Having the Best Ones Ever
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10/17/2026

Ana went from faking orgasms her whole life to having the best ones ever and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and why she never had orgasms with any guy before her third husband Cam, why she thinks butterflies aren't a good sign, how she felt when she first met Cam and why it was so different from the men she dated before him, how his energy was different and why it aligned with who she had become, what she did during the four years she was single...


1626 - Hotwifing, Big D***s, Open Marriages, Female Orgasms & More…ICYMI 10.11
10/16/2026

Kathy breaks down this week’s episodes, reveals behind-the-scenes stories, explains what you might’ve missed, and tells you what’s worth listening to and why. Tune in to hear all about the fun sex Q&A with Lucy where she tries to guess Kathy’s answers, Barbara’s crazy hotwife story and why her episode caused so much controversy, her husband Walter’s side of the story and the inconsistencies Kathy noticed between their interviews, Thomas and how he permanently enlarged his dick with injections, Layla’s cuckquean lifestyle and how her open marriage evolved, Janine the sissy submissive cro...


1625 - Janine is a Submissive, Sissy Crossdresser Who Hooks Up With Guys Behind His Wife’s Back
10/16/2026

Janine is a  submissive, sissy crossdresser who hooks up with men behind his wife's back, and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including when he first started wearing heels and then feminine clothing, how hiding his crossdressing turned it into a kink, his lifelong struggle between his male and female sides, how he discovered his submissive sissy side and what went down at his first trans club, the first guy he hooked up with and what went down, how he met his wife and eventually told her about his female a...


1624 - Layla is a Married Cuckquean who Enjoys Sex Parties, Playing Solo, Giving BJ's and More
10/15/2026

Layla is a cuckquean in a very open marriage with her husband and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including, how and when she realized she was a cuckquean, how and where she went looking for women and how she found a guy partner instead, how her husband started dating her new guy’s partner and started with solo play, how they both felt afterwards, their first swinger party and how many guys she f***ed that first time,  how and why she lovessss giving blow jobs, her tips for givi...


1623 - Thomas Made his Dick Wayyy Bigger Twice?!
10/14/2026

Thomas made his dick wayyy bigger twice and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and why he wanted a bigger dick, how big he was when he started out, when he became obsessed with making his dick bigger and the things he tried when he was younger, the pumping and traction devices he tried and how they work, what didn't work and why, why he decided against temporary filler, the two permanent filler options available and which one he tried first, how much bigger his dick got after...


1622 - Walter’s Wife Is Sleeping with His Married Friends and Many Others
10/13/2026

Walter’s wife (Barbara, ep 1621) is sleeping with his married friends and many others, and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and when he realized he was into seeing Barbara (ep 1621) with other guys, how she felt when he first brought it up, when he told her about his well-hung friends and how she wound up setting up hookups with them, exactly what went down during her first hookup with his friend, why he wasn’t there and how he got the details afterward, how she wound up hook...


1621 - Barbara is a Hotwife Who Fucks Her Husband’s Married Friends?!
10/12/2026

Barbara is a hotwife who hooks up with other guys solo, including two of her husband’s married friends who happen to be brothers, and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how her husband brought up hotwifing and how she initially reacted, the rules and boundaries they established and why they decided she would play with other guys solo, the specific “shot list” of sexual acts her husband wanted her to film, why she’s a size queen and the kind of guys she was looking for, her first solo hoo...


1620 - Gangbangs, Squirting, Big "Hogs," Hall Passes & More: a Q&A w/Luci
10/11/2026

Luci is back for a special “Stump Luci” Q&A where she has to guess how Kathy is going to answer every question before Kathy gives her answer. Tune in to hear all the details including whether Kathy would rather have a gangbang, DAP or DVP, when she prefers to have sex, whether she’d choose a rich guy with a small dick or a broke guy with a big one, whether cheating, bad breath, missing teeth and more are deal breakers, whether she’d rather learn to deep throat or squirt, how many high schools she got kicked out of a...


1619 - Prostate Orgasms, Analgasms, Multiple Orgasms and More Male Orgasms w/Susan Bratton
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10/10/2026

Susan Bratton is back and she called in to talk all about male orgasms, the different kinds guys can have, and how they can experience more intense pleasure. Tune in to hear all the details including the difference between orgasming and ejaculating and how men can learn to have multiple orgasms, the prostate massagers she recommends and how they can help guys experience prostate orgasms, how to locate and stimulate the prostate and why she encourages partners to get involved, what analgasms are and how they differ from prostate orgasms, how guys can train their nipples to become more...


1618 - Cuckqueans, Throuples, Threesomes, Kinky Brothers & More...ICYMI
10/09/2026

Kathy breaks down this week's episodes, reveals behind-the-scenes stories, explains what you might've missed, and tells you what's worth listening to and why. Tune in to hear all about Marcela Alonso's wild sex stories and the hardcore questions Kathy asked her, Aileen's super hot and unique cuckquean experiences with her long-distance boyfriend, Kandy's kinky relationship with her husband including chastity, pegging and the different female characters she roleplays in the bedroom, Kyle's threesomes and swinging experiences plus the hilarious reason Kathy couldn't stop laughing during his episode, Valerie's swinging adventures and the throuple that went wrong, Griff and Jason...


1617 - Kinky Bros Gryff & Jason Are Into Rubber, Latex, Pegging, Anal Play and More
10/09/2026

Gryff and Jason are brothers who discovered they were both into some very kinky things, and they called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including the text that started the conversation that led to them discovering each other's kinky sides, how and when Griff came out as gay and how his parents reacted versus how Jason reacted, when Griff realized he had a rubber and latex fetish and how he introduced it to his husband, how Griff and his husband decided to open up their marriage and discovered what they were both...


1616 - Valerie Started Swinging, Became a Unicorn and is Now in an Open Relationship
10/08/2026

Valerie started swinging, became a unicorn and now is I an open relationship and she called in to talk all about it. How and when did she start swinging? What was she into while swinging? And, how did she wind up in a throuple? Tune in to hear all the details including why and how her guy friend got her to go to her first swingers club and and what exactly went down at her first experience, who she wound up playing with, what she saw and what she wound up doing that she enjoyed, how she learned all...


1615 - Kyle is Into MFF & MFM Threesomes with His Wife But Had Performance Issues?
10/07/2026

Kyle is into mff and mfm threesomes with his wife but had performance issues and he called in to ask all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and when they decided to start playing with other people together, the threesome they had with his wife’s friend and what went down, the hotel takeovers they attended and what they do while they’re there, how they started looking for a guy for a threesome and the guy they chose who showed up with a massage table, exactly what went down during the threesome including how...


1614 - Candi Enjoys Domming Her Cuck Husband, Caging Him Up, Pegging Him and More
10/06/2026

Candi enjoys domming her husband, caging him up, pegging him and more and she called in and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and when she first brought up chastity to her husband and when he admitted he was into cuckolding, how and why he becomes a much better husband when he’s caged, how she dominates him and how long she keeps him locked up, the “menu” of female characters she created for him and exactly what fantasy each one is down for, how he admitted he fantas...


1613 - Aileen Is a Cuckquean Who Loves Lee Hooking Up With Other Women
10/05/2026

Aileen is a cuckquean who loves hearing all about Lee hooking up with other women, and they called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including their previous relationships and Lee’s experiences with non-monogamy before they got together, how their long-distance relationship led to open conversations about sex, how discussing their past experiences introduced them to compersion, how Aileen went from being a jealous to getting extremely turned on by hearing Lee’s previous sex stories, how they realized she was a cuckquean, how Lee also gets turned on hearing about Aileen’s stor...


1612 - Double Threesomes, 8 Guys in One Night, DP vs. DVP. Famous Hookups and More a Q&A with Marcela
10/04/2026

Marcela is back for a Q&A where she answers all of my questions about her sex life, her experiences in the lifestyle, the famous guys she’s hooked up with and a whole lot more. Tune in to hear all the details including the most common things guys tell her when they call her on Sex Panther, how many orgasms she can have one after another, how often she masturbates and how she does it, her body count, her favorite sex position, the most guys she’s been with in one night and what went down, the two sepa...


1611 - Why Some Men Love Sharing Their Wives — The Psychology of Compersion w/ Marie Thouin
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10/03/2026

Marie Thouin , author of What is Compersion, called in to discuss comerpsion and explain why some people love sharing their partners with others. Tune in to hear all the details including how and why she decided to study compersion, the exact definition of compersion, why compersion and jealousy can actually exist at the same time, what she learned about people’s past experiences and how they can influence jealousy, kinks and compersion, whether men and women experience compersion differently, when she realized she had the potential to experience compersion and what happened when she did, how compersion can be le...


1610 - In Case You Missed It: Hotwifing, Bulls, Cuckolding, Compersion & More
10/02/2026

Kathy breaks down this week's episodes, reveals behind-the-scenes stories, explains what you might've missed, and tells you what's worth listening to and why. Tune in to hear all about the all-female confessions episode with Luci and why she knows Kathy way too well, Kathy’s Fuck, Marry, Kill picks between Jason Momoa, Arnold Schwarzenegger and Sylvester Stallone, why Izzy and Beau might have one of the most perfectly matched cuck/hotwife ever, why Josh’s hotwife story plays out like a novel and takes you along for the whole ride, Robert’s hardcore cheating adventures and why Kathy was harder...


1609 - JW Is a Dominant Sadist, a BBDSM Educator & Bull for Couples
10/02/2026

JW is a dominant sadist, BDSM educator and bull for couples and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including when he realized he was into BDSM, how he was outed to his boss and how his boss reacted, when he started swinging while he was married, the couples he and his wife started swapping with and how one woman helped awaken his dominant side, the married woman he became a bull for and how they would cuck her husband at adult theaters, how that evolved into him controlling things both...


1608 - Mari and Enrique are a Hotwife Stag Couple
10/01/2026

Mari and Enrique are a hotwife stag couple and they called in to talk all about it., How and when hotwifing and couple swapping came up in conversations between them, how even just fantasying about it helped their sex life, the co worker and his wife and what went down during their first soft swap, how they both felt seeing the other hooking up with someone else for the first time, how their reclaiming sex was afterwards, their first full swap and the rules they had going in, when they found their first bull and how their first hotwifing...


1607 - Robert Is Married But Hooks Up With Couples, Subs He Meets on FetLife & More
09/30/2026

Robert is married but hooks up with couples, subs he meets on FetLife and more, and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and when he found out both of his parents cheated on each other, how he met his wife and how and when sex went out the window, the first time he cheated on his wife and how he felt about it, the sub he met on FetLife next and what went down between them, the mom in his neighborhood he started sleeping with and how and...


1606 - Josh Finally Got his Wife to Hotwife for Him
09/29/2026

Josh finally got his wife to hotwife for him and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and when he realized he was possibly into guys and how he compartmentalized his attraction when he was younger, the first two guys he hooked up with and what went down and how he felt about his hookups, how and why he stopped hooking up with guys after he met his wife, how and why he got very into the hotwife fantasy, when he finally realized he was bisexual and how he...


1605 - Izzy Is a Hotwife Who Loves Cucking Her Husband
09/28/2026

Izzy is a domme hotwife who loves cucking her bi husband (Beau ep #1598) and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including  how things shifted to her being dominant and her husband being more submissive first in the bedroom and then outside of it, when she realized she was bi, her experience with a woman at Desire and what went down, how she and her husband eventually started swinging, her first full on experience with a woman and what went down, their first swinger club experience and the couple they met w...


1604 - NAUGHTY FEMALE CONFESSIONS - She’s Into “Getting Caught,” She’s Cheating and Doesn’t Feel Bad, She’s Into Her Cousin-in-Law & More w/Luci
09/27/2026

Tune in to hear a bunch of naughty confessions, then get Kathy and Luci’s take on them. You’ll hear from a woman who’s recently very into “getting caught,” a woman who’s cheating and doesn’t really feel bad about it, a woman who is struggling to forgive herself for something she did but never actually reveals what it was, an older couple who is into chain fisting and recently went on a whirlwind sex tour around the world, and then a woman who is attracted to her cousin-in-law and wants to know if it’s okay to hook up...


1603 - What’s Really Behind Sex & Porn Addiction w/Rick Manabat
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09/26/2026

Rick Manabat is a certified sex addiction therapist and he called in to talk all about porn and sex addiction. Tune in to hear all the details including the trauma Rick experienced when he was younger and how it affected him and eventually led to him becoming a sex addiction therapist, why figuring out the “story” behind someone’s sex addiction is key to recovery, the fascinating stories he has uncovered while working with clients as well as the story he uncovered about his own addiction and how it helped him heal, what EMDR is and how and why it rea...


1602 - Cuckolding, Prostate Orgasms, Conversion Therapy, Sex Addiction & More...In Case You Missed It 9.20
09/25/2026

Kathy breaks down this week’s episodes, reveals behind-the-scenes stories, explains what you might’ve missed, and tells you what’s worth listening to and why. Tune in to hear all about Veronica’s wild Q&A about cucking her husband, her first Black guy, deep throating, threesomes and her husband’s love of male sex toys, why Amanda is still cheating on the husband she can’t stand with one of Kathy’s listeners, how Zach achieved prostate orgasms and lived out his fantasies with trans women, the four super hot female guests who returned with their hottest stories for Ka...


1601 - Sara was a Crossdresser who Recently Transitioned
09/25/2026

Sara was a crossdresser who recently transitioned and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including when she first started wanting to be a girl, when she began experimenting with female clothing and makeup, how and why she wound up in a  conversion-therapy program while married to her first wife and what went down there, how and why they eventually divorced, the woman she dated afterward who did her makeup and had sex with her while she was dressed, how her second wife reacted when she told her she was into c...


1600 - Gangbangs, Hotwifing, Bukakkes and Creampies Galore w/ a Bunch of My Hottest Female Guests
09/24/2026

For my 1600TH episode, I decided to give my audience what they Love, some super naughty stories from a bunch of super hot women including Erica, Crimson, Ember Rae and Candy. Tune in to hear one naught story after another including Tune in to hear one naught story after another including Lara and her solo hotwifing experience she had the other day and exactly what went down and how it played into her MMF threesome she had the night after and what exactly went down at that bi threesome including the bukkake at the end, then Crimson (ep #554) is o...


1599 - Zac Is Into Trans Women & Prostate Play
09/23/2026

Zach is into trans women and prostate play and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and when he decided to try a prostate massage, where he went to have his first one and how long it took before he experienced his first prostate orgasm, how great it felt, how his fantasy about being with a trans woman began and what went down during his first experience, the many years he spent hooking up with trans women and what went down during those experiences, the time he went all...


1598 - Beau Is a Bi Cuck Who’s In the Lifestyle & in a Female-Led Relationship
09/22/2026

Beau is a bi cuck who’s in the Lifestyle and in a female-led relationship and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including their first experiences hooking up with other people, their first trip to a swingers club and what went down, all their trips to Desire resort and what they enjoy doing while there, the first time her got pegged by another woman during a foursome as well as the train him and his wife took part in and her first bi experience at FetCon, how his once-shy wife be...


1597 - Amanda is Still Cheating on Her Husband With Multiple Men
09/21/2026

Amanda is still cheating on her husband with multiple men and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how her husband cheated on her years ago and why she stayed with him, how distrustful he was at first and why it annoyed her, why she eventually started cheating on him herself, how her husband found out she was cheating and why she continued even after getting caught, how and why cheating became a pattern for her, the new guy she met through Kathy’s show and what they did on Sn...