Strictly Anonymous Confessions

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By: Kathy Kay

Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous Podcast where you get to listen in to the secret lives of total strangers. I talk to real people about their interesting, secret, naughty lives as well as give them my unprofessional advice. For advertising opportunities please email strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use...

1267 - Amy on Shameless Sex, Sex Toys, her Open Relationship and More
Last Wednesday at 11:30 AM

Amy Baldwin from the Shameless Care podcast called in to talk all about shameless sex, sex toys, her open relationship, and more. Tune in to hear all the details including how and why she decided to study human sexuality and why she wound up opening up a sex toy shop with her mom instead and then how she eventually became a certified sex educator, how and why it took her a long time to have orgasms and how she ultimately learned how to have them all and to squirt, how her open minded upbringing helped her have zero shame...


1266 - Mke Jones Went from Being a Bull, to Navigating Sex Parties Solo, to Content Creating in an Open Relationship
Last Tuesday at 11:30 AM

Mike Jones went from being a bull, to navigating sex parties solo, to content creating while in an open relationship and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the detials including how he met his first couple he hooked up with and exactly what went down, how and why he decided to continue hooking up with couples,  where he went looking for couples and the demo of the people who hit him up, how and when he started going to sex parties, his experience being a solo guy in the lifestyle, the couple t...


1265 - Stephanie and Jason are Into Swinger Resorts, Threesomes, Hooking up with Virgins and More
Last Monday at 11:30 AM

Stephanie an Jason are into swinger resorts, threesomes, hooking up with virgins and more and they called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how they wound up at their first swingers club and why it wasn’t a great experience, their first couple swap experiences and how they both felt watching each other with other partners, their trip to Hedonism and how and why that changed things for the better for them, their trip to Desire Resort and the naughty photo shoot they took part in and what that led to, th...


1264 - Orgasms, Libido, Sex Toys, the G-Spot and More w/Susan Bratton
Last Saturday at 10:30 AM

Susan Bratton, intimacy expert called in to discuss orgasms, libu=ido, sex toys, g-spots and sooo much more. Tune in to hear all he details including why not orgasming is not ok and how not orgasming can negatively effect your sex life and how having them can help you, the orgasm gap explained, responsive vs spontaneous desire and why its important to know the difference, yoni massage and how important they are for women, how and why women aren’t “ready” as soon as guys are and why thats not a problem, how and why low libido most of the ti...


1263 - Creating AI Erotic Stories About Your Fantasies, Kinks and Fetishes w/Cat from Redquill
10/31/2025

Cat called in to discuss how you can live out your fantasies, kinks and fetishes through generating your own erotic AI stories on her app Redquill. Tune in to hear all the details including how and why she and her team built Red Quill an app that uses AI to create user stories that can be personalized to users fantasies, kinks and kinks, how users post and share their stories, how people can interact and respond to each other’s fantasies,  what kinds of fantasies, kinks and fetish stories are most popular, the data and differences between male-driven fantasy sto...


1262 - Dee Dee Cheated on her Husband and Now They're in an Open Marriage
10/30/2025

Dee Dee Cheated on her husband and now they’re in an open marriage and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including when and why she started cheating on her husband, the first guy he cheated on him with and where she met him, the second guy she cheated with and exactly what went down between them, how and why all the cheating gave her confidence, the guy into BDSM she met on Fetlife and what went down with him, how he got her to squirt and why she stopped se...


1261 - NAUGHTY CONFESSIONS: She's Having Threesomes with her Wife and Other Men, He Just had his First MMF, She's Into Watersports and More w/Erica
10/29/2025

Tune in to hear a bunch of naughty confessions and then hear Kathy and Erica’s take on them. You’ll hear first from a guy who just had his first surprise MMF threesome, then from a guy who enjoys online camming behind his girlfriend’s back, then from a guy who enjoys sniffing his wife’s panties and last from a woman who is having threesomes with men with her wife?! Then you’ll hear Kathy and Erica talk about the confessions as well as discuss Erica’s take on mfm vs. mmf threesomes and which one she enjoys more...


1260 - Marco is in a Stag Vixen Marriage
10/28/2025

Marco is in a stag/ vixen marriage and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including his first open marriage and how that came about, how and why he always liked “flirtatious” women,” his new wife and the guy from the pool they started hanging out with and what started happening with him, their first “accidental” hook up and exactly what went down, how he felt about it and how his wife felt about it and why, the second time they had sex with he see guy and what went down, the second...


1259 - Vanessa Started Hotwifing for her Husband and She’s Been Hotwifing Ever Since
10/27/2025

Vanessa started hotwifing for her husband and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and why she decided to try hotwifing for him in the first place, what made her agree even though she wasn’t into swinging, the app they used to find their first guy and what went down, how her husband got involved during her early hookups and how and why she now plays solo, how her feelings about it evolved over time, the rule they had going in and how it worked, the first guy sh...


1258 – Paul Conquered His ED Issues and Changed the Game in the Bedroom Big Time
10/25/2025

Paul conquered his ED issues and completely changed the game in the bedroom with his wife and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how he first started dealing with erectile dysfunction and what triggered it, how and why he didn’t rely on Viagra to get things back on track, what he did that cured his ED, how and when the issue came back a second time, what he did differently that time around to fix it, how that new approach completely changed the game in the bedroom with hi...


1257 – Miz Darling is a Dominatrix with a Spanking Kink
10/24/2025

Miz Darling is a dominatrix with a spanking kink and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how her first marriage wasn’t satisfying because her husband didn’t understand her kink, how a free pass to explore it led to their divorce, when she realized she was into spanking and how she experiences intimacy through kink play instead of sex, when and how she got involved in the kink community, how and why she went from being a bottom to becoming a dominatrix, how she learned the craft and scre...


1256 - Katie is Sleeping with a Married Man and his Wife?!
10/23/2025

Katie is sleeping a married man and his wife and she calls in to talk all about it. How did she meet him? How did she find out he was married? And how did she wind up sleeping with both him and his wife? Tune in for the details which include how and where they had s-e-x their very first date, how she felt when she found out he was married, him and his wife's rules for playing and how they effect her, her past experiences in the "lifestyle" including her Craigslists hookups with multiple men at the same...


1255 – How to Deal with Jealousy in a Non-Monogamous Relationship w/Adam
10/22/2025

Adam called in to talk all aboutjhow he dealt with and conquered his jealousy in his non-monogamous relationship. Tune in to hear all the details including how hardcore his girlfriend was and how and why he was super jealous about the way she wanted things set up, the boundaries he tried to put in place and why they didn’t stick, the first sex party they went to and what made him extremely jealous and how he dealt with his feelings, how she liked to tell him about her hookups and how he learned to handle that even though it...


1254 – Mike Has a Wife and Four Girlfriends?!
10/21/2025

Mike has a wife and four girlfriends and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and why he’s always identified as poly, how and when him and his wife opened their relationship and when they started having other partners, when he realized he was gender fluid,  the girlfriend his wife had and the issues it caused, how and why they live with almost no rules but the only boundary they do have, the sex parties he goes to and what goes down there, the fivesome he’s been in an...


1253 - Curly Vixen is Into Orgies, Hooking up with Women and More
10/20/2025

Curly Vixen is into orgies, hooking up with couples, and more, and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how she wound up at her first swingers club and what went down, the virgin she met and how that opened her eyes to wanting more variety, her first hook up with a girl and exactly what went down, how she discovered she was definitely a voyeur and what she enjoys about watching people, how ad why she loves orgies and how she liked them to go down, the gangbangs she’s...


1252 - Yoni Massage and Squirting w/ Sex Coach Caitlin V
10/18/2025

Caitlin V is a sex and relationship coach, YouTuber, and host of Good Sex on HBO Max, and she called in to talk all about yoni massage (aka pussy massage) and squirting. Tune in to hear all the details including why taking your time to do a yoni massage on your girl can really pay off, how to start the massage and what to do first, the three sections of the massage process and what to do in each, how a yoni massage can release tension and heal trauma, Caitlin’s own story of trauma and how she healed th...


1251 – Clay Loves Wearing Hose and His Girlfriend Is Totally Into It
10/17/2025

Clay loves wearing hose and his girl is totally down with it and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including the first time he noticed hose and got turned on by them, how he first got his hands on a pair and what he did with them, the first time he hooked up with a girl in hose and what went down, his marriage to a woman who didn’t understand his fetish and how and why it fell apart, how he met his new girl who not only accepts hi...


1250 - Mizzy Went from Vanilla to Being Totally into Swinging
10/16/2025

Mizzy went from being vanilla to being totally in the lifestyle and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including her first marriage and why it ended, how she wound up at her first swingers meet and greet and how it changed her life, how she met and started dating her now husband, the throuple she was in and why that ended, her and her husbands boundaries and rules, the first couple they played with and exactly what went down, her first girl on girl experience and why she enjoyed it...


1249 - Mr. Blaze on his Love of Hotwifing and Blowing Guys
10/15/2025

Mr. Blaze loves hotwifing and blowing guys and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how he first got into hotwifing super young, the early full-swap relationships he had and what went down, how he would go about getting all his partners into hotwifing for him and what worked best, how and why he’s never really had any rules, the first time he felt jealous and how he worked through it, how he went about picking bulls and tips on how to do it, his early high-school experiences fooling ar...


1248 - Will Started Swinging in the 90’s and He’s Been Swinging Ever Since
10/14/2025

Will started swinging as a solo guy in the 90’s and he’s been swinging ever since and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how he got into swinging through magazine ads before the internet, the first couple he hooked up with and what went down, the second couple and what happened with them, the Caribbean brothels he went to and what went down, how swinging came up with his wife and how they started swinging together, the swinger club they joined and the couples they hooked up with, thei...


1247 – Jeff and Michelle Had an Affair and Now They’re Having Threesomes and Swinging Together
10/13/2025

Jeff and Michelle had an affair and now they’re having threesomes and swinging together and they called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how they met during their affair, why they both cheated on their spouses, how their marriages ended and how they wound up together, when Jeff realized he was into compersion and how he brought it up, how that led to them sharing their fantasies, Michelle’s naughty hookup with a content creator and exactly what went down between all three of them, how Jeff initially felt jealous and...


1246 - How to Be Healthy Naturally Both in and Out of the Bedroom
10/11/2025

Dan Metcalfe, founder and CEO of Born Superhuman, called in to talk all about how to be healthier naturally both in and out of the bedroom tune in to hear all the details including how and why he went from being a West End performer to a health and fitness expert after suffering two major accidents, how he rebuilt his body and mind from paralysis, how he developed his seven pillars of natural health and how each one ties directly into better sex and performance, why oxygen and breathing are crucial for stamina and arousal, how hydration and sleep...


1245 - Juliet has a CRAZY Fetish
10/10/2025

Juliet has a crazy fetish and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including what his actual fetish is., how and where he stumbled upon it and how it turned into a fetish, how it grew into being even more specific when he did a deeper dive, how and when he told his girlfriend and how she felt/feels about it, what he enjoys specifically and how it changed over time, how his fetish led him into being into humiliation, when he got into wearing feminine clothing and got into sissification...


1244 - Jana Got Divorced and Started Having Threesomes, Hooking up with Couples and More
10/09/2025

Jana got divorced and started swinging, having threesomes, hooking up with couples and more and she Calle din to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and why the sex in her marriage went out the window, how after her divorce she decided to explore her sexual fantasies online, where she went looking for partners to hook up with, the first one night stand she had, the first sex party she went to and exactly what went down, the couple she hooked up with and exactly what went down, the couple she was...


1243 - GIRL TALK: Blowjobs, Anal Action, DVP vs. DP and More w/Erica
10/08/2025

Tune in to hear both Kathy and Erics talk about blowjobs, anal action, DVP vs DP and more. Tune in to hear all the details including how Erica feels about blowjobs and why she prefers giving over receiving it, deep throating versus regular blowjobs, eye contact and dirty talk and why its sometimes hard for a woman to talk dirty during sex, anal sex and when Erica first got into it, how she goes about doing DP with her bf and husband, how she’s tried double anal and why she hasn’t mastered it yet, which she prefers DVP...


1242 - Trent’s Wife is a Hotwife Into Gangbangs and More
10/07/2025

Trent’s wife is a hotwif into gangbnags and more and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and when he got involved in the lifestyle solo, his first swinger experience and he wound up in a gangbang and what went down, when he told his current wife about his past and how she felt about it, when they decide to start hooking up with others, the first guy they met online and the rules they had going in, exactly what went down and how his wife felt about it...


1241 - Piper is Into MMF Threesomes, Gloryholes on her Wedding Night, Women and More?!
10/06/2025

Piper is into mmf threesomes, glory holes on her wedding night, women and more and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how she wound up having her first hook up with a couple, how she met her second husband Justin (ep #1187,) how and when he told her he was bi and how she reacted, how and why they started an open relationship right away, the first time they had a mmf hook-up and what went down, the gloryhole experience they had on their wedding night and what went down...


1240 - How Guys Can Last Longer in Bed Naturally w/ Sex and Relationship coach Kevin Anthony
10/04/2025

How can a guy last longer in bed without pills or anything else, sex and relationship coach Kevin Anthony called in to explain how.  ? Tune in to hear how and why he became a sex and relationship coach, what a guy can do to last longer in bed, the average time a man takes to orgasm and the average time it takes a woman, the techniques guys typically use to last longer in bed and why he’s against them, the two techniques that recommends that guys need to last longer, how and why orgasm and ejaculation are two sep...


1239 - Valentina is a Gender Fluid Gay Crossdresser
10/03/2025

Valentina is a young, gender fluid, gay crossdress and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how he identifies and why, how and why he got onto low dose hormones and how they effected him both mentally and physically, the guys that hit on her when he’s dressed up as Valentina, how and when he found out he was HIV positive, how he got it and how he got to the point he was undetectable, what being undetectable means and how that works, the medication he takes and how it...


1238 - Cate Went on HRT and Now she Can Squirt, Orgasm Hundreds of Times per Day and Has Been to a Sex Club and More
10/02/2025

Cate went on HRT and can now squirt, have hundreds of orgasms a day and been to a sex club and more and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and why she went on pellets and how it effected her sex drive, how her husband went on them too, how she can literally have hundreds of orgasms a day even when she’s not touched not touched, how her husband recently got her to squirt for the first time, how her squirting orgasms differ from her multi orgasms, the...


1237 - Justin Cheated on his Wife in the Lifestyle with Couples, Men and Women
10/01/2025

Justin cheated on his wife for years in the lifestyle with couples, men and women and he called in to talk about it. Tune in t hear all the details including the first time he cheated and exactly what went down, how he wound up at his first a swingers club and the couple he had a 3some with and what went down, the next threesome he had and what went down, his first experience with a guy and what went down, the adult theater experiences he had wit men and couples, the times he cheated on his wife...


1236 - Hunter and his Wife Went from Vanilla to Cheating to Hardcore Swinging
09/30/2025

Hunter and his wife went from vanilla to cheating to hardcore swinging recently and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how he cheated on his wife and how they worked through it, how they’re went from being very vanilla and the app they used to start talking about sex, the first sex club they went to and what went down the first night, how and when he told his wife he was bi and how she reacted, their first soft swap and exactly what went down, their first fu...


1235 - Tanya Loves Gangbangs, Spit Roasting and So Much More
09/29/2025

Tanya loves gangbangs, spit roasting and so much more and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all thee details including how and why she wound up at a swinger club solo for the first time, how and why she chose DTF night the first night she went, how he wound up in a gangbang the first night and how many guys joined in, the gangbang coordinator who set the whole thing up, the ganbangs she had the second night she went and what went down, one of her fave bukakke experience and how...


1234 - Kink and Fetishes Explained w/the The Kink Consultant, Amanda Dames
09/27/2025

The Kink Consultant, Amanda Dames, called in to discuss kinks and fetishes and how she helps people work with them. Tune in to hear her discuss the different ways she works with couples as well as singles, the difference between a kink and a fetish, her fetish and how it has gotten in the way of her relationships, how and why sex is important in a relationship, how guys can explain their fetish to their partners and why its important to maintain a balance when it comes to your requests, where to meet fellow kinky people, how she advises...


1233- Corbin has a Pantyhose Fetish and his Wife Knows About It
09/26/2025

Corbin has a pantyhose fetish and his wife knows all about it and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including when he first realized he was Into pantyhose, when he started taking his sisters tights andmom's stuff and what he would do with them, how he got caught and how his mom reacted, the sites he joined to find girls wearing pantyhose after hose went out of style, the first gf who would wear hose for him as well as the next gf he told and how she reacted, when...


1232 - Abby is a Hotwife with a Stag/Cuck Husband
09/25/2025

Abby is a hotwife with a stag husband and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including her and her husband's first threesome and exactly what went down, the rules they had going in, how and why her husband eventually just started watching instead of participating, the younger guy she was hooking up with and why she loved banging him so much, how she enjoys when her husband is there involve as much as when she plays solo, the day she did two guys together at once and how that happened...


1231 - FACT OR FICTION: Chad’ Wife Sleeps with Other Guys for Him
09/24/2025

Chad’s wife sleeps with other guys for him and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear him discuss all the details including their first mfm threesome and who they had it with, the friend she hooked up with and what went down with him, her co-worker that she hooked up with and how that caused problems for her and for their marriage, how and why they stopped for many years and why they started hotwifing again, why he got into hotwifing back when they first started vs. why he’s into it now,  the h...


1230 - Dean had an Affair with a Hot, Bank Teller and It Didn't End Well
09/23/2025

Dean had an affair with his hot bank teller that didn't end well and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including his sex life with his wife and the issues she had, how his wife kind of gave him a free pass and why he had never taken it, how he stated developing a relationship with his bank teller, how they eventually wound up having lunch and how that led to many more lunches, when the convo at lunch became “personal,” the sex contract she proposed and what was in it i...


1229 - Susie and Jeff Started Sleeping with Others & Having Threesomes Right from the Get Go
09/22/2025

Susie and Jeff started swinging with each other right from the get go and they called on to talk all about it.  Tune in to hear all the details including how and why they were super open about sex with each other right from the get go, how Susie was really into BBC and how Jeff was bi and how they both felt about it, when they crossed the line, the first guy they met and the rules they had going in, what exactly went down during their first mmf threesome, how they both love “cleaning up,” their trip to an...


1228 - How to Get the Spark Back in a Sexless Marriage w/ Susan Morgan Taylor
09/20/2025

How can you get the spark back in your sexless marriage? Well Susan Morgan Taylor called in to explain how. Tune in to hear her discuss the different reasons why couples wind up in a sexless marriage, how men and women are different when it comes to sex and how and why it’s important to understand where the other is coming from, your “erotic blueprint” and why it’s important to know what both you and your partners blueprint, how to bring up getting help if you’re in a sexless marriage and what to do if you’re partner i...