Parenting with Impact
The Parenting with Impact Podcast with Elaine Taylor-Klaus and Diane Dempster, co-creators of ImpactParents.com, inspires parents and professionals guiding complex kids, teens and young adults all over the world to become capable, independent adults. ImpactParents.com is an online community, award-winning blog, and direct service provider for parents and professionals. Elaine and Diane are certified professional coaches with their own lived experience raising children with complex challenges such as ADHD, anxiety, depression, learning disabilities, gender identity issues, and more. Drawing from both personal and professional experience, they teach and inspire parents and professionals to raise and empower complex kids...
EP236: Executive Function & ADHD: What Parents Need To Know
Struggling with motivation, time management, or emotional outbursts? It might not be what you think. In this episode, we will unpack the real impact of executive function and why it matters more than ever. Tune in to learn what’s really going on behind the behavior, and what parents can do differently starting today.
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Why executive function affects everything we think, feel, and do Why medication doesn’t actually solve executive function issues and what can help insteadHow to understand the difference between remediation and accommodation at ho...EP235: Improve Executive Function And Family Dynamics In The Tween Years
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What if the real breakthrough in parenting starts with you? In this episode, discover how the power of pause, play, and presence can reshape your relationship with your tween. Instead of rushing to fix behavior, you’ll explore how shifting your own approach creates space for growth, connection, and lasting change. Tune in and uncover what truly moves the needle in your family dynamic.
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Why “driving the car” is a metaphor every parent should understandHow visual tools and playful structure reduce stress at hom...EP234: How To Support Young Adults Through Nonlinear Life Paths
What if growing up doesn’t follow a straight line anymore, and that’s perfectly normal? This episode explores the evolving journey of emerging adulthood, the hidden challenges today’s young people face, and how parents can support them without falling into outdated expectations. From delayed independence to collaborative planning, discover why there's no one-size-fits-all path to thriving.
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Why the path to adulthood looks different nowWhat college readiness really meansHow to recognize when your child needs a pause before a planWhy collaboration, not control, helps emerging adults...EP233: Why Homework Is Hard: Executive Function, Stress, and Real Solutions
Homework struggles aren’t always about motivation. Sometimes, the biggest obstacles are invisible, like executive function challenges or stress overload. In this episode, we will discover what’s really going on when kids avoid or resist assignments, why your go-to solutions might not be working, and how to take a fresh approach that actually helps. If you’re tired of nagging and want a smarter way forward, this is your next listen.
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Why executive function impacts every stage of the homework processThe 12 invisible steps kids must take t...EP232: How To Build Trust And Emotional Security In Kids
What if the change your child needs starts with you? This episode explores how rethinking your role through an attachment lens can unlock new ways to connect, support, and truly understand your child. Discover what happens when you stop trying to fix and start seeing differently. You may never look at parenting the same way again.
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Why real change begins when caregivers feel just as empowered as their kidsHow an attachment-based lens helps reframe behavior and connectionWhat reflective parenting looks like and why it builds trust...EP231: ADHD And Productivity: How To Work Smarter, Not Harder
Struggling to get things done might not be about effort; it could be something deeper. Psychologist Ari Tuckman uncovers the emotional roadblocks behind productivity, from shame to decision paralysis. Discover how to rethink prioritization and tap into meaningful motivation. A must-listen for anyone who wants to work smarter, not just harder.
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Why productivity struggles often start with emotional roadblocks, not lack of effortHow to figure out what’s really getting in the way when you’re stuckWhat it means to define a problem clearly before jumping to solutionsWhy lear...EP230: Structure Time: Back to School with Systems That Work
Back-to-school season brings more than sharpened pencils and new routines. It is a full-spectrum shift in structure, emotion, and identity. This episode unpacks what is really happening beneath the surface for both kids and parents during this transition. From resistance to readiness, discover why slowing down, tuning in, and getting curious might be the most powerful back-to-school tools of all.
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Why structure can feel empowering for some and exhausting for othersHow to partner effectively with teachers (without overwhelming them)Why flexible systems beat rigid rules in...EP229: Simplifying Mindfulness (and How to Start Small)
What if doing nothing is exactly what your nervous system needs? In this episode, meditation teacher Jeff Warren joins the conversation to explore mindfulness, emotional regulation, and the power of presence. Learn why fewer thoughts can mean fewer problems and how simple grounding moments can shift the way you parent. This isn’t about fixing; it’s about noticing, being, and allowing space for something new to emerge.
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EP228: Screen Time, Safety, and Smart Tech Use with Common Sense Media
Today’s kids are growing up online, and parenting hasn’t kept pace. In this episode, Betsy Bozdech from Common Sense Media unpacks the real challenges of raising digital natives. From screen time to AI, the conversation dives into what families need to know but rarely talk about. If you think tech is the problem, think again.
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Why technology is not just a distraction, but a lifeline for today’s kidsHow digital life blends with real life for digital nativesWhat parents need to understand before removing screen...EP227: Key Lessons from 14 Years of Parent Coaching
In this special anniversary episode, Parenting with Impact celebrates four years of podcasting and 14 years since the launch of ImpactParents.com. We will reflect on how the coaching model has grown, what core truths continue to guide us, and why emotional regulation and collaborative parenting matter now more than ever. From tech challenges to teen transitions, the conversation offers timeless guidance for today’s families. Celebrate with us and see why this journey is only just beginning.
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Why emotional regulation remains the fo...EP226: Math Anxiety in Kids: How to Close the Learning Gap
If your child dreads math, the problem may not be numbers—it may be a hidden gap in understanding. In this thought-provoking episode, Dr. Aditya Nagrath explains why math anxiety is more about language and belief than ability. Discover what happens when kids stop feeling “stupid” and start feeling seen, supported, and capable.
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EP225: The Connection Between Complex Kids, Gender & Sensory Issues
There’s more to your child’s behavior than what you see. What if the real struggle isn’t defiance but the way the world feels to them, both inside and out? This episode offers a powerful new lens on neurodivergence, gender, identity, and safety. It’s a conversation that invites you to pause, reconsider, and stay curious from beginning to end.
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EP224: Success! Strategies for Better Relationships With Complex Teens
When parenting feels like a constant battle, is there another way forward? In this episode, Marina G. shares her powerful shift from stress and control to calm and connection. Listen until the end and discover what happens when, through subtle but meaningful changes, a parent chooses curiosity over command.
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Why letting go of control might be the most powerful parenting move you makeHow doing nothing changed everything in Marina’s relationship with her daughterWhat shifted when curiosity replaced correctionThe surprising moment Marina realized she wa...EP223: Avoid Meltdowns & Shutdowns with ADHD Communication Tools
Meltdowns aren’t always what they seem, and your child’s silence might be saying more than you think. In this episode, we explore the hidden connection between communication struggles and emotional blow-ups. Therapist Holly Blanc Moses joins us to unpack the subtle signals parents often miss, the assumptions that can get in the way, and the small shifts that can transform your relationship. If you’ve ever wondered what’s really going on behind the shutdowns, this conversation will make you think twice and inspire you to try something new.
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EP222: College Confidence for Complex Teens: Finding the Right Fit
Getting into college isn’t just about grades. It’s about finding the right fit emotionally, socially, and academically. In this episode, Dr. Pamela Ellis shares how families can approach the high school-to-college transition with more clarity, less stress, and renewed confidence. From building trust with your teen to letting go of outdated expectations, you’ll walk away with a fresh perspective on what success really looks like for them and for you.
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EP221: Parenting Tips When Emerging Adults Feel Stuck
They’re adults now, but they’re still stuck—and nothing you try seems to help. You push, they resist. You back off, they stall. If you’re tired of walking on eggshells and unsure how to actually support your young adult, this episode is for you. We’re talking about what really gets in the way, and how a small shift in your approach can make a big difference.
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The hidden reasons your child may appear “lazy” or unmotivatedWhat to do instead of pushing your agenda when they feel stuc...EP220: Tabletop Gaming: Social & Emotional Skills for Neurodiverse Kids
What if imagination could build real-world skills? In this episode, we will explore how tabletop role-playing games (RPGs) like D&D help neurodiverse kids develop confidence, communication, and connection. Guests Bex Taylor-Klaus and Mischa Stanton share how these games create powerful opportunities for growth. Ready to rethink what play can do? Hit play and join the adventure.
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EP219: How to Help ADHD Students Succeed in the Classroom
If you’ve ever sat in a school meeting thinking, “They just don’t get my kid,” this episode is for you. Guest Cindy Goldrich, an ADHD and executive function expert, reveals what most teachers don’t know about ADHD, why school support often misses the mark, and how to advocate with compassion, not conflict. Whether you're a parent seeking support or an educator feeling overwhelmed, Cindy shares a powerful lens on collaboration, stress, and building spaces where complex kids truly thrive.
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EP218: Family Meetings for Better Communication, Trust, and Connection
Family meetings often sound rigid or old-fashioned—but what if they were the key to deeper connection, trust, and teamwork at home? In this episode, Diane and Elaine share a modern, lighthearted approach to turning family meetings into something everyone looks forward to. With practical tips and a focus on communication (not control), you’ll learn how to create a safe space where every voice matters.
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Why connection, not correction, should be the goal of family meetingsWhat happens when kids feel heard and involved in decision-makingHow rota...EP217: Online Safety for Kids: Roblox New Parental Controls
The world your child plays in is bigger than you think, and it’s changing faster than most parents can track. In this eye-opening episode, Dina Lamdany, a product manager at Roblox, joins us to unpack how the platform is evolving to protect kids and spark healthier digital conversations. But this isn't just about parental controls or privacy settings. It’s about how we stay connected to our kids in a digital world that won’t slow down. If you’ve ever wondered whether “no” is the safest answer, or if there’s a smarter way to say “let’s figure this out...
EP216: ADHD & Memory: It's So Important, I Forgot
What if forgetfulness isn't a flaw but a clue to how the brain really works? In this fascinating episode, memory researcher and ADHD coach Daniella Karidi helps us unravel the layers of how we remember, why we forget, and what makes memory especially tricky for those with ADHD. You’ll walk away questioning everything you thought you knew about reminders, routines, and recall. Whether you’re a parent, educator, or just someone trying to stay organized, this conversation offers surprising insights and practical takeaways.
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EP215: Parenting Siblings: Neurodiversity, Conflict & Fairness
Sibling tension is a normal part of family life, but when one or more kids are neurodivergent, the challenges can feel even more intense. In this episode, we peel back the layers of comparison, conflict, and misunderstanding to reveal what’s really going on beneath the surface. Join us as we explore how to support every child’s needs, create a sense of fairness, and build stronger sibling connections that last.
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What if those constant fights are actually your child’s way of learning emotional intelligence?Why do...EP214: The Secret to Letting Go: Supporting Teens Without Micromanaging
Parenting through transitions isn’t just about preparing your child for what’s next. It’s also about redefining your own role in the process. In this episode, Elaine and Melanie dive into the emotional shifts, mindset changes, and quiet growth moments that often go unseen. If you've ever wondered how to stay connected while letting go, or how to support your child without losing yourself, this conversation is for you.
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Why managing your own emotional baggage is crucial during your child's transitionsHow to spot and adjust...EP213: Life After 18: Unique Paths for Neurodivergent Young Adults
Not every young adult follows a path from point A to point B after high school, and that might be the key to growth. In this episode, we will explore how parents can support complex kids during one of life’s most uncertain transitions. From building trust to stepping back at the right time, this conversation challenges traditional ideas of success and opens the door to something more meaningful.Â
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EP212: Beyond the Label: How to Help Your Child Flourish Using Brain Science
What if the way we view our kids could literally shape their brains? In this eye-opening conversation, Sue Langley blends neuroscience, psychology, and personal stories to explore how strengths-based parenting can shift everything. Whether you're feeling stuck or simply curious, this episode invites you to rethink what’s possible for your child and for yourself.
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EP211: From Chaos to Calm: Building Sleep Routines for Sensory-Sensitive Kids
You’ve tried the white noise, the cozy bedtime stories, even the perfectly timed evening routine. And still, sleep feels like a nightly mystery. If you relate to this, then this episode is for you! Dial in as we explore the subtle but powerful shifts that can make a real difference for complex kids who struggle to fall and stay asleep with sleep specialist Hilliary Giglio. Don’t miss this conversation, which just might offer the clarity and hope you’ve been looking for.
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Why “bedtime routine” means something d...EP210: Why Smart Kids Struggle in School and What Executive Function Has to Do With It
Uncover the critical intersection of executive function and educational success. This enlightening discussion reveals why some of the smartest kids face unexpected challenges in school and how understanding these hidden barriers can transform their academic journey. Tune in for unique insights and expert strategies to support your child's learning process.
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Understanding the impact of executive function challenges on school successThe importance of emotional regulation and frustration tolerance in academic environmentsStrategies for identifying and addressing specific executive function issuesThe role of parental involvement in managing and accommodating...EP209: Peaceful Parenting Secrets: How to Build Trust and Raise Confident Kids Without Control
What happens when you stop trying to control your kids and start truly collaborating with them? In this episode, we sit down with Sarah Rosensweet to explore fresh perspectives on raising complex kids. Sarah shares stories, strategies, and insights that can challenge how you think about parenting. Tune in and see how changing your approach can transform not just your relationship with your children, but the way you see yourself as a parent.
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The essential difference between controlling your child and collaborating with themHow to handle...EP208: Unlocking Teen Potential: Resilience, Innovation & Hope in a Complex World
Elaine sits down with leadership expert Ed Gerety to discuss the intersection of leadership and parenting teens. Drawing on decades of experience working with youth, Ed shares actionable strategies for fostering open communication, focusing on effort over outcomes, and helping teens develop independence. If you’re looking for practical tools and fresh perspectives on raising resilient, capable teens, don’t miss this conversation.
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How to build trust and deeper connections with your teens Why it's crucial to acknowledge your teen's hard work even when they don't achie...EP207: Rebuilding Trust with Teens: Cleaning the Slate Conversations
Rebuilding trust within a family is no small feat, especially when past hurts linger. In this episode, Elaine and Diane tackle the complexities of mending relationships and navigating emotional barriers. They share practical insights and a transformative strategy -- cleaning-the-slate conversations -- to guide families in clearing old wounds and creating space for growth and connection.
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How to acknowledge and address lingering resentments that hinder communicationThe “clean the slate” approach to resetting relationships and moving forwardStrategies for creating alignment and building trust with children of all...EP206: Neurodiversity is not a Character Flaw: How to be a Brain Friend
What happens when a seasoned corporate leader finds herself rethinking everything she thought she knew about neurodiversity? Join us as Kristen Pressner shares how unexpected insights reshaped her perspective at home and at work, changing the way she approaches challenges, relationships, and what it really means to thrive.
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EP205: Parenting Beyond Media Stereotypes & Perfection with Bridgett Brown
Discover how embracing imperfection and redefining beauty can transform self-image and strengthen family bonds. Bridgett Brown, founder of the Beyond Beauty Project, shares her personal journey and offers fresh insights into representation, self-trust, and self-acceptance. Together, we’ll explore how we can empower parents and children to build confidence, resilience, and a healthier relationship with their bodies and minds! This is an inspiring conversation. Tune in now and find out how you can support yourself and your kids on this journey.
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How so...EP205: Parenting Beyond Media Stereotypes & Perfection with Bridgett Brown
Discover how embracing imperfection and redefining beauty can transform self-image and strengthen family bonds. Bridgett Brown, founder of the Beyond Beauty Project, shares her personal journey and offers fresh insights into representation, self-trust, and self-acceptance. Together, we’ll explore how we can empower parents and children to build confidence, resilience, and a healthier relationship with their bodies and minds! This is an inspiring conversation. Tune in now and find out how you can support yourself and your kids on this journey.
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How so...EP204: Practical Nutrition Tips For Neurodiverse Kids: Expert Advice with Kelly Dorfman
Could food be the missing piece in your child's development? Learn the answer in this episode with nutrition expert Kelly Dorfman, M.S., who explores the hidden connection between diet and neurodiversity. Listen until the end for practical strategies to support your neurodiverse child through targeted nutrition!
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The relationship between brain chemistry and nutrition for neurodiverse kidsHow to identify and address potential dietary irritantsThe role of essential nutrients in supporting cognitive function and learningPractical ways to reduce the “toxic load” on the brain and enhance lear...EP203: The Power of Good Enough: Progress Over Perfection
What if perfectionism is actually holding you back? In this episode, Elaine and Diane discuss how to shift your focus from impossible standards to steady improvement. Learn why striving for “perfect” often backfires and how you can find more freedom and growth by choosing progress instead.
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The different forms of perfectionismImportance of a growth mindset vs. a fixed mindset in parentingStrategies for helping kids overcome the fear of failureHow parents’ own perfectionist tendencies can influence their children’s behaviorBenefits of celebrating progress and small victorie...EP202: ADHD Can Help You Succeed in Unexpected Ways with Ari Tuckman, Psy.D.
If you're living with ADHD or love someone who is, you know it's more than just forgetting keys. This episode dives deep into the emotional realities of ADHD with Ari Tuckman, Psy.D., exploring self-acceptance, family dynamics, and the power of community. Get ready for a conversation that finally "gets it." Listen now!
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A deep dive into the emotional landscape of ADHDPractical strategies for managing ADHD in daily lifeThe significance of community support and connection for individuals and families affected by ADHDGuidance for individuals...EP201: Meet Fawn: A Tool for Nurturing Emotional Growth in ND Kids
Parenting in today’s world can feel more complex than ever, especially for those raising neurodivergent kids. In this episode, we engage in an inspiring conversation with Peter Fitzpatrick, the co-founder of Fawn Friends, to explore innovative ways parents can cultivate emotional trust, safety, and intelligence in their children. Tune into this episode to discover fresh perspectives on enhancing your child’s emotional and social development.
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How technology can create safe spaces for children to express themselvesThe role of emotional trust and how...EP200: Reduce Family Stress by Taking Aim
We're celebrating 200 episodes of the Parenting with Impact podcast with a deep dive into what it really takes to create lasting change. In this special episode, we explore the first step of our proven Impact Model: Take Aim. Learn how to cut through the noise and pinpoint the one area you want to focus on to achieve actionable change. Tune in now to reduce stress, increase family harmony, and start seeing real progress!
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EP199: Relatable Social Skills for Kids with ADHD with Ryan Wexelblatt
Raising kids with ADHD can be a journey filled with unique challenges and incredible growth opportunities. In this episode, we dive into a dynamic and insightful conversation with Ryan Wexelblatt, widely known as the ADHD Dude. We’ll uncover powerful strategies to help parents guide their children with ADHD toward greater independence and resilience. From cultivating a growth mindset to tackling social and executive function hurdles, this episode equips parents with practical tools to empower their kids to flourish.
Don’t miss this episode with Ryan Wexelblatt and discover effective ways to support your chil...
EP198: ADHD & Sleep pt 2: Getting Kids In & Out of Bed
Bedtime battles for younger kids, sleep schedules for older kids, and morning chaos for everyone are some challenging transitions for parents and kids alike! In this episode of Parenting with Impact, Elaine Taylor-Klaus and Diane Dempster return to tackle sleep challenges in part two of their discussion. They explore how parents can apply the coach approach to foster collaboration, problem-solving, and resilience during these tricky times. From addressing executive function challenges to experimenting with creative wake-up solutions, this episode is packed with practical insights to help families transition smoothly in (and out) of sleep routines.
