Parenting with Impact

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By: Elaine Taylor-Klaus and Diane Dempster

The Parenting with Impact Podcast with Elaine Taylor-Klaus and Diane Dempster, co-creators of ImpactParents.com, inspires parents and professionals guiding complex kids, teens and young adults all over the world to become capable, independent adults. ImpactParents.com is an online community, award-winning blog, and direct service provider for parents and professionals. Elaine and Diane are certified professional coaches with their own lived experience raising children with complex challenges such as ADHD, anxiety, depression, learning disabilities, gender identity issues, and more. Drawing from both personal and professional experience, they teach and inspire parents and professionals to raise and empower complex kids...

EP263: How to Help 2e Kids with Social Skills and Bullying with Elizabeth Smith
Last Wednesday at 10:00 AM

Social struggles are not just about making friends. For many neurodivergent and 2e or “twice exceptional” kids, misunderstood social cues, complex peer dynamics, and hurt feelings can quickly turn into conflict or isolation. In this episode, Elizabeth Smith unpacks what is really happening beneath these interactions and how parents can guide their kids through them with greater clarity and understanding. Dive in to learn how you can help your child navigate social situations, respond confidently to teasing, and feel like they truly belong with peers.

What to expect in this episode:

The differences between soci...


EP262: Success! Coaching Group Members Share Powerful Stories
04/15/2026

Parenting a complex teen can feel isolating, exhausting, and hard to figure out on your own. What if you didn’t have to do it alone? In this episode, real parents share how group coaching helped them feel supported, learn practical parenting strategies, and create lasting change in their families. Listen in to find out how support, connection, and the right tools can help you parent with more confidence, calm, and hope.


What to expect in this episode:

How group coaching helps parents feel less alone and more supportedThe difference between su...


EP261: Wired for Survival: Creating Safety & Calming Your Nervous System with Theresa Lear Levine
04/08/2026

You know what to do, but still can’t seem to do it. That gap isn’t necessarily about discipline or motivation. In this episode, Theresa Lear Levine reveals how your nervous system and subconscious patterns can quietly drive your reactions, keeping you stuck in stress, overwhelm, and unhelpful old habits. Listen in to learn how EFT tapping can help you self-regulate, shift into calm, and start responding with more clarity, control, and confidence.


What to expect in this episode:

Why knowing what to do doesn’t automatically translate into doing itHow...


EP260: How To Build Self-Trust and Emotional Regulation with Autism and ADHD with Taylor Heaton
04/01/2026

Supporting your kid starts with supporting yourself, and that’s especially true if you’re a neurodivergent parent. In this episode with Taylor Heaton, we’ll explore the importance of rest, routines, and trusting yourself when it comes to self-regulation, and what a later-in-life diagnosis can do for parents who might be struggling. Join us for insights on understanding yourself to parent with clarity and confidence.

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What to expect in this episode:

How a late autism diagnosis can impact identity and self-understandingWhy trusting your body and intuition is essential for neurodivergent adultsHow autistic...


EP259: From Control to Cooperation: Rethinking Screen Time
03/25/2026

Struggling with screen time, online safety, or other tech battles at home? It might not be about increasing control. In this episode, Elaine and Diane explore how shifting from fear to curiosity, and prohibition to cooperation, can help kids build healthy, sustainable relationships with technology. Press play to learn how communication and empowerment can change everything.
 
 

What to expect in this episode:

●     How to build a healthy relationship with tech beyond setting screen limits

●     Why agreements work better than rules for managing technology use

●     How to stop treating technolo...


EP258: Gap Years for Neurodiverse Teens: What Parents Need to Know with Jason Sarouhan
03/18/2026

Not every student is ready to go straight from high school to college—and that doesn’t mean they are falling behind. In this episode, Jason Sarouhan explains how taking intentional time after high school can help neurodiverse young adults build confidence, resilience, intention, and real-world skills before taking their next step. Tune in to explore a more flexible, growth-centered path for your graduating teen.
 
 

What to expect in this episode:

●     What a gap year really is—and why it is more than just taking time off

●     How intentionality, structure, mentors...


Ep257: A Psychiatrist's View on Focus for ADHD Brains with Kourosh Dini
03/11/2026

Waiting until the last-minute panic hits to finally get things done? In this episode, Dr. Kourosh Dini explores why urgency isn’t the only way to activate focus with ADHD. Learn how using pause, play, interest, and agency can replace force-based productivity with something more sustainable and self-trusting. Press play to discover a calmer, connected, and more intuitive way to engage with your work and your life.
 
 What to expect in this episode:

●     Why the pause helps emotions crystallize into clearer thinking and better decisions

●     How a one-breath “visit” can reduce avoidance and rebu...


EP256: Parenting ADHD: How To Handle School Refusal With Confidence
03/04/2026

What if school refusal is not defiance, but a signal? In this episode, we look beneath the surface at the real reasons kids resist school—from executive function challenges and shame, to sensory overload and fear. Learn how to respond with curiosity instead of control, and how to work with your child to build solutions together. Tune in to solve school battles and restore your kid’s confidence for learning.

What to expect in this episode:

Why school refusal is often about overwhelm, not lazinessThe emotional layers of shame, anxiety, and perfectionismSocial stre...


EP255: Managing ADHD Through Conversation, Not Willpower with Jeff Copper
02/25/2026

When follow-through keeps breaking down, the answer isn't planning harder. In this episode with ADHD coach Jeff Copper, we unpack why executive function struggles come from ambiguity, not lack of effort, and why direct conversation is a powerful accommodation. Press play to learn what actually helps kids and adults with ADHD move from planning to action.

What to expect in this episode:

Why people with ADHD struggle to execute plans even when the goal is clearHow ambiguity, not laziness, disrupts follow-through and problem-solvingWhat executive functions really are and how they operate as...


EP254: Gender Differences in ADHD and Neurodiversity with Dr. Janina Maschke
02/18/2026

ADHD doesn’t look the same for every kid—especially as children grow into teens and young adults. In this episode, Dr. Janina Maschke explains how gender, stigma, and internalized behaviors can shape diagnosis, coping mechanisms, and self-esteem. Press play to understand what’s happening beneath the surface and how parents can offer the support their kid really needs.

What to expect in this episode:

Why is ADHD often missed or diagnosed late in girls and womenHow internalized behaviors mask hyperactivity and executive function strugglesThe connection between undiagnosed ADHD, anxiety, and low self-e...


EP253: Get Curious, Not Furious: A Better Way to Parent Complex Kids
02/11/2026

Feeling quick to anger or stuck in constant conflict with your child? It doesn't have to be that way. In this episode, we'll explore how leading with curiosity can help parents slow down, regulate emotions, and understand what's really driving their complex kids' behavior. Press play to learn how getting curious can restore calm, connection, and clarity to your home.
 

What to expect in this episode:

Why leading with curiosity helps parents regulate their own emotions before reactingHow slowing down to understand context can change problem-solving outcomesWhat “get curious, not furious” really means in da...


EP252: How To Advocate For Kids Struggling In School With Scotti Weintraub
02/04/2026

If school feels like a constant battle, you’re not alone. When your child struggles in school, it’s easy to feel lost, frustrated, or blamed. In this episode, Scotti Weintraub shares how understanding your child’s brain and reframing diagnosis as empowerment can turn that frustration into confidence. Tune in to learn how small mindset shifts and stronger partnerships with teachers can transform your child’s school experience.

What to expect in this episode:

Why viewing your child’s school struggles with curiosity, not frustration, can change everythingHow reframing a diagnosis as a gift...


EP251: Befriend Your Brain: Parenting, Compassion, and Practical Neuroscience with Dr. Rachel Barr
01/28/2026

What if the secret to thriving isn’t fixing your brain but befriending it? Neuroscientist Rachel Barr shares powerful insights on how curiosity, compassion, and small daily shifts can unlock calm, clarity, and confidence. Discover why pushing harder keeps you stuck and what actually helps your brain work for you. Tune in to learn how to make your brain your greatest ally starting today.

What to expect in this episode:

Why "try harder" sets your brain up for failure and how the right environment can set it up for success.How befriending yo...


EP250: Parent Mentor Success Story: Calm, Connection, And Growth That Lasts
01/21/2026

One small shift can turn family tension into trust. In this episode, parent mentor Georgia F. shares how curiosity, collaboration, and assumed best intentions transformed her family after an autism diagnosis. You’ll hear practical tools for calmer communication, stronger relationships, and raising confident, independent kids. Press play to learn how changing how you show up can change everything.

What to expect in this episode:

How a moment of “I didn’t sign up for this” can become purposeThe brief family conversation that shifted tone and trustWhy curiosity works better than judgment in reduc...


EP249: Parenting Neurodivergent Kids: From Information to Real Change
01/14/2026

Trying everything but still feeling stuck with your complex kid? The problem may not be your strategy, but how you are managing yourself. In this episode, we break down why information alone does not create change and what actually helps families move forward. Press play to rethink what support really looks like.

What to expect in this episode:

Why managing yourself is the foundation for supporting complex kidsWhat makes coaching skills more effective than collecting more parenting adviceHow collaborative problem solving builds real buy-in and independenceWhy community and feedback accelerate change when...


EP248: The Truth About High-THC Cannabis And Complex Kids with Dr. Yasmin Hurd
01/07/2026

Is cannabis really harmless for teens? Neuroscientist Dr. Yasmin Hurd reveals what parents need to know about today’s high-THC products, brain development, and the real risks of early use. Learn how addiction can form, why anxiety and psychosis are rising, and the signs parents should watch for. Press play to hear the truth behind the science and how to protect your teen with facts, not fear.

What to expect in this episode:

What “epigenetics” really means and how early cannabis exposure rewires the brainWhy today’s cannabis is drastically stronger and far risk...


EP247: Best ADHD, Sleep, and Parenting Insights of the Year
12/31/2025

Many of the challenges families face are more connected than they appear. In this episode, we bring together key insights from this year to explore how executive function, nervous system regulation, and sleep shape behavior and daily life. You’ll hear why surface-level strategies fall short and what helps families move forward with intention. Tune in to connect the dots.

What to expect in this episode:

Why executive function and nervous system regulation drive sleep and morningsHow circadian rhythms shape sleep timing, not willpowerWhat shifts when kids co-create routines instead of being pu...


EP246: How To Stay Grounded When Parenting Young Adults With Dayna Abraham
12/24/2025

Do you ever feel like your needs and your child or young adult’s needs are constantly clashing? In this episode, Dayna Abraham shares how small daily steps, honest conversations, and self-awareness can ease tension and rebuild trust. Listen now to discover one powerful shift that brings more calm, clarity, and connection at home.

What to expect in this episode:

Why you are not the only one and how the community breaks the isolation of parentingWhat “late to launch” really means and why delays often widen after 18How the GRIT method (Ground, Release, Invite, Take a...


EP245: What Happens At The International ADHD Conference
12/17/2025

Ever wondered what it feels like to be surrounded by more than a thousand people who truly get the ADHD experience? In this episode, we explore the energy, connection, and unexpected moments that shaped our time at the International Conference on ADHD. We share what community support really looks like and why being in the room matters more than you think. Press play to hear the insights and inspiration we brought home from this powerful event.


 What to expect in this episode:

How connecting with an ADHD community can shift your entire experience i...


EP244: How To Build Executive Skills With Rachel Kapp & Stephanie Pitts
12/10/2025

If homework battles and school stress feel never-ending, you’re not alone. This episode reveals how educational therapy helps kids build confidence, strengthen executive function, and become independent learners. Discover how small shifts, the right timing, and a coach approach can turn daily struggles into lasting success at home and school.


What to expect in this episode:

What educational therapy is and how it differs from tutoring or coachingHow empowering kids to lead their own learning builds confidence and independenceThe signs that show when a learner is ready to accept help and make a...


EP243: Fun, Simple Mindfulness for ADHD Families with Dr. Chris Willard
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12/03/2025

Does parenting sometimes feel overwhelming or chaotic? In this episode, Dr Chris Willard shares how mindfulness, humor, and small daily practices can shift the tone of your home and build resilience for kids. He explains why calm begins with you and how presence matters more than perfection. Listen now to discover one simple shift that can bring more peace and connection into your family life.

What to expect in this episode:

Dr Chris Willard’s journey with ADHD, sobriety, and mindfulnessMindfulness as play, humor, movement, and creativityHow a few breaths can calm th...


EP242: Emotional Reactivity In Kids: Safety Matters More Than Willpower
11/26/2025

If you feel like someone in your home is always shutting down, melting down, or firing back, you’re not imagining it. Reactivity takes over fast, especially in stressed or neurodiverse families. In this episode, we’ll explain why it happens, how to spot each SODA pattern, and what to do in the moment to create safety and calm. Tune in to learn one shift that can lower stress for everyone in your home.

What to expect in this episode:

Why reactivity comes from the body, not willpower, and how that changes your...


EP241: How to Make IEPs Neuro-Affirming and Student-Led with Chris Wenger
11/19/2025

Can changing a few words in an IEP change a child’s future? Speech Dude Chris Wenger shares how to reframe support plans to empower neurodivergent kids instead of pushing them to mask. Learn why connection, regulation, and self-advocacy matter more than compliance and how actually to build those skills into your child’s education plan.

What to expect in this episode:

Why IEPs often miss the mark and how to fix themHow to replace deficit language with strength-based reframesWhy connection and regulation need to come before learningHow co-creating goals with kids lead...


EP240: Mild to Moderate ADHD? Why Labels Mislead in Helping Your Child Thrive
11/12/2025

Ever been told your child has “mild ADHD”? In this episode, we’ll talk about why no ADHD is ever “a little” and how understanding it early can change everything. You’ll hear how small shifts in awareness and support can help your child feel more capable and connected. Tune in to discover a new way to see and support your child’s unique brain.

What to expect in this episode:

Why “mild to moderate ADHD” can be as misleading as being “a little bit pregnant”How gifted kids can mask ADHD challenges until they...


EP239: Ted Dintersmith: Future Skills Schools Should Teach Now
11/05/2025

Is school preparing kids for the future or just training them to chase scores? In this episode, Ted Dintersmith reveals why outdated priorities fail students and how creativity, agency, and happiness are the real keys to success. Tune in to discover what kids truly need to thrive in an AI-driven world.

What to expect in this episode:

Why test scores don’t reflect real learning or future successThe truth behind pandemic “learning loss” and what really mattersHow AI is reshaping your child’s future and what they need to know A powerful school mo...


EP238: Rick Green on Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria: What is It & How to Manage It?
10/29/2025

Why does rejection hit so hard for people with ADHD? In this episode, Rick Green joins us to unpack the emotional toll of rejection sensitivity. We’ll explore how it shows up in daily life, why it’s often misunderstood, and what can actually help. With humor, insight, and real-life examples, this conversation sheds light on a powerful but often hidden struggle.

What to expect in this episode:

What RSD is and how it affects people with ADHD in the momentWhy ADHD brains sense more rejection and how that shapes confidenceWhat it mean...


EP237: Dr. Marielly Mitchell: Connecting Sensory Processing and Sleep Quality
10/22/2025

What if the real reason your child struggles to regulate emotions or stay focused isn't behavior at all? Dr. Marielly Mitchell reveals how airway health, mouth breathing, and sensory processing play a surprising role in brain development. This episode challenges what you think you know about sleep, stress, and why your child just can’t seem to sit still.

What to expect in this episode:

How sensory integration affects your child's emotional regulationThe link between airway health, sleep quality, and brain developmentWhat mouth breathing might reveal about your child's nervous systemSigns of po...


EP236: Executive Function & ADHD: What Parents Need To Know
10/15/2025

Struggling with motivation, time management, or emotional outbursts? It might not be what you think. In this episode, we will unpack the real impact of executive function and why it matters more than ever. Tune in to learn what’s really going on behind the behavior, and what parents can do differently starting today.

What to expect in this episode:

Why executive function affects everything we think, feel, and do Why medication doesn’t actually solve executive function issues and what can help insteadHow to understand the difference between remediation and accommodation at ho...


EP235: Improve Executive Function And Family Dynamics In The Tween Years
10/08/2025

Summary
What if the real breakthrough in parenting starts with you? In this episode, discover how the power of pause, play, and presence can reshape your relationship with your tween. Instead of rushing to fix behavior, you’ll explore how shifting your own approach creates space for growth, connection, and lasting change. Tune in and uncover what truly moves the needle in your family dynamic.

What to expect in this episode:

Why “driving the car” is a metaphor every parent should understandHow visual tools and playful structure reduce stress at hom...


EP234: How To Support Young Adults Through Nonlinear Life Paths
10/01/2025

What if growing up doesn’t follow a straight line anymore, and that’s perfectly normal? This episode explores the evolving journey of emerging adulthood, the hidden challenges today’s young people face, and how parents can support them without falling into outdated expectations. From delayed independence to collaborative planning, discover why there's no one-size-fits-all path to thriving.

What to expect in this episode:

Why the path to adulthood looks different nowWhat college readiness really meansHow to recognize when your child needs a pause before a planWhy collaboration, not control, helps emerging adults...


EP233: Why Homework Is Hard: Executive Function, Stress, and Real Solutions
09/24/2025

Homework struggles aren’t always about motivation. Sometimes, the biggest obstacles are invisible, like executive function challenges or stress overload. In this episode, we will discover what’s really going on when kids avoid or resist assignments, why your go-to solutions might not be working, and how to take a fresh approach that actually helps. If you’re tired of nagging and want a smarter way forward, this is your next listen.

What to expect in this episode:

Why executive function impacts every stage of the homework processThe 12 invisible steps kids must take t...


EP232: How To Build Trust And Emotional Security In Kids
09/17/2025

What if the change your child needs starts with you? This episode explores how rethinking your role through an attachment lens can unlock new ways to connect, support, and truly understand your child. Discover what happens when you stop trying to fix and start seeing differently. You may never look at parenting the same way again.

What to expect in this episode:

Why real change begins when caregivers feel just as empowered as their kidsHow an attachment-based lens helps reframe behavior and connectionWhat reflective parenting looks like and why it builds trust...


EP231: ADHD And Productivity: How To Work Smarter, Not Harder
09/10/2025

Struggling to get things done might not be about effort; it could be something deeper. Psychologist Ari Tuckman uncovers the emotional roadblocks behind productivity, from shame to decision paralysis. Discover how to rethink prioritization and tap into meaningful motivation. A must-listen for anyone who wants to work smarter, not just harder.

What to expect in this episode:

Why productivity struggles often start with emotional roadblocks, not lack of effortHow to figure out what’s really getting in the way when you’re stuckWhat it means to define a problem clearly before jumping to solutionsWhy lear...


EP230: Structure Time: Back to School with Systems That Work
09/03/2025

Back-to-school season brings more than sharpened pencils and new routines. It is a full-spectrum shift in structure, emotion, and identity. This episode unpacks what is really happening beneath the surface for both kids and parents during this transition. From resistance to readiness, discover why slowing down, tuning in, and getting curious might be the most powerful back-to-school tools of all.

What to expect in this episode:

Why structure can feel empowering for some and exhausting for othersHow to partner effectively with teachers (without overwhelming them)Why flexible systems beat rigid rules in...


EP229: Simplifying Mindfulness (and How to Start Small)
08/27/2025

What if doing nothing is exactly what your nervous system needs? In this episode, meditation teacher Jeff Warren joins the conversation to explore mindfulness, emotional regulation, and the power of presence. Learn why fewer thoughts can mean fewer problems and how simple grounding moments can shift the way you parent. This isn’t about fixing; it’s about noticing, being, and allowing space for something new to emerge.


What to expect in this episode:

Why fewer thoughts lead to fewer problems and a calmer nervous systemWhat happens in the brain when we pause and...


EP228: Screen Time, Safety, and Smart Tech Use with Common Sense Media
08/20/2025

Today’s kids are growing up online, and parenting hasn’t kept pace. In this episode, Betsy Bozdech from Common Sense Media unpacks the real challenges of raising digital natives. From screen time to AI, the conversation dives into what families need to know but rarely talk about. If you think tech is the problem, think again.

What to expect in this episode:

Why technology is not just a distraction, but a lifeline for today’s kidsHow digital life blends with real life for digital nativesWhat parents need to understand before removing screen...


EP227: Key Lessons from 14 Years of Parent Coaching
08/13/2025

In this special anniversary episode, Parenting with Impact celebrates four years of podcasting and 14 years since the launch of ImpactParents.com. We will reflect on how the coaching model has grown, what core truths continue to guide us, and why emotional regulation and collaborative parenting matter now more than ever. From tech challenges to teen transitions, the conversation offers timeless guidance for today’s families. Celebrate with us and see why this journey is only just beginning.

What to expect in this episode:

Why emotional regulation remains the fo...


EP226: Math Anxiety in Kids: How to Close the Learning Gap
08/06/2025

If your child dreads math, the problem may not be numbers—it may be a hidden gap in understanding. In this thought-provoking episode, Dr. Aditya Nagrath explains why math anxiety is more about language and belief than ability. Discover what happens when kids stop feeling “stupid” and start feeling seen, supported, and capable.


What to expect in this episode:

Why math anxiety isn’t really about performance but stems from a gap in understandingHow math functions as a language and why many kids aren’t fluent in itWhat’s behind the phrase “I’m not a math per...


EP225: The Connection Between Complex Kids, Gender & Sensory Issues
07/30/2025

There’s more to your child’s behavior than what you see. What if the real struggle isn’t defiance but the way the world feels to them, both inside and out? This episode offers a powerful new lens on neurodivergence, gender, identity, and safety. It’s a conversation that invites you to pause, reconsider, and stay curious from beginning to end.

What to expect in this episode:

Why “neurodivergent-adjacent” families need supportHow sensory overload shows up in daily behaviorThe difference between “won’t” and “can’t” in complex kidsHow Spoon Theory can reframe energy management for yo...


EP224: Success! Strategies for Better Relationships With Complex Teens
07/23/2025

When parenting feels like a constant battle, is there another way forward? In this episode, Marina G. shares her powerful shift from stress and control to calm and connection. Listen until the end and discover what happens when, through subtle but meaningful changes, a parent chooses curiosity over command.

What to expect in this episode:

Why letting go of control might be the most powerful parenting move you makeHow doing nothing changed everything in Marina’s relationship with her daughterWhat shifted when curiosity replaced correctionThe surprising moment Marina realized she wa...