Work On Your Game: Dominate With Mindset, Strategy & Execution

I don’t believe you have ADHD. A lot of us got that label as kids because a teacher or counselor said we couldn’t focus like the other students. The truth is, this whole ADHD thing was created by the system and drug companies to give schools and parents an excuse. They just wanted us to sit still, be quiet, and follow boring lessons from people who never actually did what they teach. In this episode, I’m breaking down why you don’t have ADHD and why it’s time to stop using it as an excuse. Show Notes:  [0...

Most people never build a real presence that feeling you give off that makes people notice and respect you without you even trying. I’m not talking about just being in a place, I mean having a vibe and confidence that people can feel anywhere, even if you’re just at the grocery store. Presence is self-assurance and the way you carry yourself. In this episode, I talk about why most people never develop it and what’s stopping them. Show Notes:  [02:56]#1 Most people chase attention more than they anchor energy. [11:43]#2 Movement and noise addiction [23:44]#3 Most people don't know who they ar...

In this episode, I’m talking about the power of showing up first. You’ve heard me say it before — early is on time, on time is late, and late is forgotten. Being first isn’t just about arriving early, it’s about being the one who moves, starts, or leads while everyone else is waiting. Whether it’s getting up before the world, starting a conversation, or taking action when others hesitate — going first sets you apart. Today, I’ll break down why it matters and how to make it part of who you are. Show Notes:  [01:53]#1 When you show up first, yo...

Mental toughness isn’t just a skill you practice—it’s who you are. Skills are important, but they’re about what you do. Mental toughness is about your identity, your way of being. It’s your willingness to keep showing up, doing the work, and putting yourself out there, even when success hasn’t shown up yet. Today I’m breaking down why mental toughness is in your DNA, not just in your to-do list. Show Notes:  [01:20]#1 Skills are what you do.  [09:17]#2 Being mentally tough is not something that you practice. [14:55]#3 Do not outsource your toughness to motivation.  [19:10]Recap Next Steps: 🎓 Wor...

This is part four, the final part of my series on killing passive aggression. Today I’m breaking down three more bad habits you need to kill. First, stop being the messenger for someone else’s words—let them speak for themselves. Second, don’t get others to fight your battles, and don’t fight theirs. Third, if you think something might bother someone, talk to them first—or just own what you did and deal with it. At Work On Your Game University, we turn discipline into dominance so you can win in mindset, structure, strategy, and execution. Show Notes:  [00...

This is part three of my four-part series on killing passive aggression. Today I’m talking about three specific tactics: withholding enthusiasm, praising someone’s competition, and pouting or sulking. These are sneaky ways people avoid saying what’s really on their mind. Women often use these methods naturally, but when men start doing them, it’s a bigger problem—because as a man, you should be direct and speak up instead of waiting to be prompted. The best way to deal with this behavior? Call it out straight up. Show Notes:  [00:32]#7 Withholding of enthusiasm. [05:54]#8 Praising someone's competition.  [13:43]#9 Instead of sharing that...

This is part two of my four-part series on killing your passive aggression. Today I’m talking about three behaviors you need to stop. First, vague language stops hiding behind unclear words and just says where you stand. Second, convenient memory loss deals with issues early instead of pretending you forgot until it blows up. Third, saying yes with your mouth but no with your actions if you’re out of a commitment, say so instead of ghosting on it. Show Notes:  [00:44]#4 Stop using vague language.  [06:29]#5 Convenient memory loss. [10:08]#6 Saying yes in your words, but saying no in your actions.  [18:10]Recap N...

In this episode, I’m starting a four-part series on killing passive aggressiveness for good, especially in men. Passive aggression is when someone avoids saying things directly, like showing up late on purpose, staying quiet when they should speak, or making a point by doing nothing. I expect that from women sometimes, but when men do it, it makes us weak, soft, and more feminine. I want men to be direct and clear, even if the truth is uncomfortable. If a few guys can change this habit, we can start changing the whole culture. Show Notes:  [06:21]#1 Stop procrastinating on a NO...

In this episode, I’m talking about why you need to stop explaining yourself so much. When you step into your presence and dominance, you don’t have to justify every action or decision you make. Explaining less not only saves you time and energy, but it also makes you look more powerful. The less you talk about why you did something, the more people respect it. Let’s break down exactly why this works. Show Notes:  [01:11]#1 Explaining yourself to other people is a sign unconsciously of submission and subordination. [06:58]#2  As a general rule, the more explaining you need to do to a...

You’ve probably heard people say you should never burn bridges. They tell you to leave on good terms, be polite, and keep the door open no matter what. But I’m here to flip that. There are times in life when burning the bridge is exactly what you need to do. In this episode, I’ll explain why sometimes you need to make it impossible to go back, and why that can be the best move for your future. Show Notes:  [01:50]#1 You never want to go back, you know you never will, and you want to make sure you never d...

In this episode, I’m breaking down what true power really is and why most people are scared of it, even though they say they want it. I’ll explain what true power looks like, feels like, and the trade-offs that come with it. If you’ve been listening to me, you know there’s no perfect scenario, only trade-offs. Once you understand what power really means and the responsibility it brings, you’ll see why most people actually don’t want it. Let’s get into it. Show Notes:  [01:40]#1 True power comes with an equal amount of responsibility and accountability...

Discipline is easy when things are going well, the real test is when it’s inconvenient. In this episode, I’m talking about why true discipline shows up when the situation is tough, when it’s not set up for you to win, and when showing up is the hardest thing to do. Motivation feels good, but discipline is about doing the work no matter how you feel. This is the secret sauce to professionalism, and today I’m breaking down how to know if your discipline is real. Show Notes:  [01:38]#1 It is not disciplined if it's always easy and is always...

In this episode, I’m talking about why you need to know people in low places, not just high places. We all know the saying about knowing people in high places with status, resources, and connections. But sometimes, the people who can really help you aren’t at the top. They’re the ones in positions that may not seem important, but they can get things done in ways high-level folks can’t. I’ll break down why these relationships matter just as much—maybe even more—in certain situations. Show Notes:  [01:28]#1 Not everything in life is shiny and sometimes you need some d...

In this episode, I’m talking about “ring culture”, the idea that you’re only as good as your ultimate results. I use basketball as the frame, but this applies to everything in life. In sports, people judge players based on championships, even though some legends never won one, while others with rings were just role players. The same happens in real life. Some people get credit because they were in the right place at the right time, not necessarily because they were the best. I’m breaking down why this mindset matters and how it affects the way we judge succ...

Every man is different, but deep down, we all want the same three core things. In this episode, I’m breaking down what those three things are and why they matter no matter your background, interests, or current situation. These are general truths about men, things we all want on some level, at some point in our lives. Let’s get into it. Show Notes:  [01:17]#1 The physical capability of doing things that most other men cannot do.  [07:34]#2 We want to have things that other men cannot have.   [16:34]#3 Men want access to women. [25:43]Recap Next Steps: 🎓 Work On Your Game University Get struct...

In this episode, I’m talking to the entrepreneurs who want to grow beyond just “getting by.” If you want your business to be an entity that runs without you like Walmart, Apple, or Amazon you’ve got to get certain things locked in first. I’m sharing the three key elements every business needs in place before you even think about scaling. These are the foundations that keep a business running strong, no matter the industry or current size. Let’s break it down so you can build something that lasts. Show Notes:   [02:23]#1 Communication.  [09:53]#2 Organization. [19:11]#3 Process. [26:40]Recap Episodes Mentioned: 2995: How To "Scale...

I keep hearing people say “America is a country of immigrants.” I don’t agree with that. We are a country of citizens. People come here because they want to become Americans, not just to visit. The whole “country of immigrants” thing is an emotional argument that leaves out the real point: the goal is citizenship. I made this episode to set the record straight. Show Notes:  [01:41]#1 We are a country of citizens.  [09:21]#2  People want to become Americans. They want to actually be a part of what we have going on here.  [14:37]#3 They are trying to make this argument about us being a cou...

This is part two of my message to the old heads specifically the men 35 and up. Stop trying to fit in with the younger generation. You ain’t supposed to dress like them, talk like them, or follow their trends. Your job is to set the standard, not chase theirs. Be the example they want to live up to, not the peer they want to hang with. Age with pride and give the next generation something worth aiming at. Show Notes:  [00:49]#4 Stop trying to relate to your younger generations [10:09]#5 Be a standard bearer for the next generation.  [14:52]#6 Age gracefully. [20:22]Recap Next...

In this episode, I’m talking directly to the old heads of men 35 and up, especially those of y’all who interact with younger dudes. I explain what “old head” means and where the term came from, at least from my experience growing up. If you’re 40+, you definitely qualify. This is part one of a two-part message, so if that’s you, tune in today and tomorrow. I got something real specific y’all need to hear. Show Notes:  [02:21]#1 Past stories are unwanted. [05:22]#2 Nobody wants to hear about your past, what you used to do, who you used to be, what you us...

I’m talking about why you can’t be dangerous if you’re playing it safe. I got the idea from watching a clip from Breaking Bad where Walter White says, “I am the one who knocks.” In the show, Walter starts as a boring chemistry teacher but becomes one of the most dangerous men out there because he stops playing small. If you want to have real power and impact, you can’t tiptoe through life; you have to be willing to step into the danger. Show Notes:  [04:30]#1 Danger is bold energy.  [15:31]#2 Danger means controlled, directed aggression. [19:59]#3 The dangerous person is the...

In this episode, I break down how clarity is not just a nice-to-have, it's a must-have if you want to make real money. When your thoughts, actions, and intentions are all aligned, you move faster and with more purpose. I’ve seen it with high school athletes and six-figure entrepreneurs alike. If you're unclear, you're stuck. Clarity answers the big questions before they even become problems, and that’s what puts you in position to actually earn. Let’s talk about how getting clear can start putting dollars in your pocket. Show Notes:  [02:23]#1 Confusion is costly. [09:25]#2 Clarity accelerates decision making.  [17:21]#3 Clarity...

If you’ve ever found yourself giving away your expertise for free this episode is for you. I’m breaking down why you need to stop "helping" people without charging, especially if you’re in a service-based or intellectual property business. A lot of us do it out of kindness or because we know the person could really benefit, but that’s not a good enough reason to keep doing it. Whether it’s a friend, family member, or someone who just “can’t pay right now,” I’ll tell you why that habit has to end today. So let’s get into it. Show...

This is part three of my series on High Income Skills vs High Income Systems. Today, I break down points 7 through 9. Skills take discipline, you’ve got to show up and keep doing the work. But systems? They take vision. A good system can make you money even when you’re not working. Skills get clients; systems keep them. Skills give you an edge, but systems turn that edge into an asset that pays you whether you’re active or not. So let’s get into it. Show Notes:  [00:58]#7 Skills require discipline. Systems require vision.   [14:10]#8 Skills attract clients. Systems keep them aroun...

This is part two of my three-part series on High Income Skills vs. High Income Systems.In this episode, I break down how skills are like the engine but systems are the whole vehicle. Skills will get you paid, but systems are what build real wealth and freedom. Most entrepreneurs stay stuck doing all the work because they never build systems and that’s why they never level up. Show Notes:  [01:01]#4 Skills are the engine. Systems are the vehicle. [08:17]#5 Skills get you started and systems generate wealth. [20:19]#6 Skills feed you and systems free you.  [27:56]Recap Power Presence Protocol 🦁🔥 [Starts August 19 LIVE!!] 👉...

In this episode, I break down the difference between high income skills and high income systems. A lot of people build their business off of personal skill—something they can do and sell—but that’s just one level. This is part one of a three-part series where I’ll explain how skills and systems each play a role in your success, whether you're a solopreneur, a seasoned entrepreneur, or somewhere in between. You’ll start to see where you currently operate and how you can grow from one space to the next. So let’s get into it. Show Notes:  [03...

You’ve heard the phrase “operate like a CEO,” but what does that actually mean? In this episode, I break down the real mindset and actions behind CEO-level leadership. Whether you run a business or you’re the only person in it, you are the CEO. And even if you work a job, you can still move like a CEO. Today I show you exactly how to make that shift, no fluff, just straight strategy. Let’s talk about it. Show Notes:  [01:33]#1 Your presence sets the tone for the entire organization on a daily basis.  [06:58]#2 Operate from and maintain a vision of th...

A lot of smart people listen to this show and that includes you. But here's the thing I’ve noticed: smart people are often the slowest to take action. Today, I break down why intelligence doesn’t always lead to execution and why overthinking, perfectionism, or too much analysis can actually keep you stuck. If you’ve ever wondered why you know so much but still don’t move, this episode is for you. So let’s get into it and solve that problem. Show Notes:  [02:30]#1 When you're smart, that means you know a lot of stuff. And knowledge sometimes disempowers...

Today I'm breaking down why context is everything when it comes to communication. I’ve talked a lot about the importance of being able to communicate whether you're talking one-on-one, speaking to a group, or writing something down. But the key part most people miss is context. You can say the right thing, but if the timing, tone, or situation is off, it won't land. I explain exactly what context means, why it's just as important as the message itself, and how mastering it changes how people receive what you say. Show Notes:  [02:53]#1 The exact same material presented in a dif...

In this episode, I talk about how all real success is earned in private before it ever gets seen or celebrated in public. A lot of the work that leads to big results happens behind the scenes, with no applause and no spotlight. I’m reminding you that no matter how much tech we get or how fast the world moves, the process of success never changes. You still gotta respect the grind. The shine only comes after the sweat. Show Notes:  [01:37]#1 If it's not yet working for you, that means it is currently working on you.  [07:48]#2 Despite all of our...

In this episode, I’m talking about the most common copes of mediocre people. I got the idea from a viral post showing a flashy Black rapper and a plain-dressed white entertainer sitting front row at a game. The post—and the reaction to it—revealed how folks justify mediocrity and avoid facing hard truths. Hopefully, none of these apply to you… but if they do, it’s time to ask why. Let’s break it down. Show Notes:  [01:44]#1 “Wealthy people don't display their wealth” cope. [09:06]#2 Physical- appearance cope. [17:50]#3 All people who have money are either dishonest, scamming, or you're doing some sort o...

In this episode, I'm talking about what it really means to master “the job”. Being a true professional isn’t about what outsiders see or think they understand. It’s about the stuff that happens behind the scenes, the deeper details that only people in the game really know. If you don’t get a handle on those things, you won’t last long in your profession. Today, I’m breaking down exactly what that mastery looks like.  Show Notes:  [01:24]#1 What's the job?  [11:27]#2 If you're going to be a professional, you better find out what the job is in any industry before y...

Today I’m breaking down why a lot of podcasts out there are just plain trash. I’ve been a guest on over 500 shows, I check out what people are doing, and I’ve seen a lot of garbage. These shows aren’t bad by accident; they're missing key stuff. If you’re listening to a trashy show, or you’re thinking about starting one, I’ll help you understand what’s wrong and how to fix it. And no, my show ain’t trash. I've been doing this every day since 2016, and I got the track record to prove it. Show Notes:  ...

Today I'm talking about the easiest and hardest situations to win in. Life is a performance-based game, and as professionals, we’re expected to show up and get the job done. But not every situation gives us the same odds of success. In this episode, I break it down into three main types of situations: some set you up to win easily, while others make it a lot harder. Once you understand how to spot them, you can adjust your approach and boost your chances of winning. Show Notes:  [01:20]#1 The impossible one is when you have no game, you can't win...

Today’s topic is how to avoid ever getting hit with a sexual assault allegation. I’m placing a futures bet right now that it’ll never happen to me and in this episode, I break down how you can make sure it never happens to you either. Most of the time, it’s men with status whether that’s in a company, an industry, or the whole world who end up with these accusations. If you’re a man with power, money, or attention, even on a small scale, this episode is for you. I’m giving you the real game on h...

Today’s question is simple but real: would you follow you? If you’re trying to be a leader, this is something you’ve got to ask yourself. Based on how you show up, the energy you bring, and how you carry yourself are you someone you would trust to lead? In this episode, I give you some key questions to help you figure that out. Because if the answer isn’t a clear “hell yes,” then you’ve got some work to do. Show Notes:  [01:40]#1 Do you trust that having you as a leader would lead to success?  [07:45]#2 Can other people res...

Sometimes, you look around and nobody has any energy; nobody feels like showing up, practicing, or performing. I saw this a lot back when I played sports, and as the leader, I had to be the one to bring the energy anyway. In this episode, I talk about how to get yourself ready, mentally and physically, to show up strong even when nobody else does. Because no matter what team you're on, the group moves as the leader moves and that leader is you. Show Notes:  [02:18]#1 Power in leadership is ownership, responsibility, and accountability.  [17:16]#2 The essence of competition is you ha...

Today I’m talking about how to make strong first impressions. You’ve heard the saying—“you never get a second chance to make a first impression”—and it’s true. Most people will lock in that first image of you, and no matter what happens after, that’s how they’ll keep seeing you. Even if the first thing they saw was fake, they’ll still treat it like it’s real. So in this episode, I’m breaking down how to take control of that moment and make sure the first impression you give is the one you actually want people to...

Today I’m talking about one of the worst habits people have—saying “I’m thinking about it.” Most of the time, we’re not actually thinking. We’re just stalling and making excuses for not taking action. The truth is, you don’t have time to waste like that. Every day you’re getting older, and you don’t get those days back. In this episode, I’m giving you the fix so you can stop hiding behind that phrase and start doing what you said you would. Show Notes:  [02:22]#1 Put a limit on your thinking time. [07:21]#2 Say No and Move On [15:34]#3 A...

Today’s episode is about who’s really in charge - you or your feelings. Your mind is the one that makes the deals, not your body. Your flesh doesn’t get a vote. I’m breaking down how discipline, determination, willpower, and clear decision-making drive everything. If you want to start following through, it starts with giving your mind direct, absolute orders and cutting out the maybes. Show Notes:  [02:52]#1 Your mind makes the decision, your body doesn’t get a vote. [02:46]#2 Your mind and body are not equal partners.  [17:45]#3 Talk to anybody who works in training or coaching.  [24:21]Recap Episodes Ment...

Today I’m talking about why “educated” people—yes, they can be annoying. I got this idea from X (formerly Twitter), where folks love acting like they’re smarter than everybody just because they went to certain schools. I break down this false frame people use to act morally superior, especially around politics and topics like Trump. This ain’t really about Trump though it’s about how fake intelligence gets weaponized online. You’ll want to hear how I unpack all this. Show Notes:  [03:01]#1 I qualify as an educated person. I am educated.  [14:01]#2 Build a resume of achievement, not a resume of consum...