Wabi Sabi - The Perfectly Imperfect Podcast with Candice Kumai

Welcome to Wabi Sabi. Have we been kind to the Japanese? Do we deserve Japanese 7-Elevens in NY? How about asking a Japanese- American? In Today’s episode is about reflection, learning, and appreciation. There is so much to learn from Japanese history — from the Edo period, to the U.S. Occupation, to the reawakening of Japanese hearts in the 20th century, and the complex but resilient relationship between Japan and the U.S. If you ask me, we shouldn’t learn about Japan — we should learn from Japan. That means supporting Japanese voices, reading books by Japanese and Japanese American...

In this episode of Wabi Sabi, I share the historical truth about matcha — from Eisai, the monk who first introduced powdered tea to Japan, to Sen no Rikyū, who refined the way of tea during the Tokugawa era. We trace matcha’s roots through centuries of Japanese history, examining its role as a cultural and spiritual practice as well as a daily ritual. I also address the current shortage of ceremonial-grade matcha, why demand is outpacing supply, and what we can do about it. Finally, I call for better journalism around matcha — reporting that goes beyond trend-driven coverage to honor its sac...

In this episode of Wabi Sabi, I open up about how we can stay grounded and strong while the world feels chaotic. Everywhere we turn right now—news, politics, social feeds—it feels heavy. But instead of waiting for the world to get better, I’ve learned we have to work on our inner world first. I take you through the lessons of kintsugi, the Japanese art of golden repair, and how those same principles can help us rebuild from the inside out. I share why I stopped waiting for someone to “save me,” how I started to see my own worth...

This week, I’m peeling back the glossy filters and calling it like it is. Why are so many individuals on social just shaming machines in disguise? I’m talking about the rise of the shamefluencer — creators who weaponize wellness language to judge, call out, and divide. It’s a culture that prioritizes perfectionism over progress, comparison over compassion, and fear over freedom. In this solo episode, I’m chatting performative wellness is hurting real healing, and what true self-work actually looks like — beyond the highlight reels and hashtags. Healing isn’t about shaming others to feel better about yourself or to grow a f...

After a 8 days offline, I was reminded that the deepest healing doesn’t come from doing more—but from being more present. In this episode, I share why immersing yourself in nature for just 3 to 4 days can reset your nervous system, clear your mind, and bring you back to yourself. This isn’t about escape—it’s about return. To the quiet. To stillness. To the real you. I’ll walk you through how to take a restorative break in nature, what to expect emotionally and physically, and why this kind of reset is essential in today’s overstimulated world. Let this be yo...

The True Meaning of Matcha: History, Culture, and the Healing Ritual In this special longform episode, you’ll discover the deep, often untold story behind matcha — where it really comes from, what it really means, and why it matters. If you’ve ever felt peace, clarity, or healing from a cup of matcha, this episode is your invitation to go deeper. You’ll learn how matcha originated with Zen Buddhist monks, how it became a sacred part of Japanese tea ceremony, and how its quiet power has been passed down through generations — including in my own family. I share personal stories, c...

In today’s deeply polarizing society, we’ve become too comfortable with whitewashing—rewriting culture, truth, and identity to fit a more convenient narrative. We’re constantly told by con artists, influencers, and marketers that certain things are "normal," when in reality, they’re anything but. In this episode of the Wabi Sabi podcast, I felt it was necessary to draw a firm line—to call out where we’ve compromised and where we’ve allowed culture to be diluted. I use Matcha as one clear example. If I don’t uphold the values of my own heritage—publicly and with conviction—I wo...

This episode is for you — the one who’s quietly rebuilding, starting over, or holding it together when no one sees the effort. If you’ve been feeling stuck, overlooked, or unsure of what’s next… take a breath. You’re not alone. You’re doing better than you think. You’ve survived things most people don’t even know about. And no matter where you are on your path — you are allowed to begin again. This week, we’re talking about the real, unfiltered lessons that come with growth, reinvention, and protecting your peace. It’s a reminder that even in the messiest mom...

Welcome back to the Wabi Sabi podcast. Today, we honor the life and legacy of Pope Francis — a true bridge builder, a humble servant, and a radiant light in a time when the world often feels broken. In the spirit of kintsugi — the Japanese art of repairing what is broken with gold — we’ll reflect on how hope, healing, and compassion still shine through our fractures. Pope Francis taught us that even in our most fragile moments, there is beauty, unity, and the chance to begin again. Let’s take this time together to remember his example, and to rediscover the light...

Let’s be real—life falls apart sometimes. But here’s the good news: in Japan, we don’t toss the broken stuff—we gold it. This week on Wabi Sabi, I’m diving into the art of kintsugi and how those so-called “cracks” in your life can actually lead you to your ikigai—your purpose, your why, your get-out-of-bed-and-make-matcha energy. We’ll talk breakups, burnout, identity shifts, and how feeling “off” can actually be the beginning of something beautiful. It’s not about having it all together—it’s about loving your flaws, laughing at the mess, and finding your path anyway. This is your...

Hey friend, I know I've been a bit MIA from the pod these past few weeks, and I truly appreciate your patience. Life has its seasons, and sometimes we walk through chapters that aren’t ready to be shared—yet. What I can say is this: we’re all on our own unique path, and you never really know what someone else is going through. That’s why it’s more important than ever to lead with compassion. Everyone—everyone—is doing their best with what they have. When we start from that belief, we shift the way we see the world. We...

Welcome to this episode of the Wabi Sabi podcast! Today, we dive deep into the powerful and inspiring reviews you've shared with us about what you took away from the Kintsugi documentary. Your feedback has been nothing short of amazing, and I can't wait to reflect on it with you. Have you ever felt like giving up on your dreams? I know I have. In today's episode, I’ll be sharing some personal insights on how I’ve shifted my perspective, shaped my future, and kept pushing forward—even when there was no immediate reward and when others doubted me. These...

Today, we’re diving deep into the timeless philosophy of Kakugo—resolution, determination, and the clarity of purpose in our lives. Kakugo is about setting intentions and committing fully to them, much like the monks high in the mountains who dedicate themselves to a life of service, simplicity, and profound mindfulness. In today’s episode, we’ll explore how we can learn from those who have walked the path before us—from the wisdom of these monks to the lessons hidden in the unfiltered messages of children. We’ll also take a closer look at the Kintsugi documentary, which captures the essence...

In Japanese culture, there are many subtle practices that help cultivate humility, kindness, love, and softness, even in the midst of a turbulent world. Japan, having endured natural disasters and war, serves as a living work of art. The philosophy of Kintsugi teaches us that the cracks—whether from atomic bombs, earthquakes, or tsunamis—represent both pain and resilience. The Japanese people embody gaman, the ability to endure and persevere. We learn to rise, rebuild, and heal. In this episode, I’m excited to share insights from my documentary Kintsugi, and some valuable lessons we’ve learned along the way to help...

Hi friends! Today I want to share a little about Kintsugi—the ancient Japanese art of golden repair—and how it can transform our pain into something meaningful. In my docu-series, Kintsugi, we dive into this philosophy as I travel through Japan, tracing the footsteps of my grandfather and discovering how brokenness, much like the cracks in pottery, can be healed and made even more beautiful. It’s about embracing your past, finding strength in what you’ve been through, and letting the light of love and hope guide you forward. In a world that feels heavy, Kintsugi reminds us that we...

In this Wabi Sabi episode, I dive into the three traits that make people truly magnetic—not in a superficial way, but on a deeper, more meaningful level. Listen to hear more - thank you for listening xx ck

In this episode, I’ll share how to navigate the next four years with peace and resilience. We’ll explore the beauty of Japanese homes and how they inspire creating more space—both physically and mentally—in our lives. I’ll talk about why it's essential to stop paying attention to the chaos of "Idiocracy" and focus on what truly matters. Learn the power of giving yourself more time, making self-care a priority, and investing in your well-being. I’ll discuss the importance of setting boundaries and how they help create a peaceful, balanced life. Meditation and deep breathing are key tools fo...

Welcome to another episode of Wabi Sabi where we explore the beauty of imperfection and the power of resilience. What can you do to truly influence? What are you doing in times of inevitable natural disaster? How can you better help others? I'm here to share my insights on how we can not only bounce back from life’s challenges but inspire others to do the same. Tune in as we talk about finding strength, staying authentic, and making a real impact. Thank you for listening & please write a five star review for this pod + share with a friend xx...

Embracing Wabi-Sabi: The Philosophy of Imperfect Growth Wabi-sabi is more than just a concept—it's a powerful approach to personal development. At its core, it's about accepting imperfection and finding beauty in life's natural progression. This philosophy teaches us to: Embrace our unique journey Stop comparing ourselves to others Find contentment in the present moment Accept life with all its challenges Key Areas of Personal Transformation 1. Nutrition and Wellness Mindful Eating: Focus on whole, natural foods. Eliminate Processed Foods: Remove items that don't serve your health. Holistic Approach: Consider nutrition from all five wellness zones. 2. Self-Improvement Strategies Self-Discovery: Identify your tr...

In 2025 we want to see and feel positive changes: In 2024, life didn’t always go as planned. We faced challenges, missed out on some of the things we wanted, and even the price of eggs skyrocketed. But here’s the silver lining: there are 10 small, meaningful actions you can take every day that cost nothing and can create a powerful shift in your mindset. These tips will help you free your time, open your heart, and find a little more peace in your life. Tune in to this special podcast episode for 2025, where I’ll guide you through 10 simple ways to imp...

I Voted: We have one Week Left: Please Listen to this podcast and share it with every woman you know! xx - Each state has its own schedule and polling locations, so be sure to: - Find Your Polling Location on your state’s election website. - Bring Valid ID as required by your state. - Check Polling Place Hours – many polls close at 7 p.m. or 8 p.m., but times vary by location. For more info, visit usvotefoundation.org to get all the details on Early Voting: Check WhenWeAllVote.org for more information Please do not sit this one out...

On this episode of the Wabi Sabi podcast, we dive into the theme of overcoming change by letting go, drawing inspiration from the timeless teachings of Dr. Wayne Dyer. With fall upon us, it’s the perfect season to reflect, release, and make brave changes. We explore practical tools for finding peace within and breaking free from your limiting beliefs, helping you navigate life’s transitions with grace. Tune in for thoughtful discussions on how going inward, working on your own personal healing can make a profound difference in your life, enabling you to do difficult or even scary things and...

The Wabi Sabi Podcast: Special Episode with Chef Cynthia Sestito This episode of The Wabi Sabi Podcast dives deep into the 20-year journey of Chef Cynthia Sestito and Candice Kumai. From pioneering on Top Chef season one to transforming the culinary arts scene in New York, Los Angeles, and the Hamptons, Cynthia and Candice have been trailblazers in their fields, breaking boundaries and celebrating their heritage. Chef Cynthia Sestito, a powerhouse in the industry, has spent over a decade cooking for Jay Z and other hip-hop legends. She played a pivotal role in opening the iconic 40/40 Club and worked on...

In this episode, we dive into what it truly means to be the bigger person in today’s challenging times. It often feels like moral values and ethics are slipping away, but for those of us who care deeply about these principles, how can we not only survive but thrive in this modern world? I’ll guide you through real-life scenarios and offer actionable steps on how you can be the change we need. Through thoughtful examples, we’ll explore ways to navigate these moments with grace, compassion, and strength. By the end of the episode, I hope to leave you wi...

Today, I want to talk about the power of being earnest—truly sincere in your journey, even when things don’t go as planned. My own path has been full of moments where I didn’t get what I wanted, but those experiences taught me the beauty of moving forward, changing, and growing through it all. Life’s imperfections shape us, and it’s through embracing them that we find our true strength. Let’s dive into how we can navigate these challenges with grace, and how being earnest can lead to the most authentic growth & know - that you are not alon...

Episode Title: Most Intelligent Individuals Do This: Embrace Change Well In this episode of the Wabi Sabi podcast, I dive into the power of embracing change—something the most intelligent individuals master with grace. Growing up with immigrant parents, I learned early on that change is not only inevitable but essential for growth. We'll explore how to navigate life's transitions, especially when others try to put you down, discourage you, or talk down to you. It's about resilience, self-belief, and the courage to keep moving forward, even when the world pushes back. Tune in for insights on turning challenges into op...

In this episode, we dive deep into your powerful transformations happening in your life and how they mirror the journey of the world's greatest Olympians. We explore the intersection of hard work, real talent, and the grit it takes to keep pushing forward, even when the applause feels distant. Discover why these changes, though challenging, are setting you up for a future where your dedication will shine. Tune in to understand how embracing these shifts can lead to your own moment of triumph—just like the Olympians who train for years to stand on that podium. Join us as we ce...

In this episode of Wabi Sabi, we explore the transformative power of hitting the reset button in life. Discover how to embrace new beginnings, find resilience in change, and unlock your potential to start fresh at any moment. Join us for inspiring stories and practical tips on how to restart and thrive. PS I was so elated by being in nature the past week - I think I called this episode 185 -- whoops! It is Ep 165 hehe x ck wabi sabi

re you ready to take charge and revamp your career? In this episode of Wabi Sabi, I’m sharing a step-by-step timeline to help you become the mastermind of your own life. I'll guide you through my personal journey—from a struggling young lady to a celebrated wellness reporter chef and author—and how I made it happen. We'll break it down into actionable steps: Self-Discovery: I'll help you identify your true passions and strengths. Setting Goals: Learn how to set realistic, achievable goals that align with your dreams. Building Skills: Discover how to acquire the skills you need to succee...

In this honest episode of the Wabi Sabi podcast, we journey inward to explore the profound impact of presence, integrity, and honesty on mental well-being. Join us as we discuss how embracing authenticity and living with integrity can alleviate anxiety, depression, and loneliness. Be more aware! The power of being present and the importance of nurturing your inner self. Through candid conversations and reflective insights, we guide you on a path to becoming a better person, fostering genuine connections, and finding peace within. Thank you for listening xx ck

Diving into the fascinating connection between mental wellness and skin health. We'll explore how stress, anxiety, and overall mental well-being can directly impact your complexion and what you can do to achieve a healthier glow from the inside out. Get ready for actionable tips, ingredients, and free daily rituals that reveal the secret to radiant skin lies in your mind. Stay tuned and discover how better mental wellness can transform not just your mood, but your skin health too!

I'm so excited to dive deep into the essence of true attractiveness with you. In this episode, we'll explore how confidence, kindness, and authenticity outshine superficial looks. Drawing from my rich background in wellness, Japanese cultural traditions, and personal experiences, I'll share practical tips and profound insights on enhancing your inner and outer beauty. Tune in to learn how embracing your unique qualities and cultivating a genuine, positive presence can make you irresistibly attractive. With love and gratitude, thank you for listening xx Candice

Entrepreneurial women (and men) – I love working alongside so many of them. I have been fortunate enough to observe the small but impactful practices they embody daily: inner peace, offering opportunities, appreciating beauty, wisdom, grace, respecting personal space and boundaries, pursuing constant growth, and a confident humility that avoids seeking undue attention. Thank you for listening xx Candice

Find out what kind of person you are - a true humbled master at your craft -- or a thirsty manipulator. Listen carefully for more- enrich your whole life, work on your personal self - with reflection, time and experience. x ck

Little Gems take time to give back remove expectation celebrate experience simplify rest solitude fruits and veggies and a few bonuses with some special pod guests xx Thank you for listening xx Candice

Take Action Now, How to Be the Change you Wish to See!

If you need a moment of fresh air, breathing, birds singing, chimes, calm - here it is - enjoy friends xx ck

Nature's O!? How to be true to your body: way nature intended your body/mind to function. Let's do this the way our Grandparents did & tips on how we can ALL get fit and gorgeous! Plus: A bunch of laughs and jokes in between .. like my mom & her one liners. Get healthy with your own rules, gain muscle mass, get gorgeous skin, hair nails & mentally, feel amazing. How to? Listen now thank you for being a devout listener xx Candice

Wellness Secrets vs Consumerism- Too often we intertwine and confuse the two -- one should be free and available to us at all times and the other should be completely separate as a shopping experience- for companies focused on profit should remain a consumer facing for profit business. There's nothing wrong with a for profit company - I would say it is important to know the difference and know wellness is a free and available practice to all. Here are some of my fave free ways to well & sites I love - written by each individual posted below. A free...

We learn from Dr Wayne Dyer's "Being in Balance" - a master with his words. No more scarcity mindset - there is enough for all of us to go around! xx enjoy x ck