Under the Influence with Jo Piazza
Under the Influence is a deep dive into social media, a place haunted by aspirational marketing where it feels like every other person is a social media influencer trying to sell you something, all while posed in perfect houses that never seem to get messy. And behind this airbrushed perfection is money, so much money. Billions and billions of dollars. Journalist and mom Jo Piazza looks at how we got here, what it all means and how the commodification of every single aspect of our lives is driving everyone (but mostly women and mothers) a little insane.
Sunday Nice Things: That Aged Well
There are too many movie podcasts. Thatâs why I only bring you the ones that are actually worth your time. That Aged Well is one of them.
Hosts Paul and Erika are pop culture savants who rewatch the movies we all thought were perfect and lovingly tear them apart. They ask the real questions, like: âHow guilty should I feel for still loving this?â
Start with their Father of the Bride episode because itâs perfect.
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Fatherâs Day Shouldnât Be a Hallmark HolidayâIt Should Be a Reckoning
What if dads stopped âhelpingâ and justâŠparented? Today I am talking about flipping the script of the patriarchy with @Tidy Dad (Tyler Moore). We talk paid leave, emotional vulnerability, and why men need to start showing up in the ways that matter most.
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How to Get Published: A Literary Agent Tells All
Youâve got a book ideaâbut how do you go from blank page to published author? Literary agent and author Kate McKean of the Agents & Books substack joins us to demystify the publishing process from query letters to advances, platforms, rejection, and all the weird feelings in between. This is the real talk every aspiring writer needs.
What does a literary agent really doâand how do you find one? How do you write a query letter that actually gets noticed? Do you really need a social media platform to get a book deal? What happens after an age...Sunday Nice Things: Glamorous Trash
Secret Lives of Mormon Wives Season 2 Analysis (with Jo Piazza)
Chelsea is joined by author and podcaster Jo Piazza for a Season 2 analysis of âThe Secret Lives of Mormon Wives.â They break down what made this season so hauntingly wonderful, from the plastic surgery Utah waves alchemy to Taylor's mom getting her 15 minutes of fame in her new AI bot form, to breaking down what each wife brought to season 2, to quote Demi, put your earbuds in and "LOOK ME IN THE EYES, YOU NARCISSIST"Â
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Welcome to the Cult of Skinny with EJ Dickson
Influencers are selling women starvation and calling it empowerment. Today we talk to Cut reporter EJ Dickson about her viral investigation into SkinnyTok and the Skinni SociĂ©tĂ©, a subscriber-only Instagram group where thousands of young women are encouraged to obsess over calories, steps, and how to be the âskinniest girl at graduation.â Together, we unpack how social media platforms allow this to flourish, why these communities feel like cults, and how the language of feminism is being co-opted to convince women that self-worth is measured in how many pounds they lose.
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MAGA Makeovers and the Death of Individuality
Close your eyes. Picture a woman with lashes so long they could reach across the aisle. Lips plump enough to bounce a quarter off. Matte foundation, pageant curls, a bold lip, and a jawline that could cut glass.
Now ask yourself: Is she a Real Housewife or a member of the Trump administration?
This week, weâre digging into MAGA Beautyâthe algorithm-fueled, hyper-feminized aesthetic dominating the right-wing political sphere. From bulletproof vests and barrel curls to a full-face glam that's become the new uniform of power, this is strategic, not superficial.
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Sunday Nice Things: The Secret Lives of Debt Heads
Today Iâm dropping a brand new, really unique podcast into your feed and it's all about money.Â
âDebt Headsâ is a very funny, surprisingly cathartic, extremely relatable investigation into the American economy from two people in debt.
In the pilot episode we meet our two co-hosts, Jamie & Rachel, who dig into the reasons why so many people find money so hard to discuss, why we think weâre happier when we keep our secrets hidden, and how powerful it can be to come clean. After Jamie fesses up to Rachel about her years of hid...
Motherhood Has Been Hacked With Amanda Hess
What if the thing you bought to keep your baby safe was actually preparing them for a lifetime of being watched?
This week we sit down with New York Times critic and author Amanda Hess to talk about the dark underbelly of parenting tech. From the SNOO to the Owlet sock to that creepy CGI fetus in your pregnancy app, we unpack how modern devices promise safety while quietly feeding our data, and our kidsâ data, to the algorithm gods.
Amandaâs new book Second Life traces how technology has crept into every corner of moth...
An Influencer's Child Died and the Internet Came For Her
When a tragedy happens to a mother online, does it still belong to herâor does it belong to all of us?
After beloved TikTok mom influencer Emily Kaiserâs 3-year-old son tragically drowned, the internet didnât wait for confirmation. Strangers started playing detective, matching Zillow screenshots to TikToks, scouring Arizona death records, and demanding answers before her family had time to grieve.
This week, journalist Fortesa Latifiâwhoâs been doing some of the sharpest reporting on influencer culture for Rolling Stoneâjoins me to talk about the parasocial fallout. We dig into what it mean...
Sunday Nice Things: On Drugs, from Other Peopleâs Problems
Sharing something special with you this week, itâs an episode of Other Peopleâs Problems, from CBC. Normally, therapy sessions are totally confidential â but this podcast opens the doors. On this season, the host Dr. Hillary McBride explores the transformative power of psychedelics in a therapeutic setting. With her psychological expertise, Dr. Hillary leads clients through drug-assisted therapy, guiding them to new heights on their healing journeys. Youâll experience these real, unscripted sessions firsthand as they unfold, and get an unprecedented look at therapy using psychedelics and psychoactive drugs, demystifying this often misunderstood practice as a powerful tool in...
Is Motherhood Hard Everywhere, or Just in America?
Is it possible to raise a child without losing yourselfâif you live in a country that actually supports parents?
In this episode, we sit down with journalist and author Abigail Leonard to talk about her powerful new book Four Mothers, a narrative that follows four women across four countries through the highs and heartbreaks of their first year of motherhood. From Finlandâs robust family leave to Japanâs intense cultural expectations, from a grieving new mom in Kenya to an American mother who steps away from the religious community that raised her, these stories reveal how de...
Is Your Kid an Asshole or Just a Kid? With Melinda Wenner Moyer
Ever feel like gentle parenting only works for gentle childrenâand yours were born throwing punches? Same. Thatâs why this week, I sat down with science journalist and parenting sanity-saver â Melinda Wenner Moyerâ , author of â How to Raise Kids Who Arenât Assholesâ and the new book â Hello, Cruel World: How to Parent with Hope in an Era of Anxiety and Doomâ .
Weâre diving deep into the hard stuff: screen time panic, why discipline doesnât mean dictatorship, and how to build actual resilience (hint: let your kid be bored). Melinda brings research, realism, and a refreshing amount of...
Sunday Nice Things: How to Write a Good Book with Andi Bartz
What do writing a thriller, running a marathon, and raising small humans have in common? At some point, youâre convinced youâre doing it all wrong.
This week on Sunday Nice Things I down with bestselling author Andrea Bartz (The Last Ferry Out) to talk about the messy middle of any creative processâwhen everything feels like garbage and your brain is screaming âjust quit.â
If you've ever felt stuck in the middle of something hardâwriting a book, parenting, being a human in the worldâthis episode is for you.
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Where's the F*cking Village?
We were told thereâd be a village. A built-in crew of support, solidarity, and sanity that would show up the minute the baby did. But what if the village never comes?
In this episode, Jo talks to Melissa Wirtâmother of six, founder of Latched Mama, and author of I Was Told Thereâd Be a Villageâabout what it means to build connection in a culture that isolates mothers by design. They dive into the science of loneliness, the labor of making friends as a grown woman, and why an adult swim team might just save you...
What If Youâre Not Sure You Want Kids?
What happens when you're not 100% sure you want to become a motherâbut you go ahead and do it anyway? In this episode, we explore the space between certainty and regret, love and ambivalence, and what it means to mother without a clear road map.
Host Jo Piazza sits down with journalist and author Ruthie Ackerman, whose new book The Mother Code unpacks her own winding path to motherhoodâthrough egg freezing, fertility treatments, donor eggs, and a lot of self-doubt. They talk about why our culture demands total clarity from women about becoming mothers, how shame and...
Sunday Nice Things: Your New Favorite Kid Podcast
If your kids are into listening to podcasts (mine are...we are massive Greeking Out stans) then you are going to want The Ten News in your rotation. The Ten News podcast explores topics that kids care about most including events, sports, science, gaming, pop culture, entertainment, and more! With new episodes bi-weekly on Wednesday, itâs a great way for you and your family to stay connected with whatâs going on in the world. The Ten News also features some pretty awesome guests; LEGO Masters Judge Amy Corbett, Americaâs top doctor Dr. Anthony Fauci, Sarah Natochenny, the vo...
How to Raise Successful Kids with Susan Dominus
What do a novelist, an Olympic triathlete, and a healthcare entrepreneur have in common? In some families, they share a childhood. Pulitzer Prizeâwinning journalist Susan Dominus joins us to talk about The Family Dynamic, her riveting new book on how multiple high-achieving siblings emerge from the same homeâand what that means for the rest of us. We talk about the science of sibling influence, the myth of perfect parenting, and why stepping back might be the best thing you can do for your kidâs future.
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Raising Good Humans Without God: A Secular Parenting Survival Guide
What happens when your kids start asking the Big Questionsâabout death, morality, and the meaning of lifeâand your only answer is... "I don't know"?
This week we sit down with the anonymous duo behind The Family Skeptical podcastâtwo parents raising their children without religion in a world where Christian values are increasingly entangled with politics, community, and parenting culture.
They dive into what it means to teach critical thinking instead of catechism, how to build moral frameworks without ancient texts, and why parenting without a religious script often requires a lot more workâa...
Sunday Nice Things: The Family Skeptical
Dropping an episode of The Family Skeptical in your feed today. It's a show by a married atheist couple talking about raising kids in non-belief.
They talk about navigating the challenges and joys of raising open-minded, compassionate kids in a world where religious beliefs often take center stage and dive into topics such as teaching critical thinking, fostering empathy, celebrating diversity, handling religious questions, and much more.
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The Wild Courage to Go After What You Want (with former Google Exec Jenny Wood)
What does it really take to ask for what you wantâand actually get it? Jenny Wood, former Google executive and author of Wild Courage, breaks down why fear of judgment, failure, and uncertainty keep so many people stuck. This episode dives into the surprising science of ambition, why women are still penalized for being "bossy," how guilt and comparison steal more from us than failure ever could, and why being a little shameless might be the smartest move you make. Plus: what chasing a stranger off a subway platform can teach you about betting on yourself.
We Survived Girls Gone Wild Just to Get Tradwives?
What do Britney Spears, American Pie, Girls Gone Wild, and the rise of trad wives on TikTok all have in common? More than you think.
In this episode, we dive into the cultural stew of the late â90s and early 2000s with Atlantic critic Sophie Gilbert, author of Girl on Girl: How Pop Culture Turned a Generation of Women Against Themselves. From foam fingers to foam parties, we unpack how the sparkly, bedazzled, and disturbingly sexist pop culture of that era shaped millennial womanhoodâand how it's all come back in a new package labe...
Sunday Nice Things: Normal Curves
Dropping a great new podcast in your feed today. Normal Curves is a podcast about sexy science & serious statistics. Ever try to make sense of a scientific study and the numbers behind it? Listen in to a lively conversation between two stats-savvy friends who break it all down with humor and clarity.
Professors Regina Nuzzo of Gallaudet University and Kristin Sainani of Stanford University discuss academic papers journal club-style â except with more fun, less jargon, and some irreverent, PG-13 content sprinkled in. Join Kristin and Regina as they dissect the data, challenge the claims, and arm you wit...
Will Your Kid Have to be a Brand to Survive?
What do you want to be when you grow up? For Gen Alpha, the answer might just be: a brand.
This week, we enter the world of the Sweet Sisterhoodâa so-called âcontent houseâ made up of girls aged 8 to 12 with a combined following in the tens of millions. Think ring lights, sassy videos, and moms-turned-managers. But behind the sequins and smiles is a bigger, messier question: Is this the future of childhood? Will every kid need a personal brand just to survive the job market of tomorrow?
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Lessons from Spring Break: Trashtasic Vegas With Kids, Zion, and a Baby Who Hates Shoes
Ten days. Six bags. One baby screaming about her missing keys, her cell phone and how much she hates shoes and pants. Spring break in Vegas, Zion and Bryce had it allâdrunk fairy godmothers in Vegas, kids veering dangerously close to canyon edges, and a toddler who staged daily protests against wearing pants.
These are our lessons learned and a survival guide to chaotic family travel: overpacking regrets, road trip rules, the underrated joy of traveling with another family that you love so damn much, and the parenting power of well-timed candy bribes. Al...
Is Megan Markle a #TradWife?
This week, we're asking the question on the Internet's bitchy lips: is Meghan Markle a tradwife? To get to the bottom of it, I'm dropping in a special crossover episode with Off With Their Headlines where I try to answer that very question.
We unpack what âtradwifeâ actually means, why Meghanâs branding is smart (not submissive), and how capitalism, feminism, and influencer culture collide in unexpected ways. Plus, a little tea on royal family PR strategy, birth control conspiracies, andâsomething very unexpectedâsneaky Jesus.
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Bridget Jones, Real Lady Necks, and the Golden Age of Rom-Coms (with Erin Carlson)
Why does Bridget Jones still hit us right in the feelingsâdecades later? Because sheâs all of us. A little messy, a little lost, and still trying to figure it out.
This week, weâre diving into the joy, the grief, the chaos, and the sexy normalcy of the new Bridget Jones movieâand why romantic comedies are finally having a moment again (and thank God for that).
Itâs a full-on love letter to the rom-com: from waxing mishaps and mom life meltdowns to why we need more midli...
Sunday Nice Things: Parenting in the Digital Age with These Packs Puck
Today I'm dropping an episode of These Packs Puck.
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Anyone who's a parent knows how chaotic life with kids can be â but being a professional athlete and a parent comes with its own unique challenges. On their podcast, These Packs Puck, Madison and Anya Packer, professional hockey players and moms-of-two, speak candidly about their life on and off the ice.
This episode happens to feature Jo talking about social media and parenting.
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Did You Think Life Would Be Better Than This?
What happens when your life falls apartâand the Internet is watching?
Jessica Turner had the husband, the kids, the career, and the perfectly curated feed. But when her husband came out as gay, everything she thought she knew about her life, her marriage, and herself shattered. In this raw and deeply honest conversation, Jessica opens up about what it really looks like to rebuild from the ground upânavigating grief, rewriting your worth, dating again, and raising kids with integrity in the spotlight.
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Your Hormones Arenât the ProblemâThis Is
Most of us think we understand our menstrual cycles. We track them with apps. We count the days. Maybe we even know when weâre ovulating. But what if everything you think you know is either oversimplifiedâor totally wrong?
And what if the tools you're using to "know your body" are collecting your most intimate data... and selling it?
In this episode, Jo talks with Laura Federico and Morgan Miller, authors of The Cycle Book, about the real science behind your cycleâand the avalanche of misinformation being spread...
How Toxic Masculinity and Online Spaces Are Reshaping Boyhood
Online spaces and societal expectations are radicalizing young boys at an alarming rate. The haunting TV drama "Adolescence" depicts a 13-year-old boy arrested for murdering a female classmateâa fictional story that reflects real concerns about how toxic internet communities are shaping vulnerable minds.
Reverend Angela Denker, author of "Disciples of White Jesus: The Radicalization of American Boyhood," offers a nuanced perspective on two painful truths: white boys and men are both dangerous and struggling. While making up the majority of mass shooters in America, they also die by suicide at higher rates than an...
What's Worse Than The Glass Ceiling? The Broken Rung!
You've earned the degree, landed the job, and crushed your first assignmentsâso why aren't you moving up? The shocking truth: it's not you, it's the system. "For every 100 men at the entry level that get that first big promotion, only 81 out of 100 women make the same leap." Join us as McKinsey senior partner Lareina Yee, co-author of "Broken Rung," reveals why the first step on your career ladder might be sabotaging your entire professional journeyâand what you can do about it.
Our guest, a McKinsey senior partner and co-author of "Broken Rung," shares startling insights abou...
Will You Ever Be Enough? A Chat With Melissa Arnot?
In this deeply personal episode, we sit down with extraordinary mountaineer Melissa Arnot, whose achievements include multiple Everest summits including one without supplemental oxygen. But this conversation goes far beyond climbing mountains.
Melissa's new book explores the universal struggle many women face: never feeling like we're enough despite accomplishments that prove otherwise. From her tumultuous upbringing to becoming an elite mountain guide while balancing motherhood and relationships, Melissa shares her journey of overcoming the relentless inner critic.
This raw, honest discussion resonates with anyone who's ever felt inadequate despite "...
Are Influencers Ruining Italy?
From wine windows that went viral during the pandemic to churches becoming TikTok sensations, we unpack how influencer culture is changing the way we experience historic and cultural sites all over the world, but particularly in Italy. Plus, we tackle that other burning question: with so many Americans dreaming of escaping to Italy, is it actually feasible? And would those same people just become part of the problem? Is all of it just a social media induced fever dream for most Americans?
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Sunday Nice Things: Too Much Money
Today on Sunday Nice Things I'm dropping in an episode of the show Too Much Money that I made with my friend Doree Shafrir. The show is a wild ride through the crazy ways that billionaires spend their money. And now that we live in a world with a billionaire ruling class it's a more interesting listen than ever.
This episode is about why billionaires love to buy media properties and then ruin them. In this ep we discuss the various billionaires (Jeff Bezos, Patrick Soon-Shiong, Mort Zuckerman, Sam Zell, etc.) who have bought...
America Gets a Failing Grade in Women's HealthâSURPRISE!
The misinformation about birth control and women's rights on social media has reached a fever pitch. The other day I was served a reel telling me that taking birth control will both give me cancer and make me more attracted to my cousin. How can we fix this? With information. Can a report card help save reproductive rights in America? This week, I'm chatting with Jennie Wetter from ePROs Fight Back to discuss their groundbreaking report card grading all 50 states on reproductive health and rights. As the US earns its sixth consecutive failing grade, they break down the current...
What if Social Media Were Good for Tween Girls?
Professor Katherine Phelps is shattering the stereotype that social media is purely destructive for young girls. After spending a ton of time with these young women and interviewing them about their online habits for her new book Digital Girlhoods she's discovered that social media plays a valuable role in community building and identity formation.
Katherine discusses the complex dynamics of online bullying, privacy, and visibility, as well as the broader societal influences that shape young girls' digital lives. Maybe it isn't social media that is failing girls, but our society, our culture and even us.
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Navigating Grief and Grief Influencing Online
Today we're talking to Susie Shaw, a mother who bravely shares her journey through the devastating loss of her child, William. Susie recounts the harrowing day William went missing during a family ski vacation and the aftermath of that tragedy. Our conversation delves deep into the challenges of grieving, the dire need for better bereavement support, and the role of grief influencers online, both the good and the bad.
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Can You Change Your Personality?
Have you ever wondered if you could stop being so neurotic, or become more of an extrovert? Are our personalities set in stone when we are born or can we adapt them over time? To find out Atlantic journalist Olga Kazan set out on a year-long experiment to become more extroverted, less neurotic, and more agreeable.
Discover how Olga successfully changed aspects of her personality through simple practices like meditation, social activities, and volunteering. She debunks the myth that personality is "set like plaster" and reveals how our traits can be nudged in positive directions in as...
Sunday Nice Things: How Do I Balance My Hormones?
I'm a little obsessed with this week's Sunday Nice Things. I am very excited to bring you the CRAMPED podcast. Cramped is one nerdâs quest to find out why we know next to nothing about period pain. Tired of suffering from "death cramps" with no diagnosis for 20 years, Kate Downey has to look for her own answers. What she finds will change how you think about your own body and the medical system. Because having a microphone gets you more answers than having a uterus.
In this episode Kate gets sucked down a rabbit hole of "ho...
How Will You Measure Your Life?
What if taking a step back from your career wasn't seen as slacking, but actually celebrated? Harvard Business School professor Christina Wallace discusses why we all deserve a season to dial it back at work. She'll make you question how you're measuring your life (spoiler: it's probably not just about that paycheck) and why the "lean in" mindset did women zero favors. We dig into why companies should let employees hit the brakes occasionally, how to tell your boss you need breathing room without getting fired, and why finding a hobby you don't monetize might save your sanity.
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