Easier Movement, Happier Life

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By: Mary Debono

Do you want to create a life of movement, connection, and well-being for you and your animals?Whether you’re an equestrian, a dog lover, or both, this podcast is for you! In Easier Movement, Happier Life: For You, Your Horses & Dogs, Feldenkrais® teacher, international clinician, and bestselling author Mary Debono shares insights, tips, and techniques to help you improve movement, mindset, and connection for yourself and your animals.Each week, we explore topics like body awareness, flexibility, and balance, focusing on how these elements impact both you and your horse or dog. We’ll dive into how anxiety and tensio...

Why Even Well-Fitting Gear Can Limit Your Animal's Movement
#134
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Learn why even well-fitting dog harnesses and horse saddles can exacerbate movement restrictions. Discover a practical two-phase approach to help your animal move comfortably with their gear on, reducing stiffness and improving mobility.

Resources:

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Help Your Dog Move with Ease & Confidence in 3 Steps
#133
08/27/2025

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What if your dog's mobility challenges, anxiety, or behavioral issues are connected to hidden physical tension? Mary Debono shares her 3-step framework that's helped dogs with mobility difficulties, stroke survivors, and anxious rescues find both physical ease and emotional calm. 

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Reclaim Your Stolen Attention: The Secret to a Deeper Bond with Your Horse & Dog
#132
08/13/2025

Your attention is priceless — and often stolen by constant distractions. Learn how Feldenkrais® and Debono Moves help you reclaim focus, deepen your bond, and improve movement for both you and your horse or dog. 

Your horse or dog doesn’t care about fancy equipment or your bank balance. What they crave most is your attention — a resource constantly pulled away by modern distractions, yet it’s the foundation of trust, connection, and better movement. In this episode of Easier Movement, Happier Life, Mary shares how to reclaim it. 

Drawing on insights from Cal Newport and decades of...


Let It Be Easy: The Smarter Path to Healing for Dogs, Horses—and You
#131
08/06/2025

Whether you’re helping a senior or injured dog regain mobility, encouraging your horse to move more freely, or looking to ease discomfort in your own body, real, lasting improvement begins with curiosity, comfort, and a sense of safety—not with pressure or force.

In this episode, you'll discover how to engage your animal’s (and your own) nervous system in a way that sparks curiosity, builds confidence, and opens the door to joyful movement. 

Whether you're helping a dog recover from surgery, supporting an aging horse, or trying to move better...


Why "Fixing" Your Animal Actually Breaks Trust (And What to Do Instead)
#130
07/30/2025

Mary Debono reveals why traditional "fixing" approaches often backfire and create resistance in both animals and humans. Drawing from the Feldenkrais Method® and her innovative Debono Moves approach, Mary explains how supporting the direction of ease—rather than opposing it—builds trust and creates lasting positive change.

You'll discover the neuroscience behind why gentle, supportive approaches work better than forcing change, and learn practical ways for working with your horse's, dog's, or your own natural movement patterns. Mary shares how to recognize and support what's already working, creating a learning environment where transformation happens naturally.

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Breaking the Tension Loop: Mindful Awareness for You and Your Dog
#129
07/23/2025

Discover how automatic stress responses create feedback loops between you and your dog. Learn how to shift nervous system patterns through a simple breathing practice, so grooming, walking, and everyday life feel better for both of you.   

Mentioned in this episode: An Akita Overcomes Hip and Knee Pain - and Changes His Behavior Too

Resources:

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Why I Taught My Horse to Chase Me with a Whip—and What It Taught Us Both
#128
07/16/2025

What do you do when you see someone chasing terrified horses with a whip?

If you're Mary Debono, you teach your horse to chase you with a whip—and discover something joyful in the process.

In this episode, Mary shares the surprising story of how a simple liberty game became a lesson in trust, body awareness, and learning to learn. You’ll hear how she transformed her horse Breeze’s traumatic past into a partnership built on joy and curiosity—and how their years of playful exploration allowed Breeze to learn “chase me w...


Tack, Tension, and Transformation [Horses]
#127
07/09/2025

Tack isn’t just gear—it’s a powerful signal. It can trigger old patterns of tension in both horse and human. In this episode, discover how to gently shift those habits using awareness and Debono Moves—so you and your horse feel more at ease, right from the start.

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Humming and Healing: The Surprising Power of Sound to Support You and Your Animals
#126
06/27/2025

Discover how a simple humming practice can transform your connection with animals by regulating your nervous system, reducing tension, and communicating safety through presence rather than actions. 

Resources:
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Is Your Horse or Dog Predicting Pain? Here’s How to Help Them Feel Safe Again
#125
06/18/2025

Did you know your horse or dog might be bracing before anything even happens—because their brain is predicting discomfort?

In this episode, we explore the fascinating science behind predictive brains and how both humans and animals can get caught in loops of fear, tension, and restricted movement. But here’s the good news: prediction errors are learning opportunities.

You’ll learn how gentle, supportive touch—through Debono Moves for your animals and the Feldenkrais Method® for yourself—can update your brain’s predictions, interrupt downward spirals of tension, and build a new sense of safety and ea...


Why Slowing Down Speeds Up Real Results
#124
06/11/2025

Movement specialist Mary Debono reveals why forcing change in your horse, dog, or yourself often backfires—and what to do instead.

Drawing from the Feldenkrais MethodⓇ and the Debono Moves approach, Mary explains how the nervous system's primary job is protection. When we try to "fix" movement patterns, we trigger defensive responses that reinforce the very habits we're trying to change. 

"Change isn't something you impose—it's something you invite." - Mary Debono 

Resources:
💥Learn how the Feldenkrais MethodⓇ can help improve your seat, position, and balance on yo...


The Wrong Way to Get It Right
#123
06/03/2025

Discover the counterintuitive "do the easy side badly" strategy that transforms movement without forcing change. Learn why intentionally making your easy side feel difficult helps your challenging side improve naturally through neuroplasticity and contrast learning.

Have you ever noticed that one side of your body moves more smoothly than the other? Maybe your right leg slides effortlessly while your left feels sticky, or you turn more easily in one direction than the other. Your horses and dogs have these asymmetries, too.

Most people try to fix the "harder" side by pushing...


Something Shifted… and the Horse Knew
#122
05/20/2025

This episode shares inspiring stories of transformation through Debono Moves—where presence, support, and gentle guidance invite nervous systems to relax, horses to soften, and freer movement to emerge naturally. A shift in you creates change in your animals. 

Resources:

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Hands That Listen: Transforming Your Approach to Animal Wellness
#121
04/30/2025

Discover how to shift from the conventional "fix-it" approach to animal bodywork to creating a tactile conversation with your animal's nervous system. Rather than attempting to stretch, release, or realign body parts, Mary Debono reveals how supporting the nervous system—the body's true control center—creates profound, lasting change.

Mary shares case studies of horses with chronic back pain and dogs with spinal issues, demonstrating how gentle, respectful touch that honors the animal's innate wisdom achieves results. She explains why poking into sore areas creates defensiveness rather than healing, and how her approach creates an environment of safe...


Present Moment Magic: Mindfulness for You and Your Animals
#120
04/23/2025

What if the way to connect more deeply with your horse or dog wasn’t by doing more—but simply by noticing more?

In this episode of Easier Movement, Happier Life, Mary Debono explores how mindfulness, the simple act of noticing your present experience, can radically transform your life and the lives of your animals.

You’ll learn how slowing down—even just for a moment—can awaken you to new possibilities. Discover how mindful movement, shared awareness, and practices like Connected Breathing and Rhythm Circles can regulate your nervous system, deepen your animal connection, and bring...


Your Animal’s Body is Talking—Are You Listening?
#119
04/16/2025

What if a simple, mindful touch could improve your dog’s or horse’s movement, comfort, and even emotional well-being? In this episode, Mary Debono shares how to use your hands and your heart to do a gentle “scan”—a profoundly simple practice that awakens awareness, fosters mobility, and strengthens your bond.

You’ll learn:

Why your hands act like a kinesthetic mirror for your animal’s bodyHow curiosity (not correction) supports nervous system changeWhat to feel for: structure, temperature, response, symmetryWhy these moments of shared awareness build trust and connectionHow CLTMs (special receptors) create calm and deepen the...


Pause, Process, Progress: The Value of Confusion
#118
04/09/2025

Confusion isn’t failure—it’s a signal that your brain (or your animal’s) is learning something new. In this episode, Mary Debono shares how embracing confusion can improve your movement, mindset, and connection with your horse or dog. 

Key Takeaways

Confusion is a natural and valuable part of the learning process.Your nervous system—and your animal’s—needs time and space to process new information.Novelty and variation disrupt habitual patterns, leading to more efficient movement.Asking “How can this feel easier?” can guide you through confusion with grace.The key is not to fix but t...


Imagination: A Bridge to Deeper Connection with Your Horse or Dog
#117
04/02/2025

Would you like to use your imagination to deepen your connection with your horse or dog? In this episode, you’ll learn how to use your imagination to not only deepen your connection with your horse or dog but also increase the effectiveness of bodywork and training sessions. 

Key Takeaways:

Your brain doesn't strongly distinguish between vivid imagination and physical experience—"what you imagine, you embody."Visualizing a connection of light with your animal creates real physiological changes in your body that your animal can detect.Animals constantly read the world through somat...


The Transformative Power of Resonance with Your Horse or Dog
#116
03/26/2025

In this episode, Mary Debono shares how cultivating resonance—a felt sense of connection between you and your animal—can profoundly transform your relationship with your horse or dog.

Whether through hands-on Debono Moves, quiet companionship, or simply breathing together, resonance helps you tune in more deeply to your animal—and yourself. Mary explains how subtle shifts in attention, gratitude, and gentle support can activate your animal’s nervous system in a healing, trust-building way.

Through real-life stories, including working with an aging Australian Shepherd and liberty play with her beloved horse Breeze, Mary reveals how reso...


How to Improve Your Horse’s Movement Through Connection, Not Control
#115
03/19/2025

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Many riders try to fix their horse’s movement challenges—stiffness, bending issues, or unevenness—by stretching, using stronger aids, or forcing a certain posture. But what if the real key to improvement isn’t about control at all?

In this episode, I’ll share how fostering connection instead of imposing control allows your horse to move with greater ease, comfort, and balance. You’ll learn why traditional fixes often fail, how the nervous system...


Why Efficient Movement Matters for You and Your Animals
#114
03/12/2025

Discover why movement efficiency is crucial for humans, horses, and dogs alike. Learn how maladaptive movement patterns create wear and tear, while efficient movement reduces joint damage, increases power, and simply feels better—leading to more vitality and range of motion for all species.

Resources:

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Want to improve movement efficiency, comfort, and connection for both you and your horse? 

Check out our Move with Your Horse Foundations gr...


Nervous Dog? Try This Body-Mind Approach
#113
03/06/2025

In this episode, Mary Debono blends neuroscience, practical techniques, and compassionate understanding to give dog owners new tools for helping their anxious companions. 

By the end, you'll understand how to transform your relationship with your dog through physical and emotional connection, ultimately giving them the confidence to face challenges with calm assurance.

Learn how Connected Breathing and Rhythm Circles can reset your dog's nervous system, build confidence, and create new neural pathways – all through gentle, compassionate connection. 

Resources:

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Innovative Help for the Herd-Bound Horse
#112
02/26/2025

Mary Debono addresses a common challenge faced by many horse owners: the herd-bound horse. Rather than using punitive methods that cause more fear, Mary shares innovative, humane, and effective ways to help horses feel secure when separated from their herd.

She emphasizes the importance of recognizing this natural behavior and working with it rather than against it.

The episode introduces several powerful practices:

Connected Breathing: A foundational practice where you place your hands on your horse's ribcage and sense their breathing, creating a tactile conversation that promotes relaxation and deep connection.Heart-Centered Appreciation: Mary...


Why Fixing Your Animal Won’t Work—And What Does
#111
02/19/2025

What if the key to helping your horse or dog move with ease wasn’t about “fixing” them but connecting with them?

In this episode, I challenge the idea of correction-based approaches and explain why true change happens through mindful support, not force. I introduce my Possibilities in Motion framework—a powerful yet simple way to connect with your animal, relieve tension, and gently guide them toward easier movement.

You’ll also hear the inspiring story of Zoey, a dog who wouldn’t use her surgically repaired leg despite all traditional rehab efforts. The breakthrough? A simple yet...


How Gentle Movements Can Help You, Your Horse, and Dog Feel Safer and Happier
#110
02/12/2025

Discover how the Feldenkrais Method® and Debono Moves use gentle movements to help you, your horse, and your dog feel safer and more at ease. Learn how mindful movement engages the nervous system, reduces tension, and fosters confidence—without force. Tune in for simple ways to enhance well-being for all! 

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Body Wisdom: The Bridge to Animal Connection
#109
02/05/2025

Discover how developing body wisdom through the Feldenkrais MethodⓇ creates a natural bridge to deeper animal connection. Learn to trust your innate physical intelligence, release unnecessary tension, and become a more responsive, intuitive partner for your horses and dogs. 

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Setback or Reset? How to Reframe Challenges for You, Your Horses & Dogs
#108
01/31/2025

Learn how to reframe challenges as opportunities for growth in your journey with horses and dogs. Discover practical mindset shifts, movement strategies, and real-world examples that help you and your animals move better, feel better, and strengthen your bond together.
 
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The Hardest Thing to Believe About Improving Yourself
#107
01/22/2025

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Discover how lasting change can happen instantly and effortlessly through the Feldenkrais Method. Learn why struggle isn't necessary for transformation, experience a mini-movement lesson, and hear inspiring stories of rapid, profound change in both humans and animals.

Resources:
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Exciting Update: Our Podcast is Now Easier Movement, Happier Life
#106
01/13/2025

If you’ve been listening to this podcast for any length, you know that I’ve been on a mission to help you and your horse/dog improve movement, connection, and well-being for you and your animals.

For quite a while now, I’ve been hosting two separate podcasts: "Easier Movement, Happier Horses" and "Easier Movement, Happier Dogs."

After much thought, I’ve decided to bring both of these podcasts together into one unified space. Moving forward, all the great content you’ve loved from both shows will be available here, under the new name—Easier Mov...


Reclaim Lost Time for What Matters Most
#105
12/19/2024

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Email mary@marydebono.com

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Your Personal Keystone: Unlock the Power of Lasting Change
#104
12/12/2024

Discover how selecting a keystone practice like Feldenkrais can create positive chain reactions throughout your life. Learn how gentle movement sequences can improve your riding, sleep, emotional resilience, and creativity while building a foundation for lasting transformation.

Key Takeaways

A keystone goal or practice creates positive chain reactions in multiple areas of lifeA consistent Feldenkrais practice makes an effective keystone practice Physical benefits include improved flexibility, coordination, and postureMental benefits include enhanced focus, concentration, decision-making abilities, and emotional resiliencePhysical changes can lead to broader life transformationsMary's upcoming Feldenkrais series will focus on b...


Improving a Horse’s Ability to Hold Up His Legs for Hoof Trimming
#103
12/05/2024

Discover how addressing your horse's entire body, especially back tension, can transform difficult hoof handling into a calm, cooperative experience. Learn gentle, effective practices that replace force with understanding, creating lasting positive change in your horse's hoof care routine.

Key Takeaways: 

Resistance to hoof handling often stems from whole-body tension, particularly in the backTraditional forcing methods can create a cycle of increasing tension and resistanceGentle, supportive movements are more effective than forceful stretchingBuilding body awareness in both horse and handler is crucial for successPatience and consistency are essential for creating lasting changeDaily grooming routines p...


[Listener Favorite] Body-Mind Harmony: 4 Keys to Moving WITH Your Horse
#102
11/28/2024

Discover the four hallmarks of healthy movement that can improve athletic performance for you and your horse.  Learn how effortlessness, breathing, reversibility, and posture reveal physical and emotional states, leading to better communication and partnership with your horse.

Resources:

💥Learn how the Feldenkrais Method can help improve your seat, position, and balance on your horse! Free rider videos masterclass: https://www.marydebono.com/rider 💥

Join our waitlist! https://www.marydebono.com/joinhorse 🐴

Email mary@marydebono.com

All information is for general educational purposes ONLY and doesn't constitute medical, v...


Where Your Hip Joints Really Are (And Why It Matters)
#101
11/22/2024

💥Video: Finding Your Hips Joints 💥

Your hip joints hold the key to better riding – but only if you know where they really are. Learn why traditional approaches often fail and discover a gentle, proven process that creates lasting change for you and your horse using the Feldenkrais Method.

Most riders struggle with hip mobility because they're working with the wrong map. By understanding the true location of your hip joints, you'll discover why traditional advice like "just relax" or "stretch more" might be holding you back. Through the gentle wisdom of the Felden...


Beyond Stretching: An Intelligent Approach to Flexibility
#100
11/14/2024

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Discover why traditional stretching might be holding you back. Learn how the Feldenkrais MethodⓇ and Debono Moves offer a revolutionary, science-backed approach to improving flexibility and movement for both riders and horses - without the risks of conventional stretching.

Instead of treating muscles like rubber bands, Mary introduces listeners to a revolutionary approach that works with the body's natural intelligence.

Through the lens of the Feldenkrais Method for humans and Debono Moves for horses, Mary explains how gentle, exploratory movements can achieve better results...


Enjoy Freer Shoulders in Ten Minutes
#99
11/07/2024

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Follow along with this video to make riding, grooming, and leading your horse easier and more enjoyable. By understanding the natural connection between your shoulder blade and rib cage, you'll discover how to have lighter,  more independent hands - without stretching or strain.

Resources:

💥Learn how the Feldenkrais Method can help improve your seat, position, and balance on your horse! Free rider videos masterclass: https://www.marydebono.com/rider 💥

Email mary@marydebono...


The Power of Breath: Your Secret Training Tool
#98
10/31/2024

Discover how changing how you breathe can transform your interactions with your horse. Learn practical ways to calm an anxious horse or enliven a "lazy" one, plus a Feldenkrais-inspired quadrant breathing lesson that can enhance your seat and connection! 

You'll learn:

Why tension in your breathing affects your horse's responsivenessHow your breathing can invoke a state of calm curiosity, which invites creativity and connection with your horseA Feldenkrais-inspired quadrant breathing exercise that can improve your seat, develop more precise weight aids, and create clearer communication with your horse

Whether you're dealing with an a...


Feeling Stuck? Transform Your Horse Time Today
#97
10/24/2024

Feeling stuck in your horse routine? Discover practical, science-backed ways to refresh your horse time. From simple changes in daily habits to mindset shifts, learn how to reignite your passion and deepen your connection with your horse through novel experiences and mindful practices.

Key Takeaways

Small changes in routine can create a welcome shift in your nervous systemNon-habitual activities create new neural pathways and enhance awarenessMindset shifts can transform your horse experienceChallenging limiting beliefs about yourself and your horse opens new possibilities


Engaging all senses deepens your awarenessPlayful approaches can reignite...


Crafting Your Future: Make a Blueprint for Success
#96
10/17/2024

Let’s take a journey into the future—but not with a time machine. Instead, we’ll do a powerful mental exercise designed to help you shape the future you desire, whether it's improving your mobility, strengthening your relationship with your horse, or achieving new levels of well-being and connection.

When we create a compelling “future memory,” it  gives your brain a roadmap to make better choices today, leading to long-term success. By imagining the feelings, movements, and experiences you want in your future, you empower yourself to take actionable steps now. This episode is filled with...


Mindset Magic: Reframing to Get Real Results
#95
10/10/2024

In this episode, we explore the concept of reframing and its impact on your equestrian journey. Host Mary Debono shares personal anecdotes and practical examples to illustrate how changing your perspective can revolutionize your approach to challenges, both in and out of the saddle.

Mary emphasizes that reframing is not about sugarcoating difficulties, but about finding actionable strategies to improve your life and your relationship with your horse. She introduces the Feldenkrais Method as a powerful tool for enhancing both physical and mental well-being, highlighting how improved body awareness can lead to more effective mindset shifts.

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