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🎙️ The husDOM Masculine Dominant Leadership PodcastHosted by Mr. Fox | Founder of husDOM.comWelcome to the husDOM Masculine Dominant Leadership Podcast—the definitive resource for married men ready to forge their masculine dominant identity and lead with confidence, clarity, and erotic power.This podcast is for husDOMs, husbands, and committed partners who want more than just “being a good man.” Here, you’ll learn how to step into masculine leadership, embody intentional dominance, and create a dynamic marriage that blends trust, intimacy, passion, and playful erotic power.🎧 What You’ll Gain:✅ Masculine Leadership Strategies – Lead your marriage with confidence and presence.✅ Connection & Chemistry –...

Busy is a Choice - Fox Tracks Series
#57
Today at 11:00 AM

Are you constantly busy but still feeling disconnected from what matters most?

In this Fox Track episode, Mr. Fox explores the idea that busy is a choice—and how the way we spend our time quietly reveals our true priorities. After a brief personal absence, he reflects on a season that forced him to slow down, reassess what mattered most, and realign his life around presence instead of constant motion.

This short, reflective episode challenges the modern obsession with productivity and invites listeners to examine how time, attention, and energy are invested in re...


Not Everyone Gets Access - Fox Tracks Series
#56
11/29/2025

Not Everyone Gets Access is a wake-up call for men who give too much of their private world to people who haven’t earned it.

In this Fox Tracks episode, Mr. Fox breaks down a hard truth:
Most people don’t actually want you to succeed — your growth challenges their complacency, threatens their ego, and exposes where they’ve stopped growing. And when you vent to the wrong person, you’re not presenting the man you truly are… or the man you’re becoming. You’re giving someone unqualified a front-row seat to your frustration, not...


Guard the Gate – Why a Dominant Husband Never Talks About His Wife or His Marriage with Another Woman
#55
11/25/2025

A dominant husband protects what is sacred—especially when she’s not there to see it.

In this episode, recorded from Cyprus, Mr. Fox exposes one of the most common and dangerous mistakes men make in marriage:

👉 Talking about your wife or your relationship with another woman.

It doesn’t matter if she’s “just a friend.”
It doesn’t matter if it feels harmless or innocent.
It doesn’t matter if you’re “just venting.”

Once you share your relationship struggles with someone outside the marriage—especially with...


Before You Engage This Holiday Ask Yourself One Question - Fox Tracks Series
#54
11/21/2025

In this episode of Fox Tracks, I share a moment almost every man has experienced—you see something online from someone you respect, and it shifts how you feel. Maybe it was a meme. Maybe a comment. Maybe a holiday dinner conversation that went sideways.

The easy move? React. Engage. Fight to prove a point.

But leadership isn’t about convincing others. It isn’t about being right. It’s about presence. It’s about discipline. It’s about knowing when not to step into the chaos.

This episode explores:

Why unfollow...


Stop Coasting Through the Holidays — Lead Her Like a Man.
#53
11/18/2025

The holidays hit women harder than most men ever notice.
While many husbands drift into food, football, and distraction, their wives carry the emotional weight, the logistics, and the pressure of creating the magic.

This episode is a wake-up call for every married man—every husDOM—who wants to show up with strength, presence, and leadership during the most demanding season of the year.
You’ll learn how to support her feminine energy, reduce her stress, read her cues, anchor her nervous system, and keep the connection—and the erotic tension—alive through the chaos...


Be Careful Where You Tap - Fox Tracks Series
#52
11/14/2025

A quiet lunch in DC turned into a reminder every man needs.

In this Fox Tracks episode, I share a moment that stopped me in my tracks — accidentally sending a message meant for LK to my daughter because I was bouncing between two conversations. Nothing graphic, nothing sexual… but it was a wake-up call about how fast things can go sideways when you’re distracted.

From there, I talk about a story one of the men in The Fox’s Den shared — a Sr/Jr mix-up that resulted in an intimate photo going to the completely...


When You Go Away and Go Silent — What She Feels and Why It Matters
#51
11/11/2025

When distance creates silence, leadership must speak louder.
In this episode, Mr. Fox introduces The husDOM Text Bank — a new resource crafted for Dominant husbands who want to stay connected, intentional, and emotionally present even when miles apart. Discover how simple, well-chosen words can reinforce trust, direction, and erotic polarity in your marriage.

Mr. Fox breaks down the psychology behind daily communication, why predictability builds safety, and how masculine consistency sustains desire over time. You’ll learn how to use text, tone, and ritual to lead her heart before you ever touch her body.

Wh...


Blind Spots in Leadership- What Every Husband Misses Until Its Almost Too Late Files
#50
11/04/2025

Episode 50 — Blind Spots in Leadership: What Every Husband Misses Until It’s Almost Too Late

In this milestone 50th episode of husDOM Masculine Dominant Leadership, Mr. Fox exposes one of the biggest threats to a man’s growth and marriage — the blind spots in his own leadership.

Every husband has them. The habits you overlook. The emotional distance you don’t feel growing. The ways you think you’re leading… when you’re actually losing connection. These blind spots quietly undermine your authority, intimacy, and trust — until it’s almost too late.

...


She’s Done Talking — How a Dominant Husband Rebuilds Trust and Reconnects with His Wife
#49
10/21/2025

🎙️ She’s Done Talking — How a Dominant Husband Rebuilds Trust and Reconnects with His Wife


By Mr. Fox | The husDOM Dominant Leadership Podcast
Episode Length: ~18–20 minutes

🎧 [INTRO]

Hey, this is Mr. Fox and you’re listening to the husDOM Dominant Leadership Podcast, the show for married men who want to lead with strength, presence, and purpose.

Today, I’m going straight at something a lot of husbands face but few are willing to admit.
It’s not the fight. It’s not the yelling.
It’s the silence.<...


She’s Not the Same Woman Anymore: What to Do When She Changes
#48
10/14/2025

 Your relationship feels different—and not in a good way.
She’s more distant. Less affectionate. Emotionally unavailable.
You’re asking yourself, “What happened to the woman I married?”

In this powerful episode of husDOM: Masculine Dominant Leadership, Mr. Fox breaks down one of the most confusing and painful moments a man can face in his relationship: when the woman you love evolves—and you don’t know how to keep up.

This isn’t just about marriage or D/s-M dynamics.
It’s about masculine leadership in the real world<...


Command the Room | How Your Energy Shapes Her Trust and Desire
#47
10/07/2025

In this episode of the husDOM Dominant Leadership Podcast, Mr. Fox reveals the one thing that silently defines every man’s success as a husband, leader, and Dominant: his energy.

Before you ever speak a word, your wife already feels who you are — through your presence, tone, and emotional control. In Command the Room: How Your Energy Shapes Her Trust and Desire, Mr. Fox breaks down how masculine energy sets the entire atmosphere of your marriage. You’ll learn how to transform stress into stability, replace reactivity with strength, and master the kind of pre...


Creating Your Masculine Dominant Identity
#46
09/30/2025

Being a “good husband” is not the same as being a masculine dominant leader. Most men believe that working hard, providing, and staying faithful is enough—but in reality, those things only scratch the surface of what a wife truly craves. She doesn’t just want security. She wants polarity. She wants pursuit. She wants to feel your masculine dominant identity in every area of life—your home, your presence, and your bedroom.

In this episode of the husDOM Masculine Dominant Leadership Podcast, Mr. Fox breaks down what a true masculine...


Own It All - The Masculine Path to Leadership, Safety, and Desire
#45
09/23/2025

Own It All—The Masculine Path to Leadership, Safety, and Desire

What separates strong, trusted leaders from weak men who constantly lose ground in their marriages? One word: ownership.

In this episode of the husDOM Dominant Leadership Podcast, Mr. Fox breaks down what ownership really means inside a committed, monogamous marriage—and why it’s the single most important trait a man can embody.

You’ll learn:

What true ownership is (and why most men only scratch the surface).The toxic patterns of deflection and blame-shifting—and how they destr...


From Respect to Ravishment, Rebuilding Desire Without Begging for It
#44
09/16/2025

Many husbands think that if they stay loyal, provide, and earn their wife’s respect, passion will take care of itself. But here’s the truth—respect alone doesn’t create desire. She may admire you, appreciate you, and rely on you… but if she doesn’t feel claimed, pursued, and stirred by your presence, your marriage risks slipping into polite distance.

In this third and final episode of the Marriage Reboot Series, Mr. Fox exposes the gap between admiration and arousal—and shows you how to close it. You’ll learn why negotiating or begging for sex kills attrac...


You’re Not Her Therapist. You’re Her Leader
#43
09/02/2025

Episode 2 – You’re Not Her Therapist. You’re Her Leader

Most men are told that the secret to saving their marriage is “better communication.”
Talk more. Listen harder. Validate every feeling.

But if you’ve been talking for hours, checking in constantly, and still feel no closer to your wife—then you already know the truth: communication alone doesn’t rekindle passion.

In this second episode of the Marriage Reboot Series (a 3-part journey), Mr. Fox exposes why endless “relationship talks” keep couples stuck in roommate mode—and what to do instead. You’ll lea...


The Quiet Stalemate
#42
08/12/2025

Episode 1 – Marriage Reboot Series: The Quiet Stalemate That’s Killing Desire

Your marriage isn’t broken—but it’s not burning with passion either.
You like each other. You respect each other. You still share a bed, a home, and responsibilities. But deep down, you know you’ve been coasting.

In this opening episode of the Marriage Reboot Series, Mr. Fox exposes the hidden danger of the midlife marital stalemate—when you and your wife stop fighting for connection and start quietly drifting apart.

You’ll discover:

Why “we’re fine” is the most...


Exploring Uranus
#41
08/05/2025

Unlock the erotic power of trust, communication, and adventure inside a committed marriage. The husDOM Masculine Leadership Podcast invites married couples to explore the world of anal sex, kinky connection, and intimate taboo desires—guided by the voice of Mr. Fox, a dominant husband leading with purpose.

Perfect for beginners and curious couples, this bold episode breaks the silence around anal play with real talk, expert insight, emotional framing, and step-by-step guidance. Discover how to build deeper connection, safely explore anal sex, set mutual boundaries, and create erotic rituals that strengthen your relationship.

Whether you’re n...


3 Ways to Lead Her Back—Before Her Silence Becomes Goodbye
#40
07/29/2025

She Didn’t Leave Because She Stopped Loving You—She Left Because She Was Tired

She didn’t leave because she stopped loving you—she left because she was exhausted.
Tired of not being heard.
Tired of carrying the emotional weight alone.
Tired of feeling unseen in a relationship she was still fighting for.

In this powerful episode of the husDOM Masculine Leadership Podcast, Mr. Fox breaks down the silent signals many men miss when their wives begin to pull away—not out of apathy, but out of burnout. You’ll learn the...


Intimacy | Shark Week
#39
07/22/2025

This week, Mr. Fox dives deep into what most men avoid: sex, intimacy, and masculine leadership during a woman’s period—aka Shark Week.

Far too many husbands check out during this time, but the truth? Her cycle isn’t a pause button—it’s an opportunity for deeper connection, erotic exploration, and powerful leadership.

In this episode, you’ll learn:
âś… How to reframe her period as part of your leadership, not a retreat
âś… Practical hygiene and comfort tips for sexual play during menstruation
âś… The psychology and sensuality of giving oral sex during her cycle


Mastering Erotic Follow-Through
#38
07/15/2025

In this powerful and intimate episode of the husDOM Dominant Leadership Podcast, Mr. Fox explores one of the most overlooked elements of dominant leadership in the bedroom: erotic follow-through. When a Dominant finishes before his submissive and walks away—physically or emotionally—he risks slowly eroding her ability to fully surrender.

Sharing a real, spontaneous encounter with his wife LK, Mr. Fox walks listeners through the mindset, decisions, and actions that transformed a simple ritual into an unforgettable erotic experience. The episode challenges husbands to rethink their role after orgasm and take responsibility for their partner’s comple...


Rebuilding the Reign - Leading Beyond the Bedroom After Crisis
#37
07/08/2025

In this raw and intimate episode of the husDOM Dominant Leadership Podcast, Mr. Fox shares a powerful real-life story that reveals one of the most critical, yet overlooked, responsibilities of a Dominant husband: erotic follow-through.

After a long day and a decision to postpone intimacy, a simple bedtime ritual between Mr. Fox and his wife LK unexpectedly ignited into a primal encounter. What followed became a masterclass in presence, completion, and erotic integrity. Mr. Fox didn’t stop when he finished—he stayed in it, leading his wife to one of the most powerful orgasms she’d ever h...


Bound to Please - Mastering the Erotic Art of Bondage & Orgasm
#36
07/01/2025

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The Erotic Practice of B & O — Bondage and Orgasm Training | husDOM Dominant Leadership Podcast

This episode dives deep into one of the most intimate, powerful, and erotic practices in the D/s-M marriage dynamic — Bondage and Orgasm Training.

Mr. Fox unpacks how bondage combined with orgasm control isn't just about kink — it’s about leadership, trust, devotion, and erotic mastery inside your marriage. Learn how to use restraint, orgasm denial, edging, and forced orgasms to amplify her submission, deepen her surrender, and reinforce your mascul...


Resentment is Killing Your Marriage - 5 Power Moves to Lead with Forgiveness and Strength
#35
06/17/2025

🎙️ Resentment is Killing Your Marriage: How to Lead with Forgiveness and Strength

Resentment doesn’t start with shouting—it starts with silence. And for married men, especially dominant husbands in a D/s dynamic, that silence can erode your leadership, connection, and intimacy from the inside out.

In this transformative episode of the husDOM Dominant Leadership Podcast, Mr. Fox takes you deep into the emotional battleground of modern married masculinity. This isn’t about being passive or pretending everything is “fine.” It’s about owning your frame, confronting resentment, and leading your marriage with intentional...


The Silent Struggle- How to Lead When You Feel Overwhelmed or Numb
#34
06/10/2025

The Silent Struggle: How to Lead When You Feel Overwhelmed or Numb

Too many married men suffer in silence—doing everything “right” but feeling disconnected, numb, and emotionally distant. In this raw and powerful episode, Mr. Fox confronts the hidden pain of masculine overwhelm and shares how dominant husbands can reclaim their leadership, rebuild emotional polarity, and reignite their marriage from the inside out.

You’ll learn how to recognize the signs of emotional burnout, take small but powerful leadership actions, and re-establish the daily rituals that anchor dominance in your D/s-M dynamic...


Oral Sex Redefined | Blow Jobs, Face Fucks, and the Power Exchange
#33
06/03/2025

In this bold and unfiltered episode, Mr. Fox takes you into one of the most intimate, erotic, and emotionally charged corners of a Dominant/submissive marriage—oral sex. But not the way you’ve seen it in porn or read about in vanilla sex advice columns. This episode breaks down the real power dynamics, emotional intensity, and psychological undercurrents that separate a blow job from a face fuck—and what each act means for your leadership as a husband.

You’ll learn how these two distinct expressions of oral sex reflect very different types of...


Seasons of Love and Leadership
#32
05/27/2025

In this bold and intimate episode of the husDOM Dominant Leadership Podcast, Mr. Fox explores a truth every married man must confront: the woman you married is going to change—and so will you. But that’s not a problem. That’s the invitation.

This episode, Seasons of Love and Leadership, is a masterclass in how dominant, masculine men lead through transformation in their marriage. You’ll learn how to fall in love with your wife again—not by clinging to who she was, but by claiming who she’s becoming. Mr. Fox shares how to stay anchored in...


What She Really Wants - The 5 Most Desired Things Wives Crave From Their Husbands
#31
05/20/2025

In this powerful episode of the husDOM Dominant Leadership Podcast, Mr. Fox reveals the five deepest emotional and erotic cravings that married women long for—but rarely say out loud.

This isn’t guesswork. It’s grounded masculine insight, proven relationship psychology, and years of dominant leadership experience inside committed D/s-M marriages.

Whether you’ve been married for two years or twenty, if you’ve ever wondered:

“Why does she feel distant?”“Why isn’t she opening up to me sexually?”“What am I missing as her husband and Dominant?”

…this episode gives you the...


Taking the Lead in Dating Your Wife Again
#30
05/13/2025

In this episode of the husDOM Dominant Leadership Podcast, Mr. Fox dives into a crucial but often neglected skill in married Dominance and submission: the art of dating your wife.

For many husbands in long-term, monogamous marriages—especially those leading in a D/s-M (Dominance and submission – Married) dynamic—date night has become a routine chore rather than a powerful expression of masculine leadership. Over time, careers, kids, responsibilities, and comfort can dull the sharp edge of romantic pursuit. But in a marriage built on intentional polarity, that pursuit is not optional—it’s essential.

This...


Masturbation: Under Your Command
#29
05/06/2025

“Commanded to Touch: Leading Her Through Erotic Surrender”

This episode is not for the passive, the polite, or the performative.

This is for the men who are ready to lead—not just in life, but in the bedroom.
Inside this bold, unapologetically dominant episode, Mr. Fox guides you through how to incorporate masturbation into your D/s-M dynamic—not as fantasy or kink theater, but as a powerful tool for control, connection, and erotic growth.

You’ll learn how to:

Reframe her masturbation as a submissive act of trust and obedie...


Commanding Charm- The Art of Verbal Respect in Dominant Leadership
#28
04/29/2025

🎙️ Podcast Episode Description

Commanding Charm: The Art of Verbal Respect in Dominant Leadership

Episode Summary:True masculine dominance isn’t loud—it’s felt. In this powerful episode of the husDOM Dominant Leadership Podcast, Mr. Fox unlocks the strategic power of charm and verbal respect in leading a deeply devoted, submissive wife.Learn why charm is not weakness but a weapon of influence, and how every word you speak—especially when she’s not in the room—either builds your Kingdom or burns it down.We’ll break down how t...


Are You Behind the Wheel—or Just Holding It Together with Duct Tape and Prayer?
#27
04/22/2025

This episode is a wake-up call for dominant men who’ve mistaken constant motion for true leadership.

You’re grinding. Fixing. Reacting. Holding it all together by sheer will—but that’s not leading. That’s firefighting.

In this hard-hitting episode, Mr. Fox challenges dominant men to reclaim their position at the helm of their lives. You’ll learn how to stop managing chaos and start creating structure—how to lead your relationship with presence, your children with example, and your household with masculine clarity.

If you’re done patching holes and ready to drive with pu...


Fuel, Fog & Grit - A Dominant Man's Ride into the Unknown
#26
04/15/2025

🎧 Podcast Hosting Page Description

Fuel, Fog, and Grit isn’t just a story—it’s a masterclass in masculine resolve.

Join Mr. Fox from Shannon, Ireland as he recounts an unthinkable 1,000-mile motorcycle ride on a Ducati Panigale—an unforgiving machine built for the racetrack, not the open road. No plan. No comfort. No excuses. Just commitment, clarity, and grit.

This episode is a call to the dominant man inside you—the one who leads through storms, pivots under pressure, and never backs down when comfort tries to negotiate.

Through perso...


Hunt or Hibernate - The Relentless Choice of a Dominant Man
#25
04/08/2025

In this electrifying episode of the husDOM Dominant Leadership Podcast, Mr. Fox delivers a raw and unapologetic message for every man who feels the quiet sting of settling. Based on the provocative truth — “Either you go after the life you want, or you settle for the life you get” — this episode is a rallying cry for the masculine soul that knows he was built for more.

Mr. Fox doesn’t hold back. He dismantles the comfort of “fine,” exposes the traps of passive living, and lays out a step-by-step framework for dominant leadership in every domain of a ma...


The Alpha Within - Breaking the Chains of Self-Sabotage
#24
04/01/2025

🎙️ Episode Title: The Obstacle Within – Overcoming Self-Sabotage as a Dominant Man

Description:

Every man faces it, but few talk about it—self-sabotage. In this episode of the husDOM Dominant Leadership Podcast, Mr. Fox explores the hidden patterns that hold men back from becoming the leaders they’re meant to be. Sparked by a real post inside the Fox’s Den, this episode dives deep into the subtle ways we undermine our own growth—whether it's procrastination, perfectionism, or fear of stepping into true dominance.

Mr. Fox walks you through five powerful s...


Sexual Pleasure & Leadership- Understanding Intimacy as a Dominant Man
#23
03/11/2025

🔥 Episode Description:

What if sexual pleasure was more than just a moment of satisfaction? What if it was the key to confidence, deeper connection, and stronger leadership in your relationship? In this episode of the husDOM Dominant Leadership Podcast, Mr. Fox dives into the power of pleasure—why it matters, how men and women experience it differently, and how mastering it can transform your dynamic.


Discover how to lead with intention in the bedroom, create anticipation that fuels desire, and take control of your pleasure and hers. Learn the secrets of building sexua...


Possessing Her Mind, Owning Her Body- The Art of Deep Connection & Desire
#22
03/04/2025

Possessing Her Mind, Owning Her Body: The Art of Deep Connection & Desire 🔥

Episode Description:

Possession is not about control—it’s about presence, leadership, and deep connection. A woman doesn’t just want to be loved; she wants to feel claimed, desired, and fully connected to her man in a way that goes beyond words.

In this episode of husDOM: Masculine Leadership, we break down the four essential steps to truly possessing your wife—mind, body, and soul:

✔️ Possessing Her...


Marked- Embracing Dominance and Intimate Connection
#21
02/26/2025

In this episode, Mr Fox takes you on a transformative journey into the world of love marks, love bites, and badges of honor—a powerful expression of consensual, respectful domination. 

Discover how a simple mark on the skin can embody trust, intimacy, and a deep promise of connection. Drawing on insights from the husDOM community, subMrs coaching sessions, and the framework outlined on Marriages Sexiest Secret, we break down the three levels of marking intimacy—from playful, entry-level expressions to profound, lasting badges of honor that celebrate both partners. 

Mr Fox shares personal experiences, actionable steps...


The Art of Playfulness – How a husDOM Creates Chemistry, Connection & Desire
#20
02/19/2025

Mastering Playfulness – Building Connection, Chemistry & Desire as a husDOM

Men are naturally wired to be serious, focused, and goal-driven. But when it comes to relationships, that intensity can sometimes create distance instead of fostering connection. Women thrive on emotional energy, playfulness, and spontaneous interactions—and as a husDOM, knowing how to incorporate playfulness into your leadership is a powerful tool for building attraction, intimacy, and desire.

In this episode of the husDOM Masculine Dominant Leadership Podcast, Mr. Fox breaks down the Art of Playfulness—how to...


The Fixer’s Dilemma: Why True Leadership is About Presence, Not Solutions
#19
01/28/2025

In this episode of the husDOM Masculine Dominant Leadership Podcast, we explore the complex challenge of "fixing" in relationships. As men, many of us instinctively take on the role of problem-solver, but what happens when the challenges our partners face are beyond our control?

Join me as I unpack the balance between action and support, sharing insights on how to lead with presence, patience, and compassion. We’ll discuss why it’s okay to not have all the answers, how to build deeper connections during tough times, and the power of being a steady source of encouragement. Whet...


Janus the Gatekeeper: Reclaiming Control in the Bedroom
#18
01/21/2025

In this thought-provoking episode, we explore the concept of gatekeeping within intimate relationships through the lens of Janus, the Roman god of beginnings, transitions, and duality. Known for his two faces looking to the past and future, Janus serves as a powerful metaphor for understanding the impact of gatekeeping on the dynamics of trust, connection, and intimacy. We discuss how gatekeeping, often reactionary and negative in vanilla relationships, can be transformed into a purposeful and constructive tool within Dominance-led relationships.

Listeners will gain insights into the emotional and mental components of gatekeeping, learning how to identify its...