In The Know with Tony Reeves

In this episode of IN THE KNOW with Tony Reeves, we dive into the quiet truth of adult friendships—how they evolve, why they thin out, and what makes the few that remain even more powerful. Tony explores the emotional and practical changes in how we bond after 40, offering personal stories, relatable insights, and a reminder that deeper often means fewer. Whether you’re reconnecting with old friends or learning to accept that some ties naturally fade, this episode will hit home.

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Generation X is often called “the forgotten generation,” but we are far from irrelevant. We are the gateway—raised in the aftermath of powerful revolutions, yet coming of age just as the digital world exploded. In this podcast, I share raw and real reflections on what it means to grow up as a Gen Xer: self-sufficient, media-grounded, trauma-aware, and always bridging the divide between Boomers and Millennials. 

If you’re Gen X, you’ll feel seen. If you’re not, you’ll understand us a whole lot better after this.

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“When 40 Changed Everything” is a personal reflection on the moment I realized my health had to take center stage. In this powerful episode, I share how a routine doctor’s visit in my early 40s — and the words of a culturally aware physician — opened my eyes to the importance of proactive care, especially for men of color. As friends around me started facing life-altering health events, we unknowingly created a brotherhood rooted in shared experience and accountability. This isn’t about fear. It’s about responsibility, community, and choosing to live better — together. If you’re entering your 40s, already there, or supporti...

Turning 40 wasn’t just another birthday — it was a turning point. In this episode, I open up about the moment I realized I was living a life I hadn’t planned: running my own law firm, carrying the full weight of responsibility, and redefining success on my own terms. If you’re in your 40s — or approaching them — and wondering what it all means, this one’s for you. This is about career shifts, hard truths, and why time becomes your most valuable asset.

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In this powerful follow-up to “What They Didn’t Teach Us,” Anthony Reeves reflects on the unique experience of being raised as a Generation X child in a newly desegregated America. Guided by Baby Boomer parents who grew up in the thick of segregation, Gen X kids were thrust into a world of new laws but old attitudes. 

This episode explores the community-based parenting tools passed down from the Civil Rights era, the unspoken rules that protected us, and the critical role of the Black church as a cultural anchor. A must-listen for anyone seeking to understand the transit...

In this episode, I explore the lessons Gen X Black kids weren’t taught in school—but learned through life, family, and experience. From forgotten Black high schools to KKK terror parades, and from the strength of the Black church to quiet legacies of integration, I reflect on the stories we inherited and the importance of capturing them while we still can. History isn’t just what’s written—it’s what’s remembered.
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In this episode, I reflect on what it meant to grow up as a Black Gen X kid in the American South, just years after the Jim Crow era officially ended. This personal narrative explores the generational trauma, family stories, and cultural survival skills passed down from those who lived through segregation. 

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A former adjunct professor shares insider insights on the differences between online and in-person college experiences. Whether you’re deciding between the two or just curious about what each option offers, this episode provides the key questions you should ask before making your choice. 

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Have you ever looked at your resume and looked at the skills you have acquired from your past jobs?   Have you ever thought about the value people would pay you for the things you used to do?  In this episode, we talk about the importance your resume and the things you have done in the past.

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How do you know if the college you’re attending is truly the right fit for you? It’s not just about academics—it’s about connection and purpose. In this episode, we break down two key questions every student should ask: 

1️⃣ Have you found a community of people you genuinely connect with?
2️⃣ Is your college experience fueling your purpose and passion? 

Sometimes, it takes a semester (or less) to figure it out, but these two factors can help you make a confident decision about your college journey. Tune in for insights on making the most of your colle...

Turning 40 was more than just a milestone—it was a turning point in my professional journey. In this episode, I reflect on how I transitioned from maintaining physical law offices for appearances to fully embracing a virtual practice. The biggest lesson? Clients care about outcomes, not where you work. If you’ve ever found yourself clinging to outdated ideas of success, this episode is for you. Learn how to shift your focus from perception to results and build a career that truly works for you. 
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In this candid episode, we explore the hidden struggles and trauma that often go unnoticed in the college experience. Drawing from personal stories of financial hardship, cramped living conditions, and the subtle yet painful reminders of poverty, we discuss how the dream of higher education can become a battlefield of survival and resilience. Join us as we unpack the emotional rollercoaster of navigating campus life when resources are scarce, and learn why it’s essential to acknowledge and support every student’s unique journey.#CollegeTrauma #StudentStruggles #HigherEd #Resilience #Poverty #CampusLife

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In this episode, Tony reflects on the transformative experiences of his sophomore year at the University of Tampa, where an unexpected encounter with a fellow student from Aruba opened the door to a rich tapestry of cultural exchange. He shares how stepping out of his comfort zone and building friendships with Caribbean, Central American, and South American peers helped him better understand the beauty of cultural diversity, the power of code-switching, and the importance of respecting different backgrounds. Tune in to hear how these experiences reshaped Tony's perspective and deepened his appreciation for the global diaspora of people of color.<...

If you are ever going to start a business, the two most important days are Day 0 and Day 1. Day 0 isn’t a single day. It’s the entire process of preparation before you officially open your doors. In this episode, I take you through my personal experience of launching my own law firm, sharing the key decisions, challenges, and lessons I learned along the way. From legal paperwork and licensing to choosing a bank, setting up insurance, and navigating the emotional weight of leaving a stable job, this episode is a real-world look at what it takes to make the leap...

In this episode of IN THE KNOW with Tony Reeves, I take you back to Day One of my journey into entrepreneurship. From leaving a secure corporate job to establishing my law firm in an unfamiliar town, this is the story of excitement, fear, and resilience. I share the challenges of starting from zero: navigating a new office, creating processes, and signing my first client—all while grappling with self-doubt. This episode is a candid look at what it truly means to take the leap into building something of your own. If you’ve ever dreamed of starting your own busi...

What does it really mean to have a “dream job”?

In this episode of IN THE KNOW with Tony Reeves, we challenge the traditional idea of tying your happiness and aspirations to a job. Tony shares personal stories—like his journey to becoming a naval officer—and explores why many of us equate our dreams with working for someone else. 
Is it the job itself or the outcomes we’re chasing? And are there other ways to achieve those dreams?

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In this episode of IN THE KNOW with Tony Reeves, I recount the summer of 2005, when I stepped into an entirely new world as campaign counsel for a Florida senator running for Congress. From specialized election law training to attending an exclusive political fundraiser on a private island, this experience reshaped my understanding of politics, law, and life. Join me as I share how saying “yes” to this opportunity pushed me beyond my comfort zone, introduced me to a different way of living, and offered lessons on growth, exposure, and embracing the unknown.

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In this episode of IN THE KNOW with Tony Reeves, I take you back to my law school days at Florida State University, where a seemingly simple legal writing assignment transformed into an unforgettable experience. Join me as I recount the competitive journey of the appellate competition, culminating in the honor of arguing before the Florida Supreme Court. 

I’ll share the awe of stepping into the hallowed halls of the Supreme Court, the intensity of watching fellow students defend their cases before justices, and the life-changing lessons I learned about professionalism, culture, and opportunity. Whether you’re a leg...

In this episode of IN THE KNOW with Tony Reeves, I take you on a deeply personal journey through my experiences in the military. From my roots in ROTC to stepping into the role of a young black officer, I reflect on the lessons learned, the challenges faced, and the values instilled during my time in service. 

We’ll explore:

• The family legacy that inspired my military path.
• How leadership and discipline shaped my personal and professional growth.
• The cultural dynamics and challenges of navigating military life as a young black leader. 

Whether yo...

In this episode of “In The Know with Tony Reeves,” titled “From Pine Bluff to Tampa: A Journey of Growth and Transformation,” Tony Reeves shares his personal narrative of moving from his hometown of Pine Bluff, Arkansas, to Tampa, Florida. He reflects on the challenges and opportunities encountered during this transition, offering insights into how these experiences shaped his personal and professional development. Listeners will gain an intimate understanding of the resilience and adaptability required to navigate significant life changes.

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“Turning points shape who we are, and 29 was the year everything changed for me. In this episode of In The Know with Tony Reeves, I reflect on the pivotal moments, life lessons, and fears that defined the end of my 20s. From career crossroads to personal growth, I’ll share how a single conversation challenged my mindset and helped me embrace the unknown. Whether you’re approaching a major life transition or reflecting on your own journey, this episode offers insights and encouragement to navigate the road ahead with clarity and purpose.”

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In this special edition of In The Know with Tony Reeves, Tony reflects on his time at Ft. McClellan and shares the profound lessons he learned about navigating life’s unexpected pauses. Drawing from personal experiences, he explores how moments of uncertainty can lead to growth, self-discovery, and the courage to chart new paths.Through heartfelt storytelling and practical insights, Tony offers listeners a deeper understanding of how to embrace detours, find clarity, and move forward with purpose. Whether you’re facing a career transition, grappling with setbacks, or simply seeking inspiration, this episode delivers motivational takeaways and actionable advice tail...

“Welcome to In The Know with Tony Reeves. Today, we’re diving into the landmark Brown v. Board of Education decision—a ruling that most people recognize as a monumental step toward equality in our education system. But while Brown officially ended the ‘separate but equal’ doctrine, the real-world impact wasn’t always so straightforward. This decision, meant to break down barriers, also led to unintended consequences, particularly for Black educators and students. In this episode, we’ll explore how local and state governments sometimes used the decision’s language to justify discrimination, how integration altered the supportive environments Black students once ha...

As we find ourselves in a position to have to care for our parents, we, also, have to deal with the reality that finding all of their relevant documents is not easy.  In this episode, I talk about the challenges of trying to find the necessary paperwork for your parents.

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For any 8 year old, the world can be a big and scary place.   For an 8 year old Black Girl growing up in the Jim Crow South during the 1950s, the world can be terrifying.  In today's episode, I will share my mother's story of how her inadvertent decision to sit in the front of the bus in 1954 as an 8 year old girl resulted in the bus not moving and the lasting impact this incident had on her life.  

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It is important that you take the time to speak to your parents about who they want to have speaking on their behalf.  In this episode, I talk about the importance of power of attorney, health care surrogates, and your parents.

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Have you ever noticed someone in your life pulling away, disengaging from conversations and connections? Or perhaps you've found yourself withdrawing from others because you're going through something difficult? In today's episode, we’re going to explore the importance of recognizing when people—yourself included—start to withdraw from loved ones. This often subtle shift is a sign that they may need support, and understanding this can help us be there for the people who need us the most.


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Changing careers or jobs is a natural part of our employment history.  However, you have to ask yourself, are you changing jobs to just change or are you changing jobs / careers strategically??  In this episode, we talk about the difference between changing careers or jobs selectively and changing jobs organically as part of a bigger plan or strategy.

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My experiences in graduate school and law school was very different.  Tune in as I share the very different experience and how each experience gave me a different appreciation for the relationships I developed.

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In this episode, I talk about the early days of learning that you have access to other individuals who can help you elevate yourself personally and professionally.  I share with you my exercise as a 26 year old Naval Officer.  

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Sometimes, we often forget that we have professional expertise that our family can use.  In this episode, we talk about how easy it is to forget to share our professional expertise with our family members.

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When we give our two weeks' notice, we often overlook how it can impact the dynamics of our relationship with our current employer. While most employers will respect your decision, it's important to understand that they will also need to adjust to the reality of your departure.

In this episode of *In The Know with Tony Reeves*, we’re discussing the implications of giving two weeks' notice. If you're considering making this move, here are five key things to keep in mind to help you navigate the process effectively.


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Caring for your parents can be a daunting task. In this episode, we talk about the challenges that comes with having to care for an aging parent.



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Technology and modernization is a way of life.  So it's important to recognize that some jobs are not going to come back the same way they used to be performed.

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Financing your college education is truly a hustle!


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Have you ever thought about the struggles of those who have the opportunity to be 'THE FIRST'?  Today, we talk about the triumphs and challenges of being the first. 

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Changes in culture can be traumatic.  Whether it be cultural, education, or environmental, moving into a space where you are unfamiliar can take some adjustment.

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Whether it be organizing for sit ins, marches or voters registration, the black church has been the epicenter of the black community in the US.

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When my hometown High School, Pine Bluff (AR) High School, was integrated in the early 1970s, my Aunt Berneice was one of my Black Administrators integrated into an all white administrative workforce at Pine Bluff High School.   Listen I share her story.

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If you are fortunate to benefit from a loved one whose activities and sacrifices have opened doors for you, sometimes it's to your advantage to lean into their legacy.

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