Everyone Dies (Every1Dies)

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By: Dr. Marianne Matzo, FAAN and Charlie Navarrette

A thoughtful exploration of everything about life-limiting illness, dying, and death. Everyone Dies is a nonprofit organization with the goal to educate the public about the processes associated with dying and death, empower regarding options and evidence-based information to help them guide their care, normalize dying, and reinforce that even though everyone dies, first we live, and that every day we are alive is a gift.

Understanding Cancer Treatment Options: Chemotherapy
#5
05/02/2025

 How does chemotherapy work and why does it cause side effects? We answer these questions and more in this episode as we continue our series about cancer with a discussion about chemotherapy. https://bit.ly/42Hvhyk

In this Episode:

03:31 - Travel: Rhode Island and Clam Cakes04:35 - Anna Quindlen - We Need to "Get a Life"08:45 - Chemotherapy Overview: How it works, Cycles, Port12:19 - Types of Chemotherapy Drugs15:35 - Apoptosis and Chemo Success17:04 - Side Effects of Chemotherapy18:02 - Discussion - "How Long Has Chemo Been in Use?"21:41 - Jeena R. Papaadi, "The P...


Understanding Cancer Treatment Options: Immunotherapy
#4
04/26/2025

Cancer cells often have ways to hide from immune cells. Immunotherapy is a type of cancer treatment that helps our body's own defenses - "Natural Born Killers" - to more effectively fight the cancer. Learn how: https://bit.ly/3S5rAfA

In this Episode:

01:37 - Relishing New York's Finer Moments04:47 - New York Cheesecake Recipe08:08 - Anna Quindlen - Gratitude for the Moments11:17 - Immunotherapy, How it Works and TypesCancer VaccinesCheckpoint InhibitorsT Cell TransferMonoclonal AntibodiesImmune System Modulators 21:58 - Discussion - Is this Pretty New?25:26 - Worn Hands28:31 - Outro

#immunity #everydayisagift #cancervaccine #immunotherapy #tcelltherapy #checkpointinhibitors #m...


Understanding Cancer Treatment Options: Radiation Therapy
#3
04/19/2025

Radiation therapy is the use of ionizing radiation—X-rays, gamma rays, or subatomic particles such as neutrons—to destroy cancer cells. Learn how it works, the types of radiation, and early and late side effects you may see. https://bit.ly/4cEClyU

In this Episode:

01:52 - Road Trip - Louisiana, and Crunch Cake Recipe03:30 - Anna Quindlin - The Dividing Line06:52 - Radiation Therapy Explained12:16 - Radiation Side Effects17:35 - Late Effects of Radiation Therapy20:54 - Discussion - Not Being Able to Swallow26:06 - The Mole Agent and The Man on the Inside30:48 - Outr...


Understanding Cancer Treatment Options: Surgery
#2
04/11/2025

Learn how your treatment plan is decided and terms you may see

We continue our series to help you understand cancer and its treatment. This week we focus on surgery, the oldest form of cancer treatment. Learn about surgery timing, types of cancer surgery, and how NCCN evidence-based guidelines provide a standard treatment path no matter where you are.

In this Episode:

02:58 - Wisconsin-Cheese, UFOs, and Booyah Stew04:52 - Anna Quindlen: Get a Life Where You Are Generous"08:06 - Medical Specialists Involved in Cancer Care08:52 - Treatment Decisions...


How to Help Someone Feel Seen, Heard and Understood
#1
04/04/2025

Why “What Do You Need from Me?” Should be Among the First Things We Say
When someone with serious illness needs to make a decision about treatment, is facing the end of their life, or grieving the death of a loved one, it’s easy to feel like you just don’t know what to say. Learn conversational tools to help them more effectively. https://bit.ly/42hWWEw

#friendship #grieving #whattosay #comfort #howtohelp #treatmentdecisions #dyingfriend #cancer #support #communication #listening #activelistening #seenheardunderstood #HUA 

In this Episode:

04:23 – Iowa Road Trip and Recipe of t...


Cancer Gone Wild - Learn All About Metastasis
#52
03/28/2025

Like the seeds of a dandelion drift on the wind and land other places, cancer can spread under the right conditions. How does cancer spread and why does it happen? We tackle these questions in this episode in our series “Everything you always wanted to know about cancer, but didn’t have anyone to ask.” https://bit.ly/440dQKo

In This Episode:

3:44 - Road Trip: Missouri and Recipe for Gooey Butter Cake5:22 - What is Your Life's Resume? A Short Guide to a Happy Life8:10 - What Makes Cancer Spread? (Metastasize)11:33 - Why Does Metast...


Proactive Planning: When is it Time to Think About Assisted Living?
#51
03/21/2025

How Get a Head Start and Investigate All Your Options - Before Your Health Declines 

How do you know when the time has come to choose an assisted living facility? Learn factors to consider and how to proactively make a good choice for the future. https://bit.ly/4iKzbvx

In this Episode:

02:30 - Illinois Road Trip and Recipe of the Week: Ann Sather's Famous Cinnamon Rolls04:39 - Ten Rather Undignified Deaths09:14 - Assisted Living: How Do You Know the Time is Right?10:55 - What Factors Go Into the D...


What is Meant by Cancer Staging? Learn the Language of a Cancer Diagnosis
#50
03/14/2025

Cancer staging is very important to guide treatment decisions and eligibility in studies. When an oncologist delivers a diagnosis it will include stage, but what does that mean? After an agonizing period of tests, waits for results, and finally an answer, many people go numb as soon as they hear the word "cancer" and fail to ask for clarification about terminology. Learn what you need to know to be an active participant in your care. Show Notes: https://bit.ly/41q519X

In this Episode:

01:45 - Recipe: Alabama Lane Cake, featured in "To Kill...


Are there Miracle Cures for Cancer? With Dr. Jeanna Ford
#49
03/07/2025

Nobody wants a cancer diagnosis, and it is easy to be drawn to promises of a cure in search of normalcy. Dr. Matzo shares pointers to help you spot a fraud. Dr. Jeanna Ford joins us again to also share her experiences and as we discuss the role of holistic medicine and how to stay safe. https://bit.ly/4i510Pc

In this Episode:

04:07 - Kentucky Road Trip: The Origin of Little Green Men06:06 - Recipe of the Week: Kentucky Benedictine Spread06:44 - Disaster Preparedness & Documents You Should Secure11:07 - Miracle Cures and Cancer16:23...


How to Read a CT Scan Report - Learn the Sections Relevant to Your Diagnosis
#48
02/28/2025

Did you download your CT scan report from your portal and are anxiously waiting contact from your doctor to understand what it means? The complex terminology can be intimidating. How do you find what really matters? We show you how to hone in on the summary section and what those findings mean. https://bit.ly/43fzBFG

In this Episode:

03:22 - The Origin of Kellogg Corn Flakes04:56 - Recipe of the Week: Peanut Butter Balls05:20 - Journavx, the First New Oral Pain Medication in 20 Years08:30 - How to Make Sense Out of a CT Scan...


MythBusters - Cancer Edition; Clarifying Common Cancer Myths & Misconceptions
#47
02/22/2025

Is cancer a death sentence? Can "X" cause cancer? We sift through common beliefs and popular television/social media claims...learn whether research backs it up. https://bit.ly/4bblanU

There are lots of popular ideas about how cancer starts and spreads that make a lot of sense. However, many of these claims have no scientific basis, even after numerous studies. This week we are the MythBusters for some frequently asked questions about cancer. Wrong ideas about cancer can lead to needless worry and even interfere with good prevention and treatment decisions. 

In This E...


"Why Do I Have Cancer?" Kismet, Chastisement or Coincidence?
#46
02/14/2025

Is the reason I got cancer because of fate, punishment...or is it just part of the human experience? Show Notes

How people receive a cancer diagnosis is variable. Their reactions can range from anxiety, fear, and depression to feelings of guilt. They may feel cancer is a punishment for past actions or failure to practice a healthy lifestyle. This week we dive into these emotional reactions.

Our guest Dr. Jeanna Ford shares cultural perspectives on cancer and how people such as veterans may have self-blame. For example, thinking cancer is...


Why Does Cancer Exist? Empower Yourself With Understanding
#45
02/07/2025

Did you or someone you love ever ask: What exactly is cancer? Why did I get cancer? Did I do something to cause it, or was it just bad luck? Noble laureate Dr. Harold Varmus says, "The prevention of cancer requires us to look not just at genetic predisposition but at how our lifestyle choices and environmental exposures interact with our biology to affect cancer risk.”

We talk about how cancer develops, lifestyle and environmental factors that contribute to the risk, and empower you with steps you can take for prevention. https://bit.ly/4aNslCP

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Staying Safe in the Winter Wonderland
#44
02/01/2025

It’s that time of year, the weather is cold and major snowstorms are occurring, and while beautiful to watch, they can turn deadly. Driving becomes hazardous. Frostbite is a very real risk. Skiing and snowboarding accidents can ruin a family vacation, and worse, cause a fatality. But our primary discussion this week is about the dangers of shoveling snow with a history of heart disease or prior heart attack. Learn what the Valsalva Maneuver is and how it can affect you.

In this Episode:

03:04 - Recipe: Texas Trash Pie03:55 - Celebrities Wh...


Sundowning: Understand The Causes, and Tips to Make it Better
#43
01/24/2025

What causes sundowning, and is there anything you can do to decrease the effect? Listen and get show notes: https://bit.ly/3CbLHET

Sundowning is a behavior change in people who become agitated, uncooperative, hallucinate, pace, or have increased confusion as the sun goes down.  It has been found that these behaviors do not only occur for elders with dementia, but also older adults without the disease, young people, and older dogs.

In this Episode:

01:44 - Recipe: Mississippi Chicken02:13 - Notable Deaths from 202405:13 - Sundowning - What is I...


Driving With Dementia - Is it Safe? Learn How to Tell
#42
01/17/2025

Can someone with dementia still drive, and what are signs that it is dangerous to yourself and others to continue? Learn what to watch for and other resources HERE.

How Do You Know When It’s Time to Stop Driving?
This week we discuss safe driving - how to know when it is time to give up your car keys, especially after a diagnosis of dementia.  Disease, age, changes in physical abilities can all impact safe driving. We discuss the warning signs, why it's important not to ignore, and a guide to fin...


How Do You Mend a Broken Heart? Learn About Takotsubo Cardiomyopathy
#41
01/11/2025

Can a broken heart be mended? Perhaps if we are talking about takotsubo cardiomyopathy - also called broken heart syndrome - which is stress-induced damage to the heart muscle. Ninety percent of the people with this heart syndrome are post-menopausal women whose symptoms occur after severe emotional or physical stress. Learn about it in this episode: https://bit.ly/4g9Ma8x

In this Episode:
03:04 - Obituaries My My Mother Wrote for Me When I was In My 20's
07:21 - Feeding a Broken Heart:  Chicken Tetrazzini
09:15 - Takotsubo C...


"His Widowed Bride" - Exploring Widowhood and Resiliency with Lori Tucker-Sullivan
#40
01/04/2025

Recovery from the death of a spouse is a lifelong healing process. Each year brings a measure of healing as we move toward being able to reclaim life’s joy. Lori Tucker-Sullivan has been widowed for 14 years and shares her journey as she authored her book, I Can’t Remember If I Cried: Rock Widows on Life, Love, and Legacy. https://bit.ly/40hKe9c

In this Episode:

01:31 - Recipe: Maltese Soppa Tal-armla - Widow's Soup04:25 - The Day the Music Died; "I can't remember if I cried, when I read about his widowed brid...


Advance Directives - A Guide to Documenting Your Healthcare Wishes
#39
12/27/2024

If you are incapable of making medical decisions, who would you want to speak for you? How do you let them know what is important to you in your care?  We discuss the importance of preparation at any age, how to do it, and what resources are available to help. Show notes: https://bit.ly/4iSwqci

In this episode we delve deep into Advance Directives. We often have misconceptions that advance directives are only for older people or people that are dying. But did you know the whole reason they exist were from two young people that h...


How to Boost Sleep for Mental and Physical Wellbeing
#38
12/20/2024

The expectations we put upon ourselves for a "perfect" holiday can wreak havoc on our stress levels, mood, and relationships. One of the things we can do to take care of ourselves is to get enough rest. Learn 5 tips to help you wind down and improve your sleep.  https://bit.ly/3DB4nhj

We also rebroadcast Season 1 Episode 40, where we discuss Fatigue. This is part 1 of a two-part examination of one of the top complaints for those living with a chronic or terminal illness. Fatigue is defined as: an overwhelming s...


Memory and Alzheimer's Disease
#37
12/13/2024

 Can multivitamin supplements help prevent memory loss and mental decline in older adults? We share research that shows encouraging results, and why you should start taking a supplement now.  

Learn also all about Alzheimer's disease symptoms, causes, treatments and self-care in our S1E48 rebroadcast. More than 6 million people currently live with Alzheimer's disease, the most common form of dementia. 

Get show notes, resource links and more: https://bit.ly/4gzZbc0 

In This Episode:

00:00 - Intro; Why You Should Start Taking a Multivitamin Now00:30 - How Multivitamin Supplements May Help Preve...


Making the Decision to Euthanize a Pet
#36
12/06/2024

When is it time to say goodbye to a pet at end of life? We talk about this agonizing decision in this episode, and give you a quality of life assessment tool in our show notes to help with your decision. Listen to this and more as we also rebroadcast S1E27 about the death of a pet.  https://bit.ly/3BhednU

In this Episode:
00:00 -  How to Decide when it's time to Euthanize a Pet
01:40 - Amy on the Choice to Euthanize Gracie May
03:53 - Intro to S1E27, on...


Growth and Remembrance: What to Expect Your Third Year of Grief
#35
11/30/2024

Does grief get smaller over time, or do we instead we grow larger around it?

Two years after trauma of the death we typically move into a period of healing and self-correction.  The third year after a death is a time of re-calibrating and rebuilding your body, heart, and brain. Learn more: https://bit.ly/3ZshOc5

We previously presented information about grieving and what may be expected during the second year of grief. In this podcast we discuss the third year of grieving the death of a l...


How to Avoid Falls, the Leading Cause of Death for Older Adults
#34
11/22/2024

Falling is more than a bruise to our dignity; it can lead to disability, bone breaks, brain bleeds, loss of independence, and premature deaths. Learn the risks and how to avoid them. https://bit.ly/4eGaYnO

In this Episode:
01:51 - "The Apprentice"
04:15 - Recipe of the Week: Brownie Cookies
06:55 - The Importance of a Will
15:50 - How to Prevent Falls
40:33 - "Fear" - A Poem by Kahlil Gabran
42:30 - Outro
 
Falls are a leading cause of bone breaks and brain injuries f...


Dying in Good Health: Can We Have a Healthy Aging Process?
#33
11/15/2024

Can making good choices extend our healthy life and shorten the dying process at the end?
https://bit.ly/4hReUVp

In this Episode:

01:46 - Ready for the Holidays?06:47 - Lore Segal, Émigré Life Novelist, Dies at 96 12:25 - Recipe of the Week: Texas Twinkies14:00 - Making the Most of Life in Old Age24:19 - Outro


Is it a requirement to get sick as we get old? Can we reduce the risk and delay the onset of age-related diseases? While aging is inevitable, can we have healthy agi...


USA's Falling Life Expectancy, and Deaths of Despair
#32
11/08/2024

How does the USA have a declining life expectancy while other developed countries are rising? Researchers feel it is from deaths of despair. Learn what the factors are and how we can help reverse the trend for ourselves and our communities. Show Notes and Resources: https://bit.ly/3Cm4SLI

Americans Die Prematurely More than Twice as Often as Countries with Similar Wealth - Why?
In 2015, life expectancy in the United States, the wealthiest country in the world, fell for the first time in decades.  When compared with similarly wealthy countries, Americans die prematurely m...


Dementia Care - Is there a Better Method Than Redirection and Distraction? With Rachael Wonderlin
#31
11/02/2024

Can you work with the reality someone with dementia is experiencing?  Our Guest Rachael Wonderlin joins us to explain how the method she teaches can save distress and how we need to reframe dementia care to understand time from their eyes.

Charlie also delivers a very informative segment on how to avoid scammers.

In this Episode:

02:30 - Recipe: Tim Walz's Turkey Trot Tater Tot Casserole03:16 - What You Need to Know to Protect Yourself From Scammers21:55 - Interview with Rachael Wonderlin on Embracing their Reality™ in Dementia Care37:01 - Outro

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Can Immunizations Increase Your Lifespan? Learn what historical records show us
#30
10/25/2024

Is it possible to see how many lives vaccines have saved? We take a look at global and US trends, and also talk about the history of a deadly killer…tuberculosis. Find out what 2024 recommendations are so you can be up to date. Show notes with graphs: https://bit.ly/40ftEHd

We continue our series about deaths you don’t have to die from by talking about immunizations. There are behaviors that we have that can rob us of the chance to live out our full life span; in the United States this is considered 80 years for wome...


Legacy - Who Tells Our Story After We Die?
#29
10/18/2024

This week’s show is about legacy, the way in which we are remembered after our deaths. Legacy goes beyond possessions to include the impact we leave on people, communities, and the world. After we die, what is communicated about our legacy is left up to other people. We can only hope that they will be kind. https://bit.ly/3BRyobY

In This Episode:

04:50 - Recipe-Jackie Kennedy Onasis’ Casserole Marie Blanche06:03 - Remembering Ethel Skakel Kennedy10:14 - Who Curates Our Legacy Story?26:02 - Robert Kennedy's Funeral Train35:58 - Outro

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Learn How Graduating High School May Extend Your Life; Examining the Link Between Education and Mortality
#28
10/12/2024

Did you know that people with higher education tend to live longer than those with less education? The death gap related to education is not necessarily between college grads and non-grads, but primarily between high school dropouts and graduates.

We show you research that education may truly help us stay on the slow road to death. Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4fjYq6n

In This Episode:

02:55 - Recipe of the Week: Lunch Lady Peanut Butter Bars03:49 - Supercentenarian Obituaries: Celebrating Ms. Virginia McLaurin 06:36 - How a High School Diploma May Prevent an E...


Preventable Death - Learn the Factors to Better Your Odds
#27
10/05/2024

You may not be able to cheat death, but can you delay it?

We know that everyone dies but the timing may be modified by our lifestyle choices.  Learn what the research says can prevent premature death. https://bit.ly/4eNBj3C

Premature death is defined as a death that occurs before the average age of death in a particular population. It is a measure of unfulfilled life expectancy; in the United States it is death occurring before age 80. Up to half of all premature (or early) deaths in the United States are d...


Food as Medicine: How to Improve Health through the Right Diet
#26
09/27/2024

Eating the right food can prevent disease or slow down the effects of a disease we already have. Learn how to read labels and shop wisely for whole foods. Show notes and resources: https://bit.ly/3N2HpkP

What does research have to say about processed vs whole foods, and how do you make the best choices?
Diet may be destiny when it comes to our health. If we switch from eating the Standard American Diet to one that is higher in whole plant foods, such as fruits and vegetables, we may lower our...


The Important Role of the Microbiome to Your Health and Immune Function
#25
09/20/2024

Does the gut microbiome affect immunity and other aspects of health? You'll be surprised how vital our tiny allies are, and how our diet affects their function!

Show Notes and Links: https://bit.ly/3BaeuIW

Gut Microbes produce numerous neurotransmitters vital to mental health, synthesize several vitamins, help the body absorb nutrients, and are linked to the immune system. Learn all about these important relationships so you can make the choices to help you live your best and longest life! 

#microbiome #microbiota #gutmicrobes #kombucha #fermentation #mediterraneandiet #inflammation #chronicinflammation #hearthealthy #brainhealthy #everyonedies #e...


What is the Gut Microbiome, and Why Is it Important?
#24
09/14/2024

All this talk about microbiome, gut flora, prebiotics, probiotics...what does it all mean, and how important is it to our health? Learn all this and ways to foster that perfect balance. Show Notes: https://bit.ly/47oumUj

In this Episode:

03:33 - Ways to Die in the Future - A Near Earth Asteroid08:03 - Recipe of the Week: Hummus09:52 - Understanding the Microbiome and its Role41:15 - A Diversified Microbiome45:45 - Outro

Magnificent Microbes!

As we continue our series about ways to slow our march toward the end of...


Slow Ride...Taking the Longer Road to Death
#23
09/06/2024

Learn about the personal, social, economic, and environmental factors that influence your health, and steps you can take now to increase your longevity and quality of life. Listen, Show Notes and Resources: https://bit.ly/3ThbmRy

In this Episode:

03:22 - Ways to Die in the Future: Extended Old Age06:22 - Recipe of the Week: Road-Trippin' Tuna Salad08:12 - How to Take the Slow Road to Death with Informed Choices about Our Health42:13 - Supercentenarian Obituaries - Ruthie Tompson (1910-2021)45:18 - Outro

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Given that most people are death-adverse...


You Can't Take it With You: Understanding Money and Death
#22
08/31/2024

How is debt and credit handled when someone dies? This issue affects surviving family members, creditors, and the legal system, making financial planning an essential aspect of estate planning. 

Understanding how debts are managed, and the legal steps involved in handling credit posthumously can provide valuable insights into estate planning, inheritance, and the financial stability of surviving family members.

In this Episode:

03:52 - 7 Ways to Die in the Future: Your Spacesuit Springs a Leak06:50 - Recipe of the Week: Mrs. Carter's Strawberry Cake07:50 - Debt and Credit after Death, How to Prepare with Estate P...


What You Need to Know to Prepare for Your Digital Afterlife
#21
08/23/2024

Your digital footprints linger well after death. What are the considerations for these perpetual assets to protect them from misuse? Learn in this episode.
Show Notes:  https://bit.ly/46XQfto

In This Episode:

03:00 – Take a Chill Out of Summer with a Boston Cooler08:03 – Our Digital Afterlife – Preparing Your Digital Legacy26:55 – 7 Ways to Die in the Future: Impaled by a Resurrected Wooly Mammoth!29:02 – Outro

Why do we need to concern ourselves with our digital footprints after we die?

This is the 5th episode in the series about the digital afterlife a...


How Virtual Reality Can Take You "Over the Rainbow"
#20
08/17/2024

This week we explore Virtual Reality (VR) and how VR can be incorporated into palliative care with studies documenting people reporting effectiveness in pain and symptom management and its psychological impact. VR can provide people with meaningful and uplifting experiences, thereby enhancing their emotional well-being, improving emotional state by fostering social connections and boosting self-esteem.

VR can transform the experiences of people at the end-of-life, providing them with comfort, support, and meaningful engagement during their final stages. The immersive and interactive nature of VR allows people to experience moments of joy, relief, and connection, which are crucial...


Grieving in the Digital World means Never Having to Say Goodbye...but is it Best?
#19
08/09/2024

Learn everything from a bot-related way to die in the future to thoughts around having a digital surrogate to a deceased loved one.

In the book Love Story, love meant never having to say you’re sorry. Now, in the age of griefbots, death mean you never have to say goodbye. Griefbots are the creation of digital characters that imitate the way people who have died spoke and wrote. While these bots and AI avatars may be beneficial to the grieving process, there’s also a risk that they could keep us clinging to the past...


How to be Prepared for the Digital Afterlife
#18
08/02/2024

Ever heard of cyberthanatology? Learn how technology has reshaped end of life planning and how to save your family from digital woes when you die. Our guest Niki Weiss returns to share her knowledge to get you started.

What are Digital Afterlife Services?
Digital technologies are reshaping the interactions between the living and the dead. As a result, a new concept is evolving called “digital afterlife services” and these services assist people in organizing their digital property and determining what happens to it after death.

This week we interviewed Niki Weiss who is a...