The Experience Podcast

40 Episodes
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By: Sir InQ

The Experience Podcast Description

Inq's Red Pill review
Today at 5:00 AM

In this episode Sir Inq gives his review on the red pill content, whats missing, and how the conversation needs to graduate to less arguments and more connection between men and women for better experiences and relationships.


The Seducer MINDSET
12/18/2025

In this podcast Sir Inq delves into how to seduce the woman of your desire, discusses how to set the mood and walk her into your world seamlessly.


Does she deserve to see the sky or stand outside in line to get into the lobby?
12/11/2025

In this podcast Sir Inq discusses his version of Curious Girls “pair and a spare” which he likens to dating tiers and uses rooms as an example to explain his remix of her theory. #dominance #submission 


Learning her while watching her touch herself
12/04/2025

In this podcast Sir Inq discusses how to look at the videos she sends not only for your viewing pleasure but its a good view into what pleases her and how to make her climax when you're ready to take her there!


Why can't he last?
12/01/2025

In this podcast Sir Inq discusses why men suffer from erectile dysfuntion, the things we use to combat them ie ED pills and drinks, but also discusses the mental side as well as the physical health side that most men ignore that's the actual canary in the coal mine!


Topping from the bottom
11/20/2025

In this episode I discuss how men with good intentions that are overly negotiable end up suverting their leadership role to their wife or girlfriend and are not in control of their relationships, family and finances.


A space where you can be yourself
11/13/2025

In this podcast I discuss how seasoned men do not pursue women for sex but for true connection in a way that is healthy and is willing to provide an environment and or experience that allows his poteintail date to be themselves so they. can get to know each other with less to no pressure. A thoughtful man understands in todays time with social media and the lies that are told for the conquest of sex it's important if you value connection their are healthier ways to approach it and being like everyone else just won't do it!


Bj's and soul snatchers
11/06/2025

In this episode I discuss the wonderful world of bj's, soul snatchers, the wrong way to do it and what makes it so awesome that most men can't deny wanting them when done correctly.


The dating tool shed
10/30/2025

In this podcast Sir Inq discusses his latest observation on the dating game and so how many single people aren't fully equipped to date properly and why it's important to step ones game up and in what areas need one needs to focus on themselves. #dominance #submission


Quotes that have impacted my life
10/23/2025

Sir Inq reminisces over quotes he’s heard since a young man until present time and how they have such deeper meaning today then when he first heard them! #dominance #submission #sirinq


Some come for the kink not the discipline!
10/16/2025

Sir Inq discusses the difference between those you like the bdsm lifestyle for just the kink not the discipline and relationship aspect of it. #dominance #submission #sirinq


Ways men crave to be desired beyond sex.
10/09/2025

Sir Inq responds to a follower’s question on “what are some non sexual things that make men feel desirable?”.

#siriq #dominance #submission


How mentally bringing work home can ruin the sanctity of it.
10/09/2025

Sir Inq discusses why it’s important to find a way to decompress and compartmentalize your work stress for the sanctity of your home life.

#sirinq #dominance #submission


Men’s sexual evolution and the negative side of not evolving.
09/25/2025

In this podcast Sir Inq delves into how men grow in their sexual prowess and skills from being a young man into his more seasoned years of 40+, also how some men never evolve and for them it’s about having an orgasm not actually pleasing their partner.

#sirinq #dominance #submission

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How did smart women became stupid?
09/18/2025

In this episode Sir Inq questions the smart ladies on why they accept so much bs when they absolutely know better! Y'all read all the blogs, listen to podcast after podcast, engage in the groups on Facebook and more yet some of y'all go for the bs and lie to yourselves openly and quietly which is dangerous in todays dating market!


Dating out of desperation
09/11/2025

Sir Inq discusses that thin line between wanting a partner for love an companionship and needing a a partner for survival and future stability and growth that one has not successfully created for themselves due to self inflicted negligence and not taking their future serious enough in their 20's,30's and wake up in their 40tys only to realize their in a shrunken dating market and feel the pressure to stop playing around and settle in.


Can a Dom only be a mentor?
01/21/2025

In this talk Inq discusses if a Dom can be only a mentor to a sub without a loving relationship or claiming said submissive. Also discusses the importance of having a Dominant in your life as a mentor regardless of any other aspects of the lifestyle.


Laziness in relationships
01/06/2025

In this podcast Inq discusses laziness in relationships and the problems it leads to, and what you can do as a Dom to get out of that rut!


Is there love in BDSM?
01/06/2025

In this podcast Inq responds to a followers question of “is there love in BDSM?” and of course his answer is “yes” but hear why.


Is there a difference between bdsm and kink?
01/06/2025

In this podcast Inq discusses the difference between bdsm and kink and what are some of the ways you can tell the difference between the two and how one has less than the other.


Can you become a Dom?
01/06/2025

In this podcast Inq discusses if a regular man can become a Dominant man within the lifestyle.


The hidden Dominant
01/06/2025

In this podcast Inq discusses how many Dominant men do not represent the lifestyle openly and many may not participate in many aspects of kink, role play etc but at the core dominants and go about their lives without wanting attention or recognition. #domination #submission #sirinq


Selfishness and the daydream phantom
12/17/2024

In this podcast Inq discusses how our own selfish wants and dream of love and relationships not only blinds us to certain realities but also binds us to disfunction and bad outcomes. #domination #submission


Tis the season for endings?
12/16/2024

In this podcast Inq discusses why before the new year he takes inventory of his friends, relationships, business affairs etc and how he weeds the one out that no longer serve his overall purpose and goals, and how it’s not easy and not all endings are bad and actually allow room for growth. #domination #submission 


Practice!
12/12/2024

In this podcast Inq discusses the importance of practicing your side f the dynamic even when you're without a D or s.


Rejection
12/11/2024

In this podcast Inq discusses the reasons and causations behind being rejected, how to view rejection and why it isn't always a you issue.


The various versions of Dominants
12/10/2024

In the podcast Inq discusses the various differences in how some Dom's punish and think differently in their dynamics.


Dom down hard or no?
12/09/2024

In this podcast Inq discusses the difference in Dom's that are more flexible and those that "Dom down hard" and are less tolerant with their submissive's access to certain things.


Are you the tortoise or the hare?
12/06/2024

In this podcast Inq compares the classic story of the tortoise and the hare to relationships and having life goals that keeps an individual focused and not sloppy and all over the place.


My guys tuck your shirt in!
12/05/2024

In this podcast Inc discusses the difference between men that have their ish together and the ones walking around with their shirts (swag) untucked and how it makes a mess of not only their lives but the lives of others!


Calling out the ladies
12/04/2024

In this podcast Inq calls the ladies to the carpet on trying to fix a man that is set in his way but it's also a diversion for them to not focus on themselves.


Who are you?!?
12/03/2024

In this cast Sir Inq delves into the foundation of each Dom and sub as some mask who they are in the title and surface acts but who one truly is can not be hidden for long and it's best to be who you are unapologetically for the best outcomes!


Investing into the lifestyle
04/11/2024

Let's discuss the importance of investing in the lifestyle as a way to expand your experience and avoid hitting a wall within your dynamic. There is a reconning that comes when you get yourself into such an expansive lifestyle and try to lowball what comes with it! #submission #domination


Master timing and context
04/08/2024

In this podcast I briefly discuss why timing and context is important to avoid uncomfortable moments, arguments and public embarrassment. Many intimate conversations do not need to be had in public spaces or in front of others that add no value to the situation at hand.

#submission #domination


Controlling the environment
04/06/2024

Let’s discuss why it’s important to control your environment to maximize on the experiences you desire and stay away from moments and people less desirable. 

#domination #submission


The importance of male mentorship
04/05/2024

Young boys need proper mentorship to become successful decent men without the hard knocks life can bring without prior knowledge of where the pitfalls are as we mature. A wise man learns from others mistakes but it takes all generations of males to embrace one another for the betterment of our species. 

#donimation

#submission


Melt into her
04/04/2024

Too many of us men/ Doms try to pry or force our way onto a sub to have our way instead of taking the time to know her and tailor a relationship based on common interest and needs. #domination #submission


How to become a Dom's perfect sub
04/03/2024

How to become a perfect sub is a ridiculous notion that needs to be discussed in detail to qual false ideas and restore healthy ways to live within the lifestyle without self abuse and abuse from others.

#domination

#submission


When life and work gets in the way..
01/08/2024

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses his own personal struggles with work and ambition and maintaining his creative edge and motivation for putting together meaningful sessions that last more than 30 minutes. He also delves into how a dynamic has more aspects to it than D/s only and how those other aspects help carry you thru rough patches. 

#domination

#submission  


We played with fire and it was scary fun!
10/18/2023

In this podcast Sir Inq discusses his first time playing with fire in a session and the reaction from his sub who experienced a scary fun good time. He also discusses safety measures and things that need to be considered equipment wise.