The Weekly Hot Spot
The Weekly Hot Spot is a podcast hosted by Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika, with fabulous guests.. These women are active in the real-life fetish scene and do Distance Domination on the phone. Hear candid conversations about sex, fetish, BDSM, kink, phone sex, and even vanilla erotic pleasure. The show airs every Monday at 1 pm eastern. Check out our blog: www.weeklyhotspot.com
What if all your edging ends in a ruined orgasm?
Today’s episode is all about ruined orgasms. What is a ruined orgasm? How is it different from a full orgasm? Why would a Femdom Mistress want to ruin an orgasm? There are so many aspects to discuss.
In this episode you’ll hear:
The experiences of others who have had ruined orgasms by accident or on purpose.
Why does a ruined orgasm leave you crazy horny?
How does a Femdom Mistress use a ruined orgasm as part of cock control, tease and delay, tease and deni...
He said no to BDSM pain play but got this surprise!
Is pain play a hard limit for you?
If you say yes, then you might be like the person that inspired today’s episode. Our friend didn’t have any desire to explore pain play until one day he said, well okay maybe we can try it a little bit. Wait until you hear what happened next!
You’ll hear from a number of submissives who enjoy BDSM pain play:
** Why would someone want to experience pain as part of sexual arousal?
** How can a Femdom...
Did you know about these interesting sex facts?
How much do you know about sex?
There won’t be a quiz after this podcast episode, but maybe there should be!
Normally, we focus on BDSM education, kink topics, feminization and the role of a Femdom Mistress in the lives of submissives … not today. Today, we highlight sex facts that catch our attention and tickle our funny bones.
Does more thrusting automatically equal more fun?
Are sex dreams only for horny young men?
Who stars in the...
We’re having a Sissy Pageant and you’re invited!
When we do a Sissy Pageant, we all have tons of fun!
This event isn’t JUST for sissies. It’s for anyone into feminization or male submissives under orders from Mistress. We’re calling it a Sissy Pageant simply because we can’t fit this in a title: Transwoman, crossdresser, femmeboi, sissy and some male subs Pageant. See? That title is bulky.
This episode is about how to enter the Sissy Pageant, tips for your photos, advice and so much more. Your Femdom hosts go over the...
You need the ultimate sissy resume!
Imagine that you have three very sexy career counselors who are also Femdoms. The Mistress trio of Mistress Olivia, Mistress Erika and Goddess Demi team up to create The Ultimate Sissy Slut Resume.
Today’s episode is all about how we will create your sissy slut resume. Goddess Demi came up with a very pretty sample resume. That is what you will get at the end, and like most things, it’s all about the journey. Our sissy slut resume journey begins with us asking you lots of questions.
We send you...
What does Femdom Mistress discipline really mean to you?
Today’s episode was inspired by someone who called Mistress Erika asking for “discipline.”
That person was talking about spanking and while paddling a bare bottom certainly can be part of BDSM correction protocols, the term discipline means a lot more than spanking or punishment.
In fact, BDSM is a general term that encompasses a wide range of behaviors and mindsets for both the Femdom and the submissive.
Today’s episode includes:
General definitions with BDSM
Power exchange...
Feminization: What’s the origin story of your sissy name?
Where or how did you get your female or sissy name?”
That’s the question posed by Veronica in Lipstick to the members of our adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire.
Today’s episode is all about gender, identity, feminine names and what those names represent.
Topics include:
Does a sissy Mistress always choose the femme name?
How does a Femdom feel about being asked to pick the feminine name for a submissive?
How does feminization change someone’s outloo...
Everything you always wanted to know about Femdom Mistress Masturbation
Our celebration of Masturbation Month continues with questions from listeners who want to know about our Mistress masturbation. Yes, your lovely Femdom hosts thoroughly enjoy self-love all the time, not just in Masturbation May. Duh!
In this episode we answer questions like:
What are your favorite topics or themes you get off to?
Dominating men? Women? Straight sex? Prior hot encounters? Switching?
FOLLOW UP to that question: Is there anything new and exciting that gets you going these days that’s different from the usual...
Femdom Approved Tips: Have A Sissygasm For Masturbation May 2025
Have you had a sissygasm?
If you haven’t, then let’s make having a sissygasm your goal for this Masturbation May.
In this episode, your Femdom hosts talk about self-love while feminized or en femme:
What is a sissygasm?
How does a p-spot, prostate, or anal orgasm feel and how do you know you’re having one?
Topics include:
Subspace aka femme-space
Role of submission in your feminine journey
Mistress guidan...
Inspiring Tips For Masturbation Month From Your Amazing Femdom Podcast Hosts
Are you ready for Masturbation May?
It’s the month-long celebration of all things involving self-love.
Your Femdom hosts certainly don’t need permission to extol the pleasures of masturbation, but we do think this month is special because everyone ELSE is talking about flying solo.
Mistress Olivia starts off asking about masturbation habits:
Are there studies?
How much do people masturbate?
What is normal?
Why is there something called a gender...
Do you need cock control? We think you do!
What do you think of when you hear the term cock control? Mistress Erika says there are very few things more powerful than a man’s biological directive. She’s right and this episode is all about Femdoms who enjoy controlling a man by controlling his orgasm (or lack thereof).
But, we’ve had questions asking if cock control automatically means chastity. Short answer, no, but the longer answer is much more fun!
Let’s talk cock control:
What does this term mean?
What is...
BDSM: Are you a switch? Miss Eden joins the conversation.
BDSM: Are you a switch?
Are you a switch?
In BDSM, what exactly ‘is’ a switch?
What is the difference between power exchange in a Dominant/submissive relationship and someone who is a Top or a bottom.
A chance comment by a podcast listener inspired this episode.
Since Ms. Olivia and Ms. Erika are Femdoms - Dominant only and don't switch - we needed to have a guest who ‘does’ switch. Meet Miss Eden. She’s a switch and we have a great time on...
Are you nervous about being transformed into a sissy?
In this episode, your Femdom hosts talk about one of the most popular roleplay fantasies: the tricked, trapped, and transformed sissy fantasy. There are a variety of scenarios and options in this feminization fantasy and that’s what makes it so fun.
(( There's a blooper that we hope will make you laugh as hard as we did. ))
Today’s points include:
What Ms Erika did on a Saturday night - hint, it’s not what you might think.
What happens when a sissy is ner...
Maybe you aren’t submissive, what now?
Today’s episode is inspired by someone who is new to phone sex and stumbled across the LDW Enchantrix Empire of adult sites. He sent an email to Ms Erika asking if he can still do a call if he’s not submissive.
That’s a great question!
It’s true that most of the LDW sites have a Femdom focus. The Weekly Hot Spot podcast concentrates on BDSM, kink, feminization, and things like sissy training.
But, do you have to be submissive to call us...
Beyond the kink: unseen benefits TO YOU when you serve a Femdom Mistress
Mistress Demi joins us today to talk about some of the things you might not think about when you serve a Mistress, Femdom and/or Goddess.
What does the submissive get out of the D/s relationship?
In previous episodes, we’ve talked a lot about the physical benefits of BDSM: stress relief, relaxation after subspace, endorphin release from pain play, etc. Today, we switch things up to have a conversation about benefits you might not have thought of.
Goddess Demi brings up a great poi...
Are you an alpha man who yearns to be a feminized sissy?
Are you an alpha male for much of your life - in charge at work and/or home - but you have a secret you can’t share with any of THOSE people?
Are you, perhaps, sexually submissive and feminization helps with that submissive feeling?
Are you a sissy, crossdresser or even wondering if you might be trans?
These questions inspired today’s episode we talk about power dynamics, power exchange and feminization by a Dominant Woman.
Topics include:
** What is an Alpha m...
He called for cuckold advice. Guess what happened?
This episode is inspired by a man who called Ms Erika for cuckold advice. He wanted to know how to talk to his girlfriend about his desire to explore being a cuckold.
In this episode you’ll hear about his specific situation, what Mistress Erika told him to do and then you’ll find out what happened!
Topics include:
Myths about cuckolds: this man doesn’t have a small penis, isn’t turned on by humiliation, and they already have a great sex life.
How a phone s...
Mistress advice: How to prepare for your distance domination session
Even if you’ve called phone sex before, calling a new service, or a new Femdom Mistress can be daunting. What happens? What does she do? What should you do? There are so many questions. And, those who have never called a distance domination service are even more nervous!
We get it and since there are a bunch of new fans to our BDSM kink podcast, we want to give you some tips for how to prepare for your session.
Today’s podcast gives you a basic understanding of how d...
Sexy Sissy programming: bathtime feminization
The ladies try something a little different.
Today’s feminization programming is sissy bathtime.
We know it’s kind of an odd title and we’re doing a podcast much more like the non-explicit parts of a session.
This episode is a mix of sissy training instructions and reasons why these Femdoms recommend them for your journey into womanhood.
Topics include:
** Shower versus bath
** Sex in the shower
** Bathtime rituals for each host: Ms Olivia and Ms Eri...
Is it normal for straight guys to want to do ‘this’ sexually?
A Twitter spaces conversation inspired today’s episode where we talk about common concerns about sexual desires. Our callers often worry if they are ‘normal’ or ask something along the lines of ‘what does it mean if I get aroused by this?’
We’ve got you!
In fact, the Femdom hosts hear some version of “is this weird” a lot.
We highlight several common areas of concern:
Anal play / prostate play
Cock sucking
Wearing panties
Being a submissiv...
Why you need prostate play.
A listener asks for an episode about prostate play and prostate health. The ladies think this is a great idea for a podcast focused on playing with the prostate and all that goes along with that.
The episode includes:
A bit of biology, where the prostate is, how to find it, why you want to explore it.
All the fun names including one that will make total sense when you hear it.
What does a prostate orgasm feel like and how is it different from...
Do you have a fantasy roleplay that you never want to do or can’t do in real-life?
Your Femdom hosts talk about why they love phone sex and distance domination. The focus is on fantasy roleplay that is only possible in fantasy or is the perfect choice for someone who can’t explore their desires in a “real” life setting.
Ms Erika describes fantasy roleplay as letting go of logic and being able for a Mistress to push boundaries that couldn’t otherwise be pushed. Ms Olivia agrees, adding that being able to suspend reality is perfect for storytelling.
Both ladies point out the unique intimacy in this kind of c...
Feminization: Building sissy confidence
We get lots of questions about feminization.
A question that is on the minds of many a crossdresser, sissy or transwoman is about self-confidence in appearance. We get it. Your physical appearance is very important but it’s your mind and heart that will end up having the most influence over your experience of being feminized.
In this episode, you’ll hear personal stories from the Femdom hosts about building confidence, self-acceptance, and resisting the urge to compare yourself to others.
What do you do when...
Sissy discipline: Do you need strict feminization training?
Are you a naughty sissy? Maybe you’re simply someone who needs a firm hand with your feminization training. Perhaps you are someone who is new to sissification and curious about what might be involved. This episode is all about using BDSM protocols, pain, and firm control for sissy training.
What is petticoat discipline?
Petticoating and its origin in Victorian England (TLDR those people were very kinky!)
Discipline can be used for behavior modification, correction, and more.
Maintenance spanking to ensure submission and obedience.
...
Are you searching for an online Mistress?
What do you do when you have kink desires and you can’t get involved in the kink community or go, in person, to a Pro Domme?
For many people, the solution is finding an online Mistress or someone who specializes in online domination.
The ladies first talk about different places where someone might find a Femdom.
Unless you happen to ‘run across’ a Dominant Woman in the wild, so to speak, we tend to be in the kink community, Pro Domme spaces, or available for online...
What kind of sissy porn star do you want to be?
This episode is inspired by several sissy sluts who have a fantasy about being a porn star. That is the perfect career for a sissy slut, isn’t it? LOL
The Femdom hosts talk about transwomen who are porn stars right now. Do you have a favorite trans porn star? We do and you’ll hear some of our top picks who are in the adult entertainment business right now.
The ladies talk about a sissy gurl they know who is exploring this as part of her sissy training and feminization.
Welcome to a kinky New Year: Femdom version
We’re posting this just before the New Year because we want to give you a chance to hear our kinky New Year’s ideas before you finalize your goals list. LOL We’re so helpful.
Right at the top, the conversation veers into an odd kink goal for Mistress Olivia.
Mistress Erika has a New Year’s goal of getting a specific kind of submissive pet. Could you be the one? You might hear about the goal for Ms. Erika’s ignore pet - or you might just hear the sounds of si...
Top BDSM kink sissy podcast episodes of 2024
This is not your traditional Christmas theme, this is more of an end of year look at some of the top episodes of The Weekly Hot Spot.
We owe our growth and success to you, our listeners, so this episode is also a personal thank you to each of you for joining us on our kinky journey of BDSM education, sissy training, sex work and general naughtiness.
Mistress Olivia talks about the number of downloads in the past year.
Apparently, the numbers put us in the...
A year of feminization by Mistress Erika and Ms Olivia
We listen and we hear you. Many of our feminization friends talk about needing structure, support and practical tips.
In fact, we have so many requests that we’ve created something special just for you!
This episode is all about a year long feminization calendar from your favorite sexy podcast hosts.
Don’t feel alone!
Use the calendar as a way to stay on track with your feminization and find inspiration to go to the next level.
Tease and Denial Games: Do you have what it takes to be a Tease Toy for a Femdom Mistress?
There is an art to tease and denial games.
It makes sense to think that the woman is the leader of T&D and that’s true but, there is also the relationship between Mistress and her submissive.
Today’s episode asks the question: Do you have what it takes to be a Tease Toy for a Femdom Mistress?
First, the ladies talk about tease toys.
Who are they, what does this phrase mean?
The ladies share insi...
All about chastity: Including using chastity for sissy training.
In this episode we continue our conversation with the Chastity Queen and explore using chastity for sissy training and feminization.
Now, just because we’re talking about putting a sissy in chastity, much of the conversation about chastity will apply to many people who are curious about this form of submission to a Dominant Woman.
Chastity Queen has a live-in sissy submissive named Bunny. The ladies start off asking for a reality check about being a full-time, live-in sub to a Femdom. Some of these answers will likely surprise fo...
Inside the mind of a Domme: Meet the Chastity Queen
Today’s guest, the Chastity Queen, talks about her personal experiences being a Domme and so much more.
This is your chance to listen in as 3 Dominant Women talk about life, love and power.
Topics include:
The role of women in society and the trad wife phenomenon
How men treat wives versus Dommes
The dynamics of power and what power exchange really looks like
How serving a Femdom can make a man a better husband to his wif...
Your Kink Your Safety and What You Need to Know
A listener asks about political changes in the US and asks how to stay safe.
The specific question involves feminization and crossdressing but it applies to all of us in these various communities:
LGBTQ+
Kinksters and crossdressers
Pro Dommes and sex workers
Adult entertainment creators
And all of those who are participants in or consumers of adult entertainment.
(basically all of us)
The Femdom hosts talk about:
...
So you want to be a service submissive. What does that mean to a Femdom Mistress?
Every Femdom hears this: “Mistress I want to serve you.” What does that mean?
There are many ways for a sub to serve a Mistress. There is no arbitrary ‘right’ way to have a D/s relationship. Part of BDSM negotiation means making sure that each person is in agreement about roles, expectations, activities, etc.
Topics in this podcast episode include:
The difference between fantasy BDSM roleplay and lifestyle kink relationships.
A discussion of some things that help different people to feel submissive.
The role...
Do transwomen get you horny?
We hear all your secrets and sexual fantasies. A lot of our callers fantasize about sex with a transwoman. Today’s episode explores this.
Topics include:
How popular is the sex with a transwoman fantasy?
Many men ask, am I straight if I want to suck the cock of a transwoman?
To start off, a quick overview of names for transwomen and how to be respectful with the terms you use to talk about these people.
For example, some of the outdated and terms ar...
What does it mean to be submissive?
This episode is inspired by a blog post written by our friend and fellow Mistress, Ms Demi.
Listen in as three Pro Domme’s talk about the submissives in our lives. What do Femdoms have to say about power exchange and those who need to submit to powerful, dominant women?
Mistress Olivia kicks off the conversation with a quote by Mistress Demi:
“Submission isn’t merely about obeying orders or bending to another’s will. It’s a profound journey into the depths of one’s own desires. Learning to trust, to...
How to talk to your partner about crossdressing, feminization, and sissy desires
Today’s episode is inspired by a listener who wants help talking with a partner about feminization desires. Anita wants us to say something that will change the minds of wives or girlfriends who don’t like feminization with their partner.
We don’t know that we can change minds, but this episode covers topics like:
What do cisgender, heterosexual women think about crossdressers or sissies?
What might be going on in the minds of the cis female partners?
Here are some of the qu...
It’s LOCKTOBER: are you ready for chastity?
Basically, Locktober is a month-long chastity challenge. Typically, it involves those who identify as submissive and wear a chastity cage the entire month of October. This episode is about orgasm delay, orgasm denial, chastity training, and why a Femdon enjoys having a chastity pet.
Topics include:
What is chastity?
What is Locktober?
Why would someone want to go a full month without an orgasm?
Can you participate in Locktober if you can’t or don’t want to go a whole month without an o...
Are you worried about topping from the bottom? BDSM advice from your Femdom hosts.
We hear from a lot of subs who are worried about topping from the bottom.
That’s a BDSM term that means a submissive who flips the power dynamic in a way that is disrespectful, rude or otherwise irritating to the Dominant.
Some subs hear that and worry that they are topping from the bottom if they make ANY requests of the Domme. We don’t want you to worry so this episode is all about how to communicate your needs to your Femdom Mistress.
Power, money, BDSM, and Femdom: interview with author Jane Boon
We continue our conversation with author Jane Boon. Jane’s first novel Edge Play is about an investment banker who becomes a Pro Domme via her Pro Domme friend Erika … and this second book focuses on Erika.
Both books show women coming into their own personal power. Jane Boon tells a lively, interesting story and even without our favorite Femdom and BDSM themes, this is a very fun read. This interview episode focuses on the themes of: lust, power and money.
Why does a smart, capable woman become a Femdom?
