Love Patty Podcast: Genuine Conversations on fertility, family, feminism, and life as a modern female
We are your hosts, Clare Patricia and Chloe Patricia. Two friends of 28 years who are both dual degree registered nurses. Clare is a Mum of two beautiful children, and Chloe is years deep in the fertility trenches, but fur Mum to beautiful Paddington the Cavoodle. Love Patty is a safe space for genuine conversations around the important and layered topics of things fertility, family, feminism and life as a Modern female. Join us for raw open conversations, interviews, education, awareness raising and stigma breaking shared experiences. We hope you will laugh with us, cry with us, and feel less alone...
33| Dr Hailey, her two postive C-sections, how to safely co-sleep, breasting on demand, juggles/struggles of working and studying whilst being a mum.

Patty's please welcome Dr Hailey, she is a pediatrician, and we requested she share with us her two positive c-section experiences. Hailey's first pregnancy involved her baby being breech (feet first) ; she talks us through the decision to decline an ECV (procedure to try flip bub) and being very happy to have a c-section in the public setting. Her second pregnancy, Hailey elected to have a c-section in the private system, describing "it as the best day and experience of my life!" Hailey, Chloe & Clare talk openly about the struggles of being a medical professional and carrying work trauma i...
32| Demi: Trad Wife Life; farm living, animals, homeschooling two little ones, finding faith and christianity after school, psychology work, making her own sourdough, cooking from your garden, societal judgement of women, feminism means personal choice, and finding joy in slow, intentional, mindful living

Demi: Trad Wife Life episodeâa heartwarming conversation that invites you into the slower, mindful, intentional rhythms of full-time homemaking, farm living, wholesome cooking and thriving in home schooling little ones. Join Demi, a former psychology professional turned stay at home Mumma and wife, where she shares her journey from modern living, to finding and embracing a faith-filled, purpose-driven lifestyle rooted in working within the home, tradition and simplicity. Demi shares the joys of life on the farm with lots of animals for her children to care for (her sweet little girl Winnie even makes an appearance on her fa...
31| Trigger Warnings are they causing more harm? Mum life; it can be boring playing with your kids! Chloe pregnancy updates. Tips on sharing pregnancy news in the fertility world

Welcome to season 4! This episode is a mix of life updates from Chloe, talking all things pregnancy and how she is feeling, and Mum life juggles from Clare. She honestly opens up about how boring it can be playing with your kids sometimes, especially when they are little and have repetitive play. But amongst the chaos of our lives we have a deep dive into the use of trigger warnings on social media, and how to best break bad news. Chloe gives a great detailed perspective on navigating pregnancy announcements in the fertility world and how front loading information...
30| Abby: ASD recognition to diagnosis, teaching neurodivergent children. Early signs, indications, support services and funding for special needs kids. + We touch on Abby's current pregnancy as a solo mum by choice via donor sperm.

Season 3 final! In this insightful episode, we sit down with Abby, the current Director of Education & Training at the ACE programme- an early support programme for children on the autism spectrum, delivered in early childhood services. Abby is a certified ESDM Trainer, with a Bachelor of Psychological Science, and Graduate Diploma of Early Childhood Teaching. Clare and Chloe chat to Abby about recognizing early signs of Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), to navigating the diagnosis process. Abby shares valuable tips on identifying early indicators, understanding available support services, and accessing funding for children with special needs. We also discuss strategies...
29| Shelby Medical & Cosmetic Tattooing. Areola (nipple), scar camouflage, stretch marks, lip, brows and eyeliner. Plus why we probably shouldn't be getting a perm.

In this Ep we chat to the amazingly talented Shelby Brooks from Restore Tattooing, where she gives as all the details on Medical and Cosmetic tattooing. Shelby's first qualifications were Lip, brow and eyeliner tattoo, however she quickly upskilled, and now also specialises in areola (nipple) tattoos for women who have suffered breast cancer, and have either had a double or single mastectomy. The results are so realistic she keeps getting shadow banned on insta! Shelby loves being able to boost someone's confidence and self esteem, and she offers scar camouflage for surgical scars, self harm or stretch marks. Shelby...
28| Lisa Coker Women's Widsom. Clare's Surprise Engagement! Womb Hara Massage. Pelvic steam & female anatomy educator. Womancraft and cyclical wisdom. Supporting all phases of a women's life. Hormones. Female depletion. Healing. Honouring early pregnancy loss. Blighted Ovum. Supporting Chloe through fertility, pregnancy and postpartum.

Episode 28 | Lisa Coker: Reclaiming Womenâs Wisdom Through the Womb:
In this deeply nurturing episode, we sit down with Lisa Cokerâhealer, womb and Hara massage therapist, pelvic steam facilitator, and devoted educator of female anatomy and cyclical wisdom. But first, Clare surprises Chloe live on air with her beautiful engagement story, with George asking 'Mummy do you want my name?" and little Emma declaring her love for the 'shiny' ring- hi fiance! Congratulations Clare and Gregg! Next, Chloe, Clare and Lisa,explore the sacred art of womancraft, from female hormones, and the experience of depletion, to honou...
27| Jenny Blume: All things Astrology, baby stars signs, fertility windows. Optimise your home and energy with Feng Shui, space clearing and crystals.

In ep 27, we chat to the renowned and fascinating Jenny Blume, who has been an expert in astrology for 35 years, and feng shui for 15; writing weekly columns for titles such as Womenâs Day, New Idea and Practical Parenting Magazine. We dive into all things cosmic, energetic and harmony. Chloe actually had her own reading and space clearing in May 2024, stemming from her fertility struggles. Listening back to the recording in Jan 2025, every big event/timing Jenny predicted came true! Even this podcast which had not even begun at that point.
Jenny shares how understanding your own ast...
26| Jadeâs warrior HG experience- sick from weeks pregnant, 120 days of hospitalisation, physical + mental impacts, positive c section, gorgeous alfie, PTSD, guilt of wanting a sibling but lingering hg trauma.

Episode 26 is an insightful, educational, and emotional conversation with Jadeâs warrior hypermesis gravidarum (HG) experience during her first pregnancy. Jade talks us through how she was extremely sick from her pregnancy before her period was even due- having to be admitted via ED to the maternity ward at 3 weeks pregnant. Originally it was suspected Jade was having twin girls due to her extreme hg, however it was a single boy in there! This debilating sickness, had Jade spent 120 days in hospital for fluid and medication management, where Jade often could not keep down water, or food..losing 20kgs duri...
25| Paige Connell & the mental load of motherhood, invisible labour, societal pressures on women, unequal division of tasks and how to talk to your partner about it all.

"Where is the Dad guilt?" This episode is all about breaking down the mental loads that women often carry. The societal pressures placed unfairly on women to do it all, and how we can talk to our partners to help build better relationships. So often Mum and women are expected to organise the family, buy the gifts, book the doctors appointments, set the reminders for every social event, do the chores, cook the dinner and also carry the emotional regulation for everyone in the house. What about me?! Does anyone look after me? This invisible load placed on women...
24 | Alison solo mum by choice, donor sperm, Solo ivf journey, finding yourself single late 30s, pregnancy in your 40s, geatational diabetes, finding donor siblings, solo mum life the best decision alisonâs made.

In this deeply personal and empowering episode, Alison opens up about her journey to becoming a solo Mum by choice. Navigating the complexities of donor sperm and solo IVF, she reflects on what itâs like to find yourself single in your late 30âs, making the courageous decision to build a family on your own. Alison shares her experience of pregnancy in her 40s, including the challenges of gestational diabetes, and the emotional and physical resilience she discovered along the way. Alison said this journey was the best decision she ever made, and absolutely loves being a solo stay at h...
23| Clare's Meningococcal Meningitis experience, sepsis recognition, ICU, 10% survival rate, PTSD, vaccinations, nursing burnout

This week Clare talks about her scary experience of contracting Meningococcal Meningitis, and how as a healthy 23 year old working out at the gym, then found herself 24hrs later in ICU fighting for her life- her family being told she only had a 10% survival rate. Clare's care slipped through the cracks; we discuss just how hard it is to recognise sepsis and how far we have come since Clare was sick. Clare is a passionate medical educator, and used this experience to further spread knowledge toward recognition, resus and treatment of sepsis. Clare opens up about her PTSD and survi...
22| Childless by choice/circumstances, nephews and nieces, travelling 20's, 34 first marriage, divorce early 40's, early menopause, soul mate later in life second marriage, step children, grandchildren

In this diverse episode, we dive into a journey of womenâs life milestones and reflections.. with out beautiful guest Robyn who is in her 60âs. From choosingâor being led by circumstancesâtoward a life without children, to the joy of watching her nieces and nephews grow, this episode explores the paths that shape our lives. Weâll reflect on her 20âs, which were led by career passions (we must say Robyn was an absolute stunning model!) and the freedom of travel. To navigating a first marriage at age 34, where Robynâs husband did not want children,  ending in divorce in he...
21| SURPRISE! Chloe is Pregnant! IVF baby, fresh embryo transfer, genetic testing, NIPTT, prenatal anxiety, birth prep, positive c-section, morning sickness, fatigue, factor V leiden, anatomy scan.

Chloe is pregnant! WOW starting season 3 off with a bump! We are both so excited to share this miracle news with all the Patty's. We hope that Chloe's long complex journey to falling pregnant with her successful IVF Bub, will be a beacon of light and positivity for those still deep in the trenches. However, we appreciate that for those still TTC, this might not be the episode you need this week, and we understand. Chloe's been suffering with 'all day' sickness and her anxiety has been very heightened throughout the first trimester. She openly shares how that has...
20| Courtney, Mum of 5 children under 6 and starting a Surrogate journey for friend with no uterus. Endometriosis stage 4 and possible infertility prognosis. 5 births, 1st was traumatic, 4 healing births. 1 early loss. 1 x trisomy X baby. Private hospital care. Journey into the fertility world, hoping for a positive transfer soon!

In Episode 20, we dive deep into the heartfelt and inspiring story of Courtney, a 28-year-old mother of five young children, all under the age of six! Despite being diagnosed with stage 4 endometriosis and told she may never conceive; Courtney went onto an extraordinary and very fertile motherhood journey. With six pregnancies, including one early emotional loss, her five beautiful children, include Reagan 6 (oldest and only boy to their clan) Freya 4, Daisy 3, Lola 2, and Sadie 8 months. In this episode, she shares her deeply personal experiences, from the trauma of her first birth (which comes with a trigger warning) where she...
19|Karin from Delos, 14 years sailing around the world, pregnancy and living on the ocean with a baby. Reclaiming her fertility, the struggles of running a business and working from with kids.

Ever dreamed of being paid to travel around the world? Enter Karin from SV Delos, along with her husband Brian and daughter Sierra, for the last 13 years they have been sailing and traveling around the world on their yacht Delos. Karin talks us through the decision to have a child, taking control of her own fertility and for the first time in her life really understanding her cycle. Karin was lucky to have a very straight forward pregnancy and speaks about how easy it was even whilst island hopping to get ultrasounds and prenatal checks. It wasn't until getting...
18 | Tanya 5-year fertility journey, natural conception of baby girl Aspen after years of unsuccessful assisted reproduction, spirit babies, life coaching, manifestation, trusting your intuition and the universeâs timing, living life to the fullest, pregnancy, post-partum returning to work.

Welcome to episode 18. In this deeply inspiring and honest conversation, Tanya opens up about her five-year fertility journey, sharing her personal experience of natural conception after 40, after years of unsuccessful assisted reproduction. She discusses her personal growth journey through these physically, mentally and emotionally challenging times, including developing strong spiritual beliefs, discovering the role of spirit babies, trusting her intuition, as well as the universeâs timing. Tanya also touches on the impact of life coaching, manifestation, and living life to the fullest during these conception yearsâŚwhere she dove into extensive travel, and completed a half marathon, not know...
15| Clare's VBAC Part 2: 4kg Bub, Vacuum assisted delivery, PPH, Episiotomy, First 40 days, meal prep, Snoo review.

Welcome to part two of Clare's positive VBAC story. We carry on from Clare labouring at home, where she found the TENs machine a great pain reliever. Clare explains how her contractions were very manageable this time, compared to her posterior labour that she had in her first pregnancy with George. Clare speaks again on the preparation she did to keep Bub in the 'optimal position for birth'. After only 2.5hrs of active labour, Clare presented to hospital, where she was 7cm dilated! She utilised the birth pool, medical gas and TENs machine for pain relief, however, opted for a...
17| Kat witchy bonus episode! What is witchcraft all about, the good of witchcraft, what happens at circles and covens, astrology, energies, manifestation.

After so much interest from Katâs episode 16 this week, here is a special bite size bonus solo ep from Kat the baby witch. Kat provides further in detail description into the fascinating world of witchcraft, exploring its good practices, meanings, and the powerful energies at play. She discusses the core principles of witchcraft, highlighting the positive and transformative aspects of this ancient tradition. Tune in as she explores what really happens at circles and covens, and how astrology and manifestation practices intersect with magical workings. This monologue offers an insightful look at the ways witchcraft can shape our li...
16| Kat the baby witch, discovering her witchy self, spirituality, manifestation, embracing authenticity, women's circle's/ covens, boundaries, breast implant illness and positive explant, stay at home mum life, societal judgement, and making new female friends as an adult.

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In this episode, Kat, a self-proclaimed "baby witch," takes us through her transformative journey of spiritual discovery, embracing her authentic self, and exploring manifestation. She shares her experience with womenâs circles and covens, including her bi-weekly sessions with a group of powerful âwitch women,â and how she found this supportive community. Kat discusses her personal witchy practices with Clare and Chloe, as well as navigating skepticism from friends and society. The conversation then shifts to Katâs experience with breast implant illness, where years of debilitating symptoms like neck pain, brain fog, anxiety, and fatigue led her to ma...
14| Clare's VBAC Birth Part 1. VBAC, Gestational diabetes, MGP, spinning babies, optimal positioning, "Big Baby", hypnobirthing.

Part 1 of Clare's amazing Vaginal Birth After Caesarean (VBAC). In this episode Clare and Chloe discuss the importance of birth preparation in having a successful VBAC, and how picking your birth team is so important. They also chat about the difficulties of navigating subsequent pregnancy's when you now have a toddler to look after. Clare was fortunate to get into MGP and have her friend Courtney as her midwife. Courtney and Dani (student midwife) were so positive and empowering to Clare throughout her whole pregnancy, supporting her that she would get her VBAC! Even whilst navigating gestational diabetes, the la...
13| Sarah: Marathon to Mastectomy. Elective double mastectomy, mental strength, breast cancer & hereditary risk factors, post operative recovery, Van life and homeschooling.

Welcome to sesson 2, episode 2.
In this deeply personal episode with Sarah, Clare and Chloe dive into Sarahâs journey of navigating the decision to undergo an elective double mastectomy. Sarah shares her story of confronting a hereditary breast cancer risk, (after sadly loosing her Mum from breast cancer when Sarah was only 8 years of age) building the mental strength to make such a life-altering decision, and the realities of post-operative recovery. Sarah shares with us how training and completing a marathon, helped her mindset during this recovery!
Sarah also opens up about her and her husband Da...
12|Dani pregnancy NICU baby, HELLP syndrome, Eclampsia, PPROM delivery at 31weeks. Breastfeeding, pumping and weaning. Today thriving 1yr old and returning to work. Reminder to all, get your skin checked, Melanoma recovery.

Welcome to season 2 ep 1! In this raw and inspiring episode, Dani shares her personal journey of her high-risk pregnancy, including PPROM at 23 weeks, hospital stays, a month of bed rest, and the challenges of delivering baby Savannah at just 31 weeks due to HELLP syndrome. Dani opens up about her emergency c section, eclampsia, and NICU experience, and the emotional and physical toll it took on her and her supportive husband Alex.
As a new Mum, she navigated the complexities of returning home whilst her baby was still in the hospital, daily visitis and pumping in NICU, to...
11 | Xmas bonus chat with Clare and Chloe. A bit about us! Our Podcast 'why'. Childhood and friendship, school, careers, relationships, and a huge thank you for season 1 x

Welcome to season 1 finale, a very special Christmas Bonus episode of our podcast, where Clare and Chloe reflect on the journey so far! As we wrap up an incredible and rewarding first season, weâre sharing a little more about ourselves, our 'why', and what makes our friendship and podcast unique. Ever wondered why we started this podcast? We talk about the inspiration behind creating this space, our desire to connect with listeners, and the topics that drive our conversations. Itâs a behind-the-scenes look at what keeps us motivated and excited for every episode. We express our heartfelt grat...
10| Alison infertility: 5 unsuccessful IVF cycles, natural pregnancy, advanced maternal age, struggles of breastfeeding, menopause, bioidentical hormones.

This is a beautifully honest conversation about Alison's journey to Motherhood. After meeting her husband later in life, the odds were stacked against them due to advanced maternal age. Her GP quickly recommended fertility specialists to aid their pregnancy journey. Alison talks openly about the soul consuming world of IVF and her 5 unsuccessful cycles and two early pregnancy losses. At age 44 they decided that enough was enough and would cease all fertility treatments. One month after stopping IVF, and a very boozy silly season, Alison took a pregnancy test at work on a hunch and it was positive! The b...
9| Phoebe Dermal Clinician: Skin; a holistic approach. What's safe for fertility, pregnancy, postpartum, inflammatory and hormonal conditions. A touch of Anti-ageing, injectables with Chloe. Product routines, dermal treatments, sunscreen, all things hydration

Welcome to episode 9 : Holistic Skin Care with the amazing Phoebe.
In this episode, we sit down with Phoebe, a passionate and knowledgeable dermal clinician, whom holds a Bachelor in Health Science (aesthetics) as well as being a member of the Australian Society of Dermal Clinicians. We discuss a holistic approach to achieving optimum skin health through the ages; starting at teen years and beyond. Safe and effective treatments for fertility, pregnancy, postpartum, inflammatory, immune and hormonal skin conditions; such as acne, melasma, rosacea, perioral dermatitis (Clare experienced this during pregnancy) and psoriasis are explored. Phoebe shares expert...
8| Rach - Mum of two boys, Neurodivergent child, ADHD diagnosing/management at primary school. Self reflection into our own neurodiversity, post natal intrusive thoughts, self care, and a side quest into *smutty* cowboy novels

In this episode, weâre joined by Rachel, a nurse and mother of two boys, Harvey and Owen. Rach shares the unexpected journey she took after Harveyâs Grade one teacher raised concerns with Rach and her husband regarding Harvey exhibiting potential ADHD traits. Initially taken aback, Rach took it upon herself to dive deep into ADHD research, eventually pursuing a professional assessment and diagnosis for Harvey six months later. At that time, Harvey had fallen into the bottom 4% of his class, however remained a happy, confident little boy. It wasnât until his teacher mentioned that children typically start...
7| Courtneyâs life could be a book! Nursing career to business woman, global health care volunteering, operation smile, deadly ears, paeds nurse, navy husband, fertility, early loss, preeclampsia, positive c sections, gynaecological issues, endo, young hysterectomy, perimenopause, therapy, start up boss in a digital health company and life being self employed

Welcome to episode 7 where Chloe and Clare dive into the extraordinary life of Courtney, a woman whose journey could easily fill the pages of a book (sheâs a big book lover too!). We start with Courtneyâs 20 year plus nursing career, where her love for a challenge, learning and adventure has taken her from the hospital to the frontlines of global healthcare; volunteering with organizations like Operation Smile and deadly ears. Along the way, she has navigated a life of extensive travel, professional and personal growth with her Navy husband Dan and two beautiful children, as well as the mut...
6| Clare's Positive Birth Story. First birth, MGP, Circumvallate Placenta, PROM, Posterior Labour, Public Hospital, Hypnobirthing, Birth Prep, Cervical swelling, Epidural, C-Section, Postnatal anxiety.

Welcome to Clare's first pregnancy, birth and postpartum experience with her son George. Clare is passionate about sharing positive birth experiences, that support Mum's to feel educated and supported. *Mention of postpartum anxiety and cancer grief.
Clare and her partner Gregg attended a hypnobirthing course and from this became obsessed with listening to Australian Birth Stories and watching One Born Every Minute. Clare experienced a healthy, full term pregnancy, despite experiencing the rare condition circumvallate placenta.
When labour began at home, Clare loved utilising her Tens machine, however the pain levels of a posterior labour pr...
5| Amelia Pelvic health physio. All things Pelvic Floor! Gynaecology, Sexual function, Pregnancy, Preparing for birth, Birthing, Persisitent Pelvic Pain, Post Partum Pelvic Floor, Deestrogenization, Bladder/ Bowel Function, Constipation, Prolapse, Erectile Dysfunction, Pelvic exercises.

Welcome to episode 5-  Where Clare, Chloe and our amazing guest Amelia, discuss all things pelvic floor. Amelia holds a Bachelor of physiotherapy, with special interest in pelvic health, and is currently undertaking a masters of psychosexual therapy (which some call sexology).Â
This episode is an educational, insightful, helpful and as always a few giggles conversation, where there is something relatable for everyone amongst out discussion!Â
We discuss:
-Persistent pelvic pain
-Endometriosis, adenomyosis, PCOS
-High tone pelvic floor
-Sexual function
-Urinary leakage
-Bladder function
-Bowel movements
-Pregnancy pelvic...
4| Laurenâs infertility, PCOS, absent periods, IUI, ovary drilling, tubal flushing, high testosterone, insulin issues, medical advocacy, yacht life, puppy therapy and giving yourself grace

Welcome to another infertility episode, where Chloe, Clare and our lovely guest Lauren, discuss a different side to infertility - one where Lauren would love her period to return! Lauren sheds light on her struggles with polycystic ovarian syndrome (PCOS), which has resulted in years of absent periods (amenorrhoea).Â
Lauren has worked very closely with her fabulous GP to gain a stronger understanding of her own physical health and PCOS diagnosis, where they discovered she was also suffering with high testosterone, high cortisol, high cholesterol, adrenal fatigue and was classified as 'pre' diabetic due to insulin resistance issu...
3| Else Mum of 3 boys, pregnancy termination for medical reasons, starting a business on mat leave, couples therapy, mental health, gratitude.

Welcome to episode 3 of season 1. Hosts Clare Patricia and Chloe Patricia, have their first guest on the podcast. Lovely Else is Mum of 3 beautiful little boys, and business owner of Jeune Label for boys. Else started her boys clothing line during mat leave after leaving a job in the health care sector, where the label has now featured in British Vogue and the Today Show. Clare, Chloe and Else discuss taking the leap of faith to leave a secure government job to pursue your own business, all whilst juggling 3 busy little boys, a family business and a husband! *Trigger warn...
2| Infertility Chloe part 2, IVF, miscarriage, endometriosis, ectopic pregnancy, male factor infertility, PTSD, Triggers, mental health, talk therapy.

Welcome to part two part of the first episode to this season's launch. Hosts Clare Patricia and Chloe Patricia continue their discussion on infertility with Chloe's several years long fertility journey. They unpack fertility treatments and loss, the physical, mental and emotional grief and toll that comes with it. We hope this open and vulnerable conversation on such a common, yet multi-faceted and challenging life journey can provide awareness, education and make others feel less alone. We believe there needs to be more open dialogue on this topic, and hope other women will feel seen. We discuss a range...
1| Infertility Chloe part 1, periods, endometriosis, male factor infertility, miscarriage, IUI, D&C, grief, mental health.

Welcome to the first Love Patty Podcast episode...part one of a two part series to this season's launch. Hosts Clare Patricia and Chloe Patricia discuss periods, endometriosis, Chloe's several years long fertility journey, unpack fertility treatments, male factor infertility, and the physical, mental and emotional grief and toll that comes with it. We hope this open and vulnerable conversation on such a common, yet multi-faceted and challenging life journey can provide awareness, education and make others feel less alone. We believe there needs to be more open dialogue on this topic, and hope other women will feel seen...