You're Wrong About ADHD

Welcome back to The ADHDvent Calendar! Door four of Sam and Katie’s twelve episode Christmas countdown designed to make the season easier for ADHD brains. Every episode opens a new “door” with one practical tip to cut through overwhelm, lower the pressure and bring a bit of calm to the most memory heavy, admin filled month of the year.

This door gives you permission to STOP fixing the Christmas lights and show those tatty and broken Christmas decorations some mercy...

It's door three of the ADHDvent Calendar, Sam and Katie’s twelve episode Christmas countdown designed to make the season easier for ADHD brains. Every episode opens a new “door” with one practical tip to cut through overwhelm, lower the pressure and bring a bit of calm to the most memory heavy, admin filled month of the year.

Today's door takes on the overwhelming task of decorating for Christmas with something our listener likes to call 'festive micro-zones'...

Welcome back to The ADHDvent Calendar, Sam and Katie’s twelve episode Christmas countdown designed to make the season easier for ADHD brains. Every episode opens a new “door” with one practical tip to cut through overwhelm, lower the pressure and bring a bit of calm to the most memory heavy, admin filled month of the year.

It's door number two and we're not putting it off any longer... we're having THAT conversation early.

Welcome to The ADHDvent Calendar! Sam and Katie’s twelve episode Christmas countdown designed to make the season easier for ADHD brains. Every episode opens a new door with one practical tip to cut through overwhelm, lower the pressure and bring a bit of calm to the most memory heavy, admin filled month of the year.

It's door number one and we're kicking off with a doozy... it's the one note that SAVES Christmas.

In this bonus episode, Sam and Katie look back on their conversation with Aoife Hughes about the power of words and why the phrases we use around ADHD land so deeply. They explore how everyday language like should and cannot quietly shapes a sense of shame, why so many ADHDers freeze when they feel directed or judged, and how shifting to gentler wording can open up choice rather than pressure.

Katie reflects on the expectations she absorbed from school reports and family conversations, while Sam talks about the moments he realised his own inner voice had copied...

This week Sam and Katie are joined by ADHD coach Aoife Hughes for a deep dive into something deceptively simple but surprisingly powerful- the words we use when we talk about ADHD. Together they explore why phrases like ‘you should’ and ‘why can’t you just’ feel so heavy for ADHD brains, and how shifting just a few words can change motivation, self belief and emotional safety.

Aoife breaks down how years of external messages become the voice in our head, why shoulds trigger perfectionism and shutdown, and how a tiny tweak to could gives us back choice and...

In this bonus episode, Sam and Katie reflect on Megan Nicola’s conversation about the inner voice that shapes so much of life with ADHD. They dig into why self talk can become so harsh, how early experiences and school labels settle into the stories we tell ourselves, and why so many ADHDers learn to motivate through pressure rather than kindness.

Katie opens up about the words she absorbed from childhood reports and how they still colour her self esteem decades later, while Sam explores the moment he realised his own internal dialogue had crossed from unhelpful in...

This week, confidence speaker and mentor Megan Nicola joins Sam and Katie to explore one of the most universal yet least understood parts of ADHD- the intense, relentless inner monologue. Together they break down why so many people with ADHD live with a voice in their head that sounds more like a drill sergeant than a friend, and what it actually takes to change that lifelong habit.

She breaks down how self talk becomes self sabotage, why masking and people pleasing feed the cycle, and how to shift from shame to curiosity. With practical tools for noticing...

In this bonus episode, Sam and Katie look back at what growing up with undiagnosed ADHD was really like, and what they wish they could go back and tell their younger selves.

From the frustration and shame of not understanding why things felt harder, to the relief of finally realising their brains were simply wired differently. They talk about parenting with ADHD, breaking unhelpful cycles, and the power of kindness towards your past self. Sam and Katie open up about the moments that shaped them- and the lessons they’d pass on now.

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This week, Sam and Katie unpack the landmark government report on ADHD services in England and what it reveals about the system’s failures, costs, and opportunities for change.

They’re joined by Professor Anita Thapar, one of the UK’s leading experts in child and adolescent psychiatry and Chair of the Independent ADHD Taskforce. Together they explore why ADHD can no longer be treated as a niche condition, how underdiagnosis has left thousands without support, and what needs to happen next to fix it.

From early intervention and education reform to tackling the £17 billion cost of...

In this bonus episode, Katie and Sam sit down with Chartered Psychologist Dr Lindsey Roberts to take on some of the biggest myths and misconceptions about ADHD.

From the outdated belief that it only affects hyperactive children, to the harmful idea that it’s caused by poor parenting, they explore where these myths come from, why they persist, and the damage they can do. Lindsey also shares her own late ADHD diagnosis, the life-changing impact of medication, and the urgent need for more compassion, awareness and workplace inclusion.

With warmth, honesty and plenty of straight-talking, th...

In this episode, Sam and Katie open the inbox to read your messages, answer your questions, and reflect on the moments that connect us all. From family tensions and late diagnoses to burnout, self-compassion and rediscovering who you are once the dust settles after assessments.

They talk about setting boundaries with difficult parents, how to find motivation when everything feels impossible, and what recovery from long-term burnout really looks like. There’s laughter, tears, and plenty of “me too” moments along the way- a reminder that ADHD is something we live with, not something that defines who we are...

In this bonus episode, Sam and Katie sit down with Alex Conner and James Brown, scientists, advocates and co-hosts of The ADHD Adults podcast, to unpack the real science behind ADHD.

Together they explore the myths, the messy truth and the emotional realities that don’t always make the headlines. From late diagnoses and internalised shame to emotional dysregulation and medication, Alex and James open up about their own experiences and why understanding the evidence can be life changing.

They discuss how friendship and honesty can make the difference between surviving and thriving, why there’s no...

This week, author and ADHD coach Dr Tamara Rosier joins Sam and Katie to explore one of the most overlooked aspects of ADHD- emotional regulation- and why it’s so often misunderstood, especially in men.

As part of Movember and Men’s Mental Health Month, they discuss why so many men with ADHD struggle to recognise and express emotions, how that can lead to anger, burnout and shame, and what it really means to live in “hyper” or “hypo” arousal. Dr Rosier explains the neuroscience behind these emotional extremes and shares practical tools for widening your “window of tolerance”...

In this bonus episode, Katie reflects on Sam’s conversation with content creator Holly Morris, whose story explored what it really means to be labelled “away with the fairies.”

Together, Sam and Katie dig deeper into how language shapes the way women experience and understand ADHD. Katie opens up about her own school years- from masking and “hiding in plain sight” to the pressure of fitting into expectations that didn’t suit her ADHD at all.

They discuss the power of labels like “bossy”, “ditsy”, and “dreamer” and how phrases that seem harmless can shape self-esteem, identity, a...

This week, content creator and podcast host Holly Morris is here to unpack the phrase “away with the fairies” and what it really means for women with ADHD. Holly opens up about her late diagnosis of ADHD and autism, the exhaustion of masking, and how years of being labelled “ditsy” or “spacey” shaped her sense of self.

Together, Sam and Holly, explore how those same traits- imagination, sensitivity, and intensity- can also be superpowers, fuelling creativity, empathy and humour. Holly also shares what school was like behind the mask, why she used to “study” other girls to fit in, and how...

In this bonus episode, Sam and Katie welcome back presenter Katrina Ridley, who joins them fresh from her ADHD assessment to share what happened next.

Before this episode, Katrina opened up about the uncertainty and self-doubt of waiting for a diagnosis. Now, she’s back with answers- and a new sense of clarity. From discovering she’s in the “top one percentile” of ADHD traits to finding pride in how far she’s come, Katrina reflects on what her diagnosis really means, the relief of having language for her experiences, and how medication has transformed her day-to-day life.

This week, Sam and Katie sit down with presenter Katrina Ridley to explore what it’s like to live with ADHD symptoms before you have a diagnosis. For ADHD Awareness Month, Katrina shares her journey of suspicion, self-doubt and resilience, from the first signs that something felt different to the challenges of managing undiagnosed ADHD in her relationships and career.

Together, they dig into the messy realities of waiting for an assessment, the fears of “what if I don’t have it”, and the relief that comes from finally having language for your struggles. Along the way, they ref...

In this bonus episode, Sam explores how ADHD and anxiety often show up together in children- sometimes long before anyone realises what’s really going on.

He’s joined by child anxiety specialist Saskia Joss for a compassionate and eye-opening chat about how anxiety shows up in kids with ADHD- and what parents, carers and teachers can do to help.

From masking and after-school meltdowns, to why “movement breaks” sometimes backfire, Saskia explains what’s really going on beneath the surface, and how small shifts in understanding and support can transform a child’s confidence and wellbein...

This week, Sam and Katie dive into one of the most common- and misunderstood- ADHD experiences: anxiety. Why do ADHD brains so often run in overdrive, even when there’s nothing to panic about? And what’s really going on beneath that constant sense of “what if?”

They’re joined by clinical psychologist Dr Sharon Saline who specialises in ADHD and anxiety. Together they unpack why ADHD minds can be hardwired for hypervigilance, how childhood criticism can shape lifelong worry patterns, and why so many of us rely on last-minute panic to get things done.

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In this bonus episode, Sam and Katie reflect on their conversation with midwife and ADHD specialist Laura Spence about the realities of pregnancy, birth and those chaotic first weeks with a baby when you have ADHD.

They share their own raw experiences of postnatal guilt, hormonal crashes, and the crushing weight of societal expectations- and how much easier it might have been if they’d understood ADHD’s role at the time. From the myth of the “blue day” to the hidden impact of overstimulation, they unpack the lessons they wish they’d known as new parents.

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This week, Sam and Katie dive into one of the most intense life transitions anyone can face: pregnancy and the early months of parenthood and how ADHD can shape that journey in ways few people expect. Why do hormones play such a huge role in how ADHD shows up during pregnancy and after birth? And why are new parents with ADHD more vulnerable to postnatal depression and burnout?

They’re joined by Laura Spence, midwife, ADHD and pregnancy specialist, and founder of NeuroNatal, who has supported countless families through this critical time. Together they explore how ADHD in...

In this bonus episode, Katie and Sam reflect on their conversation with ADHD advocate and certified interior designer Kay Sargent about what truly makes a workspace neuro-inclusive.

From noise, lighting and flexibility to the cultural shifts still needed in the workplace, they share their own experiences of navigating open-plan newsrooms, why small adjustments like headphones can make such a difference, and how much further organisations could go if they embraced design that puts people first.

They also dive into the tension between working from home and being in the office, how technology and culture need...

This week, Sam and Katie explore how the spaces we work in shape our focus, wellbeing and productivity- especially for ADHD and neurodivergent brains. Why do open-plan offices so often feel overwhelming? And what would it take to create workplaces where everyone can actually thrive?

They’re joined by workplace design expert Kay Sargent, who has spent years rethinking how environments can support diverse minds. Together they dig into why choice and flexibility matter more than “perfect design”, how small, low-cost adjustments can make a huge difference, and why neuro-inclusive design is not just good for individuals, but go...

In this bonus episode, Katie and Sam reflect on their conversation with ADHD coach Stephanie Camilleri and open up about their own university experiences- from last-minute essays and hyperfocus marathons to the struggles of living away from home for the first time.

They share how undiagnosed ADHD shaped their student years, why disappointment and overwhelm hit so hard, and the ways medication, planning and scaffolding can make all the difference. The discussion also turns to parenting- how much to help, when to step back, and why language and communication matter so much when supporting a student with...

This week, Sam and Katie dive into one of the biggest transitions for ADHDers- leaving home and starting university. Why does it feel like falling off a cliff? And how can parents, students and universities work together to make sure ADHD minds don’t just survive, but actually thrive?

They’re joined by ADHD advocate and coach Stephanie Camilleri from Empower ADHD, who specialises in supporting students as they navigate the chaos of deadlines, laundry, lectures and life away from home. Together they unpack why executive function suddenly feels like an impossible mountain, how rejection sensitivity can fuel...

This week, Sam and Katie kick off Series 5 with a long overdue catch-up. Fresh from summer, they reflect on how their ADHD journeys have shifted over the past couple of years, what’s working, what’s still a struggle, and why even the best tips need a refresh sometimes.

From Scotch Egg memory hacks to saying no without guilt, from the power of giant water bottles to the joy of dancing in your kitchen, they share the practical strategies that are helping them right now and admit which ones they promptly forget. There’s also a frank chat a...

It’s time for Series 5 of You’re Wrong About ADHD! Join hosts Katie Breathwick and Sam Pittis as they continue to deep dive into what ADHD really means today. Bringing fresh perspectives, honest conversations, and surprising discoveries- from the everyday challenges to the unexpected advantages. Alongside expert voices and personal stories, Katie and Sam will keep busting myths and sharing practical ways to understand and live with ADHD. Whether you have a diagnosis, are still searching for answers, or simply want to know more, these weekly episodes will keep you informed and inspired. Series 5 begins 10th September- subscribe now...

Struggling to stay focused or remember important details?

You’re not alone- and with exam results season upon us, concentration and memory are on many minds. In this bitesize episode, Sam and Katie revisit their conversation with Dr Tony Lloyd from the ADHD Foundation, who shares practical, tried-and-tested strategies for boosting focus and recall. From visual thinking and infographics to repetition, vocal reminders, and building executive functioning skills, Tony explains how to find the techniques that work for you.

Whether you are studying, working, or just want to feel more in control of your day-to-day li...

What can you do if your child’s school is not giving them the support they need?

With exam results season upon us, we know that school pressures- and the need for the right support- feel especially real for many families. In this bitesize episode, Sam and Katie speak to educational psychologist Dr Joanne Riordan, who shares practical strategies for working with schools to get the right help in place. From understanding your child’s legal entitlements to navigating teacher perceptions and the challenges of masking, Joanne offers clear, compassionate advice to help parents approach these conversations with...

What if medication is not an option- or simply not working?

In this bitesize episode, Sam and Katie speak to Joseph Pack, founder of Drug Free ADHD, who shares the strategies he’s developed over years of self-experimentation. From cold showers and breathwork to ADHD-friendly meditation, Joseph breaks down his practical, drug-free toolkit for managing symptoms and boosting dopamine naturally.

Whether you’re looking for alternatives, exploring new routines, or just curious about different approaches, this short episode is packed with insight and encouragement for finding what works for you.

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If you struggle to switch off at night, wake up groggy, or find your brain buzzing just when you should be winding down, you’re not alone.

In this bitesize episode, Sam and Katie revisit their conversation with sleep expert Dr Sophie Bostock to explore why ADHD brains often resist bedtime, and what can actually help.

From circadian rhythms and caffeine cut-offs to calming your stress system and finding a routine that works for you, this short listen is full of insight, reassurance and practical tips for better rest. 

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From Post-it notes and smartwatches to breathing breaks and cold showers- this one’s full of practical strategies for busy, brilliant ADHD brains.

In this bitesize episode, Katie and Sam swap their favourite ADHD hacks- the tools, tips and tiny shifts that help them stay on track, or gently redirect when things go off course.

Whether it’s how they use alarms, where they keep their to-do lists, or why mindfulness doesn’t have to mean “emptying your mind”, this one’s full of practical ideas and warm encouragement for navigating daily life with ADHD.

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Whether you’re navigating noisy mornings, dysregulated evenings or just trying to stay calm through the chaos, this one’s for you.

In this bitesize episode, Sam and Katie revisit one of their favourite conversations- with educational and child psychologist Dr Joanne Riordan- all about what it’s like to parent with ADHD.

From the guilt and emotional overwhelm to the unexpected strengths and creativity it brings, this listen is full of encouragement and practical insight.

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In this bonus episode, Sam and Katie unpack the new interim report from the NHS ADHD Taskforce and why it might actually be a bigger deal than it sounds. From the £17 billion cost of untreated ADHD to long-overdue recognition of underdiagnosis and school exclusions, the report brings both hope and hard questions.

They explore why support shouldn’t depend on a formal diagnosis, the need for root-and-branch change across education and work, and the risk of good intentions falling flat without real government action. With reflections from campaigners like Henry Shelford from ADHD UK, and a shared sen...

To wrap up Series Four of You're Wrong About ADHD, Sam and Katie dive into the inbox to read your messages, answer your questions, and reflect on the shared ADHD experience. From late diagnoses and grieving differently to how hard it can be just to start the process of getting help.

They talk about managing ADHD without meds, the emotional side of being diagnosed, and the messy, nonlinear path to self-understanding. Whether you’re wondering if it’s worth getting assessed, finding it hard to grieve, or supporting a loved one who might have ADHD, this episode offe...

What if your ADHD symptoms could be eased just by changing how and when you eat?

In this bonus episode, Sam and Katie speak with Annika Angelo, nutritional therapist and founder of NutriMind, who specialises in supporting neurodivergent individuals. Together, they explore how eating patterns, nutrient metabolism, and simple changes in diet can impact focus, mood and energy.

Annika unpacks the science behind ADHD brains and blood sugar, the importance of magnesium and vitamin D, and why eating regularly might be more powerful than any supplement. She shares practical, shame-free advice for managing cravings, overcoming...

This week, Sam and Katie are joined by GP, nutritionist and AuDHDer Dr Helen Lawal to unpack why food and ADHD can be such a complicated mix. From forgotten meals to bingeing on sugar, they explore the very real struggles many ADHDers face around eating- and why it’s not about willpower.

Dr Helen shares what’s going on in the ADHD brain when it comes to hunger signals, planning meals and managing cravings. She explains how executive function, perfectionism and shame all play a role, and why letting go of unrealistic food ideals can be a game...

What if your ADHD had been recognised years ago… how different could things have been?

In this bonus episode, Katie and Sam reflect on their powerful conversation with author Grace Timothy, and dive deeper into how undiagnosed ADHD shapes our lives, relationships and sense of self. Katie shares candidly about her own experience of burnout, people pleasing, and the emotional weight of a complex relationship with her late mother- a journey made all the more poignant by her belief that ADHD played a role for them both.

Together, they unpack the grief, guilt and revelations th...

What happens when you realise the struggles you’ve carried for decades weren’t personal failures, but missed signs of ADHD?

This week, Sam and Katie are joined by journalist and author Grace Timothy, who was diagnosed with ADHD in her thirties after years of anxiety, burnout and never quite feeling “on top of things”. Together, they unpack the five things Grace wishes she’d known earlier- from why she kept quitting jobs, to how rejection sensitivity shaped her relationships.

Grace shares her emotional journey to diagnosis, the grief and clarity that followed, and what it’s like...