Aging Together

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By: Pooja A. Patel, DrOT, OTR/L, BCG, CDP, CFPS

TL;DR: for adult children of aging parents; for the sandwiched generationKey themes: aging, caregiving, mental health, caregiver resources, long-term care------------------The Aging Together Podcast explores the challenges and opportunities of caring for aging loved ones. In this podcast, I interview guests who are experts in their fields or can share their experiences with caregiving. Together with the guest speakers, I dive into a wide range of topics including health and wellness, care planning, caregiving, and more. The Aging Together Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, and YouTube. This podcast is a product of Aging Together LLC, a...

S4E18: Tech Tools to Support Elders with Alfred Poor, Health Tech Futurist
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In this episode of the Aging Together podcast, Dr. Pooja A. Patel interviews Alfred Poor, a health tech futurist, about the intersection of health technology and aging. They discuss the evolution of health tech, the importance of wearable devices, and the challenges faced by caregivers. Alfred shares his personal experiences with technology in caring for his elderly mother and emphasizes the need for tailored solutions that respect the dignity and independence of aging adults. The conversation also highlights the role of employers in supporting caregivers and the necessity...


S4E17: Cultural Perspective: Filial Piety & Remote Work | Vijay Sairam
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10/25/2025

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In this conversation, Vijay Sairam shares his transformative journey as a caregiver for his aging parents and how it shaped his mission to democratize access to remote jobs through his startup, Remote Job Central. He discusses the importance of flexibility in work for caregivers, cultural perspectives on caregiving, and the need for a supportive work environment that prioritizes family. Vijay emphasizes that caregiving is an expression of love and duty, and he advocates for remote work as a lifeline for those balancing personal and professional responsibilities. He encourages caregivers to...


S4E16: The 8 Dimensions of Wealth(ness) | Jaelyn (Jae) Vickery, LSW, CFT
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10/18/2025

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In this episode of the Aging Together podcast, Dr. Pooja A. Patel interviews Jaylen Vickery, a certified financial therapist, about the intersection of financial wellness and emotional health. They discuss the seven dimensions of wellness, the importance of building a relationship with one's future self, and the challenges faced by caregivers. Jaylen shares her Five Reps to Wealth approach, emphasizing the need for compassionate accountability and the significance of preventative care in achieving a balanced life. The conversation highlights the emotional burdens caregivers carry and offers insights into...


S4E15: Grief & Strength: Raising Children while Losing a Spouse | Allyson Schrier, MFA
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10/11/2025

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In this conversation, Allison Schrier shares her profound journey as a caregiver for her husband, diagnosed with frontotemporal dementia, while raising two children. She discusses the emotional turmoil of navigating grief, the challenges of parenting through loss, and the importance of maintaining family dynamics. Allison reflects on her transformation from caregiver to dementia educator, emphasizing the need for resources and support for families dealing with similar situations. The conversation highlights resilience, the complexities of caregiving, and the creation of Zinnia TV, a resource aimed at helping caregivers and...


S4E14: Supportive Living Communities: Finding the Just-Right Fit for You | Dawn Marie Johnson
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10/04/2025

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In this episode of the Aging Together podcast, Dr. Pooja A. Patel interviews Dawn Marie Johnson, a seasoned professional in the senior living industry. They discuss the evolution of supportive living options, the importance of family involvement, and the challenges faced by caregivers. Dawn shares her personal journey into the industry, emphasizing the significance of holistic well-being and the role of technology in enhancing the quality of life for seniors. The conversation also touches on the future of senior living communities, the need for affordability, and the importance o...


S4E13: Sandwich Generation Caregiving: A Story of Radical Acceptance | Amy Martin Quinn, MBA, BCPA
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09/27/2025

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In this conversation, Amy Martin Quinn shares her experiences as a communications executive turned patient advocate, navigating the complexities of the sandwich generation. She discusses her personal health challenges, the impact of caregiving for her parents while raising her daughters, and the importance of community support. Amy emphasizes the concept of radical acceptance, the necessity of setting boundaries, and the cultural dynamics that influence caregiving roles. Through her journey, she highlights the significance of allowing others to help and the emotional toll of caregiving, especially during times of...


S4E12: From Provider to Caregiver: Navigating Trauma & Compartmentalization | Lorna J. Hines, LCSW, ACSW
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09/20/2025

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In this episode of the Aging Together podcast, Dr. Pooja A. Patel speaks with Reverend Lorna J. Hines, a licensed clinical social worker and caregiver, about her extensive experience in caregiving and the emotional toll it takes. They discuss the systemic barriers caregivers face, the importance of seeking help, and the impact of trauma on both caregivers and their loved ones. Reverend Hines shares her personal journey, including the challenges of caring for her parents and the lessons learned along the way. The conversation emphasizes the need for...


S4E11: Navigating Family Dynamics: A Story of Elder Exploitation | Debora Pokallus
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09/13/2025

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Deborah Pocalas shares her harrowing experience of elder exploitation involving her father, revealing the complexities of family dynamics, betrayal, and the emotional toll of caregiving. She discusses the discovery of theft by a sibling, the impact of medical misdiagnosis, and the challenges of navigating guardianship. Throughout the conversation, Deborah emphasizes the importance of documentation, recognizing red flags, and finding support during difficult times. Her story serves as a cautionary tale for caregivers and families dealing with similar situations.
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S4E10: Integrative Dental Care for Older Adults | Dr. Joy Poskozim, DDS, FSCD, CDP
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09/06/2025

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In this episode of the Aging Together podcast, Dr. Joy Poskozim discusses the critical importance of oral health for older adults, particularly those in nursing homes and receiving home care. She highlights the connection between oral health and overall health, emphasizing how poor dental care can lead to serious health issues. Dr. Poskozim shares her experiences advocating for better oral care practices and the challenges faced by caregivers in ensuring proper dental hygiene. She also provides practical tips for caregivers and discusses the need for systemic changes in...


S4E09: Caregiver Mastery: Finding Peace in the Chaos of Emotions | Rick Henkin
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08/30/2025

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Rick Henkin shares his personal journey as a caregiver for his wife Sonia, who was diagnosed with Alzheimer's. He discusses the challenges of obtaining a diagnosis, the emotional toll on caregivers, and the importance of acceptance and mindfulness. Rick created the Caregiver Mastery System to help others navigate the complexities of caregiving while maintaining their own mental health. He emphasizes the need for caregivers to prioritize their well-being and offers practical advice for managing stress and guilt.

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S4E08: Skin Health through the Ages | Dr. Mary Alice Mina
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08/23/2025

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In this episode of the Aging Together podcast, Dr. Pooja A. Patel and Dr. Mary Alice Mina discuss the importance of skin health as we age. They explore the concept of pro-aging versus anti-aging, emphasizing the need for prevention and protection for younger skin, as well as the management of chronic skin conditions in older adults. Dr. Mina shares her journey into dermatology, the significance of a holistic approach to skin health, and the role of dermatologists in guiding patients. The conversation also touches on the misconceptions surrounding...


S4E07: "Boomers Booming": 10 Commandments for Seniors | H. Frances Reaves, Esq.
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08/16/2025

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In this episode of the Aging Together podcast, host Dr. Patel speaks with elder law attorney H. Frances Reeves about her journey as a caregiver for her parents, the challenges of navigating the medical industrial complex, and her new book, 'Boomers Booming: How to Thrive After 65 and Have Good Sex.' Frances shares her insights on aging, the importance of proactive planning, and her ten commandments for thriving in later life. The conversation emphasizes the need to challenge stereotypes about aging and the significance of mindset in preparing...


S4E06: Caregiving Beyond Life: One Woman's Journey of Caring for Her Late Husband's Mother | Alison Pena
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08/09/2025

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In this episode of the Aging Together podcast, Dr. Pooja A. Patel interviews Allison Penna, a grief resilience coach, who shares her personal journey of caregiving and navigating grief after the loss of her husband. Allison discusses the challenges of caregiving, the importance of setting boundaries, and the need for self-care. She emphasizes the significance of building new networks and reconnecting with oneself after loss. The conversation highlights the often misunderstood nature of grief and the essential role of love and support in the caregiving process.

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S4E04: End-of-Life Emotional Insurance Planning | Dr. Kim Harms, JD
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08/02/2025

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In this conversation, Dr. Kim Harms, an end-of-life expert, shares her personal journey through grief and the importance of legacy planning. She discusses the concept of emotional insurance, the significance of building emotional legacies, and practical steps individuals can take to prepare for their end of life. The conversation also touches on navigating difficult conversations about death, overcoming procrastination, and the impact of cultural attitudes and spirituality on the end-of-life experience. Dr. Harms emphasizes the need for open discussions about death and encourages listeners to take proactive steps...


S4E04: When Care Meets Cost: A Daughter’s Guide to Balancing Aging & Affordability | Arvette M. Reid, AIF
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07/26/2025

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In this episode of the Aging Together podcast, Dr. Pooja A. Patel and Arvette M. Reid discuss the critical intersection of healthcare and financial planning for aging adults. Arvette shares her personal journey into elder care, emphasizing the importance of family conversations, the role of care managers, and the unique challenges faced by solo agers. They highlight the need for systemic changes in elder care policies, particularly regarding dementia care, and stress the importance of education and planning for families navigating these complex issues.

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S4E03: Caring Across Borders: Navigating Care Between US & Canada | Amy Friesen
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07/19/2025

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In this episode of the Aging Together podcast, host Pooja Patel speaks with Amy Friesen, a bestselling author and expert in the senior living industry. They discuss the challenges and similarities in caregiving across borders, the importance of early planning, and the emotional toll on caregivers. Amy shares insights from her book 'Breadcrumbs' and emphasizes the need for support and resources for families navigating elder care. The conversation highlights the cultural expectations surrounding caregiving and the systemic changes needed to improve care for older adults.

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S4E02: Self-Care Isn't Selfish: Practical Strategies for Thriving as a Caregiver | Carol L. Stokes, JD
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07/12/2025

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In this episode of the Aging Together podcast, Dr. Pooja A. Patel speaks with Carol L. Stokes, JD, a caregiver coach and advocate. They discuss the challenges faced by caregivers, particularly women, and the importance of self-care, communication, and planning in caregiving. Carol shares her personal journey and insights on how caregivers can reclaim their sense of self and find support. The conversation emphasizes the need for systemic changes to support caregivers and the importance of education and resources in navigating caregiving responsibilities.

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S4E01: Intergenerational Living: Creating a Montessori Ecosystem for Dementia Care in Your Home | Annie Kulik, MPH, CDP, CMDCP
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07/05/2025

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In this conversation, Pooja & Annie explore the Montessori approach & its application in dementia care, particularly in intergenerational settings. Annie shares her extensive experience in working with both children & elders, emphasizing the importance of purposeful engagement & creating supportive environments. They discuss various activities that can benefit both age groups, the challenges faced in intergenerational care, & the significance of respite care for caregivers. The conversation also touches on the role of technology & resources available for families, as well as navigating regulations in intergenerational care settings. Ultimately, the discussion highlights the...


S4E00: Revolutionizing Grab Bars: Meet SafetyGrip, by Hartmobility | Kerry Flickner, VP
07/03/2025

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In this conversation, Dr. Pooja A. Patel speaks with Kerry Flickner, vice president at Hartmobility, about the innovative SafetyGrip grab bar designed for individuals with compromised grip strength. They discuss the evolution of grab bars, the inspiration behind SafetyGrip, and the collaboration with KITE Rehab Research Institute. The conversation highlights the importance of aesthetics in product design, early adoption feedback, partnerships for community engagement, and future research on the product's effectiveness. Flickner emphasizes the need for better solutions for aging populations and the importance of educating caregivers and u...


Season 4 Trailer
07/01/2025

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Welcome to Season 4! 

If you're new here, thank you for joining us! 

If you're returning, thank you for your support! 

We've got our first-ever LIVE streams this season, along with our very first sponsor.

I can't wait to see and hear what you think! Leave some comments :) 

S4 Sponsor: SafetyGrip, by Hartmobility
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S3E10: When Parenting Doesn't End: Caring for "Difficult Adult Children" | Dr. Judith "Judy" Smith
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06/15/2025

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Guest: Dr. Judith "Judy" Smith, Ph.D., LCSW

Judith R. Smith, Ph.D., LCSW, is a NYC based psychotherapist, professor, and researcher on women’s issues as they age.  She is a professor, Emerita, at Fordham University.  She offers support groups on-line for mothers with difficult adult children. Her book, Difficult: Mothering Challenging Adult Children through Conflict and Change, is based on a three-year research project, and brings to life the stories of fifty women, each over sixty years old, whose lives were drastically altered by becoming the default safe...


S3E09: A Lifetime of Caregiving: Supporting Patient Advocacy | Phyllis Anderson (Caregiver Story 5/5)
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06/01/2025

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Guest: Phyllis Anderson, Retired RN, CEN; RCFE-RCA

Phyllis is a retired nurse with nearly three decades of experience, including 22 years in the emergency room and time as an administrator for a memory care facility for individuals with Alzheimer’s and dementia. She is the founder and author of Carefolio, a medical healthcare journal designed to empower individuals and caregivers to take charge of their health and effectively track caregiving details.


Phyllis’s passion for health advocacy stems from her extensive nursing background and personal expe...


S3E08: Have Empathy for Your Care Providers: A Plea to Care Consumers | Emily Clark
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05/15/2025

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Guest: Emily Clark, M.A., CCC-SLP, RYT 500 Hour Yoga Instructor, Meditation Instructor, Life Coach

Emily Clark is a Life Coach, RYT-500 Yoga Instructor, Meditation Instructor and founder of Abundant Wellness with Emily. Being a former Speech-Language Pathologist in the healthcare industry it was from her own struggles with pouring her heart and soul into her career, being a mom and wife and feeling the pressure of always having to deliver results that she started her journey to radiant living. Through studying Yoga Philosophy, Meditation, Western healing modalities and the...


S3E07: Caregiving in Your 20s & Beyond: An Alzheimer's Story | Kristin Luckie (Caregiver Story 4/5)
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05/01/2025

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In this episode: 

Our guest, Kristin Luckie, shares her lived experience and journey of caregiving for her mother with Alzheimer's disease while she was in her 20s, an age group not often associated with caregiving for an older adult, although with an incredibly high prevalence. 

About the Guest: Kristin Luckie has crafted compelling stories for some of the most ambitious organizations today, including AT&T, Movember and the James Beard Foundation. A Jill of all trades with 15 years of communications experience, she works diligently to ad...


S3E06: Self-Care for Caregivers: Lessons from a Lived Experience | Lani Almanza
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04/15/2025

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Lani, a native of the Windward side of Oahu in Hawai’i, is a wife, mother, grandmother, and seasoned professional with a rich background in education, business, and nonprofit sectors. With a Master’s degree in Communication from the University of Hawaii, Manoa, she dedicated 15 years to the American Cancer Society in leadership roles focused on health communication and community engagement. Following her retirement, Lani founded Alaka’i Associates, a wellness business guiding individuals toward healthier, more fulfilling lives. She also contributes as an editor for Givers Guides, supports the nonprofit Gimme A Break...


S3E05: The Intersection of Work & Caregiving: Lessons Learned | Lisa Dare (Caregiver Story 3/5)
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04/01/2025

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Lisa Dare, BSc. Pharm, CCC, PCC is principal and CEO of Lisa Dare and Associates. She is an executive coach, leadership practitioner, consultant and speaker with close to 20 years of experience. Her background includes practising as a clinical hospital pharmacist, a medical sales representative for several major pharmaceutical companies and a certified fitness instructor. As a dedicated life long learner she is continually adding new and innovative tools to her coaching and consulting tool kit. This enables her to support clients in becoming the best version of themselves in the pursuit...


S3E04: Self-Management Strategies for A New Diagnosis | Janice Russell
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03/15/2025

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Janice Russell, the Overwhelm Slayer, deals with the aftermath of a health diagnosis. Clients hire her when they want to optimize their life after a medical diagnosis (brain-based disorders, autoimmune diseases, and/or body-based conditions). With virtual coaching and accountability, they become successful with crossing off their to-dos, managing their paperwork, and optimizing their time. You can find blog posts and other resources on her website: www.JaniceRussell.com.

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S3E03: Navigating Grief throughout the Caregiving Journey | Sarah Boss (Caregiver Story 2/5)
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03/01/2025

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Sarah Boss is a Healer who combines Astrology with different Holistic Healing modalities to help people successfully navigate and transform through major life transitions, activate their inner power and manifest the life of their dreams. Her passion for spirituality, combined with travel, has led her to study diverse types of energy modalities around the world. Sarah’s background includes certifications and trainings in Western and Medical Astrology, Akashic Records Healing, Reiki, ICF Life Coaching, NLP, Intuitive Cards and Crystal Healing. Sarah has lived in China, France and Argentina and offers sessions in English, Fr...


S3E02: Overcoming Family Trauma for Unexpected Caregiving | Dana Kaplan
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02/15/2025

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In this episode, Dana Kaplan shares her journey through an unexpected caregiving journey and how she navigated family trauma.

About the Guest:
As a retired classroom educator, certified trauma specialist, and coach for neurodiverse learners, Dana Kaplan has become an internationally recognized specialist focused on accessibility, inclusivity, and rich belonging in the world. With over two decades researching, educating, and implementing the power within and on Holistic Brain Health, Dana founded DEED®, Developing Empathetic Education with Dana just before the pandemic. With a later in life diagnosis, Dana w...


S3E01: One Daughter's Journey through Hospice & Beyond | Courtney Moore (Caregiver Story 1/5)
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02/01/2025

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In this episode, Courtney Moore shares her journey through hospice in caring for her father with pancreatic cancer.

This episode is the first of ten episodes in the 2025 Caregiver Stories vertical. 

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Courtney Moore is an intuitive healer trained in Classical Chinese Medicine. She has a clinic in San Francisco where she offers acupuncture, bodywork, and Reiki, and also offers remote intuitive readings to clients around the world. She recently launched The Liberated Body, a 12-week course on excavating and releasing the energetic and e...


Season 3 Trailer
01/15/2025

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This trailer reflects on Season 2 and provides a sneak peek into Season 3. 

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S2E10: Dementia Coaching vs Skilled Therapy: How to Involve the Right Professionals for Your Family
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11/15/2024

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Before we move into today’s episode, I want to express my sincere gratitude as I wrap up Season 2. This podcast show has come a long way since I first started it in January of 2023. All thanks to YOU all, the audience, this podcast grew from an average of 30 listens/month to 30 listens/week, and further to 100+ listens/week. This is the last episode of Season 2 as I take a little winter break. If you’re interested in what you can look forward to with Season 3, listen through to the end of this epis...


S2E09: Family Caregivers Need Care Too: A Trauma-Sensitive Guide on How to Incorporate Movement Into Your Days
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10/15/2024

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If you are or will be a family caregiver, this episode is for you! Did you know that over 53 million Americans provide unpaid care to a family member, often neglecting their own health and well-being? Many report high levels of stress and burnout. It's time we address the often-overlooked need for caregiver self-care. Today, we're exploring a trauma-sensitive approach to incorporating movement into your daily routine. Our guest will share practical strategies to help caregivers prioritize their own physical and mental well-being, even in the midst of their demanding roles.

This...


S2E08: Personal Finance & Long-Term Care: How & When to Open the Conversation
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09/15/2024

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Did you know that 70% of Americans over 65 will need some form of long-term care? Yet, only 16% of adults have discussed long-term care with their loved ones. Money talks, but when it comes to long-term care, many families stay silent. Did you know that 53 million Americans are unpaid caregivers, with 61% of them juggling caregiving with employment? The financial strain is real, yet discussions about money and care often remain taboo. Today, we're breaking that silence with our guest who will share her unique perspective on how to open these crucial conversations about personal finance...


S2E07: Planner or Procrastinator? A Guide for When to Start Preparing Your Home for Aging in Place
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08/15/2024

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Are you a planner or a procrastinator when it comes to preparing your home for aging in place? Did you know that nearly 90% of seniors want to stay in their own homes as they age, but only a third actually plan for it? With 77% of adults 50 and older wanting to remain in their homes for the long term, it's a question we all need to consider. Yet, many of us put off these crucial modifications until it's too late. Today, our guest will guide us through the when, why, and how of adapting...


S2E06: Digital Literacy & Older Adults: Navigating Social Media & Online Care Platforms
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07/15/2024

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Did you know that only 60% of seniors aged 65 and older use the internet, with many struggling to navigate the complexities of social media and online care platforms? In today's hyper-connected world, where 89% of American adults use the internet and 58% of WHO Member States have implemented digital health strategies, the ability to navigate online platforms is crucial, especially in healthcare. With the surge in telemedicine and health apps, patients and providers alike are facing new challenges in digital literacy. Our guest today will shed light on how we can bridge the digital divide and...


S2E05: Understanding Long-Term Care Options: Assisted Living vs Skilled Nursing Facilities
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06/15/2024

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In this episode, Dr. Regina Asihene & I talk about assisted and skilled nursing facilities.

Dr. Asihene, MD is a highly accomplished specialist in internal medicine with a distinguished career spanning over three decades. She completed her medical degree at Morehouse School of Medicine and her residency at The Cambridge Hospital of Harvard Medical School. Dr. Asihene has extensive experience in primary care, hospice care, and medical education, having served in various roles including Medical Director at Mystic Health Center (now Mass Gen), as an assistant professor at Harvard Medical School, and...


S2E04: Caring for Dementia: How to Navigate Health Issues & Hospitalizations
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05/15/2024

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In this episode, Rachel & I talk about navigating health challenges and hospitalizations with persons living with dementia.

Rachel Wiley, MS, OTR/L, CDP is an occupational therapist and the founder and owner of Dementia Consulting and the Dementia Collaborative LLC.

Rachel is certified in Skills2Care® for caregivers of individuals living with dementia, and she is a Certified Dementia Practitioner. Rachel is also a certified master trainer of Skills2Care® through Jefferson Elder Care and trains occupational therapists in the Skills2Care® program. She is also currently a volunteer adv...


S2E03: Fall Recovery: A Journey from Caregiver to Entrepreneur
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04/15/2024

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Steve Powell is the founder of IndeeLift, the leading manufacturer of human floor lifts that are designed to safely and comfortably lift seniors or others with mobility issues off the floor after falling.

Like millions of Americans, Steve was a caregiver for his aging parents as their health deteriorated. Both of Steve’s parents were determined to age at home, but they each struggled with routine falls, which would leave them stuck on the floor for hours with no way to get back up. Eager to help, Steve invented a device ca...


S2E02: Hospitalizations & Self-Advocacy: How to Plan Ahead for an Unfortunate Emergency
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03/15/2024

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This month we’re hearing from Dr. Monique Nugent, a practicing hospitalist and an associate director for the Division of Hospital Medicine at South Shore Hospital in Weymouth, Massachusetts. She is also the author of Prescription for Admission: A Doctor’s Guide for Navigating the Hospital, Advocating for Yourself, and Having a Better Hospitalization, a complete guide providing the critical information you need to navigate the hospital. With her advice, readers can stay calm, feel confident, and focus on healing after a health crisis. Dr. Nugent is passionate about advocating for every patient by w...