Diaries of a Domme + Questions Answered, by Chastity Queen

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By: Chastity Queen

Strap yourself in for lots of kinky and open dialogue from a Woman who has experience with Pro-Domming and the BDSM Lifestyle. Her live-in chaste sissy sub joins in on some of the open discussions involving kink, chastity, BDSM and what it means to be a good Domme and sub. Are you are drawn to BDSM & wondered why? Do the dynamics in a D/s relationship, intrigue you? Do you feel the submissive cravings, but cannot express that in your current relationship, or as a single person? Or, are you a female dominant and want to explore that powerful side o...

PUPPY PLAY in My Dungeon
#19
Yesterday at 9:00 PM

A confident voice, a strict set of rules, and a slow walk into a private space where control is the point. I lean into a femdom power exchange fantasy that uses ritual, obedience cues, and permission based pacing to create tension without relying on chaos. If you are curious about BDSM puppy play roleplay, dominance and submission, chastity themes, or pet play dynamics, you will hear how a scene can feel more intense when the structure is unmistakable.

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ENTER MY DUNGEON - Forced Femme
#18
Last Friday at 11:00 PM

One breath at a time, I take you down the stairs and into my dungeon where fear gets tossed away and control becomes the point. You’ll hear me set the tone for service and submission, then guide you through a vivid, sensory walkthrough: the mannequin that inspires the fantasy, the table built for restraint, the spanking bench and impact tools, and the Saint Andrew’s cross waiting in the corner. If you’re searching for femdom audio that feels immersive and intentional, this is a full environment you can step into with your imagination.

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BYE BYE ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION
#17
Last Wednesday at 4:00 PM

Your body isn’t “broken” if it can respond in private but shuts down with a real partner. That pattern can be a LOUD clue that you’re dealing with PED/psychological erectile dysfunction, where anxiety, attention, and conditioning override what your body can physically do. I dig into the mind body disconnect that shows up as weak erections, fast finishes, numb sensation, or that awful moment when you finally have time together and nothing works. 

I will get pointed and specific about what trains the problem: porn and compulsive masturbation that turn sex into a quick, lonely hi...


Enter MY Dungeon
#16
Last Monday at 5:00 PM

You can feel the shift the moment I ask you to slow your breath. I step into MY Domme-led dungeon roleplay where control is not a surprise, it’s a plan, and every beat is built on structure. If you’re curious about Femdom, BDSM, and power exchange, this guided scene highlights how ritual turns nerves into focus and anticipation into something you can actually hold. 

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BALL KICKING PUNISHMENT
#15
05/16/2026

A strict voice, a clear Hierarchy, and a blunt question that won’t let you off the hook: DO YOU NEED TO BE KICKED?  Commanding power-exchange IS where discipline isn’t random, it’s framed as a response to repeated disobedience and THE NEED FOR A SWIFT KICKING.


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SUCK MY DICK
#14
05/16/2026

HEY COCKSUCKER! Get ready for some good, old-fashioned, explicit strap-on oral training. If you’re searching for BDSM audio that feels direct, commanding, and structured, this is designed to pull you in fast and deep.


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SHRINK YOUR DICK TO MAKE ME SMILE!
#13
05/15/2026

YOU HEARD IT RIGHT! SHRINK THAT DICK! 

If you like guided dominance, erotic hypnosis style audio, or just a no-nonsense approach to sexual self-control, press play and LISTEN to the end. Subscribe, share this with someone who’s curious about chastity training, and leave a review telling us what rule would be hardest for you to keep.

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From Fantasy To Real Submission
#12
03/03/2026

I invite you to move from screen-fed fantasy to lived submission through safety, consent, and high protocol. I share how fear softens when community, structure, and a trusted Dominant give you a clear path and a choice at every step.

• purpose of guidance and submission
• why porn myths block growth
• fear, exposure, and first steps
• what real events look and feel like
• consent, safewords, and discretion
• high protocol as safety and clarity
• integrating alpha life with submission
• chastity as focus and mental shift
• service to Matriarchy and female authority
• turning fant...


Chastity Is Freedom
#11
02/03/2026


Listen as I will inspire your journey to cage up with a purpose!

Chastity IS Freedom! - Chastity Queen


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How Visualizing Your Outfits Can Change Your Life
#9
01/23/2026

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A packed suitcase can be a love letter to your future self. We open Violetta’s travel diary and follow every deliberate choice—panties in soft colours, stockings with texture, clear pleasers, a red lace blouse—while honouring her commitment to stay locked with clarity and care. What begins as a packing list becomes a blueprint for courage, showing how outfits, accessories, and small travel hacks help move private desire into public life.

From airport realities to creative layering, we share simple...


Sissy Wardrobe Diaries
#8
01/19/2026

A quiet ritual can change everything. We invite you into Violetta’s Sissy Wardrobe Diary, a tender, detailed look at how task obedience from Chastity Queen, clothing, and daily routines can reshape identity with grace. What starts as a simple day at home unfolds into a fully embodied practice: a floral dress chosen with care, pink tights and fishnets layered with intention, and a six-hoop petticoat that turns each step into music. As heels click and fabric swishes, chores become choreography and the apartment becomes a sanctuary for self-mastery.

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Hypnosis For Chastity Resolve
#7
01/15/2026

HELLO My chaste submissive!

I will guide you in a consent-forward hypnosis that reframes chastity as a symbol of purpose and a reliable daily ritual. Breathwork, clear questions, and the collective chastity identity builds focus, reduces friction, and strengthens long-term commitment.

• consent, safety, and memory set before hypnosis
• repetition as a tool for resolve and identity
• chastity as symbol, cue, and routine
• service, purpose, and female-led structure
• breathwork to anchor attention and calm
• three verbal commitment questions
• awakening and reintegration steps

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Chastity Hypno: Celebrating International Male Chastity Day!
#6
01/14/2026

Hello caged sub!

Ready to submit? 

I will guide a consent-first hypnosis that uses breath and movement to quiet the mind, then step into a ritual of chastity, ownership, and daily devotion while returning you to wakeful energy. Clear rules, vivid cues, and a calm re-entry help focus grow beyond the session.

• consent and memory affirmed before hypnosis
• breathwork and muscle release to ground attention
• ritual framing of International Male Chastity Day
• keys, clicks, and symbols as daily anchors
• obedience and non-penetrative service reframed as purpose
• count-up re-entry to wakeful, b...


LOCKTOBER 9 DAYS IN!
#5
10/10/2025

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Surrendering Control: Hypnotic Journey into Chastity
#4
09/25/2025

Dive into a guided hypnotic journey exploring dominance, submission, and the psychological aspects of chastity and power exchange.

• Consent and boundaries established for safe hypnotic practice
• Progressive relaxation techniques to enter a receptive mental state
• Exploration of chastity as both physical and psychological control
• Sensory play and bondage incorporated through hypnotic suggestion
• Power dynamics and ownership as central themes in dominance relationships
• Psychological aspects of pleasure denial and how it increases devotion
• Careful awakening process ensuring wellbeing after hypnotic experience

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Your Penis Will Shrink Under My Hypnotic Control
#3
09/17/2025

It is time to lay back, relax and listen as I tell you how small your penis really is!  In fact, it will begin shrinking for Me, if you listen to this over and over again! I love to tell men that they are small and I could do this daily!  So, get relaxed, open you mind and body to Me, and accept what I have to tell you!



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The Power of Chastity
#1
07/18/2025

Chastity is not about torture or deprivation but rather a transformative practice that elevates men's sexual awareness and creates profound power exchange. Through controlling urges and transmuting sexual energy, men can discover deeper forms of pleasure and submission that honor their dominant partners.

• Understanding why chastity is fundamentally about control and power exchange
• Transmuting sexual energy into something more elevated and illuminated
• Breaking free from patterns of instant gratification and masturbation
• Working through intensified urges rather than immediately relieving them
• Discovering the "gift" that comes from denying immediate pleasure
• Honoring female dominants through rest...


The Crown and Cage: Building a Secret Society for Submissives
#13
05/14/2025

The Crown and Cage Society is forming as a structured secret society for men who embrace chastity as a lifestyle. This new female-led group will provide guidance, training, and community for submissives seeking a serious approach to chastity experiences.

• Service must be humble, respectful, and filled with gratitude
• The society welcomes all forms of chastity (device, mental, belt)
• Members will be guided toward exploring new aspects of submission
• Protocols and rules will create structure while still keeping things fun
• Not everyone will pursue permanent chastity – individual circumstances respected
• Chastity enhances other fetishes by controlling...


The Secret World of Male Chastity: Chastity Queen's Community of Caged Men
#12
05/03/2025


My dear chaste slaves, sissies and subs,

The Crown and Cage Society emerges from the shadows as an exclusive community dedicated to male chastity under My guidance as High Priestess. This podcast reveals my vision for uniting chaste men in a structured environment that transcends conventional kink dynamics while maintaining privacy and ethical standards.

For those drawn to the transformative potential of chastity, joining begins simply by connecting with the FetLife group "Chastity Queen's Crown and Cage Society" (#316472). The journey includes monthly gatherings—starting online before transitioning to in-person events in the Ki...


Sissy BIMBO Bottom
#11
04/23/2025

Are you constantly looking at cocks? Maybe you ARE a sissy! I have a task for you.

Chastity Queen


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Unlocking the Potential of Male Chastity: The Crown and Cage Society
#10
04/20/2025

Discover the revolutionary Crown and Cage Society - a first-of-its-kind secret organization for men devoted to chastity and female-led relationships. As Founder and High Priestess, I'm opening the gates to my Chastity Kingdom where purpose meets pleasure in denial.

With 100+ keys already in my possession and thousands of followers locking themselves away in my honor, I'm creating something unprecedented: a structured community where chaste men can find meaning beyond their cages. This society isn't just about keeping men locked up—it's about transforming them into better versions of themselves through guided submission and purposeful restraint.

Mo...


A Dream Estate for Crossdressers: The Queen's Vision for a Liberating Sanctuary
#1
03/10/2025

Dreams have power, especially when they've been nurtured for over fifteen years. Join Chastity Queen as she unveils her most cherished vision – creating a countryside Femdom Manor where crossdressers and submissives can escape societal expectations and truly be themselves.

The dream unfolds with remarkable detail: a sprawling country estate with separate wings for the Queen and her sissy slaves, weekend retreats for professionals seeking liberation from their structured lives, and a renovated barn transformed into an elite dungeon space. Every aspect has been thoughtfully considered, from color-coded maid uniforms to privacy contracts, from specialized play areas to gr...


🔒SUBS & SLAVES - This message is for you!
#15
02/20/2025

Task: LISTEN

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CUSTOM Clip for My Sissy Maid
#7
01/27/2025

Hello sissy maid,

Listen to Me today.  I have specific instructions and some helpful insight into how you must approach your job as sissy maid.

Listen, obey and please Me!

Chastity Queen

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CUSTOM CLIP: Message to My Dry Humping Beta Bitch Loser!
#8
01/21/2025

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Slave REMINDER
#5
01/16/2025

Hi slave

Now and then, it is necessary to highlight what is important in a D/s. Often slaves get so wound up in their desires and fetishes that there can be an imbalance of power.  Knowingly or unknowingly, a slave might begin to top, from the bottom. 
 
The Domme, begins to realize She is merely a fantasy facilitator. I think it is important to reiterate how it must be in a D/s.  Now, if the power positions do not suit you, then maybe a D/s is not for you?  All valid questions to as...


🔒 BREAKING NEWS! Celebrate International Male Chastity Day with Chastity Queen on January 14, 2025!
#4
01/14/2025

Hello kinky men!

Unlock the secrets to personal empowerment and self-discovery as We/we celebrate International Male Chastity Day on January 14th, 2025. Join Me, Chastity Queen, as We/we embark on a bold journey that challenges the norms of manliness through a 24-hour chastity experience. Whether you're exploring solo or with a partner, prepare to uncover how temporary abstinence can lead to unexpected personal growth, heightened testosterone levels, and a renewed sense of focus. This episode promises to enlighten you with historical insights and real-life testimonials that showcase the transformative power of chastity, offering a unique path...


One on one CHASTITY Instructional
#3
01/13/2025

Dear sub,

This episode isn't just about a fictional narrative, but a reflection on real-life experiences and the extraordinary dynamics of slave and Domme. For those curious or already practicing chastity, I present a task to you. Whether you're new to the concept or a seasoned practitioner, this instructional session is for you.

Chastity Queen

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My Journey into the World of Feminization and BDSM
#2
01/09/2025

Feminization emerges as a powerful topic as our host shares her personal experiences with submission and dominance within BDSM relationships. She emphasizes the importance of trust, communication, and exploration, encouraging listeners to embrace their desires and try new experiences in a safe, fulfilling manner.

• Explaining the roles of Chastity Queen and Mommy Celeste on FetLife
• Emphasizing safety and trust within BDSM explorations 
• The importance of mentorship in navigating the BDSM community 
• Describing the joys and intricacies of feminization and submission 
• Encouraging listeners to explore their desires with openness 
• Sharing personal experiences to illustrate key c...


2025! Embrace a Kinky New Year: Power Play & Manifesting Joy with Cinnamon!
#1
01/02/2025

Hello kinky listeners!

This episode promises not only to inspire but also to encourage self-improvement and the pursuit of happiness in 2025. So, join me as we welcome a year of growth, joy, and optimism, and embark on a fulfilling path together. Happy New Year!

Chastity Queen 

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Challenge Your Wanking & Porn Habits and Transform Your Life with Chastity
#37
12/03/2024

Dear men!

Discover the transformative power of chastity as I challenge the norms of routine stress-relief mechanisms like porn addiction and masturbation. Join me, Chastity Queen, on this journey of self-reflection and empowerment, where we question whether these habits still add value to our lives or if they have become dull, repetitive chores. Learn how adopting chastity can lead to greater mindfulness, self-awareness, and a revival of excitement in your daily routine. 

Embark on a guided meditation that encourages you to reexamine your habits, explore their psychological and emotional roots, and consider new, healthier coping s...


🔒 🔒 Embrace Female Power: FUCK PATRIARCHY
#34
11/09/2024

Why do more men choose to embrace female power, and how does this reflect on their strength and intelligence? Join Me, your Chastity Queen, as WE/we unravel the ENDURING influence of female dominance and its transformative impact on OUR/our lives. In a world often marred by patriarchy and misogyny, WE/we celebrate the rising tide of men who REJECT toxic norms, choosing instead to uplift and SUBMIT to female leadership. It's not about weakness but about breaking free from unrealistic societal expectations and finding TRUE empowerment. Through My personal journey, you'll discover how chastity and denial can...


The Power of Chastity: TRY IT!
#30
09/28/2024

Men!

Ever wondered how surrendering control can heighten your desires and reshape your understanding of pleasure? 

Imagine the thrill of being unable to touch yourself, the growing anticipation, and the profound psychological shift that occurs as you hand over control. As October approaches, there's no better time to experience the ultimate in restraint and desire. Join me as I challenge you to take the plunge, even if just for a month.

Chastity IS freedom!

Chastity Queen

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🔒 Locktober 2024: GET READY!
#28
09/18/2024

Hi chastity lovers!

LOCKTOBER 2024 is quickly approaching! Are you concerned about the challenges of extended chastity during Locktober? I've got you covered. Learn how wet dreams might fit into your Locktober 2024 journey without breaking your commitment and get expert tips on finding the right cage through research. Whether you're participating solo or with a Keyholder, discover practical advice for negotiating terms, enhancing your experience with materials like electroshock and urethral sounding, and staying mentally strong throughout the month, you can do this. Prepare for a transformational journey as I continue to guide you towards achieving chastity success!  


Locktober 2024 with Chastity Queen
#27
09/17/2024

Are you ready for Locktober????

Ever wondered what it takes to endure a month-long chastity challenge?  From an intriguing encounter with a cuckold at a kink club to understanding the psychological nuances of metal versus plastic chastity devices, this episode will prepare and inspire you for Locktober. Learn the importance of selecting the right device and how to mentally and physically prepare yourself for this unique challenge.

Get ready for Locktober with practical advice, like using a lockbox and setting timers for practice runs, ensuring your cage fits comfortably, and keeping a journal to track c...


From Conservative Roots to Dominance: My Journey into BDSM + Practical Tips
#20
06/17/2024

How does one transition from a strict religious upbringing to becoming a professional dominant in the BDSM world? Join me, Chastity Queen, as I share my unique journey of personal and sexual evolution. This episode promises to offer you practical advice on how to connect with the BDSM community and explore your fetishes. I dive into my transformation from an extreme vanilla background to embracing the diverse and complex world of BDSM, with an emphasis on open-mindedness and challenging societal norms. By sharing my story, I hope to inspire you to question your own biases and embrace a broader...


A Queen's Personal Experience:From Nightmares to New Beginnings The Art of Reassembling My Life
#15
05/14/2024

Hello My dear fans and followers,

Facing the specters of a troubled past is a journey few can speak of with both candor and hope. My story, deeply rooted in the complexities of an oppressive religious upbringing and the struggle for personal liberation, unfolds in today's heartfelt dialogue. I take you through My attempt at therapy to focus on and improve intense dream flashbacks, the unexpected surge of nightmares, and the soul-stirring purge of my home, an act guided by nothing but my trusty witching rods. It's a raw look into the emotional labor required to dismantle...


How I Began My Journey as a Female Dominant. Being a Newbie Submissive + TASK
#14
04/16/2024

Listeners,

Step into the world of BDSM with confidence and grace as Chastity Queen takes you under her wing, revealing the secrets behind mastering the role of a Domme. Uncovering the layered importance of preparation, safety, and communication in the dynamics of dominance and submission. This episode is not just a guide; it's an invitation to understand the profound responsibilities and the profound self-awareness necessary for navigating the complex world of BDSM.

Get an inside view into the art of conducting safe and deeply rewarding BDSM sessions. You'll gain firsthand knowledge of setting the stage...


Reigniting Desire Through the Art of Chastity + TASK
#12
03/27/2024

Hi kinky subs!

Have you ever entertained the idea of surrendering ultimate control to your partner? This episode, hosted by the ever-passionate Chastity Queen, pulls back the curtain on the intriguing world of chastity and its transformative power in relationships. You'll find out why bestowing the gift of control and becoming a keyholder isn't just a physical thrill; it's a profound act of trust that can bind you and your partner in new, electrifying ways. We dive into the heart of what makes chastity a game-changer in intimacy, from sparking curiosity to breaking the monotony of daily...


Happy Valentine's Day! Male Self-Esteem and a Femdom's Positive Impact + TASK
#9
02/14/2024

Happy Valentine's Day subs!

Embark on a provocative foray into the realm of desire and discipline with yours truly, Chastity Queen, as I guide you through an electrifying fantasy task that teases the edge of your restraints. Feel the tension build and your breath quicken while we explore the tantalizing intersection of control and release. But the journey doesn't end with your pulse racing; we delve into the transformative realms of Femdom relationships, unveiling how BDSM can be a powerful catalyst for self-awareness and self-esteem. I'll share an intimate tale of transformation, drawing you into the life...