You've Got Mail

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By: Bella

Hi! You've Got Mail from me, Bella. Like a voice note from your big sister, this podcast bring you weekly honest chats about life, growth, and figuring it out in your 20s 💌So go ahead, open your mail!

RE: Why we should lean into change
Today at 7:14 PM

Hi!!

You've got mail from me, Bella, and this week we discuss why leaning into change protects your energy, allowing you to build a life you really want.

I am so so sorry for the radio silence... turns out the wifi in every place i visited could not hack uploading such a big file size đŸ«  but this long-awaited episode is (finally!) here andddd you will get another episode on Sunday!!

Love Bella x


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RE: Following your dreams - I didn't gain a single follower for a year, and I still kept posting
08/24/2025

You've Got Mail from me, Bella, and this week we discuss why following ur dreams is not always easy but is always the right thing to do.


Make sure you are following me on insta and tiktok @mailfrombella


Love Bella 💌

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RE: What did my early twenties teach me?
08/17/2025

Hi! You've Got Mail from me, Bella, and this week we are discussing my early twenties and everything they have taught me.

Thank you for listening to this week's podcast. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe! Follow me on socials by following this link: https://linktr.ee/youvegotmail

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RE: I Didn't Get My Predicted Grades (and I'm so glad I didn't)
08/10/2025

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Hey you! You've Got Mail from me, Bella, and this week I'm probably being a little too honest and sharing how recieving my A-Level results went. As someone who had validatedbtheir entire existance on thair achievments, not getting into my univeristy course because of my grades was a low point. But, in this episode I explain why it was actually...


RE: The Mindset Shift That Changed My Perspective
08/03/2025

Hey!! You've Got Mail from me, Bella, and this week we are discussing why your perspective matters and how you can make the most out of every moment (but not in a toxic positivity way!!)


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RE: Why Expressing Yourself Might Be the Key to Figuring Yourself Out
07/27/2025

Hi! You've Got Mail from me, Bella, and this week we are discussing creativity, self-expression and why it is so important as a stepping stone to finding who you are and working out who you want to be!


Thank you for listening, it means the world


RE: What has a five year relationship taught me?
07/20/2025

Hi you!

This week you've got mail from me, Bella, and we are discussing everything I have learnt about being in a relationship in my early twenties as my boyfriend and I celebrate our five year anniversary!

Love, Bella 💌


If you don't already please press follow, you can find my on instagram and on tiktok @mailfrombella

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RE: From Burnout to Balance: How a Cafe Job Saved Me
07/13/2025

Hey you 💌

It’s probably no surprise that I quit my old job and ended up doing something totally different. I always said that by month three of unemployment, I’d take anything—and when that time came, working in a cafĂ© felt like an unexpected but exciting change.

At first, it was just a way to pay rent. But what I didn’t realise was how much this job would shift my entire relationship with stress, work, and self-worth. Six weeks in, I finally feel like I can see a job as just a job—not life or...


RE: Should I Move In With My Partner?
07/06/2025

Hey you! Moving in with your partner is such a big decision, so here I am discussing all of this... It's weird, finally coming to this chapter of my life because I don't feel old enough, but I guess here we are...


Love Bella 💌

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RE: How Do I Beat Burnout?
06/29/2025

Hi! You've Got Mail from me, Bella, and this week we discuss burnout and the small actions you can take to make sure burnout doesn't become your new normal.

Let me know what you think about this episode in the comments!


Love, Bella

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RE: Why being delusional helps us manifest our dream life
06/22/2025

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💌 From: Your Internet Big Sister


Hey you—check your inbox. This week’s mail talks about why being delusional is the solution to our problems, and I discuss why being delusional has helped me manifest a life I am really happy in.

So go ahead—open your mail and let me know what you think :)

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RE: am I addicted to my phone?
06/15/2025

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💌 From: Your Internet Big Sister


Hey you—check your inbox. This week’s mail talks about phone addiction, social media and and whyyyy we all need to be better about being bored.

So go ahead—open your mail and let me know what you think :)

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RE: Dealing with summer FOMO
06/08/2025

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💌 From: Your Internet Big Sister


Hey you—check your inbox. This week’s mail is all about why we all have FOMO and how we can deal with it better.

So go ahead—open your mail and let me know what you think :)

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RE: Why You Should Trust Your Gut
06/01/2025

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💌 From: Your Internet Big Sister


Hey you—check your inbox. This week’s mail is all about why you should trust your gut, as it is usually more right than we realise. Whether you are starting to ask big questions in your life, want guidance or want to find out more about your intuition, learning to trust your gut is one of the most important lessons of your twenties.

So go ahead—open your mail and let me know what you think :)

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RE: Jumping Into the Unknown
05/25/2025

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💌 From: Your Internet Big Sister


Hey you—check your inbox. This week’s mail is all about dealing with change and jumping into the unknown. Whether your change is having exams, finishing school, going travelling or starting a new job, this episode is for you! The article is 'The Parable of the Trapeze' by Daanan Perry.

So go ahead—open your mail and let me know what you think :)

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RE: has therapy helped me?
05/18/2025

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💌 From: Your Internet Big Sister


Hey you—check your inbox. This week’s mail is all about how therapy has helped me process a tricky year in my life. The final lesson I learnt in therapy was that we always have the freedom to make new decisions, nothing is ever written in stone, and I wanted to share this with you.

So go ahead—open your mail and let me know what you think :)

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RE: Why you can't force your future
05/11/2025

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💌 From: Your Internet Big Sister


Hey you—check your inbox. This week’s mail is all about how we can't force what is not meant to be for us. Sometimes the things we want most in life won't be right for us, but I truly believe that when these things don't work out we find something even better instead.

So go ahead—open your mail and let me know what you think :)

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RE: the hangover of hustle culture
05/04/2025

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💌 From: Your Internet Big Sister


Hey you—check your inbox. This week’s mail is all about the long-term impact of hustle culture and how choosing a career rather than thinking of the lifestyle we want is limiting impacting the lives we live in the long-term.


So go ahead—open your mail and let me know what you think :)


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RE: Are trends ruining our twenties?
04/27/2025

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💌 From: Your Internet Big Sister


Hey you—check your inbox. This week’s mail is all about the impact trends are having on our twenties, and how they are impacting the lives we live.


So go ahead—open your mail and let me know what you think :)


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RE: Dealing With Exam Stress
04/20/2025

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💌 From: Your Internet Big Sister


Hey you—check your inbox. This week’s mail is all about academic validation and why exam stress used to mean so much more than just exam stress.


So go ahead—open your mail

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RE: Why is finding friends in our twenties hard?
04/13/2025

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💌 From: Your Internet Big Sister


Hey you—check your inbox. This week’s mail is all about friendship and why finding friends in your twenties is so hard.


So go ahead—open your mail

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RE: why do 'eras' reframe our lives and help us understand change?
04/06/2025

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💌 From: Your Internet Big Sister


Hey you—check your inbox. This week’s mail is all about eras—why we create them, how they help us make peace with failure, and why defining things as chapters helps us deal with change. If you’ve ever said “I’m in my ___ era,” this episode is for you!


So go ahead—open your mail

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RE: Is protecting my peace pushing people away?
03/30/2025

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Hi! You've got mail from me and this week we are chatting about boundary setting and how trusting your anxious mind can *sometimes* mean you say no to plans you might actually enjoy. By learning how to question our motivations for saying no, we make sure we don't miss out on a key part of peace, social connection.


So go ahead, open your mail!!

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RE: Is rejection redirection?
03/23/2025

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Hi! You've got mail from me, Bella, and this week we are chatting about whether rejection is redirection. Often when things don't go as we planned them to we feel like we have failed, but, I'm starting to think that's not the case.


So go ahead, open your mail!!

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RE: Should you revisit a place you called home?
03/16/2025

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Hi! You've got mail from me and this week we are chatting about visiting a place you once called home and why it can leave a funny feeling in your tummy. By revisiting old homes, we also revisit past selves which can teach us a lot about how far we have come.


So go ahead, open your mail!!

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RE: How do you overcome loneliness?
03/09/2025

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Hi! You've got mail from me and this week we are chatting about loneliness and different ways you can overcome that horrible feeling at the pit of your stomach. Loneliness comes and goes and each time I find to deal with it.


So go ahead, open your mail!!

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RE: Why does being positive help?
03/02/2025

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Hi! You've got mail from me and this week we are chatting about why you need to stop rushing, appreciate the small stuff and, in times of darkness, find whatever light you can.


So go ahead, open your mail!!

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RE: adapting to change
02/23/2025

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Hi! You've got mail from me and this week we are chatting about how to deal change in a healthy way! Change is scary but here are the things I’m doing to make it as normal as possible. In this episode, we why change is key to you growing as a person.

So go ahead, open your mail!!



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RE: the different types of love
02/16/2025

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💌 From: Your Internet Big Sister


Hiii! You’ve got a new message from me, and this week as its the week of love we're talking about allll the different types of it!!

There are so many different kinds of love, but platonic love is one of the most special. This Valentine’s Day, we’re diving into all the ways love can show up in your twenties—the friendships that feel like home, the deep connections that shape you, and the self-love that carries you through.

So go ahead...


RE: So I made a big (career) decision...
02/09/2025

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Hiii! You've got a new message from me, and this week we’re diving into some pretty big life moments. In this episode, we will talk about giving yourself time to figure out a plan, and why it's crucial to take time to process personal experiences before putting them out into the world.Join me as we explore the beauty of embracing change, trusting your intuition, and the freedom that comes with being in your twenties. If you’ve ever wondered about making big decisions in your twent...


RE: How can I be happier?
02/02/2025

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💌 From: Your Internet Big Sister


Hi! You've got mail from me and this week we are chatting about listening to one of the most important voices in your life - your own. In this episode, we discuss how trusting your intuition can lead to more happiness, peace and clarity. So go ahead, open your mail!

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RE: Surviving your twenties.. chatting with Lindsay from YouFoundHer podcast
01/26/2025

What a way to kick off the guest's episodes with this beautifully comforting chat with Lindsay, the host of You Found Her Podcast, the podcast for ambitious minds seeking comfort.


I hope you enjoy this episode as much as I did, and I hope it brings you an immense amount of comort to hear how things can turn out (it really did for me)

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RE: is dry Jan worth it?
01/19/2025

Lets discuss dry january because everyone I know has done it (including me!)

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RE: why do I worry so much?
01/12/2025

We all know I’m a worrier so let’s discuss how we can all get our overthinking under control ❀

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RE: Do we need to crave change?
#1
01/05/2025

Every year I think I have to hate myself into changing into something new - but this time maybe not :) maybe we can live what we have become and still grow into something better



Let’s chat about the past year and set some goals for 2025!!

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I think I’m growing up
12/22/2024

Driving home for Christmas means recording episodes in my childhood bedroom đŸ„Č

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controlling your emotions
12/15/2024

learning to control your emotions so they control you is important ❀




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decisions have an impact
12/09/2024

as we get older the opportunities

we have feel like they r closing

but i promise it’s not case ❀

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Boundary setting
12/03/2024

Setting boundaries is important!!! And key to making sure u don’t burn yourself out ❀

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growing up
11/24/2024

somewhere between 2019 and 2025 we grew up, so let’s chat about it

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