Finding Freedom with Inspire Wellness

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By: Jemma Haythorne

Welcome to Finding Freedom with Inspire Wellness! I'm here to help you ditch the diets, create sustainable habits, improve your mindset, love your body and become your next level self. I'm Jemma, and I'm a Body Image & Food Freedom Coach, anti-diet advocate and your ultimate hype girl. Let's get you feeling like your happiest and healthiest self.

6 Things You’re Doing to ā€˜Fix’ Your Body Image That Are Actually Making It Worse
#199
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I hate to break it to you, but most of the solutions you’ve been given for ā€˜fixing’ your body image and confidence are actually f*cking you over…

Many women tell me that they’ve tried ā€˜everything’ in order to improve their body image, but it turns out that they’ve just been trying the wrong things (and often, the things that will cause more harm than good in the long run).Ā 

In this episode, I’ll share:Ā 

6 ā€˜fixes’ that end up backfiring and making your body image worseWhy these approaches don’t actually workThe real shif...


You’re Not Broken (You’re Just a Human) with Amanda Elle
#198
09/10/2025

Have you ever felt like you’ve done all of the things - therapy, mindset work, affirmations - but you’re still struggling, and it makes you believe that you’re broken?

That’s exactly what Amanda has experienced, yet she’s managed to come out the other side into an embodied, confident woman - and I’m constantly inspired by her!

In this episode, we chat about:

Why you still feel like broken, even when you’re living the textbook ā€˜perfect’ lifeShifting from needing to be fixed to embracing your full humanityHow shadow work and emotional...


Why I Will NEVER Go on Ozempic or GLP1s
#197
09/03/2025

If you’d given me the option to go on Ozempic or GLP1s ten years ago, I would have JUMPED at the chance! A magic solution for weight loss?! Sign me up!

But these days, you couldn’t pay me to go on a weight loss medication. And I have many thoughts (many of them angry) about the Ozempic era that we seem to be in right now - so buckle up, because today I’m sharing them.

In this episode, I’ll share:Ā 

Why I would never go on a weight loss medicatio...


5 Things I Wish I Knew When I Was a Binge Eater
#196
08/27/2025

I spent over 10 years dealing with binge eating, so I know how difficult it is when you’re stuck in it and feel like there’s no way out.

With hindsight, I can see that there were many things that would have helped me out of my bingeing patterns far earlier, if only I’d known them! Luckily for you - that’s what I’m sharing today.

In this episode, I’ll share:

Why weight loss journeys and binge eating go hand in handThe curse of relying on willpowerThe easiest, most basic fix for bingeing...


Taking a Weight Neutral Approach to Health & Fitness with Sally McWilliam
#195
08/20/2025

Fitness is far more enjoyable and effective when the sole focus isn’t weight loss, yet for many people that’s the driving motivation behind their exercise habits. Then they get surprised when it doesn’t feel good or ā€˜work’ for them!

Sally McWilliam is a body positive personal trainer and breathwork facilitator, and she’s changing the way we view fitness with a kinder, more inclusive approach.Ā 

In this episode, we chat about:

How a 75 year old Austrian oma shifted her mindset about nutrition and healthWhy ā€˜not thinking about your body’ is the real goalThe bigg...


6 Things Nobody Taught You About Bodies (That They SHOULD Have!)
#194
08/13/2025

If you grew up believing you could completely control your body size with more willpower, that hunger was a problem to fix, or that cellulite was some kind of personal flaw… you’re not alone.Ā 

In this episode, I’m breaking down 6 things I wish we were all taught about bodies from day dot - the stuff that would have saved so many of us years of shame, confusion, and chasing impossible standards. This episode will shift the way you see your body forever!



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The Mental Load Nobody Talks About: Food Guilt, Emotional Eating and Midnight Snacking
#193
08/06/2025

You might be carrying a mental load around food that’s weighing you down more than you realise.

This one’s for the women who think their relationship with food is ā€˜fine’... but secretly feel guilty after eating certain foods, can’t relax around chocolate, or turn into a little snack gremlin after dark.

In this episode, I’ll share:

The two types of people when it comes to food struggles (and which one you are)What food guilt really looks like behind the scenesWhy emotional eating is a coping strategy, not a character flawThe snea...


The Real Reason You Keep Sabotaging Your Health & Wellness Goals
#192
07/30/2025

Do you know what you should be doing to take care of yourself, but somehow you just... don’t do it?

Whether you keep skipping workouts, staying up too late scrolling, or swinging between restriction and bingeing - this episode is for you. Because it’s not about discipline, motivation or willpower. It’s actually deeper than that.

In this episode, I’ll share:

Why working against your body (instead of with it) makes everything harderThe sneaky shame-based reason you’re not sticking to your goalsHow your nervous system keeps you ā€˜safe’ in unhealthy patternsWhat y...


Healing the Food & Body Sh*t Your Mum Didn’t Know She Passed Down
#191
07/23/2025

Ever felt frustrated with your mum’s views on food, weight or how you ā€˜should’ look?Ā 

For my clients, the generational sh*t that gets passed down around food and body image has a huge impact on their lives. The good news? We can break the cycle - without blaming anyone or burning your family tree to the ground.

In this episode, I’ll share:Ā 

Why your mum defaults to criticising your body or what you eatHow unhealed wounds get projected onto you (and what to do about it)The sneaky way ā€˜invisible loyalty’ could be keepi...


The Inner Critic Isn’t Your Enemy (But She’s Not the Boss Either)
#190
07/16/2025

If you’ve ever felt like the negative voice in your head is just ā€˜who you are’, this episode is going to be a game-changer for you.

I’m breaking down the truth about your inner critic - why she exists, why she’s not actually your enemy (even though she can be a bit of a bitch sometimes), and how you can stop letting her run the show. Spoiler alert: You don’t have to get rid of her to take back your power.

In this episode, I’ll share:

Why your inner critic even ex...


Painful Periods Aren’t Normal with Desi K
#189
07/09/2025

ā€˜Painful periods are common, but not normal’ šŸ‘ˆšŸ» Does that statement blow your mind? As someone who struggled with awful painful periods for years before I finally received support, I wish I’d been taught it sooner!

Desi K is a Period Coach and Nutritionist, and she has been free from painful periods for 4 years - now she helps others to do the same.

In this episode, we chat about:

The common period problems that aren’t actually normalWhy you might be experiencing painful periodsLifestyle habits you can implement to improve your periodsHow food can support your h...


My Client Called Me Out and These Are My Reflections
#188
07/02/2025

Buckle up, because today I’m getting vulnerable and I had no idea where this episode was going!

Last week I shared on my Instagram that nobody had signed up for my new program - The Confidence Revolution - and I was sad that it hadn’t worked. My client (and friend!) reached out and asked if I’d be open to hearing her thoughts about my content and why she thought the marketing hadn’t worked… and of course, I said yes!

In this episode, I’ll share:

Why my client thinks I’m not connecti...


I Got Naked in Front of 3000 People: How Getting Out of Your Comfort Zone Will Change Your Life
#187
06/25/2025

Every week this year, I’ve been doing something outside my comfort zone and sharing about it over on Instagram, because that’s one of the best ways to build confidence.

I set myself the challenge at the beginning of 2025, and now we’re halfway through I am realising what a huge impact it’s had on my life! Getting out of your comfort zone sounds scary, but it’s fantastic for becoming a more confident person - so now I’m sharing how you can do it too.

In this episode, I’ll share:

Why getting...


When Mindset Work Isn’t Enough: Enter Shadow Work with Lurinda Vollmer
#186
06/18/2025

I love mindset work, but sometimes it’s not quite enough. Maybe you keep spiralling back to the same patterns over and over, self-sabotaging, or catch yourself playing out your old stories in a new area of your life. If so, shadow work may be the thing you’ve been looking for!

Lurinda Vollmer is a Somatic Shadow Work Coach, and she’s here to help you understand shadow work - and how it’s not scary, dark or woo-woo like you’re thinking it is.

Trigger warning: This episode mentions sexual assault.

In this ep...


Becoming Body Confident When You DON’T Like What You See
#185
06/11/2025

I have a confession: I don’t actually like the way my body looks most of the time.

As someone who preaches body confidence, this might surprise you! But there’s an important reason why this doesn’t actually matter, and why it doesn’t impact my confidence and love for my body. If you’re someone who also doesn’t like the way their body looks - but still wants to be confident AF - today’s episode is for you.

In this episode, I’ll share:

The myth of constant body confidenceWhy it doesn’t actua...


Propaganda I’m Not Falling For: The Confidence Edition
#184
06/04/2025

Have you seen the trend on Instagram where everyone is sharing the ā€˜propaganda I’m not falling for’?

Well, I decided I’d bring you my version of this trend in podcast format! These are the trends, myths and propaganda around confidence that I absolutely refuse to fall for.

I’d love to hear which ones you did or didn’t agree with - DM me on Instagram and let me know!



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F*cked Facts About Anti-Fat Bias in Healthcare with Vinny Welsby
#183
05/28/2025

99.25% of respondents for the Fat in Healthcare report said they’d experienced bias in healthcare as a result of their body size. If that’s not a f*cked fact, I don’t know what is.

For anyone living in a larger body, it’s not a surprise to hear that many fat people have experienced discrimination at the doctors or in another healthcare setting. Whether that’s having your issues dismissed and completely attributed to your size, or being told to ā€˜eat healthier’ at every single appointment (without being asked what you do eat!) -Ā  the impact can be d...


Want to Become Confident AF? You Don’t Need Another Podcast Episode!
#182
05/21/2025

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Ever feel like you’re constantly learning, but never actually seeing progress? Like you know all the mindset tips, but somehow you’re still stuck in the same patterns?

If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone. Sometimes, we trick ourselves into thinking that listening, reading, and collecting information will magically transform us. But here’s the truth: confidence isn’t built by consuming content!

In this episode, I’ll share:

Why constantly learning without doing is keeping you stuckThe trap of relying on minds...


You Were Made for More: Why Confidence Isn’t Optional Anymore (and How to Actually Build It)
#181
05/14/2025

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The world is LOUD with harmful narratives right now. That’s why I believe that women’s confidence isn’t just a luxury anymore - it’s survival.

Today I’m not just talking about confidence as a vibe or a buzzword… I’m talking about the f*cking revolution that is reclaiming your voice, your body, and your worth in a world that keeps trying to take it away.

In this episode, I’ll share:

Why confidence is no longer just a ā€˜nice to have’The...


Why You Keep Ending Up in the Same F*cking Patterns (And How to Break Free)
#180
05/07/2025

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Have you ever noticed yourself getting caught up in the same unhelpful patterns over and over and over again? If you have (and have been super frustrated by it!), you’re not alone.

Self-sabotage keeps us stuck, and it makes it really hard to achieve our goals. If you’re ready to stop sabotaging and swap self-doubt for self-confidence, you’re in the right place.

In this episode, I’ll share:

The reason you keep ending up in the same pa...


Is Everything I Learned About Nutrition Bullsh*t? with Dr Emma Beckett
#179
04/30/2025

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Did you know that there was a paper published that references a person on the carnivore diet who had cholesterol literally oozing out of their skin? I didn’t either, but it’s one of the ✨mindblown✨ moments that I had in this podcast episode!

Dr Emma Beckett is a Doctor of Food Science and Human Nutrition, an author and has a list of qualifications too long to list here, which makes her the perfect person to break down some of the misconc...


You’re Not Broken (Even if Your Inner Mean Girl Says You Are)
#178
04/23/2025

I used to believe that I was broken. I thought I was the defective one with wires missing in my brain which meant I was different to everyone else. There was ALWAYS a voice in my head saying horrible things, and I couldn’t switch it off… ever.

Can you relate? If your inner mean girl is always telling you that there’s something wrong with you, or that you must be ā€˜broken’, it’s not your fault. This episode will share why it happens and how to move past it!

In this episode, I’ll share:

H...


Relationships, Intimacy & Sex in a Fat Body with Sam from Queer Pleasure Collective
#177
04/16/2025

Have you got any hangups around relationships, dating, intimacy or sex because of your body? This is the episode for you!

People of all bodies and identities deserve to experience intimacy and pleasure, yet many of us don’t feel safe in those scenarios. Sam is a Sexologist and social worker who empowers queer and fat folks to thrive, so I knew that they were the perfect person to come on and chat about this topic.Ā 

In this episode, we chat about:Ā 

The unique struggles that fat and queer folks face in dating and rela...


Good Girl Conditioning Is Killing Your Confidence
#176
04/09/2025

Let’s talk about something that’s holding you back from confidence, that you may not even realise is sabotaging you: the ā€˜good girl’ conditioning.

If you were raised as a girl, you were probably praised for being polite, quiet, helpful, well-behaved and - cue eye roll - ā€˜pretty’. Well, I hate to break it to you, but that conditioning is killing your confidence as an adult!

In this episode, I’ll share:

What good girl conditioning is and how to spot itWhere this conditioning comes from3 ways that the good girl conditioning is sabotaging you...


Shame, Self-Worth & The Lies We’ve Been Sold About Confidence with Kyira Wackett
#175
04/02/2025

We’ve been sold so many lies about what it takes to be confident, but true confidence has NOTHING to do with your body, your productivity or anyone else’s approval.

That’s exactly what I’m diving into with today’s guest, Kyira Wackett - a licensed therapist who specialises in shame resilience and radical acceptance. If you’ve ever thought, ā€œWhy do I still feel like this even after doing all the mindset work?ā€ — this episode is for you. Let’s unpack the lies you’ve been sold about confidence and what it really takes to heal from shame and...


5 Ways Becoming Confident AF Changes Your Life (That NOBODY is Talking About!)
#174
03/26/2025

We all know that confidence makes you feel good. We know that it helps you to stop obsessing over your body and what other people think.

But what most people don’t realise? Confidence makes your entire LIFE easier, better, and way more fun.

So if you’ve ever wondered whether confidence is worth working on - or if you just need that final push to start taking it seriously - this episode is for you!

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Even the ā€˜Experts’ Still Have Body Image Struggles - Here’s How I Beat Mine
#173
03/19/2025

Guess who has bad body image moments? EVERYONE! Yes, even the people who advocate for body acceptance or teach you how to be body confident.

I’ve been in a little bit of a body image slump lately, so I wanted to share with you the things that I’m doing to move myself back to my baseline of self-love and confidence.

In this episode, I’ll share:

Why I’ve been feeling a lil sh*tty about my body latelyHow bad body image moments look once you’ve done the confidence workThe 5 things I’m doing...


Food Freedom 101: Make Eating Effortless with Leah Hortin - The Anti Diet Health Coach
#172
03/12/2025

When I first heard about intuitive eating, I think I snorted. ā€œAs if THAT could ever work!ā€

Yet now, I’m waving pom poms and cheering about intuitive eating to anyone who’ll listen! It changed my life: no more food noise, no more stress or guilt, no more ā€˜shoulds’ or sh*tty meal plans that left me feeling hangry.

Leah Hortin is The Anti Diet Health Coach, and she’s on the same intuitive-eating loving train as me.

In this episode, we chat about:Ā 

How to get rid of the food noise - without...


Get Out of Your Head & Into Your Body: The Missing Link to Becoming Confident AF
#171
03/05/2025

I used to be the queen of trying to overthink my way to confidence. I'd logically KNOW that I didn’t need to shrink my body or prove myself to anyone, yet deep down, my body and nervous system didn’t quite believe it.Ā 

Can you relate? If you’ve tried all the affirmations, journalling, mindset work, and personal development tricks in the book, but STILL feel like your confidence isn’t sticking… today's episode is exactly what you need.Ā 

In this episode, I’ll share:

The disconnection between your head and your body (and how it’s h...


The Sneaky Reason You STILL Hate Your Body (Even After You’ve Done All the ā€˜Work’)
#170
02/26/2025

So you’ve read the body positive books. You’ve unfollowed the influencers who make you feel like shit. You’ve tried affirmations, therapy, journalling… And yet, you STILL struggle with your body. WTF?!

In this episode, I’m breaking down the biggest reason why you can’t shake your body insecurities - even after doing ALL the things - and how to finally move past them for GOOD.

Ā I’ll share:

The sneaky way society keeps you stuck in body shame (even if you’re anti diet culture)Why surface level self love won’t fix the dee...


Triggered? GOOD. Here’s Why That Actually Fkn Rocks!
#169
02/19/2025

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Recently, I was told that my social media content had triggered someone. My response? GOOD!Ā 

No, not because I’m an insensitive a-hole who likes to see people upset. But because I believe that triggers are our gifts, because they’re a mirror for the next step of work that you need to do to heal. After listening to this episode, you’ll actually WANT to be triggered because you’ll know how to use it to your advantage!

...


Choose Freedom over Fear (Or Die Wondering ā€œWhat If?ā€)
#168
02/12/2025

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Today is my birthday! Birthdays always get me into reflection mode, so this year I decided to hit record and share those reflections with you.

After listening to an episode of The Imperfects Podcast with Bronnie Ware about the top 5 regrets of the dying, I realised that NONE of those regrets felt relevant to me. I’ve traded fear for freedom in so many areas, and now my choices in life are all driven by that instead. Now, I want to...


Nobody Tells You This About Becoming a Confident Person
#167
02/05/2025

I used to believe that a confident person was the loudest person in the room, who had no self-doubt and was nailing it in all areas of their life.

Now that I’m a confident person, I can categorically say that this is not true (unfortunately)!

There are a few things that I’ve learnt about being a confident person which I wish I’d known before becoming one myself.

In this episode, I’ll talk you through what they are so that you can go into your own confidence journey with eyes wide ope...


How to Stop Giving So Many F*cks About What Other People Think
#166
01/29/2025

People comment to me all of the time that I just don’t seem to care what other people think, and that they wish they could be like that too.

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In this episode, I’ll share:

How to choose what to give your f*cks toWhy giving less f*cks is the key to confidence and self-worthMy top 3 tools to stop caring so much what others think of you

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Feeling at Home in Your Body After Infertility or Pregnancy Loss with Sarah Cox
#165
01/22/2025

Building body acceptance and confidence can be hard enough, but what about when you have a body that keeps denying you something that you desperately want? That can take the difficulty to a whole new level.

For people who are struggling with infertility or have experienced pregnancy loss, body image struggles can feel particularly heightened. Sarah Cox has experienced both, and in this episode she shares her experiences.

TRIGGER WARNING: This episode discusses infertility and pregnancy loss.

In this episode, we’ll speak about:

Sarah’s experience with infertility and losi...


Entering the Confidence Era: A New Chapter for Inspire Wellness
#164
01/15/2025

New podcast intro, new bio, new title, new programs coming… what’s going on at Inspire Wellness?!

After doing a tonne of reflecting about 2024, I’m ushering in a new era in my business: The Confidence Era. Some things are changing, some things are staying the same, but one thing is for sure - I’m still on a mission to create a world where body acceptance, confidence and self-love are no longer an INDUSTRY, but a societal norm.

In this episode, I’ll share:

Why I’ve changed my title to ā€˜Confidence Coach’The transformati...


Ditching Disordered Eating with Dr. Maria-Christina Stewart
#163
01/08/2025

We all know how harmful eating disorders are, but the same attention isn’t given to disordered eating, despite it being far more prevalent. So, how do we know when our eating has become disordered and what can we do about it?

Dr. Maria-Christina Stewart is a Clinical Psychologist and Adjunct Clinical Instructor at Stanford University School of Medicine with a specialty in treating and preventing eating disorders (aka. the perfect person to speak on this subject!).

In this episode, we chat about:

Where society is going wrong with our definition of healthThe red fl...


The ONE Secret Thing You Need to Guarantee All of Your 2025 Goals
#162
01/01/2025

How many times have you set a goal at New Years, only to look back a year later and think ā€˜lol, I failed again’?

I’d bet my entire savings balance that it’s happened to you before!

You’re in luck, because 2025 is the year that you’re going to turn it around. All you need is this podcast episode, because I’m going to be sharing the ONE secret thing that you need to guarantee all of your 2025 goals.

In this episode, I’ll share:

My 5 step New Years goal-setting process (that ac...


Choose Nourishment Over Punishment This Festive Season
#161
12/11/2024

The festive season brings plenty of fun - parties, mince pies, Christmas decorations, beach trips with your friends - but it can also bring a lot of ā€˜shoulds’, with a side serving of guilt and shame if you don’t live up to them.

This year, I’d love you to take a healthier approach to the festive season: choose nourishment over punishment. Today’s episode is taken from a talk I recently did for The Hive, and it’s all about ditching the ā€˜shoulds’, the guilt and the shame for the festive season, so that we can choose self...


Be a Little Bit Delulu (And Other Lessons for Becoming Confident AF)
#160
12/04/2024

Recently, my coach suggested that I shift away from ā€˜body image and food freedom’ coaching and into confidence coaching - without the focus on our relationship with our bodies.

My answer was ā€œrespectfully, f*ck that - I care too much about my mission!ā€. Yet the conversation got me thinking about how body confidence and ā€˜regular’ confidence are actually quite interchangeable, and the work I do helps with both.

Today, I’m giving you six actionable lessons that will help you to become confident AF - whether that’s in your body, at work, in your relationshi...