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Two high school friends of 35 years share their opinions on everything from Sex to politics to places to eat. So, into the crazy world of the human mind. Come kick your shoes off and enjoy your opinions in a bunch. *Weekly episodes every Wednesday *
EP # 193 The Role of Government in Immigration Enforcement

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In this episode, Robb and Tina discuss the recent disturbances in their neighborhood related to immigration enforcement and community reactions. They delve into the historical context of immigration policies, the role of government in enforcing these policies, and the cultural implications of immigration. The conversation also touches on public assistance, economic concerns, and the complexities of national identity and pride. In this conversation, Tina and Robb delve into various contentious topics, including hate groups, immigration laws, cultural tensions, and the impact of protests on community safety. They explore the complexities...
EP # 192 Reflections on aging, growth and friendship.

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In this episode, Robb and Tina discuss the emotional toll of recent losses, the struggles with depression, and the complexities of aging and friendships. They reflect on how relationships evolve over time and the importance of maintaining connections. The conversation also touches on the nature of intelligence and common sense, as well as the joy of shared experiences like going to the drive-in theater. In this conversation, Tina and Robb explore various themes including the value of intelligence and ambition, the challenges of navigating career choices and education, reflections on...
EP # 191 The financial strain of the current economy.

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In this conversation, Robb and Tina discuss the escalating cost of living in California, the challenges of single parenting, and the financial strain that many families face. They explore the housing crisis, the impact of government policies, and the desire to leave California for more affordable living conditions. The discussion also touches on the role of technology in relocation and the burdens of taxation that affect residents' ability to save and thrive. In this conversation, Robb and Tina discuss the rising costs of living in California, the political accountability of...
EP #190 Tipping Culture: Is it too much?

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In this conversation, Robb and Tina discuss the current financial struggles many are facing, particularly in relation to rising costs of living, including groceries and gas prices. They delve into the complexities of tipping in the service industry, exploring the expectations placed on customers and the quality of service received. The discussion also touches on generational differences in service attitudes and the implications of living wages in the context of tipping practices. In this conversation, Robb and Tina discuss various aspects of tipping culture, the challenges of...
EP # 189 The art of communication in love and friendship.

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In this conversation, Robb and Tina explore the complexities of grief, particularly around Mother's Day, and the challenges of communication in relationships. They discuss the importance of being straightforward and honest, the difficulties of miscommunication, and the need for emotional intelligence in navigating personal connections. The dialogue also touches on the significance of vulnerability and understanding in relationships, emphasizing the need for mutual respect and care for each other's feelings. In this conversation, Robb and Tina explore the complexities of relationships, focusing on the differences in emotional and logical thinking...
EP # 188 Navigating the Depths of Depression and how to help.

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In this episode, Robb and Tina discuss the pervasive issue of depression, exploring its various triggers such as financial struggles, health challenges, and relationship dynamics. They share personal experiences and coping strategies, emphasizing the importance of communication, self-care, and finding humor in difficult times. The conversation highlights the need for connection and understanding in navigating mental health challenges. In this conversation, Robb and Tina explore various coping strategies for depression, emphasizing the importance of self-care, healthy eating, and creating a positive environment. They discuss the significance of accepting change in...
EP # 187 The power of love languages,revisited.

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In this conversation, Robb and Tina explore the concept of love languages, discussing their personal experiences and insights on how different expressions of love impact relationships. They delve into the significance of acts of service, quality time, physical touch, and words of affirmation, emphasizing the importance of communication and emotional connection in friendships and romantic relationships. The discussion highlights the need for individuals to express appreciation and affection, fostering deeper connections with loved ones. In this conversation, Robb and Tina explore the significance of love languages in relationships, emphasizing the...
EP # 186 Life Lessons Through the Decades

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In this conversation, Robb and Tina reflect on their life experiences, discussing the significant lessons learned through each decade. They explore themes of family dynamics, relationships, parenthood, loss, and personal growth, emphasizing the importance of self-discovery and living boldly as they age. In this conversation, Tina and Robb explore the themes of connection, love, and the importance of relationships as they navigate their 50s. They discuss the significance of expressing affection, the challenges of maintaining friendships, and the necessity of prioritizing health and wellness. The dialogue emphasizes living in the...
EP # 185 The alarming state of literacy in America

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In this conversation, Robb and Tina discuss the alarming state of literacy in the United States, highlighting statistics that reveal a significant portion of the adult population struggles with basic reading skills. They explore the implications of low literacy rates on society, including economic costs and the correlation with crime and welfare dependency. The discussion also delves into the role of parental involvement in education, the disparities between states, and the impact of socioeconomic factors on literacy. Furthermore, they compare the U.S. literacy rates with those of other countries...
EP # 184 The challenges of bad jobs, and how we handle them.

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In this episode, Robb and Tina discuss their experiences with bad jobs, difficult bosses, and the emotional toll of customer service roles. They share personal anecdotes about navigating challenging conversations with clients and the impact of coworkers on job satisfaction. The conversation also touches on the importance of deep connections in service jobs and the growth that comes from overcoming tough work experiences. In this conversation, Tina and Robb explore various aspects of career transitions, job satisfaction, and the importance of skills and education in the workplace. They discuss personal...
EP # 183 Exploring the Benefits of Cannabis.

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In this episode, Robb and Tina delve into the multifaceted world of cannabis, discussing its benefits, personal experiences, and the evolving landscape of legalization. They explore the medical advantages of cannabis, including its effects on mental health, chronic pain, and epilepsy, while also contemplating the implications of future legislation and the potential for cannabis to be regulated like alcohol. The conversation is enriched by personal anecdotes and insights into the cannabis industry, making it a comprehensive exploration of the topic. In this conversation, Robb and Tina explore the multifaceted world...
EP #182 The weight of emotional scars and trauma.

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In this conversation, Robb and Tina explore the complexities of trauma, emotional abuse, and relationships. They discuss personal experiences with pain, healing, and the challenges of navigating love while carrying scars from the past. The dialogue emphasizes the importance of understanding oneself and others in relationships, the impact of emotional abuse, and the necessity of embracing change and new experiences. In this conversation, Tina and Robb explore the complexities of relationships, particularly focusing on the impact of trauma on self-worth and the healing process. They discuss the balance between personal...
EP # 181 The Reality of Retirement: Are We Prepared? And some other crap included!

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In this episode, Robb and Tina discuss the challenges of navigating life, including dealing with mortality, the realities of retirement planning, taxation issues, and the need for government accountability. They explore the financial struggles many face, the importance of family support, and the potential for communal living as a solution to future economic challenges. In this conversation, Robb and Tina explore various themes surrounding financial decisions, travel aspirations, mental health, generational perspectives on emotional well-being, the realities of aging, and the importance of finding happiness in the present. They discuss...
EP # 180 Confronting Mortality: Embracing the journey with no regrets.

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In this conversation, Robb and Tina explore the themes of aging, mortality, and the importance of living life to the fullest. They reflect on personal experiences with loss and the impact of friends and family passing away. The discussion emphasizes the need to confront mortality, embrace authenticity, and find happiness in imperfection. They share insights on making meaningful life choices, living in the present, and the significance of pursuing what truly matters in life. In this conversation, Robb and Tina explore the importance of living life fully...
EP # 179 How other people's relationships affect us.

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In this conversation, Robb and Tina explore the complexities of relationships, the impact of social media on self-perception, and the journey towards personal happiness. They discuss feelings of envy and insecurity that arise when comparing oneself to others, particularly in the context of dating and relationships. Tina shares her perspective on finding joy in personal interests and the importance of self-love, while Robb reflects on the challenges of being single and the societal pressures that accompany it. In this conversation, Robb and Tina explore the complexities of...
EP # 178 When to move on: A deep dive into relationships.

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In this conversation, Robb and Tina explore the complexities of relationships, focusing on the challenges of letting go and recognizing when it's time to move on. They discuss personal experiences, the emotional toll of staying in unhappy relationships, and the importance of communication and self-awareness in maintaining healthy connections. The dialogue emphasizes that while letting go is difficult, it can lead to greater peace and happiness in the long run. In this conversation, Robb and Tina explore the complexities of love and relationships, discussing the different types of love, the...
EP # 177 Understanding non-sexual intimacy and its importance for a future.

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In this episode, Robb and Tina engage in a lighthearted conversation that transitions into deeper themes of prayer, faith, and the importance of intimacy in relationships. They explore non-sexual forms of intimacy, shared experiences, and the significance of building connections through activities like cooking and camping. The discussion emphasizes the value of communication and understanding in fostering meaningful relationships. In this conversation, Robb and Tina explore the various dimensions of intimacy in relationships, emphasizing the importance of shared experiences, non-sexual intimacy, and communication. They discuss practical activities that can enhance...
EP # 176 Building trust through honesty in relationships.

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In this conversation, Robb and Tina explore the complexities of honesty in relationships, discussing the expectations and trust issues that often arise between genders. They emphasize the importance of open communication and the challenges that come with being truthful, while also addressing the emotional needs of both men and women. The dialogue highlights the necessity of creating a safe space for honesty to flourish, ultimately aiming for a deeper understanding of each other's perspectives. In this conversation, Tina and Robb explore the complexities of honesty in relationships, emphasizing the importance...
EP # 175 Economic Challenges and Political Turmoil

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In this conversation, Robb and Tina discuss their personal lives, including home renovations, the challenges of living through a chaotic political climate, and the importance of family connections. They reflect on the differences between merely existing and truly living, the impact of COVID-19 on social gatherings, and the economic struggles many face today. The conversation also touches on community support and the importance of preparedness in uncertain times. In this conversation, Robb and Tina discuss the importance of being prepared for emergencies, the need for community resilience in the face...
EP #174 Navigating after holiday stress.

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In this conversation, Robb and Tina reflect on their experiences during the recent holiday season, discussing the stress and challenges that come with it. They share personal anecdotes about gift-giving, the impact of small gestures, and their New Year celebrations. The conversation highlights the importance of connections and the emotional weight of the holidays, as well as the relief of returning to normalcy after the festivities. In this conversation, Robb and Tina explore themes of change, loss, and resilience. They discuss personal experiences with grief, the importance of embracing life's...
Ep # 173 Trad Wives: Revisiting 50s Ideals

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In this episode, Robb and Tina reflect on life, loss, and the importance of living fully. They discuss the resurgence of traditional wife roles from the 1950s, emphasizing the need for connection, communication, and shared responsibilities in modern relationships. The conversation highlights the significance of dressing to impress, active listening, and mutual support in fostering healthy partnerships. In this conversation, Tina and Robb explore various aspects of modern relationships, emphasizing the importance of support, communication, and traditional values. They discuss the roles of motherhood, cooking, financial responsibility, and respect within...
EP # 172 New year, new you. Real change with a new you.

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In this engaging conversation, Robb and Tina discuss the challenges and realities of the holiday season, the importance of setting realistic goals for the New Year, and the necessity of establishing boundaries in family dynamics. They emphasize the significance of embracing change, living authentically, and finding happiness amidst life's chaos. The dialogue encourages listeners to focus on personal growth and self-discovery, highlighting that true happiness comes from within and is not dependent on external factors. In this conversation, Robb and Tina explore the themes of happiness, relationships, and personal growth...
EP # 171 Navigating the Holiday Season: Challenges and Joys

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In this conversation, Robb and Tina reflect on their Thanksgiving experiences and discuss the complexities of the holiday season. They explore how the holidays can become less enjoyable as people age, the impact of COVID on holiday traditions, and the importance of family gatherings. They share personal anecdotes about navigating family dynamics, the challenges of cooking and hosting, and the significance of creating meaningful experiences during the holidays. The conversation emphasizes the value of togetherness, coping with conflicts, and cherishing time with loved ones. In this conversation, Robb and Tina...
EP # 170 Understanding Self-Love and Its Challenges

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In this conversation, Robb and Tina explore the multifaceted concept of self-love, discussing its importance in personal growth and relationships. They share personal experiences and challenges related to self-love, emphasizing the need for boundaries, communication, and kindness towards oneself. The discussion highlights practical steps for cultivating self-love and the impact of external influences on one's self-perception. In this conversation, Tina and Robb explore the themes of self-care, gratitude, and the importance of self-love. They discuss the challenges of navigating life's difficulties, especially during the holidays, and emphasize the need to...
Ep # 169 The woes of living in California

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In this episode, Robb and Tina discuss the various challenges facing California, including the housing crisis, homelessness, drug epidemics, and the impact of rising costs on residents. They share personal experiences and observations about the changing landscape of their communities, the struggles with traffic, and the political accountability needed to address these issues. The conversation highlights the urgent need for solutions to make California a more livable place for its residents. In this conversation, Tina and Robb discuss various pressing issues facing California, including rising crime rates, the impact of...
EP # 168 Karma, reaping what you sow. Is it real?

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In this conversation, Robb and Tina delve into the concept of karma, sharing personal anecdotes and reflections on how actions, both good and bad, can come back to affect individuals. They discuss the balance of karma in life, the importance of good deeds, and how personal experiences shape their understanding of karma. The dialogue emphasizes the interconnectedness of actions and consequences, highlighting the significance of treating others well and the potential for personal growth through these experiences. In this conversation, Tina and Robb explore the intricate relationship between personal experiences...
EP # 167 Navigating Today's Social Climate

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In this conversation, Robb and Tina explore the complexities of navigating today's social climate, emphasizing the importance of setting boundaries, finding common ground, and using humor as a coping mechanism. They discuss the impact of social media on relationships and happiness, the generational differences in perspectives, and the necessity of embracing diverse opinions. The dialogue highlights the significance of personal choice in achieving happiness and the role of humor in dealing with life's challenges.
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In this episode, Robb and Tina discuss the reasons people often find excuses not to date, exploring themes of fear, trust issues, and the paradox of choice in modern relationships. They emphasize the importance of communication, values, and building relationships with intention, encouraging listeners to seek reasons to be in relationships rather than reasons to avoid them. The conversation highlights the significance of personal growth and understanding in fostering meaningful connections.
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Ep# 165 Diddy: The Fall of a Music Mogul

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In this conversation, Robb and Tina delve into the recent legal troubles surrounding Diddy, discussing the implications of his arrest and the potential fallout for other celebrities. They explore the broader issues of abuse and trafficking, drawing parallels to past scandals like Epstein's. The hosts also reflect on the media's role in shaping public perception and the possibility of a larger conspiracy being uncovered as more information comes to light.
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EP # 164 The Truth About Cheating, The Role of Trust in Relationships

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In this episode, Robb and Tina delve into the complexities of cheating in relationships, exploring the reasons behind infidelity, the importance of communication, and the need for accountability. They discuss how loneliness and unmet emotional needs can lead to cheating and emphasize the significance of trust and reassurance in maintaining healthy relationships. The conversation also touches on the impact of societal labels on personal behavior and the necessity of playfulness in relationships to keep the connection alive. Ultimately, they advocate for open communication and understanding as key components to prevent...
EP # 163 Exploring the Dynamics of Dating Older or Younger

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The conversation revolves around the topic of dating older or younger partners. The hosts discuss their personal experiences and opinions on why men and women tend to date older or younger. They explore the benefits and challenges of dating someone with a significant age difference, including differences in pop culture references, perspectives on life, and maturity levels. The hosts also touch on the importance of communication and shared experiences in relationships. Overall, the conversation provides insights into the dynamics of age-gap relationships.
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EP # 162 Exploring Generational Differences in Family Dynamics.

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The conversation explores generational differences in various aspects of life, including family dynamics, parenting styles, work ethic, and technology usage. The hosts discuss how the tight family bonds of previous generations have changed, with fewer people knowing or having contact with their grandparents. They also talk about the shift in parenting styles and the higher expectations placed on children. The conversation touches on the importance of driving and the freedom it provides, as well as the impact of technology on social interactions and manners. Overall, the conversation highlights the significant...
EP # 161 8 dates to build a strong connection for long term relationships.

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The hosts discuss eight different types of dates that couples should go on before committing to a relationship. These dates include adventure dates, cultural dates, culinary dates, intellectual dates, voluntary dates, family dates, romantic dates, and future dates. Each type of date allows couples to learn more about each other and test compatibility in different areas. The hosts share their personal experiences and preferences for each type of date. The conversation explores different types of dates that can provide insights into a potential partner's character and compatibility. The themes include...
EP # 160 Being judged and trying to change your mindset.

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Robb and guest " the girl down the street " talk about being judged. And how we all handle it.
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EP #159 The Power of Influence: How People Shape Our Lives

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The hosts discuss influential people in their lives and how they have shaped them. They talk about teachers who helped them academically and emotionally, as well as family members and friends who provided guidance and support. They also mention the impact of mentors in their careers, such as a wrestling trainer. The conversation highlights the importance of these influential figures in personal growth and development. In this conversation, Tina and Robb discuss the power of influence and how it shapes our lives. They share personal stories of people who have...
EP # 158 The Challenges and Value of Brutally Honest Friends

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The hosts discuss the importance of having a brutally honest friend who can provide honest feedback and advice. They acknowledge that many friends tend to be 'yes' people who avoid hurting each other's feelings. They also discuss the challenges of being brutally honest without being too harsh or judgmental. The hosts share their own experiences with brutally honest friends and the impact they have had on their lives. They emphasize the need for balance between brutally honest friends and passive friends who provide support and comfort. The conversation touches on...
EP #157 When Cutting Off Family Becomes Necessary

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The conversation revolves around the topic of cutting off family members and the challenges and complexities that come with it. The hosts share personal experiences and discuss the impact of hurtful words and actions within families. They emphasize the importance of setting boundaries and prioritizing mental health. They also touch on the dynamics of family gatherings and the need to navigate relationships with estranged family members. The conversation explores the topic of cutting off family members and the implications it has on relationships. The hosts discuss their own experiences and...
EP# 156 The Need for Political Reform after assassination attempt.

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The hosts discuss the recent assassination attempt on the former president and the state of politics in the country. They express their exhaustion with the current warm weather and discuss their hopes for a cooler summer. They touch on the age of the presidential candidates and the need for term limits. They also express their skepticism towards the media and the biased reporting. The conversation then shifts to the attempted assassination and the potential conspiracy theories surrounding it. They discuss the role of social media and the importance of voting...
EP #155 Exploring Different Places to Meet Potential Partners

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The hosts discuss various places to meet people in the modern dating world, including bars, clubs, online dating, through friends, at sporting events, and at concerts. They also mention unique places like Home Depot, golf courses, and tattoo parlors. The hosts share their personal experiences and offer advice on how to approach someone and initiate a conversation. They highlight the importance of being picky and cautious when meeting people in different settings. The conversation explores different places to meet potential partners, with a focus on social environments like bars, clubs...
EP # 154 Riding the Waves of Depression

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The conversation begins with light-hearted banter about going through puberty again. They discuss the idea of reliving their younger years with the knowledge they have now. The conversation then transitions to Tina's home renovation and the challenges she is facing. They reminisce about their childhood and the diverse group of people they knew. The topic shifts to handling depression, with Robb sharing his personal experience and Tina discussing her strategies for dealing with it. They talk about the importance of talking about their feelings, staying busy, and finding ways to...